When Women Say The Quiet Part Out Loud

[@alexandergrace5350]

In the full video I talk about the depressing shortcut of religion and travelling overseas. Watch here: www.patreon.com/posts/99350175?

[@jacobmoonlight5793]

This for me ?

[@keithgraham9547]

For all you young guys, THIS video hits on the single most important thing you'll ever decide. You must choose a woman wisely. It's the difference between life being great, and constant upheaval in your life every day. Think about that real hard.

[@PlayingDownUnder]

@@keithgraham9547 Oh the regrets....

[@Sergio_Loureiro]

In the 4. point, I have to make some observations: 1. One of the reasons why you need more income, is people have become more superficial. Needless to say, women want to get clothes and shoes more expensive than other women (or gear which shows more of their skin or shape than other women); men want premium cars; both men and women want the latest flagship phone, and couples want to buy houses they can not afford. There is much "Living for the appearances" in modern society. Narcissism is perhaps at its highest level in history. 2. I think both men and women should have a job and bring money to table. And for a reason you may not thought about. Which is: imagine if a severe event hits one of the elements of the couple. Needless to say, the one who is not working will have more difficulty entering the job market, if needed be. 3. This is a bit too extreme, and I do not like the idea of seeing women as dishwashing machines. Every man needs to learn at least a bit about how to do it. When I finished my degree, I had to move to a place a bit far from where my mother was. And I had to learn things about cleaning a house and laundry washing, and I wish I knew about them before.

[@ThomasMgtow-jq4fb]

Help support mandatory DNA testing and stop paternity fraud. It is a basic human right to know if a child is or is not yours. Help true fathers find their children.

[@The-You-Doober]

Modern women aren’t looking for a relationship, they are looking for a lifestyle.

[@associatealpha1166]

they want weddings when they hit 30-32 yrs old and have been ran thru but do not want to be wives.

[@The-You-Doober]

@@associatealpha1166 One even better, when they get to 50, they are looking for a retirement plan after screwing off their whole lives.

[@LearnCompositionOnline]

❤

[@spacecandygames7575]

That’s the best way to put it. They look at all the memes, videos, movies, etc and want that with a blank man.

[@GenericMedusa99]

agreed they just want a rich lifestyle just look at their pictures they dont want to survive with a guy they want to survive over a guy lmao xD

[@patrickols]

It’s hilarious to me to hear mid level women (5-6) talking down to men below top level (8+) and calling them ugly when these women cover themselves in make up and video filters. The mental gymnastics they go with is amazing 😊

[@bobblacka918]

These same women are terrified to go out of their houses without completely hiding their faces under a pile of makeup.

[@chitownbob9714]

One Wet Wipe destroys the illusion.

[@MortuusMachina]

Well…they pretty much can be this delusional because of demographics. Men already outnumber women in the 18-35 age bracket, and this gets even more brutal when you look at the single rates in this age range - 63% of single men vs 32% of single women. So they have several orders of magnitude more social capital than men do. so they can behave this way and there’s no real social consequences.

[@jurassicthunder]

I ALWAYS try to imagine them without make up and it's always so funny bc their confidence and ego trip comes from their clown make up 😂

[@SystematicMechanic]

Imagine having a kid with one and because they got plastic surgery the kid doesn't like her.

[@GiopoloMtl]

About the woman that says to not be afraid, approach, take a chance, she makes me laugh so hard. Women tell men to grow a pair, but turns out that one of the main reasons women don't approach is because they're terrified of being rejected.

[@Clark_Kent_ZA]

Also she doesn't want any man to approach her. She wants the right man to approach her.

[@loganblackwood2922]

​@@Clark_Kent_ZA Your name is quite fitting because they don't want Clark Kent to approach them, just Superman.

[@brotherowl]

You ARE going to be rejected. And it's such a played-out racket, anyway. Men can't be bothered. She is not even speaking to 99% of men in the first place.

[@Greg-ox6ci]

Whamen always projecting

[@allseeingotto2912]

She wants the validation and the power to reject

[@rajakghosh6602]

If the guy is hot she will rationalize with herself with all the apparent potential redflags but if she thinks the guy is her safe choice she will make him jump through hoops.

[@Elementalism]

Of course. Their hypergamy kicks in.

[@williambourque926]

100% truth

[@Zathren]

It's wild isn't it? And women say that men are the ones who only care about physical appearance.

[@marriagecausesdivorce7540]

This is facts 💯. If the guy is good looking he gets a discount. If the guy is ugly he needs to over compensate in other areas. Its basic evolutionary maths.

[@inconnu4961]

@@marriagecausesdivorce7540If the guy is mid, he needs to over-compensate. If the poor guy is UGLY, he is SOOL (Sh*t Out Of Luck)! Ask me how i know! LOL

[@oddbod4442]

The woman who divorces you is not the woman you married. They change. And there is an entire society telling her she can do better. A compatible woman who will stay that way is just another unicorn.

[@justathinker8669]

You are saying what nobody else is talking about. Very important point.

[@canchero724]

And society isn't going to change in our lifetimes. Women, being more conformist to society's whims, are going to chase the best lifestyle until they hit menopause. It's insanity.

[@mattdidley9144]

Right, my ex had all the qualities of a good woman... 20 some years later, she didn't.

[@healthymindhappierlife5089]

Yes, but it is your job to maintain frame, keep yourself attractive, and manage the relationship so things dont slide in the first place.

[@jurassicthunder]

sex is the glue for marriage. that women control.

[@willclouded]

I have lost faith in women all together.

[@andrewpinkham9904]

Bingo.

[@jurassicthunder]

it might be dramatic but if this keeps happening, west is doomed.

[@ararune3734]

@@jurassicthunder No it isn't. There are Filipina women, get your passports ready bro, shop abroad, bring them home. There's no need to be dramatic guys, you think women hold all the cards, but actually they don't. The Filipina woman will look at the average western man like he's a king, he's the prize. Obviously not just Filipina, I say that as an example of what I see. Mate I had some distant family member who was like 70 and he brought a 20yo Filipina woman and they had a kid lol. We're men, don't fall for the trap that women hold the power, no they don't, they just want you to believe it.

