I wish more doctors would talk about the side effects of some birth controls when you have anxiety/depression. My doctors NEVER mentioned any of the side effects effecting my anxiety and I literally thought I was dying with the amount of panic attacks I started having until I found a new doctor and brought it up with him. He made me feel so much better and we tried so many other options trying to find one that didn’t mess with my anxiety more than what my brain was already doing to me. It was so helpful having someone make me feel valid and like I wasn’t being a whiny baby.
@empichel56903 жыл бұрын
I told my provider I was very concerned about interactions with my mental health because it happened with other methods, and she still recommended depo. I had a severe mental reaction 😣
@callmeclaireee3 жыл бұрын
@@empichel5690 it’s so frustrating having them tell you yeah that’s a normal side effect when you’re like “yeah I don’t want that to be a side effect?????” Hopefully you got it figured out now and that isn’t an issue 💞
@TurtleJulia3 жыл бұрын
@@callmeclaireee Yes, this! Or "oh, you shouldn't have read the package insert" - clearly one of us had to?! Because it says someone with my medical history should not be taking this pill. O.o
@callmeclaireee3 жыл бұрын
@@TurtleJulia exactly! And then because I have really bad social anxiety/ fear of doctors it takes A LOT for me to speak up about something being wrong. So I was just feeling like I was crazy and dying for months until my boyfriend told me I had to go talk to my doctor because I was having attacks every day and throwing up from it. So stressful
@TurtleJulia3 жыл бұрын
@@callmeclaireee I'm so sorry.
@quinnglamna70023 жыл бұрын
I don’t comment often but I wanted to thank you for using gender neutral language. I’m trans masculine and I love that I can watch your videos without feeling dysphoric. My girlfriend and I are learning a lot!
@mhenderson76733 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's great!
@ratboy6693 жыл бұрын
im transmasc too and its so nice to have someone who is aware of their trans viewership when most cis youtubers arent at all, especially in a place you wouldnt expect it
@galitm13 жыл бұрын
Non binary here, also really appreciate this
@bekkimcgrath3 жыл бұрын
MDJ is role model goals xxx
@carag25673 жыл бұрын
I really love this about MDJ too. I'm a cis woman and I try daily to be a better person in general and to treat others with compassion and respect. Her commitment to inclusion is a wonderful way for us viewers to normalize the use of gender neutral language in our every day lives, which I occasionally need reminders to do, I admit. She helps me to be the better person I want to be ❤🌈
@Viennafly13 жыл бұрын
16% is not a failure rate I'm comfortable with 0.o Jeeze.
@Cabbage-dk6nu3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's much better as a secondary/additional method, use it with a condom, or pullout, or fertility awareness, to make those methods more effective, rather than as your only method
@DK-qp9os3 жыл бұрын
Lol better to use literally any other method (except for fert awareness and pullout cause ya know, that's how you get a surprise 😂)
@healedkyber3 жыл бұрын
I am tho, there are lots of us that are ok with that rate
@codename4953 жыл бұрын
@@Cabbage-dk6nu Right? that’s not a “ failure rate” that’s gambling odds.
@codename4953 жыл бұрын
@@healedkyber how about your partner though? There are two humans taking that risk, and if the other human isn’t ok with that freakishly high failure rate you’re being pretty crappy to your partner. I’m not saying you in particular but as a general rule.
@ejwilly23093 жыл бұрын
I was told in middle school Florida sex Ed that iuds can cause permanent infertility! I’m so glad you are advocating for accurate unbiased sex education. I love how it’s available online for free too. Now I’m not scared to get an IUD/Nexplanon when I’m ready for that sort of thing. 💕
@dutchik51073 жыл бұрын
Hell I think some doctors even think that. A co worker of mine was refused the IUD because she didn't have kids yet by an older male doctor. Got the pill, she felt like it wasn't working and was pregnant a few months later (don't know why she didn't use a condom, if felt like it was not working) This was in the netherlands. My mom was told the same 30 ish years ago. Because she hated the pill. Now there even is a smaller hormonal IUD, with a lower hormone dose as well. Especially for women that have never been pregnant. Because it is smaller. Making it easier to place in those.
@duckeh19523 жыл бұрын
@@dutchik5107 because for long iud was only for women who had given birth, especially copper one. I don't think that it has been that long that iuds have been option for women who have never had a child. Def was not an option 30 yrs ago. I don't want iud because i don't want anything sticked thru my cervix :P
@dutchik51073 жыл бұрын
@@duckeh1952 nope. Was just saying that I know someone that got pregnant after being refused an IUD. Girl is 18, and actually had a complex pregnancy. Those things however have been disputed. Something like possible infection? Idunno. I still have to talk to my doctor about an IUD. Kinda scared to get it. Especially since my partner does sometimes go up to the cervix. Yeah sometimes that hurts is we mess up. Don't want it to be pushing the IUD in the walls.
@duckeh19523 жыл бұрын
@@dutchik5107 but the thing is, iud may not have work as well (and has higher risk of pregnancy being in wrong place). You may have it inserted and causing so much problems that it needs to be removed. And chance of pregnancy is still same % than with pills. And yes. She should have used condom. And condom should always be used when not wanting to get pregnant, even when you are on birth control Refusing because she had not given birth was ridiculous and old fashioned. I had bff who had to go thru several methods before she found suitable (ring) for her, iuds weren't thing for non-birthers back then. Unfortunately for some none of hormonal won't work.
@dutchik51073 жыл бұрын
@@duckeh1952 yeah. But thing is. I also don't want the pill because effectiveness is the same with perfect use. I am not perfect. I regularly miss my other daily meds I have been taking since I was 9. The pill would just be too much stress. And hormonal IUD should prevent ovulation and in typical use effectiveness is much higher. It's easy to miss a pill. There are instances of the IUD falling out but they are much rarer. People typically notice and is easy to check.
@amandaharders77943 жыл бұрын
Mama Dr. Jones is my Monday morning dose of self-care.
@Momster123 жыл бұрын
I think that's a wonderful self care routine!
@lilomorales61813 жыл бұрын
Same!
@tabithacrouse88583 жыл бұрын
Yesss🌟
@keiraconnelly79213 жыл бұрын
Me too
@acedcoffee69343 жыл бұрын
Omg yes!! Haha same
@Ana_the_librarian3 жыл бұрын
Can you talk about pre-menopause and menopause. I feel that doesn’t get talked about enough and all ladies will go through it.
@UncoordinatedPixie3 жыл бұрын
Yes especially for those of us who had ovarian insufficiency starting in our early to mid 30s. I never wanted kids so I was cool with it and didn’t bother to get on anything to straighten the hormones out but it could be helpful for others who do.
@melissablackwood3 жыл бұрын
Yes, after all the period and birth control and pregnancy and delivery stuff ... eventually we all arrive at the Next Chapter.
@Nothing901673 жыл бұрын
I agree on this comment!! Im 43 in perimeno and was just discussing with my doctor today about different bhrt. I had bad reaction to depo and traditional birth control and scared of all the other side effects that go along. I also agree that pre and after pregnancy are just 1 phase of a womens journey and menopause and all symptoms should be discussed
@sallyfields23853 жыл бұрын
Yes! I went through it sort of early. All the women I know that are menopausal had a hysterectomy and take some form of HRT. My doctor will not prescribe anything for me. She told me to try several different types of herbal supplements. Unfortunately I have food allergies that trigger my migraines. I tried the ones I could take and they were not helpful. My doctor still would not prescribe anything. I'm not having hot flashes right now but had them with night sweats as well. But I do occasionally have a what I would describe like a mini hot flash. It's a bit different though. But my doctor just blows me off. I live in a rural area and don't really have a lot of choices for a different doctor. I've tried to get as much information on the internet but it is not the same.
@Poorstargazer233 жыл бұрын
@@sallyfields2385 If your Dr is not listening to your needs, concerns, etc and without solid pros and cons being explained to you as to why you shouldn't consider hormones... Well, I think you might need to consider getting a new Dr. Listening to you and providing options for tests and/or treatment is their JOB and it kinda sounds like your Dr is playing god with your body/health 😞
@MorganEileen3 жыл бұрын
I loved my IUD without having a baby! I didn’t even feel it go in, and it was great for 4 years until we were ready to have a baby! Now expecting my first in March 🤗
@sarahchicago3 жыл бұрын
I definitely felt mine go in lol, but it's still absolutely worth it for me!
@raemills30893 жыл бұрын
Mine has changed my life. Actually. I had really, really, heavy and painful periods. After my first I had an IUD put in and I'm one of the few who doesn't have a period with it. Got it out four years later, had a period which fell into my "old normal"(heavy and long) and conceived in my first fertile window, no problem. Had another one put in after my second pregnancy and so far so good (three years)
@MorganEileen3 жыл бұрын
My periods weren’t painful but did go away completely with the Mirena! We got pregnant the second month trying (had a chemical) then conceived this baby on month 3 of trying. Definitely so great!
