When You STOP Caring, He STARTS Caring (3 Reasons Why)

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[@AskDandR]

Hey Stephan, I have a question? So, right now the guy that I’m with left and he traveled and it’s been two weeks now. So, he was going to tell me that he traveled but he has thing that it’s hard for him to say it or explain because he doesn’t want to make feel sad nor feel away from me although Technically we are in a long distance relationship. Now, I’m giving him space of not reaching out to him or texting him, I called him a few times to be honest with u, but the calls are unavailable. And we havent since literally called or video called. Meaning that we just text throughout the week. It’s been like since we got into this relationship. And we did address our needs and wants he does show in the text, love and affection though. So, I’m scared that he might cheat on me. On the media seems like he’s working. Oh as for me, from my side I gave him everything he asked for and he does provide , like getting me gifts and thinking about the future picture but I think it’s a wrong time because he hasn’t made that move yet, still for us to meet up in person. Where, clearly said to him that once u make that move we decide what to do next. So I feel he’s pressured maybe, but he say that he wants us to meet. And whenever, something comes up in my life whether I’m busy with work or doing something, I always tell him. He does say that going for work but he has thing where doesn’t really tell me what he’s up to you. And when I ask him, he doesn’t say things to the fullest. My question is, how can address this out to him. So he doesn’t do it again? About traveling and what can I do to address my issue to him? Hopefully u can help me…

[@loganfinucane6990]

Ladies!!!! We have walk away power! If you are unmarried let them go, you are worth so much more!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@amandaebele2816]

Thank you 😊

[@yvesgysel9834]

I know that younger women often fall for the bad boys, some women never grow out of it. They bring drama, excitement, are totally unpredictable and you will get constantly hurt. Bad boys are not long-term relationship material. A simp neither. A strong good man (reliable, will lead, support you, has values and morals, works, financial stable...) Also towards other people. Now that's the type of guy you can build a good long-term relationship with and building a family. Do not take him for granted. Appreciate him and respect him. Respect = Love from a man's perspective.

[@junoluna771]

This the one

[@yvesgysel9834]

As a guy, certainly true. 💯 Basically, it's mostly not that we do not care, but rather that we do not realise it's a big deal for you. In general, we are more logical and communicate differently. You should watch how we communicate with our male friends. It's pretty straightforward. Hints, complaining (nagging) will not help. The best way is to remain calm and tell it straight up what exactly brothers you. What really works very well. for example: "Honey, you know I love you very much, but I would be so happy if"... (explaining the issue(s) and why it's a big deal... ) So now you have his full attention and he will truly listen and definitely work on it. If this does not work, he's checked out, a total dushbag and you are better off without him.💯 Do not wait. That only leads to more frustration and unnecessary pain. To give you an example, I did not realise that anniversaries were such a big deal for my long-term girlfriend. So now I always surprise her and take into account that for her that's a big deal. I honestly like it, too, now.

[@mikochild2]

Yeah, doesn't work. Women give men the whole road map and men still miss it. And if she mentions it 50 times, it's probably important... Also, men are not more logical. They are just socialized to use certain language. Example: Men will say "i think" to explain emotions while we will say "i feel" to discuss facts.

[@rachelross5829]

I'm heartbroken but not crying anymore. He told me his childhood trauma and explained he doesn't even know what love looks like. I love him so much and see he's on a beautiful spiritual journey but I just can't bring myself to have casual sex😢. I love myself to much and used to men giving me beautiful love offerings material and their heart. How can I love him if he won't let me. He entertains relationships that are shallow but he's not. I had to really cut the cord. He didn't chose me and I just need to heal.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@TrulywalkingbyFaith]

Been there done that! Keep going it really doesn't get better. Finally moved on to A much better connection. Best wishes

[@Jenishabadoo]

Understand completely sis. Hang on to you. ❤

[@jasminedahna9901]

Same kind of thing happened to me I blocked and walked

[@jasmic38134]

Good for you for choosing YOU, despite the love you had for him. You deserve someone to love you just as much as you love them!

[@Marie-vz2qp]

Some men don't know what they have, until they lose it.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely!

