When TikTok EXPOSED THE TRUTH - REACTION

[@CrisM779]

Even if "just messaging" isn't technically cheating... I'd never be able to trust that person again. Lying about being single pretty much yells that they'd cheat if they had the opportunity, so I wouldn't wait until they actually did it.

[@Rachel-xu4br]

Exactly. For example, there's murder and attempted murder and while they're different crimes they still do get sentences, right? So I guess we can think of it that way, cheating and attempted cheating? While it may not be cheating, but if you're saying you're single and are definitely attempting to do something with another person, then, you're still guilty, just for a different crime. I wouldn't want to wait until they actually did it either.

[@eboniclarke177]

Just messaging plutonic stuff is ok as long as it is within boundaries. But once you say you're single when you're not, it's time to make that statement true

[@Kayenne54]

In Japan, they recognize that sharing intimacy (private thoughts, inner feelings) with someone outside your primary personal relationship is very likely cheating. And we all know how reserved some Japanese people can be on occasion. So TEXTING is most assuredly cheating - The journey of a 1,000 miles begins with a first, single step, right? Why does he/she need to be telling an "outsider" their innermost thoughts/feelings etc.? And "sexting" is most definitely cheating. Another maxim is "Thought is the father of the deed". Thinking about someone else, for more than a few minutes (regularly) is the beginning of cheating. Everyone will see someone and think "wow she/he is hot" but if there is texting, that's the first step on a disloyal dishonourable journey.

[@Deedoof]

@@Rachel-xu4br Great analogy, it's the intent(and hiding info) that makes that guy a cheater by heart.

[@Deedoof]

Agreed, if you have to hide things knowing your SO would be hurt by your actions, it's cheating.

[@GinkgoFroggo]

"Just messaging" is still cheating! Messaging is just a sneakier way! If you have stray thoughts and actually act upon them, not just physically, and also saying you are single!!?!?! The audacity! Kick the cheater to the curb! They nasty and don't deserve you! Thank you, Charlotte for all your content! My mom and I love watching you and just say it's Petty Queen time!

[@bsummers9759]

Yeah he was definitely waiting for an opportunity where he was sure he wouldn’t get caught, that’s all. He was ramping up to it he just hadn’t grown the actual balls to pull the trigger.

[@pablodelsegundo9502]

You must be female.

[@gaming-oyvinator]

wait. i have multiple female friends that i send dumb memes to.. we usually never chat.. and when we do.. the maybe 3 times pr year perhaps.. its 'how are you.. had covid yet.. what do you think about this or that tv-series.. etc' i consider them my friends and i do miss em.. but that is it..

[@roswell5065]

@@gaming-oyvinator I think they mean like, if you send "hey baby you're gorgeous heart eyes love that pic would love to meet up some time" and your defense is that you didn't cheat, you just messaged. Even if you physically didn't touch the other person, flirting through messages with the implication it will lead to more means you are harming someone in some way - either you end up meeting up and cheating physically or you're leading someone on. Make more sense?

[@muffygraves]

Right I mean I think little crushes when you're in a long term relationship is normal, but acting or even expressing it, I think it's normal to be attracted to someone that isn't your s.o. but the line is crossed when you act on those feelings... And start claiming you're single or start saying things like "oh they'll never know" it all depends on the relationship too some ppl are ok with sending flirty texts and such so long as it's not physical, some ppl don't want you to have friends of the opposite sex, that's for you and your partner to decide, I have guy friends I talk to all the time! We talk and game together, that's about it... And if he did the same I'd be fine!

[@KryaDiere]

What I've learned is a lot of guys just "settle" for whoever comes their way when they're still pinning for another girl. My colleague is married and has a little girl, and he confessed to me that I looked like this other woman he (is still) in love with and I always remind him of her when we work on projects together. He went on and on about how wonderful she was and how it's "sad" they couldn't be together. I felt *really* dirty listening to his bullshit because I've eaten at their home at their table with his loving wife and daughter. 🤮🤮🤮🤮 So yes, texting is fucking cheating because he's not emotionally invested in the relationship and would "jump ship" if he could.

[@goodiegoodygumdrops]

Exactly. My ex was like this... (dude was a narc) he usually hover over exs. But he'd also prowl around work or dating apps for girls. 🙄 Really felt he was never over either of his exs especially the one he dated in HS

[@Fueled.by.freshness]

Thank you. This.. ---^ !!!

[@reheatthepasta9545]

Emotionally cheating is 100% cheating. Men and women do this. I’d actually think women emotionally cheat more while men physically cheat more. But that’s a bias with no evidence. Mostly anecdotal. Don’t think they’ve genuinely got any statistics for that because who would actually answer that poll truthfully. Turns out it’s not a man or a women thing, it’s a cheater thing. They come in all shapes, shades, and sexual orientations. Cheating makes no sense to me just leave the relationship and sleep with whoever :/ ya nasty.

[@PhyllisGlassup2TheBrim]

". I felt really dirty listening to his bullshit" So cut him off. "You chose to marry your wife. She's a good person who loves you. I don't want to hear what you're saying. Your fantasies have nothing to do with me".

[@jakemarie828]

That is so gross. Ick. Did you tell his wife what he told you? This honestly seems reportable to HR or something. What an uncomfortable position this coworker put you in...

[@LyricaSilvan]

Damn, Charlotte. You’ve got an incredible singing voice.

[@ginablanshard8255]

yes!!!

[@ZieSpiralOut]

Dude!!! So good!! ❤❤

[@OnTrendFairy]

Honestly like hy shit

[@nooneherebutuschickens5201]

Just came to the comments to say the same thing.

[@nataliasiciliano4091]

I know right!

[@mayasturgeon7354]

11:26 I love when charlotte sings she’s so good. Sometimes I feel like ppl forget KZbinrs have other artistic talent like she legit went to school for acting and stuff.

[@meisjeViv]

General rule: if you're doing something you feel you need to lie about to your partner, then yes, cheating. So that includes messaging on dating apps (especially when it includes posing as single!). If you have discussed it with your partner and are open about the messaging (or whatever you're doing) and everyone is on the same page, then no, not cheating.

[@Kayenne54]

Totally agree. If you have to lie, you're a liar.

[@rebeccastocks5769]

Great point!

[@twiggystardust9573]

Agreed!

[@ThimbleFox350]

Yup. Anything you have to hide or keep from your partner like that involving another person = cheating.

[@carson551]

If my husband just has an account that he made while we were married, I’d classify that cheating unless he had a wonderful explanation! No married person needs a dating app.

[@bellastrange7477]

As a POC, the "poop colored skin" comment took me right back to elementary school. Those words never really leave you. I hope they find the person who sent that and cut them out of their lives.

