When The Narcissist Knows You Are Done

[@anoushkamarcin]

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[@ToddPerilloux-qg5hp]

I know how you feeling man but just know this. It does get better with time. You got this, man

[@LeoGang89]

I was immediately happy after walking away. I was actually very happy after the last betrayal, she did me a HUGE favor because everything I suspected about this person was confirmed. I couldn't see them the same way, even if I tried. I think about her, watch these videos and I get a bit angry at times but the feeling is fleeting because she was a burden and huge set back, I may not have a warm body next to me but my life is good. My career is on the rise, I'm traveling, I look good, I feel good my money is UP. Hopefully she decides not to spy on me, for her sake, it would cause an even bigger Injury to her ego, because in the past I'd drink and get sad but things are different now.

[@tanyawatts3896]

One of the reasons I stayed for almost 30 years is because I kept thinking he might change. Now I’m almost 10 weeks out - I escaped!! I think WOW I was waiting for something that would never come. 😢

[@lizapedersen8435]

Me too😢 only 19,5 years, still on going divorce, and he still keeps stalling our 50/50 share, childsupport ect. Now for the third month 😔 it is rough , because he earns 10 times as much as I do

[@barbpace-lamb]

I too stayed over thirty years always hoping!

[@tanyawatts3896]

@@lizapedersen8435 so tough what we have to endure. My love and thoughts are with you. ❤️🌸🦋

[@tanyawatts3896]

@@barbpace-lamb shows how patient and empathic we are. 🦋🌸❤️

[@ninath13]

Will never change believe that NEVER ITS THEIR WAY OF LIFE WAISTED 21 YEARS HOPING FOR CHANGE IM NOT INSANE THEY ARE BYE..

[@panos7256]

when we are done, we do not care any more. Let it be

[@glendaschilder3048]

Amen!

[@MegaRockstar48]

Exactly I told her I’m angry because I still care

[@R73949]

Same here, I don't care, just let them go with their ***** manipulators and supporters

[@lorenzo2074]

I went through a relationship with a narcissist. She did all the stages to me . I fell for it for two years on and off .I’m still healing, today is a bad day for me. I’m trying my best. God help me…

[@lorenzo2074]

What do you mean?

[@harryzoe]

@@lorenzo2074 they are trying to flog something. Block please.

[@mariposa1933]

Lorenzo ignore that post. It’s a “con” reply. Secondly, it hurts now but you’re going to be soo much better off after your heart heals. Being here is showing you you’re not alone. Take joy and comfort in that. 🥰 YOU will be fine! It’s your ex who won’t be. I pity her.

[@rhododendrons_509]

Hang in there!

[@KvonD9836]

@ Lorenzo Desimone IT WILL PASS! Don't give up, better days are yet to come!!❤️💪

[@wendydaniel1110]

I have absolutely no issues cutting Narcissist out of my life. They bring nothing but trauma, drama, pain, destruction, confusion into the connection. No thanks. I am good going and staying solo..❤

[@dlm2133]

They won't ever remain just a friend. Either you're in the game or out. It's a train wreck relationship.

[@fozzydare7987]

good way of putting it!

[@AZDC99]

The most demeaning thing that a man or a woman could do to themselves is to allow themselves to be FRIENDZONED/DEMOTED to LJBF land by a former lover

[@kyleslavik6324]

I'm sorry you had to go through that it is a train wreck I hope things get better for you.

[@gma729]

Bingo. Exactly. That's what I say. Trainwreck 💯

[@gma729]

​@@AZDC99yepp FK THAT !!!

[@dianepinkyharman1346]

My narcissist knows I am done. I must be a strong person.... This person can't control me any more. She tries to punish me with the cyberstalking, but, I am going on with my life. She is looking at what I am writing, but, I don't care. I love these videos. I will be fine. Remember you are important. You deserve a life.... and I understand why I picked narcissist in my life. I know the way. She is stalking me, hacking me to see where I am going. I was unfortunately a good supply. It is difficult for her to leave me alone. I did the right thing to discard her. It would have ben worse to stay. Be strong.