@janhankins9113 жыл бұрын
Congratulations! Please let us know when the baby is born and how you're both doing.
@MorganEileen3 жыл бұрын
@@janhankins911 ❤️❤️ i will try to remember!!!
@Amandavg2 жыл бұрын
Having my IUD placed hurt so bad. I almost passed out. Having it removed didn’t hurt at all and in fact I had immediate relief of the pressure and pain I had been having the whole time the IUD was in.
@luciagoeller6604 Жыл бұрын
Me too I’m so happy to have mine out, I’ve felt it ever since I had it placed 😞
@Floor75866 ай бұрын
Same for me, I had a copper IUD. I had one 10 years ago for a year and then it was less painfull, sometimes it can can be different depending on the time a docter told me.
@melisa_moore3 жыл бұрын
I’m pregnant. I don’t need birth control. But I’m always here for Mama Dr. Jones.
@elizabethirvin99543 жыл бұрын
Same sis
@msaijay11533 жыл бұрын
I'm 3 weeks postpartum, my husband is 2 weeks post vasectomy. I'm right here with you!
@verodg78333 жыл бұрын
Same. Family is complete, husband had a vasectomy almost a year ago... but here I am. Never miss a MDJ vid!
@sunshineloved3 жыл бұрын
I'm 33 weeks pregnant, so I don't need birth control right away, but I definitely will while I'm breastfeeding. I really don't want to be pregnant again any time soon after I have my baby, so I appreciate her including safe options for breastfeeding!
@stretchkitty213 жыл бұрын
Lol I'm never planning on having kids but I enjoy watching her videos about pregnancy.
@UIAL5703 жыл бұрын
ALWAYS read the pamphlet that comes along with any birth control method/product. The amount of risks that come with the Pill for example, are astounding, doctor’s usually mention it as a way to control periods and acne, but neglect to mention it can affect your mental health, especially if you suffer already with anxiety and or depression. (Not all doctor’s but in my experience). Just ensure YOU know the fine print, that way if something goes wrong you know to mention it yourself that you are on birth control and that might be a factor in whatever you’re experiencing.
@luciesimpson64372 жыл бұрын
Honestly, people should just use what works for them and not be shamed, cajoled or oversold on one method. The school issue 'talk' (during a major NZ govt push to reduce the teen pregnancy 'epidemic') left me with the distinct impression that IUDs were surgical nightmares, spermicides were crap and gave people a rash, watching the calendar doesn't work at all and that condoms are wonderful things that prevented STIs (when you always use them and use them right) that boys just needed to get the hell over using. Also the pill was a unicorn that has no real side effects, so you could 'graduate' from having to use condoms. It's only now that I'm really appreciating how misogynistic that last part was (is), but there are worse cultural norms around contraception. Anyway, the pill made me anxious, increased my stress (both mental and physical) and torpedoed my sex drive, which wasn't high to begin with. My periods (because I didn't skip them; I was a bit leery about that as an 18-year-old who'd never actually discussed not having a period pros/cons) were shorter, heavier and the cramps excruciating. A second stint on the pill a few years later replicated the symptoms. So, despite my sister swearing by it (because it did help her avoid crippling periods) I stopped using it. I'm never going to use it again. I don't care what 'advice' I'm given, or how normalised it is. It is worth remembering that everyone is affected differently, but I am not 'everyone' and neither are you.
@g.pearson47265 ай бұрын
Yes. This is important with every medication. When my dad was in the hospital they were trying to give him medication that had adverse side effects with other medications or medication that would cause his health to basically decline rapidly. He or I would pull our phones out and start reading those side effects. The doctors would be so annoyed. But the good doctors always said “oh no I understand completely it’s your decision “.
@NiamhCreates3 жыл бұрын
I used FAM (Fertility Awareness Method) in between each of my pregnancies (btw each of my pregnancies were planned, I have had zero unplanned pregnancies). I absolutely loved it and learned so much about my body.
@TheMeganAlyse3 жыл бұрын
Yes!! You truly learn so much about your body. That is my favorite part about it.
@katfoster8453 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't be comfortable relying on it because I do shift work. There's no consistency between when I wake up and go to bed. Plus I'd be paranoid about it failing.
@lostmaplegirl3 жыл бұрын
I’m currently breastfeeding, how do you do that while breastfeeding?
@ZoeBellCake3 жыл бұрын
That was the best thing about it for me, I realized after looking into it that I knew NOTHING about my body lol specifically I used it to NOT get pregnant, and used condoms all the time anyways, but I think it's great for women to look into to at least understand how their reproductive system operates. I was super fascinating. (and omg it is NOT the same as the rhythm method, which I would NOT recommend)
@blueberyice3 жыл бұрын
Same! I have irregular cycles due to PCOS but was able to successfully use Creighton Method. We stopped using it for 1 month and I got pregnant LOL. As someone with PCOS I did not want to use hormonal contraceptives that suppress ovulation when women with PCOS already have trouble ovulating... I was able to do everything I could to promote healthy cyclic ovulations (as our bodies are designed to do) and prevent pregnancy until we felt ready. Win win!
@amandadevasconcellos3 жыл бұрын
Birth control helped me A LOT with my depression. I would usually see improvements in my mental health and then lose them all during PMS. Now I'm on the combined pill and my PMS symptoms are all gone. I can consistently work on my depression without getting a suicidal episode a month ❤️
@RQuinton793 жыл бұрын
IMO, I would add that communication with partner is also very important. Obviously, that itself is not birth control, but as someone who would be a potential father, I personally would like to be involved or at least in the know. Not for controlling purposes, which is horrible, but males should be more involved in general and not solely place the burden on the woman.
@jess10339193 жыл бұрын
Men should be able to make informed decisions also! That is so important. If the man isn't comfortable with only one method/increased risk of failure, it is definitely up to them if they want to wear a condom or pull out or both.
@tinkeramma3 жыл бұрын
My husband has a moral issue with the science of how birth control works. I don't share that concern, but in sharing my body and my life with him, knowing his views changed my preferences for birth control choices. We're also in a stage of life where an unintended pregnancy would be something we would adapt to and be okay with after some time, so condoms work well for our situation. I'd add that by the time you're sharing both your body and your life with someone, there exists a level of intimacy where this conversation shouldn't be a problem.
@alexisthompson63103 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I agree that men (in general) should be more open to conversations like this with their partners. My boyfriend and I have always talked very candidly about our birth control methods which I’m really grateful for, but I know some men aren’t as supportive/willing to be involved in “female business.” Like I said, this is a generalization and I know there are some men who are great about this (mine included) but I think the biggest thing we can do to help change this is to teach our children! Please teach your sons about female reproductive health in age appropriate ways! To me, that includes teaching them about methods of birth control once they are old enough to be asking about/discussing sex.
@RQuinton793 жыл бұрын
I’m married and a dad of two daughters. We have done our best to teach our daughters and remove stigma around female sexuality, in an age appropriate way (they are 20 and 15 now). Part of that is empowering them to not feel shame, or accept “female problems” as a scapegoat for their partners to not be involved. Not that everything has to be shared at all times, personal privacy is also important, but I feel males need just as much education and be an equal partner in birth control and family planning. Just my opinion.
@thayerwilliams9053 жыл бұрын
Bless you good sir. YES, men should be equally knowledgeable, and equally involved and equally responsible.
@brookewelton3173 жыл бұрын
I'd love to see a video about you talking about male birth control! I know a lot are still in testing, but it would be great if birth control was an option for men.
@queencharles35273 жыл бұрын
I think the closest form of birth control for men is a vasectomy💀 The second is a condom
@ZombieMan19973 жыл бұрын
I really hope they come up with a successful birthcontrol for biological males. Because I, a Transguy, being born biologically female, would love to not have to worry about having a baby if I am not ready for one. And honestly, once a biological female is already carrying a child, they cannot carry another until this child or children are born. But 1 biological male can go around and get a bunch of biological females pregnant and either no one will know or they can just walk away and deal with the issue once they have been established as the person who got the other person pregnant. Just something I once saw on Facebook and it's so true. If the goal is to prevent surprise pregnancies they should have something hormonal a biological male can take. Less people would get pregnant that way.
@j_me3 жыл бұрын
She actually discussed it her video where she reacted to a netflix documentary about birth control! I think it's in the later half of the video
@1980OKOK3 жыл бұрын
Vasectomy. It’s fast and easy and reversable.
@ZombieMan19973 жыл бұрын
@@1980OKOK And cheaper too.
@joankgillette3 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or are you getting more pretty every video?! ✨ You look incredible, love your hair. This lighting is perfect.