[@mamaray8903]

My daughter was called poo skin several times in the last few years and my husband and I were like where do they get that crap from (8-10 year olds). Welp saw this here and thought, not only their family but likely social media too. People can be heinous

[@leavesofpresence2632]

@@mostamazing4298 can you describe it? The link doesn’t work anymore

[@bcaye]

What was strange to me is feces can be all kinds of colors. In a case of gallbladder disease it can even be nearly white. My best friend is pure German, has silver hair (used to be blond), blue eyes and in the summer gets dark very fast. Even in winter her skin is very dark. But, of course, racism is always illogical.

[@ima.m.1658]

@@bcaye yeah and, so what if poop is typically brown? So is chocolate and dark caramel. You can associate brown skin with something positive, not negative like racists do.

[@bcaye]

@@ima.m.1658, absolutely.

[@dmohlde]

re: Interracial Couple - do you have any of your husband's friends in your contact list? I had my career ended by a rare spinal cord disease that is terminal. My brother (it was not something 'just said in anger'), he has repeated the sentiment when confronted ---said to me, "Aren't you supposed to be dead already? Or soon?" If I wasn't confined to a wheelchair, I would have beat his ass. Point is - don't rule out the ones you love! They may not feel the same about you....

[@faeriesmak]

Oh god. That’s horrible of him to say those things. I am so sorry. You deserve way better.

[@effiebug4278]

Roll over his feet.

[@Nuzzyy23]

So sorry to hear that . But yeah I agree siblings are the worse .

[@jodie3950]

I'm so sorry you had to hear that

[@allylabar21]

I am so sorry Iwish you the best!

[@CrystalSea216]

Story time! I was with this guy for like 8 years and he kept cheating on me and doing stuff behind my back so I eventually left him but I picked the worst possible time because my mom was doing a full remodel and I couldn't even stay in her living room so I was staying in my car. I bumped into this guy I knew from high school, will call him Tommy and he said he had a spare bedroom in his apartment I could stay in until I got things figured out. Long story short I ended up dating him and we ended up sharing a room. My dad flew in to visit from out of state and I was supposed to go meet him at a local grocery store to pick what we'd have for dinner and Tommy was suppose to be there to meet him too. Right about this time I get a call from my mom saying that my ex-boyfriend of 8 years had just called her and said that Tommy was cheating on me with a girl my ex knew named Jenny. I ignored it because I thought it was just my ex-boyfriend being vindictive trying to cause problems in my new relationship. Tommy was really late showing up too the grocery store and kept coming up with the weirdest excuses so my dad and I left the store and started walking down the side walk only to find that Tommy's truck was actually there at the end of the parking lot 👀 I walked across the street to a local coffee shop and stood in front of this giant window and came face to face with Tommy on a date with this girl Jenny who he met on Plenty of Fish. I walk in and stood in front of their table, she gets up, shakes my hand and says "he's all yours hun" and I said "Thank you Jenny" as she walked out and got into a car with my ex-boyfriend who I didn't even know was there so he had witnessed the whole thing! I found out later that the entire operation was set up by my ex-boyfriend and this girl named Jenny so that my ex could prove to me that Tommy was cheating on me and Jenny wasn't even interested in Tommy, she was just playing a part to prove to me it was true. You should have seen the look on Tommy's face when Jenny shook my hand and I thanked her using her name like we knew each other. I was humiliated of course and I hadn't seen my dad in years so what a way to welcome him! I didn't have anywhere to go so I was still stuck staying with Tommy for a while and he tried to fix things and we tried to work it out but one day he accidentally left his phone at home and I remembered watching him type his passcode in once so I knew it 👀 All I had to do was click on messages and it revealed an extraordinarily long list of girls he had been messaging who were sending pictures of their boobs and their asses and he was sending dick pics back and one of them was my best f****** friend! She and I had been friends since we were kids and they had been making plans to hang out all day on a day I had to work a double shift. That of course was the very last straw and I severed ties with both Tommy and my so-called best friend. There was just no way around it and there was nothing either one could say to justify what they were doing behind my back. I accidentally got even in the weirdest way too because while I was working, some cute blonde guy named Nick kept coming into the store, flirting with me and gave me his number. I found out that he was actually dating my "best friend" so instead of going out with this guy or texting him back, I told her all about it but she didn't believe me so I pulled out the piece of paper he gave me with his phone number on it and she could tell by the number and the handwriting that it was his. Karma is a bitch Ayla! Don't be a hoe or you get treated like one. 😊 this was many years ago and I no longer have any connection with either of my ex-boyfriends or my ex best friend and I am now married to the most loyal and most devoted, wonderful man I've ever met and we've got 2 little boys. Everything worked out in the end 😊

[@akiluckyakilucky7524]

You've got me laughing my ass off 🤣

[@jollygirl94]

I’m happy for u in the end! The guy Tommy sucks and glad u were observant of his passcode.

[@SaraLeighLifts]

This was definitely some teaaaaa ☕️ But in all seriousness i’m happy you’re in a happy healthy relationship with your own family and nobody to set you back. Always keep the habit of cutting toxic people out of your life 💛 all the best to you and your family

[@letsdothismomthing9195]

Damn, Charlotte is now my narrator in my head, her voice is what read that entire story to me. 😂

[@nectariachristodoulou876]

I feel texting can be considered cheating if you are basically flirting/sending dudes. Plus if it's not cheating then why hide it from your partner??

[@darkstraylily1477]

Same yo. I dgaf if my SO messages 100 girls or 1, as long as its strictly friends then knock yaself out. The moment it goes beyond that - Thats when it becomes a Nope.

[@shonitbolar4532]

texting isnt not cheating unless you flirt, send nudes... then thats cheating

[@jenellenelson4447]

It IS cheating... in my opinion as well. Takes it to another level when they "just said they wanted to meet up but never meant it and never did it!" That's still intent boy BYE!!

[@ZaleskaRose]

Yes it's still cheating. The cheating started when he decided to say he's single. Cheating doesn't have to only be physical, it's emotional cheating too. It's still painful to see someone you put your trust, time & love into denying your relationship.

[@patriciat4493]

messaging.........maybe more. The central issue is trust. Ya gotta decide if you want to spend your time on someone you can't trust.

[@KO-xi4ov]

💯! I found out my bf was of 5 and a half yrs was cheating and denying we were in a relationship on my bday 2 wks ago.. today. If they are denying theyre in a relationship, they are most likely cheating as well. If they havent yet, they intend to.

[@hrisiW]

There's also n*es which is even worse

[@probablypositivity8918]

@@KO-xi4ov I'm so sorry. I hope you're doing okay

[@tarasensei]

I want more detective style tiktoks! I was so invested in the couple who were trying to figure out who wrote that horribly racist comment. I hope we get an update on that story.

