Where Are The Men ?| Cuffing Season | (Part 16 ) | Jerry Flowers

If we keep preparing HER, but haven't addressed the unprepared HIM, we risk having a generation of women waiting for a man that doesn't exist
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[@ilovegoddoyou7003]

You are not reading this by accident. This is your confirmation. Everything is going to be alright. God is making a way for you right now. Amen.💕

[@user-2911]

Please pray for my prodigal spouse salvation and heart mindset change resurrection reconciliation restoration of marriage and family

[@zoloswaqqer]

Amen

[@jemmy924]

Amen

[@lilmamasofly9111]

Amen!

[@paulettecomrie2303]

Amen

[@RayHarper777]

Kingdom Men Exist... But they aint in the club.. They are at home in the word Seeking the King of Kings words... And waiting for his next command...

[@michaelwilliams376]

You better believe it!

[@sheilawaddy3184]

Amen

[@werblessed7161]

💯

[@shailanatalie]

#GLORY #YOUBETTERPREACH!!

[@rubyreed7840]

Amen to that Kingdom men!

[@gforce825]

GOD, RAISE UP YOUR KINGS AND YOUR MEN WHO HAVE HEARTS THAT BEAT AFTER YOURS! Glory be to God!

[@kidchocolate9253]

Marriage also is not a reward for good behavior.

[@SAnderson54]

Again for the people in the back!

[@lilmamasofly9111]

wow!

[@faebalina7786]

wow

[@savannahvanholten1454]

Needed that

[@cuquee12]

Yeeeessss!!!! Omg...I thought I'd never see a comment like this...❤❤❤

[@ilovegoddoyou7003]

Whoever reading this, God is going to big hug you so tight that all your broken pieces will fit back together. Just trust in him. Amen

[@JesusISKingNoMatterWhat]

AMEN

[@kenyaparmes1544]

“If we keep on preparing HER and not addressing HIM..” THAT part!

[@mothersandy2022]

I forgive myself for all the times in ignorance anxiety insecurities I made a choice

[@StandupGirl-ym3ey]

Yesss!!!

[@alexisforteza_]

This entire message is fire! It pains me to help heal women to only send them out to a world full of men that haven't taken responsibility for their broken parts.

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Yeeeeeessssssss

[@RayHarper777]

I Am a bloodline curse breaker.... They cant stop the Blood of Jesus... And they can't stop me....I Am His...

[@Yungin1224]

"I'm a bloodline curse breaker..." THIS ALL DAY. It ends with us. Just because we may have generational curses in our family, doesnt mean we have to participate in them. Break the curses and live for God. Amen.

[@lvas1929]

Amen. Breaking generational chains.

[@izzyhill2305]

Amen bro

[@zeal4god402]

AMEEEEEEEN

[@allie1028]

I forgive myself for all the time my ignorance, insecurity, anxiety, lack of faith in God made a choice. ❤️

[@LysaRenee]

Whew Lord, yesssss! I forgive myself for the very same things my sister!

[@gforce825]

Toxic Confusion - You can’t leave her alone and you can’t treat her right. #websterpublishthis #dictionaryreadydefinition

[@dthomas112993]

GOD, RAISE UP YOUR KINGS AND YOUR MEN, WHO HAVE HEARTS THAT BEATS AFTER YOURS!!

[@kellywilliams4025]

"God raise your Kings and your men that their hearts beat after yours!" Amen!!! 🙌🙌🙌

[@ladennayoung2939]

In JESUS name. Amen and Amen. It is already done.

[@gforce825]

I just spit my protein shake with that Lordsuit vs Lawsuit. “She probably gonna make you catch a case...”

[@overcomerinspiration2496]

lol

[@heather7119]

Lol she most certainly will, I try to warm my male friends and family, I can see coming it a mile away lol just keep praying for discernment for them .

[@marl3723]

😂😂😂

[@chelsealynn3814]

That weapon of exhaustion is real...Im not even looking for a husband. Im just trying to maintain my faith, healing, and raising my two girls on my own and feeding them spiritually all by myself. It gets heavy fr but I know God has a husband and father for my girls to be a kingdom family one day.

