When you are DONE FOR GOOD with a Narcissist, how do they feel?

[@emmajackson5139]

It takes a lot of me to give up on someone but once I'm done I'm done.

[@wilmaguy7519]

#DONEDONE ❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️

[@RarelyRachelRarelyMe]

Me too! I told my ex narc that one day I will leave him. He would laugh. He's not laughing now. (Not saying it's easy but I'm doing it because I'm done. It's okay to miss him, want him even, but it's not okay to act on it.)

[@cyndigooch1162]

I used to be like that as well and I've realised that it would've been best to stop contact with many people, including exes, family members and even neighbours, much sooner due to the immense harm they've caused me over the years! 😥

[@labazoops]

@@cyndigooch1162True!

[@danielledegeorge2129]

Yup, 20 years of hell and I'm just now like "nope, no more".

[@Annie-ol3jx]

When your done,be done. Move on, never looking back only forward. Remember everything that you endured, what pained you, what you had to overcome and heal from. YOU WILL BE A FOOL AND THE JOKE WILL BE ON YOU,IF YOU EVER DECIDE TO LET THAT EVIL BACK INTO YOUR HEALTHY SPACE!!

[@Godsfavor123]

I agree! I’ve stopped communicating with my mother for over two years now and I love, really love this peace that I didn’t know existed. I will never ever go back to being in the state that she had me in for over 60 years. The only thing that I regret is not doing it sooner💕

[@s.9806]

👏🏼👏🏼 nicely said!! Leave them. In the beginning there is allot of anger for what they have done but to know for what kind of way they live and eventually will end up is already a pay back imo.

[@Annie-ol3jx]

@s.9806 yessssss, ain't your life much healthier now.

[@s.9806]

@@Annie-ol3jx Much more! It was like getting awake of a nightmare. It takes time tough but feeling stronger everyday!

[@Annie-ol3jx]

@s.9806 I'm proud of you, I walked away 6 1/2 years ago and never looked back. That was the best thing I ever did for myself. I'm soooo proud of myself, and keep myself educated so the same thing won't ever happen again!!! Stay strong and tough 💪💪💪💪

[@deronross3277]

They think we’ll never leave them

[@s.9806]

They really think that way. Unbelievable.

[@TheGirlwiththepants]

My Ex son’s father still calls me baby and babe. Even thought I caught him cheating and that was the reason I finally am done done. Still asks me to go to dinner and I say no thank you he replied buuuut baby aren’t you hungry. So toxic. He thinks he owns me

[@dorib.3367]

That part!

[@hindwidad2723]

It’s funny how they think we care about their new supply and that they’re making us jealous. 😅 like please have him. No one wants that trash 😅

[@LolaLuv-dt2ei]

@@hindwidad2723 Exactly!

[@neri1787]

Like honestly!! 😂 I second that motion! 😂😂

[@Coraline423]

😅 Exactly. We don’t want that trash.

[@Tlj4722]

😂😂😂😂I concur

[@dianaswanson5705]

They don't care, but in truth they think they can reel you back anytime

[@Cowboys_by_20]

They can , they’re are weakness

[@OGPowder]

@@Cowboys_by_20 gotta build that mental muscle mah boii

[@Cowboys_by_20]

@@OGPowder I tried now I’ll just cheat back . I know it’s sucks but we have kids

[@DMAC1301]

Only if you allow it.

[@RarelyRachelRarelyMe]

Being done doesn't mean you can't miss them, desperately want to reach out to them. Being done is when the hard work begins. It's okay to have all those needy feelings. What is not okay is to act on them. It's uncomfortable but just let yourself feel those feelings. They will lessen over time. Just DON'T act on them!!!

[@sallyforth9323]

Thank you Rabbit. You helped me. 🙏🏼❤️‍🩹🙏🏼

[@neuralmelody4459]

🙌

[@dorib.3367]

Hey you got this dont give in. Your stronger then you know!

[@phalcata572]

This helps. Seriously. Almost relapsed this evening by re-reaching out. I know that that’s exact what she wants and that I would be punished for it.