[@golden_leader9227]

Same!

[@s6r231]

Yeah they say they can't try and reset the password for it to see what the phone number is, but if the account has only just been deleted it should still be there to access (in case you want to restart your account).

[@magicimaginations]

lol yea

[@LadyCoyKoi]

So invested in that modern day Watergate story. 😂

[@Zubiila]

Same! I've gone and followed them on TikTok just in case there's ever an update 🔎

[@ramachandra776]

The only thing I can be sure of right now after months of vigorous testing is that Charlotte does not cheat with her content . Comedy , tragedy , drama , action , betrayal , sacrifice and redemption all rolled into one laugh riot video which somehow gets us till the next day .

[@evelynmason6628]

And she randomly SINGS 🎤

[@ghostface8671]

Biggest eyeroll

[@stormcolumbine8896]

I was telling my dad the mormon story and I could barely get through it, I was laughing so hard... I ended up crying, full on streams down my face because I couldn't stop laughing

[@ariew180]

Can we just acknowledge how happy the random Charlotte songs make us ? 🙂 💛💛💛

[@TwiggyHetfield27]

11:08 "found the girl he cheated with..." Now... I'm on the fence about this. Did she know he was your man? If so, do it up. If she didn't know he was in a relationship that's ALL ON HIM. Take it out on him. I honestly hate when women take their anger out on the other woman who didn't know the guy was in a relationship. Like, honey, YOUR man cheated why you blaming the other woman? Team up! Become besties! Get a Leslie, Cameron, Kate friendship brewing!!

[@Kalani_Saiko]

Same, if she had to do it, do it to the boyfriend. Also, surprised I had to scroll this far down to see someone talking on this

[@sstitt25]

I BET MONEY SHE STAYED AND NO THING DONE TO HER MAN😏

[@TeKnoVKNG23]

Yeah I thought that was a bit much to basically stalk someone when she might not have had any idea. Hopefully she put that much effort into petty revenge vs the guy.

[@mynameiselvispresleygirlsa5911]

More often than not the other woman knows he has a girlfriend. Unless it was a one night stand, that kind of thing is hard to hide.

[@TwiggyHetfield27]

@@mynameiselvispresleygirlsa5911 with the rise of social media, maybe... I've seen guys social medias where they've got pictures with a bunch of different women (mostly they're friends) so it's hard to gage whether they're in a relationship with one of them. And their are people who aren't active on any social media.

[@cryptidconn]

Cheating, in my mind, is when you're doing or saying stuff to someone else that you wouldn't want your significant other reading or seeing. 🤷‍♂️ if you have to hide what you're saying or doing, you're already there.

[@darkstraylily1477]

Cheating involves a sexual element. People are allowed to have their own friends and a life outside of their partner. That includes venting and or confiding in someone they trust about things either related or not related to the relationship (without ulterior motives). A lot of abuse survivors tend to be more private when it comes to some things because thats whats hardwired into their brain (survival etc). Child abuse survivors *especially*. If one has a need to be overbearing or hyper attached t their partner (or what their partner is doing) at all times - please seek help for your anxieties. That is trauma related to attachment. Try some mild counseling (not medication), better for you and your SO in the long run.

[@that_pan_chick8650]

@@darkstraylily1477 but that’s not what we are talking about. When you are messaging someone as if you want to date them, that’s cheating. My ex was texting girls our entire relationship, he never slept with them, but he still cheated. Also complaining to other women about your relationship and then hiding it from you partner is STILLL WRONG. Especially when 95% of the women they are texting are not friends.

[@BellaIsMyBaby]

@@darkstraylily1477 dude what u just wrote a whole essay but avoided the "something u wouldn't want ur significant seeing." This is specific to ppl who they are attracted to obviously. My goodness the rant!

[@gam8ligant]

@@darkstraylily1477 not sexual, romantic

[@blah9095]

I am a south Asian and I felt punched in the gut with the “poo color” comment. It is soul crushing sometimes…we are born with a certain skin color because of genetics right?? What is the crime in being darker skinned?

[@2cutepups767]

No crime. Stupid people, to keep it simple.

[@davidguidry657]

There isn’t a crime in being born any color. I’m sorry people are that insensitive. Greetings from San Antonio TX USA.

[@blah9095]

@@davidguidry657 Thank you David for being compassionate.

[@claudiakarl7888]

Nothing. It’s even the human default setting. Fair skin is a development from the last 6000 years, an adaption to less sun.

[@omegasage777]

People who say stuff like that are horrible, miserable bastards. Your skin color is beautiful, no matter what shade it is

[@kittencadaver2744]

There's obviously a line when "messaging others" that defines whether it's cheating or not. I text my guy friends all the time, nothing inappropriate besides the dirty jokes and stuff that my boyfriend is privvy to anyway happens. When I introduce myself to others, I eventually find a way to slip in I'm happily in a relationship. People who say they're single and who text others secretively are cheating.

[@rachelflynn1990]

Is no one going to recognise how good of a singer Charlotte actually is? We need more of you singing 🥰

[@seeexy]

we know

[@waterwitch8902]

The guy who cheated on a 7 year relationship...... he will never change. Once a cheater always a cheater. Especially when they have a encyclopedia of excuses at the ready.

[@2late4date]

The girl who found out her 7 years relationship was a cheater sounds like he's giving her the "locker room talk" excuse

[@Peach_slays]

literally girl

[@eighthdoctor]

@@sidemanshorts3532 stop spamming this shit.

[@ThimbleFox350]

INFURIATED me that he acted like being a cheater is "just a guy thing" NO IT IS NOT!

[@JamieM470]

@@ThimbleFox350 My ex was like that. He said put ANY man in a bar & if a beautiful sexy woman comes onto him, he will cheat. He had me convinced of it for a long time. A couple years after we divorced, I met a good man. It's not a guy thing; it's a character thing. Good character vs bad character.

[@ThimbleFox350]

@@JamieM470 Its also an alcoholic thing, cheating, usually.

[@athenasaura404]

My ex did that to me. We were together for almost 5 years and he was talking to girls on dating apps behind my back. He would say the exact same thing about how most guys do it and he wasn’t actually into it to meet up with girls but because it was “fun”. I’m glad I was able to get away from that person. I am now in a healthy loving relationship and for the longest time I didn’t think I could meet someone honest because of my p.o.s. ex. It took awhile but I was able to tell myself that I deserved way better. ❤️

[@dinkymak]

Dang 5 years are tough. There’s quite a lot of relationships ended in 5 years. I hope mine stayed strong

[@WarriorMongoose]

I'm happy I had a happy ending,I was in an 18 yr long relationship,(since I was 20!) Have an 8 yr old daughter by him) and he was always sneaking around on dating apps, flirting with other girls...forced me to do and watch stuff I totally didn't want to do but did bc I thought I'd loose him. Plus, yeah, some good ol' fashioned abuse thrown in from time to time. Why the hell I didn't leave or stay left all those times is another story, but glad i Finally got away from him but still hurts right in the heart and chest just thinking about cheating and certain things that trigger memories.. I don't know if I could ever trust another relationship, honestly.

