ASMR Shh...Its Okay, Im Right Here | Comforting You to Sleep - Relaxing Facial Treatment

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

Why do you listen/watch ASMR videos my friend?

[@doniashaheen469]

i don't wanna feel alone when I sleep

[@karenhobbs8629]

To switch off from everyday stress and anxiety, calm my scrambled head and feel at peace.

[@Dark_Astronomer7]

After hours upon hours of school it's nice to unwind to one if your videos 😘😍🤗

[@_yahiro7683]

心地よく眠れるから

[@natasharosio]

It helps me sleep, but it’s also comforting when I feel lonely, sad or anxious

[@shirine8672]

I cried when you started saying all these positive affirmations, reminding us how special we are. Honestly, you are a natural. I almost forget that these are videos, it really feels like you’re here, like actually _here_ with us. I felt so safe and peaceful for the first time in a very long time my friend. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

I’m glad you feel this way about the asmr I create my friend. And thank you so much!

[@venusornnn]

I usually don’t watch male ASMR, but you pal, are unique. You have such a warm, friendly aura to you, it’s so calming. Thank you for this masterpiece, truly a work of art. 💜

[@SubtoPLuto]

I ate a carnival worker

[@venusornnn]

@@SubtoPLuto nice :)

[@Channel_B2024]

So true 💯

[@uraveragewiteguy]

👎👎

[@Nigelsmom2136]

He has the kindest eyes I have ever seen.

[@fawncraig-schwartz4922]

Never in a million years would I think watching a video of a random stranger whispering to me could be anything other than weird. Boy was I wrong. I don’t know what kind of sorcery this is, but you are so comforting. Your energy is incredibly soothing and I feel like you are actually here with me. It’s nice not to feel so alone and to actually feel supported like I’ve known you my whole life. Thank you for what you do. You are amazing ❤

[@kennedimarie6738]

Honestly there’s something so comforting about your ASMR and it helps a lot especially when I’m trying to sleep or just calm down after a crazy day

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

Thank you so much my friend

[@beanis1991]

The safe feeling you provide is huge to me, SA is a big part of my childhood and when I have night terrors or anxiety about it, I go to these videos, and you just make me feel so much better. Thank you for all you do even though to some it's just a KZbin video, to a lot of us it's a place to feel some peace in this hectic world. You deserve all the good karma, your misses too! I also love her videos as well

[@evamaiataranenko4897]

💜

[@RisingFromTheAshes97]

I agree completely💜

[@ASMRbyBryanna]

I’m so sorry you had to go through that, I’m glad you find comfort in his videos, I do too ❤

[@Nigelsmom2136]

He has such a kind, gentle way about him. When he says you're in a safe place you believe him. He is amazing.

[@simplybagels7056]

Anyone else get such warm feelings from these videos that you don't wanna turn it off to go to sleep?

[@robsutherland5744]

I never want to sleep during his sessions. I want to appreciate watching his work.

[@bridgetkorns8174]

Absolutely.

[@laurakae1007]

For sure ❤️

[@SaidCastillo-sp9dd]

I always fall asleep in any moment, and sometimes I wake up hours later and videos still playing lol

[@DivineTerrors]

Going to attempt to make timestamps since ive seen noone do them yet :o 0:00 - 11:59 - face touching + positive affirmations 12:00 - 15:42 - applying face cleanser 15:43 - 21:29 - removing facial cleanser with hot towel + positive affirmations 21:30 - 25:06 - using cotton swab to apply moisturizer 25:07 - 28:35 - massaging moisturizer into skin 28:36 - 32:47 - brushing hair 32:48 - 36:48 - massaging oil into skin 36:56 - enjoy once more by the warm fire :) (all triggers will have soft fireplace sounds in the background) 36:57 - 48:24 - face touching + positive affirmations 48:25 - 52:40 - applying face cleanser 52:41 - 58:27 - removing facial cleanser with hot towel + positive affirmations 58:28 - 1:02:05 - using cotton swab to apply moisturizer 1:02:06 - 1:05:33 - massaging moisturizer into skin 1:05:34 - 1:13:44 - brushing hair 1:13:45 - enjoy again with gentle sleep music :) (Too sleepy to do more rn but lmk if anyone wants the rest timestamped)

[@LuxeLuminaSoaps]

Thank you!