[@aishasidiyaro6276]

I was married to a narcissist for eight years and I thought I was going insane because of his gaslighting. I left with my three daughters ,I am back to my country and I am healing well. I am beginning to enjoy the true meaning of life. I am glad I had the strength to leave.

[@beejjas3321]

Good for you well done keep on living a breathing I know how u feel now I left after 7 years but no kids

[@vishra1982]

Feel free

[@Bianca-sw5id]

They want you to be dependent on them no matter what

[@VixenTM]

This is great, and so true. I blocked her, and she immediately replaced me. As soon as I blocked her, her attempts to keep me hooked as a 2nd backup plan changed into smearing and bullying me publicly. I very sporadically have to see her at parties or festivals where she either endlessly stares at me (even if her new bf is present) or tries to get in my line of sight. Once she even tried to lean against me so I would notice her, and her friends would start laughing. It's childish, and if you dont react theyll have to give up, otherwise they start to look like the bad person in public, which of course is their biggest fear. Havent heard or seen her in months, and I like to keep it that way. No contact is key. Just dont respond, eventually she will look like the weirdo while I remain cool, and eventually she will use my replacement as her new scapegoat.

[@thebigh9635]

This is SUCH an important moment . They will try every trick in their arsenal to get you back under their control , anger , insults , charm , even the cold shoulder ,...and all this as a result of you doing ,...nothing ! Expect sarcasm and a torrent of accusations and insults , but stay calm and STAND STRONG 💪🙏 ❤️

[@ACEDIAMOND666]

Yup.

[@jimscott-w1v]

yeah, exactly the same wouldn’t argue would ignore you roll her eyes and blame everything on you even when you caught her doing things she blame it you wasn’t sharing her attention. I just wish I knew but narcissist was all them years ago not being sex bombed and blind problem is I have a kid with her which I wouldn’t change the world, but she was still nagging me, to have another one a week or so before the break up begging me for another baby then got me arrested straining order and moved onto somebody else killing me five months now with so many lies and promises

[@terridillon3053]

Took my mother 2 years to realize I was never coming back! Hovered me, w compliments etc….. all I said was good bye.

[@1o1carolina53]

In bed with flu Feeling like crap When I'm better I'm finishing my move No one is coming to save you, you must save YOURSELF "

[@FK-cg8el]

Wish you well ❤ And wish you all the best 😊

[@90TheRocker]

Strength and honour!

[@Scottie-pu6yt]

I kept going back but each time the relationship got worse. When I got more evidence of the cheating and lies I finally called it a day . After a couple of her faint hearted hoovers she realised I wasn't coming back. I was replaced with the new supply relatively quick

[@xrppornstar9483]

My ex narc had me move across the country for her, break my lease and then ghosted the day of me moving my life to another state. I had to live in my vehicle at a gas station because I didn’t have a job upon legal lease break. I had an apartment though. She literally had the nerve to ask me why I did not have a back up plan and my response was “my back up plan was to not break my lease and stay in my apt”.

[@lorenzo2074]

Well I’m so sorry, I’ve been done too as well. Lots of damage.

[@ceecee811]

WOW, THEY ARE SOME AWLFUL PEOPLE. NEVER TRUST THEM EVER AGAIN.

[@JLswatchthis]

Damn total assholes

[@mahfugga]

Always have a contingency plan stop being weak.

[@JLswatchthis]

@@mahfugga we trying out here

[@ferdel]

It took me 11 years to realize who i was dealing with and trust me i was so heart broken but finally i found peace and myself.

[@Tommytwostroke]

Oh they know I told him off !!!! Callled him out on the gaslighting and lies. Blocked ! He better not ever try to Hoover me.

[@meowmeow7212]

When I finally decided to walk away he tried to get back to me many times. But when saw I wouldn't budge he started threatening me with r*pe and murder and started lying that "I used him, I betrayed him, I only wanted s** from him, calling me names and that I ruined his life etc..." The fact is quite the opposite. He was the one living off me.