[@viviancheek8044]

Oh know I will not have vengeance on them that will come naturally.

[@lindanewyork9245]

Don’t speak anymore Don’t explain Don’t say anything at all They aren’t hearing you. Just go away from them, block them, and hopefully you can physically get away from them.

[@MentalHealness]

Protect your peace

[@cris-yo1950]

What if you have a kid with them?

[@duck9886]

@@cris-yo1950lookup low contact with a narcissist. Just keep it only about the child.

[@shelottabright8155]

@@cris-yo1950Gray-rock method is key when you have kids and always have a way to document your correspondence and a neutral meeting place.

[@duck9886]

@ 🤣🤣🤣 see I’m dealing with a violent narc I could never get a “get back” if I ever had the urge too but never have because I know eventually people get their karma. I hope you’re doing well. You’re better off without that mean spirited person anyway!

[@Xen-AM]

The stalking is what irritates me the most.

[@JayS-w9w]

Going through that now. She didnt respect me at all no matter how much I tried to be good to her. But now shes disturbing my peace because Im giving my attention to someone else. Its been 3 years. She needs to let it go

[@Xen-AM]

@@JayS-w9w from my experience they don’t just let it go unfortunately. You have to forcibly put distance between you and them and protect yourself.

[@David69278]

Absolutely

[@TatsyanasTravels]

Right.

[@SSmith-ol8bj]

@@Xen-AM Omg this! Like leave me the fuck alone! If you don't like me why are you so invested!

[@11Nashie]

"So you not gone fight for us? Did you ever love me?" 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 After chance 155...

[@KobyMapel]

Yes, a they spin their victim narrative.

[@londontyler6598]

Man, try “just fix it” especially after they caused ALL the Damage! I rather not😊

[@TeishaLetasha]

They never change. They will never treat anyone better than they treated you.

[@MrMarc315]

Narcissistic people don’t change who they are they may become a better version of becoming even more toxic than they were once before

[@21kGOT]

My husband had been cheating on me for months and punished me for it. He withheld affection, cussed, and yelled at me a lot etc. Then one day he snapped and told me “he didn’t love me anymore.” So, I left the home and filed for divorce. When I came back for my things he said “I didn’t think we going to separate so quickly.” And then when he found out I filed for divorce he was shocked that I did. He still reaches out to me to see how I am doing and how my cat is. Has even told me that one day we can reconnect again, as if I’m going to go back to that whole mess again 🙄. #neveragain

[@NMTDelightfulMusic]

BLOCK, BLOCK, BLOCK!!!!!!!!!!!

[@Orquet-qj2nf]

How is he still contacting you? Can we help you brainstorm ways to block access? Or is there a custody arrangement? Mine is blocked. He can still email, but I stopped responding and he found that dissatisfying. If he irritates me over email again, I can block him. At one point, I told him the new number he can reach me at, but didn't mention it was my mom's phone so she could screen messages for me. And he doesn't know where I live. The last contact he attempted was his mommy driving him to my parents' house so he could hand deliver a letter in which he claimed he was afraid of me because I stopped speaking to him.

[@21kGOT]

I still have some of my stuff at the marital home. I’m trying to keep the peace in the mean time so he doesn’t get rid of my things. At least until the court grants me access to the property so I can get them. I don’t respond to his text now, I just delete them.

[@rhondaricks1544]

Yep he did the reverse and thought I was going to run behind him. I held my head high and never looked back. Life is good😊

[@ConnieMitchell-k3n]

They treat all their supply the same. They just tell you they're treating them better. Or put pictures up online but in reality they're still evil.

[@cherrieguitar]

I sure hope they find someone just like them.

[@locaitaliana]

When you are done with a narcissist - how do they feel? “I DON’T CARE-CRY ME A RIVER” ✌🏽

[@KobyMapel]

The “cry me a river” saying is a narcissistic one. I’m not saying you are one, I’m just stating an observation of the saying.