[@DrawRennoc]

Bro you the guy everyone loves. Thank you

[@brittanybauhs1690]

I lost my momma to cancer four years ago and I find myself craving and missing the comfort and nurturing and positivity she brought to me. This video made me feel like she used to make me feel. I really loved this ❤

[@melina633]

Same here u took the words right out of of my mouth, she was my best friend, my sister my world. It’s been 7 year’s i still so empty 😢 I feel your pain ❤️‍🩹😢

[@OliviaASMR122]

I scrolled past this and glanced at the thumbnail and ended up scrolling back for at least a minute because I couldn’t stop thinking about how kind he looked. Can confirm, it translates to the video too!! Amazing ASMR 💕

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

That’s very kind of you my friend, thank you so much

[@ceribeth2189]

So proud of you Steven. Your channel has come so far and still so much more to go. You and Natalie are incredible, beautiful souls and bring me so much peace and comfort. You are truly talented and I think you both genuinely care about all of us and that radiates through the screen every time. That’s why you deserve everything💛💛

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

This means so much to hear Ceri, thank you my dear friend!! It means such a great deal to have you be a part of this incredible community.

[@chaz855]

Thank you so much. This video has helped me fall asleep for so many nights now.

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

I’m so glad it has Charlie! And thank you so much!! You’re extremely kind my friend

[@flomdabomb]

I’m shocked you don’t have over a million subs. Literally this is the best asmr channel I’ve seen

[@gennab.3504]

I am so thankful for your videos because I really don't have anyone else to be so kind and caring. There are many many people people who need kind words and reassurance. So you are contributing to this missing problem in the world. I look forward to you every night because you help me go to sleep.

[@fatemehlh]

Hi Whispering Gentleman, I discovered your channel days ago and have not stopped playing your videos ever since, not just for sleeping but actually also during work. Instead of panicking from PhD work I have been tuning in especially to this video and it makes such a difference. You have such a kind aura, same as Natalie, it is comforting and like the other comments it feels like you are here with us in person, giving the help and comfort to (usually) people who are at their lowest. We will never know how many lives you are changing but I don’t doubt it is a multitude of lives including mine. Thank you and happy to join the community! To 1 million subs!

[@jellofish1455]

Having something while you sleep is just nice. Especially when no one else is there for you. Being so strong for yourself all the time is so tirering. You yourself and no one is hard. Having someone even in this form just feels like it lightens that load for awhile you know?

[@sham9411]

I started crying saying “no I am not” to the affirmations, and then in 18:49 he said: “are you OK?” “I know it’s hard, and It’s alright to be vulnerable”.. and I just felt the mountains were lift off my shoulders. Life is hard for the hard workers who are never recognized and validated for the work they do, let alone the ones who are not validated for their essence or the person they are. I never enjoy ASMR, but this one is calming and therapeutic, even the way you breath helps me regulate my breath. You felt near, even the word “my friend” made me feel safe. That you for the content, you are giving us what what we couldn’t otherwise have received in the real world, Security and validation. I know these are just words we’re hearing, but only God knows how much we need to hear them. I don’t know your name but much love to you 💕

[@chelle22968]

I can't thank you enough for all the videos (and audio books I found on Spotify) because they/YOU are helping me through yet another transition in my life. Your gentle voice and affirmations are a blessing. I hope you are uplifted by the wonderful comments and keep doing these things for us. Much love, friend.

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

Thank you so much my friend! I’m so glad I’m able to help in some way

[@Minaranea]

I like your slow whispering and the "scratching"-sound with your hand movements. Your positive words are healing.✨🌿

[@Voidsfer]

Ahh i never knew how much the words "You're safe now" really affect me. Such a honest relaxation, i just kinda loosened up a bit.

[@WyldLuna]

You’re one of the 2 men ASMRtist that I actually enjoy watching. Ur so peaceful to listen to. I always think of like a comforting male family figure (like a wholesome dad) when I listen to ur videos ❤

[@monicaclayton6675]

I only listen to yours. To be honest I didn't think I would like it but I'm on a soul healing journey so am making myself open to new things. Your words are a huge comfort for me as I have not always felt save because I wasn't AND have Never had someone say I'm here, I will take care of you. That's what did it for me. I listen every night. Sleep like a baby and not only has my heart started to heal but my overall health has. I feel better than I have in 20 years. You've been a huge blessing in my life.

[@post_cancer_beautycandyjon1049]

I’m going through a terrible breakup from a toxic abusive relationship; I’m currently in a hotel driving across country alone. Thank you for your video, it really comforted me 😇

[@horsegranola]

I have a panic disorder and your videos have done wonders to help me de-escalate my anxiety episodes before they become full on attacks. Thank you so, so much ❤

[@lyttlem1218]

You truly give a sense of being protected and safe. Can't thank you enough. 💙

[@kristenj2009]

You have a very calming presence and tone. It’s very reassuring. Makes me feel safe and warm. You’re very good at this

[@Whitney_117]

Thank you SO much for always making me feel so incredibly safe and not alone! Without this channel, to be quite honest, I am not sure if I would have been able to survive another day. I am not ashamed to say I have recently struggled with suicidal thoughts a lot unfortunately. You have truly helped save my life. I hope by sharing this, I can help someone and they will come to this very safe space and they too can feel safe and not alone and strive to live another day.

[@Daisyjc2386]

Have a wonderful evening & take care🤍 beautiful lady.