[@90TheRocker]

Huge milestone today, day 30 no contact. Once again needed this one today. Got a challenge ahead of its her birthday tomorrow, major urges to contact. Fighting it off for now, thinking I choose my life now not her life. Thanks for all the help

[@joanolisa1]

DO NOT DO IT. Hang tight

[@simplyzumi3312]

Don’t contact her bro

[@kristynanise8134]

You got this ! I’m on day 10 of a Hoover text a day two of not answering her call ( didn’t leave a vm or follow up text of why she called ) It’s super hard . Holidays were brutal. She texted me the morning after our would be 7 year . This may I found out about her ‘very serious ‘ gf and she had moved to an apt across the streeet of my full time job. :( it’s very difficult for me

[@kristynanise8134]

We were still together when I found out . Sharing a house . She gave her our old car in their first year together which is parked out my job daily . I love it hahahaha jk I’ve taken diff jobs

[@alessandro8736]

19 months of on and off with a professional narcissist, you can immagine what a rollercoaster this has been. Took me 19 months to get to this video and I’m glad I’m here. Hopefully I’m really done now 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@caelreed3067]

Love it. Professional narcissist

[@lauradarsey1]

I stayed for 30 years and he never changed! He is still trying to get me to come back!

[@TH2023_3]

DaMN smh 😨

[@daniellemorse6929]

Thank you so much for this fantastic video. I'm 27 days no contact. I tried so hard to make it work, be friends after the breakup, help him when needed only to be used, lied to and have mean words said to me. Once we fall off that pedestal, nothing that we do or say will ever get them back to how they felt about us for that short period of time.

[@phil692]

Hi, hopefully this will help you. You can't be friends with a narcissist, you have to stay away from them unless you enjoy pain. Don't look at that outer shell, look at that person spirit. If that spirit enjoy making you suffer, stay away...

[@90TheRocker]

Exactly me, I'm want to contact to let them know I will help when needed. Afraid the cycle starts again but even worse. Strength sent to you

[@amandaford89]

Same here. I have to work with her, she needed me to help her find a new car, I agreed, I said you still want to be with me. She said no, so I was like well, get your help from your new BF. She turned it back around on me saying how I change when I don’t get what I want…. Like no, just not going to help you in that way if youre just using me. That’s all they do, keep you around to use you. She bumps into me at work on purpose, pressing her body against mine when she clearly doesn’t have to. I hate it, because I obviously still love her.

[@PsychicKimmyBea]

How did you do it ? No contact for 27 days that so amazing ! I haven’t passed 3 days . Ya long story .

[@allsouls5997]

They steal as much as they can before they finallt leave. And if you let them in your home watch out. Then the fullness of their evil is revealed. Lesson one is don't be fooled by them and do not give them access to your home.

[@waynethurman2144]

Narcissists are like the Bible says," A stream without water and a cloud without rain". Quote may not be exact; check out for self! Appearance is not their reality!

[@cowboxe]

Multiple narcissists in my life are all essentially watching me suffer from a situation they both caused and fight to continue. Crazy thing is: they’re in a LOT of trouble for doing so and still keep it going.

[@NopeNotTodaySatan]

I’m sorry you’re going through all of this. You’re not alone! Keep doing the right things & remember who you are! We can change but they can’t. ❤

[@kenishah.784]

They can drop u at a moments notice but u have to accept them at any point or with a sorry ass blanket my fault or I will be better without absolutely no change ☝🏾💯😕 stay no Contact n make them go insane ...n heal your heart period 💪

[@AZDC99]

3:47--The reason they can this is because "THEY BELIEVE THAT YOU BELONG TO THEM. They think that you're a possession." The arrogance of them. But that's how I felt at the end myself from their behavior

[@SweepDailyWin]

💗🌻💗🌻💗 Happy Narc-Free Monday! Been hoovered 3 times in the past 2 days! My blocks are all in place so I can see the blocked 🚫emails & call! 💪

[@anoushkamarcin]

I love that Narc free Monday ... YES!! Have a wonderful day :)

[@sabinegolding2950]

How do you block emails from a narcissist?