@sarasthoughts3 жыл бұрын
I use continuous contracception and it's GREAT. No breakthrough bleeding at all, no worries about taking it the right day, no blood, no pain. Amazing
@adolphaselrah95062 жыл бұрын
Which birth control are you on? The one I’m on had breakthrough bleeding.
@chloepryor18773 жыл бұрын
can you talk about contraceptive use and obesity? some studies show that contraceptives are less effective in obese women, others say it’s not. little confused about that 😬
@summermarcus22253 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@codename4953 жыл бұрын
It depends on the method. IUD is going to be the safest bet because it’s delivered directly to the uterus and not going through the bloodstream, because body weight/ body fat composition is a factor in dosages for essentially all medications, especially hormone medications. Being either significantly overweight or underweight is a favor to consider.
@mohitakatta68173 жыл бұрын
You should look into the copper IUD
@kays35523 жыл бұрын
@@ericchen6468 this is an excellent resource! Side note, obesity does not only impact effectiveness; in some forms of contraception, the estrogen can cause severe clotting and the risk increases with obesity. This resource discusses this for combined hormonal birth control methods (meaning those with estrogen and progesterone). I don't intend to fear monger, but I got a severe clot in my brain at 20 for this reason. So if you have a bmi over 35, please consider a method that does not contain estrogen. Also also, the doctors think I rapidly gained weight due to depo, which is why they had switched me to the pill. I am off all hormonal methods, am healthy, and lost the weight.
@TheRubinator133 жыл бұрын
The copper iud gave me copper toxicity and I had to have it removed because of all the issues it was causing, so be careful with that, it's also the largest of all the iuds and thus the most painful to insert, remove, and when I had sex it was constantly getting hit and made sex very un-enjoyable
@morgantrojacek80553 жыл бұрын
I appreciate your honest treatment of fertility awareness, both its benefits and drawbacks! It's my method of choice for various reasons, and I love being able to track fertility symptoms and have a clear, constant picture of what my body's doing. So many OB-GYNs immediately dismiss fertility awareness so it's refreshing to be able to hear a straightforward take on it.
@chloeb16423 жыл бұрын
As someone who has used fertility awareness methods for 8 years, thank you so much for how you answered that question. I feel it was a really balanced and accurate answer. (Thank you SO MUCH for not saying it is only for women with regular cycles)
@wmdkitty3 жыл бұрын
It's the rhythm method, and it doesn't work.
@chloeb16423 жыл бұрын
@@wmdkitty I can't tell if you're being serious or facetious. I hope facetious because what you said is totally false.
@Cyanopteryx3 жыл бұрын
@@wmdkitty Nope, they're different. The rhythm method relies on calendar tracking based on previous cycles. It isn't very effective. But FAM involves taking daily measurements of temperature and cervical fluid/positioning during each cycle. It can be more effective than the pill if done correctly and consistently.
@hermionehp11003 жыл бұрын
Please talk about PMDD/PMDS!!! I was so relieved when I found out that was an actual diagnosis - that I wasn’t crazy and that this happens to others!! Everyone needs to be educated on this. It’s terrible to suffer from extreme bouts of depression each month, even when on antidepressants.
@PhoebeK2 жыл бұрын
Rebecca, I know where you are I was there too, though Depression was one of my tamer symptoms! I hope you can find a treatment which works long-term for you and if nothing does do not let them talk you out of the final solution of inducing menopause which is the final permanent solution. It is possible to survive PMDD and come out the other side a functioning person without waiting for the ovaries to shut down by themselves, I say this as a survivor from the bliss of the other side of surgical menopause (even with HRT menopause is a breeze compared to PMDD).
@adolphaselrah95062 жыл бұрын
Yaz is a birth control made to help with PMDD. Ask your doctor and maybe it will help you (I’m going to ask my doctor too)
@arara21399 ай бұрын
I have pmdd and my doctor advised me yaz. It is way better now but I still hope to stop taking the pill because.... Mentally it's a bit hard for my to be on medication for too long. I will discuss with my doctor my options and advise you to talk with your doctor as well. Don't be afraid to ask for a second opinion too.
@elexneonabingdon3 жыл бұрын
I had breakthrough bleeding from taking the pill continuously, my GP told me the same thing as your rule of three and it works great.
@pixiebomb283 жыл бұрын
i honestly dont know why this method for using the pill isnt more widely spoken about, decided to just randomly start doing it and my life has changed!
@lanabauab38383 жыл бұрын
I also do the same thing and works great for me! I hated my period and mood swings and now I don’t have to deal with that
@alondraisabel7653 жыл бұрын
does this continous method work for combination pills?
@ninao84603 жыл бұрын
@@alondraisabel765 is combination just that there are multiple working ingredients? Because mine does and I always take it for 6 weeks at a time. The paper thing inside the box also says I can do multiple strips
@paulinexong3 жыл бұрын
@@alondraisabel765 I use it with my combination pills! Of course, you should ask your doctor about it though (you'll have to talk to them anyway because if you switch to this method, you'll need more pills)
@ericagoehring10893 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving FAM a fair assessment! I have been using only FAM in my marriage for almost 20 years. We have never had a surprise pregnancy. If you are educated about the method, committed to it completely, and have a partner who is equally committed to using FAM fully, it can be an effective way to avoid pregnancy and *potentially* time conception intentionally. As a bonus, FAM has positive bonding effects for the couple and gives insight into your reproductive health. Love it!
@d0omslug2 жыл бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 I know; so commonly it is dismissed.
@colors_in_noise3 жыл бұрын
Wow, wish I had a ObGyn like you on 2015. The Army gave me a Depo shot because they put me on Anxiety meds and didn't want me to get pregnant. No wonder my anxiety got worse. Thanks for this. Now I understand.
@probablypositivity89183 жыл бұрын
Each time I watch one of these it reminds me why I want to go into this field. You do such great work and you take the time to educate others on top of that, thank you!
@TheMeganAlyse3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for mentioning fertility awareness methods and talking about how they do work if one is dedicated to it. I have yet to have a doctor that does not look at me like im crazy when I tell them no thank you to birth control. I love that this method has really allowed me to know my body and how it works.
@jess10339193 жыл бұрын
I think it is because a lot of doctors and general public think it is the same as the rhythm method... which it definitely is not!
@tinkeramma3 жыл бұрын
My OB, midwife, and their nurses all pressured me about choosing a hormonal contraceptive during my postpartum follow up. My husband and I decided years ago that hormonal birth control wasn't for us. This pressure was infuriating because not only had we successfully planned all 3 of our pregnancies (including a 6 year gap between our youngest and middle daughters), we're also willing to adapt to an unplanned pregnancy. BTW, that youngest is nearly 5 now and is still the youngest. We know what we want in birth control and it's working.
@lyss2223 жыл бұрын
That's a shame that you've had that experience! I see a midwife at my ob's office and she was actually really happy to hear I was doing fertility awareness and not using hormones. She told me about a woman she knows who had been using that method successfully for over 20 years.
@kimraethridge61243 жыл бұрын
I discussed this method with a doctor once and he explained that when I was at my "friskiest" that would likely also coincide with when I would need to forgo unprotected sex to prevent pregnancy which didn't sound any fun at all...
@jess10339193 жыл бұрын
@@kimraethridge6124 I think it's all about how much risk you are willing to take - pull out (if done completely correctly with no user error) has about a 4% failure rate up to about 22% if done incorrectly. Condoms are an option, although not many married/ long term couples use them!
@tamarr.9823 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy and impressed with your summary of fertility awareness method. I was ready to watch this and cringe because most people (and sadly most doctors) think it is the same thing as the rhythm method. I read Toni Weschler's book 'Taking Charge of your Fertility" when I was dealing with fertility issues and I was angry with how little I was taught about my own body.
@tamarr.9823 жыл бұрын
My giant thumbs submitted the comment before I was ready. Anyway I would recomend that book for anyone who has a female reproductive system and also if they are wanting to get pregnant at some point. I was able to determine what my issue was really quickly.
@mus1cman73 жыл бұрын
Great video as always. Currently in my repro block of M2 year, so this was a nice way to start my week and work myself up to tackling online lectures about pregnancy physiology this morning.
@Aziara863 жыл бұрын
Fertility awareness has worked amazing for me. We use condoms from day 5 to day 19, and my only pregnancy in 10 years was planned. Condoms are also cheaper than most other birth control. I was on the pill for a month for cysts, and I got so nauseous on it, and my periods were actually worse! Did not like.
@rreese42216 ай бұрын
Are you still using this method? Are there any updates?
@salamanda113 жыл бұрын
You’re so lovely! And this lighting is everything. ✨
@westzed233 жыл бұрын
And I love your blue-green eyes.
