When Your Teenage Daughter Has a 42-Year-Old Fiancé | Mom

[@oceaser6977]

She should’ve told him she had a baby already - I don’t see why she got mad at her mom, especially if her mom didn’t know Violet didn’t tell

[@nighthunter3824]

Because most men are judgy, and to have a normal relationship you have to hide certain aspects of your life.

[@oceaser6977]

@ most women are liars trying to start brand new in every relationship No excuse to not tell your fiancé you’ve had a child

[@teehee3657]

@@nighthunter3824 that doesn't sound like a relationship worth having. Being honest means you'll find the right guy, and not some judgemental loser.

[@sindhurao4472]

@@nighthunter3824 no need to spend a life with a judgmental man

[@IcecteamOni-x4v]

Similar to Christy, they have a pattern of blaming their parents for things they really weren’t responsible for. There’re plenty of reasons to blame Bonnie and Christy for shit parenting, but they end up blaming them later on for things they didn’t do, or getting worked up over trivial things. In this case it’s on Violet. Sure it’s her right to not tell her future fiancé she once had a child, but it’s on her for assuming Christy and Bonnie would know to never bring it up. Violet could have said to keep the first child a secret. Now when the secret got exposed unintentionally, instead of taking responsibility, she deflects and doesn’t appreciate how it would be an honest thing to happen in a healthy relationship that could be worked out. Instead she uses it as an excuse that they can’t move forward with a relationship. If she doesn’t want to have a relationship for how Christy raised her in childhood that’s one thing, but exploding and telling someone that this is another reason to justify cutting someone out of their life is incredibly immature and inappropriate especially when it was on Violet to have had that discussion with Christy and Violet if she didn’t want her fiancé to know about her first kid.

[@moniquesamuel8706]

I really didn’t like how Violet was so volatile with her mom, especially since Kristy had it in her heart to forgive Bonnie. Yet Bonnie was violet’s favorite

[@Virgin_Succubus642]

Violet was just a stuck up brat.

[@rachelmartin5187]

I understand why. Violet didn't know the old drunk and crazy Bonnie. She got to know her grandmother sober.

[@AshleighDanburry]

They totally ruined Violet's storyline; they showed no growth. I missed the kids by the end of the series though.

[@tmanchu]

She knew the active alcoholic mom. Not the sober one. And she was muchnyiunger. Its takes a lot of work to get over the trauma from the drunken years.

[@nycgirltee]

Well she isn’t Christy she doesn’t have to forgive just because she forgave Bonnie and also Bonnie didn’t put Violet through the things Christy did ..

[@jt5733]

When you're a middle aged guy pulling a 19 year old you should not wonder when said 19 year old is from a dysfunctional family 💀

[@UWalvern0810]

That’s likely a 19 year old who might as well have “Daddy Issues “ stamped on her forehead. 😂

[@taraz6786]

This is the problem with middle aged men, they genuinely think that young women will love and want them forever. 🤔 Violet literally was partying, out with her friends all the time and got bored of his old self pretty much straight away. 🤷‍♀️

[@felixthecat2786]

Men like to tell themselves stories. They think the solution to their dating woes is to just find a younger woman with "less baggage," but then they end up getting played by a young woman who is not ready to settle down. In order to find a good partner, you need to do the work on yourself. Men would rather find a younger, "easier" woman then just fix their own personality flaws.

[@chrisgonzales4420]

So it is his fault?! I'm curious because a lot of middle aged women do the same thing.

[@taraz6786]

@@chrisgonzales4420 😂 Young women will always have more sexual opportunities, so it’s not the same thing at all. It’s apples and oranges, men will never have the same chances with women, young and old, they get rejected a lot more, so having a regular, monogamous partner is a godsend for most guys, with the exception of millionaires.

[@declaracionespolemicas]

​@@chrisgonzales4420 I mean, yeah, he's 40+ years old and should know better, and so should those 40+ women. If you're at that age and still looking for barely legal teenagers or could be your child's age, that's a sign of immaturity and being emotionally stunted.

[@AshleighDanburry]

@@chrisgonzales4420 a lot of middle-aged women date young guys who are not ready to settle down?