[@firelady118]

Glad you ladies are out of that too! I went thru the same year's ago. I don't consider those 14 yrs as wasted because I had my children during those year's but I wish I would have known then, what I know now & have saved myself some time & heartbreak. I did the swing thing with my ex husband also, thinking well if I do this then he has no reason to cheat. Ha yea that was so stupid smh. You wouldn't believe how many times, when he did this & with who during those 14 yrs! Of course I found most of this out after we split, but he cheated apparently quite a few time's with another apartment building tenant while I was literally recovering from having his baby, like literally that week & throughout the 6 - 8 weeks I wasn't able too. Another one was my Actual older biological sister! She's 7 yrs older than me & was also married at the time. She will still say that he took advantage of her cus she was drinking yet she was only drinking a couple of beers smfh. 😂 I'm in a much better place now, and am happily engaged to an amazing man who wouldn't ever dream of even trying to hurt me physically or emotionally 💜

[@seeexy]

ik .. that. from researching. mom doesn't believe me..

[@jasminegibson8626]

Another thing they could do is delete each contact from their phone (obviously have it written somewhere or something) and then when it no longer says “contact in phone” you know who it is

[@TessieTV]

As I suspected from previous snippets, Charlotte your voice is another gift you have! Crazy isn't that easy to sing! More, please?

[@sarahrice1242]

Cyber-cheating absolutely IS cheating. I've always felt that if the interactions you have with someone virtually are something you know would upset/hurt your partner... well, then that's cheating, sweetie pie. It just is.

[@LyricaSilvan]

Speaking as someone who once found out someone I was seeing was having cyber sex with another girl while we were dating, I have to agree…It hurt me so much when I found out, and he apologized but also seemed to think I was overreacting, even if he never said so himself. Tbh I think that was the moment I knew our relationship wasn’t going to last very long.

[@chelsiemilstead7329]

The moment my man starts messaging another woman, he can get tf out 🤣😭

[@lynxlubbpeeps]

It also kinda sounds like. Even if they're not 'cheating' yet per se. They seem to ve shopping around. Looking for someone 'better' bcoz they think they can do better. But don't wanna lose out on benefits of having a gf while they're still looking

[@-Devy-]

"Trust people on social media, they have no reason to lie" is literally the single dumbest thing anyone has ever said. EVER!

[@LilKitten9620]

I think she meant the comments, like if a majority of them said s/o is cheating, thousands of ppl wouldn't really lie about that

[@exoticalBecky_Miami]

Orrrr intentional irony

[@roserain7034]

They don't have a reason to lie but they also aren't telling the truth? They are just speculating. People just need to make a distinction of that.

[@DjoumyDjoums]

She meant as a whole, if your entire fanbase tells you something, chances are it's true. Your reaction is about single individuals commenting, in which case sure, you should never trust any by default.

[@ButterflyScarlet]

@@DjoumyDjoums as if mob mentality can't be wrong. As if internet groups have some special insight into your own life

[@lilubirb3211]

girl you been getting through my depression and I can't thank you enough! I share your videos with everyone I know, thanks for being you!!!!!!

[@smartyexplorer135]

This is what happened kzbin.info/www/bejne/sH2ai4SXnb5jlw

[@katcalico9142]

Big hugs love! Going through the same!

[@lilubirb3211]

@@katcalico9142 hugs right back!! Just remember you're not alone! 🤍

[@kelly-k-dub]

AGREED!!!! I struggle with depression as well. Everyday it’s a count down to noon for a good laugh with charlotte!!!! 💜

[@lilubirb3211]

@@kelly-k-dub I'm so lucky her vids drop at 9am where I am at! Good luck to you, may your depression clouds clear sooner rather than later! 🤍

[@BeakersAreCool]

I love it when Charlotte starts singing, great voice … our Potato Queen is SO talented

[@chaotic_ourple]

Messaging other people and saying you're single is ABSOLUTELY cheating. Doesn't matter if you didn't meet up in person, it still shows you'd rather be with/talk to someone else rather than your partner

[@breemapry]

Yes absolutely messaging someone like that is a form of cheating. Or at least, the intent is to cheat. Otherwise, why lie and say you’re single when you clearly are not? If you lie about that to another girl your motive is to have sex/date with this other person. Happy, faithful people wouldn’t hide their SO

[@heybuddy964]

This is what happened kzbin.info/www/bejne/sH2ai4SXnb5jlw

[@ghostface8671]

Literally, an ex of mine was messaging with his coworkers (more than one woman but it was one in particular). I obviously didn't know for a long time, I just thought they were all friends which didn't bother me at all - i have heaps of guys and girls I'm friends with at my own job. I'd even hung out with these women myself a couple of times and they were nice! And then one day one of them sent me screenshots of his messages. And all of these messages were from him telling her how jealous I was of her and hated her because of how attractive she is and I hate that he talks to her. It was so *weird* because I'd literally never gave this girl much thought at all. My ex just made up this whole story to her to try and make me seem like an awful jealous gf to him. So even though nothing actually happened between them these messages were proof of the intention. It was the most ridiculous thing I'd ever heard. Needless to say I broke up with him 😂

[@tdelioncourt1268]

@@ghostface8671 OMG a friend of mine became "the other woman" because of a similar man. He was supposedly engaged to another woman but she was depressive and dellusional, he was waiting for the right time to call the engagement off. GF is crazy and he's scared she might hurt herself if he tells her. Later after it ended, friend sends me a pic of the two married. I'm like "OMG he did marry her?" friend answers "No, it's WHEN the picture was taken you need to look at". This man was married long before he met my friend and was building this whole story in the back of his happy wife. (edit: typo)

[@ghostface8671]

@@tdelioncourt1268 Oh noo! Thats crazy. And the poor wife. I hope she ended up finding out and leaving that dude. Glad your friend got away from him too!

[@katiesalvadore7306]

Glad anxiety cleaning is an actual thing 😂 feel like a nutcase when I’m anxious and am just like I MUST DISINFECT lmao

[@laylammorais]

I am very anxious, I could do anything but cleaning, I hate it 😭

[@Kellz82-p7p]

@@laylammorais yep unfortunately im the ssme

[@mariapaz6379]

I anxiety bake. And anxiety bread is delicious

[@mi3helle707]

I do this too but also with brushing my teeth. When on edge, I'll brush my teeth like 7 times, even if I haven't eaten anything. LOOOOL

[@cobalt-snake6125]

I agree 100% about not ruling out best friends. It's sad to say but your closest friends are the ones that can disappoint you the most. Just recently my best friend (ex-friend now, obviously) who I've known and been best friends with since childhood ended up completely stabbing me in the back so to speak, and grew a completely elitist attitude out of nowhere. You think you know someone and then it turns out they are not the person you thought.