[@ararune3734]

@@jurassicthunder I remember reading a dramatic article from Swedish news that there's a huge rise in Swedish men marrying Thai women, that something should be done about it. I laughed so hard, suddenly they're not so welcoming and tolerant when women become afraid they're being replaced. Replace them, shop abroad.

[@jurassicthunder]

​@@ararune3734I know that they don't. we are the backbone of society. I understand the urge to get trad wifes abroad even though I wouldn't suggest you bring them back to the west since they'll be brainwashed and on top of that we are mixing cultures, it usually doesn't work well (i.e illegal immigrants). It's like our ancestors would be so disappointed by our women and men simply bc we don't like eachother apart from everything terrible.

[@MrReubenTishkoff]

Looks and height are the difference between flirting and harassment.

[@il9001]

But let's be honest, most men will be upset as well if they got messages only from women they consider ugly. I've heard some men around me saying angrily "When I see the kind of women who like me on the dating app I currently use, I can not understand it, I deserve much better!". Even one colleague told us one day there was a girl at the gym who, according to him, did her exercises on the machine next to his just to excite him... it was all in his mind because the girl was hot and he was attracted to her. The girl was just doing her workout without looking at him. And the irony is, when an overweight girl also used the machine next to him, he did not think for once she came on purpose to excite him!

[@jurassicthunder]

​@@il9001i understand but you have to be honest, we just want a cute girl, she doesn't have to be a supermodel. and the things we want are fixable like weight, temperament, outfit etc. unlike whamen who strictly go for genetics like 6 feet height, 6 inch stick, sharp jawline etc.

[@il9001]

@@jurassicthunder Yes, I agree most men just want a cute girl and not the supermodel. Regarding the girls who want the 6-feet tall guy, 6 figures and so on, they are superficial girls and we tend to think that's the majority because we see it everywhere on social media but that's not true. Although I don't know for America because I don't live there but in Europe.

[@forgottenfuryan]

​@@il9001 Then why are these guys still single? You're here doing damage control for selfish reasons and it's very obvious.

[@il9001]

@@forgottenfuryan They are still singles because they focus more on the beauty rather than the personality of the girls. And I don't get your comment about "selfish reasons", develop further.

[@michaellombardi5831]

I gotta disagree, every woman I met was masculine AF by choice, they weren't forced into it. Not to mention the vast majority see being a stay at home wife as " slavery" . Far as I see they only regret their choices after its already way too late. Most no longer possess motherly instincts at all and refuse to sacrifice or give up anything for their children to have a better life, no animal can prosper when parents refuse to sacrifice for their own children.

[@amylee6038]

Immigrating here we are struck by how anti-children American women are, and how they fake what they think is masculinity. Being loud, combative, selfish, and morphing into victimhood at every opportunity is not masculine. And yes, I got a tremendous amount of shaming, ridicule, and guilt-tripping for being a stay at home slave. The kids are on full scholarships to college now and I am working full time. Everything they insisted was completely false. It was EASY to get a job and career at 35. But let's just see them land a husband like mine at 35.

[@fm2dmax]

That's because they've met so many women telling them what a mistake it is to make themselves dependent on a man who's not even worthy of himself much less taking care of another. So now they swing to the other extreme as they try to find a way to agency and thriving.

[@fixerrr98]

So it seems human population gonna crumble in this century, Right?

[@amylee6038]

My comment disappeared because KZbin does not want to hear from traditional wives and mothers.

[@bhalzymarete]

@@fixerrr98 give or take a decade (maybe), but yes.

[@tomyoung8563]

Supporting a middle class lifestyle isn’t enough for most women. They can do that for themselves It’s not about economic security. It’s about them wanting a luxury lifestyle where they do nothing but shop at high end stores and eat in Michelin rated restaurants

[@jerrychubb6168]

The middle class lifestyle really doesn't exist anymore, imho. You are either struggling or not in this day and age.

[@mba2ceo]

all slores

[@djangomarine6658]

​@@jerrychubb6168Are you saying that if you're not struggling, you're upper class? Asking for a friend.😂

[@delm5668]

@@djangomarine6658 struggling i.e you can quit youur job tmr and be set for life, "won the rat race"

[@SystematicMechanic]

A lot of these girls are in their 20's, don't know jack sht about life and post cringe tik tok videos. But lets give them attention.

[@nigelchew1890]

The one cheering her abortion is just demonstrating a serious amount of copium, she weeps inside and will never heal eventually becoming a soulless shell.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

I've never met one who got one who didn't end up either messed up in the head, horribly overweight or most commonly both. That alcohol will destroy her endocrine system, her thyroid is screwed.

[@ts25679]

You mean she's not already?

[@GeneralProfessor]

They'd do well to read Crime and Punishment. No amount of rationalization, valid or otherwise, can silence a guilty conscience. Maybe they can temporarily bury it but that's an even bigger mistake, because all that is buried is destined to grow in power before it inevitably explodes back onto the surface.

[@kingtigerbooks1162]

In heaven the woman meets a handsome young man or beautiful young woman who then ghosts them. Then the good lord explains that that was the fetus they aborted. Prove me wrong.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

@kingtigerbooks1162 yes, but in hell.

[@videochemist]

1) Don't think about finding your future wife until you hit 30. 2) Aim for a 10 year age gap (younger woman). 3) F the haters. t. Happily married, pair bonded man.

[@deyahdn3]

It is one thing to survive in an unjust world, but maybe we shouldn't make things worse. Working hard enough can land you a wife at 25yo. That would be ideal too, if you ask me. I don't mind the age gap you suggested.

[@OfficialKoven]

I agree if you are past a certain age in your twenties as man. But if you were to figure out all this stuff earlier, try to get it right earlier. I am turning 29 now, so I will inevitably have to follow the strategy you suggest, but if I could turn back time, I would have done a lot of things different in my early twenties.