[@GeinsArtAndCraftSupplies]

He's 42 with the air-headed lovesickness of a 16 year old 😒

[@onaaaaa_K.]

'Is she pregnant' Gregory:no Bonnie:Then why do wanna Mary her?😂😂😂

[@saltynutzz]

I don't mind the fact that people have age got relationships. Best believe I'm not letting my 19-year-old daughter date a 42-year-old man. That is an abuse of power on his part because he was her professor and also it's just really creepy because 19-year-olds don't know the world they don't know anything about anything really. If she was 24 yeah go for it.

[@niloofarmehraban3226]

24 is still so young .If she want to have a family she can find someone her own age.

[@UWalvern0810]

An explanation - not a defense - is that Violet is a 19 year old that had to grow up 𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 fast, given her upbringing.

[@MM-em6ly]

19 vs. 42 My God, 23 year age difference

[@rsync9490]

Eww. At least date a 28 year old ffs, these creeps. He was also shocked that she was a teenage mom. He wanted a 19 year old virgin girl.

[@agalgonzalez]

Teenage moms generally don't have the best planning skills, do they?

[@Artfanbookfan25]

If it were Victorian times it would've been considered a good match. 😂😅

[@lepapercastle]

​@Artfanbookfan25 It made more sense. A secure man with money and a young woman young enough to have many children in a world where people were dying anywhere between their late 30s go their early 60s. That's not much time to do stuff. But people are living past 80 every day now. There's no need for that nonsense anymore.

[@petesong7146]

Hollywood normal.

[@mandy7131]

We LISTEN N WE DON'T JUDGE 😂

[@carolynwilliams2150]

I love how Linda Alvin is on this episode.R.I.P Linda Lavin.😢

[@dublinjazz1]

I never bought the storyline of Gregory breaking up with Violet because she had been pregnant. She's got a mother and grandmother who are alcoholics, but getting pregnant as a teenager was a bridge too far for him? Even though she had done a very selfless thing by giving her baby up for adoption? That should have elevated her in his eyes.

[@wackyjackie12]

Bonnie’s instincts never miss 👍👍

[@michaelorr2628]

We need to start teaching our daughters that Age does matter! It’s a stage of life, and brain development! If you’re at 2 different stages, it won’t work, plus it’s predatory! There’s age of consent for a reason, and your brain isn’t fully developed until age 26, so grown men who target even the 18-25 girls who’s brains are still developing, are still predators, and should be shamed! If there’s a big age gap, it leads to fertility trouble, and if there’s kids, the older spouse is closer to Geriatrics than the other spouse and will die sooner than the other spouse. This is why people need to stay with their own age! If they are young enough to be your kid or your parent, it’s an automatic off limits!

[@FelixBomer-ox5br]

The most underrated show ever

[@JamilaJibril-e8h]

Nah scream blonde got lines but the rest is blah

[@esmeraldagems9487]

Yuck!! 😂😂 Even as a 23-25 year old, the mere Thought of dating a 19 year old guy was 🤢🤮 for me

[@coconutsciencegirl9232]

I mean that’s your judgement. You can do that. But legally it isn’t illegal. I don’t think it’s gonna end well for many. The generation gap will end in having nothing in common. But 19 is an adult. 42 is far above that. Which I think is weird. But it’s also not my business. What I mean is…have your judgements but if the two parties are of consenting age? Maybe just keep it to yourself. Cuz it doesn’t hurt you on any level. Or the world.

[@user-lt1jd1ye3v]

Yeah, it does hurt the world. Studies show the most advantageous age range for couples is within 4 years apart. That is what is healthiest and best for society.

[@lizbrown6943]

From the mouth of inexperienced without life knowledge. Brain isn't ripe until 25.

[@1x4]

Sounds like a woman thing to say.

[@sights3255kamobrin]

you hide your Baby from your bf your about to marry but for some reason your mad at your Mom ..... smh kids an Their ways, i tell ya

[@coconutsciencegirl9232]

She basically proved she isn’t ready to get married. She can’t even tell him the truth

[@IcecteamOni-x4v]

I hate really how all of a sudden Violet cut off her mom from being a part of her life in later seasons. I mean I get it when you had an alcoholic drug addict negligent parent, but plots like these in earlier episodes and seasons really never properly built up or showcased how Violet felt it would be the best decision to completely cut her mother out.