[@jenmdeb]

Amen sis. He definitely does. That's my prayer for me and my girls too.

[@chelsealynn3814]

@@jenmdeb Yes, so you already know how it is lol! Praying He will give you the desires of your heart as well hun!

[@vincesawyer7362]

The Spirits of darkness has waged war against me since birth. But with the Grace and Power of The Most High all generational curses are being torn down.

[@terrybrown7510]

When a man can't hear God, he will end up killing what was really a blessing! He will kill what was only a test....whew, my God!

[@lpereira7866]

I just dared my 4 sons to listen to this. Thank you!

[@charlesmoreland7663]

I forgive myself for every time I chose ignorance

[@AshalynChane]

I FORGIVE MYSELF FOR ALL THE TIMES MY IGNORANCE MADE A CHOICE!!

[@Delroy61]

My mom was raised in a single parent home. My grandfather has 11+ kids with different women. I barely know him, he's 78 in Jamaica. Lust is a stronghold over both my parent's bloodlines. My father had a rough relationship with his father. There's alot of dysfunction I'm working with here, and fortunately both my parents are christian (Dad is a backslider, but he's humbling himself before the Lord more frequently). I'm 30 and single with no kids. I too struggle with lust and I'm just asking for prayer! Been watching RedefinedTV since March-2020 💪

[@paulaferguson4992]

Delroy61 God heard you when you first prayed. Everyday He wakes you up it's another day to get it right. If you didn't get it right yesterday, good morning and work through today. I'm just now understanding unconditional love from the Father, JESUS shed blood and listening to the leading of the Holy Spirit.

[@topneverstop]

That's the exact month I started watching them as well. Changed my life, glory to Jesus

[@bradley7394]

I forgive myself for making decisions in ignorance of the word, and fear of being alone. Lord please raise me up to be a better man, in your word, for you, and for whoever is in your plans for me. Amen.

[@kalanijoseph9400]

Feel like there can be a whole sermon on “toxic confusion” alone lol thank you for this word !

[@tracydubya27]

I forgive myself for all the times my ignorance, fear, and anxiety making a choice. That hostage is now FREE! 🙌🏾

[@lvas1929]

Lord knows I am exhausted. I thank Him for releasing me from that relationship, but all those years really wore me out. It is actually easier as a single mother than it was in the relationship which makes me all the more weary of anything in the future.

[@mothersandy2022]

Stop running from fights because your generation after you will have to deal with your combats.

[@dianacastillo116]

“You can’t leave her alone but you can’t treat her right”… I felt this more than anything, it’s hard to know that someone loves and cares for you, but can’t love you in the right way because they are damaged.

[@Delroy61]

I forgive myself for all the times ignorance, insecurities, anxieties made a choice

[@dthomas112993]

I forgive myself for all the times ignorance made the choice ! 🙏🏾

[@theklarification4766]

The sad thing is, I can’t even pray the prayer about Godly men rising up, because I can’t convince myself they exist anymore, I’m tired

[@coachalexiseanes5505]

I’m single and waiting as well. Don’t give up Sis 🙏

[@theservantg]

Trust me they're out there. Keep on praying and remember it's all in God's timing. God Bless you!!! I am also looking for a Godly women! :)

[@coachalexiseanes5505]

Feel free to follow me on IG alexis_eanes. Positive quotes daily also a life coach 🙏

[@ILoveMyFro]

Sis, I hear you! Godly men have to be RAISED, and being that we as a society don't raise them... Pastor Tony Evans gave men a needed rebuke this year. kzbin.info/www/bejne/jmG9YXp3brRgqLs

[@opalomine4975]

I pray for you to let God lead and let Him be your husband and trust Him that He will bring you who He desires. May His will be done. Amen.

[@LivingWithPurpose237]

I saw the notification and have NEVER clicked on a video so fast in my life! 🙌🏻🔥 Ready for the WORD!!! I need to be FILLED, Lord! I need MORE of you, God!

