When You stop caring, YOUR EX Starts Chasing You

when you stop caring your ex starts chasing you
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[@blacademic]

Book a 1 on 1 coaching session: calendly.com/breakupcoachtj

[@AnthonyManzio]

80% of married couples end up having 3 some and may do swinging too. Never ever get married. All will end up divorcing you.

[@FumeRunner]

The sad thing is, I don't want someone to like me when I don't care about them anymore.

[@dampnickers]

That's not sad. It is called self respect and self worth....

[@ola467]

Exactly… what a paradox

[@TraeZoe]

@@dampnickers jus because you want someone to care about you doesnt mean you dont care about yourself

[@TraeZoe]

@@dampnickers wanted* i should say

[@dampnickers]

@@TraeZoe that's exactly what I was getting at. The OP has clearly moved on, which was my point. :)

[@shonna-ru9il]

They don't appreciate what they had until they see the grass wasn't greener on the other side. If they can't appreciate your presence make them respect your absence.

[@avenuempire]

​@@beccf.s.8012the same reason you're here

[@HolyRollerTV]

@@beccf.s.8012 why were you apart from to troll?

[@godsson2681]

🔥🔥

[@paxithehustler]

Word 💯

[@jason2723]

They are gone: once they do stuff with someone else it’s over for good

[@BeckyJade]

I'm literally at this place where I truly don't care anymore. I'm walking away but without hesitation I won't tolerate his BS ever again or the breadcrumbs Better is coming for me

[@shabiyahdavidson7342]

I'm intrigued.... what was the BS you had to deal with and how are you coping with not having to deal with it, tho you can't forget about it?

[@achillessonofsparta6824]

Someone told me the best relationship advice ever, and it would be a crime, if I would just keep it to myself. Find and marry a person who runs to God, when you two have problems, not another person or temporary pleasures

[@godsson2681]

🔥🔥🔥

[@paxithehustler]

👏🏾 💯

[@str9867]

It seems every guy I like I feel I need to act like I don't like them. I'm so tired of "the chase." At some point I want a man to want to catch me, not just want to chase me. People are so perverse.

[@jollykelvinnthala1089]

My ex just showed up today haha no contact works 100%

[@marcuselliottsr]

My ex was so pissed i didn't reach out, it does 😂

[@super_street_racer5094]

​@@marcuselliottsr How much time it took?

[@marcuselliottsr]

@@super_street_racer5094 like 3 days, i didnt do it to get her back.

[@nenyeobetta9371]

What if he has gotten another girl will he come back

[@HolyRollerTV]

@@nenyeobetta9371 forget about them and crack on...never go back

[@tomchurch2285]

One possible blessing about losing an ex may be in seeing more clearly what we needed to see all along: an opportunity to work on ourselves (i.e., get to a space where we actually wish our ex well . . . ).

[@Joyce_21]

Been chasing for awhile and now it's I don't care anymore. I hope things get better for me.

[@carolineonline2112]

This guy is amazing.

[@EmilySandersLMT]

He’s literally gave me such peace this past week! He’s incredible!❤

[@sheliadaugherty6550]

What I just can’t wrap my head around is my husband left me at the end of April to go back to his ex wife after him and I have been married for 25 yrs. I have dealt with so much cheating and disrespect from him that I am done.

[@tariqbahoussain1442]

Go win him back then

[@joeysauce]

Learning how to ride the wave back up, thanks to your help Coach!

[@jmarietv]

you're the best Coach Blac.........thank you for your honesty and great info

[@kevinlandrum37]

Thanks, Coach, you have made me so relaxed now.

[@antilaw9911]

I disagree. I can go no contact but still care. She has no clue if I care or not while I'm no contact. She might think I have moved on. It's not like there's a magical force they can feel. Only force they can feel is lack of my presence

[@ADayInTheLifeOfJames]

I understand what you’re trying to say, but I dunno man; I think there is.

[@thandekandou4653]

I appreciate your videos, they are helping so much to be okay, and I don't worry anymore if comes back or not.

