When The Narcissist realizes you're Never Returning - Drunk on New Wine

When The Narcissist realizes you're Never Returning - Drunk on New Wine
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[@TheDevineFempress]

When you no longer give a flying fig about the narcissist you are freeee

[@elinaselene]

Never returning 🎉. And I'm home alone ❤ just got back from an amazing coastal walk 🌊🙏 He lost me good luck to the new "supplies" 😅

[@kendraheard8240]

@@elinaselene Amen, this is the most empowering feeling snatching all of your power back!! God bless you and congratulations 💖

[@Splatterpunk_OldNewYork]

Once you realize there is nothing inside, your fascination ends. Stop romanticizing the unknown, friends.

[@beelarehman5992]

You are right. I stayed single and God sent me someone beautiful inside and out.

[@AshleyKellim]

This Ms. A discarded the narcissist six years ago and never looked back I'm currently putting all that love I put into him right back into my cup. I had to choose Me bcuz nobody else did. I love Me turns out I'm pretty awesome. The peace I have now is priceless

[@loripocock9561]

You are saving lives brother. One year no contact thanks to you….🙏

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Happy to help

[@enolapentecost4685]

Me to one year and half. Thank you Dave Amen

[@michaelmorgan7893]

I will always be alone, until I pass from this world. Twice, nearly losing everything - including my very life - for trusting in "love" is enough. I'm not in the habit of repeating the same mistakes more than once or twice, at my age.

[@kisaolya38]

AGREED ❤

[@arsenelupiniii8040]

You are never alone, there a few of us that think zactly what you are thinking, that makes us kind of family.

[@martinsmith8926]

You are never alone. GOD is with you!

[@cymandybro9519]

I know exactly what you are posting however, I was minding my own business at the gym. This man approached me several times. He asked for my # and then never called. I'm too old for this. I saw him today he told me to text him. I dont want to chase anyone.

[@michaelmorgan7893]

@@cymandybro9519 you're right. It's like "Why? What's the point?" Especially at my age. If I didn't have anything to offer anyone as a viable life partner over these past 45 years, now that I'm disabled, and nearly 60 years of age, what would anyone see in me now? - Except to use me and my resources as a stepping stone to someone else. That happened twice, nearly got me killed, so why risk it again? Bottom line is, I finally have peace now. Not worrying who or what I did or said to offend someone, or not having enough money to wine and dine someone, or some other failure on my part. I have hobbies now, and time to work on them.

[@bonnieromick9397]

Narcs want numbers. More supply the better. Demons wanting souls. The more the better

[@saturdayschild8535]

My aunt died from COVID. Her husband had women in their home the weekend of the funeral. And they were in their 70s! He died recently from neglecting his health. His narcissistic sons didn’t even tell me about the funeral arrangements. Don’t ever go back to these people. They never cared about anyone, even those they claimed to love and do anything for.

[@martinsmith8926]

Truth but forgiveness from a distance will serve you well

[@persiamotorman]

I've noticed that often they will totally leave you out of notifications that someone has died or the date of the funeral as if they don't want you to know anything or want to upset you, or maybe just don't care. It's also possible they are really dumb, or all of the above combined.

[@maryannbennett4461]

They are like drugs just say NO.

[@tiffanykilpatrick-winter165]

😂

[@arsenelupiniii8040]

And just like drugs, folks say "just one more time".

[@tatianaa.3694]

Exactly! I'm tempting to go back but then I remind myself how that relationship hurts me so I don't, but it's hard, because like you say it's like a drug

[@shirlspark_stardust]

@@maryannbennett4461 lol 😂

[@teresagarcia2313]

Lol😂

[@douglasdolmus9471]

The spiritual insight this channel provides on this topic is priceless! This truly is a spiritual warfare. The demons possessing the narcissist were directly assigned to destroy us. They knew our weaknesses and exploited them. However, God turned their rejection (I was discarded) in a blessing. The narcissist hoped I would commit suicide, but God rescued me and is using this attack to drive me closer to Him.

[@belizejuliette7223]

I’m happy alone :)

[@martinsmith8926]

Never alone! GOD is with you!

