When You're Secretly The Most Anxious

[@allilee]

Me af. When you're introverted, socially awkward, and anxious.

[@fritziundso]

same here ^^'

[@ghizbinthuda9917]

Alli Lee welcome to the team!

[@augurelite]

Ayyyy :D

[@nancyv2084]

ayooo!

[@mauriceestelle4619]

Nancy where's the lie?!

[@wanderlust9372]

If THIS means I am anxious ... Dude i'm 100 times worse

[@pinkspirit6986]

ikr

[@pandapleeb5790]

littlegyaru japandream you probably have anxiety then

[@gunnermylove]

same

[@Schodboyblves]

where's the shaking and feeling like you're detached from your body

[@cuiji5297]

littlegyaru japandream SAME

[@nellieveber7738]

Why is Sara always thinking about goats? Lol

[@rexyswelltown2361]

Strawberry Pancake maybe because she looks like one

[@mxdhxtter4593]

sohia a what

[@rexyswelltown2361]

+LokDani she looks like a goat

[@mxdhxtter4593]

sohia a nah

[@sigh.enough.2987]

OK, now let's give part of a real answer - her boyfriend took her to a petting zoo, where there were baby goats, and that day was a happy memory for her. She tweeted about it, and that's how I know.

[@______________2944]

Any chair can be a rocking chair if your anxiety is bad enough ☺️

[@tyffaneelavely8087]

any area at all can be! ;)

[@lucianagil7640]

+Tyffanee Lavely Yep

[@EprilSiDragon]

WolfArtist666 truth

[@Ava-zp4lo]

Or adhd

[@stayhydrated2371]

facts, actual rocking chairs are my savior

[@babylee1849]

She's a saint compared to me. I'm a mess. Help. (I read over this 10 times to make sure there were no typos and I guarantee I'll check even after I post it just to make sure..)

[@pycnanthemums]

Same

[@faizahmed5761]

I can relate so much!

[@willaroberts2837]

why'd you put two periods ".." its meant to be "..."

[@tifanyshirley]

I have a very confident appearance, yet I have mild social anxiety. I want to be social, and am good at it when I am with friends. But meeting new people or being in a group of people sends me into an anxiety attack. The struggle...

[@flala2261]

Tifany S get a book for a dollar on amazon for some good tips for small talk ✌🏻👍🏻

[@tifanyshirley]

fla la But I know small talk. Like thats the problem, I can hold a conversation and all that, I just am too nervous to do it.

[@Nedara7]

What the hell BuzzFeed... this isn't anxiety...

[@ih1413]

Natalie Van Everdink

[@pandapleeb5790]

Natalie Van Everdink anxious is different from anxiety

[@Emmaslife916]

Natalie Van Everdink u do know anxious is different

[@youngpatrick29]

having anxiety and being anxious are the same thing.. one cannot have anxiety but not be anxious lol. and vice versa. needless to say I agree... this video was a pretty poor representation of anxiety

[@gabriellalouise3150]

PeeJayTV you can feel anxious about something without actually having anxiety. Like being really anxious about having to do a speech.

[@heymeemow]

All those guilty say 'i' **raises hand** "i"

[@lolaxrosesings1850]

Aimee Nutmeg I

[@user-js8hf3zj9y]

Aimee Nutmeg i

[@SD-sl4qu]

Aimee Nutmeg 🙋🏼I

[@michellechung6163]

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[@roshellyurio9693]

"I" **raises hand** 🙋

[@thegossiptimes]

The complimenting this is so true tho, like you never know if they're saying it sarcastically or truthfully

[@XxRoEmxX]

I'm not SECRETLY anxious.

[@linny3012]

that's... not really what anxiety is like

[@dennisenam4228]

titanslayer anxious is not anxiety

[@asherstrickling2467]

I agree

[@libertyhemming9360]

It says anxious not anxiety. They're different. Also, this are all factors that could play in a part of Anxiety. I know from experience.

[@h_wolff]

wtf...... how moronic are u ppl?? anxious and anxiety aren't the same??!! the word anxious comes from the word anxiety, they are the exact same thing!!! 20+ likes on both comments, smh.......