[@locaitaliana]

@@KobyMapelYikes!! I’m not sure where you got your information from. Completely inaccurate, and I am very sorry to let you know. Anyone on the planet can use any words they want. Watch actions-not words. Be careful out there ✌🏽

[@KobyMapel]

@@locaitaliana I have a strong feeling that no matter what I say to you, you won’t have the ability to comprehend that it’s a very arrogant saying so have a good life. 😁✌️ I wont be wrestling with the pig.

[@shannonpickens7695]

All of this is absolutely true. I told him to either be nice or leave me alone. When he was with me he would fight with his ex wife. They are now back together so he is fighting with me. They don’t treat the new supply better, they still lie to them making them think they are treating them better while sleeping with other people behind the new supply’s back. And yes, he would say “Start a fight so he could leave.”

[@chelseakal-q2b]

I’ve never been one to journal but after so many years of mental abuse and the weirdness of it all i just started writing it all down. I made a list of every bad thing he did to me. Then made a list of what I love about myself and a list of what I want to do while healing. It’s helped tremendously. When I miss him (trauma bond!) I look at that list.

[@londontyler6598]

I went through 3 journals

[@londontyler6598]

I can turn it into a book

[@chelseakal-q2b]

@@londontyler6598 oh wow! I believe you! It’s crazy what another human can do to you. I was a prisoner. I feel so free. I hope you’re in a good place now❤️

[@londontyler6598]

I’m out, Free as a bird. Shining so bright 😊

[@Osean_Man]

I achieved DONENESS on Sep 13, which as fate would have it was the 5 year anniversary of when I first met the witch. Stay strong everyone, God is one, the Truth will set you free.

[@dirtySal777]

It was September 26th for me.

[@BlessedQT]

Be careful when you leave if they are abusive. Just go no contact and disappear if you can.

[@queengweeezy7836]

Yes I’m being punished now for leaving his rusty crusty A . But I’ve learned to avoid communication and ignore his tactics to start arguments . Sharing custody with a bitter narc is a Wild Game . When you focus on protecting your own peace , then you win 🏆

[@MentalHealness]

🏆

[@1976smb]

I can't imagine having family or have married one, and then had kids with them. Good grief! Like a damn tumor living on you!

[@BlessedQT]

I’m going through this too. It sucks for our kids.

[@loyaldior2950]

Same it's so hard co parenting with them 😪

[@cassiebennet4262]

I like that. Wish I could save this comment, but it's not that difficult to remember.

[@duck9886]

He definitely has new supply but I hope he stays with them and leaves me alone so far so good!

[@vickyaart]

They would show you their true colors. Their last resort could be extreme like blackmail and harass you until you give up and break down that could push you to get back to them. My ex thought everything would go back to normal even after all the horrible things he did to me. I loved him but it's hard to love somebody that you can't respect. Somebody who will disregard your feelings just to pleasure himself. I'm glad I woke up from that nightmare. I lost a part of me just to learn this. Never again.

[@kayesmith2518]

I understand this on every level...unfortunately

[@sara.e.1111]

Same, this sounds extremely familiar.

[@liliaaaaaaaa]