[@dominiquebellegarde8914]

Definitely he's displaying that

[@PerfectlyAshley]

This TV scenario is missing something….you tell it all the time but what you don’t consider is….the fact that the man did not have the desire to show affection while being around his wife is the problem. Why doesn’t he naturally WANT to be close to her while watching tv. These are the little things that don’t make sense to women. IF HE WANTED TO BE CLOSE TO HER, he would have….without being coached.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@robin-chat2812]

I would communicate what I want. He should do the same with me

[@Otipapacy]

Thanks for sharing

[@Whatyousayin24]

Thank you!

[@Theinfamouskiki411]

This the comment of the day! I understand couples get comfortable and in a routine. But I like consistency and they start out being attentive and loving then over time that all goes away and you stuck being roommates or he don't hug you unless you having sex. That I cant fix. He has to do the work on his own. Because being in a non affectionate uncomminicative relationship is the worst and I ran from that over a year ago and feel happy I left.

[@ChrisW1019]

It's taken me 35 years. Constructive criticism, expressing of issues and problems with the hope of reaching a solution and improvement are better recieved when delivered in kindness. Speaking out of anger, frustration and personal attacks completely override and over rule any pathway to conflict resolution and building up a person's character.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@jasmic38134]

Thank you for this comment. I have to screenshot your comment. This is very true. I'll use this as a reminder because I'm still learning and trying.

[@freetodream8945]

THIS right here.👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@mssapphire1490]

I tried communicating by writing a letter twice. And gave time but still didn't care enough to work on them. I did my part in working on my trauma. His excuse was that this is who I am when you met me. And I'm not changing. Yet, I changed how I was before because it bothered him. So I left. It's going on 3 months since I left and he's sad about the fact that I decided to put myself first.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️

[@mssapphire1490]

@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you ❤️ your videos as well as your books are helping me a lot.

[@Afternoon99]

You’ve decided what’s best for you, doesn’t matter it hurts others or not, because you being there isn’t making you better either, being there hurts you. So you leave for your own hood, not to hurt anyone ❤❤❤

[@mssapphire1490]

@@Afternoon99 facts! I appreciate your comment. 😊

[@bluebutterfly5062]

Girl I've had the same problem. I did the work because I knew I had to. When it was his turn, it's " this is just who I am" You can bring the horse to water, as they say

[@RiriJay]

Most men start pulling away because of lack of consistency and interest not because they don’t realize it trust me. Once you talk to that man and he just brush you off or does not acknowledge and change his actions just walk away it’s not worth the back and forth tussle that is about to happen for Lord knows how many years. Then you going to wake up one day and realize that you have spent years begging a man for the bare minimum

[@GreeneChakra]

Wow…

[@aspyatkova]

Facts! They do realize and they do know what's needed, because women ask, women talk, women beg, women cry over the same issues

[@vicki_nelson3]

Dang...why can't all men be as aware as you are?!❤You give great advice

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much. I appreciate that 🙏

[@synergy4119]

The more I know men, the less I want to be with them. Girls, if we have poured into ourselves all those efforts and energy, that we wasted for the wrong guys, or another 'attempt', we could have achieved everything whatever we had always dreamed of. Stay strong, rely on and believe only into yourself.

[@Sunlightsam24]

Best advice for women … 💯, especially at the end. Many women use nurturing to act like his mother, they aren’t aware of what’s happening. Men aren’t going to be attracted to a woman who is in mothering/nurturing energy. He’ll start to disconnect and disengage, and not be aware of why.

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[@Lynn-r7x]

The more and more i watch these videos while it is good information it just shows me more and more how much work women have to do in relationships from all aspects. Im over it. Being single with cats is looking more and more appealing.

[@cella-di5jb]

They wouldn't know your worth until they loose you...ladies when you shut the door to your heart, make sure its shut tight The one who deserves you will come

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@cella-di5jb]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Welcome 😊

[@beckypetra9505]

My allways going back to him but this time I take it from you. Thankyou ❤

[@cella-di5jb]

@@beckypetra9505 🫂🫂🫂, welcome 😊

[@patiencesibanda6599]

This is what happened to my relationship and to me it ended along time ago , i gave him a benefit of doubt but i couldn't take it anymore 😢😢 Thank you for this

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@elenarotestan5823]

I personally think that when communicating with our partner, we should ask what was understood about what was said and ask questions to avoid misunderstandings.