[@ararune3734]

@@OfficialKoven And you would've realised even with all this knowledge, it doesn't work like that. We all think of turning back time with all the knowledge we gained. No need, there are countless young women abroad who will be over the moon about you, just by default you will be way higher value than most men in their countries. This isn't even new, my dad is 69, ask him, even back then, men would bring women from abroad. We are not learning the lessons of our ancestors.

[@bauregard2171]

As a 30 yr old man, most 20 yr old women sound like children. If for some reason you don't care about personality good luck finding one that doesn't want to experience her party years.

[@ararune3734]

@@bauregard2171Hmm it's not that hard to find women who don't like to party, there are plenty of asocial women who just sleep, eat and poop. The issue is they're still unreasonable with their standards.

[@magefixler885]

Moved from USA to Asia, it's the best thing I ever did for myself. Don't understand exactly what happened to American women but they became shallow, trite, transactional and not a lot of fun. Learn a foreign language and move, it sound more daunting than it is.

[@aarongriff1]

Where in Asia do you recommend?

[@pentrubarbati]

moving to thailand and phillipines and giving your girlfriend 500 usd per month or paying for evrything is not dating is prostitution is just cheaper then the west

[@dizzzzzzler]

Feminism happened.

[@deleted01]

Your children will be Asian though

[@magefixler885]

Vietnam or Indonesia. Both better both more inexpensive.

[@spacecandygames7575]

The saddest thing is, they justify making it so hard to get them. Once you’re in a relationship they justify cheating or atleast talking to other people. Then once yall break up she gaslight you and belittles you.

[@mba2ceo]

slores will be slores !!!

[@dat868]

When women cheat they blame the guy and say HE forced them to do it. There's almost no exception to this.

[@7ebr830]

Pause at 0:32 and look at her eyes. Tell me you don't see the crazy coming through.

[@undeadkhalid6359]

😂😂

[@righthandwolf306]

​@@undeadkhalid6359The visual equivalent of the following message: *_Ladies and gentlemen, this is the Captain speaking. The next sound you hear will be the bomb exploding in the cockpit. Thank you once again for choosing Southwest Airlines for your travel needs._*

[@JeromeProductions]

Yup😂

[@jurassicthunder]

if you can see the white above her pupils then it's game over. you're in a ride for the crazy town.

[@gabem6863]

Yeah, its disturbing

[@allseeingotto2912]

We have fallen so far from the 1960s , it’s like another world .

[@Okunniger_Volker]

Not even just since the 1960s, but even 2000.

[@allseeingotto2912]

@@Okunniger_VolkerYep.

[@jurassicthunder]

not even 2000s it's way different than 2010s and 2020s

[@Okunniger_Volker]

@jurassicthunder that's true, now that you say that 2010 feels like such a long time ago. It's so easy to go from a mediocre society to one that's absolute trash, but very hard to reverse that.

[@PhonoDirect]

@@Okunniger_Volker2019 feels like another century now.

[@michaelrivard4879]

I am 6 ft 4 in man n considered me to be very attractive, they say I look a lot like Antonio Banderas. Anyway I was always humble and I still am important things to note is that most of the women that hit on me were married. Or they were in some kind of relationship. If a woman is tingling down there she doesn't give a damn about her relationships

[@Boddah.]

I'm going to assume you meant to say you're a 6'4 man.

[@Noqqin]

If you engaged with those women that makes you almost as morally reprehensible.

[@michaelrivard4879]

@@Noqqin as you can imagine most of them did not tell me the truth. I would usually find out later. Women are very deceptive creatures

[@michaelrivard4879]

@@Boddah. Thank you I will edit that right away

[@dat868]

It's called gina tingles.

[@rrangel1968]

If a Woman lands a Hot guy Chad, that perception will wear off eventually. She will then think “well if I got him, what else better out there can I get?”

[@davestuddert4392]

True. It also goes for wahmen. Remember the wise man who said: "No matter how good looking she is, there's a man out there who's fed up with her $hit!"

[@joelfenner]

This right here. This is 100% of the problem. It's never enough.

[@breckenridgelong7692]

I was about to comment a similar thing about height. I'm a tall guy and it definitely helps in getting attention from women, especially tall women, but it's never good enough. Women are always going to move the goalposts on you and make you jump through their hoops because it's not only about vanity and status but it's also a form of power and control.

[@hawleygriffin1800]

"I know men who are 20 years into a relationship and are sweating it out because they chose the wrong woman." They didn't have any options. He didn't have a pool of 50 women to choose from because out of that pool of 50 woman, there was only one who was willing to give him the time of day, and that woman, wasn't capable of making his life better. She was going to be a cost, but it was the only option he had. This is where I got lucky. I didn't even have THAT option, and while it was depressing and hard at the time, I see myself in a much better boat now than my buddies at the gym who are miserable or divorced from their ONE option and she's bleeding them dry.

[@breckenridgelong7692]

I know a guy who married the first girl to do anything with him sexually and of course she is a monster. It happens to far too many good men.

[@proosee]

For thousandth time: there is no consequence for women to choose poorly - if not abortion then government welfare and social programs, absolutely no social stigma if you are single mother because you had ONS. That would be outrageous even 50-60 years ago.

[@Pushing_Pixels]

There's more stigma now around welfare, and particularly single mothers on welfare, than there was 50-60 years ago. Most single mothers were either ditched by the father of their children, were widowed, or had to leave for their own safety back then, and it was less common for women to work, so people mostly accepted that they needed help. Also, the welfare was seen as being as much for the kids as it was for the woman.

[@KenshinPhoenix]

I'm 6'2, 6 figure income, and invisible. I stopped caring or paying any attention to women years ago. They are all invisible to me now lol.

[@charthers8903]

Everyone knows to avoid the single mothers but nobody talks about the 32+ single girl - they have serious problems

[@carlosorellana_1986]

I prefer a single mother out from a longlasting relationship than a single woman age 30+ years without a longlasting relationship ever. I'm a single father from a 12+ years relationship.