[@livale8337]

Hasan Edeeb Just because the words have similar origins doesn't make them the same numbskull, otherwise you're gonna have to say that the fire extinguisher is actually a Japanese Musical Instrument or things that are "wicked cool" are by definition evil. Anxiety is short for "Anxiety Disorder" which is a mental health issue with a variety of symptoms. Being Anxious is expressing discomfort and awkwardness due to a situation or other form of stimuli. Anxious comes from the word Anxiety because a lot of the symptoms of Anxiety are mimicked to a lesser extend when one is Anxious. Yeah, it's complicated, it's confusing, but the English language is inherently flawed in so many really stupid ways and if we want to prevent further confusion we just gotta deal with it.

[@peachc9905]

I'm not secretly anxious I'm obviously anxious

[@williamphillips7527]

This is about 95% me. I didn't ever think of my self as anxious.

[@schizowitch6685]

I'm anxious af and it gets harder and harder to laugh it off, it sux.

[@flala2261]

Christina t h c yup, feeling the same. ✌🏻🙏🏻☯️

[@enteranamelastname4063]

schizo witch have you told someone, i told my parents and i feel a lot better, and if it gets really bad they said i can easily go of someone to get help, so i feel okay now

[@schizowitch6685]

I don't feel like talking to my parents will help me with having proper conversations and keeping my hands in place.

[@kikonyc68]

It hard for me to say "Hello" even if I know them and they know me.

[@jadeparker7621]

So true

[@Aryan111ize]

you cant take action when you r in your head just let go and everything go easy, meditation helps alot

[@jinglejanglers7656]

"How many goats can fit in a minivan?" Questions that keep me up until 4am.

[@Aryan111ize]

baby goats are cuter than baby humans

[@MaoriBoyHD]

when you tense all the time

[@olivia4087]

Lol at this accurate video coming in right at final exam time

[@queenb244]

Olivia 63rd

[@OliviaPlunkett]

Olivia Agreed!

[@elijahsdrawings2243]

If this is 'secretly anxious' then I must be what the kids call 'an emotion-heavy ticking time bomb'

[@envyandlove]

I'm not even secretly anxious I'm anxious about everything and everyone knows it

[@anitadutoit3585]

I admire people who can change their order at a restaurant if it was wrong.. I seriously just drink what they give me even if it's not what I asked for... I'M ANXIOUS

[@anitadutoit3585]

Hannah H. oh yeah! but if I got a steak with a little bit of blood, I WILL NOT EAT IT

[@JamesDanielMarrsRitchey]

Silverlining is you expand your palet. :)

[@carolinec.1482]

Wow anxiety is so quirky and relatable!

[@abbygibler6236]

having anxiety and being anxious is two different things

[@carolinec.1482]

Abby Gibler either way, this video seems kind of cheap to me. Feeling anxious shouldn't be treated like a way to be quirky and different. Just an opinion

[@abbygibler6236]

ya, i can see what you mean

[@elanor5080]

Totally! Omg relatable af lmao

[@fannishfanning160]

Sarah is now the only reason I hold on to Buzzfeed Violet.

[@atlasvellichor]

I couldn't keep it a secret if I tried.

[@niffler09]

I'm openly anxious

[@rayanetc]

I saw the title... I knew it was for me

[@OCSleazy]

This is me, but its 10 times worth with depression on top. Its crippling pretty much.

[@tryhardreject8125]

It's our christmas party today and I was excited to go like last week but I changed my mind last night. I had a panic attack cause I saw all my friends talking about wearing dresses and off shoulders when I was gonna show up just wearing a flannel and skinny jeans. And now I have to risk seeing them all on my social media having fun looking amazing af without me.

[@gseverson8862]

Try Hard Reject Completely understand your point of view. Except im forced always look different from my friends, because my parents are extremely conservative, not necessarily politically, but with my clothes I have to wear really covering clothes like I can't wear short dresses at all they all have to be at least at my knee. So while I don't have exactly the same problem as you, I always look different from my friends. It sucks. Good luck. 💙

[@cloudofreverie786]

I still get very anxious telling/shouting to the bus driver to stop at my destination. Like the amount of people in the bus will eat me if I said anything. I have to prepare myself before doing it, like how I'm going to say it, what tone I'll use, how loud should it be. Idk sometimes I just pray to God that someone will do it for me and have the same place to stop the bus with.