@shannonransom59963 жыл бұрын
Regarding depression and anxiety, I just wanna add my two cents. I've had anxiety for most of my adolescence and all of my adult life. Sophomore year of college, a good friend tried to assault me and it completely threw me. I couldn't eat or sleep, I was having panic attacks, it was horrible, and a lot of it was that I wasn't on birth control and I was terrified of the possibility that if something happened, I could've become pregnant. I got counseling and got my Nexplanon put in about 2 weeks later. When I say it saved my sanity-- it went so far beyond just birth control. Obviously it didn't fix everything, but just having one small bit of peace of mind when you feel like your entire world is crumbling was just priceless.
@shelbylerum10923 жыл бұрын
This is a little off topic but can you please make a video about first periods and what to expect and do.
@shadowkissed23703 жыл бұрын
This^^^ my 13 year old little cousin thought she was dying because she started her period. Even though her mother and I explained what would happen hers was compleatly different from what they showed in the books so she thought something was wrong with her and she was dying. Everyone is different. I got very dizzy and nauseated when mine first started. for some people it will be a lot of blood and for some it will only be a little. It would be a great video for Momma Doctor Jones to do.
@janhankins9113 жыл бұрын
As long as people are requesting topics, I'd like a video on the opposite! That is, menopause and osteoporosis. I have been diagnosed with osteoporosis and have broken two bones in the last six months. I broke a metatarsal when I stood up from sitting on the couch and I broke a toe when I dropped my Kindle on it. Not major, life-altering things by any stretch of the imagination, but I would like the most up to date info on osteoporosis and its treatment. I haven't gotten my infusion this year because my doctor is so concerned about COVID-19 (I'm asthmatic, so at risk of a serious case if I get the virus). The infusion usually makes me feel ill for about a week and usually end up having to get anti-nausea medications to take for that week or I lose everything I eat or drink and often end up with the "dry heaves". Absolutely no fun, so would like to know if there is anything out there that is better without the side effects. Have tried the self-injection route--major muscle cramps, major dizziness--could handle the dizziness, it was manageable if I gave myself the shot while I was in bed (hubby had to put everything away) and then went to sleep, but the cramps were agonizing; have tried the twice yearly shot, my dentist put a stop to it because it was affecting my jaw bone.
@carag25673 жыл бұрын
@@janhankins911 OMG that sounds awful! I'm so sorry you are going through this! Are you in menopause or perimenopause? I'm 41 and think I'm starting perimenopause due to sudden onset hot flashes and SEVERE night sweats that began about 6 months ago. But same as you, non-emergency medical exams are on hold for the time being due to COVID. What do you take for your nausea (if you don't mind my asking)? I also suffer from chronic migraine disorder and therefore vomit frequently and am nauseated and/or gagging more often than not. My neurologist rxs me Zofran and it's a little miracle for me. I get the type that dissolves on the tongue. There are some days when I wouldn't be able to function without it.
@kathleenburgess99583 жыл бұрын
I love Momma Dr. Jones! She has educated me on so much since I started watching her channel!!
@aliyai.87263 жыл бұрын
I got my period today and I am grateful to have something nice to watch
@MsJassi133 жыл бұрын
Can you talk about contraceptives and libido? I’m especially interested in the long-term cycle and how that affects libido
@livelongandprospermary87963 жыл бұрын
I’d love to hear a conversation on mental health meds and libido. Why do I have to feel suicidal in order to have a libido?
@kariw.1603 жыл бұрын
All about the progesterone. Progesterone is required for pregnancy and libido. I had such a hard time with the pill
@dutchik51073 жыл бұрын
@@livelongandprospermary8796 maybe because the meds slow your emotions down? And well, libido is a feeling
@HallofWin3 жыл бұрын
So I was on a mixed pill with high dose and my libido was really bad for over a year.. I spoke to my doctor and lowered my dose. My libido is back and I’m always in the mood so I love it !! Not sure if it was related or placebo but I don’t think it was placebo
@Kristalw982 жыл бұрын
@@HallofWin how many mg? Because I want to use the nuvaring that works like the pill
@amandastumpff52523 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, I take continuous birth control and I always feel guilty for some reason, even though I know it is medically OK for me. And I love your sweater by the way! Definitely giving off 80s vibes just a little bit :)
@myconfusedmerriment3 жыл бұрын
I took the pill continuously for ~3 years, eventually stopped taking it bc of mood side effects, and have had no issues. My period went back to being totally regular, etc. I’m just one person, but my doc also told me it’s totally safe. And it sure was nice not having a period for 3 years!
@DearSparklesTV3 жыл бұрын
I took it continuously for 4 years before getting an IUD and I loved it!! IDK why more people don't do it that way, honestly. The placebo break was actually only invented as a way for housewives to hide the fact that they were taking the pill from their husband bc it mimicked a normal cycle.
@amandastumpff52523 жыл бұрын
Since I went on birth control nine years ago, with breaks when I was pregnant, I have taken it continuously. I am on seasoneque anyway, and there is only one placebo week in each pack, so it is super easy to skip. And I love it because once you get on a good routine and you have taken it for a while, as long as you are consistent, you rarely ever get brake through bleeding
@carag25673 жыл бұрын
There's nothing to feel guilty about if you're using continuous birth control. All IUDs, implants, and the shot are continuous. The route of administration doesn't matter so go ahead and skip the placebo week if that's what you want to do! 💪
@ericchen64683 жыл бұрын
The issue of continuous use of the combined contraceptive is looked at in this clinical guideline (note it is written for healthcare professionals) www.fsrh.org/standards-and-guidance/documents/combined-hormonal-contraception/ This is the related key information about continuous use (which is one of few tailored regimen): "Tailored CHC regimens can reduce the frequency of withdrawal bleeds and can reduce withdrawal symptoms associated with the hormone-free interval (HFI); however, unscheduled bleeding is common." It goes on to recommend that "Women should be given information about both standard and tailored CHC regimens to broaden contraceptive choice."
@Angela-lp3lz3 жыл бұрын
It's frustrating to find what works but we are lucky to have so many BC options. My grandma did not, and neither do many women today.
@rishel87383 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your factual take on FAM! It has been my primary form of contraception for over ten years now and it’s worked wonderfully for me. It gets very frustrating when I have to explain to others, sometimes even healthcare providers, that FAM and the much riskier Rhythm are NOT the same thing.
@mintshell10763 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t swallow pills and my doctor recommended the depo shot, best decision ever. I do suffer from depression and anxiety but have not noticed a significant change in my mood
@mintshell10763 жыл бұрын
@Sharee Mitchell yeah It can cause a reduction in bone marrow density, I’ve only been on it for a bit over a year now
@livelongandprospermary87963 жыл бұрын
Mine made me suicidal AF. I also have PMDD which was not diagnosed until a 2 years ago, well after when I had the depo
@casiekreiner30403 жыл бұрын
Yes it can cause bone weakness over time...take a bone multivitamin centrum I think its called is what I was told.
@saintnicole32093 жыл бұрын
i'm on it rn! (just got my second injection last week) and I love it. i haven't experienced any negative side effects. i already had anxiety depression and adhd and my symptoms haven't worsened. my motivation got worse but it was spiraling before i started the shot anyways. i haven't experienced weight gain (i've actually lost it), and my periods are SO much better than when i was on the combination pill (i had heavy, painful periods). my mom hates that i'm on the shot and gets upset when i have to go get my shot (i'm an adult tho and she can't stop me lol) because my cousin had trouble getting pregnant after she was on the shot.
@brookewelton3173 жыл бұрын
I'd love to see mama Dr. Jones do a video on anti seizure medication and how it effects the efficacy of birth control!!
@coramaybe3 жыл бұрын
Yes, this would be awesome!
@jasmirris3 жыл бұрын
I am going through this right now. My gyno is recommending Nexplanon due to some things I told her in my last visit and but I read the info she gave me and some of the meds I take have interactions with it. 😔. I would like to have a tubal ligation since my husband and I do not want children and it would trigger seizures as well as other medical issues. I hope insurance will pay for it and most of the other things associated with it as we have great insurance. Crossing my fingers!
@nikaylarosnok71163 жыл бұрын
I switched from the combination pill to the depo shot because the pill was giving me serious mental health side effects (and some physical too). I’ve felt 100 times better since switching!! I wish doctors would talk more about the link between the two.
@Lily-lp5dg3 жыл бұрын
Your videos are my health class. I’ll learn more from you than school anyways lol.
@stephanieandrewchesnet6913 жыл бұрын
Just wanted to share my quick experience with birth control, specifically IUD. I have had one for the last 6 years. I had it put it when I was 20 years old. I never had any children. They gave me a pill, I believe it was the day before, to help make the IUD inserting process easier (literally just feels like minor cramps). The day of, the IUD insert was a quick and relative painless procedure with being mildly uncomfortable (but then again, who likes to be propped up to stir ups on display for this lol). This was a much needed birth control for me. Before the IUD I tried the pill and the nuvaring while battling severe monthly periods. The IUD practically saved my life! No kidding. The first two months were straight up annoying and uncomfortable because my cycle was not regulated but by the 3rd month, the periods had stopped. No more severe cramping or pain. I had it replaced a little over a year ago (still with no kids). It was again, super quick, and with very little pain. They take out the old IUD and then pop in a new one. Like changing an earring XD. Only spotted for 2-3 days and then no more period. But seriously, I wouldn't be scared of this option! Talk to your doctor and see if this is the best option for you. Hope this quick tidbit helps you out. Let me know if you have any questions!