[@Charmainecharmainecharmaine]

Amen 🫶

[@tarawhite4419]

I'm so glad I'm a Ms A who knows how to be alone

[@Kabaselefh]

Ten years since I left that witch she still cannot leave me alone 😂, it’s unbelievable. I frankly told her that our soul contract expired ten years ago, I don’t need her for the remaining years of my life.

[@johnnycorn7225]

Yup I got one from ten years ago that hit me up the other day then raged and acted surprised when I clearly didn't want her. I was like WTF! Why would you think I want you lol

[@martevanderzee7440]

Glad you’re back Dave! 🤗

[@arsenelupiniii8040]

He is lookin good! Like Gandolf, when he evolves into the White Wizard! Much wiser, more magic! I hope he doesn't hate my comment.

[@karikari7336]

Dave has a Moses on the mountain look going on. Love it 🎉❤

[@arsenelupiniii8040]

I think it is more White Wizard! like when Gandolf levels up!

[@christinaholtzclaw2738]

TGIF! I’m not alone this evening. God did send me someone. But, even if I was alone, I 100% wouldn’t go back to the narcissist. I can say that without a doubt. Hugs Dave! 💕

[@jeanninefranklin1334]

We can really love people they can’t

[@cassiebennet4262]

Whoa! Looking more distinguished than ever.

[@melindalemmon2149]

Yes, this is a great look for him.

[@prunelle9051]

The besties thing.... I could not believe it when I heard it. They don't know what a friend is neither best friend. They are just using the word. They are surrounded by fake people who talks behind each others.

[@theworldsmineoyster]

The devil knows, truest statement. They throw away the real thing for a cheap thrill. They don't care about what it does to you. Therefore, they don't love you. As long as they get their thrill

[@tiffanykilpatrick-winter165]

Dave thank you x's infinity! Went to court today!!! The judge finally listened to Chrissa about her Narc dad. The judge he was crying he stopped the hearing praise you for giving words to the insanity of these demons

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Wow Tiffany! You see God's favor raining down in the courtroom!

[@beemonroe4330]

😉 We love you Dave ❤ grabs popcorn 🍿

[@cajuncrackerranch7990]

Fresh Pot! Yessssss of course coffee! Geez. ☕️ Ray Charles banging in the piano…. Hit the road Jack don’t ya come back no more no more…. Good tune to lift the spirit. Thanks Dave! Alone, in peace, on this Friday.

[@TheBossLady85]

Hey Dave! Glad you're back! The narc cheated, lied and was abusive. I left and went no contact a year ago. You nailed it on everything down to the neck tattoo. I didn't truly understand what I was dealing with until I left. I was hoovered by voicemail for 2 months until I changed my phone number. I have improved so many things in my life and refuse to allow anyone to ruin it. Hoovering me is nothing but a waste of time 😊

[@kisaolya38]

Love from Texas Dave. 15 years... Good helping me. Gog bless You. You're saving life's Here. Looking forward for next video they are kipping me a life . 1.5 years Going through divorce. Very difficult time. Good here and helping me. Thank you Again. You Do Lot's God For a Lot's of people. ❤❤❤

[@1991windsor]

You're so right they never really know you at all, and they definitely don't remember your birthday unless it's for a quick Hoover. I'm glad you're back, Dave! I've been following you from the beginning. It looks like you've moved on, and I'm so happy for you! I hope the same for all of us someday. God has better plans for all of us!❤

[@tamerastone4732]

I am so happy ur back, even if it's just on Friday's!!! Over 3 yrs post narc, no contact. I'm home alone, this evening. Not by choice. I feel I'm ready to get out there, but no real way to do that!!!!

[@martinsmith8926]

GOD will bring it to you

[@smartsurvival2605]

The narc switches religions with every new supply he meets. Mirror mirror on the 4, give me supply more and more.

