I’m one of those people who have had to cut a few friends (and family members) out my life over the years…. It’s not because I didn’t care, it’s because I realized they *didn’t*.
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Thank you for opening up about your experience. It's important to take care of yourself and surround yourself with those who truly care. Your decision must have been tough, but it's a reminder that we need to value our own well-being. Wishing you peace and happiness moving forward.
@douglasanderson1532 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing. It’s a hard lesson. I did the same. I have no contact with my brother and two sisters for that very reason.. At the end of the day, their ability to truly care just didnt exist. When I made the choice to good in a completely different direction my life blossomed…
@roberthurley68602 ай бұрын
Very well said. We tend to think (and expect) family will be like a Norman Rockwell painting but when it isn't a point has to be reached that you need to make some decisions to save yourself. And removing yourself from that situation is the only way.
@bradwilliams16912 ай бұрын
As a friend of mine once said to me - "They may be family, but that doesn't mean that you have to like them". My ex sister is a thorough going, evil bitch, the day of our mothers funeral, I took her aside and told her that I never wanted to see or hear from her ever again.......EVER!
@sallycreitzman1953Ай бұрын
They are just people who you are related to. I’m estranged from my lot. I’d rather be away from them. Why put up with pain and crap
@Godwins472 ай бұрын
I love myself. This is why I've taken the narcissists out of my life. As well as toxic. This includes family and friends.
@ritalawrence28643 ай бұрын
I don't compare myself with anyone l am myself
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Of course! You are unique in your own way😊❤
@sofiaalonzo8072 ай бұрын
Good for you🎉
@dankilkenny33803 ай бұрын
Sometimes people you once knew that were your friends cut you off for no reason.
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
It’s tough when someone close to you cuts you off without explanation. Everyone’s situation is unique, and while it’s frustrating not to have answers, it’s important to focus on yourself and growth ❤
@whosyourdady9093 ай бұрын
I yam what I yam an' tha's all I yam
@dodgechallenger21162 ай бұрын
You're only telling part of the story
@aronkelley86343 ай бұрын
If you care about what others think, then you’re not living your best life! 💙
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Of course 😊❤
@tommytomtom55313 ай бұрын
There is an arrogant side to that also.
@aronkelley86343 ай бұрын
I respect your opinion! 👊
@indianahoneybee88523 ай бұрын
Anxiety is a symptom of a highly intelligent person. One day we will learn to control the vessel instead of letting it cause us suffering... Instead of letting ot control us.
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
That's good 😊❤
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
That's good 😊❤
@SolarHarvestSolutionsАй бұрын
Took me 60+ years to learn that, thank you for the reassurance of my past lessons … the hard way sometimes 👍
@WiseLensАй бұрын
I am glad it was helpful 😊❤
@user-ln4qe1sh8i3 ай бұрын
I love that. When someone is so sweet to you, don't expect that person will be like that all the time. Remember that even the sweetest chocolate expires 🍫 💯
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊❤
@Unknownlll1232 ай бұрын
It's nice for people to be proud of you but always remember, you have your own pride. ❤. ❤.
@antownemercer75523 ай бұрын
Great video. Great advice.
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊❤ I am glad you find it valuable ❤
@paulinesligo1774Ай бұрын
Yes I’ve had to drop a few people. I won’t allow toxic people who are negative and bring me down in my life anymore but as a people pleaser it’s taken 60 plus years to know my worth. I especially found this out during the last 4 years due to not taking the C vx.
@Passion5353 ай бұрын
The Truth is so true! If you were to think about "the current political issues we have here in this country" you could apply these great thoughts and words to it! Common sense will always win out in the end!!!
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
I'm glad you found them useful, even in politics😊❤
@p.steven2413Ай бұрын
Oh Wow , THESE ARE ALL SO WONDERFUL & TRUE 🥰🙏🙏🙏 MANY THANKS , I LOVE THIS 🙏
@WiseLensАй бұрын
Glad you like them!❤
@josephplatania55933 ай бұрын
Thanks. Very valuable
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
You are welcome😊❤
@annekathleen449828 күн бұрын
I've cut some friends and even family out of my life. I gave up hoping that they cared about me. I cared too much and I feel better since I started loving myself.
@TorchMagick2 ай бұрын
On my best days,I've found that tolerating myself is the apex of my self-awareness. I think I have some decent qualities, but I've been crapped on too many times to think there's some golden road out there that negates all the abuse and meanness I've experienced. And no,I'm not a youngster by any means..almost 70.