[@kelvinokere5251]

You made a valid point Coach

[@JPSigma91]

Great explanation again, keep it up I will follow you! People if you feel restless watch his videos you will learn to deal with it.💪

[@JM-bv2mo]

Time apart has given me so much perspective. The no contact is a blessing even when it doesn’t feel like it. I’m indifferent and logical now in how I approach him. He reached out, we’re “friends,” but I’m never chasing or trying. It’s on him to do what he wants bc regardless my life is getting better and if he doesn’t make a decision, I have to just keep moving forward and he is sensing this.

[@blingblingnelida]

Hola Coach Blac... Continue what you say mean teach...it is An Excellent opportunity for All Women & Men to be learning & applying these tools.

[@nikab4048]

That’s kinda the point. Your lack of being present makes them feel all kinds of things like you may have moved on…that’s the “force” that’s there. But I see your point & you’re right in your thinking. However, bec no one knows what you’re thinking they tend to assume the worse 1st..

[@NeilKudro]

This Neil coach. You are absolutely 💯 correct. Thank you. That one on one was worth it. I will share good news in a few wks following my No Contact. 💪💪✌️

[@archangel80303]

great video.Make a video on situationships. Walking away from a situationship when you still have deep feelings for them.The funny thing is you can't even call them an ex.

[@mondeklaas1486]

I’ve just messed up the 1st contact rule,after no contact for a month. She just sent a text that she misses me. An I responded to quickly😢 I panicked. But I going to pull myself towards myself. An relax a little an Apply all your teachings. An take it one day at time. Tnx man all the way from South Africa

[@shannondavis3338]

Coach this was perfect timing for me, you answered some questions I needed clarification on.

[@rosalindclemons4529]

Great information. Very helpful. Thank you

[@larhondawalton4037]

Coach Blac! I appreciate you so much and thanks for allowing God to use you! I listen to your videos on a daily basis they are so resourceful. Again, thank you for blessing the world with your knowledge 😊

[@lionel1907]

With coach Blac each word matters !

[@shirleynorman4492]

Love your video it's really helping me ... thanks 💯💯

[@romanbukharevich9841]

Great video love it it really helps me to be with no contact with her

[@lanahale7321]

Thank you, you have helped me so much. ❤

[@chantelles5841]

I’m so glad I found your videos. They’re real & they give hope bc either you get better & find better or they realize they had something amazing that is YOU! So either way we can’t lose. Thank you so much. I really really needed these videos bc it doesn’t sound right but it makes perfect sense & to have other people doing these videos validating it just comforts me when I’m in this anxious and fearful mode. I’ve only been a week out of this. I’ve never recovered so quickly to where I was excited for the future and accepting of whatever that may truly be for me ! Yes I still struggle and hurt but not like I did 2, 3 or 7 days ago. Progress not perfection!

[@Rigoletta53]

How can I miss you if you dont go away!?

[@asowatanabe2131]

Very smart Statements Oil and Water Love this

[@sachabeach9809]

Amazing and it's so true! This is happening to me now. Ty

[@helloareyouthere9992]

What’s that?

[@darealness7998]

Another Good One👍

[@ronezha]

True bruh she keep calling and texting all day ✌🏽

[@CatwalkPurz]

Amazing content! 🎉

[@wutabeta1187]

Empowering 💯

[@jb3558]

you speak a lot of sense

[@bittybike]

Why is no one else commenting on the BLUE tongue you have. Has someone been having a raspberry icee lol🤣

[@blacademic]

Lol definitely. I had sonic before shooting. It’s been a cool day haha

[@SeeMeGamin]

@@blacademicMy ex broke up with me a few days before my birthday and she still said happy birthday. Should I tell her happy birthday or should I be cold and not do it? Her birthday is coming up soon.

[@electranica777]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@mumof5leeleex875]

Im at the acceptance stage of break up cyle. After 3 months ,I couldn't care less i can sure live without him.