[@LawMedPos]

Dave, you literally saved me from more horror. By watching your videos one month after being discarded by the narc, I came to understand what narcissistic abuse was and that I 1. Had to go to therapy for victims of narcissism and 2. That I definitely had to stay no contact. Blocked the flying monkeys too. May The Lord keep enlightening your life and blessing you. Greetings from The Netherlands

[@martinsmith8926]

May GOD bless you with everything you do!

[@LawMedPos]

@@martinsmith8926Amen and Thank you! I wish you the same blessings.

[@Badjujucrew]

I love your channel. I am having a hard time. This sucks so bad!!!

[@mickcrovo5238]

Sorry to hear that. Keep watching and believe

[@maryannbennett4461]

Hi, I am glad you are sending out this information. I wish I had known there were people like this in the world. I tell as many people as I can reach to never think they have changed. I feel if they trully loved you they never would have done what they did in the first place. I left the Narc myself and have never gone back I know I stayed to long but, I just never knew people could do that to another person. I made some discoveries when I left he had lots of sites he would look on to find new supply. I would love to scream his name out so all his future victims could be awere. I am alone now because he caused so much damage financial and other ways. I hope that people will take these messages and learn from all our mistakes. I know when he goes for his life review there will be no excuse for his actions please take care and thank you for all you do.

[@martinsmith8926]

You’re never alone!GOD is with you and has ordained your experience to bless you. Forgive and be blessed!

[@makenziepolston1220]

It is true all they care about is attention and it doesn't matter who gives them attention they don't care I have seen it great message ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Spunky072]

Love the title! “Drunk on new wine! “ I like that you’re coming on on Friday nights. Great to have you back! 😊

[@kendraheard8240]

I remember GIVING MY EX NARC AN ULTIMATUM TO MARRY ME OR IM LEAVING HE WOULD ALWAYS SAY MARRIAGE IS JUST A PIECE OF PAPER TO ME....I TRULY REALIZE NOW THAT..... THAT WAS THE MOST HONEST THING HE EVER FELT AND EXPRESSED TO ME... BACK THEN I DIDN'T TAKE THT STATEMENT LITERALLY BUT NOW I KNOW HOW LITERAL IT REALLY WAS...SOOOOOOO HAPPY I DIDN'T MARRY THE DEVIL

[@martinsmith8926]

Blessings to you

[@beautyandgrit4640]

Yep, the last two narcs used that same exact phrase when meeting them and talking about general relationship topics (not about us). Then later they both claimed to be in love with me and seeing themselves wanting to marry me (as if to compliment me that I was *the one* to change their mentality about the idea of marriage). It’s sick. They both also had years of affairs with married women. They also BOTH blamed evidence of drugs on their married friends or telling cheating stories about their married friends (which were actually stories about THEMSELVES); totally enjoyed painting their otherwise faithful-seeming friends in a negative light. Remember that people! Even if you’re just casually dating and getting to know people. Men who say “marriage is just a piece of paper” not only applies to how they’ll treat you but how they treat other people and other men’s marriages, totally shameless in disrespecting OTHER people’s marriages. Keep your boundaries strong, your intuition tuned in, and stay strong and no contact with the losers you’ve already identified. ❤️‍🩹

[@teresagarcia2313]

I was married to this narcissist for 12 years but heard him say the same about marriage numerous times

[@teresagarcia2313]

You are blessed to have never married that monster but I won’t ever again let a narcissist close to me again

[@nosakhareobakpoler9825]

The ex narc said the same to me. It's scary how they are a carbon copy to each other.

[@victoriabyrne431]

I walk with our lord Jesus everyday. I'm never alone. Besides, my garden needs me!

[@Christopher3Bishop]

a power and control dynamic is all a narcissist desires.

[@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd]

He tried to destroy me to the point that I don't associate or socialize with anyone. I keep to myself. No socializing with anybody period for me. There's too many narcissists in this world for my comfort. I'm waiting on the King of kings and Lord of lords to return. Then, the first (narcissists) will be last, and the last (chosen) will be first. When Jesus returns, everything is going to be done (finished). The narcissists are trying to hide, but they can't hide from God Almighty.

