When Things are Out Of Your Control - Teal Swan

[@lowellcalavera6045]

Words can't describe how valuable this person has become to me.

[@luciadesilva1991]

I second this. ❤️

[@אלהש-י6ר]

To me too

[@dayanahoyosvera4170]

Teal is terrific

[@salmalachgar]

Same dude.. Same.

[@lbeschrich]

Right?! Her videos help sooooo much

[@luciadesilva1991]

When I feel emotionally consipated. I come to watch these videos and can cry. Deep pain. I think it's because I can use these videos to feel heard and understood. It's in those moments I can sperate from the pain and give myself compassion. I can't ask for help I don't have anyone. But the videos help for me to release the pain. Then I feel relief and space, and I can think and breathe again. The expansion that comes I'm grateful for. ♥️ Thank you teal

[@moonbabyhealing]

Beautiful. I feel validated and understood with her videos

[@kristilu1987]

This is where I choose to find hope in this out of control time

[@nightsky8012]

I've been having suicidal thoughts since last year. And I've been watching your videos ever since. It's like you understand me more than I do. You don't know how much you've helped me spiritually over the past year, just by me listening to your videos usually.

[@Megan6772]

I've been there. Going through a rough time now. How are you these days? ❤

[@alex-ander-13]

Keep walking the path. Your bravery is so inspirational to so many of us. You got this.

[@CommonSense247pls]

"As long as we are seeking control, we can not let go and allow" - This is EXACTLY what I needed to hear, thank you so much! I feel like I just dropped so much weight off my shoulders and it help to counter my Type A tendencies haha.

[@luticia]

I LOOOOOOVE "Have a good" week at the end so much. Honestly in each of her video I'm looking forward to this sentence. It's the way she says it, her expression, her smile, her everything. All together have such a loveing, calming and safe effect on me, in my life where NOTHING is secure.

[@kaylacarpenter272]

The things she's saying, whether it from.her mouth, or someone else, these things are JUST TRUE PERIOD. This is unbiased, factual, therapeutic information. What she is saying has been said for THOUSANDS OF YEARS, BECAUSE IT WORKS. Jog on, dude.

[@SoFkwHat]

Also Known As Suggest you find a good therapist.

[@maishazarinanan5028]

I feel you

[@nelidaaceves2383]

Think is exactly what I needed to hear and what I needed vibrationally, You are saving me so much money in Therapy, please never stop what you are doing!!

[@leaa8445]

+Nelida Aceves I know, she's saved me a ton on therapy too, which is awesome :)

[@MTgantua]

+Leyla Avci there some pretty awesome comments

[@infinity401]

Yes, me too, her voice is so soothing also :)

[@lornastreamsofdreams1096]

Nelida Aceves a

[@angiep8217]

Nelida Aceves it happened to me already & cost thousands of $

[@thebotanicalmind]

I could listen to this every morning and still learn from this message, and improve my vibrational attunment to what I need right now. :-)

[@miss.ahsheya]

thanks again. i was curled up having an emo moment. this made me feel 10x times better.

[@pamchesler242]

I experienced years of consistent trauma and then more years with therapists who basically said the exact Opposite of what you are describing. Then, years of medications that made me sick physically on top of the emotional trauma. You basically summed up, step by step, pretty much everything that I needed to hear and validated every one of my challenges and my desire to understand how to heal myself. I cannot express how grateful I feel towards you…I know your history and since I’m in the beginning stages of healing, feel pretty much horrified and angry (as I see it as a mirror of my own feelings) but not to compare. You are accurate when you expressed that what you experienced led you to your calling. Ty for being brave enough to go through the healing process and paying it forward Teal. I do not believe that the healing process ever ends. But, one can come a long way to become the beautiful, powerful, and devine soul that they were born (created) to be. Does not matter what the trauma, you ARE meant to be loving, loved and valued. This, you give to yourself above all else, than those who are doing the same “work” will come to you. Just believe in yourself and know that you are worthy of of all these things ❤ Namaste 🙏

[@Dayana-mk5ch]

I love what Teal says here about the vibration of empowerment and how to be empowered.