[@Cheffinlol]

Im sorry, can we just pause a moment and take a moment to acknowledge those singing PIPES?!?!? Oh. My. Gosh. Charlotte you have an amazing voice and I honestly would never get tired of listening to it. Tysm for all the hard work you put in to your videos, all of them are amazing, funny and interesting. So excited for more! 😎🥳🤩🫀

[@wolffriendinus]

Side note...you have a really nice singing voice 🙂

[@NotSorry97]

“Just messaging” is still cheating. He basically contradicted himself by saying that he likes to talk to multiple girls. What a despicable creep.

[@texas2079]

Charlotte--- You didn't just sing "Crazy!" Oh Potato Quenn, can we PLEASE get a FULL version of you singing that song?? It was beautiful and extremely hard to pull off... 😍

[@GummyBearWA]

If someone is OK with quantifying cheating to different degrees, dump them.

[@Lydia-dd9bo]

5:26 - Trust me, your biggest bullies are often times people you're very close with. I remember I made one of those thiscrush accounts back in the day. I got message after message saying horrible things about me. But the way they wrote sounded familiar. I asked my best friend/girlfriend at the time if it was her. She said no. Eventually I found out it was in fact her. Another case of friends being bullies happened to a friend of mine. Let's call her A. We were in a friend group with 4 people total (us included in that number). The two other friends added me to a group chat where they talked so much shit about A. I didn't say anything to A just yet, but I collected evidence of everything they were saying. Once I had enough, I showed it to A. She was devastated. We were all so close. My point is- bullies can be anyone. And oftentimes, your biggest bullies will end up being people you're extremely close with. I wouldn't be so quick to rule them out...

[@colleenterry5458]

I love when you break out in a song!!! You have a beautiful voice!!! Love you Charlotte!!!!

[@terrybeasley5931]

If they find the person who sent bigoted message, bet they say " It was just a joke". 😡😡😡

[@jenniferm8949]

Looks like vid was taken down 🙁

[@SALshaNoma]

@@jenniferm8949 no!! I needed to know the outcome.

[@lkayh]

You’ve heard of the “emotional affair?” That’s what messaging is. So yeah, it’s cheating.

[@theoverunderthinker]

yes. an "emotional affair" is what people use when the person did not cross any physical barriers and you still are mad that they like to talk to someone not you.

[@lkayh]

@@theoverunderthinker It’s one thing to have friends of the opposite gender. It’s another to have emotional intimacy (or verbal intimacy, e.g. phone sex) with someone who is not your spouse. THAT is an emotional affair, not just talking to someone.

[@theoverunderthinker]

@@lkayh phone sex is not an emotional affair, it is an affair. An emotional affair is when your significant other shares their emotional intimacy with someone else just not their body. Phone sex is still sex so just a regular affair. here is a definition I found: "The term emotional affair describes a type of relationship between people. The term often describes a bond between two people that mimics or matches the closeness and emotional intimacy of a romantic relationship while not being physically consummated"

[@lkayh]

@@theoverunderthinker OK.

[@LadyCoyKoi]

As a Cancer, that is even worse!!! 😳 While other zodiacs would just dumb the guy, Cancer people, we go mafia style... we go after one member of his family at a time, then the women he has been with, his dog, his cat, his goldfish, ... all of this to his knowledge, and after he is left all alone... slowly kill him. There is a reason why Cancer is enlisted as the deadliest zodiac sign in the FBIs and CIAs list.

[@kimberlyelle7979]

I got so annoyed that they posted part 1 without finishing the investigation, now I’m here all invested, trying to get the tea and trying to find out who not to trust and I’m left guessing 😩

[@adamsmoberly]

Well we know their racist and stupid as shit. Like dunno if this person doesn’t know, but they are those couple’s DNA. Like many children from mixed race families don’t always come out looking mixed. And vice versa, you could both be pale and your child comes out tan. Not even a thought about their parents and grandparents DNA passing on to them. This person is very ignorant and likely barely uses the internet…who just too lazy to look up easy to find facts. Very interested to see who it was. I also love how they were exposed by the site they posted on, like damn.

[@JeremyWS]

My attitude on cheating is: if you have to ask the question "is [insert scenario] cheating", then it is probably most likely cheating.

[@Noxa9]

"I don't have a lot of contacts...220 ppl in my conctacts" I have 13 contacts total saved what is the true definition of a lot if 220 ain't it 😂😂😂😂

[@SherriLyle80s]

Even if I caught my SO about to cheat, it's still a no-go. Just because they got caught before the deed doesn't mean they get off the hook. They were going to cheat, the intent was there, so it would be Dead On Arrival. Nope. Cheating or not, if the intent was there, it's a done deal.

[@weirdA8364]

My take on it; if you get a message from someone and they ask "are you single?" and you answer with, "yes", even if you don't do anything by saying you are single (when you aren't) you are opening a window of opportunity to cheat. Despite being in a relationship, you're lying and saying you are single so that you CAN cheat later on down the line. You might not have actively cheated... But you did open that window of opportunity. Which means you're planning to cheat, darling, it's still a dick move. :v

[@aaronwalcott513]

I think you meant to say "and you say 'yes'."

[@weirdA8364]

@@aaronwalcott513 Cheers for that catch. xD

[@marieknight9385]

I’m also saying don’t cross out the “best friends” because sometimes our closest and oldest most unexpected people will have the worst things to say behind your back or behind some façade like a fake social media account

[@CoconaAmaya]

@@heybuddy964 What happened?! The video is gone!!!!

[@koriandrstarfire9514]

This may help some people and it may not. Cheating is whatever you and your partner classify as cheating. For example my fiance and I have decided that if I were to go to a strip club by myself or with friends and not bring him with its cheating and same with him vice versa in the situation, however if we were to go together it's not cheating. Sitting down and setting the guidelines for your relationship is what is going to make your relationship stronger. If one partner finds something to be cheating and the other doesn't it can and will cause issues and most likely break ups. That being said I'm not saying that if you go diddily somebody else and you and partner are okay with it that its cheating. Cheating is not something that anyone else should have a say in in your relationship because if they aren't your partner they dont get to make those guidelines. I had a friend tell me that I was cheating on my fiance because I was looking at someone's profile on instagram. Literally just looking and scrolling through their posts when she freaked out and told me to stop because I was cheating. After I laughed and told her no, my fiance and i dont see that as cheating i had to explain to her what was and wasn't cheating in my relationship. My friend had grown up thinking that if you look or even speak to the opposite gender then your a cheater. It's something I find kinda funny, because some of the nicest people I've ever met are male but I'm not sexually attracted to, they're just friends/acquaintances. My fiance himself has a girl best friend but he has made it very apparent that he isn't interested in her. Heck she has a boyfriend but we are all friends. It takes maturity in your relationship to be able to feel secure and sit down and talk to your partner about these things. Nowadays everyone on the internet wants to label everything they see as a toxic relationship or as cheating. Just remember that cheating is what you and your partner decide what it is and not everyone and their dog.

