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[@bradhayescamoman9348]

Be the one who got away & live your best life @ a distance & silence!

[@RoseKent-uu7rw]

I know some women would like to know that the Narc cared and is hovering cause they miss you…even if it’s just for your egos sake….but trust me when they leave and won’t contact you…it is a blessing. I pray every night that the vicious moron will stop stalking…16 months thus far. When that mask drops for real and they stop begging and crying for forgiveness….the demonic monster arrives. When you get rid of them…stay far away and never break no contact, ever!

[@INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm]

@RoseKent-uu7rw Amen 🙏

[@dorib.3367]

YOU ARE SOOO RIGHT MY LOVE!!

[@Peacealways247]

These clowns miss everyone. 😂

[@georgina1921]

So true. 😂

[@ashleykathryn9038]

Attachment disorder for sure! Love you when you're gone, hate you when you're there. Totally backwards.

[@TheCurlyBeauty]

I lucked up when my ex-narc abandoned and discarded me, and he moved to a different state. He popped up in my email, called my job, and had his parents call me. He's completely unhinged. No contact is the flex.

[@NicoleLoves]

How long did it take for them to contact u after leaving out of state?

[@TheCurlyBeauty]

@NicoleLoves He left the state, asked for separation three weeks later, and started blowing me up THE next day. It's been 7 months now, and he has reached out at least once or 2x a month since February.

[@NicoleLoves]

​@@TheCurlyBeautyOh wow yeah my ex left 2 weeks ago and he told me he is done with the relationship and never coming back , I'm just like okay because I did nothing but try to love him and he was toxic

[@TheCurlyBeauty]

@NicoleLoves As hard as it may be, let him go. Educate yourself on NPD and other personality disorders and so much will be revealed to you. His discard was a blessing in disguise. I had no clue what I was dealing with until I was outside of it. You'll get your power back.

[@Denzelswife-rb7qz]

wow...my ex found me on FB, tried to track me on my cell .. they crazy !!!

[@reneemassey-2827]

He's still talking about me with my fam a year later! I WILL NOT break no contact for any reason...

[@Dean-zn8du]

No hoovers in nearly 4 months. Nice and quiet loving the life. Repair and aim to my goals.

[@marilynwanzer1201]

No Hoovers in almost two years! It’s a blessing! I’m finally healing and on my way to being whole! Thank you so much for your teachings! NO CONTACT FOREVER!

[@Denzelswife-rb7qz]

stay alert...its coming...after 20 yrs I still get fake friend requests, unknown caller id

[@deborahmccants2699]

​@@Denzelswife-rb7qzit's been 38 year's and still hoovering, with illegal log in attempts on my social media accounts.

[@iamterrashiacrume]

I left that narc with the worst injury he’s EVER had! He had the NERVE to do the ugly cry in front of me and all I could do was stand there with a straight face 😐 with absolutely no emotion at all. #CheckMate!

[@Vanessa-le7so]

😂😂😂😂

[@dorib.3367]

Same here I don't react!

[@nopereradicator]

They’re so out of touch with their feelings and their feelings are so repressed any expression of their feelings translates as creepy when they express it.

[@chrismanning1171]

When my narc ex wife got divorced by the NS she left me for, she reached out. She contacted a friend of mine she has not spoken to in almost 20 years just to let him know she is getting a divorce. I didn't care one bit because she was using him to get to me.

[@Patricia_Stewart337]

I THOUGHT my ex-narc boyfriend was still interested in me. My mistake! He couldn’t care less or it was a GREAT act. Ice cold.

[@viewerwatching5712]

Block them go no contact and remain unbothered. I have her blocked and she continued calling from different numbers or had flying monkeys calling so i had to go blackout and change my number. Beat it demon, no narc zone here! The crazy part is that she adamantly pushed for a divorce after 20 years!

[@ZoeBranning]

No Contact Forever!

[@ainahaga]

The narc I was with will never come back ever cause I called him a narc and he told me he was gonna work on him self he told me he was even reading the inner child book. So I did guess I started to awaken him with my strong energy😂👊

[@michaeltaylor9096]

Narc is blocked. So far no HOOVER'S

[@belinokidz9716]

They are busy using vodoo over yo especially if you dealt with a covert narx.He will notjust easily let you go.