[@likhwezititus]

She basically raised herself, she doesn't owe Christy anything let alone forgiveness

[@MegaWicked89]

​@@likhwezititus and yet she was more willing to keep her grandmother in her life?!

[@DragonMonarch-eg2ib]

Violet is a teenager that doesn't want to admit that she is just like her mother because when she raises a kid it is going to be the exact same relationship till she is grows up and takes responsibility for her own actions yeah she's spoiled and ungrateful but that just means Christy better is because she learned from her mistakes and tried to be a better person also every kid is nice to there grandmother cause there not the parent.

[@cynjinmissouri8958]

He was Charlie from the show called numbers. He played a college mathematician whose brother was an FBI agent and of course he ended up helping his brother. It was a very good show and Judd Hirsch played their father. This show is called Mom and it was very good also

[@questionresearch8721]

Christy and Bonnie are nuts 😂😂😂

[@JoseDiaz-bs1jg]

The daughter character was the worst of this series,,, Her attitude,, everything else was funny as

[@CissieForrest]

I feel like mom is about everyone family with the fighting everything

[@brettteply1207]

That's wrong in SO MANY WAYS

[@Ami_Ama]

Why wasn't Violet there when he met her mom and grandma? I think that parents shouldn't be alone with the bf or gf when they first meet.

[@changet2172]

Because he was asking permission to marry her. Kinda ruins the surprise of the engagement if Violet is with him.

[@donnabacon4681]

One of my fav shows ever! Need to watch reruns.

[@questionresearch8721]

Violet is out of order.

[@MizLaur]

Hey, it’s Bernard from The Santa Clause!

[@hiheyhello156]

That's Bernard!? Oh my goodness! He's all grown up!

[@ashleyconnortalks]

Thank you so much, I couldn't figure it out what else he was on, lol.

[@casszanggonmiah]

​@@ashleyconnortalksme too!

[@jayhawkgirl6289]

He also was in the movie 10 things I hate about you

[@ashleyconnortalks]

@jayhawkgirl6289 Ur so right!

[@TheHIDDENPLAYBOOK444]

I like how the daughter is more like the grandmother in a lot of ways.... She's more cutthroat than her mother

[@Leannot35]

😂😂 oh it's been a long time I've watched this show I've always loved this TV show

[@omegamanduwa7843]

Bonnie is the best

[@kerrygligorovic9758]

Christy and Bonnie are definately acting like children fighting all for nothing while embarrassing in front of Violet.

[@crawdaddy1234]

Suuuuuuuuper creepy - I’m not sure how this is supposed to be funny.

[@lindaleelaw5277]

Hes a Professor...gone !

[@mistressofthedark1476]

I just love it when mothers say that their children would never lie to them or do anything awful. I had mothers blaming me for their sons behavior or their daughter's behavior and then calling me to apologize and asking me to get back together with their sons or be friend's with their daughters again because they found out the truth, and that was that I wasn't guilty of doing any of the stuff that I was accused of doing!

[@michelleosborne1431]

Thankfully I don't have my toxic mother in my life. She did teach the kind of mother i didn't want to be. By the way she chose to not have contact with me & I'm good with that. My kids experienced her as young adults & decided they didn't want that.

[@brandond8197]

Hey it’s Bernard from the Santa clause!

[@Ancaryvan]

Anyone recalls the Scary Movie franchise when sees Christy?

[@rickshannet8647]

All of the cats got out of the bag at the same time! Yikes!

[@user-dh4mi6ir2m]

Violet hates who? 4:57 What episode?

[@awesomeavaalways]

“I hate you both”

[@Makima209]

S2 Ep21 “Patient Zero and a Chocolate Fountain”

[@fatemezamani8604]

What is the name of the show ?

[@princessmelz]

Mom

[@nawbhantahzeeb9733]

What is the name of this sitcom

[@kweaver1965]

MOM 😊

[@yung1717]

43 year old professor but wants to marry a 19 yr old and put babies in her? He’s weird

[@1x4]

He's normal. Makes sense for an older man to want a younger woman. It also makes sense for a younger woman to want an older man. Evolution, baby.

