When the Narcissist experiences Dumper's Remorse

[@cameronbell5556]

Happy New Year to all narc survivors out there! 2024 will be a great year for us all, especially those who have escaped the horrible grip of a narc.

[@ninath13]

Happy New Year and God bless 💞

[@steadypace1262]

Happy New Year too keep healthy and happy Survivor's.🕊🌞

[@humanistology]

Right back at ya!

[@mostHigh23]

Awwww yes😅. Damn sure gone always be a good year without the Mean ole Narc.😅

[@mostHigh23]

Thank you and Happy NYE to you too 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

[@Phil..._]

"it goes downhill for the narcissist and it just gets better for you" Exactly ✅😎

[@adriennedouke1880]

They stay the same. Same thought pattern. Once discarded at the bottom, the only way for us is up. They remain in the pit. Dumping someone just makes them feel superior for a moment. I thin it's part of the emotional regulation they need.

[@KP-tn9cq]

I hope you’re right. I was discarded three days before Xmas and it broke me. He’s texted me one out of nowhere but I didn’t respond. Even though I wanted to.

[@ldi007]

They regret hurting themselves. The more they took for granted the deeper the self regret.

[@seameology]

Hopefully. Because he took me fora RIDE.

[@ets5697]

Joe - keep it going man. In this youtube space of narc videos - you really do occupy a special place. You have such a calm demeanor about your presentation - which is a huge unique thing that sets you apart from other videos. As you know - lots of narc survivors - literally just need - straight up - to listen to a calming voice. You have the perfect voice brother. No other "narc channel" does this. Most of them are very - I don't know how to say it - "noisy". Your channel is a sonic refuge. It literally sets you apart man. Then - of course - your insights - are always spot on. Your entire mind on the subject is a calming smart oasis. Super spot on. Your whole delivery, everything man. Don't stop man. You've put in so much work. Dude - don't stop. Even that joke you did on a past video when you started your video and said "thanks for watching" 10 seconds in and then joked about it. Man - I loved it man. Totally cracked me up. Keep going brother. Keep being yourself. Thank you for helping so many. Thank you for everything you do brother Joe. Literally doing God's work. Best wishes for 2024.

[@Sarah_sunshine14]

Perfectly said. Couldn’t agree more. Best narc videos by far. Bless you Joe & your calming demeanour. You have no idea what a tower of strength you are. 🙏🏻❤️

[@joebhouse]

Thank you for the super encouraging and kind comment. Wishing you the best for 2024!! 🥂

[@rehvex]

Ditto!

[@valenciahenderson3489]

100 percent agree I could not have said it better

[@mostHigh23]

Doesn't he though 😅. Happy New Year😊

[@tinalight7106]

Excellent video. When I realized it was more about him getting the best of me and “winning” the fight is when I realized there was no love, never was, never will be. Screw narcs! Empty vessels. We all need to wake up so this doesn’t ever happen again once you get out!

[@BifidokKefir]

It seems there are quite a lot narcissists nowadays.

[@myutube5882]

They sometimes discard because they need the ego boost and power reset of you chasing them. However, if you don't and they're too proud to come back, apologize, and admit they made a mistake, then it's checkmate. Go live your life narcissist free!

[@myutube5882]

@@doggrl527 I just meant that if someone was discarding you to get you to chase them for an ego boost and you don't chase and they're too proud to come back and apologize, then you have just beaten them at their own game.

[@sirg-had8821]

Dumpers remorse... The most painful three seconds of the narcissist relationship.

[@sharonwinchester1901]

😂

[@mostHigh23]

I literally will never go back😅

[@ratgirl13]

I experienced the “New Year, No Me” dump last year-and I packed up and left-no harm, no foul. I was grade A supply-no bragging, I treated him well is all and met his attention needs. Nine months later after his dating other women, even asked a side-chick he “loved” to marry him and she rejected him. He tried hoovering me back because in his words: if you can’t be with the one you “love” then “love” the one you’re with- -I had thought we could stay cordial, but no-and went No Contact-and I’m living a better life. Happy New Year to you and everyone who’s survived an experience with a narc and is learning how to put themselves first and healing.❤

[@ThimbleFox350]

Narcs can’t stay cordial or be just friends they have to constantly meddle. It’s pathetic!

[@lizee-tvee3147]

Some narcs will also attempt a heart to heart as a hoover style so you have to be discerning.