[@demon0r]

You know, I could persevere as 38yo, 5'7ft atheist who doesn't like to party, but what for? :D When you discover true nature of most women, you begin to really dislike them ;) Hobbys and activities are a saving grace, keep being strong guys :)

[@ararune3734]

Damn dude, that's me, 5'7'' atheist, I'm 28 tho. And that's true, for years now already I'm wondering what's even the point of this "success" if you see the disgusting way they view the world? Exact same question I keep asking myself, what for? It's a juggling act, I don't want it, I like peace of mind.

[@inconnu4961]

Why do atheists have such an obsession with demons? Isnt that antithetical to your beliefs?

[@jurassicthunder]

​@@ararune3734bruh I'm 5'7 and atheist too, about to turn 23, still young to be looking for marriage but the question of why work so hard comes to mind. and then I remember that the universe doesn't owe us an explanation or a gift for our hard work. marriage is strictly for raising an offspring while we try to understand and grow together. if I work hard I would have that option. I'll have to find that person outside of the west tho.

[@nightmareTomek]

Not worth the squeeze. I've been thinking that for the past 15 years.

[@UbiDoobyBanooby]

Show me one that doesn’t say everything out loud.

[@7ebr830]

Ooh... Er... Umm... Let me get back to you on this. 😁

[@user-fv7bf6ub1j]

Ha! So true!

[@MetalRadio68.9]

Lol😂

[@deleted01]

Conservative women. They think the same, but keep it to themselves.

[@GiopoloMtl]

And on TikTok. They keep doing it, looking for support, from the same women that stab them on their backs in real life, because they're ruthless to each other, but also tell them that they're all 10's on social media.

[@Animatthias]

Guess we finally found the answer to the question why women never honestly and directly answer anything. Their pitch-black, abyss-like, bottomless hole we call soul. With every video I watch I'm inching one step further away from relationships. In a way it's kind of vindicating to know my hunches about them were true, but on the other hand it's just depressing to know that what I want just doesn't exist at all.

[@allseeingotto2912]

Well said and so very true .

[@user-og6hl6lv7p]

I agree, you should give up on dating women. It makes it easier for me since there's less competition. Thanks bro 😊

[@Animatthias]

@@user-og6hl6lv7p Pretty manipulative reply for a man..., "bro" 🙂

[@SparkZ009]

I wouldnt swallow that blackpill if I were you. Take a break to focus entirely on yourself. Progress in your career, work out, make friends and take care of your family. Then, see what you can fish. Worst case scenario you're right, but you'll probably be a much higher quality man for it.

[@Animatthias]

@@SparkZ009 30 years with women from all over the world are all I had to give. But hey, more for you! Enjoy!

[@SomeGuy-xf9bc]

Women today might as well be wearing carnival masks at this point. You can't even see their faces with all the cakeup.

[@jurassicthunder]

fakeup

[@jamespadgett8660]

Since you mentioned the economy, It would be interesting for you to make a video talking about womens involvement in flatlining mens wages, thus making it literally impossible for men to take care of them financially like they claim to want.

[@JeremySayers38]

The lazy girl jobs are even paid better than standard jobs. HR are paid the top of the company.

[@JeremySayers38]

@@EC-yl7xk What dream world do you live in? Are you a fat HR clerk? I bet you are otherwise why the weird name. Yeah men work in HR also HR work hard, the world is flat and body positivity is beautiful and women are strong and independent.

[@marcelroy6034]

Well yes, essentially the labor market nearly doubled to absorb the female workforce post WWII, consequently, due to market forces, real inflation-adjusted incomes have contracted ever since the seventies… and that is irreversible…

[@flamewarrior599]

Become a passport bro That is a shortcut Travel the world compare and contrast women Look around make new friends figure it out See what is out there Look listen and learn First world women are very different women There are friendly heterosexual women on this planet

[@Falcons8455]

true

[@dutchy4830]

north American women are the most detached in the world on aggregate

[@tarkgundogdu8940]

I would add something here. You think the 1st world women to be worse, but the other 2nd and 3rd world women are not that good, they just need something from you. They are only good to you when they have a vested interest in something that she can get from you (mostly the validity to live in a foreign developed country by settling in and making it look natural to the people around her). I know from my country that most useless (used) women go abroad to find some deludable western guy to guarantee their remaining life (when they are older and uglier). I am sorry to expose the truth.

[@253Monty]

Female nature is the same all over the world. Especially if they have a smartphone in their hand

[@stub4488]

Just different problems.....I've lived 10 yrs overseas.

[@ambientescapes]

I went on dates with over 300 women, and now I prefer to be single. I have officially "retired" from the game, the chase, the expense.

[@bobblacka918]

I saw an average looking guy say hi to woman and she answered, "Get away from me you scumbag." He told her she was rude and she turned it around by saying this to the guy, "No, you're rude for having the ordasity to think you would have even a chance with a woman as good looking as me."

[@Krelian4400]

Brutal.

[@carlospita6442]

The problem is not how much they want the problem is how little they offer in return

[@agm5424]

This is what happens when their consciousness is still stuck at their most basic/factory settings and haven't developed a genuine high level, long term thinking mentality. When they're in that level of consciousness they mearly react to material stimulation and thus focus only on short term animalistic gains.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

Yes, as a result of society bending to their every whim starting around 13-14.

[@DiabloImmortalLeveling]

True words of wisdom and understanding.

[@spacecandygames7575]

U know, men wouldn’t care that much about looks if women didn’t preach how little it means. We feel lied to because for decades women have said “idc about looks” “looks aren’t important” etc. if they would have told the truth from the start we would be fine.

[@OurSpaceshipEarth]

untrue excuse making by distortion of facts.

[@spacecandygames7575]

@@OurSpaceshipEarth what

[@jessemooij9952]

That first woman is scary as hell😂😂 who even wants to be with that😅

[@TheSnake636]

I quit dating and after quitting, i’ve been happier. Being alone is way more fun than trying to impress someone…

[@djangomarine6658]

Funny thing is that you do better when you're not trying to impress them.

[@mememaster147]

Same, I gave up trying when I hit 30 and it instantly removed a chunk of stress from my life.