[@heatherbarth9226]

He knows for sure, I just saw him and his new supply, 45 minutes ago. He saw me, she did not. His head was hanging in shame. I just shook my head and went about my business. I'm going to listen though. 😂

[@catme.7]

Today, I finally proved that I'm done with my ex narc. He finally cancelled his request on my social media. I've inflicted pain on him and I intend to keep it that way - forever. 💪🏼

[@sheiladay-od2me]

I think there are some people with narcissism or narcissistic traits who are educated enough regarding their own personality disorder to understand their basic unreasonableness and sense of entitlement in their interactions with you. They know they wanted specific supplies from you and not a genuine relationship. They know you are aware of this and are unwilling to pursue anything with them any longer. I think these people will simply move on.

[@Bianca-sw5id]

They are actually psychopaths

[@Ghettobank69]

Who wants to contact a narcissist? NOT ME

[@pandoramurals7058]

Thank you beautiful lady! ❤from Australia 🇦🇺

[@Lailob]

Most painful and most difficult thing I have ever done is not to give in and talk to him...He unblocked me and I blocked him right after I found out... In my case, I was feeling so anxious and upset by the idea of him unblocking me....I had to unblock him. I fought with myself and my head for a couple of weeks to not look at his stuff on social media and I finally have that under control. I just want to get done with it for good. The past is in the past. I wanted him to PAY for what he did to me but most likely I won't get to know if he does...I am just takin care ofmyself and if I become vindictive that means I will have to invest energy, yearsof my life and I cant waste any more of it.... :( ..... So, yes it is unfair that he got away with what he did to me, but at this point my happiness and my tranquility is more important than revenge........ But I do hope karma gets him :(

[@pepe_da_prawn]

Someone like that will never feel content. They will always have a hole that they can't feel. A life of constant self sabotage. This is how I know I've already won because I was happy on my own before her and I can be happy again. Don't feel guilty for feeling bad, this is what makes you different from the narcissist, embrace that and let the process of healing take place.

[@Manekiinekochan]

@@pepe_da_prawn thank you I really needed to hear this as well! Even though it hurts like hell, I would rather be in this position cause it means we can feel the full spectrum of what it means to be human. They are just a black hole.

[@prasadwaghamode7438]

Oh yess , same with me , I can't get over the fact that I was manipulated , gave my whole to her , accepted her as she was , she had so minute observation skill my each word would be interpreted very well , like " you are talking in past tense " and that sad emoji , block unblock , hated that , and now after learning these people , I feel like I want to see her feel remorse for her treatment but , i know it's a lost cause , but can't help thinking about someday I would get that , But as pepe_da_prawn say I was happy by myself before her and will be later too

[@pepe_da_prawn]

@@Manekiinekochan I know that is probably the default feeling to go to (blaming ourselves) But the truth is, we were picked for our good qualities and don't ever change that. We aren't the ones with the malfunction. They are. And the fact we can get through the other side, also makes us stronger. I decided recently to let go of the money that was taken from me. Because I know I can get it back. No matter how hard they manipulate, lie and steal they will never find happiness or peace. That is their self sabotage. All they will have are material things that won't provide them with the happiness they need.

[@Anna-qn7rt]

I know exactly how u feel! I’m 5 weeks in and it’s so hard

[@donaldgansky5907]

41/2 years and she hasn’t contacted me. I’m actually glad that she hasn’t tried to contact me. She did me a favor when she discarded me. I now know what I didn’t know.

[@h2omonsta619]

Really does Not matter what they think. When you beat their ass, they cry.

[@josievaccaro]

He called me twice after discarding me for someone better. Went straight to voice mail (he's blocked), and I just let it be. There is no access to me whatsoever. I didn't think he would call. Felt great to just shrug it off.

