When You Just Don't Have Life Figured Out

[@depressiontoexpression]

Try out Aura today for free. The first 500 people to use my link will also get 25% off + free trial to the Aura membership: www.aurahealth.io/scottstemarie This episode is by no means a "fix" but hopefully reassures you that life is to be lived, not always figured out. That comes with action, time and experience. Trust yourself in the decisions you make and relieve yourself from the comparison of those who you think have it "all figured out".

[@fashionstarvation]

Hi Scott, I've applied for coaching a couple of times since september but you still haven't reached out to me

[@travisvansickle9002]

I’m 40 now and have less figured out now than when I was 30! Oh well…maybe I’ll figure it out tomorrow

[@sherlinejoseph3386]

If your 40 ...I could tell your birth year was in the 1980s!

[@heladds]

late 40's worse and worse ..now would rather be dead than alive

[@MimiBigCat]

Dear Scott, thank you for your calming, comforting and soothing content and voice. God bless ❤

[@TaniaPomalesArt]

"Pressure is the limited space we give ourselves." .... And this is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you. Letting the pressure go......

[@Andreea-i9w]

I watch your videos when im more broke, right now I have a big head ache and cried for hours, I'm gonna look some more of your videos to chill my mind. At least I stopped crying, thank you for making this videos, makes me feel I'll always have someone to give me an advice and a shoulder to cry on

[@browngirlshire]

Thank you Scott . I need this rn!!

[@depressiontoexpression]

You are most welcome :)

[@vadikritchey]

Thank you, Scott. You just made my day and proved my thoughts right. I'm going to breathe, I'm going to do the best I can, and that's going to be enough! No rush. I appreciate you. Thank you for this mindful video.

[@lisabroadbent6515]

You’re so cool Scott. Thank you.

[@earthfa333]

Your words are so needed. This compassion is lacking elsewhere in my life. Thank you. ❤

[@aallenjohnbautista7542]

Never thought something and someone could calm my mind like these within 20 minutes 💖 💙 Thank You Sir, God Bless

[@milicavojnovic1769]

I am so grateful that I came across your channel, so much! I lost both parents and was alone...And depression followed after everything. And this is how I want to thank you, because, with the help of your videos and your voice...I managed to get better and better, little by little! Immensely grateful! A huge virtual, positive hug for you... from me, Milica from Novi Sad.. Serbia!

[@angelakloer3338]

one step at a time... thankyouuu scott ! you too, take care🌻

[@silvermoonuk]

Hi. Glad your back, dude. I've just been dx with bipolar. Feeling hopeless at the moment 😕

[@silvermoonuk]

@@akram9429 ❤️❤️❤️

[@LurkingLinnet]

Heyy, you're gonna be okay❤ Lots of 💕

[@adz333]

He's back baby

[@stephaniezuercher87]

You’re amazing Scott, … thank you so much for this necessary information you’re putting out. It’s extremely needed for everyone ❤️ love you, big hug

[@pennyhare925]

Watched your talk looking for motivation just to take a shower ! Then you added the G-word God! I was soooo thankful to hear that Thank you already helping in one talk

[@Ahbhswrzq9221]

You do a very good job in comforting people. Thank you

[@sophiapde9369]

Thanks so much Scott, I needed to hear this today .

[@kevinmallon8692]

Came across this and havent watched your talks in a long time. Things have been spinning lately and you nailed it. Ruminating. Keep up your noble passion. You my friend make sense. I dont have IT, people, friendship, or myself FIGURED out. And thats ok

[@tarinaaleamoni]

Your words are so powerful and wonderful towards every human listening

[@abhaasthana6249]

Thank you scott

[@Mohammed-belhaj]

Thank You My freind you come exaclty in the right time

[@ryanbln1727]

thank you for calming my thoughts ❤

[@Rizkapramita]

Wow thankyou so much! this is what i need to hear, bcs i am so hard on myself these days. I will listening to this again and again

[@jsc0625]

3:52 called me out 😂 needed this, thank you! ❤

[@LurkingLinnet]

Thank you for returning, i was starving for these videos honestly!!! ❤ Was feeling so lonely and depressed today for no reason but peace is mine, gonna remember the message Lots of Love Scott. U inspire me to be a better person...but before all that u inspire me to just accept the human that i am . Its not always about the striving is it, sometimes u gotta just see it for what it is...thanks❤ Im enough

[@jodyanitawoulf2729]

Hey Scott: so glad to see you & to get an update from you. I use your old content as part of my days. Here by my team you are just known as Scott & they inquire how I’m doing w/your content. I’m so glad I found you awhile back. I would love more sleep meditations from you. I use the 3 you have. Also ty for the Aura idea & discount. It took me a bit to start to explore there. I am enjoying it much & it’s very helpful. Shucks! I wish I could use the coaching there. But it’s out of my budget. Thxs again.