@lyspaere3 жыл бұрын
SO HAPPY YOU talked about phexxi!! They are driving me crazy with their inflammatory, non-fact-based, offensive-incredibly-outdated-ways advertising.
@AuntAlnico42 жыл бұрын
I don't know why you are so offended !? But I would call that commercial the new world order way of advertising !?
@Munthebun2 жыл бұрын
@@AuntAlnico4 Advertising by lying?
@613.Emma.H3 жыл бұрын
I was soooo much more scared to get my IUD out after 5 years than the initial insertion, but I barely even felt it! Got my new one inserted and now I am good to go for another 5 years :)
@LevadeNZ3 жыл бұрын
I had a pretty bad scenario for my IUD removal, and it was still fine. I was on my 4th IUD in 7 years for endometriosis and adenomyosis, and long story short, the progesterone shrunk my uterus until it was too small for the device to fit, and I was essentially "in labour" for 3 years while my body tried to expel it. I finally got it diagnosed and removed, and despite how irritated the inside of my uterus was, I barely felt it come out. I had to breathe through some cramps after, but it was nothing compared to when my body was actively trying to expel it, and the speculum was worse than the actual IUD removal. Definitely don't be scared about it!! I still totally recommend IUDs, it was FANTASTIC while my uterus was still big enough for it.
@flightsnotfeelings58673 жыл бұрын
I LOVE my IUD. Very painful insertion process but it was over in 5 seconds. No side effects and more importantly, no babies. It’s so great.
@Meliaison3 жыл бұрын
I actually didnt have a painful insertion process myself, but I did take 800mg of ibuprofen 30 minutes prior. I even had a cervix relaxer too prescribed to me which is not really recommended. I’d say it was 4/10 at worst in terms of pain! I’ve had the Kyleena IUD for 4 months now and its been good for the most part. I for some reason get really bad cramps on it sometimes with or without a period but I bust out a heating pad and some pain reliever and I’m usually fine. That, and spotting outside of my period but I am still in the adjustment phase so I’m not too bothered by it! I wish I was one of the few that had no periods but honestly I’m just happy to have no kids and minimal side effects.
@flightsnotfeelings58673 жыл бұрын
@@Meliaison I didn’t take ibuprofen before hand due to medication I’m on. So it was 50/10 worst pain I’ve ever been in, I even threw up afterwards but it lasted 5 seconds. Other than normal like bleeding, no other noticeable side effects with my Mirena. Sooooo worth it
@Meliaison3 жыл бұрын
@@flightsnotfeelings5867 I’m so sorry it hurt that much! If you consider getting it again in the future definitely discuss pain reliever prior to the insertion. It helps tremendously. For anyone considering getting an IUD: I also recommend eating plenty of food and water before the exam. Also take the rest of the day off and lay in bed with a heating pad on max lol. I myself felt somewhat lightheaded after the insertion so if you have someone to drive you home that’d be the safest option. Some people can faint after the exam and the cramps can be pretty debilitating after the insertion.
@Scoeysgirl3 жыл бұрын
I had two Skyla IUDs. Insertion was horrible both times. I had my cervix dilated the second time and that was extended bad pain. I’m sensitive to anything so I had side effects throughout the five years I had them. It was my favorite birth control but gave me bad side effects like all the others. :(
@Meliaison3 жыл бұрын
@@Scoeysgirl oh no :( this might be a shot in the dark but if you had side effects from hormonal BC, I’d recommend talking to your doctor about the non-hormonal copper IUD as well as pain relief options for your next insertion. Also studies have shown that dilating the cervix can do more harm than good. I was very lucky that the cervix softener seemed to work well for me. If you didnt respond well to it I’d forgo it the next time. So sorry about your bad experience though ☹️
@cazzawee3 жыл бұрын
Nice to see FAM being spoken about in a positive light in a birth control video! I've been using it for almost 2 years now since quitting the pill and had no unintentional pregnancies. All of the info is very overwhelming at first, but once you've got it down I really feel like the daily effort is minimal. Totally agree it requires someone 100% committed to it or there can be accidents. I'm still thankful that I had the pill during my young irresponsible years though lol
@mcaskey3583 жыл бұрын
My mother insisted that birth control causes infertility. I suffered for YEARS with horrifically painful periods that made it impossible for me to even walk, I was throwing up, and she refused to even discuss putting me on anything because she didn't want me to lose my fertility. After I became an adult, moved out, and had my own Drs I went on birth control. It changed my entire life for the better! When my niece's mom put her on birth control for the same thing, my mom tried to take her off it (My mom was her primary care giver). I sat my mom down and explained to her, in detail that fertility is NOT affected by birth control and that I didn't want my niece suffering the way I did. I think hearing it from me finally broke through because she dropped the subject and my niece stayed on birth control. But it's just a VERY common myth I hear, and so many women and girls are suffering when they could be on birth control and actually living their lives.
@TurtleJulia3 жыл бұрын
I think many people who go on the pill for issues with their periods and then go off when they want to get pregnant think the pills caused their infertility, when in fact the infertility stuff (PCOS or endometriosis in a lot of cases) caused them to have to take the pill in the first place!
@hannah.42413 жыл бұрын
You also could have used Ibuprofen too though, it’s not birth control but it numbs the pain of horrible cramps
@TurtleJulia3 жыл бұрын
@@hannah.4241 What a novel idea that surely no one with chronic pain has ever considered!
@AviatrixBexx3 жыл бұрын
@@hannah.4241 Not for everyone. Especially if you have something like endometriosis. Ibuprofen is as useless as dirt for most people with endo from what I've heard. It has certainly never touched my pain. Neither does paracetamol or co-codamol (prescription dose 30/500 x 2). The first thing that I've found that even remotely touches it is tramadol, and even that does very little. I frequently burn myself because I have to use a *boiling* hot hot water bottle to get anything vaguely resembling relief. Not everyone is so lucky that they can just take ibuprofen and have their pain melt away.
@A-pw4vk7 ай бұрын
Have you had your children yet?
@shilajames81833 жыл бұрын
I love that you talked about phexxi first, because it was actually the add I watched on this video. (And many other videos you've posted.)
@mahrieaderksen3 жыл бұрын
I am really pleased with your fertility awareness method response! I often hear people talk negatively about it when in reality it can be a great form of birth control for the right person :)
@SingingGingerNinja3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Most people you talk to about it just laugh and tell you the joke about being parents lol. It bring such a great understanding of your body!
@relynhomes50053 жыл бұрын
Thank you for not discounting FAM for everyone. I have PCOS and, shockingly, getting off hormonal birth control and managing my cycles with FAM was the best decision I ever made for my health because I was finally able to figure out what lifestyle changes to make in order to control my PCOS symptoms. But I know it's not for everyone.
@priscillawadlington24333 жыл бұрын
Hey Mama Doctor Jones, I’m a younger girl living with my parents and on their insurance. Both parents are pastors, but more liberal in their views about sex and sexuality. I currently take birth control and am sexually active, but I’m not perfect in taking my pills because I’m human. I really want an IUD, but I’m afraid to have that conversation from both internalized stigma and conversations with especially my mother. Could you please talk about that shame and stigma about birth control for younger girls? I’m sure I’m not the only one, but I feel so isolated about conflict between religion and my want to live happily and safely.
@ritadraille54882 жыл бұрын
Go to planned parenthood they will keep it private
@jenakiksass3 жыл бұрын
Hilarious that I got TWO ads for phexxi during this video... And of course neither of them mentioned the 16% failure rate. So thankful to have Mama Doctor Jones giving real information on all the options out there!
@keirawitham40333 жыл бұрын
Fertility awareness also know as natural family planning, sounds way scarier than it is. If you are someone who does not react well to medication, it’s a great option! I was an BC for a year and had an awful experience. I was constantly fainting, nauseous all the time, and grumpy. I tried a few different pills before I just decided to stop. I did my research and decided to try natural family planning, and it worked wonders! I was still in high school at the time and never had a problem. I will say it’s easiest if you are in a committed relationship, but it works just as well without being in one. I used it for 5 years and never once had a pregnancy scare. Once my husband and I decided to have a baby, it was super easy because I was already aware of my cycles. I’m pregnant now and will be continuing the method once baby is born and while breastfeeding. If you are at all curious, please look into it.