[@casesimpson5765]

What’s a covert narcissist

[@marikkasinsky7900]

Hi, i don't know how i survived? Only God saved me, never lose faith. ❤🎉

[@nikkigirl4072]

Amen!🙏🏾❤️🙏🏾

[@casesimpson5765]

I don’t know either I’m in the healing phase. It’s a process. Never had anything like this in my Entire life

[@casesimpson5765]

It’s was so demonic.

[@marikkasinsky7900]

Yes .I can write a book.

[@aprilcobianchi2815]

Yes I shamed him he will never come back be gone nac thank you sister❤️🙏

[@jenty2713]

That hair is popping...absolutely love it BEAUTIFUL!!!!!

[@DonnaS-q9s]

Your right he’s been talking about me for 20 years

[@Denzelswife-rb7qz]

yup

[@Fullgrace061]

Yes it’s terrible the hovering is bad but I alone can’t take that back

[@Spiritualemperor28]

Today it’s 1 and a half year since i went no contact with my ex. It has been a journey of selfhealing, selfcare. In periods it has been rough and somedays it still is, but the things i have experienced Since i went no contact is totally worth the pain. I have lived and enjoyed life so much more the last year, than i had for a LONG TIME! For the first time i experience What freedom, peace and happines is all about! I bless no contact ❤️

[@dannybrown1628]

I'm glad you said something about the kids and it's exactly what you said she's coming hard using the kid's and everything I never knew somebody can be this demonic

[@TwilaB0721]

Relationships is a give and take, not always taking and not giving anything back or even helping a person.

[@Patricia_Stewart337]

We give, they take. We can wait forever for the balance to come.

[@njerikiarie8928]

The narc just reached out via email coz they're 🚫 everywhere else offering to pay me back the money they "borrowed" from me 2 years ago. This is a full 20 months later than they said they would pay me. Then the fool sent me 20 dollars on PayPal. The fool owes me $1000. By the way, in the 2 years the fool had my money, the fool has been on more than 4 international vacations. I've given up hope on ever getting my money back

[@dorib.3367]

No contact! send that money right back and change your pay pal asap.

[@michaelt825]

Your right this fool caused you so much distress. Take the $20 and buy yourself a lottery ticket. As I am confident you will get more than your money back and find yourself someone else worthwhile. ❤❤❤❤

[@angelalowe6549]

Omg these narcs are ridiculous. I went no contact it’s been 30 days today. Now he is telling our daughter that he wants to buy a new battery for my car the key fab and I need new tires. He has a whole hidden girlfriend and all of a sudden you want to do all the unwanted un-asked for repairs on my car

[@kaviabean8535]

I shamed the clown real bad in front of his family and new supply and he still want me🤦🏽‍♀️

[@officialcherry730]

He wanna get his lick back💯💯..

[@annettet7941]

Wow, the timing of this message is crazy. Happened today

[@monicap328able]

@annette7941 me to

[@rosiebrooks7685]

He keeps calling and messaging he love me. He blocked.

[@Lillian-z7c]

The narc ran a smear campaign on his exes. Now i realize the game that they played. TGBTG he's enjoying the block 🎉party. 😂

[@harriettubman6641]

Your videos for me are healing and therapeutic. Thank you❤

[@leetheconnoisseur8982]

Amazing... I love it when you say "supply" 😆... It makes me laugh but i know it's real talk.. Wonderfully taught..

[@WomanofGod-jc4cj]

GOOD EVENING QUEEN AND FAMILY. HAVE A BLESSED WEEKEND ❤❤

[@erikas9945]

This is 100% true on this awesome Friday❤❤

[@leandraherring1824]

THESE BIRDS ARE UNHINGED.. I DON'T HAVE TO SMEAR YOUR NAME NOR ETC I JUST SIMPLY NOTHING YOU. MEAN I WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU.. IN THIS LIFE 💯💯 LOVE YOU QUEEN TELSHA 💞💞

[@tyreewilliams7954]

Amen, Ms.Telsha, never going back 💯🔥

[@lagoldie9783]

Hi Ms. Telsha. Good day to you🌞There was this one narc that would never hoover me directly only miscellaneously emails and I believe she was subscribing me to different things, so I wouldn't know who was doing the hoovering and whoever it was didn't want me to know. Those are the worst! Smh

[@rexil4585]

This is exactly what my ex narc doing to me now.