[@charitybanda4008]

We are really wonderfully made creatures, both men and women. Why can't we just fall in love with each other genuinely without all the mind games. It's so exhausting and very unhealthy the way today's generation is going on with relationships. No wonder some people have vowed to remain single for sanity sake.

[@marcellamiller7808]

💯👏🏽👏🏽

[@RiriJay]

First Rule Of Thumb: Treat your spouses how you treated them in the beginning! Just think about it, if that was new person that you really like you would not sit on a whole different couch to watch tv with them 😅 you would be all over them cuddled up. Keep that same energy for your person. Second Rule Of Thumb: Never go to bed angry at each other and always have a mature conversation about how your day went and things that maybe on your mind and show grace and compassion in your feedback and responses. It’s simply being intentional

[@moniques_brew2438]

In my case, i always initiate a conversation. If i stop, that is it . There's no communication.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Communication is definitely key and if you can't communicate with him why are you still there?

[@moniques_brew2438]

​@@MeetStephanSpeaks I have stopped initiating the conversation because it makes me feel like I'm forcing myself into a relationship with him even though he was the first to express his affection for me.

[@horschiday9449]

@@moniques_brew2438THAT!!!!!!

[@yvesgysel9834]

I'm very sad to hear this. That must be very frustrating. How is he treating you? Good communication is 🔑 to a healthy relationship. Was he always like this? Introvert? As a man, I have figured out that, in general, women want to be heard, and definitely, we need quality time. For example, I still take my long-term girlfriend out on dates. Cuddle, just hold her. (Great stress releaver) Good luck.

[@moniques_brew2438]

​@@yvesgysel9834 Exactly! Communication is key but I think he's not interested anymore. I am done proving my worth to men and so I'm not going to worry myself getting him to be in a conversation with me anymore..

[@xcstar185]

I needed to hear this. I'm in the middle of a break up, we're meeting to make a final call tonight. I was questioning my decision to leave bc he says he cares and can step up. This gave me clarity; I'm going to trust my gut and my head, my heart is going to have to take a back seat this time around.

[@busitseba]

Wishing u all the strength from God. You are more than enough for God ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope you are able to do what is truly best.

[@ninjacat508]

He can step up to show he's growing emotionally while you are broken up. Generally takes about a year of assessment to determine if someone has truly turned a new leaf. You have the right to break up and tell him you'd prefer to see the progress (for an appropriate amount of time, ie ... not a week 😊) before returning to a relationship with him. Think about it. You don't have an infinite amount of time. Utilize your time wisely.

[@greeneggslamb9336]

"My heart is going to have to take a back seat this time around." POWERFUL statement!

[@horschiday9449]

🥺🥺

[@angeljackson5865]

I am going thru this now. This ex is pulling on my energy so bad. Even in dreams.. Lord. Sending folks to watch me. He was a narcissist and now due to his ex has landed in prison. Not my problem. He tried to use her to make me jealous. 😂😂😂 Really I don't get intimidated..I love myself. And how..wow .new meaning to actions speak louder than words..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@pennymichaels7449]

Love your videos, always great insight😊 I watched an interview you did with Lisa Bilyeu, I was taking notes I learned so much. I hope you do more videos with her in the future, I'd watch hours long of you two just chatting😄❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@Klaus9002]

I love the interview with Tom Bilyeu

[@claradelacruz3740]

Thanks so much Stephan, that was so enlightening. I wish I heard/saw your video 19 years ago. It isn't I just wasted time waiting for him as I was also doing interesting stuff for myself and my family but I could have loved myself more to resist his charm and bare minimums. Anyway, as the saying goes, it is never too late to do the right thing as long as you are alive and have the strength to nurture you first. A tall order for a woman who is obsessed with an avoidant and emotionally unavailable guy. With prayers and effort, I shall get there in HIS time.