[@Ckyt572]

Lol me too. He's looking for greener grass on dating apps, good luck with that because dating apps are full of BS 😂

[@JackFromBoston]

Thank You, Thank You, Thank You for the great 1-hour coaching session last night! The things you clarified for me, and the strategies we came up with has turned my situation completely around…I feel great! If anyone out there is ‘on the fence’ about a coaching session with him, DO IT! Coach, I may be in touch for a ‘refresher session’ around Mother’s Day, I’ll let you know. THANKS AGAIN 😊…. Jack (the sushi guy) from Boston

[@blacademic]

My man! It was great talking to you too. I wish you well with your situation and look forward to catching up again soon

[@JackFromBoston]

@@danilaroche1156 Hi Dani, he’s definitely worth it! He completely changed my mindset about my breakup. I hope you have a chance to speak with him. Jack from Boston

[@JackFromBoston]

@@danilaroche1156 Are you in ‘no contact’ currently? When did you break up?

[@JackFromBoston]

@@danilaroche1156 wow that’s tough being neighbors. My ex lives about 25 miles from me so there’s almost no chance of running into her. I’m not far from BU, great school!

[@JackFromBoston]

@@danilaroche1156 hi, no I’ve moved on from her. No-contact and Coach Blac helped me soooo much!

[@miricahhunt2088]

It sucks. I wanna block this person completely and never deal with them anymore but I have a child by them

[@GeorgeBrown-dx9ws]

Dam I feel you....😢

[@beamoflight7537]

If you are watching this video, your ex is gone, and if they do come beach it will never last!! Draw closer to the god!! He has better in store

[@cianydpena5488]

Thank you❤

[@jamesb1663]

Even his tongue matches his outfit. Good shit Coach.

[@robpz448]

She left me 5 months ago. She called February 11th and 20th. I ignored both calls. Her birthday was March 5th. I did not wish her happy birthday. She recently uploaded a picture I took of her (a very specific photo) of a date I took of her downtown union Station chicago. Then later on in that day , literally made a video of her professing her hate for me. She said I have a deep hatred for Robert that I know is not true but it's how I live.. like what? Laugh out loud. If you're wondering why I ignored her calls and didn't wish her happy birthday is because she left me in a very cold manner. Also , she rejected my few attempts to separate like civil adults so I gave up. She then called a month later after I went "no contact" which is why I did not answer. But yah , the photo from a decade ago and the video , sounds like I'm om her mind... Yah ... you "hate" me. In other words what she is saying is I love you so much I hate you. We're adults man , I don't got time for bs. I'm 37 gonna be 38 she just turned 33. Let's just be civil adults. Contact me if you want to but don't talk slick on social media about me. See she wants a reaction out of me ans she's not getting it. It's all about attention.like my sister said , she is probably pist off you didn't answer her because , she probably expected you to drop everything you were doing and answer her. Nope. Not after how she did me ... We were together 14 years.

[@CiluhStyle1]

No children?

[@mictrap1383]

Feel like every video is the same or am I tripping lol

[@joebermuda6452]

The fact that someone only feels like they need to care once You stop is a big deal and a red flag. Unfortunately it’s just how it works.

[@youngempire2007]

Thank u king

[@OfflineBoZ]

Had to watch the video twice cuz the first time I was more focused on trying to figure out what made his tongue so blue 😅

[@Omnitrix8]

She didn't chase cause she knows I am the unforgiving type! 😂😂😂😂

[@barbaraandersen2116]

😂😂😂

[@jason2723]

Same that’s why mine lied to my face to get back in

[@OfflineBoZ]

Hey if you don’t mind could you make a video on what to do when your ex comes back like things to say or things to do to successfully win her back please and thank you

[@aldricpaningbatan6647]

New subscriber here coach! Any tip what should i do when she's on a rebound and we need see and talk each other for kids. How to deal with that.

[@mfbs8706]

This is so true ,stop caring then ex will chasing😏😂

[@hilo5901]

Okay I get it. I’m a try it in a subtle way…❤…mystery & attraction…good concept…how not to over care after he starts showing care again?? ❤🎉

[@StripperPhysics]

Ex said he felt like a loser, never had a GF before. For real said “it’s not you, it’s me.” Then praised me for being the sexiest woman he ever knew and that he was madly in love with me ….BUT the timing was bad and he needed space and to focus on his work. Sat there crying (literally) hugging me …for 2 nights later…saying he didn’t want to hurt me and he was scared of a relationship. 🙄Then asked if he could come back after some time to think. Asked to be friends. 😢 told him I won’t be likely be around waiting and no fucking way are we friends. If he doesn’t value me as his woman, he doesn’t deserve the privilege of my friendship. Been 1 week no contact. 😢😢😢😢😢 so tired of these wishy-washy, cowardly men.