[@rajakghosh6602]

I know this generation is all about looks but what about character? If looks and heights are sole criterions for dating now wonder a lot of women are today in broken relationships. What if the guy is an addict, an abuser, had past history of SA and DV, the a constant cheater? Beauty always fades with time but character and personality are the real attributes that makes a relationship work.

[@rayrwyr]

What about character? R-pill answers such questions well. Why do you think women leave their perfect (nice loyal stable) husbands to get savaged by scumbags like a drug dealer or convicted ex-inmate criminal?

[@ferget9111]

​@@rayrwyrbecause they are adult with an child mind?

[@deleted01]

The world exists as it is, not how we wish it to be.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

What if the woman is all those things? We live in a gynocentric culture that turns a blind eye to the bad behavior of women and so it only makes sense why so many would be so poorly behaved and llace superficial things higher on the list of priorities than good character.

[@tomyoung8563]

Chicks dig dudes with SA and DV in their background

[@daveg4417]

5:50 - WRONG! Numbers don't matter when you are looking for a unicorn, only luck does, you will run out of years of life before you find the unicorn, no one can go through that many dates. When I was 50-55, I was subscribed to 8 dating sites for 5 years, I chatted to 100+ women 45-65 and dated 25+, and they all refused a relationship with me because I am not tall enough or wealthy enough. Numbers won't matter because 95%+ of women are lost now. Women 40-65 are all wanting men with more than the 8x8's, they are looking for a retirement plan and not a husband. How can you choose the "right woman" when none of them are! That is why the average marriage now only lasts 7 years, with 70-90% of divorces filed by women.

[@TheNegative1]

🎯

[@Falcons8455]

im 30, 6'3", athletic, and maybe 5-6 looks. Had zero success with women. not even able to get dates. I am about to be where I want in life finally and was expecting things to get easier. this video scares me a bit

[@particleconfig.8935]

get out the (your) dark side, put your will onto the world, mold

[@dominikvonlavante6113]

Got to Thailand or Vietnam and get yourself a set of bespoke suits and shirts. Looks are everything. And nothing conveys status more than a bespoke fitting suit/shirts

[@deleted01]

Do you live in a city with enough young women?

[@user-og6hl6lv7p]

I'm 6', pasty white and skinny fat and I've had a decent amount of success with women. You need to learn to vibe with women and connect emotionally with them. It's easier said than done. Honestly the best way to learn this is by finding a female friend. Just figure out how to keep her comfortable and the conversation flowing. Don't put pressure on yourself to find a way to sleep with her, the idea is to become comfortable with women as that directly translate into confidence which they are attracted to. There are women out there that can genuinely hold good friendships, don't let the demoralised weak blokes tell you otherwise.

[@Okunniger_Volker]

People will give you advice on how to be more appealing to women. Don't follow this. Instead live according to virtue, have principles and boundaries, have self respect (this very much includes taking care of your body but not vain or obsessive) and let the women who value superficiality weed themselves out.

[@ColtenVmusic]

I'm 6'4" and attractive enough, for my age, to "pick up" females, but I have found that my tolerance playing dating games has very much thinned out the amount of potential romantic encounters I engage in. It's probably best to think that I've grown up, or become more mature, rather than I am finally opening my eyes, or that there is some revolution of abominable mind sets that have been developing in the minds of women. It's hard to believe that my dating market only consists of unicorns...

[@loganblackwood2922]

Things were easier when I was younger and it is alarming to see young men become so cynical. However since we all get there, better to start off eyes open today.

[@SparkZ009]

​@@loganblackwood2922I wish I wasnt so cynical about this. I generally assume that the internet shows only the extremes and thus should base myself in my reality. Only to find out, for well over the last 15 years that good quality women and men have dwindled to a depressingly low number. Its really hard to have the motivation to rummage through sewage looking for pearls in todays day and age.

[@ararune3734]

@@SparkZ009 In some instances it does, but largely it's not wrong. You will meet many women who will tell you that's just biased and they're only showing you the worst, but the truth slips and they start saying the same sh*t as the women they bashed. There are so many chameleons man.

[@JP-ug9oj]

I'm 6' 3", in good shape, attractive, and successful. My ex self destructed and blew up our ten year marriage. I find myself single again. Women in the dating world are a mess. They are just not interesting. I've been carefully vetting potential dates. I find that my dating market also consists of unicorns.

[@ararune3734]

@@JP-ug9oj Do you feel like within seconds, you already know what type of girl they are? There aren't that many types tbh. But you notice patterns and your tolerance is much lower, you don't feel like putting energy even into texting them back anymore, or is that just me? I could not have anyone else texting but I still wouldn't care, I just leave them on seen when they're bland

[@brotherowl]

No, but seriously, who cares anymore? Don't worry about how they are; worry about why you are worried about how they are. Focus there.

[@Orecatmeatprocessors]

I always took care of my wife she never had to work away from home. Did she appreciate it? No she hated me more every day. Glad she's gone! Being 6 feet 1 inch tall, handsome, 4 year BS degree, worked all the time made no difference!

[@b4ph0m3tdk9]

Those videos of women crying and then switching to laughing is so hurtful to watch as a man.

[@patriclarsson7947]

In my teens/early 20s i had zero interest in women, my friends where chasing women around and i just couldn't understand it. Then a woman found me, we had a relationship for almost 14 years. Now at 37, no women again, no friends. i possess no actual skills to find a woman, no charm, no charisma, i don't understand the concept of flirting, no social skills outside of work related subjects. I'll just wait until woman finds me again, or doesn't.

[@inconnu4961]

I'm being totally serious here, are you on the spectrum by chance? Im amazed you kept a relationship for 14years! but you have 0 charm or charisma? Either you are lying, or you under-estimate what you DO have, or not sure how to change with the times!

[@mrneoneil999]

Yeah nothing new under the sun so used to hearing from women telling me I'm "worthless" because I'm not over 6ft tall I just tend to ignore women now

[@allseeingotto2912]

I’m 6ft and it’s not any different for me .

[@SparkZ009]

​@@allseeingotto2912 6ft 4 here. I reckon that height is a positive but cant carry on its own.