[@dnmp4632]

Being honest- everything you said really hit my spirit, I appreciate you!!! The way you really know how to tell us what we need to hear sometimes is laced with that deep thought and it’s lessens the blow but without minimizing the impact of what you’re saying ❤ thank you 🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@ChanteHowe]

I have wrote a long text to him simply explaining how he made me feel and how he speaks to me and not only was he angry and dissmcive he said stop sending him long books he hate that but when I address it to him verbally he worse he over talks yells and become nasty with his words so at this point I don't see me moving forward with him because if we can't be transparent and have a conversation this relationship will not flourish in a healthy manner

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Communication is definitely key!

[@Shecreates691]

Amazing video ❤. But what do you do when you address an issue with him multiple times in a calm and loving manner and he just continues to pull away?

[@cheryllewis1697]

Good question. 🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

If you address your concerns in a kind and loving manner and they don't change or show a willingness to change, then you can let him go and move on. Let him go and move on when you see these signs 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/oH-ne5Rqm9-qaKs

[@spiritualqueen3423]

It is annoying to ask a man over and over again “hey, I would appreciate it if you do this and that”, we want a man that does it without having to ask or remind them everyday.

[@mikochild2]

Right. And you can't be anymore clear than that. Yet they want to swear we are out here speaking in riddles.

[@cappylady4002]

In my situation I helped a man come to the country through marriage. Since then I have been helping him navigate expectations in the country.He showed me that he is hard working and sustained working and going to school. However, we had a child a year ago and since then I have been shouldering the majority of the responsibilities financially and physically.I have been emotionally drained after consistently asking him to help me out. We don't spend quality time either. I feel that I did not listen to my intuition here.

[@tlynn609]

You need to bc obv he's not thinking about u at all. He did what he did to get into the country. Not bc he wanted something special with u. You're being used & def need to let this guy go!!!!

[@TheBeautifulOnesVLC]

Thank God you say it with love!! Harsh true !! I’m a nurturer and yes I’ve made this mistake. But thanks to you bringing me back to reality, I don’t anymore. So thank you from this nurturer who will still be loving and caring but will draw ( is drawing) the line from now on. Peace

[@cherylscott8576]

My man kept forgetting my birthday day (date). After a couple of times, i told him lovingly my birthday is on and do not forget. He immediately put it in his phone calendar and has remembered and also asks me what I want. Then he gets me what I want and an extra surprise gift.

[@Marie-vz2qp]

Thanks for your prayers.

[@love7love]

You know what? I recently got ghosted by a guy I was starting to really like.. even thought we both had discussed not ghosting one another, but when I’ve thought about it, eliminating the emotional sting from just getting ghosted, it makes sense that he did because we had also reached the conclusion that we might not be the right fit for each other right now and honestly there was nowhere else more to go from that point forward.. of course I fantasized about him perhaps thinking: “forget about those differences, I like her so much I’m willing to meet her halfway” but almost 2 months later that hasn’t yet occurred and while its been kind of sad and disappointing, I also feel very respected by this man strange as it may it sound.. because any other guy who just would’ve wanted to hook up and not care about the more important things, would’ve still tried to continue to get things from me irregardless… wether it was attention, hooking up or other things he could’ve easily exploited me for.. and he never did and hasn’t.. so wether he comes back around or not, I guess I’ll still respect him irregardless because he had a 100% chance to make this worse and disrespect me and he didn’t, and I find that realization to override any silly ego hurt from getting ghosted… 🤷‍♀️

[@suzanmphahlele225]

Wow! Such a great video, I watched so many of yours but this stands out for me, thank you so much🙏

[@xcstar185]

Your videos have been so helpful and thought provoking. Thank you!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

He WAS aware of the issue . Because he was TOLD. Period. I didn’t say SOMETHING. I specifically explained how I felt, and it was not good. And he didn’t take me seriously!! So I said bye..//

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@aspyatkova]

That's right!