[@ena__we4205]

What’s the update?

[@StripperPhysics]

@@ena__we4205 Sadly…..3 full months and not a fucking word.😔

[@daisysen642]

Take love coachy😅😅

[@judymcguire9363]

Wow! You truly are the best I’ve heard on this topic. I expressed all my emotions after our breakup and he zero response. I messed up but I’m following your advice now.

[@envyallison926]

How is it going now ? Did you do no contact ?

[@judymcguire9363]

Yes, no contact since I posted this last message. He dropped off flowers on Mother’s Day and tried to move in for a hug. I distanced myself and turned and walked away. So that’s where we left off. Haven’t heard from him.

[@envyallison926]

@@judymcguire9363 after the breakup I was a mess. I expressed all my emotions. I wish I didn’t. But now I just do no contact We still have business to do. But I only talk and see him for couple mins. I don’t talk about the relationship. I don’t beg. He wants to be friends. I’m not doing it. Even tho I shed tears everyday. I will not let him know I’m hurt. I kno eventually I will get over it. Right now it hurts bad but I’m able to control my emotions and not contact him anymore about our relationship

[@judymcguire9363]

I did the same exact thing. He’s a narcissist so he was feeding off my emotions. Wanted to be friends and also fuck and leave. You’re strong you’re a better person. And believe me.. you got this!!!

[@envyallison926]

@@judymcguire9363 yes exactly !! I’m not doing friends with benefits with him like he wants. I’m just stopping everything with nc. And thank you. Plz update if anything happens. I’d like to kno how the no contact is going

[@Juice1990s]

I’m in that process right now as we speak…. I did 50 days of Nc I only let her reach out to me now I’m starting to see a shift in actually start a conversation with me it started on Sunday been talking every since which is today a little back in both last week which probably lead up to this point… I’m not letting my guard down too fast because she’s still in a rebound

[@ND-vh7iv]

Someone had a date with the Smurf Girl 😂

[@rolandfirman]

Lol

[@Ms.ambernicolle]

5 months of no contact

[@basicinfo2022]

Update?

[@Ms.ambernicolle]

@@basicinfo2022 it’s been going on almost 2 years still no contact. I’m at peace with it

[@godsson2681]

Any updates???

[@brianoswald6970]

I'm trying that right now. My wife just filed for divorce. I am playing the IDC shit. You got this right.

[@evelina.gukasyan]

Exactly! Just move on. I’m going through bullshit too right now. I literally never in my life cried my soul out so bad but now, I’m stronger than ever and will never let a human make me feel sad again. If your wife filed for a divorce , it wasn’t meant to be then. Your future is far brighter and better! Stay up!! God bless you !

[@chrishogan7500]

@@evelina.gukasyan hope your good now!

[@clarissab5864]

Coach blac! How does no contact work when you have kid's with your ex??

[@unknowboysvlogsghana9750]

It been 5 days now and started feeling sad and mad at the same time we been together for 3 years up and downs but we still been together till now and it’s hard for me letting her go.😢

[@godsson2681]

How you feeling now man?

[@unknowboysvlogsghana9750]

@@godsson2681 feeling so so blessed and happy to move on from her she wasn’t that special. Love from gh🇬🇭

[@antilaw9911]

And that's only if they care. She good looking has experience going through men, so it's easy for her to discard you and move on with new guy.

[@Misagonna88]

I’m going through hell. Just a message to break up with me and no contact for 8 days, and haven’t seen him for nearly 5 weeks. I feel so hurt, trying to rebuild myself. Feeling really down, and I can’t see myself with anyone else. He has been so cold. It’s hurts

[@jennyshepperson3916]