[@adamhero459]

8:44 It’s not really cost of living. The issue is that women all want a millionaire lifestyle and refuse to live within their means and will damage themselves in many ways in terms of being able to have a good relationship to obtain that to some degree. Outside of a few major expensive cities, one average income can support at least two adults and one child, likely even two kids. But this means cooking at home a lot instead of eating out everyday, not having dozens of pairs of shoes, constantly buying clothes you barely wear, no designer and multiple purses, not getting the most expensive house and car you get approved to buy, etc…. A women who is willing to not do this is getting more and more uncommon, and usually are older women who know somewhat that they need to compromise on things to get a life they can attain and want.

[@terry9238]

Any woman who expects a high-end lifestyle without ever working again once she’s married is delusional! There are very few men who can provide that-and even fewer who are willing to.

[@EDBinOKC]

I think I’ve become depressed. My life has been pushing the boulders up a hill marriage. My wife cannot be made happy. Ugh.

[@radthibidaeux8229]

Alex, the "Economic" angle you speak of is the PRIMARY driver of the "passport bro" movement, both because the women involved START out as more feminine (and thus are more attractive) and they STAY that way because, as you say, they don't have to STRESS about the money side of the equation, because the man in question can actually BE the "provider" for the family. This is a source of purpose and PRIDE for a man, and it actually lowers HIS stress level. It's "win win" for both genders. It is a sad and terrible thing that the wealthy and the corporations have stolen so much wealth from what was once the "middle class," in the Divided States, that now EVERYONE must stress almost 24/7 just to continue living INDOORS. It's no wonder the women are less feminine in the WEST. They HAVE to be. Sadly, for everyone, the equation is now "lose-lose," not win win. And we can ALL be lonely . . . together.

[@mikey92362]

You have the wrong culprit. It's government that steals and destroys wealth. The rich are wealth creators. How many good jobs have you ever been offered by a poor person? Every dollar the government prints, or takes and spends on unconstitutional endeavors, is stolen wealth from you and from future generations.

[@fm2dmax]

BINGO! We've let the 1% divide the 48% fighting the 49% to keep us from making a coalition for the thriving of the 99%.

[@Teacher_Sal]

Yeah Alex it's called, "Get your passport bro!"...In other words, go to where the women are feminine, hot and approachable...

[@fjb4932]

As a male at 5'2", i Now realize...i Am BLESSED ! ☆

[@mboiko]

"You have to choose the right woman" Agree, but much easier said...than done.

[@darkgardener9577]

I had no idea how much of a privilege being 6'4" was or how bad it was for the 5ft-something crowd until just a couple years ago when I started watching this kind of content, I'm 40 now and always thought being pretty mid in most other ways, I was mid....so I told my struggling friends "Hey just beeee yourself!!!" like a dumb kid. I just wish I would have understood so I could have helped my friends out better back in the day.

[@inconnu4961]

People with privileges dont know they have privileges! You sound sincere, so we hate you a little less now! LOL Seriously though, women are just losing it out here, its a dumpster fire, and chicktok keeps throwing gasoline onto it!

[@thechosenone93]

I applaud you for at least admitting you were telling shorter men “just be yourself” and it was ultimately BS;there’s many men that think “just be yourself” is how they get women

[@LearnCompositionOnline]

We have to truly figure out how to flip the game together

[@Paul31296]

Your thoughts on so many important topics are so clear, insightful and healthy. Wish I found your videos atleast 6 years earlier. You are doing an amazing job by sharing this with us. Thank you!

[@SeekerGoOn2013]

The economic factors are a HUGE difference maker. Women’s Lib ushered in another sphere of opportunity to millions of women and girls. But that’s when the rich, one-percent realized they could squeeze the middle class into the desperation we have now. It contributes to much of the stress, frustration and depression rampant in the west.

[@series298]

with the current dating culture, many men do not have the opportunity to date a variety of women to determine who is the best fit for them. Men get get down after "hi."

[@DaRKHuNTeRMK]

One issue, women value materialism a lot more than you average guy, and a young guy is not gonna have nowhere near as much resources as an older guy.. In short you are supposed to do it when you are young, but the cards are stacked against you so you will fail 99/100 times in this pursuit of a ltr, for a multitude of reasons and not having cash is just a small part of it.. When was the last time you met a girl in her early 20s that didn't want to get railed by chad on his boat? Exactly

[@Sensorium19]

I appreciate you being real that there are factors beyond a person's control you and just have to live with it and do the best you can.

[@chetp8423]

Good advice. I’ve been pushing the boulder up the hill for 22 years. She is incapable of happiness.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

Here's a thought. You are not responsible for her happiness. She is not responsible for yours. Be a reasonable person. Have reasonable boundries, and the spine to enforce them. Expect some pushback at the start. However, stand your ground. Women want a strong man to lead them. Show that you are one.

[@gerhardvanderpoll7378]

Time to step aside then.....gravity will take her back down the hill...Sit down and rather enjoy the view...

[@inconnu4961]

@@Ace.0.0.0.But the pushback doesnt come from the woman alone, it comes from EVERYONE she cries to! I've been there and done that too!

[@Noqqin]

And why do you keep going? Why didn't you throw her back to the streets 20 years ago?

[@locatemarbles]

The high living costs have distorted the market, as has today's insane materialism and consumerism. Women reach their peak by 25 and men in their 30s and 40s. Back in the day what women used to do is try to find men in their 20s who showed potential and try to trap them into marriage before they peaked. The alternative was to bypass that risk and directly go for men in their 30s and 40s.

[@KyleReeseCel2029]

I'm 6'3. When I was young and trying to pick up women at nightclubs for the better half of a year it never worked out. Point being height isn't everything and everything is what they want ideally.

[@ararune3734]

Dude shut up. I'm really tired of all the tall dudes who say that, you can still fail on easy mode, it doesn't mean you're not playing easy mode. I had a 6'4'' friend who would literally just stand there quietly at a nightclub, he was even shy, wouldn't say much, yet women would approach him and give their numbers to him.