[@julienl7241]

That sounds horrible. Luckily where I live there's buttons you can press to do that

[@winterchild7872]

Cloud of Reverie where do you live? Because I've never heard of shouting to bus driver to stop on a bus stop, I thought that buttons which show driver that someone wants to get out of the bus are used everywhere

[@holypicklesmofo]

I feel like there's a difference between insecurity and anxiety? This video doesn't really capture much anxiety

[@AlexandraMoraru92]

I'm openly anxious, not secretly.

[@ΜαρίαΜ-υ5θ]

THIS IS ME . THIS IS MY WHOLE DAMN LIFE IN A VIDEO. THANK YOU.

[@aishan7952]

..i thought this was normal

[@Mizosoop]

It's not a secret. I am anxious as hell. I hate it.

[@zeecaptainz]

ACTUALLY IM OPENLY ANXIOUS THANKS FOR YOUR CONCERN

[@jana_a_banana]

Pro tip: pressing the power button on your iPhone twice will decline calls when your phone is locked.

[@kawaiisnow3564]

Jana Tucker (you made a big mistake using that word) PROTIP

[@musicislove90]

"was he making fun of my hat?" 😂 me anytime I get a compliment

[@aliciabackham6554]

I do all of these things but it's not a secret that I'm anxious

[@mjhaunting]

I'm obvious anxious. When I stress about school, the only person I'm willing to talk to is my mom

[@livale8337]

"Secretly" Yeah, that's it, it's a secret, I totally keep it a secret...

[@positivityparty2454]

her curly bangs are adorable! 💜

[@selcan234]

WHY IS SHE SO RELATABLE LIKE EVERY FUCKING VIDEO

[@Jhariah]

Actual footage of me trying to exist

[@charlottewagner666]

why do people just talk about about social anxiety? i don't have socail anxiety but everytime i tell someone i have anxiety they think i have because they don't know that there a diffrent kinds of anxiety ugh

[@erina.9350]

Charlotte wagner I know!! i had it so bad i had to go to a mental health hospital for 2 weeks 4 years ago, but they didn't even help me cuz mine didn't add up with the social anxiety thing. I got anxiety attacks to the point where I would uncontrollably scream and sometimes puke whenever someone I was close to would leave the house and not text me cuz I would assume they died. I'm not sure if that is a type of anxiety, but my doctor gave me anxiety medication.

[@charlottewagner666]

no my anxiety is kinda diffrent it's also death anxiety but in different situations and sometimes I also puke bc of it and just cry mostly

[@boyandcatmum]

Don't you love it when people shout at you and put you down to help you with your anxiety great work because that is going to help

[@maaagdapng]

Just before this Video an unknown number called me... I havent answered it 😂

[@Molly1]

maaagda.png no way that happened to me too

[@maaagdapng]

molly gill 😂😂😂 This is a cursed Video! 😂

[@Molly1]

maaagda.png 😂yeah ikr I might call back but idk

[@maaagdapng]

molly gill In my case it might bei a bit weird If I'd call back 3h later... If its important, they'll call again (this is what i keep tellin myself 😂😂)

[@Molly1]

maaagda.png yeah I guess so but it's so tempting

[@sunwings2549]

I have anxiety, but it's definitly not a secret. I'm lucky because my friends help me a lot because they know, there are things I can't do because of my anxiety. Sometime I need to call someone to take a appointement, but I just can't do it! So my friends are just like "Do you want me to call them for you?". They also rescue me when people talk to me too long (it get me very anxious). I'm glad I have them with me. They're amazing, and they're always here to help me when I'm freaking out.

[@oliver3089]

Omg that part when she was like "I'm dying." is so relatable to me.

[@lowri974]

"When you're *secretly* the most anxious" laughter of anxious people in the distance

[@arbood26]

still trying to not look at my phone in the middle of the night 😂

[@xraye_]

Ario Budiarto Good luck 😯

[@Bhawna03]

Sara is my spirit animal.

[@duragtoby]

I am literally so anxious and paranoid, every night I imagine there is a clown standing standing at my doorway. I need help.

[@v4lentinaaaaa]

"oh thanks (was he making fun of my hat?)" literally me everytime someone compliments me

[@simra1996]

Sarah's my spirit animal 😂

[@avevee9708]

Lol this is so perfectly me.

[@lightning2367]

What a short relatable video

[@velajuel_]

0:28 THIS IS SO ME HAHAHA

[@phoeniz7464]

I'm REALLY anxious most of the time. Especially when I think people are laughing at me. Once a boy told me he liked me and I punched him in the face because I thought he was making fun of me. No joke. Turns out, he really did like me which is too bad because I liked him too. There goes a perfectly good relationship, down the drain.