[@camwilliams1]

In the biggest learning curve, my Mom passed away 6 weeks ago, I come from a family of five, I am one of two family scapegoats in the group. The golden child provided lies, manipulation, and secrets and has built teams who will cosign based on getting wink-wink deals, he is the executor of the will. Wow want a great place for me to grow, thank you God. I had started launching into grant writing company before my Mom passed. I slipped into attaching to the inheritance as my ways and means. WOW LOL did that take me down a path of beyond my control, which has given me an opportunity to release the concept of "my way." I also consider myself as a Christian in process, meaning the hot water bottle on my belly. I have felt incredible rage, and awful gut punches from the 3, I call them the 3 musketeers. The other side of this expanded view of I am supported by the universal sources of all things. The rivers of abundance right in front of me. It does not mean I turn into a milk toast it means I acknowledge that my ways and means have always been steadfast. My rough bumps have unfolded to teach me my ability to trust the force of God. My compassion has grown for myself, I am not alone, these golden children also have low self-esteem, most likely do not sleep well at night, and they are suffering. My compassion has grown for all of us who were taught by a wounded Mom trying to heal through her own life traumas. What is dropping off me are barnacles of non-truth, which could look like manipulation, pain, sorrow, and hurts. My desire is for our souls to be reset to the purity of who we are, claiming we are a spark of Divine here on earth

[@Raidoven]

who on earth would create a painful situations for themselves? i did. because i broke up with my ex despite still loving her, because i didn't think i was good enough/could make her as happy as I wanted her to be. i knew it would hurt like hell once she finally moved on with another guy, and now that's a reality. It's still hurting, but your videos are helpful. It was in my control but that's in the past. And maybe on a subconscious level I know that it's not good for us to be together, back when i was still less emotionally mature, and that getting through this pain will make me grow in ways I never have before.

[@IngaCombs]

Teal, thank you for your teachings. Thank you for everything. I bow before you.

[@tonyrocket2103]

You saved my life Teal Swan :-) Thank you

[@leayahia8880]

Same here . Thanks Teal

[@michellewright5767]

❤️

[@beckhamseven10]

What do to when things feel out of control. Brief overview of the video for anyone who would like a quick reminder: 1. Give up trying to control 2. Create positive momentum in another area of life 3. Focus on the choices you DO have 4. Set small goals to acomplish daily 5. Ask for help 6. Get to the core of your fear. What it is you are truly afraid of? 7. Regroup & reassess your genuine wants and needs. Find out what you really want and need. 8. Understand the nature of uncertainty 9. Love & apprecate anything you can.

[@alex-ander-13]

Thank you for the time invested.

[@beckhamseven10]

@@alex-ander-13 you're welcome

[@limeros88]

The greatest depths of spirituality is within serving others and surrender.

[@dolligrl2000]

Teal, I know this is an old video but I really needed to listen this today. I was diagnosed with something nefarious and have been desperately trying to micro manage outcomes I have no control over at this point. Thank you.

[@rationalityrules111]

Teal is really good. Really really good. One of the best in the world. Top-notch psychologist and therapist.

[@selftaughtbot]

Teal. You have saved my life and gave me the advice I needed in my recovery. I wouldn't be the same person I am today if I didn't find your videos. I had the opportunity to briefly meet you in LA workshop and it was truly amazing. I just wanted to say that your perspective on things are very unique and probably scare a lot of people, but seriously you motivated me to face my demons and find self love. You helped me in my journey. So thank you.

[@Emily-us4gq]

how are you doing these days??

[@BenjaminLupton]

If we are here, despite some ephemeral changes, we will all comes to regress and fall further below the sheltered privileges necessary to thrive in the empire. Time expires and by the time we've gathered enough control our swim, the empire has expanded, changed the rules, and left us to perish as ashes to fertilise those hopefully more fortunate.

[@Rainbow2dcore]

How can someone dislike this healing video! Thank you so much! I cann't imagine life without this video :)

[@IThinkItsForYou]

It takes A LOT to get to this stage, but it helps and is so life transforming. Me currently: two narcissistic parents who couldn't care less that I'm poor because I sacrificed all my opportunity to make their lives easier, I have £700 gas bill to pay and not that in the bank. I'm spending days eating very little and completely alone. But the current people in my life are such hell that being manipulated by them any more is worse than all of this. I feel peace despite all this and somehow just know that I'll be alright. But how did to that state of peace? Sheer HELL!

[@alexandramarie5668]

The ending of this video was poetry. So beautiful Teal! I'm so happy you exist

[@GabrielTravelerVideos]

Wow, that was awesome, especially at the end, you were really flowing with the spirit.

[@wanimusician]

the dog at the end!! SO ADORABLE!!

[@Mountainman1971]

I enjoy seeing how much love there is between you and your fur baby. 💓 Thank you Teal.

[@patriciac2066]

You truly are a gift.

[@osiriswills6749]

Teal I just wanted to let you know how powerful this video is. This couldn't have come at a more important time in my life. I am currently dealing with a situation that is out of my control and yes I have experienced the despair. I will surrender and understand that this physical manifestation is for my greater good

[@starqueenlotus3755]

Whenever I listen to you Teal i feel my heart touched so immensely that it connects to my tear glands and tears dripping out drop by drop. I feel as if I am healing live on stat . You are a gem on the planet ..