[@TheComposerRell]

GOD THANK YOU FOR RAISING UP YOUR KINGS AND MEN WHOS HEARTS BEATS AFTER YOURS IN JESUS NAME

[@acircleoflovelylove3064]

I will forgive myself for ignorance, anxiety, and fears making the choice

[@charlesmoreland7663]

I am the bloodline breaker!!

[@jenif7279]

Am I waiting for a man that doesnt exist? I’ve been waiting for decades.

[@MsGoingtothebank]

Jenny he surely exists! Thou the vision tarries it shall surely come to pass!

[@tranesethehairstylist]

Me too girl...

[@1rose1fils]

With that mindset,he may never find you

[@healinghubwithPraiseMercy]

The "Why are y'all lookin at me like this" part always gets me😂😂✋🏾

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Right so funy

[@thatbullnamedTAURUS]

“Godly men are an endangered species” wooow

[@Ladybug-zn9fw]

Glory be to God .. This video hit hard while at work I'm in tears. I am She... an single mother EXHAUSTED raising now a son...And I would love help, but my Faith in God keeps me going. I lost my mother in May of this year... and that almost broke me but she would always say I know its hard but just Keep on Trusting God. God will make a WAY. Thank u for this amazing video. Actually every video is amazing. God Bless you Pastor Flowers you and ur Kingdom Family 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@msaverielle]

A wife is a LORD suit not a lawsuit. She will help you in your PURPOSE. She SUITS you.❤️👑🙏🏾

[@carlissable]

They are fighting, the women. I see it daily. We could be here forever Pastor.

[@illanajewel100]

I forgive myself for all the times my ignorance, my insecurities, my anxiety made a choice. Thank you Lord for your love and mercy.

[@kellywilliams4025]

"What about the finder tho?!" Amen!! 🙌🙌

[@Mirror_My_Ambition]

1 minute and 40 seconds after the prayer and its hitting REAL DIFFERENT at 10:20.... Want the benefits..Bring it! I'm here for ALL of this.

[@acircleoflovelylove3064]

The Blood of Jesus... Thank you Jesus for the Flowers' obedience

[@shawnettemartin8702]

I FORGIVE MYSELF FOR ALLOWING MY IGNORANCE , INSECURITIES, AND ANXIETY TO MAKE CHOICES

[@womendestinedforgreatness3132]

I forgive myself for all the time I let ignorance make my choices. I forgive myself for allowing ignorance to make my choices.

[@1RaceCalledHumanRace]

I do desire to be married through Christ.

[@stephaniejordan4641]

These series has been blessing my whole soul Glory to God!!!! These conversations need to be had in the Kingdom!

[@ieshahamilton3130]

I forgive myself for all the times ignorance made a choice, I will not hold myself hostage. I forgive myself for insecurities and anxiety making a choice. I didn’t know but I know now🙌🏽 thank you Father 🙏🏽❤️

[@mothersandy2022]

Our hearts need to be trained! Yes 👍 lack of training.. Dont look for No eye candy but look for fruit production ( i didn't know) yes lord... .

[@michaelbozinovski9357]

Wow amazing the first act of sin came off of a tree so that’s why the son of man had to go on a tree become a curse for us to be the fruit of our righteousness to allow us to get back into an eternal relationship with the Heavenly Father.. It started with a tree and then Jesus said while on the tree it is finished

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Wow. Mindblowing.

[@qtsiegirl]

Godly men exist ladies. My godly man found me. Trust God. He will do it

[@hairandmakeupbypealar7627]

I forgive myself for ALL THE TIMES ignorance made a choice.

[@lightoverdarkness3078]

This message hit so real. I was so exhausted with my ex-husband and his lack of tenderness, generosity, and help. He said one thing that literally triggered the thought that he would “never” change. I knew it was a spiritual attack however i was so tired that i stopped listening to GOD. I knew his power and it was just another reset moment. We couldn’t stop the bleeding together. We never recovered. We ultimately divorced. Today, we are distant friends. I am also joyful, healed, a lot more wise and discerning. I know i will not neglect GOD’S word and his power.