[@cyan5866]

Idk if I'm anxious but I sure am awkward

[@xraye_]

Pretty Panda🐼 That isn't anxiety or anything but yeah I'm awkward to. 😎

[@michellek9575]

i feel like crying when ppl "move away from me or walk away"

[@APerson01100]

Shoutout to all the peeps who keep their social anxiety to themselves

[@lanfriesen]

I've gotten really good at hiding my panic attacks.

[@emily-qs1tl]

I'm a MASSIVE fan of Buzzfeed. They're videos are AWESOME!!

[@indianmota]

I am anxious and I know it...

[@mumtazsaid8843]

and you really like to show it

[@indianmota]

nice rhyming sir.....

[@manygoodgnomes4772]

THIS IS ME EVERY SINGLE DAY

[@nidhishenoy24]

i can relate to this on a whole new level

[@margaretthatcher8246]

the one where someone gives you the wrong drink and you're to anxious to say its the wrong one is me 100%

[@jenndreyer8292]

riiighhttt because having anxiety is so quirky and cute!

[@fatherpeggy]

Why is it secretly anxious? Everyone knows I'm frickin anxious as heck! NO SECRETS HERE!

[@wookiecookie96]

I'm super anxious. The fact that my future career path involves human interaction 24/7 is making me anxious

[@WittyKitten]

Story of my life. I always get anxious in any social situation.

[@Stranded73]

I think I'm *obviously* anxious!

[@sistersandcat]

I play it cool I'm a total extrovert but inside I'm usually so anxious.

[@saigeissosour1696]

I mean. It's no secret, but still accurate.

[@NicoleGuarnera]

its no secret, and i must be a wreck if this is considered anxious

[@bernadettef1942]

sara ur hair is wonderful! looks so gorgeous and healthy now! 😀

[@loxish4493]

My life in 1 video

[@eolgrillo]

I sometimes try to let people know that i have anxiety, but they dont beliave me, they think im just being overdramatic

[@plzdontbebasic5175]

I am not just anxious I am deppressed

[@katefirestone7998]

Wtf why is this so me

[@Lauren-fy2mu]

probably because you're anxious

[@katefirestone7998]

ayy lmao Lol yeah I know, it's the worst . I'm hoping to be able to change that ...... I've lost so much of my life to it , and I will refuse to let it continue

[@hardcoreyaoiforlifenarutoi5815]

Kate Firestone Your not alone ! XD

[@summeronmymind]

freddie appearing in all these latest videos makes her seem like a new member. i love it, black don't crack.

[@caitlinb7669]

I'm the exact same! I don't think I have anxiety but I do get anxious really easily

[@tylerbrown8637]

I love how the video starts with Sarah thinking about goats🐐

[@pinkspirit6986]

I definitly dont "secretly" my anxiety is so obvious that it gets others anxious.

[@stephanylovesfood1472]

when the video just literally explained your life

[@Bagelstorm]

I wish my anxiety was like hers... She seems calm

[@redacted8809]

love this and love videos w/ sara in them!!

[@sigh.enough.2987]

In Sara's case, I don't see how that could be a secret, at this point.

[@bellaquigley5587]

Omg, I love Sarah's hair

[@gabricato1502]

" I'M DYING ". HAAHHAH IT'S SOO MEE

[@gdcruz7186]

I literally thought she left buzzfeed. I'm so glad she's still there

[@pernillesandhu6399]

well, it's a pretty old vid, though

[@maevadupuis7936]

this is a really good resume of my life lmao

[@kevinsb70]

sarah is my doppelganger and i may love her. she is the best thing on earth since the lock.

[@madk7583]

All of my friends know when I'm seriously about to have a panic attack, other than that I don't tell anyone if I'm anxious.

[@lilyblish3995]

I'm anxious but its not a secret.

[@mazgraz]

I'm for sure the most anxious, but it's definitely not a secret..

[@amaliaislas5109]

Surprising I am the most anxious out of my social group

[@Henchman_Holding_Wrench]

I'm super anxious about everything, but it doesn't show. I can't even fully convince myself that my posture conveys confidence even though people tell me it does.

[@maggiehuston4909]

As I'm watching this my legs are shaking for no reason...

[@andiii10]

Acting natural is such a tough job when you're anxious....😥😥