@amyrrhbearer11 ай бұрын
I’m looking into this but I’m nervous
@PondOfGlue3 жыл бұрын
This was all so informative and so helpful. Love you, Dr. Jones! I had an IUD placed by my fantastic OBGYN in January, so coming up on a year now with it, and I absolutely love it. I waited almost half a decade to get one because I was so utterly terrified of the huge spectrum of possible insertion procedure pain, but my OBGYN I found goes above and beyond for pain management/mitigation for the procedure. I was given a small single dose of a Valium/Xanax type pill to take 45-30min before the appointment to ease my nerves a little, as well as Motrin to take pre appointment as well (that of which I know is standard), but my amazing doctor also insists on giving her patients who are anxious about the possible pain a paracervical block injection preprocedure. I’ve never been more thankful for a doctor going above and beyond to mitigate discomfort, anxiety, or pain, in my life. I believe she did some topical numbing before the injection (similar to if you’ve ever had to the numbing spray they use if you’ve ever had a cervical biopsy or extra stuff done during a pap), she let that kick in, and then did the injection. Sure, the paracervical block was pretty uncomfortable, but it was only two small pinches each of which only lasted a second or two. but afterwards, I didn’t feel hardly anything pain wise during the actual applicator/insertion/release. I felt discomfort (not not exactly “pain”) when she released the IUD from the applicator inside. But it was more of an amusing “boing” kind of pressure sensation when it was released. It was funny “I was like, oh! That must be the arms releasing against the walls of my uterus I guess 🥴” ahahaha. This level of pain management/mitigation should be 100% available for ANY human being who wants to have access to long term, safe, highly effective, and pain free birth control. It’s insane to me that women in the US and Canada aren’t offered this kind of pain relief for simply wanting to be responsible and protect themselves. I know that pain mitigation during IUD insertion is pretty standard anywhere else in the world. I’ve never been happier about a medical decision I’ve made than I have been with getting off of my bc pill last year and then going through with getting my IUD this year. I wish I had done it sooner, but I understand why I didn’t until I found someone wanting to go above and beyond to make sure I wasn’t in unnecessary pain to be able to do it. And everyone should have access to a doctor willing to do that for them. ❤️ Oh! By the way! (And I know this is not the case for everyone and some people can be rather uncomfortable for a few days while your body accepts the IUD), I had very very little pain post procedure and even felt good enough to have lunch with my dad immediately following the procedure on my way home. I got back to my apartment, just felt kind of mildly achey (like very mild period cramps, but nothing intense at all), took a nap for the rest of the afternoon, and then woke up a few hours later feeling like a million bucks! Even met my friend for some ramen later that night because I was essentially feeling 100%. Again, this isn’t necessarily typical, but the reason I bring it up is because I was SURE I was going to be one the gals whose pretty incapacitated for a day or two following the insertion. I had cleared my schedule, bought a hot water bottle, Motrin, etc. but I didn’t end up using any of it. Took a Motrin after my appointment. And much later in the night when I was ready for bed took a Motrin pm and felt like a million bucks afterwards. I promise you, I was one of those girls who was absolutely TERRIFIED to “go through with this”, and it was about 100x EASIER and LESS painful than I could have ever imagined it being. Can’t recommend it enough if you can find a doctor willing to administer pain relief/anesthetic during the process. 👍👍👍
@cce86323 жыл бұрын
As a medical assistant during my clinicals, I watched a gyn take out an IUD....actually forcefully ripping it out is more accurate....because of that one experience I will never, ever have an IUD 😞
@kaitlynwoods11ify3 жыл бұрын
I’ve been on Depo shot since I was 16 and have a severe anxiety disorder and no one wanted to mention that Depo can cause anxiety???
@Victoriacariad3 жыл бұрын
Your doctor should not have given it to you at that age due to the risk of bone health. The nurse that gave me the shot last December said that I might get a bit fat and spotty. What I got was... - Acne - Hair loss - Weight gain - Night sweats - Insomnia - Suicial thoughts - Low mood - Anxiety and paranoia - Loss of libido - Excessive sweating - Couldn't get "wet" even if I wanted sex (apologies if TMI but it's the truth) - Muscle aches - Severe fatigue - Pain in lower leg (possibly was a blood clot but I didn't want to go to the hospital at the time because of covid) Then when it was wearing off I experienced estrogen dumping which meant... - More hair loss - More acne - MASSIVE boobs - Fat held around the abdomen - More low mood, anxiety and paranoia - Extreme fatigue - Nausea Now that the estrogen is wearing off... - More hair loss - Extreme fatigue - Acne - Sweating - Hot flashes - Night sweats - Insomnia - Vaginal atrophy which makes my bits dry, uncomfortable and itchy I'm only grateful that I didn't get mood changes this time and it should mean my hormones are going back down to normal. My advice is get off the depo as soon as possible but be prepared for the year long journey of withdrawal.
@alyssa59273 жыл бұрын
@@Victoriacariad i’ve been on depo since i was 14 and it’s been amazing everyone’s different
@sav10523 жыл бұрын
I'm on Nexplanon and I absolutely love it. It causes weird periox stuff, but basically stopped my period. It used to be so bad and the change was amazing. I'm going to be using it for years.
@TheRedPandaQueen3 жыл бұрын
Nexplanon fan here. Been using it since I was 18, im 30 this year and I haven't had a period since
@arianam64303 жыл бұрын
I had to take mine out. I had it for almost 3 years and it was like I was always on my period. I used a period tracker and the bleeding was, on average, 2 weeks. Once, it was over 30 days. It made me anemic from losing so much blood on a constant basis. I'm using the nuvaring now, and so far, it's been better. Not perfect, but better.
@TheRedPandaQueen3 жыл бұрын
@@arianam6430 yeah i've heard some women have really bad reactions to it. My mom had irregular heavy periods on hers
@bgurley19983 жыл бұрын
@@arianam6430 wow I had the exact same experience and was on it for 3 years as well. I stopped about 2 years ago and haven’t tried another birth control but I’m considering getting a different one. What are the downsides to nuvaring?
@jjustjess3 жыл бұрын
Team bleeding here. It's been a 3 month straight period so far. Not ideal.
@ashleydonahue80383 жыл бұрын
Thank you!! So many misconceptions about birth control. I am on continuous birth control pills due to having migraines when off the hormones for the week of reminder pills. Everyone tells me it isn't safe but my doctor always reassures me. ♥️♥️
@doobiewoman69563 жыл бұрын
I need to share your videos with my Children and Grandsons. This is information everyone should have.
@danielleo68553 жыл бұрын
I will add that FAMs are most effective when taught by an instructor, it's also going to be a lot less stressful than trying to learn yourself. I tried teaching myself with random info online and eventually got pregnant because I didn't think my changing pattern of cervical fluid could come so early in my cycle SMH, but the good thing about it is now I know exactly what happened and I can now identify my fertility with more confidence. I can also use it when I'm not on hormonal birth control.
@g.pearson47265 ай бұрын
Excellent video. I love that Drs are on KZbin I was on depo from the age of 15 to 23. We wanted to have a baby. It took 2.5 years for us to conceive. So. I think the longer you’re on depo the longer it takes to get out your system. I had no issues or side effects with depo But I did have friends who had hair loss, weight gain, mood swings, weight loss, etc…
@evrydaykris3 жыл бұрын
I feel like I learn more from you than my GYN.
@DarkQueen6193 жыл бұрын
If your provider tells you that you shouldn't get the birth control that you want without even listening to why you want it or giving you a valid health reason for you. GO Somewhere Else! If they won't listen to you you won't be able to get the individual treatment you need. The first Dr I went to told me I shouldn't get the birth control I wanted because it didn't work for some of her other patients. I thankfully got a second opinion and went ahead anyway and it worked perfectly for me!
@KentuckyLiz Жыл бұрын
I pretty much had to use fertility awareness but I did it and beat 348 cycles with zero unintended pregnancies and I deserve a fucking trophy.
@OsloTime11 ай бұрын
Did you use any book or anything for info reference, Liz? I'm not sure where to look because there's so much info on this method, it's overwhelming. 😑
@clarewhite300411 ай бұрын
@@OsloTimeTaking Charge of Your Fertility is a fascinating book, if you're looking for one. I haven't needed birth control yet, but I tried tracking just to get to know myself better. I learned a lot! My parents used it for preventing pregnancy, two planned pregnancies, and one "if it happens it happens" pregnancy. From the day she married my dad until menopause, my mom had sex on three fertile days. She had three pregnancies. I no longer think this will be an option for me because of my irregular sleep cycle, but I understand why it can be highly effective if used correctly by partners who really commit to the method.