You've hit the nail on the head, even if they've treated you like the worst person in the world, discarding you & abusing you, they never think about the consequences & just take you for granted, thinking you can take it. If you finally reach the limit & tell them no, you've had enough & discard them, they can't take it, since they believe they can always hoover you back. If they can't, they will go into stalk & punishment mode, due to narcissistic injury, then you have to realise you need to be really careful because they might go into psychotic mode, then they can be really dangerous. I had to deal with a narc ex when I was a student in my 20s, moved in with me when I was doing my degree. Worst mistake of my life. Even though I discovered he was cheating on me with multiple women, after subjecting me to physical violence, he would always cry & tell me he loved me & didn't want me to leave him. When I did leave him, & met someone else & told him, he came round to my new place trying to hoover me back, then went into a violent psycho rage & almost ended me. I called the police but he just put on the instant charm, telling him it was nothing to worry about. I moved city & lived my life, but then 13 years later with the birth of the internet, he stalked me online & made a website about me & wrote to me on Friendster under a pseudonym saying he wanted to end me all over again.. thanks!. I had to report him to the police again in not just one but 3 different locations, in the UK & also France. At the same time he got my email & I ended up having to give him psychological coaching to placate his giant ego, because his ex French wife had divorced him. In the end I told him why not go to Kazakhstan or Mongolia & find his ancestors & write a travel book. So off he went to Mongolia & hung out with nomads & made a website with some cool photography & I told him "well done" & that calmed him down. Now he's selling carpets in Paris. They really are big, giant babies. When I split up with my Italian ex after him, it took me 2 years to split up slowly but surely from him, suggesting I move out so his parents from Italy could move in, then eventually I emigrated to Egypt a different continent for 6 months, while he emigrated to Peru & found a wife from the jungle as you do. My latest narc ex is from the UK & we split up 2 years ago, but we stayed friends, meaning he still acts like we're in a relationship one minute, then tells me he wants to punish me the next. They treat you like objects to play with, & posess, empathy for you as a separate human being isn't really there.

[@user-wc5dw2qx9i]

When im done, im done, and ima glo up on you. So disgard is good, cuz alot will not leave.

[@mortischahicks5341]

They don't want you to be done with them. Play the game and play the game til the end. DON'T PLAY THE GAME!

[@LaurenM-1]

Living with a Covert Narcissist for 4 years...they never change!

[@darriushouser6845]

I feel you I’m going through hell with a 63 year old narcissist and IM 46.I GAVE THAT MAN MY HEART AND THE BEST PART OF ME AND HE IS SO NASTY AND LOWDOWN

[@AshleySpeaks4U]

I am 47, let the 62 narc rage at me. Showed up at his door because they always need the last word. Stared at the ground on his front porch, and let him have at me without saying a thing. I had prepared myself. Listened silently. I figured I could at least give him that. Said he was in love a week prior, yet puked up all over me and threw my in the trash by closing the door. I walked away and figured he probably won't be back if I let him have the last say. I am now trying to unf*** my mind. Best wishes healing!

[@healinginjesus2112]

Omygosh... I never thought I would get here... I am 47 and he is 67. Two people like me and my situation, I never thought I would meet anyone like me... your stories are so relatable... sadly for both of you, and me, and my teenage daughter.

[@empressnigeria]

Wow oh my I’m 35 he’s ah 53 narc mistreat me mentally physically emotionally abuse me I’m trying to get out of this he says only one way out 😢

[@natalieleitzmann2667]

@@darriushouser6845 oh my that sounds like my situation. 41 and 61 and he treated my like absolute shit when I first left him. Gave him some more chances only to discover he has some fling. Stay strong ❤️

[@natalieleitzmann2667]

@@healinginjesus2112oh wow never thought I’d see someone with the same age gap! 41 and 61 and he still thinks he’s hot sh**. Stay strong ❤

[@LeslieMcKerns]

I’m lucky, Lee . He’s ghosting me. He does not realize how much this helps me!

[@taratarat5818]

Narcissist parents does this too. It's a never ending cycle of them slandering and mistreating you. Unfortunately i experienced both.

[@kiaamida4105]

I waited for my daughter to graduate so i never have to see him again. I remember how my father was with my mother with shared custody. So i suffered in silence for 8 years. Now i have peace.

[@nancydrew5]

This happens with h family members too. Narcissistic family members holding grudges mad as hell forever because of their hurt feelings.

[@cassiebennet4262]

I'm seeing a lot of older-elderdly people pop up on KZbin talkin about how everyone abandoned them. Not that some of them aren't being treated poorly for no reason, but I think many of them are just pathologically narcissistic and need sympathy/supply.

[@empressnigeria]

4:22 is correct. I’m being abused at the same time. He just left town now it’s time to get peace. & run way from him. He says it’s only one way out. He will never believe it’s over. But it’s over. Gotta see how this plays out 🙏🏾

[@sarahanderson9181]

My ex treated me so bad that I had no choice but to end it. TWO WEEKS later he was in another relationship 😂😂😂

[@NarcissistHex-nf9eq]

lucky! Now you have freedom!