[@kellywilliams4025]

"Peace be with you ✌, hair all permed; that's not Jesus!" -JF 😂😂😂😂😂

[@msangieluzu]

Wounds that don’t get transformed gets transferred #OUCH

[@erica8657]

I forgive myself for all the times ignorance made a choice 🙌🏾❤️

[@josiebailey6454]

I FORGIVE MYSELF FOR IGNORANCE MAKING A CHOICE. I DIDN’T KNOW!!!

[@gforce825]

“Re-establishing the order of the kingdom agenda” ...that part!

[@jadanicole625]

GOD, RAISE UP YOUR KINGS AND YOUR MEN WHO HAVE HEARTS THAT BEAT AFTER YOURS! 🙏🏾

[@TheComposerRell]

I FORGIVE MYSELF FOR ALL THE TIMES IGNORANCE MADE A CHOICE.

[@lilyjs]

I forgive myself for all the times ignorance made a choice. I will no longer hold myself hostage. I will forgive myself for ignorance making a choice. I will forgive myself for insecurity making a choice. I will forgive myself for anxiety making a choice.

[@RondelleMartin]

That part about having weary faith and single mothers being tired...I felt that. I have to be honest and say as a single mother who's never been married, I'm starting to wonder if marriage is in God's will for me. I am definitely breaking cycles in my family though and training my son in the Lord. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@ladennayoung2939]

Marriage isn't what it is all cracked up to be. I am married to my son's father. But it haven't been blissful. Because he was not the one intended me to be with. I'm grateful that my child was not conceived outside of marriage, but my husband is not the one for me. It is better to wait, and be with the one that God created you to be with. Then to simply be married.

[@tamalahill3789]

@dailydelle me too! ❤️🙏🏽

[@RondelleMartin]

@@ladennayoung2939 So sorry to hear that and I completely agree. I think at this point its moreso me fixing my mind to the possibility that it may not be in God's will for me and learning to be content with the idea of never getting married. But ultimately if it is in God's will I only want the man God has for me. I've had too many messed up relationships in the past to even play with fire.

[@RondelleMartin]

@@tamalahill3789 keeping you in prayer sis! Its hard out here especially when you never experienced something thats been a heart's desire for as long as you can remember. Keep leaning on God sis 🙏🏽

[@tamalahill3789]

@@RondelleMartin thanks sis and likewise! ❤️🙏🏽

[@davinarobinson6973]

I forgive myself for all the times I allowed ignorance and insecurity to choose

[@tiarshaharrison]

If you keep running away from fights, a generation after you will have to deal with unfinished combat. This is not a typical war, this is an inherited war. Spirits hover over bloodlines. But there is always a blood line breaker. I am breaking this cycle!

[@phozisamkele7813]

What a word, praying for our men. Our Black men across the globe. 🙏🏾

[@caoliver99]

This SCARES me, Lord. Jesus please help our men, please help our men. Please help our men. In the mighty name of Jesus. I desire a husband, please help our men.

[@victoriawhitaker9186]

God, raise up your kings and men whose hearts beat after yours.

[@msvanessa8640]

Normalized faithfulness!

[@1rose1fils]

Mentally exhausted and being spiritually alert really don't makes sense...however the exhaustion is major man...single mother of four.Listen,Its God!I give him the glory that my mental is still intact,im emotionally healed now,and Gods unfailing Love have filled my heart again!I've falling but I cant fold because of his grace for me and for my 4 beautiful kids.I will not be shaken or be weaken and that's my reality.God is not a man that he should lie!

[@AshalynChane]

AMEN!!

[@sportsfamilytherapist]

Prophets who profit!!!!! COME ON PASTOR JERRY!!!

[@girlmeetskingdom]

Don’t want the covenant… But want covenant benefits 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 COMING FOR YOUR NECKKK

[@monicagill2942]

GOD RAISE UP YOUR KINGS AND YOUR MEN WHO HAVE HEARTS AFTER YOURS IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME 🙏🏾🙌🏾❤🔥🔥

[@marywalley4757]

“What about the finder?” “Real men love Jesus!”