[@Pebbles5064]

Exact same situation, no regrets walking away.... good for you🤎

[@beautifulspirit2973]

Having been there for my partner very lovingly for 18 months I feel that he takes little interest in my feelings. It feels way too much on his terms. I feel exhausted so I’m taking some time out and this is great advice. Thank you

[@oliviadart612]

You always make the videos that resonate with my current state thank you So much for your content.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@NevertoomuchK4494]

Ooooooo this talk was all me!! Phew Jesus! Thank you for the insite!❤

[@LuvUlatafolks]

Lol this way of thinking (may) or could have saved a many of relationships and my marriage. #? Thx ❤

[@GHO5tMod3]

With ANY relationship even with friends and family you have to give space and a balance or the person will take you for GRANTED ❤

[@sheeva3.0]

Stephan I love how you break it downnnnn

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@angeljackson5865]

He cussed me out and told me he was the prize and I should appreciate him for talking to other women. And I need to wait on him .

[@lindat1317]

😂 I hope you walked away, he sounds very entitled and self-absorbed. You are worth more than that treatment. 🌹

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that, and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@loganfinucane6990]

Please tell me you walked away from that?!?!

[@robin-chat2812]

Love is sacrificial , not demanding

[@hishebamckenzie5974]

Wtf. That man need to be in a relationship with himself and stay there.

[@texas3965]

Not always! when I stopped caring, he cheated instead of stepping up.

[@wagnerproductions1]

Does this go for someone you were never in a relationship with

[@ChannelMARIA531]

Perfect timing for me now thank you so much ❤

[@agika7777]

I did this exactly, he started caring, but too late 😅😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@agika7777]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I dated a guy and he was very consistent with his words later with actions too, but I worked out he is lying to me so went around randomly to his flat few times when he said he is ill, he wasn't ill, he said he is busy but he was home doing nothing, after this he ruthlessly damped me..we had amazing connection felt so good around him..why did he do that..he said he has someone else..and he doesn't like me checking on him, basically wanting to keep both of us?

[@bernadetteconnell5668]

​@@agika7777im going through this now ...i felt emotional ... he calls every other day i still answer. But im losing the sparks...i love him he knows how i feel... when i was working i invited him out. We use to spend time together. Now am not working he never invited me out...but he would still call from time to time. .. i asked myself why is he still calling cause i dont really need that.

[@Miriam-t3f]

Yes why does it takes that?

[@ameliasavage4307]

Thank you for this video I like this one. It hits home to me 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@hottmasala]

"Your selection process got you in trouble"...... Dang Stephan......you totally called me out on that one 😅 But I really needed to hear that 😊

[@bhsunshine01]

That spoke to my Spirit, wow.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@shaearnelle]

This was good. Thank you.

[@robinchilds7492]

I told him I missed the affection he gave me when we got together. I told him I felt we were drifting apart. He walked out of the room and didn't talk to me the rest of the evening.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

[@robinchilds7492]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks We are no longer together. He is a narcissist and I couldn't take any more games.

[@TeresaJohnson-e9c]

Thank you so much ❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@deniseedwards3898]

Yessasaaaaa OMG this is dead on!! Happening right now

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️

[@pebblesharp]

Im moving to another state in a few months..leaving a 17 year relationship because he stopped caring about me n my needs

[@tanjalorber1715]

Meny of us are brought upp like that.therefor we do not recognize the situation and know what to do.😢😢😢😢

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@laurielmoreno9979]

2 years, and then he tells me Im the one that wants a relationship. 13 years of age difference, he prior was married. Why did I hold on for so long? For him to tell me, Im the one that wanted a relationship. Im emotionally tired, and its draining me. After everything I have had done for him and our memories. I don't deserve this.

[@cmoney1789]

Can’t be with a man who doesn’t love himself. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@angelcharms7297]

This hits home

[@nadeaheaven]

What about when you have fully communicated what you need and it still hasn’t been met? But you are expected to full fill his needs.

[@julzserolf28]

I had the same issue just a few days ago, he keeps ignoring me so when I had enough I brought up the issue then I tried to pull away cause I had enough the next day He really made an effort to message me so the rails are back on track again...