[@brendayoung-hr3ri]

I stayed married to my narc for 30 years. I was waiting for him to change. I left him 15 months ago. Best decision I ever made!

[@ashnoel38]

My narcissist never tried to come back but I also established such strong boundaries (having him arrested for stalking) and leaving our marriage after 6 months. I never went back because he violated me to a level I could not fathom and endangered my life. I was too strong for him. ❤️

[@Rosevalentine6]

Discard the narcissist…read that again …yesss Amazing videos thanku

[@jyotivyas9286]

😊Thank you My Loves😊❤❤👌💐

[@LandofOz-qs5hr]

Because he reached out, after the reverse discard, and I did NOT take his calls (he said he had things we needed to 'discuss' about my leaving and how I left when he was gone)...I've caused a huge narc injury. He is done finally. I can finally move on from this mess. It's not easy...but, I'll do it. There was life BEFORE the narc...and there will be life AFTER this mess. God bless anyone who is with or has left or been discarded by a narc. It's NOT easy. Their abuse has literally changed your DNA. Keep no contact. If you fail, just pick up your chin and restart! You'll get there. Blessings to each and every one of you! 💛💛

[@jessxxy]

🙂... Since dropping off the entirety of my whole family I feel absolutely fantastic! Block all number's, change address and forget all about the crap behind you... You make it your goal to live your best life and remember to thank God and your Angels for supporting you.. Thank you for doing this great work helping others Anoushka.. You have a very beautiful heart ♥ 🙏 🌹 🇬🇧

[@wmhhealth2018]

4 months was enough for me. Her manipulations mostly fell flat which frustrated her no end. It was a mutual discard and amazingly she gave me closure although she was probably lying at least by omission but at least the exit was smooth. We left the door open to be "friends" however I do not plan on contacting her.

[@humbleugoo8306]

This is who they are. Nothing is going to change. It'll always get worst ☑️☑️☑️

[@joseannedube5489]

Sadly, hope is what keeps us going!

[@robertaurens5665]

You make me think I'm becoming a vampire hunter with a wooden stake and mallet. LOL🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@chriscole5990]

That trauma bond can be broken! Game over! Should of never rolled the dice. 🎲 So long!!!

[@Zoeybelle13]

Everything you said is absolutely right!! 💯My ex fiancé has started hoovering me, telling ME how much I love HIM and we are meant to be together. 🤮 I do think he believes I’m in the same place I was when it ended 3 1/2 months ago, which I am not! It has been a journey, for sure, but he is not going to control my life like he did in the past. I have not responded to him for 3 days now, and the emails are getting frequent and he sounds oh so loving. 😣 He hasn’t changed and I’m DONE! I am enjoying my new freedom! ❤

[@richardwalker1405]

Thank you! 😊❤️🌹💚💙

[@mobileradiofitter]

I'd like to share a story. One evening I was with my ex, as usual the day had been all about her, we ended up having some food and seemed to be alright. Then my daughter phoned around 9pm, she was scared because she thought someone was trying to break into her house. She was home alone. I said phone the police I'm on my way. In that moment my ex went really weird. She told me not to go and she should deal with it alone. That's what the police is for and I shouldn't help. I said it's my daughter. I have to. And she gave me a choice, if you go then don't back back. I thought I'm not getting into this now with her so I left to help my daughter. She was safe and sound and the house seemed to be OK, my ex held onto this moment for months. She treated me like I had done something bad to her herself. I saw my daughter yesterday and all this time later she said that evening she phoned me I left the phone on call while my ex was telling me not to go. She thanked me for helping her and also couldn't believe what she heard on the phone when my ex was telling me not to help. I never knew about that moment but to this day I'm haopy about the choice I made. It's really all about them constantly, it's so mentally draining. I just wanted to share this, do you think I made the right choice ?

[@presidenttomato816]

My ex is a narcissist, but it's been 6 years since I left her because I was completely beaten down so much I had enough. I left her and showed up at my parent's place which gave me the BEST nights sleep I ever had at that point!