[@Andrea-HeIsKing]

My story exactly ❤

[@soniaboudreau3151]

I spotted one, I was proud and I did not give him a chance ahahah

[@vincecavedog3219]

Bears in the stream, good analogy 🎉you haven't lost your touch bro!

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Appreciate that

[@thereallisa1]

I have missed you, Dave!

[@naomijulve5918]

It''s been a year yesterday. We broke up a year ago. I am still mourning and processing it. I have him blocked but he has other pages. I won't ever go back, but he also never reaches out. He just uses social media as a way to send out cryptic messages. I am trying not to look. You are so right. They never love and what''s interesting is he told me he has never loved anyone ever. He told me exactly who he was and I finally believed him.

[@truthisinfinite8]

Great to see u again. I'm loving the dark background

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Yay, thank you!

[@CarmenPerez-kz6rw]

My husband said the devil was trying to make him kill me and kicked me in the face and said I needed to leave the house for my safety. I was in shock and breaking down crying for the past week to strangers while I recounted all of the abuse for the court. I feel like my heart is being ripped out of my chest. He said he intended to “crush my head.” And that I would be dead and he would be in prison had God not saved me.

[@janbain2035]

Missed you Dave! Welcome back 👍🏽

[@arsenelupiniii8040]

He is different, more spirit!

[@shirlspark_stardust]

Good night Dave and everyone blessed Friday and good weekend everyone 😊🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@martinsmith8926]

Blessings straight back at!

[@tamerastone4732]

I've got my wineskin, with new wine! Praise jesus!!!!

[@martinsmith8926]

Amen

[@shirlspark_stardust]

@@tamerastone4732 Amen 🙏🏾

[@rhondathompson6592]

Me too!!😊

[@cherihill1687]

Good to see you again Dave! I’m out no contact 3 years now. It’s been a long road finding my own identity again but I finally made it. After the discard I had trouble moving on alone because he stole my soul, my whole life. I belonged to him. The freedom I have now is exhilarating! In retrospect I realize I didn’t even know him, he was an actor, a demon, a parasite, sucking the life from me. I thank God every day for pulling me out of that dark hole. I prayed so hard to God for years to save me until one day I realized God was waiting for me to exercise my free will and take a stand against the devil. I had to do that for God to help me. And he led me to you, you empowered me and taught me how to move on. I know I’ve sent you many thanks over these last 3 years but again you have my utmost gratitude for what you do! May God bless you!!

[@rockbrigade414]

We are all made of MISTAKES ! Hopefully lessons learned !

[@bigtreecombatacademy2927]

In the rainforests with chimps … Lol Dave ur sense of humour is always on point 😂

[@shirlspark_stardust]

@@bigtreecombatacademy2927 lol 😂 yes Dave unique commentary cracks me up

[@soniaboudreau3151]

Nice seeing you again! ❤❤❤

[@ForeverCreatingYou]

When Ms A discovers her worth, the narc knows he's through, but wait.... He still chatters about what a prize he is on his way out the door with nothing😂. That's what happened to my X Narc hasbeen. Stay in faith, Jesus is the only way, that's who showed me my worth 🙏

[@mariaellis9066]

Amen! We should put God first. No doubt!

[@LouiseL-m6t]

Welcome back Dave! Great content.The OG narc slayer. Praise this community 🙌

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Much appreciated

[@KingJesus101]

This is really good thank you

[@martinsmith8926]

Amen brother! No doubt all your videos are helping someone!! More likely many people!! Being two fold Helping the narcissist survivor and pointing them to the true light. Blessings to you and all those viewing the channel. Glory belongs to GOD!

[@cam8619]

Been waiting for your return. Looking great Dave!

[@arsenelupiniii8040]

He must have went a spiritual thing, looks wiser, but more vital. He is a monk!

[@cam8619]

Can I just say that when you pray you pray for the right reasons and the right outcome. I prayed for a man but for all the wrong reasons. God has a sense of humor and sent me a clown, my first real narc. I actually joke with our lord and say you got me good lord, you taught me not to pray Ever for superficial shit, cause you will get what you prayed for. Now I pray that the lord be my one and only because he is all you need. You just don’t know it.