[@shakiazul]

Another amazing sermon Pastor Flowers! You have the most impactful sermons of our generation. God bless you and all His kings and kings in the making. 🙏🏼

[@GodMade1012]

So so good. Wish I had listen this 15 years ago.

[@pausetapemedia7942]

@REDIFINEDTV I notice you have a lot of women on this comment or on this Webisode this message should've been more for Brothers then the sisters but i agree 95% of this but let's be clear on something after being in salvation for more then 24 year i find that most Church Men are week because of what has been taught but you are telling the truth..and that founder that blessed me..

[@jessicaboisabi7905]

Oh my goodness when you said exhaustion my eyes 🤯I saw it Jerry, I saw it, I felt it. The enemy is trying to knock you out ✍🏾

[@bonitamcneill3256]

I forgive myself for all the times i was ignorant because I did not know!

[@terrybrown7510]

God, raise up your kings and your men who have hearts that beat after yours! 💯💯🙏🙏

[@General-Q-Daddy]

I forgive myself for all the times I let my ignorance make my choice

[@marl3723]

This message is so appreciated. I don't know this man, but I legit feel heard.

[@nashley2867]

Same.

[@tiarshaharrison]

I forgive myself for all the times ignorance, insecurity, anxiety made a choice. I will no longer hold myself hostage.

[@kellywilliams4025]

I pray to the Lord that the Lord gives these men out here the strength of all that's in Heaven to seek His Kingdom so not only can they better themselves for their future spouse but for themselves first. Most of the men out here are damaged by past trama. It's okay to talk with someone (therapist, counselor, pastor, etc), and most of all consult God. It's not embarrassing; everyone who has lived and is living goes/went through something traumatic. I agree with Jerry, it's not the women out here, it's the men that need the MOST help. I just pray God gives our brothers a tender heart to WANT to come out from doing evil and turn to what is good; God! Amen! 🙏🙏🙏😊😊😊

[@mt7712]

Thank you for this, so needed in this hour. I am single but often get flack from some married folks who are on their second and third marriages. It's so frustrating especially knowing what they have gone through and looking down on me for not settling for what they settled for. No thank you!

[@lamarabdu5481]

I forgive myself for all the times ignorance made a choice

[@fumsy50]

I am the bloodline breaker in Jesus name

[@acircleoflovelylove3064]

Thank you, Jesus for the blood line breaker

[@AJ-df2zv]

What a beautiful sermon... I need our brothas to hear and receive this word. There simply isn't enough preaching out here these days geared to encourage, support, and hold men accountable in the faith. Bless you and your ministry, Pastor Flowers. 🙏🏽❤

[@misss7758]

Kingdom men exist but they are hard to find and out of reach for most women.

[@ashleighhenderson6684]

Thanks again for coming for my life!!! This time you’ve spoken straight into my heart and my mind. I needed this so much. Guilty of exhaustion at its finest!! And you have helped me take a step to screw my head back on. Thanks Jerry!🙏😩😭

[@monaedawson4523]

I'm a bloodline breaker 🙌 and I forgive myself for letting ignorance make choices for me ❤

[@confijinx9063]

WORN OUT BUT NOT BROKEN!!!!!!

[@Passion84GodAlways]

This . sermon . BLESSED . MY . SOOOUUULLLL!!!! THAAAAAAAAANK YOUUUUUU & GOD BLESS YOU MRS. & MR FLOWERS!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@brendontakarinda3811]

Nazareth is the hood😂😂😂 crazy!!!

[@naelperkins1053]

wooo man there's a healing anointing on this message !!!

[@thetortoisetheheywardstheh903]

Powerful message! All praises to The Most High God for this young man declaring the good news (Gospel).

[@justinbercini9331]

🤚🏼Blood line Breaker!! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@whit9560]

Amen Jerry, This Sermon is everything, I pray that more men start to seek God like never before. They need hearing, Slow to speak and quick to hear from God