[@xASTROx_edits]

Zzzzz I'm so sorry ....zzzzzz....ahh...zzzz ....I was struggling to fall asleep rn but this made me fall asleep by the time I got to the 9282736392928272992828272829282872727 paragraph!!😃😃 Thank you for helping me sleep !! But also I'm a bit confused on what you said....can you explain further and upload it tmr so if I'm struggling to sleep I can come back here??😀😀 Ty!!

[@koriandrstarfire9514]

@@xASTROx_edits or you can fuck off. That works wonders too 😊

[@whatteamwildcats4033]

@@xASTROx_edits this was so needlessly mean, and for what? What did you gain from this???

[@seeexy]

​@@xASTROx_edits u r so 🔥 lit on hahahhahahah ur so right tho no doubt 😂😂 i w u

[@seeexy]

​@@whatteamwildcats4033 shut up,. they're being real u gtfurslelf haha

[@Heyyy630]

11:38. Girl. Go record A song or something because all I know is that it WILL blow up with that kind of voice. Damn

[@dawnchesbro4189]

Hard disagree on signing up "the other woman" for Mormon visits!! It's highly likely she had no idea she was the other woman! Let's not punish unaware partners in infidelity. Ditch the ballsack of a BF, don't make an innocent woman miserable for his actions.

[@irenemaiden3204]

I agree. NEVER rule out the best friend. I ruled mine out and it turned out that she slept with my daughter's father while I was working.

[@davidguidry657]

That’s horrible! I’m so sorry you had to deal with that! I hope you got rid of both of them.

[@irenemaiden3204]

Oh I did! I cut the 'corners' of every. single. fitted sheet. in the house on my way out too. I thought about super gluing his teeth together but no one's ever gone to jail for sheets to my knowledge...

[@queenwhatever5217]

@@irenemaiden3204 I’m sorry u went through that but I gotta say what u did was a very creative and hilarious form of revenge

[@Weeeewriter]

8 years ago, I met this guy from Vancouver named Tony. We talked for a long time, but never ended up meeting in person. He claimed to be busy and all that nonsense. We live in the same province, and found out years later, he was still married and he was after me all that time. Scary thing is, his wife and I resemble each other. What a dirt bag and a liar. Glad I found out how he really was, before anything happened.

[@tandzilebhembe1255]

Mans had a type yikes

[@deepwaters7242]

That long messy dude sounds exactly like a guy I dealt with a few months ago..... honestly wondering if this is him. Word for word in spots ...... 🤨😬

[@AmandaVieiraMamaesouCult]

@@thomasjoseph5876 wow, that's so sad, I'm Sorry for your loss.

[@Weeeewriter]

@@deepwaters7242 Is he Croatian?

[@Weeeewriter]

@@crystalh450 I'm glad you didn't meet him in person either. That could have been messy.

[@DonnaTheDogGroomer]

Yes! More of these videos, because it saves me time. I go down the rabbit hole when I see drama and sometimes, I don’t get closure. Thank you!

[@jessicadriscoll4948]

Whether or not it's considered cheating, it's all disrespectful. And you shouldn't be with someone who doesn't respect you, or the sanctity of what you have with them.

[@theshopaholic1997]

My ex would openly flirt with one of his female friends and he never told her to her face that he was dating someone until a mutual friend reached out to her to say that he was in a relationship. I told my ex that I didn't feel comfortable with how he talked to her and I wanted him to stop, but he never did. He'd gaslight me into just not talking about it and ignoring what he was doing. Turned out he treated the female friend BETTER than he treated me and still continues to do so, even after we broke up. He tells her he loves her, he misses her whenever she's asleep, tells her everything - he calls her his best friend but I completely think he's been in love with her for a long time and he's never acted upon it because she's in a relationship with someone else.

[@jodie3950]

That sounds exactly like my ex. When i confronted him about why he never told his "friend" that he has a girlfriend, he replied with "what am I supposed to do introduce myself with 'im in a relationship'?"

[@Reubonics]

@@jodie3950 Yes, he is supposed to do that. If his relationship meant anything to him, he would be happy to do so.

[@SaraHinata]

@@jodie3950 he doesn't know people do that? 😂 Just today I met with a former classmate and the first thing I did was introduce my husband haha

[@PhyllisGlassup2TheBrim]

"He'd gaslight me into just not talking about it and ignoring what he was doing." *Nonsense*! *He* didn't do anything to stop you talking about it. At least be honest with yourself girl. You loved him and chose to pretend it wasn't happening as it was less painful than losing him. " he treated the female friend BETTER than he treated me " Presumably because she marked his cards for him and told him she would kick his arse to the kerb if he misbehaved, but you tolerated it.

[@patriciaann850]

@@PhyllisGlassup2TheBrim You’re literally victim blaming rn. The psychology behind emotional abuse is no different than physical abuse. That’s like telling a woman whose being beaten that she’s choosing to stay… which in 2022 we all know is wrong. BIG EW @ YOU!

[@jenjopdx]

I love it when you sing to us. You have a beautiful voice. Messaging someone of the opposite sex is cheating if there is any flirting involved, and especially if you say you are single when you are not.

[@missmagpii]

I think having an emotional affair with someone is worse and 100% cheating. I forgave my man once for entertaining someone and pretending I don't exist, unfollowed me on social media to keep up with his lie and telling her he's single and he loved her. She lived hours away and they never met with eachother. They played xbox together and voice chatted with eachother infront of my face. She messaged me and that's how I found out. Couldn't afford to live alone, so had to let it go and move past it. You get crazy though, and always look to see who they're messaging and stuff after. They look outside the relationship for an ego boost, yet can't handle the bare minimum effort for the relationship they already have.

[@queenwhatever5217]

Ummm sis that’s a lot to forgive someone for. It sounds like you’re lying to yourself because the logistics of leaving the relationship are too hard. Hope he’s not still your man

[@apostlemary7]

Honey sleeping at the shelter gotta be better than with that dog are you keeding

[@h.sanasputri1148]

Actually you can just be out of the relationship and suggest that you guys stay as housemates only. Though I don't rec this if you're the type easily persuaded out of your pants; he's gonna treat you like a free wh*re then. Seriously, just leave your relationship if you're still together.