[@KyleReeseCel2029]

@@ararune3734 Talk to people like that in real life, your lucky your not in my sight. I approached hundreds of women and it gave me nothing. Put in ridiculous hours. Easy mode my a.

[@TSoneonetwo]

​@ararune3734 your friend is not a representative of ALL tall men. Quit projecting. I am 6'3. Used to go out to clubs with other friends who were 6'4, and 6'2. None of us EVER experienced what you claim happened to your friend. Save the animosity and victimhood.

[@ararune3734]

@@KyleReeseCel2029 You can't even spell and that's your first language, I can already tell why you're failing.

[@ararune3734]

@@TSoneonetwoIf only we literally had dating studies that show us acceptance rates by height, right? If only there was a way to verify this. Face it, you're a bunch of dudes failing despite the good cards dealt, not because the cards aren't good.

[@ThomasMgtow-jq4fb]

Great video sir. You're batting 100...

[@mba2ceo]

NOTHING matters except $$$ + LOOKS

[@tortuedelanuit2299]

I would say looks are 90%, money is 9%, and social suavity is 1% of the equation in attracting modern women. They are barely sentient creatures. Their degrees did not confer education. They have no moral compass and no taste. Their lives revolve around food, dogs, and primal attraction to Chad. We live in the age of technological hedonism, and it will only end after we descend into the state of Venezuela of Haiti. Good luck.

[@garyphisher7375]

Considering Western women are so oppressed, they have a very high list of requirements.

[@MrTchupam]

5:47 ahhahahaha she’s talking to the 1% “please 1% approach me omg go for it” 🤪🤪🤪 the delusion

[@BASESKIZL]

You know, sometimes they don’t say the quiet part out loud they say incomplete sentences, so it sounds like they’re saying something, but what they really mean is the whole sentence

[@nightfangs2910]

The idea that men who aren't good looking and are well under 6' tall dating around to find enough women to " audition" for relationships is hilarious, men who don't have it in the height and looks and money dept. They make money but not 100k a year, cannot get dates from multiple women

[@waynewallace2061]

You are really spot on with this commentary

[@Clark_Kent_ZA]

You can run but you can't hide from the Blackpill

[@michaelfriscia8166]

"when women say the quiet part out loud" Why are you listening to them to begin with?

[@tomyoung8563]

Best comment possible

[@thebigcnel]

As a ugly tall guy, I can tell you being a hot shorter guy is still better

[@thechosenone93]

Yes because face dictates most of the attraction then height multiplies this positive or negative effect

[@hyperteleXii]

You describe my relationship history with terrifying accuracy. Can confirm this advice.

[@vdl3984]

How can you go on that many dates? They won't even let you try.

[@jamespadgett8660]

That's what I was wondering. It sounds like "sampling" or "shopping around" like women who ride the CC tell themselves/each other.

[@ararune3734]

Find women abroad. Get your passports bros, seriously this is the way. Panic will kick in, they will realise this is a losing game for them, because everywhere else the men have less to offer them. Seriously, they're not the prize. They are hitting the ceiling in the west, wheras men aren't, men can shop anywhere because we don't care about the woman's status or finances.

[@JeromeProductions]

Perfect timing with the video. I wondered that too

[@Krelian4400]

Dude is still disconnected from the reality of being a sub7 male in the West. We don't have the luxury of going on multiple dates to try to choose women based on "personality," character and morals. We are just lucky to get a date with anyone who isn't morbidly obese, and when we do we just get ghosted anyway.

[@Unduplicatable]

10:09 - no, she is not just “disconnected with her feminism instincts”. She is completely disconnected from REALITY.

[@vst9266]

I dated a woman and she said finally a tall guy,i like you because u are tall.

[@williamk6605]

The fact that this is very often the only thing they care about makes it hard for me to not despise them.

[@TheNegative1]

@@williamk6605 exactly. If it's a modern woman, her loyalty will last until she meets someone slightly taller or slightly better looking or more popular...

[@Tsathogguah]

It doesn't work that way. You can date 300 girls, have 50 relationships, and realize #4 was actually the best one. At that point you can't easily go back and get #4 when you're on #50.

[@johnElden8760]

i am in college right now and i just sucks. no space to meat anyone, just lectures where everyone wants to sit for themselves and not talk and when the lecture ends they walk to the next one and sit there like bugged out npcs staring at the wall with nothing projected onto it. i have never been treated like anything other than a distraction and i cannot switch subjects because of a dumb rule about my grades. i am german, living literally in westfalen

[@Snarge22]

67" here. To Everyone(!), and especially women, I Rarely see other men near my height or taller. It is so uncommon (beyond basketball venues) that we sometimes acknowledge each other in passing. It seems with all the online content out there that women are getting it into their heads it's common. And to the tall fellas; you still won't get any traction with women and society unless you're fit and with some muscle. I personally learned this when I put down the basketball (too many sprained ankles!) and started lifting weights . Four years later and I'm up two shirt sizes and the world really started treating me better.

[@Champ1988]

The inflation and accessibility of everything has changed the dating world forever. I grew up in an era where if you looked how I do now, had a car and a job, and basic social skills; you were guaranteed an 8. At worst, your looks match would fall into your lap. I know because I was doing self improvement before it was popular. And because social media and access wasn't what it was; girls weren't passive when they encountered men like me. I fumbled a good amount of them because it took years for my confidence to catch up to my looks once I lost weight (yes, I'm over 6') I'm now in this era, and I've adapted. But it's a sad sight to see men going to extremes like plastic surgery just to end up with a 5 or 6 who'll still leave him for a "better deal."

[@Hydrasword89]

you should tell people more often that most of their experience is not their fault and that they cannot do anything about it. It might be depressing first but it can be liberating.

[@terrydactylspontaneous2596]

5 things that make you attractive to women. Be good looking. Be tall. Be rich. Pay for everything. Do everything she wants/let her do everything she wants.

[@mdhazeldine]

Yes to the first 4. Not so sure about the last one, because it could be perceived as being weak. Women like strong leaders and sometimes leaders say no.