[@MentalHealness]

😂

[@sarahanderson9181]

@@NarcissistHex-nf9eq oh yes I do!! Praise the LORD

[@lynnanderson1923]

They move on so fast which just proves they never loved you in the first place

[@mic396]

​@@lynnanderson1923call it luck they move on

[@jennifergodwin29]

When they treat the new supply better it is short lived

[@mylittlekittens]

When you move and register your car, notify post office to forward your mail, that info can be found on websites. Gone are the days when you can have an unlisted phone number.

[@MentalHealness]

Great tip!

[@livinggood6876]

When ur nice, nice, nice, and done being nice.

[@michaelhollander]

Lee Lee Lee, you is something something like from the heavens. God's blessings are coming back to you from helping us with this confusion of heartbreaking horrors..❤

[@unomeecj]

He's always partially prepared for me to leave. Because he knows how he treats me. He knows that I'm a strong woman. I told him tonight, that he knows I'm not stupid. Maybe he prefers someone who's more stupid. He can control, but after thirty years he knows i'm not dumb

[@nicky-2550]

This is so spot on! I’m going through this! My ex would stalk me at the gym I go to, would write notes on my truck, and he kept my door key. This man told the police that he didn’t have my door key! Oh not to mention he said he was going to get his sister to beat me up,🤦🏽‍♀️not to mention I’m 54 years old, I felt like I was back in middle school😫🤦🏽‍♀️😳🥴. Thank you so much for having this platform.

[@a.w.3689]

My story is just like the person you're speaking about, and it has been a living hell!

[@misslacoste77]

My concern is how I feel, not them. Thanks for your posts and work you put here for us anyway.

[@nicholecornes1915]

Thats why you HAVE to make them KNOW you WILL take them to court if they fuck around

[@manfocused]

It's important to understand why a narc does what he (or she) does, how they feel when they do those things and how what WE do affects how they feel/think. But try not to spend too much time trying to understand them. That keeps the attention ON them (which is what they want) and not where it should be (doing what we need to do in order to break free from their control/manipulation so that we can heal). How a narc feels after you've taken steps to protect yourself from him (or her) should be of no concern to you. Educate yourself and use what you've learn to get yourself away from the narc.

[@dianepinkyharman1346]

I am planning on getting a body guard. Lee is right. I caused a narcissistic injury. This person won't stop.

[@MentalHealness]

Stay safe

[@Tlj4722]

Please STAY SAFE, GET LICENSED TO CARRY❤

[@audreajolie]

They are very selfish and only thinking about their own selfish needs and if you not offering it to them or agreeing to their demands they lose interest or try to get you back by love bombing you.

[@teresacastanedacastaneda6555]

My soon to be ex husband of 20 yrs was picking fights for reverse discard. He did not plan on me finding love texts to his new supply. He was discarded alright, earlier than he thought and he became the reason instead of me... I have filed for divorce!!!

[@comfortzone5618]

Same thing happened to me. He tried the reverse discard. But I caught him cheating. So it was done for real

[@AprilJackson-tg3kg]

When you are done with the narc they simply go to one of YOUR FAMILY MEMBERS and start using them to get to you

[@aiviewsandnews]

That Narc energy is everywhere.

[@norgelavender2029]

The worst thing ever can happen to a person is a narcissist mom 👩

[@ira1873]

Omg.. so true.. mine is the devil himself, helped my narc ex to take away the custody of my kid. I learned what “love” is from her, and chose such a husband. Please pray for me.

[@norgelavender2029]

@@ira1873 I will , stay safe well and focus you will definitely overcome everything one day.

[@essenenaziriteyirmeyahu851]

"you are just going to walk away? You don't care anymore? You never must have really loved me anyway. " 😮🙁😕 Wow @ 6:00 - 6:40 happened to me!