[@juliekinsella2129]

Thankyou so much Anoushka 💖 I am 80 days NC, I'm working on my myself and my healing process. I do think of them everyday! But I try to make sense of things and am so aware of the trauma and cruel behaviour. They have reached out to me a few times but I have ignored it! I'm still working on moving forwards. Thankyou for all your invaluable support my friend xx

[@90TheRocker]

Wow 80 days, can't wait to get there but need to go through the steps. 30 days has been a battle. Can't imagine being contacted by her right now, I'd fall apart. Stay strong, more strength sent your way!

[@meowmeow7212]

I too think about him all the time. This is the most difficult part. Evthg reminds me of him. The pics, the places we visited. It's very difficult for me. I somehow want to stop ruminating about him. I have many episodes of crying through the day and I cry myself to sleep each night. Even in my dreams i see him every night or whenever i take a short nap. So when i wake up from my sleep its the toughest time. I wake up crying and trembling and then it takes a long time to get back my focus on my upcoming day. Their memories are the most difficult part. We think about them and feel hurt when probably they are totally fine and not thinking about us at all.

[@szalome1]

so well said, stragely even though they do the discard and seemingly they call the shots, it is the partner who is in full control, it is the partner who makes the final decision when it comes to ending, i mean really ending the push-pull game. It took me for a while to realise this, and one day I aksed myself: how long it this madness going to go on, and the answer came rather quickly: as long as I let it. So i put an end to it and I never let that person come back into my life not matter how hard he tried to hoover duing a 6 month period. He basically was testing the power of my no, I think, as I look back now. Because it often happens that a no is not really a no and they know this.

[@GaryMartinez-c5l]

Very good point on this episode..hitting all the high notes… Thank you, sincerely Mr. G. 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻

[@fernandocastro3531]

Nice message. You look great.

[@mariaborg7408]

What you said in this video is so true but now my daughter escape from him and shes trying to move on but with our love and support from her family she's doing well

[@lauragoode254]

Thank you ❤

[@Jonathan-rr1we]

Your amazing your videos are saving my Life

[@jimmyb269]

2 months no contact, then I met another narc last week after the second meeting I noticed the loved bombing , started moving way too fast , so no contact for her either 🤣

[@coreybeats3335]

They hop from vessel to vessel, stay single for a while and continue to work on yourself.,patience gets them every time

[@empressshan134]

Yes, spend time by yourself. 6 months to 1 year at least. Keep relationships at a distance whilst working on yourself and what happend. Then watch those people coming in their behaviour. Heal first 🌟

[@arieschick1]

If you let them back in the cycles will not only repeat but the Love Bombing gets shorter and shorter until it's down from one year to one week (ratio). It will make your body ill.

[@amwil4980]

Mine is going completely insane Accusing me of things that are flat out lies He's lost control And yes I've stopped speaking to him Really theres nothing else to say

[@R9TScramblerF850GSA]

I love you !!!

[@Gthing84]

This Video was on time I finally said enough of the mind games and blocked her it’s been 2 days and it feels good ❤

[@shaunapatton5173]

So true. Happened to me and he was gone for 13 years and tried to come back, and I never went back. .God helped me get out and stay out.

[@karinjanesevanrensburg7511]

2 years divorced,21 months no contact. He is on to wife no 6. He is 63 y old. Im free and living my life the way I want. Im do done🙂 Good luck to no 6🤗

[@venuswilliams4144]

Omg it's so beautiful to be free,to feel my skin is mine,to laugh,sleep,eat ,pray ,wear things I like and not be criticized, or sitting around questioning what I plainly saw with my own eyes,It's a beautiful realization to be totally free from the bondage of a slave keeper lol and we are both African american.Thank u Jesus and these videos and teachers for my deliverance and knowledge of a evil entity that walks amongst us daily to seek who they can,steal,rob,and kill our whole birthright. TO ALL GOD IS ALL POWERFUL EVEN AGAINST DEMONIC ENTITIES,BLESSINGS TO ALL WHO ARE GOING THREW,TRUST GOD NOT THEM,AND DEFINITELY NOT U

[@Selflove247]

I didn’t think my narc would come back. I broke things off before the final discard. He got a new supply immediately and then showed up at my house 1 day after it didn’t work out with their new supply. I had not seen or talked to him in 8 months! He hasn’t left me alone since. Contacts me from a new phone number. I just want to move on with my life.