[@carlospita6442]

But what do they offer that’s what pisses me off

[@Spartahhh]

This video is a big giant truth bomb I’m glad you dropped it great video

[@jbris16]

The whole cost of living issue is such a fallacy. You can totally support a family on 1 non minimum wage income. We just decide to get into more debt, and buy more consumables than our parents and grandparents. Also our 1 income parents and grandparents weren't working 40 hr work weeks more like 48-60 maybe even 80hr/week.

[@WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle]

While I agree with people complaining about the raw deal millennials and gen Z got in the housing and job market, and the lies we were told about college, I agree with you that 1 income is definitely doable with discipline and budget. People don't want to be rational adults anymore

[@sebbedelle]

Thanks for your good work

[@VERITASPUREBLOOD]

I would say looks are 50% of what matters, honestly your self confidence and frame matter equally. look at will Smith for instance, tall, famous, good looking and he let's women walk all over him. sure he has beautiful women, but it's also how much they respect you.

[@S.G.W.Verbeek]

He plays in the biggest movies, where he is portrayed as the biggest hero. Still in real life he is a wimpy simpy😢

[@deleted01]

Ha no. 80% minimum.

[@andrewpinkham9904]

Smith is the nice guy

[@DeadlyPlatypus]

9:13 "The stay at home mother is a luxury of the past." No, it's not. Responsibility, living with difficulty, and living within one's means are "things of the past." Living on a single income is not that difficult if you make halfway decent decisions.

[@WhydoIsuddenlyhaveahandle]

Yay some one said it!

[@Archongamer]

This video told my life story. Married 22 years of pushing a boulder up hill with a woman who wants to be unhappy. After being separated for 18 months, finalizing my divorce, and lots of therapy I realized it was a savor / victim relationship. I’m now dating a high quality woman and life is much easier.

[@Rickywwx]

Great points Alex. One comment: You used the phrase "the right woman for you". While there is something to that, I propose that the right woman for you is the right woman period. For anyone. Science has shown that "compatibility" is much less significant than someone's personality straight up. Googling "personality traits and relationship satisfaction" or "big 5 and relationship satisfaction" will bring up many articles of research stating that people, male and female, who are high in agreeableness, conscientiousness, and emotional stability are significantly more satisfied in their relationships. We're clearly in agreement here, and you've mentioned multiple times how important femininity is. I just wanted to highlight the importance of this point.

[@6B8RX]

Part of the problem is the overemphasis on a consumer lifestyle. Instead of a 1400 square foot house being the norm, now everyone wants a 4500 square foot house filled with stuff. This is enabled by another problem: the economic rise of China. Instead of local or domestic production, most manufacturing has gone overseas, taking with it the jobs that supported the middle class.

[@graymatters7584]

It’s usually men who settle low, and young (before they reach their peak value).

[@robhunter2435]

Most men do not choose the wrong woman...the problem is the woman changes, her attitude and personality switches as the years go on. They can change after buying a home, having kid(s) especially. It is a crap shoot at what you will end up with in the end. Most smart men think that it is not worth the risk. I totally agree with that.

[@tortuedelanuit2299]

Many women went completely off the deep end after Trump was elected. Women collectively became even more radicalized and unpleasant.

[@geoffstevens8375]

Worse, once you find the perfect partner, once kids appear, you are forced to choose between having sex and continuing with the marriage. Most women opt out of a full sex life. WTF! It's a no win for men.

[@amylee6038]

I'm not sure what you mean by that. I'm Asian and for us it is common to still have daily sex with our husband after 16 years in my case. We have to get up before the kids or send them out of the house while we have our time together. It is very clear to me that American women use sex as a weapon to emasculate their husband. To keep him down. It's bizarre because sure - that is exercising power over someone. But so is making people happy. I can choose whether to make my husband and children happy, or make them miserable. American women are at war with men and think making them miserable is a victory for their revolution. Delusional cult-like mentality from this sick culture.

[@sreif78]

Alexander, Why are dating and relationships viewed as competitive and combative It seems? My perspective as a man It seems More of this is coming more from women; Not wanting to cultivate or grow and build a relationship, but rather in a combative and competitive approach and mindset to tear down the man. Why are men seen Is not a part of their life but a tool in their life?

[@inconnu4961]

Because they have been told they were oppressed by the patriarchy, so they now have male energy and try to compete AGAINST men, instead of be a help mate.

[@bronsmith3612]

Single middle aged woman have ridiculous standards. I am an average man. As an average man, any average woman that is willing to be with you thinks that she is settling and will treat you like $hit. I don't put up with it. Relationships are dead, and women killed them.

[@LordShockwave9]

Yeah, the odds aren't good, and with the ones that the odds are good, the goods are odd. 😂

[@inconnu4961]

PERFECT! You are a natural poet, Mr. Longfellow!

[@daveg4417]

This is where I am black pilled. If you are a 5'8" 4 or 5 "standard chart" guy, that puts you at the "female chart" of 2. So when the gurus say that you just have to Looksmaxx to get better and get dates, that is just pure BS. If you are a standard chart 4 or 5, the best you can get by Looksmaxxing is up to a standard chart 6, which is still a female chart 3 or 4. And women want guys who are 9's and 10's on the female chart. Anything below an 8 to 10 on the female chart is invisible to them.

[@Exileonbackroad]

All of this also depends on what you do - I'm a musician and also teach in university, and as a result am in daily contact with young people, and now in my 50s there's more interest from young women than ever before! Crazy.

[@jamesrussell1979]

The last video bro that was the real feminine women..ral ladies back in the day are marriage marerial ...GOD BLESS FROM IRELAND 🇮🇪 🙏

[@inconnu4961]

GOD bless Ireland!

[@Nunak91]

I'd love to see more collab/debate videos. That'd be great to hear you exchanging opinions with someone else.

[@brotherowl]

Legion of Men

[@Nunak91]

@@brotherowl what am I suppose to do with that answer?

[@davidw789]

Oh man! Not the socks, don't make me wash the socks! 😂

[@Dud30ify]

Like I throw my values to trash so quickly if I recieve any love from a cute woman. I'm 28 and I feel Lost again