[@Kristinnnnnnlaughs]

I will eat up all the disrespect for around 9 years because I pity the narcs. For some reason after 9 years I give up and am numb to them. I’m finally changing and standing on boundaries. Being a people pleaser has made my life constant misery

[@TheCurlyBeauty]

My soon-to-be ex-husband keeps begging me to call him back to talk. He keeps throwing his sick parent into the mix because he thinks I'm supposed to care. It's unfortunate his parent is sick, but they are no longer my problem. My divorce will be final Nov 21st and I cannot WAIT! 🎉

[@djnolan00000]

Hey Lee, love your channel on tiktok and KZbin. I'm a recovered addict with depression and adhd so psychology is fascinating to me. You have brought us viewers a lot of insight on NPD and yes I realized someone from my past was 💯 % a narc too. Keep up the journey, you've come so far!

[@beverlyhills8988]

"To show you how much I love you, I'm willing to stalk you 🤡" That killed me 🤣 It's bad that it's funny.

[@nyreeheaney6198]

That’s so funny, whenever I come up with a good line or something I write it in my notes or in a message to myself too LOL

[@HollieMoodie]

Dealing with this now. Thank you for your blunt honesty.

[@Jensensrightfoot]

Good . If they withdraw it is less of a headache to deal with .

[@Brunettebeach]

My ex verbally unloaded on me at the end, he had just been lying and saying he loved me ect until I brought up his behavior for the millionth time…then bam. He cussed me out, accused me of wild things I wasn’t doing, it was how he REALLY felt. And I knew it for a long time. Finally telling myself I was worth more was what changed my mind. Choose you! ❤

[@donnadaniels5095]

This is why you never tell anyone that you're moving because someone will tell the Narc👿

[@wilmaguy7519]

BE DONE DONE IF YOU CAN AND BE SAFE SENDING 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️ TO YOU ALL

[@shefiyaahsuperfoodie9637]

Broke up with the Narc over a year and a half ago, blocked him on everything. Moved to a new place. Only thing i cant block him from is KZbin! He constantly stalks my channel. He even leaves several voicemails a month on my other phone he's blocked on smh Buddy just shows he really has issues. Will not disturb my peace ✌🏼💯

[@1976smb]

Wow, I'm so glad mine was a covert. Good grief, that dude showing up would have made me crap my pants. Even 25 year later, mine had her guy walk ten feet behind her, and when I ignored her she got upset. I walked by her a second time, and she was raging but wouldn't say a thing to me; the color of her face said it all. I was like what the hell, one pass and you rage out? Wow, so I did an severe injury to her? Listen, this happened in 2023, last time I saw her was 2009, and 2000, and I ignored her those two times. I wonder if she raged then too? I've never heard from her again. After 25 years she shouldn't of given a living crap about me.

[@lauranutt1351]

My ex, and father of my 3 children, did this. Still does. 8 years later. I am still struggling to feel like I'm allowed to live my life just being human and a mother.

[@DMAC1301]

When they live directly across the hall from you….. ugh no hopes of them leaving either.

[@naturally_jo]

Wow I’m in the same situation it’s been 3 weeks no contact blocked him on everything. He waits til I get off work to block my way to the apartment building or the hallway of our apartment building just to intimidate me 😒 I wish he’d just get a life and leave me alone

[@wendymoore01]

I believe every person, who is still toxic, is actually an unhealed Soul. And, since I'm on a healing Journey.... I'm perfectly fine with having unhealed people discard me. It lessens my guilt response. Because, I would have had to dump them. The fact that they did it to themselves.... Let's me off the hook. I can now release them with love.

[@sunsetman321]

When your done with them they will re emerge for the wrong reasons and think you moved on and try to get you back then a week later he/she will discard you again,they leave you when they cant control you anymore

[@JuanaLove6931]

Wow! So true! The narcissist will dare you to question them. The more you're on to them, the more they pull away, knowing that their withdrawal will just pull you in. Master manipulators, if you ask me. Sorry, but just sent another to the exit door. I'm learning fast because I have no choice. They seem to sense someone that will unknowingly play their game. They also learn to get better. Just my opinion...