@harringt10010 ай бұрын
@@OsloTime The book most often recommended (and I agree; it's good) is _Taking Charge of Your Fertility_ by Toni Weschler. You can also get in touch with an organization that trains method instructors like Justisse or Creighton or the Couple to Couple League. (The last two are Roman Catholic--a lot of the methods were developed by Roman Catholics, but you can still use them even if you aren't.)
@OsloTime10 ай бұрын
@@harringt100 Thank you SO much! I will get that book today! 🙂 And will check out the other two as well. 🌻🙏👋🤗
@Cinderellaraye3 жыл бұрын
I had a Mirena IUD placed before having any children, and it was quite painful for a day or so. It was 100% worth it due to me no longer having cycles, cramping, mood swings for the next 7 years that I had it. It did take me over a year after removal to get back to a normal cycle and be able to conceive, but over all I loved the IUD experience and I am currently researching getting another one as soon as I deliver my first child. Thank you for all the info Mama Doctor Jones your the best!
@notyouraverageglowup10573 жыл бұрын
Oh I’m so freaking terrified of birth control. I’ve tried a few different kinds and all of them made me horribly sick. One even made me drop weight and my hair fall out. So I haven’t been on any for years but every time my period is even a day late I panic. We already have 4 kids. I’m glad you’re doing this video.
@meb15833 жыл бұрын
I used the fertility tracking method she mentioned in the video & found it very effective! I use the app NaturalCycles, you take your temperature every morning & upload it into the app
@notyouraverageglowup10573 жыл бұрын
@@meb1583 thank you. I’ll look into it
@TheMeganAlyse3 жыл бұрын
Definitely look into fertility awareness methods. There are many kinds. Hormonal birth control really messes with me and FAM is amazing.
@courtneycartwright49753 жыл бұрын
Copper IUD is the way to go here, IMO. I will never do hormonal birth control ever again. Paragard works, it's easy and has no hormonal side effects.
@duckeh19523 жыл бұрын
Well there is also sterilization if you don't plan to have more kids or vasectomy for the mister. Those two are really worth considering when you are done making babies.
@princesslulu57953 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that Dr. Jones is fair about the benefits and drawbacks of fertility awareness. Lots of people have outdated info, like they think everyone is just guessing when most of the time people are actively monitoring symptoms
@MrsWheezer3 жыл бұрын
I used fertility awareness with excellent success. However, I also used it to conceive my 2 younger children. So important to fully commit to this method. I also got pregnant while breastfeeding and on a progesterone pill. Looking back, I had ignored the signs I was ovulating because my kiddo was so young.
@DandelionDream093 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to hear that my doc is not the only one that keeps in mind the mental health issues a contraceptive might have. When I started taking the pill I didn't do it to prevent pregnancy. I wasn't in a relationship and in all my past relationships we used condoms and were fine with it. I started taking the pill, because I had really bad mood swings... And depression. When I went to my doc for the first time and I told her, she was thinking about side effects and told me to start with the ones I have now. So thanks for being so open about it. A lot of people around me just knew it can worsen depression and mood swings. I had a hard time telling some that it also works the other way around.
@jclyntoledo Жыл бұрын
I honestly thought it only worked the opposite in those who had mood swings from PMDD. I'm glad that it helped improve your mh though.
@maryernst91893 жыл бұрын
Love this!! I’d love if you’d comment that antibiotics can reduce the effectiveness of birth control as well (if that’s true)
@midorishiwa3 жыл бұрын
I think some antibiotics can be a problem with the pill, I don't remember which name but yeah there's one out there that can counter it
@DearSparklesTV3 жыл бұрын
the more typical varieties of antibiotics actually don't. some of the stronger ones do but those aren't often given out. and, honestly, with the havoc they wreak on most people's digestive system they probably won't be in a position to get pregnant until after they're done their course anyway hahaha
@shadowkissed23703 жыл бұрын
@@DearSparklesTV I know several people who have gotten pregnant on birth control because of antibiotics. In fact she has done "I didn't know I was pregnant" videos with women that have gotten pregnant while on birth control after taking antibiotics.
@DearSparklesTV3 жыл бұрын
@@shadowkissed2370 I was being facetious but okay. Have a good one dude.
@janeyguillen4283 жыл бұрын
I've had to deal with this recently, I had an issue that required a few rounds of different antibiotics. Some affected my birth control and some didn't, according to the doctor. However, the pharmacist recommended using condoms just in case for all of them. I will say, the ones that did affect it, I had some variation in my cycle and some irregular bleeding, and after the antibiotics were over I had to sort of restart my cycle. Hope this helps.
@WittyKitten3 жыл бұрын
This video couldn't have come at a better time! I just got accepted into med school and am planning on getting an IUD, so I was looking for more info before making an appointment with my gynecologist. Who better to come to than Mama Doctor Jones!!
@kalynshafer7513 жыл бұрын
I take continuous BC for endometriosis symptom relief. This method doesn't always work for everyone with endo, but its helped me immensely. I finally found one where I only have to have a period 2x a year and when I have to have it its much more tolerable.
@alexaa94533 жыл бұрын
I honestly love your educational content so much. I wish I had your channel as a resource through high school and my early 20s. You're so thorough and inclusive and non-judgemental, I could have used your perspective to keep from religious guilt when I started trying to figure this stuff out.
@harmonika903 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate these videos! The older I have gotten the more I am comfortable without hormones in my bc. I love to hear the fertility awareness option brought up. I love that we need to have an intimate knowledge of ourselves, ovulation, ect. It is a wonderful way to learn in sex education and hopefully can be taught before people are sexually active! Also as my mom always says, "Always use 2 forms of BC (to avoid pregnancy)"
@KentuckyLiz3 жыл бұрын
And prayer doesn’t count as one of the methods 😂
@stephaniedoud55843 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you had good things to say about FAM! The only thing I want to add is to pick a method and find an instructor if you're planning to use it for avoiding!
@annakire81843 жыл бұрын
Too late for me 🤰, but I like her videos, so I will watch it anyways. 💕 No, this baby was veery planned, my little Rainbow baby
@aliyai.87263 жыл бұрын
Hope you have a great pregnancy
@annakire81843 жыл бұрын
@@aliyai.8726 Thank you! I am truly enjoying my time as a mother-to-be! It's wonderful 💗
@lauras67623 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss! Congratulations on this new little one!
@annakire81843 жыл бұрын
@@lauras6762 thank you. This is my 10th pregnancy, hoping for the first healthy child 💗
@lauras67623 жыл бұрын
@@annakire8184 ❤️
@aubriellemorgan1153 жыл бұрын
I have very severe anxiety and panic disorder and have been on the depo shot for nine months now. It’s been amazing at treating everything I needed and hasn’t appeared to worsen my anxiety. If I were a doctor I wouldn’t have prescribed it to me knowing it could worsen the anxiety severely for three months, but I’m really glad that I’m on it so I’m glad my doctor didn’t have that reservation for me
@midorishiwa3 жыл бұрын
The NHS in the UK really likes the Mirena coil because a vast vast majority of people are really happy with it and don't have any significant side effect. They find that over the large population they treat it's the one people are least likely to complain about. However, coils are really not recommended if you have risks of contracting STDs (aka several partners without use of condoms or dental dams) as it can make the STD worse by facilitating the infection to reach the uterus. It may not be for you if you get freaked when you don't have your period as it often comes with significantly reduced bleeding and bleeding that is less frequent and doesn't follow a monthly cycle. Personally, I really appreciate having very light periods, and if I haven't had a period in a while I just pee on a pregnancy test, I bought a bunch of cheap ones and it's still way cheaper than the pill.
@oopssuedaisy3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving sympto-thermal a fair review!! Those of us that use these methods are really tired of being laughed at.
@chrisyravenconlin3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for covering taking continuous pills. I am a married monogamous lesbian and take Seasonale/Seasonique/Indayo, not for the birth control - but for controlling my horrible, monstrous periods. I have had so many people tell me different sides and am glad to know from a pro that it is safe to take continuously! ❤️
@thewoolshark3 жыл бұрын
Thanks as always for the info, and for your great jargon-free explanations! I'm a resident; loved your rule of 3s (makes perfect sense) and I borrow your wording all the time when I'm working with patients for their contraception/OB needs.
@kaitfatale3 жыл бұрын
My insertion with my IUD was so traumatic that I literally almost fainted when I got it removed.
@rebeccadore55783 жыл бұрын
Did it hurt just as bad getting it removed? I have one currently, I’m scared to remove it because it hurt so bad getting it
@kaitfatale3 жыл бұрын
@@rebeccadore5578 the anticipation of getting it out was worse. I personally felt instant relief and it was just like pulling out a tampon. Though because I was so stressed and scared I literally almost passed out but getting it out didn’t hurt.