[@jameslindley924]

Spot On !!!!!!!! and Thank You for your thoughts !- Vindicates my own thoughts !!!

[@jhavajoe3792]

One of your best videos ( IMO). Totally clear and strengthens my resolve.

[@MarkMorrison-oh6dn]

You can't help a demon spirit. Get away and save yourself from a serious heartache.

[@melindagore1223]

I was married to a narc who didn't even understand or have the advantage of love bombing. His hoovers were all about trying to make me feel sorry for him or help him in some way. In 22 yrs. of marriage, he did the right thing by me or made me feel happy twice only. Separating from him was such a relief and I made sure it's about me since.

[@stingylizard]

I ghosted my "love bombing" NPD after she broke the very boundaries we had just discussed before I drove home. 10 minute drive,already 2 texts,1 voicemail. I blocked her,so she got her adult daughter to start texting/calling me to reach out & "help explain what had gone wrong". Then calls from unknown numbers. So glad I googled her behaviours...had no clue about lovebombing or narcissist PD. Thanks for your channel!

[@NopeNotTodaySatan]

Ugh. They are nuts. They’ll blow right through a boundary like you never even talked about it. Good grief!! 🤯

[@stingylizard]

@@NopeNotTodaySatan What you said!

[@ABE64]

I'm just going through this I've actually texted her today to say I've had enough she's just ignoring it all

[@rosesantiago174]

THANK YOU!

[@Carr2409]

Yes!!! Thank you!

[@sheilablanton4894]

YESSS DONE !!!! AMEN 🙏

[@keneshialee7964]

Thanks for another great video 😊

[@anthonyiacobucci3652]

The fact is that both people are equally sick emotionally. There is a narcissist and a co-narcissist. Different manifestations of the same childhood wounds. The "victim" of the narcissist also has huge issues with childhood rejection and needing to feel validated and wanting to "fix" the other person.

[@PabloMcrevert]

Seems legit

[@lawofliberty3517]

Agreed. I never developed lasting bonds because my mom dragged me across the country running from her problems. I know this issue and it is the hardest part of me I am having trouble with. Knowing I have bonding issues and wanting to fix my marriage when I know deep down it's done is exhausting and depressing at times. 13yrs and 3 kids, I married a narc addict and have to co parent. It's tough man.

[@natishamohamed8245]

Agreed!

[@marniebirger4907]

Blaming the victim sounds narcissistic.

[@PabloMcrevert]

@@marniebirger4907 everyone is a narcissist nowadays. Speak to a registered doctor not a KZbinr, 👍

[@rupatiwari5923]

Now he knows my story ...

[@lisavansant961]

Great video and very helpful... Finally I'm done. thank you for all you do...

[@timothygrisack486]

Anoushka- you are amazing!

[@dZeNa.]

I said he’s a narcissist. He discarded me & I broke no contact after 2 months 😢😭 said I miss him. But he said: we can stay friends, it will only hurt us both, when we see each other

[@racheldebeer5303]

When he mansplains to me why I should just give him another change. So so funny

[@midnightblue2893]

Thankyou for sharing Anoushka! 💜

[@lenaleong4894]

Thank you

[@vladimirisraelov5247]

I’m done the narcissist is restless she is all over the place.

[@CREATIONISM123]

Lotsa love ... Anoushka, you are such a great help and I am now out of the other side of tingz after a couple of months since... It was only a couple of months in itself, but deeply affected me... Thank you darlin', I'm feeling and doing so much better now and you have helped me through that more than anyone else. 😊😘X💗

[@davidm4566]

When they think you are done they will probably amp it up to try and make you discard them so they can play the victim or they will discard you to prevent from being rejected. It depends in the type of narcissist and what causes their narcissism.