[@NMTDelightfulMusic]

BLOCK, BLOCK, BLOCK!!!!!!!!!!!

[@dawnmarieperez6349]

In my case I believe she knows I'm done but refuses to believe it!!! She left a voice mail that says are you allergic to me and then she laughed!!! She said I love you only you!!! I think she calls because when she calls she feels connected to me and in her mind I'm still there!!! It's scary because I feel she'll never ever let me go completely and she might flip out!!! But I'm ready for that if it happens!!! And she'll wind up in jail!!! But I have no choice because I'm done with this monster and this nitemare!!! I tried the best I could to convince her to get help!!! I tried everything!!! I've even said just because I love you doesn't mean I'm going to put up with your toxicity!!! I'm so so DONE and I'm not looking back!!! I love my peace I love my life!!! I'm DONE!!!

[@NMTDelightfulMusic]

BLOCK, BLOCK, BLOCK!!!!!!!!!!!

[@JohnLeaf]

Awesome man! Keep fighting against these problem!

[@jlynnmenzel]

Video idea: How do you know you haven’t just used this channel to be a way of obtaining more supply? Narcissists do become more covert as they gather the game and know how to mimic the behavior of empathetic people without NPD. How do you know you’re not just mimicking the behavior you’ve found others think of as acceptable?

[@JackieMcmullan-d2p]

I gotta put me first!!! For 18 years i put up wigh him. He left me and disappeared after he withheld love for over 12 years. Im so thankful he left. Its been 6 months now. Im struggling financially but id rather be homeless than coming home to a narcissist. I hated to come home from work every day.

[@TheSmokersSociety]

BAHAHAH I LOVE YOU SO MUCH BRO. SO HAPPY I FOUND YOUR CHANNEL. WHEN YOU SAID "SOME PEOPLE THINK A BREAK UP IS MUTUAL I'm literally in years long relationships with like 5 women because they always check up on me and i never let the relationship end. i just tried my final act on another ex literally knocking on doors and all that. this is me so bad.

[@44julz44]

I’ve been following you from the start. You’re doing amazing things. Thank you ❤

[@MentalHealness]

you’re welcome

[@agathaegbuna4556]

I'm done after 30 years of marriage. It was hell on earth. The relationship was painful, tortuous, cruel, agonising and highly traumatic. I was suffering. I didnt even know what I was dealing with until i started to come across everything Narcissism, that was when i understood what i was dealing with. I've left him and have done nine months of no contacts. It's not been easy but it can only get better from here

[@guudnis]

HE DIVORCED ME and then got mad because I moved on. What’s that about?

[@Orquet-qj2nf]

Because he thinks he deserves to have a shiny, new toy and have his old toy boosting his ego by pining after him. Instead, he got REJECTION. 😱😱😱 Dun, dun, DDUUUHHHH! So now he's butthurt and thinks you're a meanie, poopie head for not giving him what he wants.

[@CourtneyRose79]

😂😂😂

[@Jewlii123]

I had reservations of my ex being alone with my daughter when she was an infant. I did not trust him with her and tried to voice that to him. His logic: you sure this isn't about your feelings towards me? You don't think this is about unresolved romantic feelings? Lee been shedding so much light on what I thought was the behaviors of an insane person!

[@williemaeboyd2966]

Yes indeed it's true it's sicken They can't believe that normal people move on it's completely insane 😊stay away. Life is too short....

[@mmmfun77]

Ego ego ego. They can’t see anything past their reflection. It is all about them and their needs. They only see it from their point of view . I got tangled up with a sociopath. That takes narcissism to a whole new level. He was also one of the highest initiates in Eckankar . That armed him with the ability to influence and manipulate people on the energetic level. I was enamored. I was under his spell going round and round on that damn merry go round that goes nowhere. I barely survived. Honestly I could care less how a narcissist so called feels. The trauma they inflict can affect generations. Mental predators. So so so much work went into recovering . Now I have clarity and can actually see the red flags a mile away. They are dangerous. Usually sociopaths are the one that dismissed you when the gas tank is empty and the light in gaslighting is extinguished. Pure poison

[@roxiealarcon2443]

That's my ex one hundred percent!! Even after 11 yrs he is still delusional about our relationship..