@sydneyelizabeth76093 жыл бұрын
I really do appreciate that you said that FAM can be great for SOME people! I have had bad side effects from every birth control I have ever taken, so I stopped, and I I did a ton of research. I’ve been using it for 5 years now and it has definitely worked well for me. Most doctors I have told think it’s a horrible idea
@duckeh19523 жыл бұрын
I think most of ot being "horrible idea" because some people do it half-assed way. Like said in vid, if you are committed and do your research, it works. Other methods are usually just "easier" because people tend to get lazy and you cannot be lazy with that. It's same situation when you go vegan and do zero research what you need to take/eat to get proper nutrition :P just going vegan and eating only plain veggies isn't option. Or that even so many prefer pills, it's not for people who tend to forget.
@sunnigeorge45793 жыл бұрын
This is so great to have all this advice!
@Thkya2 жыл бұрын
Well, that last one was a big relief to hear, I was talking about IUD with a coworker and she told me she didn't have a problem having it placed but had a lot of pain having it removed. We had this conversation the day after I'd had mine placed (with no pain), so that wasn't nice to hear! I'm glad to know her experience isn't the same for everyone!
@Fluteperson013 жыл бұрын
Monday morning dr Jones is my aesthetic. Also personally I’ve had depo and I was okay till I started my first period post partum 4 months pp and I started passing massive golf ball size clots and it was very painful
@jess10339193 жыл бұрын
I am glad you talked about Fertility Awareness Method! I feel like a lot of people think it is the same as the rhythm method and it is so different! I am just starting my journey with it as I am hoping to have a baby in the next 1-2 years and I want to learn my bodies signs so I ditched the birth control! I am just starting using it, so we will see if I am effective at it! I also think it's really really important for you to speak with your partner about what is happening because there is definitely an increased risk of failure with this method!
@Amanda-es1hd3 жыл бұрын
I’m SO glad I watched this! I wanted to get the depo shot but I was concerned about the three month waiting term if I have any side effects. I have severe anxiety and I will look at some more options!
@harmonicaveronica3 жыл бұрын
The implant (a little stick inserted under the skin of your arm) might be a good option if you're looking for something you don't have to worry about, but is removable in case the side effects are bad. Or an IUD, either hormonal or not. I have a copper IUD, which seems to be a less common choice than a hormonal IUD, but it works great for me! Bleeding regularly every month is really reassuring to me and I love that it lasts for over a decade. The side effects of heavier bleeding and more cramps are acceptable for me, though, and I know that's not something a lot of people are willing to deal with!
@exo-l69263 жыл бұрын
You should, I got the depo shot without knowing about this and I felt horrible the entire 3 months!
@rpggal3 жыл бұрын
I got the depo shot every 3 months for a year. It gave me really bad depression for the first 3 months but after that it was the best birth control I ever used for period cessation. Unfortunately they only let you take it for a year (at least back in 2012 when I was taking it) so I had to switch to other forms of birth control which have not been nearly as successful at period cessation, including my IUD which doesn't stop my periods at all. I was going to ask my dr if I could go back to depo but after watching this and being reminded of the depression, I think I'll try to look into the newer options like nexplanon.
@wmdkitty3 жыл бұрын
@@rpggal Um... they do NOT limit Depo to one year. I've been on it for a bit over 20 years, and it's worked nearly perfectly.
@emilyyplg163 жыл бұрын
@@rpggal Not true, I’ve been on depo for 10 years and love it! They do recommend that you aren’t on it very long term because of the bone density issues it can cause but as long as you are supplementing calcium that helps.
@zrkch3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely love the birth control videos! There is so much misinformation spread across social media about birth control, and I love how you break everything down to be easily understood and accessible. I have been on the pill for almost 9 years, and it has worked wonderfully. I constantly see posts regarding birth control as methods to increase infertility in women, so hearing you verify that birth control DOES NOT do that makes me feel much better! (I don't want kids now, but I want them in the future!) I tried Depo once, and had a horrible reaction to it. However, I've never been on the "down with Depo" train, and even though it didn't work for me, I've known some people where that was the best method and option for them. I feel like a full video about debunking the myths of the Depo shot would be a good one.
@cbpd893 жыл бұрын
I liked depo fine, but my doctor told me after a year it can start to effect bone mass and I'd need to supplement calcium. Now I am team IUD all the way!
@Meggyp0p3 жыл бұрын
After three years on depo, my doctor still hadn’t told me this, and I also had started having migraines about 20 out of 30 days a month. A coworker who just happened to be a BSRN told me that the shot was affecting my bone mass and causing the migraines.
@cbpd893 жыл бұрын
It's ridiculous isn't it? It seems like a side effect that is a pretty big deal and our doctors should have made us aware of!
@MamaDoctorJones3 жыл бұрын
It’s a temporary change in bone mass which resolves on discontinuation. It’s very similar to what we see in extended breastfeeding people. It’s not a permanent change and has minimal clinical relevancy if you look at the data. (Meaning it’s not associated with any bad outcomes or long term risk of bone loss)
@cbpd893 жыл бұрын
Thanks MDJ!! That's more than my doctor shared at the time. He made it sound permanent.
@sarahheller77973 жыл бұрын
LOVE your blonde hair!! 😍 Also thanks for this video. Always good to hear an overview of real life info from a dr that isn’t making money off of prescribing me a specific medication!
@anyageorge90703 жыл бұрын
Why does the IUD failure rate feel like way more the 1%? Every time I see a IUD video there's hundreds of comments of people getting pregnant with a IUD or it puncturing their uterus.
@ML-do5ii3 жыл бұрын
I had an IUD (for a total of about 6.5 months) and bled for 3 months straight before the doctor would remove it, and then they tried to talk me into getting a new one, tried to talk me out of wanting a pill and to get an IUD or nexplanon and I said hell no, no more implants for me. I've only had bad reactions to the IUD. Personal experience not everyone has that happen but my body doesn't agree with the IUD Edit: they said they didnt want me to be on the pill because I would "be dumb and forget to take it." Not once have I forgotten. I think that I just had a shitty doctor who put it in wrong and then refused to take it out for months after a bad reaction.
@DearSparklesTV3 жыл бұрын
it's a phenomenon called response bias. the people most likely to speak out publicly about things like this are people that have had extreme results. this leads to the perception that this is the majority rather than what it is, a very vocal minority.
@flightsnotfeelings58673 жыл бұрын
There are millions of women that have IUDs so when you see hundreds of comments of complaints, it equals out to be less than 1%. (Not sure on the actual statistics)
@katherinep7083 жыл бұрын
:( I was considering iud but scared of it puncturing my uterus
@A4L100003 жыл бұрын
@@katherinep708 I have had an IUD for nearly two years. No children or pregnancies before or after. It is still in place and I don’t feel a thing.
@kelseyhalle29303 жыл бұрын
I’m due with baby #2 next month and currently debating which type of birth control would be best since we won’t want another baby in the next year or more, but I still need something that won’t affect breastfeeding. It’s so great to hear information from a professional on KZbin when most videos out there are very opinionated and not always based on factual evidence!!
@freyajames11313 жыл бұрын
I've had my IUD for almost a year and I love it! Placement was painful, but over fast, and minor cramps after only lasted a week. I got the copper (paragard) IUD, so my periods are def heavier now. But other than that, I
@caitlinmccabe81193 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being such a great educator, and also so inclusive of APPs! We appreciate it 😊
@alternativeprincess47833 жыл бұрын
I have severe depression and anxiety, yet my old Dr allowed my mom to choose the depo shot for me. I don't know why the Dr listened to her in the first place, but especially with knowing that. I went absolutely insane, like dangerously unstable. People around me were terrified that I would snap and end up on some crime tv show... apparently it magnified the irritability aspect of depression and anxiety for me...
@Victoriacariad3 жыл бұрын
Completely sympathise... I tried the depo last December. All the anxiety that I had dealt with years ago came flooding back, along with suicidal plans, low mood and paranoia. I bickered with friends over stupid things, and the first thought in my brain would be "There's no other option other to kill myself." It was terrifying...
@junimondify3 жыл бұрын
Continuous contraception is a blessing for me. I struggle with mental health problems and it was worse with no contraception and "normal" contraception, now I feel I am more stable throughout the month.
@fleurdelacour57873 жыл бұрын
I'd love it if you could do a video on Lupron. There's a lot of misinformation about it out there, and I'd love a more evidence based video.
@ZafiraLoveVideos3 жыл бұрын
This video was so informative and I loved it! Can you please talk more about the implant? I have it but a lot of my friends are scare of it because there is not a lot of information about it and i think it’s important to make awareness of all the options we can have!
@KaysieDaniels3 жыл бұрын
Loving the hair, as if we wouldn’t notice!
@WednesdayMamaMisfit3 жыл бұрын
That last tidbit about IUD removal really helped ease some of my anxieties! After the pain of having mine placed all I can think about is the sensation of having it removed... I want to remove mine in March, to start tracking for an August-October conception. But, the fear is almost making me want to wait 😬