@WiseLens2 ай бұрын
The level of self-awareness, where you can tolerate and accept yourself completely, is truly empowering. It shows a deep connection with your inner self and a willingness to grow. Keep exploring and evolving!❤
@olddog1033 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
😊❤
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the support, I really appreciate it!❤
@AntonGrusovnik2 ай бұрын
Good stuff....so true!!
@WiseLens2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@Optimiscybers3 ай бұрын
Go where your heart ❤ takes you
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
😊❤
@1elkhills3 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
You are welcome 😊❤
@JJNow-gg9so3 ай бұрын
When you cut someone out of your life what they will do is pray for you, that's what I'm doing🙏✨📿🙏
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
😊❤❤
@dauwjoubert3 ай бұрын
YES ITS SO TRUE, AMEN, 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@vasudevancv84703 ай бұрын
Good one, but Too Many Quotes within a Minute without any break makes things difficult to register them in our mind.
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
I'll definitely keep this in mind for future videos to ensure the content is easier to absorb😊❤
@vasudevancv84703 ай бұрын
@@WiseLens Thank you very much for your courteous response.
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
@@vasudevancv8470 You are welcome ❤
@PinkPumpkin5293 ай бұрын
@vasudeevancv8470 What I do w/things like this, I email it to myself to watch & PAUSE @ my leisure! You might give that a try or even just PAUSE when watching! Cheers! ✌️🤘
@margmcmillan3 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness quiet people, relinquish sharing due to criticism that this true
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
😊❤
@roddycreswell86132 ай бұрын
I've never wanted to be something or someone else.
@lynetteowens94622 күн бұрын
Once people have done me wrong, they're out. No questions asked. I just say delete my number
@jenniferrucker22663 ай бұрын
I don’t eat sweet chocolate. I prefer the 95% or 100% cacao
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
😂😂 😊❤
@Leslie-es5ij3 ай бұрын
Remind me not to send you chocolates then !
@KayMcGrath-s8s2 ай бұрын
Self care and Self ❤️
@WiseLens2 ай бұрын
👌❤❤
@i-on-u3 ай бұрын
Father, help me to be stronger and be happy, Amen
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Amen😊❤
@manoramareddy46623 ай бұрын
i dont compare my self to any one ,every body s fate is different
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Of course! That's true😊❤
@NancyRivera-yt3bz2 ай бұрын
Family too
@WiseLens2 ай бұрын
It's true, sometimes even family can be part of this. It’s important to recognize these patterns and set boundaries to protect ourselves.
@dalefrances49673 ай бұрын
Outstanding
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊❤
@nothing-b2n2 ай бұрын
Yep
@vlachyna3 ай бұрын
Čím víc na vás na všechny seru, tím víc si o me všichni vymyslíte a snažíte se me zničit… Viz ta moje geniální rodinka…
@mariapark68232 ай бұрын
Amen gracias Dios mío ❤❤❤
@WiseLens2 ай бұрын
😊❤
@NancyRivera-yt3bz2 ай бұрын
People use you when they have problems
@WiseLens2 ай бұрын
It's unfortunate when people, use others only when they need something. It's important to set boundaries to protect ourselves.
@kennethpatierno62233 ай бұрын
Amen to that
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
😊❤
@MohmenZafrien2 ай бұрын
just leave it and don't think about revenge just only you can do is fucos on your self being better and looking for a new partner much better than to your x
@Terrence-s6v3 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
😊❤
@goral7053 ай бұрын
Slow down !
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Alright ❤
@hwy61633 ай бұрын
Too fast -
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
I will work on that next time 😊❤
@happydays36783 ай бұрын
Too fast
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Ok
@mylindacasbarro7773 ай бұрын
Like
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
Thanks 😊❤
@Optimiscybers4 ай бұрын
😢
@WiseLens4 ай бұрын
😊❤
@wondereagle3 ай бұрын
Yeah, but I suck.
@WiseLens3 ай бұрын
There is no need to feel bad about yourself, you can always work on yourself to be better❤
@amanda-clairebennett61322 ай бұрын
ALWAYS LIE AND MAKE THEMSELVES OUT TO BE THE TRUE VICTIM..............YEAH YEAH YEAH.....BLAH BLAH BLAH....