[@johnnycorn7225]

The moment she said " I know you do, I'm not the type of person you can get over" she became exactly that. Years later I'm STILL not interested

[@hannibalnarchy2302]

Best wishes to you and your family, Joe. God bless your 2024

[@Gwendeline]

I feel bad if the narcissist doesn’t meet another soul but he should never be allowed out of his mommy’s house everrrrrr

[@BDCsSanctuary]

Happy new year everyone. I'm four and a half years out since my brutal discard from my ex wife. I am also living proof that YOU CAN recover from this and YOU CAN get your life back! It is wonderful on the other side.

[@How.Dare.You.]

Whats even worse they broke up knowing what we had and now they are crawling back, they got nothing back from me anymore.

[@Seanus32]

HNY, folks :) Hope you all stay or get well. We need positivity moving forward.

[@skyWalk02470]

Health, Healing, and Joy to us all! 2024🎉

[@reyrey981]

Happy New Year Joe ❤ May all beings be free from their sufferings!

[@JohnJohn-hd1pc]

Happy New Year Joe, and all others. Your calm reflection is an oasis in the desert of self-doubt. Thank you ❤️

[@qubex]

Happy New Year - 2023 was miserable for me I can’t wait for it to be over and done with.

[@christinedavis9977]

Happy New Year to all of us survivors. May this year be the one that brings us peace and resolution.

[@louisemorgan3237]

Happy whatever dude thanks x

[@AlessandraDurand]

Not a good few months since the brutal discard, end of Nov, after 3 yrs relationship...still struggling emotionally on the 31st May 2024... thank you for your videos, they do help a lot!

[@SonjaParis]

Thank you. I am in that situation right now. It was getting so bad, I had to get the police involved. I needed to hear this!

[@bitcoinbuddha369]

happy new years everybody!! take care of yourselves and know that you are blessed in ways you may never completely understand.....for 50 years i never knew that some people are dead on the inside and are unable to feel emotions like sadness or love. it explains why the world is an unnecessarily inhumane place sometimes..if you have any kind of light within you, protect it, but let it shine. the world needs it.

[@AjaxNorton]

For all the folks that are just starting this journey all I can say is don't give up it is a nice feeling when you finally can think and talk about this things and feel you have healed and you feel stronger...dont give up don't exit this life thinking about suicide etc because after the process you have to experience the feeling of strength back that feeling of wow if I survive that I can take out anything that comes my way.

[@sonlightpsalm942]

The narcissistic child was trained to ignore their emotions via their parent(s) / captor, so their neural pathways weren't developed properly and they're stuck at the level of a 13 - 16 year old adolescent. They're self-absorbed only with how to get by in life as a self-centered, self-absorbed individual. Therefore, they feel they can not change but can only act like a chameleon to get their needs met, without regard to anyone or anything else. Quite frankly, almost all professionals in the mental health industry say they can not deal with them once diagnosed. The onus is on you, not to hate the narcissist, but to learn to heal from your own childhood trauma, and learn to reparent yourselves and transform into a strong, healthy individual with strong boundaries, and unconditional love for yourself, shedding your co-dependancy on seeking validation through the narcissist, or anyone else for that matter. You don't have to hate the narcissist. You have to understand how and why they operate the way they do, and thank your lucky stars that you didn't fall on that side of the spectrum! 😊❤😊

[@travisbuck3643]

Happy New Year to all, especially the ones suffering during the early stages of a discard. Please know it gets better.

[@mbrowne5105]

Happy New Year! Hope it is for you. It is for me, going 3 years no contact. I’ve never been stronger or healthier. I enjoy your content. Thank you.❤️

[@emmamonroe3311]

I had never heard of this.

[@SelfLoveU]

If you're Super Healed and the narc comes back, and you play with form, it can be the catalyst to the highest level healing possible, that is complete recovery of self worth. You can watch the dynamic and see the exact location of wounds where they got access and clearly see the childhood origins for new revelations of your own worth. Fascinating. Everyone who comes into our life can ultimately benefit us. (Not recommended unless you're extremely knowledgeable and totally in control of the emotional process. It also comes with disorientation, but once you're a pro, you can see things that blow your mind.)

[@tamaralynn9040]

Love your videos happy new year even tho it’s march

[@Gwendeline]

My poor brain feels it’s been in a kids snow globe for six years ughhh worst feeling everrrrr i feel like scrambled eggs with my heart mind n soul just constant buyers remorse sick to my stomach non stop it’s hellllll

[@fainitesbarley2245]

There is light at the end of the tunnel. Stick with it.

[@QueenBee-fg1iz]

My ex realized this 6 months after I went no contact when I caught him cheating. Showed up at my house to “check on me” but when I started questioning him about his new girlfriend, he got upset and denied her. His adult daughter had told me she picked them up at a motel the day before! I told him I was doing great and living my best life. He left and told his son’s mother that I had screamed at him the whole time. It’s been 19 months, and I heard he dumped the other girl and is living with his son’s mom now. Crazy!