[@ASMR4calmmoods]

You are the best. I love your voice and your presentations. Thank you for sharing with us!

[@liqing1994]

❤❤❤ feel good after listening to you.

[@joea4501]

Great Stuff, “we’re doing the best we can with the tools we got” 🧠👍👍

[@jodyanitawoulf2729]

This was super helpful. Ty Scott

[@cryptoandzen7611]

thank you for that🙏🏻

[@ayushidwivedi6330]

Thank you for this! Binge watching your podcasts and they feel like a warm hug in this cold depressing winter. :')

[@lisabroadbent6515]

Thank you for posting and sharing this KZbin video Scott. I’ve been feeling like I don’t have it all figured out today and after seeing or watching or viewing your video I have to say I feel a little bit somewhat better. Thank you for sharing and also posting.

[@anjanaprv2983]

This is so beautiful and helps you re-work your feelings/thought process. Thanks Scott. Maybe your experiences with depression and anxiety have also given you a unique edge of empathy that help others with the same experience. Thank you so much

[@EmanAliAlenzi91]

You came in the right time

[@autumntedford7148]

I love Scott podcast, it helps when your having your days .

[@vaidahimaheshwari2565]

Hiii, I found your channel very randomly and that too that video was something i needed to listen to, yesterday i had a very bad anxiety attack and i got myself to sleep listening to you. It's gonna be okay. Thank you

[@anjan7406]

Thank you very much for this beautiful amazing video. Thank you. This helped me a lot this random Saturday morning. Greetings from a small country in Europe.

[@Rav3r916]

I love you, Scott! Thank you for sharing this with us. So helpful and grounding. 🙇🏻🙏💚

[@snorbarzani-f3b]

This is exactly what I needed to hear , thank you

[@11katerinasofie33]

This was so so reassuring. Already listened to this 3 times ♡ thank you!!

[@weronikabilska4619]

Thank you

[@yashnanda162]

Recently, i met my long time friend from college, and i don't mean any offence when im typing this but he used to be a total wimp in college ...this same guy today owns a startup company At that moment when he told me i felt so frustrated with myself, bcz how could i let myself get left behind by this wimpy kid from college 🤣🤣 (agn no offence Kiran, if you ever read this!) So when i reached home i decided that i won't let my 9-7 daily job grinding get in the way of my dream of being a musician... i too will no longer delay on my dreams Your video was so relatable bcz yes despite my firm decision, I am still trying to figure out how I'm going to go about doing all the technical aspects of it and at the same time not to be worried about how the end result looks like... Feels a lot better now. Thank you Scotty boi ( sorry , do you have a preferred nickname?)

[@denisemunro283]

I just found you here Scott ❤️ You're amazing .. thank you so much for your wonderful gift of soothing ❤

[@Pamela-lt8no]

I can’t even figure out how to get out of bed never mind go to school have a podcast get a job have any money you may not have life figured out but at least you have a job and a life

[@Dawn33q]

Chicken fingers !!! lol, didnt see that coming . gave me a laugh :) thank you

[@oliae2898]

I really appreciate your videos.

[@Mariya-pg1sn]

Scott, you can't imagine how I happy when I saw that you uploaded a new video. I thank you very much and am grateful to you. You have changed many of my thoughts for the better🙏🏻🩵🩵🩵

[@sumjkn]

Thank you sooo much

[@rachaeladams7279]

Hi Scott. Do you think you could make more meditations that are longer? Thank you you’re amazing. I’ve been having panic recently and your voice is soothing and it helps me sleep. Live your content thank you for being so kind

[@0xabdrahim]

You content is awesome

[@peggy9300]

Honestly and simply put , I feel closest to God when a child smiles at me.

[@AndrewNderitu]

Yaay 😁Look who's back

[@Kjrl]

What if you have nothing figured out and you are already 34? I have literally NOTHING figured out

[@radostdinkova7909]

you are not alone here. I lived in Mexico for 9 years and moved to Spain to visit my mom. Trying to see what i can do here i dont want to go back to Mexico. I am 37 single woman no kids no partner . I am living with my mom and trying to get a job for the last 3 months. I dont get along with my mom so well, actually i am slowly finding out she is a total narcisist . So ye i dont know what i am gona do with my life.

[@autumntedford7148]

There's a lot of anxioness with life and restlessness I find it difficult sometimes.

[@lechatleblanc]

lol...love the ambiguous ominous accents lol

[@stevenschmitt3580]

I’m so sorry but, I suffer from CPTSD, can you talk about this? It’s hard to deal with this!