[@Helo1923]

10:38 she should have canceled her way there without telling him so he's stuck

[@yeonmirae7816]

I don't understand why the person who is cheated on just take revenge on the other person and not their partner. Like, most of the time, the third person does not even know they are fooled and are also being cheated on, no matter who was there first. Put the blame where it belongs.

[@keishal4930]

Ok so I'm catching myself doing Charlotte's accents at random times😆 gotta love her!

[@caljones]

I don’t actually speak with the accents (as far as I know) but I definitely hear it in my head, especially with “the audacity!”

[@boblablablaw6677]

I played the part over about a dozen times just to hear you sing Charlotte. When is the album coming out??? Love your singing!!

[@mike_max]

you beat me by a couple of minutes, bro. keep playing the singing part too. she does has a nice voice

[@boblablablaw6677]

@@mike_maxsorry 'bout that. I'm not surprised that Charlotte is that talented, Been following her since IO days. Im only surprised she isn't a major Hollywood tallent by now.

[@chromesthesia]

Yes she sings so well

[@amandaeskew415]

Yay...right on time. Fucking needed this today. ❤️ love the drama and the laughs! Thank you for always coming through with the good stuff

[@smartyexplorer135]

This is what happened. kzbin.info/www/bejne/sH2ai4SXnb5jlw

[@milliehardy-sims1763]

Sidebar but just cacked myself because this lady asking Siri triggered my Siri and he spoke to me and I’m home alone and had a heart attack 😂 5:04

[@ThePandaCam555]

8:34 lmao I effing love the faces and little noises you make.. 😂😂❤❤

[@luizamarcondes]

for me cheating is everything that they do behind their partner’s back, if they don’t think it’s cheating, they wouldn’t be trying to hide it

[@madisonbartkowiak9681]

Charlottes singing seriously cures everything

[@rebeccafons]

Can we just hold up for a sec and comment on Charlotte's singing voice? Simply heavenly! Oh, darling, please sing more ♥

[@lt530]

I know you already know this 😆, but your singing voice is just so freaking lovely. When you sing you're incredibly clear, very smooth, and your modulations are amazing.

[@jazmynduckworth977]

you would make a great jazz singer your voice is amazing! with comedy lyrics!

[@BryanaTV]

First one just makes you think. We all think we know our person well enough to completely ignore reality and be bold enough to come out online and speak on it. like ppl really out here lying so well.. we cant even trust ourself after being with them. 😪

[@maidofthemisty]

It's not the literal act of cheating, but it is exhibiting non-committal behaviour. So the person has to then come to the decision whether to be or not to be with them. My ex best friend loved the chase, she didn't care for the act of cheating but loved the whole build up to it. She lost the love of her life because of this behaviour and then dated and successfully cheated on the man she now calls her husband.

[@b.m.w.523]

This was some good Internet sleuthing! It's not as easy to hide behind a keyboard as trolls may think.

[@smartyexplorer135]

This is what happened. kzbin.info/www/bejne/sH2ai4SXnb5jlw

[@ashleyt6840]

@@smartyexplorer135 it says video not there

[@Jazzatic2011]

Firstly your hair is on fire with that wave! As a wavy girl I know it’s hard to get the perfect shape some days. Secondly I’ve never heard someone sing that old country tune crazy so well before! Loved it

[@InsertNameHere0369]

Your editors freaking kill it every time. Props to them, they’re the real hero’s.

[@bodhiswayze1892]

Charlotte + TikTok = Petty greatness! 🥰

[@faerie.gor3]

Honestly, it's up to each individual relationship to decide on boundaries and what's considered or not considered to be cheating. In my personal opinion flirting is cheating, talking to a girl who is flirting or quite obviously wants you in some way or other is just disrespectful. My boyfriend and I play it safe and steer clear of anyone who might have those kind of intentions.

[@monstermcboo7282]

You guys steer clear of that because you have respect for each other and the relationship. When people say, “if your relationship is strong, it can withstand flirtation,” they’re immature.

[@Fragmented_Mask]

I am going to hard disagree on the "don't go on any nights out without your SO to prevent you cheating". I have had boyfriends before who didn't like the same music as me, so I'd go out clubbing with my friends without them to clubs that played music I liked. I'd go to gigs without them. I'd meet my friends in bars, because that's where we wanted to hang out. At no point was there ever anything close to infidelity despite all of this. I wasn't at greater risk of cheating, and that is down to me being who I am as a person. The location isn't as important as you are making it out to be. As for not wanting to spend all my time with a SO, you can love someone while still having your own interests, your own friends, your own hobbies etc. Personally, I think it's healthy for there to be some space in relationships for individual pursuits, otherwise your whole identity becomes tied in to one other person. I wouldn't want to be in a relationship that was so totally codependent. If that works for you then that is great, but that doesn't work for every relationship and it shouldn't be expected of every relationship..

[@Fragmented_Mask]

When the crux of your argument is "Why would anyone want to spend time with friends and family, and not devote 100% of their free time to one other person" it just sounds a bit mad...

[@Blullaby]

@@thomasjoseph5876 I'm sorry to say Thomas, but no, there's no butthurtness in replying to your own ASSumptions about people that want to spend some of their waking moments with their friends/family or by themselves. Living and breathing through your partner/ spouse is NOT a universal requirement for having found "the one" or "the right person": this is only YOUR experience of what having found the one means. But this has nothing to do with faithfulness or unfaithfulness... And yet, nobody is asking you to change to fit our norms, so we'd expect to be extended the same courtesy, thank you very much. It feels wildly condescending to read you talk about people living different lives than you as somehow being in the wrong...? And it makes it very hard to be supportive of your position or even find you anything but snooty and disagreeable, even if it's most likely not your intention...

[@bevalexander5897]

I was cheated on by a man I loved and trusted. 32 YEARS AGO!!!! It still causes me pain when I think of him, which, thank God, isn’t every day anymore. Everyone of my relationships since then has failed, because I tried to make them pay for what he did to me. Please don’t cheat. Just end the relationship because if you feel the need to be with someone else, your relationship is already over.

[@tandzilebhembe1255]

I've been cheated on too but I don't think that innocent people deserve to suffer because of that one person I still tried I almost gave up but it worked out abd I found somebody but naturally I don't like men because all that trauma but hey some are worth it.