[@lagoldie9783]

@@rexil4585 I'd rather them just show themselves forth, that's much easier 😂

[@angelinaelder5474]

Thank you / Truth 2 Power Hour

[@ChristmasVavFFLi_And_Snowflake]

All the time the time i was studying the narcissist with the help of LORD OF HOST, SON OF GOD, HOLY SPIRIT AND MY ANGELS. THAT FREE SPIRIT WHITE GIRL HAD NO IDEA ( Succubus, Lilith and the witch one i can't remember her name ) GLORY TO THE LORD OF HOST.

[@beedido439]

Telsha! Thank you so much for last night’s live video. I am w you 💯in all points. Wish I could have live chatted to show support. I agree w you regarding the sexuality, keeping to yourself and living a life close the father. He is coming soon and our treasure needs to be heaven. Love you my sister in Christ. God bless you.

[@PatriciaPigee]

No Contact ‼️ Definitely 💯 Never 👎 in my conversations 😂with anyone never thought 💭 about ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ Honestly been two years now and, I don’t think 💭 about them 🤔😃 The Discard was Weird 😮And I was done Me Myself and I Blocked and Never Gave It A Second Thought 🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽🤲🏽Amen

[@gumbikim5454]

don't trust the narc one bit

[@officialcherry730]

Left the narc 5yrs ago blocked him on everything and the fool moved 3 block away from me and started dating my neighbors (who knew we were together for 18 yrs) and he's still stalikng me..

[@BobbyBillingsley-ei9ie]

I hate this women went thru what she did but now she is a relationship specialist..... Thanks for the information...

[@Pinky2424]

You’re so on point. And you are always looking so beautiful as always!!

[@elainaward1782]

To want the rattle snake to bother you is funny to me I'm glad mines got a new supply he loading up with babies thinking he making me mad for ugly snakes they having but she will get him for everything I don't cause he doesn't have any rights to my kid I didn't let him signed the birth certificate so I don't have to co parent or anything since during pregnancy he said it wasn't his kid I kept the same energy and I refused to test her to get in energy and long as he don't have results we good

[@Aletheia-RhemaNeviYah927]

You are beautiful, dear sister. Thank you for the Tea! I appreciate you! ❤

[@ainahaga]

He didnt even love himself! Im lying on a beach. Definitly wish I could share it with someone. Ive started to not even care about family members anymore. I feel numb to all of them actually. Theyve done me wrong in so many years. Treated me like shit, so Ive pulled my energy back from all of them. But I need to have some contact with my sister cause she has my daughter. My sister is also with a narc.

[@exoticbloomingflowergirl]

Love your hair like this! 😊

[@marikkasinsky7900]

Thanks for you're videos it is helpful , in my life it still is, it been 1.5 years since discard, she still hovers me in my dreams, the only advice i gave my self and it helps, is a old testament, that's the only spirituality a need to come out, she always comes to me in clubs, or in dreams , it is a spiritual war, want to sher this with you.

[@shirleysimon2548]

YOUR RIGHT ❤. HE CALLED. GOT TO TELL ME. SOMETHING N THAT'S. A. LIE.

[@PatriciaPigee]

They Don’t Want You Back Because They Miss You,Nor Love You 😂 They Need That Energy you have . They want to see you down, they want to bring you into the triangle with his new supply 😂 poor new victim 😂 don’t feel sorry for her she just like him including her Thinking 💭 😮

[@TuerlingsTim]

The reason is that you where a copy in their head and when you left the copy is still there.

[@krisluvsutube2684]

I'm trying to understand what is the narcissist thinking when they hoover with other people? I have gotten knocks on the door from the narcissist (my mother) and they are with other relatives. (twice) Are they doing that to see if I will blow my stack? Threaten to call the law? I haven't answered the door and not sure how to deal with this because I'm not the only owner of the property and if I get a restraining order then I'd have to break no contact cause I'd have to appear in court. But why after like over a year? Cause my dad died and she's hoping that I'd feel sorry for her?! My theory is that she can't get negative supply anymore because the landfill is closed permanently over here and there's nobody to throw the bs on and they must be desperate for that negative fix!!! Do you think this is what it is?