[@shawngormley]

17:58 Right now, I would like to figure out how to get over the combination of depression and lack of motivation.

[@isabellajanuario493]

I missed you on KZbin ❤🇧🇷

[@chicago9368]

Brother please keep making new content

[@janielalande]

Hey Scott, do you have the Aura app Android link too ? Great listening to you as always.

[@DefinitelyNotAFerret]

I swear I'm so close to just giving up

[@TopiasJarvinen]

Someday you will cry tears of joy because you didnt give up, you got this💪🏻❤️

[@DefinitelyNotAFerret]

@@TopiasJarvinen That's what everyone says, even though there are 50 year olds who have been going through it since their teenage years still clinging onto that hope of "it will eventually get better." There's no way in hell I'm going to wait 20 years before things get better

[@TopiasJarvinen]

@@DefinitelyNotAFerret i know its hard to believe, i didnt either. Until i got sober and started to practise meditation and self-love. 5 years ago i was at my lowest, battling with addiction. Didnt have any self-esteem and hated every part of myself. I just wanted to share this with you that you know anything is possible. The light is in you already, you just need to believe✨

[@catto157]

What if you're scared to let go?..

[@lechatleblanc]

love the glasses... wow❤❤❤hahah

[@misterjones30044]

OMG you are so right about high school algebra haha🏳️‍🌈

[@CozyToni]

This is so helpful. I put so much pressure and unrealistic standards on myself. When I can't reach these limited expectations, I get so depressed. It's refreshing to know that I don't have to stay on this mentally draining hamster wheel.

[@superlady2960]

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[@РоманДробязко-ъ9с]

Третина українців такі ж самі як Шуфрич та Бойко!!! На жаль якщо наші люди не почнуть змінюватися та змінювати свою Батьківщину- то загинемо ми та наша рідна країна!((

[@dianaperrera3233]

I've been feeling this way lately wondering whether it'll get better in the future. I'm hitting my mid twenties soon and still can't get my life together. I feel like I wasted a quarter of my 20s by making bad decisions for myself and I'm regretting it like crazy. I don't have a stable job with stable income and I still rely on my parents and grandma a lot. I've been feeling depressed and crying a lot to the point of thinking of killing myself cuz I don't see the point of living further anymore.

[@ymoonysun9130]

I also relate to you in terms of age, but trust me deep inside you know what choice will suits you the most out of what you have right now, and take that leap! A whole new life awaits you! :)

[@animalshaverights127]

Im 30 & feel the same... at least you can get a job... i didnt have a job before but now ive been applying...can you believe it? Never had a job... its crazy how a mental illness can rob us so much in life... it sucks...

[@qplanet]

I'm just wondering, what mental health issues have you had? What trauma have you faced? You don't speak like someone who has felt the weight of sorrow.

[@Ahbhswrzq9221]

😂Yes you’re right all that studying never taught us how to actually live life. SMH

[@nomg563]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@colasrtney]

Time I spent getting tutored in algebra could have been better spent...

[@shubhamsonawane5597]

👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻💐

[@Elin-Esteem84]

All the ads r very distracting during ur message, can u please make ur channel ad free?

[@EddieSpaghetti07]

@Scott Ste Marie Can you marry me cutie ? 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@Lifeisworthless500]

I've been watching you for a while man. What I do not seem to understand is how does it make sense to trust and hope that things will get better when nothing is in your favor. Being born with the wrong tools like no money, poor family, worthless passport, wrong skin color even. Life is rigged against some people and no amount of hard work, hope and anything is gonna help

[@yashnanda162]

Find a way bro, many people in the past and present have been or are going through much worse situations ... take any great leader you look up to or anybody else for example All of those people, despite having all odds stacked against them, found a way to make history and they did so bcz they had trust in their abilities. There's also a good chance many of them didn't really trust themselves but that's what Scott is telling in this video, nobody had it all figured out, but still they found some way to give their all at that time.

[@TaniaPomalesArt]

And yet there are people born in those situations where it seems like there is no possible way they would ever overcome any of it..... and somehow they managed to overcome. So if they did it, then that means the possibility exists for all of us to do the same.

[@Lifeisworthless500]

@@TaniaPomalesArt Just look at those people and their lives almost every time you will find they had something in their favor either rich parents or they were born in a good country.

[@TaniaPomalesArt]

​@@Lifeisworthless500and you'll find plenty of them who had nothing in their favor. And they still made it. It's easy to say "yeah but they had this they had that...".... Much harder to look within and see what is conflicted within yourself. I know because I'm on that journey right now.

[@jdmerwede]

Thank you

[@sumitrajput2777]

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[@CavilkeStrain]

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