[@arsenelupiniii8040]

@@cam8619 I think the Lord brings us together through similar interests. But then, I am still single.

[@smartsurvival2605]

I'm home alone, watching you. LOL. I just got off work.

[@CandiceAckermann-d6d]

I’m Mrs. A all the way 🎊 🎉

[@lisalawtonlyons]

These ppl are chameleons, and will present themselves as exactly what you’re yearning for. The devil listens to your prayers too. You won’t out smart them, so just “no and go” quickly.

[@Angelarc33]

Thank you Dave... you're the original and the best because you showed us your pain and tenacity.

[@dannyh8183]

Welcome back 😊

[@OSTARAEB4]

Dave, you’re so right about everything. Great advice and we all have to hand ourselves over. Use your spirit instinct! It’s all a test for the final step. We are all temporary.

[@karenzilverberg4699]

Thanks, Dave. I have always appreciated your videos.

[@Mocheesemoeugene]

Nothin like a speedboat with no breaks.Thats the NARCISSIST❤

[@joanamargarida34]

We’ve missed your videos and company Dave!

[@chaosqueen9906]

You look like a Knight of gods army, kind, loving, but also powerful and fireproof, bulletproof.❤

[@Charmainecharmainecharmaine]

He does ❤ he looks awesome ❤

[@theresa604]

how are they so powerful to keep us wondering about them and miss them, even after he got me gangstalked, now that im healed from everything he caused me ? its crazy

[@SlavicGirl.]

Its NOT them being powerful, but some people are just vulnerable, and programmed to believe that they are POWERLESS.

[@FredaFaithkennedy2523]

May I suggest Teresa that you find scriptures in the Bible to counteract those thoughts. It helped me! ❤️ Also keep watch Dave's videos an read the comment section. This channel is full of encouragement!

[@GR-mw1tk]

alone can be a tranquil respite , a place of healing and learning .

[@KingJesus101]

Satan knows he can’t get me so he went after my family toward all the pieces

[@dirtySal777]

It took me 20 years to find out why I was being cussed out, laugh at and made fun of, bullied, yelled at and hung up on, threatened, talked to me any kind of way, disrespected and just thrown away when he felt like it. Now I am free of him.

[@belizejuliette7223]

Mrs A here.1,5 year nol contract

[@angeliene10]

Ha ha! This is so funny and true, it seems to present a little harsh, a little condescending at first but it's just cold snap & true.. there is no romanticism or languishing when Mrs A and Mrs B are dunked in a barrel of iced cold reality talk! For me it's over 6 months no contact, I totally get this and I can actually laugh at the predictability of the NPD creature, ohh the games, the emotional storms, don't get played again Mrs A and Mrs B's! Do the internal Work! God really is good , Anchor into him alone in your healing process.

[@mekgaming111]

My ex-wife always said she doesn't believe in God (we have a daughter) but when she replaced me with the new supply (in another country) while we were married. She changed religion with the new supply posting everything on fb how that specific religion changed her forever then weeks later they broke up and she's back to having no god.

[@tyronecooke3781]

I remember when you first started about 6-7 years ago and you have grown so much not seen a video for about 6 years because I learnt everything I need to and learnt how to spot a covert. Keep up the good work 👌

[@KytKatFlidais]

Oh yea no you're most defs helping me. From my ex bd to getting "friend dumped" by a narc bestie and that just made it make sense so much. Got rid of social media for the most most part and am fixing my flaws so I don't fall for that shit ever tf again.

[@jeanne5371]

Hi Dave, I commented on your first video. I hope you got to read it that video meant so much to me. So very glad to see you back!

[@elderjonathanwhite6633]

It’s been two years for me since I moved on and your teaching was my favorite, out of all the videos I watched

[@robinwyers]

They completely forgot about us.just like that

[@narcslayerg2631]

Just realized I’ve been listening to you for 3 years. My progress is amazing but I still have off days. I have good friends now that I can Lean on in those times and of course God. Still single! Happy!

[@rosesantiago174]

Blessings and Thank You!

[@melindalemmon2149]

Great look!