[@goddessbynature11]

I think I realized that I was just always the source of energy needed for his elevation… now that I’m not needed. It’s clear. It’s funny though sometimes he still just says he is unsure and confused. There was never any confusion. lol

[@RitaDSouza-lw5gp]

Thank you❤

[@nicoleallen9221]

I started dating a guy that I have known for 15 years as friends he told me I'm too sentimental, I'm this I'm that and he told me that I care too much to just stop caring about everything just don't care ..He also told me that I was hard to be around . I just didn't understand ..I get along easily with others have a bubbly personality very independent and love God and people..To make a long story short I feel like he is always attacking me personally...I don't know if I'm losing it and can't see what he is talking or is it him trying to control my emotions..I want to look at him in a positive light because I really care about him...Help please 🙏

[@mercymachete332]

I thank you again for confirming yet again how exhausting men are🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@Kristynas706]

Top advices for ladies ! ❤❤❤❤

[@donnabrady7498]

I am going through this now I have thought about this guy for so long I mean like we were a couple just always thinking about him on birthdays,holidays and just because I wanted him to know I'm thinking about you but he would never return with the same energy I mean I saw the red flags and I felt them also sometimes I felt them so much that I would go home almost in tears especially recently I found out that the whole whole he was nice but at the same time real standoffish with me he has been in a relationship for a long time with someone right around me everyday so you can imagine how I felt so I just stopped bringing him stuff and stopped talking to him he thought I would fall to his feet begging him to choose me but I didn't do that so now it's like oh wait I have to make her think I miss her when I really miss the stuff she use to bring me or the way she made me feel by thinking about me because now that he's seeing I'm not begging for his attention he's trying to get my attention and I'm to the point I have nothing else I've given all Im going to give I'm tired of giving I know this was a lot but i really want to know what you think about my situation Mr Stephan thank you for reading my msg

[@nikishadavis59]

Exactly!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 yes!

[@jackiearroyo21]

My guy has cancer, a demanding business owner n has elderly parents. He tells me he is so busy with everything. He now only calls once a day, texts a few times, tells me he will call me back (barely does that). We only talk about my health. He tells me he is trying but I'm so hurt by his lack of effort. I feel like I can't say anything anymore bc I'm complaining again and I'm not understanding of his life right now. Before the cancer he did everything right. Am I trippin for wanting more from him? Or should I just take this hurt and pain or just let go n deal with that hurt n pain?

[@obiomaezeadikwa1178]

you are insensitive and self centered. He has CANCER for gods sake. HE HAS CANCER. YOU SHOULD BE THE ONE SHOWING MORE CARE, LOVE AND COMPASSION AND NOT WHINING THAT A CANCER PATIENT NO LONGER CARES FOR YOU AS MUCH AS HE DID BEFORE

[@LOVELYLADYLATRECE]

HE DIDNT GRASP IT BECAUSE HIS HEART & MIND IS SOME WHERE ELSE- ITS.NOT ROCKET SCIENCE

[@128cherylmarie]

Well said half ass mediocre levels of commitment.... Yes, I agree. It's not even worth it

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@Emily-ed6ed]

Great message

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm you think so. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@iamcellular6650]

@PerfectlyAshley some men marry women that want them not the women that they want and aren’t actually attracted to their wives or over time lose attraction to her because she looks really different for whatever reason.

[@Aries_Fire89]

So this guy I’ve been talking to has been very half assed in communication and lazy in trying to meet up. Today I told him I’m done with him that I’m fed up. He’s now begging me to give him another chance that he will put 💯% in this time & that he’s just a very busy person 🙄 what do I do here?? My mind is telling me to just walk away but I don’t know if I’m being too harsh here. ?

[@CommentLit]

Who wants someone not to care ?? But I know

[@Querin_TAO]

Gems 💎 Thank you!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@Miriam-t3f]

Is it because he doesn't want us to be involved in his life like that. Just step back.

[@shautonanderson2602]

Not the selection process! Stephan you betta SPEAK on today! NOTED!

[@NevertoomuchK4494]

OMG!! I literally rolled my eyes!! Is my camera on?😂😂

[@MikeBrown-ov2ol]

If yourpartner stops caring, the relationship is over. Only one thing to truly do: trust your partner. Trust them to accept if you are blunt. Trust them enough to truly open up. Then your relationship will work out if it was meant to. And never attribute to malice what you can explain by ignorance.