[@kayoss8787]

What a beautiful singing voice …seriously how many talents can Charlotte possess 🥰🤩🤗

[@AngelJuliet]

Mixed children are beautiful and I will always stand up for interracial relationships and children

[@dinasilva9263]

Charlotte's Channel is perfect. Funny, we always learn something different and Charlotte's reactions are amazing. She deserves even more success. ❤️

[@holdyourfire74]

I think if you're messaging someone content that you would not want your significant other seeing, it is cheating. Claiming you're single when you're in a relationship is also cheating. Flirting is a little fuzzier. It can be harmless, but can also lead to misunderstandings whether it's with the person you're flirting with or your SO.

[@kristenswanepoel1449]

Okay. This is an honest question. I love playing video games on my phone. Like fighting games,you know those games where you read,games that you have to look after animals etc. Now everytime when someone comes to me. I go out of my apps because 1. I value my privacy 2. I don't like people who judge 3. I know for a fact if people see I like playing games that they will judge. I hope my future partner will understand this. And not be one of those who feel entitled to know my passwords. I wouldn't mind them looking through my phone. But they won't be messing on it that's for sure. I value my privacy. Not just on social media,but in real life too. So is this cheating? Honest question. If the person is sending "things" and lying about their relationship status then that is cheating in my eyes.

[@austrinemuniz7797]

So no one is gonna talk about how GOOD Charlotte sang ?!?! OMG that voice is SO BEAUTIFUL

[@AshlieMaddox]

Char’s singing voice is so beautiful! Love when she busts out on songs!! 💐

[@stxrryd]

This whole “is it cheating or not” needs to stop. You shouldn’t look for a specific excuse to break up with a liar/toxic person.

[@makins_324]

I love Charlotte so much. She is one of the only people i can watch for a long time and not get tired of her voice, Also loved the video, you always seem to make me have a better day!

[@davidguidry657]

Right?! Like, I could listen to her read the phone book, a menu, an instruction manual for electronics, a medical journal, or the ingredients to shampoo! I absolutely love it when she uses her ASMR voice! I melt. 🫠

[@eeriekalle3856]

I would love to see more of this content please. I am committed to hear how these and other stories pan out.

[@davidguidry657]

We got treated to a Miss Charlotte serenade!!!!! Yay! Love those! Still waiting for her album to drop. Beauty, brains, heart, compassion, wit, and oodles of talent! What’s not to like?!

[@gingermunchkin6177]

Her voice though... Charlotte!!! You angel!!!!

[@coralt5541]

"I don't have a lot of contacts" *1 min later* "okay so I have 189 suspects" either I'm more antisocial than I thought, or this girl has a wild definition of "a lot" 😭

[@cheermomcoach]

Yeah!! You make my whole day!!! Love ya! Also being a female who was concerned that my SO was cheating.. ya definitely turn into a detective!! Long story short.. yup..

[@smartyexplorer135]

This is what happened. kzbin.info/www/bejne/sH2ai4SXnb5jlw

[@Kaha-ow1xt]

Charlotte, as always your singing is spectacular. Thanks for the daily laughs too. I don't use social media so I consider you my guide to it all 🙂

[@coresnap]

the second you're not "in" the relationship anymore mentally, anything you do without the other person knowing, and/or keeping from them, is cheating. Everyone says you have to have sex for it to 'REALLY' be considered cheating. lmao Like others have said, the second they don't want me anymore, I'm gone. There's no trusting that person ever again.

[@tinzzz_7]

that little snipplet of singing was beautiful ~ like actually❣️ I want a full version 😂

[@emmabaylis]

That girl doing a full investigation into who commented that disgusting comment was amazing! They say girls are the best investigators when pushed , they are !

[@frodoamadeusgobel9749]

Charlott you have such a beautiful voice. You should do singing again. Really.

[@frodoamadeusgobel9749]

@@sidemanshorts3532 the video is not accessible

[@kevingallagher5242]

the girl said she doesnt have many contacts, then said she has 202. Girl, 202 ppl is CRAZY HIGH number of contacts lol. out of touch much?

[@kevingallagher5242]

@@mostamazing4298 idk what you're talking about. Lol.

[@aliioana8586]

@@kevingallagher5242 they’re commenting the same thing on every comment🙄

[@kevingallagher5242]

Any other comments are irrelevant to mine lol. I simply mentioned 202 contacts Is a lot of people. So again, what are you talking about, In relation to MY comment.

[@platitudestern5149]

Ok, everyone is different but, to me cheating constitutes anything you wouldn't do or say IN FRONT of your significant other(OR anything that you'd have to hide from your partner). An affair can be emotional too, not JUST physical. If your dating, it's an important conversation that you should have with your significant other. Because someone might be very flirtatious, and that COULD be consider cheating, or someone might be ok, with having a more "open" relationship. With kissing/ hugging being acceptable. Either way, have the talk, you need to know eachother boundaries, & how eachother feel.(think a club fling without sex, or pornagraphy too some people consider that being unfaithful) Also, relationship boundaries, should be fair/equal. If you're open to kissing other people within a relationship, you should be OK with your partner being open to kissing others too. It just keep things fair & balanced.

[@llamasugar5478]

I’m glad you added to that first sentence! I was just starting to feel guilty about that candy bar I ate in the car because I didn’t want to share . . .

[@platitudestern5149]

@@llamasugar5478 🤣😂I feel you there!! I ate almost an entire family sized bag of "fun sized snickers" 😅 it had been a bad day.. & no... I'm not going to tell my husband about it, nor will I show him the aftermath.. ( yes, I hid the wrappers in the bottom of the trash bag🙃😉) but even IF he had found out or I told him, he would've been like, " You alright?" SO if anyone is reading this, and YOU CANT tell your partner about what your eating.. without shame.. You're probably in an unhealthy relationship.

[@llamasugar5478]

Partners can learn. My husband has slowly come to understand some of the issues I have around food and is very supportive. He has slowed my roll (or should I say “my Swiss roll”?) when I’m about to eat something that could be a problem later. I’ve told him, “I may not appreciate it at the moment, even get a little spicy, but in the end I’ll be thankful for you.”

[@platitudestern5149]

@@llamasugar5478 😍🥰🤩 Aw, now see..🥲 that's the romance novel we didn't know we needed. ❤You both have had the conversation. That's all it takes!!! I love hearing, random stories of people, with partners who just.. understand them on a different level. It's hard to get there sometimes though, 😕 but with patience, a little love, and some understanding, it's just the sweetest thing!! Not that anyone one person or couple is perfect, but it's just so amazing how two people can come together & really become one unit. 😍

[@llamasugar5478]

@@platitudestern5149 🥲 Now I’m a little verklempt myself! You are very kind. ☺️

[@KaiIwai]

Why is no one talking about how amazing Charlotte's voice is?! I want more!

[@killian_reid]

"Is it cheating if..." is always going to be specific to the people involved. Cheating is breaking the agreed-upon rules of the relationship. For one couple flirting with someone online could be cheating while for another couple sex with other people is fine.