Hello Jayla. Be kind to you and feel every bit of emotion. That is ok. After that, set goals for yourself. What do you like, where you like to go and concentrate on those things. Be around your close friends and family. I promise you everyday it will get better, my ex husband left 2 years ago and I'm divorced for 8 months now. He treated me cold & it hurts more because our children were ghosted too. Today, I accomplished transferring my property to my name, I got my maiden surname back, and I prosper at work. I started dancing, go watch rugby games, doing whatever I wants to do. The pain, the suffering the emotional, financial and physical abuse is not part of my life any longer. He kept me back whilst he enjoyed his life. I lost 20kg😊🎉, he gained 20kg😂. He was attractive and found every female attractive whilst being married to me. Today, he called to tell me he still got an emotional bond towards me that he struggle with. My response, "you need to deal with your issues" It's not my concern any longer" I said good bye and hang up. Before I was so weak, but now I'm stronger. You will be too, trust God and believe in you. You will get better. Stay blessed and take good care of you❤😊

[@rickardhgartee7763]

It's funny bc if want someone you have to play games, if you don't want someone you have to play games

[@MarkMark-we2zn]

She broke broke up with me and after little begging I went NC for 3weeks and I made a mistake of reaching out and i started the begging and chasing again for almost a month and she wants us to be friends but am not in for that. Now am going off completely from today. Thanks alot for this info. It's LD relationship and she broke up because she lost feelings and love. It really hurts alot because it's my first time experiencing this.

[@milkystrawbae]

I'm at this point rn, by the time he wants me I don't even want him no more

[@paolarobles5012]

My ex is always breaking up with me 4 yrs on n off i always look for him n try to talk to him n change his outlook but then he goes back to his old ways throws our relationship to the trash but i never see him trying

[@beastmasterakathabarbaric1509]

It's sad as hell that human nature works this way

[@bookwarmtee7750]

The wrong person causes so much unnecessary work😅 drop and roll, they dropped you. You drop them, and go live your best life for you. I refuse to go back to someone that walked. They are only going to walk again. Coward people are born cowards, live as cowards, and pass as cowards! Keep your vibrations hig, your circle clean and small. Love bombing is a real traite of broken people! Good luck❤

[@colossusbeatz]

My girl left me and In 2 days after the break up she was already having drinks with someone else

[@nathantaylor2521]

Is asking for time and space the same as walking away from a relationship?

[@piscesgoddess4314]

Oh no they don’t…. Not all anyway.. some of us have moved on and fallen in love with someone else.. period

[@saravalentin7008]

After I help him, I was there for him….. he got cold…. And one day he wanted to end things…. He hosted me and now I found out after 3 months of no contact, he recently move to another state with someone else. What really hurt me was the fact that he ghosted me instead of talk to me. He’s a coward.

[@DeirdraJames-bg9if]

I am so heartbroken…. We were together for almost 4 years. He said he needed his space, he moved out and told me he was not in love with me anymore and had lost attraction for me. I have been in No CONTACT for Three months. I’ve lost hope 😥

[@georgepanagiotou8673]

I’m sorry to hear that.. trust me I know it’s hard, but you’re doing the right thing. It’s his loss not yours. Keep your head up and do not reach out to this guy. He doesn’t deserve you. You will find better. )

[@nenyeobetta9371]

Mine I have done everything to forget him but no way at times I will see him in the dream but he's with another girl and I loved him with everything don't know I survived it

[@nenyeobetta9371]

Mine I have done everything to forget him but no way at times I will see him in the dream but he's with another girl and I loved him with everything don't know I survive it

[@kingkenmz]

I got a kid and a house and she is breaking up with me rn, the news isnt fully out yet but the attraction is indeed gone, the love is still there i think.. problem is i started doing nothing jobrelated or with friends for a year now since i basicly had enough money made to do what i want and no actual need to go out or have friends , i was just being on myself and ofcourse after this year today , shit hit the fan i ruined my attraction by not being interesting and i'm really heartbroken no doubt, but how can i ignore her and actually let her sell our house and break my kids soul to then just let her chase me , i wouldnt even want her anymore if it comes to that point, i mean the sacrifice is so big rn that when it happens i will litterly no longer care to restart anything with her, but for the love of god i would still go for it 500% if it doesnt come that far but its not looking good

[@ashleyelizabeth4176]

Hi all, today I walked away from my ex! At first we agreed to be friends, but his effort kept diminishing. We had a date yesterday to which he pulled a no-show. Then when I messaged him he left me on seen last night. Honestly, I want someone who will invest and care about me to an equal extent. And his minimum efforts are unattractive so it is best to walk away. But I realized he’s an ex now and I have to move on/forward. Cheers to day one! ☝️

[@speedpig513]

Blue tongue hits harder

[@jahanetarjome]

I have a question for you, my girl recently broke up with me and I'm doing the no contact thing but I'm afraid that if i wait too long in no contact she won't care anymore after that! Should i wait a month and text her or should i wait till she text me after much longer?