[@Terri302]

The number #1 rule of narcissism is control. Challenge fuel ,Sounds like she's trying to triangulate ,and gaslight you ,to me . Yup Don't give in ,if I were you I would leave the state without a sound she's isolating you, That's dangerous, talk to Telsha about this , they some dangerous people. ✌️🩷

[@marikkasinsky7900]

Hi, want to sher : you see I gave the narcissist a spiritual wall by old testament, as long as I'm staying on golden middle and doing god's will no one can harm me , yes some times the horse runs of the road ; so I got back on track, it was from god a trial, I lend my leson and want to sher with everybody, maybe it can help .All the best love you❤🎉 ‏‪11:30‬‏

[@geraldpleasant7733]

The answer is no completely I know her agenda completely and Satan Dominic spirts controlling her and if God didn't design me too be that way period door close permanently because of trust and she knows that I m out peace I love myself enough to say no and that too any woman that God has made period and my decision will stand period....

[@All-Around-Bro]

I absolutely love your content. It is extremely refreshing and a refreshing take on a deep dive into narcissist. My only concern and maybe this will be invalidated is, I feel like your videos may be biased towards the female victim, and the male is the only narcissist in your description. While I agree, narcissism tends to be more male dominated, there’s certainly no shortage of female narcissists, and I feel like your content could be so much better if you take a deep dive into both - universally.

[@janebraun4482]

So if there appears indirect messaging or game playing to trigger me, then likely he is not really over me, but why do this? Why not just reach me directly, I think control and power.

[@LadiiiXzoticxs]

Lol😂 the narc gave me a fake Marc Jacobs handbag . Soooo , I’m FAKE . Alright then BET 😎 Lol😂 I would never wear REAL designer around him or the females he has . They are ALL JEALOUS 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Bunny-tu5nb]

mines was sure he was over me till he found out i was out the program and lost it and swore i was at my other dudes house when i wasnt then as soon as i asked him to come over he was all for it now we rekindled and like the first week or so he was nice but eventually he started acted the same and i told him im not putting up with none of the bs i dealt with in the past ima let go and move im happy i went to the recovery program because now im putting love back in to myself and not so focused on him

[@carolinadixon8945]

Child please I didn't tell my ex nothing I just left I felt like should not tell nothing they know why leave them were they at child

[@mickkesee1758]

The narcissist that I am with put me out then back to her X now she back acting like she has changed talking about she didn't know what she had until she was a way from me now she wants to hold me hostage 24 hours a day

[@lischrisjrzaire4923]

Thanks

[@TheTeaonNPDandRelationships]

You’re welcome. God bless you!

[@scorpiomama]

Replay✋🏾

[@NantashaGoodman-ko3vl]

I am going through this right now with a guy I only dated for two days! What type of narc do I have on my hands?

[@rochellemack642]

Jazmine says it best ""come & pick up yo feelings!!!

[@jaslyn5501]

Don’t leave no pieces!

[@stevenkovler5133]

Yeah, but how do you know if they are not just trying to use you for money? I mean , what if she has a new man , and is using us both. I think her new supply may be fairly well-off and she wants to use my money to make it look like 10:15 she has her own. He maybe paying for her vacation and flights, but the relationshio is only about a month old , so she has to look like she has her own money. The teuth is I wish I never divorced her … I was pushed by my family etc… There have been times when she threatens that if I don’t do her a favor she will never talk to me again. Her exact text was loose my number if you don’t get me these documents at the house. Then when I got to the house , it turned out there were no documents!! She just wanted me to feed the cat!

[@INHOUSEMUSICGROUP-PROMOS-vz7lm]

@stevenkovler5133 Go No Contact or ride the roller coaster direct to hell. She is trying to destroy you, but she needs your permission

[@marcusxsara8896]

L🤎🪷E🙏🏾

[@rosiebrooks7685]

Father's day is coming up and i feel guilty.

[@viewerwatching5712]

How can you get over someone when you destroy the relationship and run to another person without healing. They are damaged demon possessed demons, she has legions of demons!