[@leezaloo]

1) Give up control completely, consciously give up, surrender. You can't let go and allow as long as you're seeking control. Cut your losses! Change is needed. Spend time in this space of total surrender to the universe at large until that no longer feels like relief and then you may be ready to move forward. 2) We need to set our momentum on the right course. Negative things manifest in our reality when our momentum is going down a negative course and is has built up so much speed that there's no real way of stopping that momentum. We have to create positive momentum until that is unstoppable in our current life. Control is the byproduct of fear. Empowerment is finding alignment in any small or large way. 3) Focus on the choices you DO have. What we do have control over is the way we feel about our circumstances. When we are focused on the ways that we're limited, we cannot see the ways that we're unlimited. That reality seems so far away from us because we can only be aware of what we're a vibrational match to. Play a game: Take all of your attention off the things you have no control over, and place you're attention instead on anything you do have control over. 4) Set small goals to accomplish and scratch them off your list. 5) Ask for help. 6) Find out what it is that you're REALLY afraid of in this situation. Often we just disempower ourselves and are waiting for something outside of us to change to feel safe enough to act etc. But we're completely unprepared to face the consequence, so we've become paralyzed. Once we are prepared to face the consequence, we are no longer stuck and powerless. 7) Regroup and and reassess your genuine wants and needs. What do I really want and why? 8) When you're struggling with feeling of being completely out of control in reality, then you are dealing with uncertainty. Vid: How to deal with uncertainty 9) Love in any way or form possible. Opposite vibration of fear is love. In the absence of fear new opportunnities open up.

[@leydimoralesATL]

Came across this video in 2022, when the world literally feels like it’s lost it’s mind… yet it’s still manages to get even worse somehow. Thanks teal ✨♥️

[@danikahli]

You`ve been saving my life these days.

[@GTai-os2py]

Teal Swan you are my virtual best friend. God Bless you.

[@shamyshamuswow213]

All my thoughts and fears i let them go.... All we really have is this moment

[@ZeroPointZap]

excellent... i am going thru this and just had this revelation yesterday... thank you so much for the confirmation... maybe i won't take myself out.... its easy to say a lot of that stuff when you are not HOMELESS tho...

[@sailyx3jupy]

Watch this video over and over and over again. Then watch it again.

[@Guanaalex]

I am grateful, that your are doing what you are doing! Thanks for your good heart, helping the ones that have stranded with there ships on some beach and are stuck. Thank you for your beautiful soul of compassion.

[@gaian6497]

Resonated with this with a different perspective.. So intriguiing how Teal always seems to repeat her words but yet are able to bring in freshness to these energy blocks

[@JohnGalt2028]

I appreciate You, Teal Swan. Since I don't have extrasensory abilities, appreciate KZbin and the World Wide Web to be able to connect with you.

[@mariee2092]

Teal, please make a video about how to understand , how to find what exactly yours , where is your place to work, to create, to access your abilities. Please please!

[@skygelbron6321]

I needed this today. Perfect timing. I asked for answers, and here I receive them... Thank you, thank you.

[@donkeydave3246]

Watching this on 0.5x speed in the settings is so psychedelic

[@mondoraptor]

+David Krolak LOL ! Very trippy indeed!

[@alisas.8897]

+David Krolak Bahahahaha

[@anjanipathak3458]

+David Krolak oh god I came to watch this video in a really serious mood and i just cant stop laughing now lol

[@alecverkuilen3920]

+David Krolak hahahahahaha!!!! Thank you :)

[@InvertedSeal]

+David Krolak AHAHAHAHA! THIS IS FREAKING GOOD!

[@tracieyudichak2315]

Thank you. This video applied back the first time I felt things were out of control and I happen to find your channel while youtube surfing. I am feeling things are out of my control again and this video applies. The only main difference I feel now is that I am no longer out of control; even though things (and also thoughts that come out of my mouth) are out of my control, my feelings do not feel out of control. This time around, I received a different message because I am no longer trying to convince myself and believe that self-love is good. I know it now and live it passionately, as well as share it. There are mistakes I am still making from the moment I decided I am important in this world. There are still times I am completely perplexed at the results verses the ideas I began with. Through whatever form adversity plays into my life, the message I got this time around through this video is, Whatever has happened, Whatever is happening, Whatever may happen is never as powerful as what I allow to happen. Thank you and have a good week! Thank you Teal!