[@mostHigh23]

You're still too invested. Don't tell him shit about you. And furthermore fuxx him and what he's doing. You supposed to grey Rock his ass. Minimal conversation.

[@mostHigh23]

As a matter of fact don't even let him come to your house no more

[@QueenBee-fg1iz]

@@mostHigh23 I won’t. It’s been almost w years since that happened, and I’ve heard nothing from him. Have him, his adult children, their moms, and all his family blocked. He’s now living in the same town as me, but I don’t run into him or any of them luckily.

[@bah667]

Thanks Joe It's a really good video to end 2023. Love and Healing to you and all the good Souls. Peace. 🎉

[@shawnmarie1912]

Happy narc free 2024 🎉

[@richardslifer1052]

Happy New Year all. Thank you, Mr. House, for your time and dedication by way of these videos. Your desire to help is very genuine, as I’m sure all of your subscribers will agree. I would imagine that you don’t do this with the aim of acquiring an astronomically high subscriber count…..and that you’d much rather have us here for awhile to learn and take it forward into the next chapter. I think that’s a big part of it for you….that’s very noble. Thanks so much for using this forum in service to your fellow human beings. 👊🏻

[@joebhouse]

I appreciate your comments, thank you! 🙏

[@ericlemelson1246]

Happy New Year, Joe, and many thanks for what you do! My partner and I ran into my ex narc yesterday, while out on a hike. She was across the street, walking the new supply’s dog, and I didn’t notice her. She yelled “hi,” and waved her arms. When my partner said “someone’s saying hello to you,” all I said was a firm “no,” and we kept on walking. It’s been a year of firm no contact. She divorced me after two weeks of marriage. She already had her new supply when she proposed to me……

[@USAAbby]

Happy New Year Joe!

[@devonways1657]

This is my first video for 2024 and it’s like being given a treat 🍭 I didn’t know they could suffer dumper’s remorse.

[@Overkill1319]

Happy New Years Joe!

[@zoewynne8433]

happy new years!!

[@Michelle....B]

Happy Blessed New Year Joe

[@pennymilliken7456]

Happy New Year to you!

[@LaurenDente-bh3zn]

Happy New Year!!!

[@kacythomas1327]

And when the one that got dumped has remorse as well for lovin a person so much and trusting them so much I allowed just ole anybody to walk in and act like him and I bout fell for it.

[@ElizabethLawrence-k5n]

May this year of 2024 be a joyful one for all of us survivors 🎉

[@danaschield5090]

Happy New Year!

[@ullakruse7508]

Happy New Year 🍀

[@jjones4314]

Happy New Year to you, Joe & to all of my fellow survivors out there! Let's all keep looking ahead & moving forward to a better life!! We've got this! 🎉🎉🎉

[@mostHigh23]

Definitely got this 😅. Happy New Year 🎉🎉🎉

[@Tend2Rose]

Happy new year Joe and to all survivors. May you have a peaceful new year with those who truly love you ❤

[@ggfatale351]

HAPPY NEW YEARS 💜💜💜

[@VegasX900]

Happy New years!🎉

[@helenbardakas1321]

Thank you Joe bonne annee

[@P___999]

Happy New Year to everyone healing in 2024!

[@Ebony0420]

Happy new year! 🎉

[@curtkennedy8578]

Joe your awesome!!

[@moncefmoumi2922]

Happy New Year 🎉to you all Folks

[@EMGEE718]

My man Joe!! Happy New Year buddy!! Thanks for all the insight and understanding!

[@tboo41]

Thank you and happy New year

[@preciousgaither8172]

Happy New Year and continued healing, everyone!

[@martyn9521]

Happy New Year to you, Joe. Thanks for fostering New Hope in 2024.

[@Ourtimehaspast]

Happy New Year bro

[@hunnyb1308]

Thank you Joe....Happy New Year🎉🎉🎉

[@KleeKaiPuppies]

Happy New Year to all you beautiful souls❤. Much love to yall ❤

[@daphneskipper8627]

Thank you so much ❤ Happy New Year

[@roisinmangan5296]

Thank you Joe for your amazing videos. Wishing you a very healthy and prosperous 2024❤

[@akropkaw6660]

Happy New Year to all of You guys, the bright time is coming up to Us.... All best to You in 2024!

[@DiscoveredTheNarc]

Happy New Year 🎉

[@terrierdelphine4682]

Happy new year . Thank you for your messages

[@shawnrenaud93]

Happy New Year ❤

[@stephanieHargreaves-su7wl]

Happy new year Joe, thank you for everything ❤

[@charitypatrick9325]

Happy New Years❤❤❤

[@annmurray2832]

Wow ,just that calm voice.Yes a moving on,but only for me,they stay back,Jesus leads forward,Enemy pulls backword!Its that easy.