[@brendanakidde1465]

This video is for me thank you

[@qwickvids1140]

9 month together and On her birthday i bought her gifts and took her out for a couple hours and dinner just to make her feel loved and special. Something was off from the get go on that morning. Anyway towards the end of the night we sat down for dinner, ordered, and then she was on the phone to somebody. Next she tells me that she unfollowed me on instagram thinking i would react in anger. I didnt react in anger but i was shocked. And so i tell her that i am seeing that she always puts other people before me. She got angry and said she was done and we are done, then she walks away. I didnt chase her, but i knew we were done when she said that. I believed we were done when she walked away. On her birthday. It just seemed planned to walk away. Anyway i walked to my car and seen her walk to a dark area of the carpark towards a car but i didnt see her get in it. Anyway 2 days later shw messages me saying that she knows we are hurting. I said im not hurting, you’ve made it pretty clear that we are done. She then says that she didnt mean what she said. She didnt mean we were over, she meant the conversation was over. Then i said but you walked away from me, i wanted to spoil you but your actions showed me that you didnt care that i did this for you. She just said its not what she meant. Then i said im not trying to be confused here , then we made time to see each other and see if we can work it out. When we caught up again and she sat in my car i said to her “daaaam girl whats yo name?..” she replied with “Delilah…” . Straight away i remembered Samson and Delilah. I said “Delilah? She tryna kill me you can get the ffff out..” and she laughed and said “you’re good..” . And i never forgot it. 3 days later on new years eve 2022 i ended it. Went to her parents house and told her parents who knew nothing about what was going on. I told them so that they heard it straighy from me, because i dont know what lies shes told her parents. And when i walked away she started gaslighting me. Saying “whats your issues? You have issues. Look at you you’re mad, you’re angry, you been trying to control me…” i just walked away and never looked back. Its just hard to understand somebody would keep up a lie than to be honest with me. No contact since new years eve. It has been hard at times but videos like these are helping me get thru it. Glad to know that im not alone. Thank you Ps. We all have some peices of narcissism in us, but its those like us who realise we are flawed and repent from those behaviours that sets us apart.

[@meowmeow7212]

I know it hurts a lot and It's very tough to be alone. Stay strong. Same is my case. Hurting a lot but watching these videos help me. U r not alone. I pray to God for ur healing. May you find love and happiness in life. Someone who really cares for all that you do for her. 🤗

[@jesussaves3248]

done with my family, never looking back like God commanded Lot and his wife as they left Sodom&Gomorrah

[@mariposa1933]

Preach. 🙌🙌🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@rupatiwari5923]

After 45years of what they did I wrote my life story of trauma to my brother....now 2weeks no response...silent

[@williamchevalier2224]

i just moved out of my narcissistic mothers rent house 4 months ago and moved out of state. Then went no contact and blocked her after writing her a letter. No telling what she's telling everyone.

[@JiselleMonae]

I’m currently dealing with one..I’ve blocked his number and on all social media accounts and he creates fake pages to contact me. It’s very annoying. I really hate to be watched online. He has done me so wrong in the past, I didn’t react in a negative manner and I guess that made him draw to me more 🙁 He’s used to women going crazy over him, that’s just not me.

[@Vixinaful]

YES! "They dont understand..they cant place themselves in another persons shoes.." I asked a sociopath "You know, when you are mean to people they get sad, you understand?" "No. What do you mean?" I believe it to be bc of brain damages.

[@nessauk2786]

It is x

[@TSNZA]

Your videos have been helpful to me a lot damn. I just scaru I've been nc for 2 years saw them recently and they talk to me as if I'm somehow obligated to them and not our daughter.

[@lovelyheart7437]

Thank u I really needed this

[@TheSunnySide]

love the pep talks tnx - S