[@Ronin_dv]

Я подумала, что они бы офигели будь он евреем. И тут они упомянули Шаббат😄🤦 ааа...

[@wedahmed9411]

what show is that

[@MightyPuff]

Mom

[@toocoolforreel]

Is that David Krumzholdt from NUM3ERS???

[@kingabe07]

Yes.

[@clefnoteproductions6695]

Dang, he's put on weight

[@kweaver1965]

Yes 👍

[@ArtsEtArtisanats]

Yes n also from 10 reasons why I hate you He was the adviser n shouted prophylactic at the end of the movie lol

[@jasoneaton9477]

Happens everyday We all need a pretty young "nurse ".. I mean girlfriend for extra parts

[@tamerastone4732]

It was a good episode, till the fight!

[@GemmaBrooks-hx3lq]

I love you so much 😢😢😢

[@brettteply1207]

Christy's NOT a cool mom

[@brettteply1207]

Or a cool person

[@BRN497]

מזל טוב

[@doinalright4552]

Violet got the best guys in the show but she was the problem.

[@abigase135]

People underestimate mommy issues

[@WalkingWoman-k7x]

A very stupid but nice teenager and a 42 year old creepy manchild….that he wants to start a family with a teenager……🤢🤢🤢

[@margaretrich5406]

When did Bernard get tubby?

[@courtneyjackson7181]

Love Bernard!❤

[@margaretrich5406]

@courtneyjackson7181 brainstorm- Bernard's Santa-fication process has begun.

[@kweaver1965]

It's called GETTING OLD! Wait it's going to happen to you too🤪😜

[@kweaver1965]

It's called getting OLD! It will happen to you just wait 😜🤪

[@tonyj9743]

Not necessarily. Im 42 and rock a solid 8 pack!​@@kweaver1965

[@agalgonzalez]

They are both over 18 and he is an educated professional with a respectable job. So far, he is head and shoulders above the other men that have been with those three women.

[@zaysclubs]

No…. Just… no.

[@chrisgonzales4420]

Am I the only one who thought Gregory was cute?

[@WalkingWoman-k7x]

Yes

[@Ryan2005-t8k]

First Luke and then Gregory.. Violet couldn't be lucky enough to get guys like them and yet she manages to screw it up.. She is the problem..

[@taraz6786]

@@Ryan2005-t8k Luke I could get behind, he was sweet, gentle, handsome, age appropriate and all round lovable. Gregory was just a chubby old perv with a fetish for teens, he got what he deserved with her. 😂

[@UWalvern0810]

Of course she has. She has absolutely no idea what a healthy relationship looks like.

[@MM-em6ly]

What happened to his face?

[@victornguyen-em6eq]

Okin

[@casszanggonmiah]

Alice!

[@RiaRose-q3d]

This is not even funny. For real.

[@parthetis74]

Then why are you here? Move along..

[@crawdaddy1234]

@@parthetis74 Please explain to me how this is funny. A neurotypical person’s brain isn’t fully developed until around 25. If a person has ADHD, it’s likely that it won’t reach peak development until almost 30 - and never reach the decision-making level of someone without ADHD. -- Not only is this 42 year-old man “dating” someone who is still technically a TEENAGER, he is a professor. If he taught one of her classes, that makes this even more sus. I’m a 38 year-old man with ADHD (so I’m less mature than many of my friends). To me, anyone under 28 is basically just a child to me. I have far more in common with someone in their 50s or early 60s than I do with someone younger than 30.

[@BrunoGomes-sz1bz]

😂😂😂😂

[@terrihartbarger]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@NoeleenNaidu]

🎉 TU Eres TU Eres ruryryr

[@EsthersLetters]

eww....

[@kehindeRusty]

Absolute hogwash

[@briananderson8224]

Seems like he should of been able to tell that she had passed a baby.

[@ricardofierro7041]

Oh I don’t know that he should have been able to tell. There was a case in Colorado where a DOCTOR married a woman/ man that had a sex change. They were married for several years before he found out through the gossip world. A DOCTOR regardless he was not happy.

[@Raisinsins]

The muscles tighten up again when u have a baby this young. You don't really "Tell"