[@psmills2984]

I love this!! Such a wonderful, eye-opening perspective of life!!

[@SC-vb2ui]

as usual Teal is The Best In deepth.She is the Only One Great Spiritual Teacher.💚🙏🏽💚

[@1derfultink]

Teal Swan, I have been seeking the advice you just gave. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you. My entire life has come undone and I have been busy fighting it! I am going to watch this again until I can learn your lessons. I am ready to move forward and recreate my existence.

[@cecetheindigo2934]

thank you so much Teal! you've been such a big part of my own spiritual awakening and you stay on my gratitude list daily! Keep spreading truth, light, and love, and inspiring people to wake up and speak up!

[@narayajourney]

Perfect for the current situation of tightening global control! Thank You from my High Heart!

[@timoverdier5577]

This is huge! --a leading edge of human "being" and awareness. Thank you Teal.

[@cbgadmin379]

Thank you Teal so happy to have found you, love always

[@tonih3433]

How can ANYONE put thumb down on this video?!! She's brilliant 🙏 thank you !

[@brianhenry234]

I ve watched teal swan videos for I discovered her videos on KZbin maybe two months ago and I just want to say I’ve become addicted to watching her videos, I like what she’s saying and I think she is very smart and beautiful. And unique I just wanted to say I don’t believe in much but I do believe in teal swan

[@Dayana-mk5ch]

5:50 - Teal begins giving her recommendations.

[@SujaaniPrem]

And I stand for my children all the way, because is out of my control but the strings of justice are trully divine to the right time, ones given worship in faith.

[@FlatWorld_Jomhuri_Regime]

And listening to this makes me wonder, now, why people want to attack Teal Swan??

[@stariadreamtea]

Because she comes in waves. She's had a lot of beautiful videos like this lately. There are times where I found her sarcastic and really out of alignment. Not kind in delivering the message - like something was going on for her in her private life that was distorting the message. Like an extremely evolved and controlled person with BPD. Very fragmented. I feel like she's been very well for a while now and gaining more popularity. Well earned.

[@FlatWorld_Jomhuri_Regime]

@@stariadreamtea Happy comment.

[@scottmaslinfiftyb5121]

amazing woman of spiritual wisdom and knowledge much love

[@FlatWorld_Jomhuri_Regime]

This helped me get over an Ex. Thank You Teal.

[@Sugabullets]

We are co-dependant validation seeking creatures, this ensures we connect with each other and spread love. Thing is, all the questions we have contain the answers within them, we have the ability answer any question without any assistance independently. Yet we continue to ask from the ego perspective. It is the time to understand this so that we can work interdependently to build a more loving and flowing environment around us and most importantly within us. Allow love to guide you not fear.

[@susanyang5870]

Look for small things to appreciate. It's not about changing the situation, but more about raising frequency to be aligned with positive things.

[@juliab.75]

She knows what she's talking about!

[@Nomad.Hawk_87]

Yes, this resonates. I am in this situation right now. I feel I am in prison, very acutely. I feel the futility. I don't fight what is, i don't resist. I surrender and doing so, i feel some freedom that I cannot describe. I just feel extremely human. Extremely alive. Extremely lucky and extremely grateful. It's beyond life and death, beyond my own human existence, I cannot explain, really. It has nothing to do with hope. Just the consciousness that this is bigger than it seems, so big that it contains this situation, as a drop is contained in an ocean. I can't see it, I can't touch it, I can't explain it. I just know it's like that. It's like I become the container myself. There is no more "situation".

[@shezzababy1]

Thank you Teal, you have given me so much and made me understand my world, be able to deal with my negative emotions and the bad experiences in my life. You came to me in a time when I needed you most, I hope that others can become attune to all that you have to offer the world. Keep doing the great work that you are doing for humanity.

[@ayeshawindsong990]

THANK YOU SO MUCH TEAL!!! :) Thank YOU!

[@Eli666Ms]

this is really true. It happens to cause myself times of uncertainty just to experience complete allowing, acceptance and grounding in the present moment..

[@kiijordan9905]

You are so Brilliant Teal... thank you so much...🙏🙏🙏

[@starsinmybrain]

Perfect timing for me to hear this!! Thanks Teal!!

[@larrycork1361]

You help to create peace in a crazy world

[@SalmissraTP]

Thank you Teal for sharing your gift of insight and wisdom - grattitude x

[@HomicidalDavid]

The background is awesome.

[@Gushara]

Thank you for your perspective in pealing the layers of the onion. Feeling it in each moment ..... the relief.....bless

[@L1ND5A7]

Awwww, watched this a few times but this is the only time I let it play to the end and saw the Dog!!!❤

[@Whatworksthisworks]

Once again you nailed it! Thank you!!!