[@kaspa2028]

Happy new year everyone !!! Wishing you all love abudance and propersity for the year of 2024 and onward. Stay blessed 🙏🙏🙏🖤🖤🖤

[@JessicaBillue]

The most beautiful sound I have literally even heard in as long I can recall having ears ... can I please get a link to more. Loved it

[@craigbulkeley8827]

Happy New Year to you Joe, and everyone watching/listening, may 2024 be fantastic for us all🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@rochellet1333]

Happy New Year! Once you are awakened, there is no turning back. Enjoy your best life!

[@anthonyburton2172]

I am shocked and overwhelmed at the population of narcs on the planet .. And now with the experience I have I spot them fairly quick. . Happy New year narc free !

[@PorciaCatonis73-43BC]

Happy New Year to you all! May you be blessed.

[@Veronica-z8x]

Happy New Year🙏🥹💕💪

[@TrustingGod623]

HAPPY NEW YEAR 🎉

[@neavewilson8561]

Thanks for all your posts Joe it’s so helpful I was discarded around my birthday and it messed up Christmas 🎄I’m starting to heal after feeling grief and loss for the person I thought he was. Plus anger at my self for falling for another narcissist a covert type this time so caught unaware. But your posts have helped immensely Happy Newyear to building boundaries and becoming a stronger person of my once self xx 😘

[@Missybella92227]

Ex covert, fiance reached out earlier this month on my B-Day. He basically blamed the break up on me completely “erased” his brutal, discard. Shared the things he’s doing now (cruises, dancing,etc) that he put aside during our relationship. How he’s working on his communication skills and is seeking a serious relationship. As he said “you’re a good, loyal woman, but not the only one.” He then concluded by saying that he only reached out to wish me a Happy Birthday and to see how I was but doesn’t see any change for us and that he’s learned a lot from our relationship and looking forward to his future. Don’t know what his intentions were for I haven’t contacted him since the discard.

[@SonjaParis]

Happy New Year to you, too!

[@TriniStarr3527]

This is a great video as usual 🙂 Your spreading high quality information about narcissism is so useful. Thank you!❤

[@drewsibleyloans]

Happy New Year Joe. You helped me alot. Keep these going. It's time I stop watching videos on narcissism. They help but also keep me thinking about them. It's been years. I'm going back to before I knew the term supply. May 2024 be the year we all feel good and continue to treat others the way we want to be treated. Joe, to quote Judge Shmails in Caddy shack. "You're a good egg Noonan."

[@joebhouse]

Thank you!! And agreed, there comes a time when watching videos on Narcissism may no longer be suitable. When we're healed we can just let it all go!

[@drewsibleyloans]

@doggrl527 it had a purpose but I feel better since I stopped and have healed alot more. Good luck with your healing. You got this!

[@drewsibleyloans]

@doggrl527 I find being kind to yourself and regardless of what your brain tells you if you just make a rule. You'll never let them do that again. It gets alot easier. Give it time and know if you weren't quality you wouldn't have been on their menu.

[@Mivka_]

Im still watching. Happy life. I don’t celebrate new years. But i want longer content 😁😉 kuddos on yet an other great video🎉

[@irishcoffeetruecrime]

New sub, love your content. Could you please make a playlist so I can listen without interruption?

[@MysTerry317]

They treat you like crap and then they want another chance, over and over. I'm done!. NEW YEAR - NEW LIFE!!!

[@msilvaoregon]

HAPPY NEW YEARS JOE 🎉 2024! May all your pain be worth it.

[@brigidmary3110]

Happy new year to everyone

[@bonnielee7134]

Happy New Years, All! To a narc-free year and the instillation of the grey rock method; the best tool, in the tool box! Cheers! 🍻 🥂 ❤️

[@Truth-matters-v2z]

Happy new year!! Thank you for the information. All too accurate

[@creepyk1d]

Happy New years in the message box thank you bye

[@znightglow]

Happy New Year🎉

[@flowergirl-yz3ki]

Happy New Year! Here is to a healthy year for all of us. I appreciate this (and also in some of these latest posts) that contrast what a healthy relationship should look like vs. a toxic relationship. I feel like I have forgotten what qualities a healthy relationship should have.

[@davidmckay4423]

Happy New year. Thanks for the insights

[@suzyben1984]

Well done with the comparison of a narc with normal,i totally agree they never have a heart to heart conversion and they will tell you what you want to hear exactly to get back together until they start the cycle all over again.