[@chantalmampaey2294]

I,m so glad you're back Dave. Always great video's.

[@Mocheesemoeugene]

Love the beard bro.Been a while since i saw you.BLEZZ U TO THE FULLEST,you & wife❤❤❤

[@suzettewalsh2854]

Wow Dave, you haven’t come up on my feet in such a long time. I missed you.! The gray looks great on you and the beard.

[@gloriahornby2457]

I am going to God. Thank you Dave. When I am feeling weak I look for one of your videos. It keeps me strong.

[@SLLiberty23]

Dave …. I thank God for you and I thank God for Friday nights …that we get to look forward to. This journey out of the narc relationships have been so hard, but God has been amazing. Thank you for your Godly words & wisdom …this video gave so much biblical perspective and HOPE. We love you Dave, God bless you & Julie 🙏🏻♥️🕊️

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Wow, thank you

[@AshleyKellim]

Mrs. A. Right here. Ty. I love this message.

[@GulayYanik]

Hi Dave. What if you have no social media, no contact what so ever. Been 10 months. However has my items on his work desk, does this mean anything? …

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Yes, heard this before. Some won't erase their pics of you on FB (banner) while in new relationship... Fantasy land really

[@flynnnewsblog9627]

Beware of foreign women who love you for a green card. Far worse, however, if they are a sociopathic narcissist.

[@Sunstar2308]

Mrs a here. I have no desire for him to know anything about my life now. If he did he'd be pissed. 😅.for all the reasons you've described

[@terrimehring2137]

I blocked him on everything and pray.

[@jrlatina]

Almost 2 yrs no contact! 💪🏽💪🏽

[@FarrahBenson-y4z]

Hey, saw you at Cedar Hill Park in one of your videos, I am from Madison, live in Goodlettsville now.....your videos have helped me tremendously, still dealing with hoovering and trying to heal from narcissistic abuse

[@Narcologyunscripted]

Howdy neighbor!

[@PinkGSR]

I stumbled across this and THIS is my sign to get right with God. Thank you for the flashlight in the dark. @narcologyunscripted

[@danip6648]

Since I have left the sick, evil narcissist I have not encountered anyone worth dating. I finally have high standards and prefer my own company over any crappy fake ones.

[@sky-son]

Emotional detachment is the key. Also, always block the hoovers, and block the flying monkeys. When a narcissist attempts to interact with you, go gray-rock STAT, and reduce and limit contact.

[@jakstorm3180]

What you should check out is this drizzle drizzle movement we men have adapted, if you wish to pinpoint a narcissistic woman put a little drizzle in the mix, i had recent one that is a narcissist and she has her whole family behind her on it, she didnt chase at all she is living her best life which means she is using men for her sexual needs, ive known her for years and i finally woke up to her behavior. I wont be answering her DMs any longer, i havent spoke to her in three weeks and last time i said anything i call her The McRib a sandwhich that is around for a limited time only but its just not quite as good as what you remember, man did that trigger her, and that was my cue to block

[@FredaFaithkennedy2523]

Like always ! Dave your videos never skip a beat I needed to hear this. Going on 4 years now my family and I have no Contact with the narc nor his flying Monkeys. I'm living my best life, I have ups and downs but God smooths the bumps. I sometimes feel lonely worldly but spiritually my best friend is close and I am content and Grateful for that! I will continue to wait for the Lord to send me the true husband he has for me! I will not entertain empty meat suits on any level. My decrement level is an alltimate high! Everyday my prayer is Lord please only allow those that you want to cross my path. To the new viewers this is by far the best channel to subscribe to for insight into vital information of how to break free from a toxic relationship(Narc torment). I AM LIVING PROOF! Time to heal wonderful people of God, YES YOU!

[@geargail]

::: really does sound simple - a person is out of the regular brand... they'll pick a substitute :::

[@moneymitchamp]

You should check out the show UNPRISONED . Starring Kerri Washington. It’s a masterpiece on mental health for women with daddy issues. She’s an online therapist who eventually needs a therapist( the guy from full house). They have scenes where she talks to her inner child. Good cast and it’s a good show.