[@almermaranon5183]

Im in a cycle of acceptance...after 7 years of live in partner relationship...it's all gone...it hurts me so badly but what she want is freedom from me so I had to give to her...Im not sure if NCR is effective..I hope Im on the right channel..

[@tilopeck6441]

Is it still the same if they moved on with the person they cheated with even tho everyone else around them that’s close says they’re not necessarily no where near as happy as they used to be ? How does that make sense ?

[@sjtanman]

A girl I was seeing she is 26 I'm 53 she says she just needs time. But I'm sure her X is back in the picture. She doesn't want me to know. 3 weeks NC

[@user-gi2if2ev8l]

That is exactly wat my ex told me before doing dis to me couple days later

[@achta8433]

it was such a nasty breakup i doubt he’ll come back 😢

[@ApostleThe344]

Mmm no i dont think they do im 4 months going on and she hasnt messaged or reached out once

[@derektaylor9225]

Been broken up for a month and no contact for a week and it’s grueling smh

[@RobertSmith-tu7rl]

STAY STRONG

[@derektaylor9225]

@@RobertSmith-tu7rl thank you brothers. I can feel myself getting better, but then at times my mind won’t shut off. I miss her but I see the blessings in this.

[@leejames9999]

@@derektaylor9225 I miss her too man .. she called me drunk one night saying she misses me while she was with another guy. Just keep moving forward

[@derektaylor9225]

@@leejames9999 I’m sorry to hear that bro that is devastating. I am doing my best. She kept coming to me crying after she broke up with me telling me how she loves me etc and when she thinks she has me she switches up and is confused again so I had to really just drop her. I miss her but I can’t let her play with my sanity

[@shabiyahdavidson7342]

We've been broken up since February and the last weeks I was perfectly ignoring, until I lost will power and replied to her I miss you message. I'm glad I have Coach to guide me along this emotionally and physically challenging journey. The energy it has taken me to not message her in these past weeks was a task and a half I can't stress this enough but I'm back to trying to be strong again. Wish me luck😊

[@alimaedenious2745]

Hope this works

[@Zayn913]

I can’t stand that bullsh*t that ppl do that makes you literally almost have to be soless and careless to get the right treatment from someone. In this cold ass world ppl should be greatful when they have a rider. Not throw them away because they are a real one, ride for you and care and that’s “unattractive”. Sh*t is lame.

[@cj_8686]

@coachblac Does that apply when she says she doesn't want to be with anyone because she still doesn't lover her self after saying she isn't in love with you anymore??

[@Minimalex1000]

Its really crazy for me, my ex broke up with me without a warning. And now, 6 weeks after a hard cut she text me about wanting to see me. Like wtf..

[@jason2723]

Fuck that

[@everythingit2539]

Coach black, I need your advice on my current situation, we own a business together and most of the time I reach out to her to share updates with her. I do not know how I should now apply the contact rule.

[@everythingit2539]

To add, I do not talk about our relationship, I go direct to the point and share the update and I'm out.

[@pattiller4711]

I've done No Contact now foe approximately 2 months, and I have not heard anything since he broke up with me so, I don't really know what to think

[@filyciamoyo6727]

Been on no contact seen 4months now and I'm beginning to like I care less with wat happens with him. Is that a good thing , we hv a child together but I seem to hv challenged my energy to improving my life and my kids standard of living

[@random.clips1900]

Same here, it's crazy with kids

[@SlimeTime_Gaming]

Is it good to post on social media having fun and being around women 4 months after a breaks up?

[@ericcoffey4563]

How is this theory proven? Not that i don’t believe but i am curious as to how this would work if someone attempted to have a legal action against me at one point ?