[@ametrine7]

Thank you Teal. Blessed Be.

[@rebekaht1314]

i really resonated with this message and it has helped me get through the day. peace and love for all of eternity

[@iamjcsmit]

Thank you Teal. Much love to you.

[@JesusCsus]

It's amazing that God provides. It's funny that I'm learning that it's okay to live without anxiety. Why did I ever think it wasn't okay to feel good about life? It is awesome to live in peace and good feelings and seeing the most people are trying to do their best to love each other even if they're all messed up.

[@youngatnaruto]

Teal make a video about your thoughts on EFT TAPPING

[@lilianakostova11]

YES PLEASE!

[@foofy3406]

this channel keeps me sane

[@nelidaaceves2383]

Thank You Teal... You are Amazing.. Thank You!!

[@haleynic]

your voice is super calming to me

[@sophismpress]

Brilliant as always Teal. Thank you.

[@peterhaywood4111]

So many powerfully helpful videos. And this one came at the perfect time.

[@Marc-zp6uq]

I can hardly express just how helpfull this amazing video is. I have recently suffered a terrible break-up with my girlfriend. I will not go into detail, but its the most unusuall ending i have ever experienced. After over two months, im all alone in this mess, knowing nothing, other than she,s gone. I have found running meditation and yoga to be very effective. And of course these awsome videos.

[@awarenesscentralbysimran3241]

teal u hav answered alot of my questions.. i have watched dis video at d divine right tym.. u r so amazing.. just love u..

[@consciouscommunity3897]

Yes!!!! Seek it, see it as needed, necessary even! It is for expansion, it's for contrast. It feels like shit, it f'ing sucks so much but if you can figure out while IN IT!! That you created it and you are not powerless. Low vibrations will not get you out of the situation. Let go, give up. Surrender to the pain, surrender to what ever the f has happened. Find a good feeling thought, feel good no matter what. You can control over the way we feel. Feel proud of yourself. Love yourself even more in these moments. When I energy heal I must only focus on what is right. I can't heal people by focusing on the pain, or what's wrong. It's the same thing. Fouls only on what's going right. Let the wrong of it go. Love and light xx

[@levi3slc]

My sincere thanks to you for helping me adjust my perspective. My best wishes to you.

[@Jiiyun]

Aww that puppy!! So full of love for you!! Thank you for this message. Literally stayed up all night until this video was released, I knew I was going to be getting an important message. (MY current lesson is this!)

[@swoonify]

I love the dog bit! it's totally a good example for the video in the cutest way. plus this was just a great overall video for me to hear right now as I'm going through heavy changes.

[@SujaaniPrem]

This video from all touched me so much that is to give her back a Namaste, because she was talking right through me and all my last years experience, and I know I did right! in the renounce and surrendering, at the mids of war and cruel acts wont name now they day with paths, that its so beautiful to see her so enlighten and cared, she cares for her self to stand in camera, to tune up her body and hair, image and editing vision to continue.

[@michellewright5767]

Thank you so much Teal. Everything you said resonated with me, and I really needed to hear this. You are amazing ❤️

[@ElleSeven]

loved it! thank you Teal. wisdom plus genuineness.

[@ElleSeven]

my favorite to date. next month I'll have a new one!

[@lifeisbeautiful7047]

Thank you 💚 Thank you 💚 Thank you 💚 Thank you 💚 There was no water in the sink which cause me Resentmenet that lasted for days, and now your videos about Resentment and this cleared the path. Thanks from the depth of my heart 💚

[@s.s.9674]

Thank you for existing.

[@mzique]

Thanks it helped. My fiancé dumped me last month and I felt totally out of control. Surrendering to the circumstance makes me feel a bit better.

[@vivianyee9766]

Last week I said that you created the best video ever. This week's message surpasses that one! Thank you again...xoxo

[@laquiviahand8077]

Thank you for this reminder teal. Namaste

[@tyramuhammed6480]

teal; I got to admit you've done so much for me by me watching your videos do appreciate it love you so much!

[@sharmishthasamal5121]

I love you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

[@EvaWright]

So true. Thank you for this. Super painful time for me right now. Right in the middle of an enormous lawsuit my mom suddenly died (beyond my control). I feel angry and powerless. Every day I am trying to get back into being vibrational aligned with the Universe. I (KNOW) it is necessary but right now it is so hard to find uplifting things and people to keep me going on a positive plane.

[@Qetesh777]

Awesome video! I love you Teal. Your innocence and love shines so brightly ❤️❤️