[@P9q-f1w]

Communicate what you need & want so there are no presumptions. Repeat back what you hear to make sure you understand what is being said. If there is true love, trust, repect & God in your relationship there should be workable solutions, which may include parting ways! Treat your partner the way you want to be treated!❤❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@marcelinaun3304]

So how do we know he's such a gentleman and I'm to shy ❤

[@ritaceron7329]

thank u 🙏🏻 ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@y.m.6667]

Stephan, Well, how come the men are NEVER oblivious when it comes to wanting the🐈‍⬛?? Their mind is VERY SHARP when it comes to that though.

[@Theinfamouskiki411]

You ain't lying!!!😂😂😂

[@bridgetbatista582]

Yes I agree 👍

[@CarolM-n3m]

Awesome.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@alicesun4213]

I loved my wife was willing to do whatever it took but it was never enough or nothing I did to make it better was fast enough but I would have never stopped trying I always put in effort.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@hyp3r_nova542]

Because they do not care. They only care when they know you are about to move forward….

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏

[@hyp3r_nova542]

The focus needs to be on yourself at all times.

[@deniseedwards3898]

Do you counsel couples?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I do, for coaching and more, visit my site www.stephanspeaks.com/ or ❤️ Join my FREE text community. Text "LOVE" to 770-373-4246 or click here 👉 my.community.com/stephanspeaks or ❤️ Join my SPECIAL coaching program here 👉 www.receivingmyblessings.com - so many women are experiencing AMAZING results!

[@nicolehenry3068]

This might be a stupid question but what does it mean when a guy barely and rarely calls. I'm seeing this guy that rarely calls me abd only text me, I'm having a very hard time getting used to it. It just might be a deal breaker for me eventually.

[@daniellaballack5401]

Omg like you’re seeing me or something…I literally rolled my eyes at number one and then you say it🤭

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

Men usually are quirky on purpose Until they come to the realisation That their so called servant Is really and truly their master

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Theinfamouskiki411]

When it comes to wanting sex uhhh they come on real strong and somehow figure out your needs and wants quickly!! Chile...

[@charitybanda4008]

@Theinfamouskiki411 💯 true... when it comes to wanting s£×, they become alive and mature men, and knowing what they want. Very pathetic 😒

[@TriniWmn]

WORD!

[@chlochlo8207]

why did he take him 4 years.. and for me to not gaf about men or relationships for him to come back. when we were 14 he never noticed me. until 2020 when i stopped caring and automatic friend zone. now not even a friend im just done. now my family is telling me not to give up when i was really done after him getting a gf they see im done and now they dont want me to be done.

[@empressnyahbinghi9886]

I do admit I feel in love with a narcissistic he controlled my every move I feel Iike was walking on eggshells with everything I did no matter what he made me feel less than what I was and I was struggling mentally with postpartum and it's like he didn't even care he called me out my name when I was breastfeeding made me cry and told me he would beat me up

[@jjeanedoe]

A factor I would have liked to see addressed here is that women are not as drawn to blue collar and trade jobs. Some do, but it would seem that laborious(often union) jobs are matched to men. Therefore, the only way to compete financially as a woman is to get an education or get into business. The trade jobs that pay well enough to house yourself and don't require a college education are not sold to women in their youth. I'm not saying this right. I am just trying to observe what I see as societal expectation and opportunity.

[@Marie-vz2qp]

You have some people who takes you for granted.

[@robinchilds7492]

I had a friend who took his wife 2 aspiring and a glass of water after she went to bed. She gave him a strange look and told him she didn't have a headache. He replied.....Gotcha !!!

[@elena-jp6ge]

If a man really cares, he will make effort to learn his woman of choice. No excuses. Do l as a woman should paint what l need from my man in loving and respecting relationship? No. This is plain relationship matter, for any of relationship. If it is not enough for me to just say what l want him to do the other way, he is not intelligent, or he is not interested in our relationship enough. He for sure is paying attention for what he is doing with his friends, family, etc. So, as l said. No excuses, no wasting time on this, bye

[@caramelmosaicmosaic7940]

If I gotta beg somebody to “watch tv” with me, the relationship is already fundamentally done… in my opinion. Like seriously.

[@B_ready4671]

He wasn't aware of the issue💡

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️