[@anneliegiesbrecht1366]

Oh I totally feel heard 😢 After almost 8 years it’s finally over since about April this year. I talked to his ex and it’s so shocking that the behaviour didn’t change at all. It was the exact same behaviour with her like it was with me. And he has a new supply but he rubbed it in my face in such a disgusting way. Even after blocking him he found a way to contact me. It’s like he’s trying to find reasons to contact me.

[@NathanSegal]

Wow. If someone did that to me I would call the police, immediately.

[@unomeecj]

Always on the defense, because he's always doing something shady, so he's always ready to f*** me over if he needs to

[@rosieingram6893]

Thank you Lee Once again positive knowledge ❤

[@ShaydraWest]

That's terrible, I feel so bad for her. ❤

[@Mary-t2p6p]

My narcissist would just head over to his mom’s house for snacks.

[@m.mercialicea4099]

Your healing your growth your freedom thank you so so much❤

[@ItsjustK96]

I did and he blocked me and anyone I followed on social media regardless if he knew them or not 😂 I was so done with the crap. Never again

[@deborahmotley7224]

I think that's what my toxic partner thinks. I think he thinks im scared to leave him cause like 2 weeks ago he told me "we done. There, i did it for you. You can at least say thank you"

[@whitneyparker5168]

Yup mine found a new supply and rubbed it in me and my sons face it was so sad and now 3 years later he still is suffering from the narcissistic injury and refuses to be a dad

[@tracieelrod7018]

Mine would get so mad if I ask any questions it was crazy how cruel he would get.. he told me i turned him off when I ask them even if it was .. what do you want to eat? I knew I could not be with someone that treated me like that.. all he did was teach me how to be without him..

[@monid8683]

Oh my gosh mine was the same way! He hated to be questioned. I couldn’t ask a simple question without him getting angry.

[@dwyererin83]

Mine hired a private investigator to find me while the restraining order was in place

[@labazoops]

Lee u said they will withdraw their love care and affection! Lol what love❤care🥰 and affection😘?!

[@labazoops]

Mine became extremely abusive then I went NO contact for 6 days! He called the cops n said to cops that he was worried about me cause I wasn't answering my phone! So wanted a welfare check on me! 😮 He gave total lies to cops then he stated he wanted a restraining order on me! They can not issue them here where I live! He was the one that was physically abusive to me!😢 He then tried to Hoover me! I'm now gone gone gone! 😊 He did death threat me!😮 Stay safe all! Seriously!!! ❤

[@sherryjackson5504]

Gotta love yourself 😊

[@deedlebug6548]

That's mine. But....4 months after not leaving me alone, silence for 2+ weeks. KNOWING HIM, he's got a new supply. But, idk I constantly feel like he's going to find a way to contact me again... through his friends

[@jazzyj.693]

YOU KNOW NARCISSISTS MINDS ARE TWISTED AFTER ALL THE MALICIOUS THINGS THEY DO & SAY TO YOU THEY FEEL LIKE THEY CAN STILL HOOVER & MAKE THINGS RIGHT FORGET THE PAST & THEN ABUSE YOU WORST THAN THEY DID THE TIME BEFORE THEY'RE JUST MONSTERS TO THEIR CORE

[@sacalvetti]

All these comments are so true!!!!

[@Sirena-p2z]

My ex narcissist came over my fence and came through my back door 🚪 when I told him that I don't love and want him in my life anymore...😢

[@khailahher6218]

They have zero feelings. They didn’t care in the first place. They only miss the supply. I found out the narcissist was cheating on my, I told him off and ended things. My only mistake was telling him off. I should have just went silent.

[@s-wes4107]

I hope she gave him the gift of a restraining order...

[@cyndigooch1162]

That can tip some of the more dangerous ones over the edge though and it doesn't work with others, for various reasons. 😥