[@Whitney_117]

@@Daisyjc2386 Thank you! You as well my love!

[@kalliroi5236]

4 days later, I hope you are feeling better❤ I’m sending you positive energy and a virtual hug 🫂 Stay safe please! You are worthy 🌸

[@Whitney_117]

@@kalliroi5236 Awe…Thank you so much for caring! I mean I just have absolute tears in my eyes for the love this community has shows and doesn’t even know me in real life. I really needed this bc I’m having another rough day. Lost a friend in a tragic car accident yesterday and it just makes you think and have so many crazy feelings. I’m hanging in there. I needed that virtual hug and I am sending one back your way!❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@alainahendricks6147]

I'm proud of you for finding the strength to keep going. I struggle with depression & I, too, have been down that dark road. I know all too well how you're feeling. Keep fighting, girl ❤ sending hugs, love, & all the positive vibes 🥰💕

[@nourann5099]

Today was kinda stressful, so this is exactly what I need, thanks for helping me relax and sleep

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

I hope today is far more calming for you my friend

[@sararodriguez7821]

I listen to you when I fall asleep but today I was on the verge of a panic attack so I tried this to see if it would help. Within 5 minutes I felt so much better, attack avoided ❤️ you help in so many ways that you can't even imagine. Thank you!

[@tansy_da_frog3301]

I’m currently sick and feeling really bad about it, (feeling like a burden) and this really helped me regain my self confidence especially with the affirmations. Thank you some much dear whispering friend

[@the.bubbleeve]

A friend of me showed me your channel since he has horrible times of calming down and going to sleep just like me, but since I'm watching your videos I finally got able to sleep more then four hour's a day what really helped me get a better track on my life again. Keep the positivity up and stay healthy, thanks for all the beautiful videos and a save place for everyone🌻💕

[@susiewhite9787]

Today I remembered a detail from a traumatic event with a man and within the first minute of this video I was crying in such a cathartic and healing way 💜 thank you for all you do and helping me feel safe and seen

[@raffylallu4409]

I needed this ,thank you! I lost someone dear recently and just letting myself be soothed by your warm and comforting words has helped me so much, thank you🙏🦋

[@Imaguitlyoutsider]

Since my parents can't be so positive or calming i just watch you ❤❤❤

[@jessicadee1753]

When I get really lonely I get scared and can’t sleep. This has been helping me so much. Thank you. ❤

[@veronicab15]

You have such kind eyes, such a warm expression it feels safe listening to you. Thank you!

[@bedtimestories9971]

Thank you for always asking and also thanking us for our permission…that means a lot❤

[@CherryMagbanua-z5y]

your asmr its so soothing and relaxing im actually falling to sleep without noticing it.

[@Hitta13805]

Most calmest asmrtist I come across to..

[@showlifecentral]

You and latte are my favorite asmrists and its so relaxing to be comforted, thank you❤

[@spookygirl7412]

I love latte!!

[@overcraft4888]

Nothing better than a video from you appearing at the perfect moment, saved my night with that one, thanks and cheers😴🙃

[@_yahiro7683]

言葉は分からないけど、いつも丁寧な動画を作ってくれてありがとう、ミスター。

[@oriannamorrison2666]

huh?

[@NopurposeRai]

​​@@oriannamorrison2666They're a Japanese viewer, basically saying they don't understand English but still love all his videos

[@sallyhouse4281]

Thank you Whispering Gentleman For The Positive Affirmations My Partner Used To Tell Me I Was 1 in a Million often and I was Special and How Lucky He Was To Have Me But I Was Lucky Also He looked after me and spoilt me best he could 12 years we were together and when I think back those years went quite quick- But he has passed now and I find it difficult to feel ok People are always trying to knock you down to make themselves feel better Yet I always get back up but it can take a toll on you So you're positive affirmations mean the world to me I listened to you throughout the day aswell! But thank you for everything 🌟❤️

[@karenhobbs8629]

Your content just gets better and better, not sure you can improve on perfection but you seem to manage to every time. Thank you so much for the effort you put in and the love and calm and tranquility you bring us. x

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

You’re very kind my friend! Thank you so much

[@petercourtien4581]

Very special video, Steven! There is such a powerful connection here to your nurturing and comforting energy.😊💙

[@sunnycornproductions]

Yesterday this one knocked me out within minutes, so after a very hard day of not being able to function and crying almost whole day 😭😭 I return and watch it again 💙 you know exactly what I needed to hear "it's okay, you're safe,..." 💙 thank you so much, your work, your ASMR, this vid is a blessing and a lifesaver 😌 don't know if I'd make it another day through massive emotional pain from my posttraumatic stress disorder without finding some peace thanks to this beautiful video and your soft voice 😍

[@calliestaton2930]

He has the most comforting voice. My toddler would love him!

[@edju9968]

Anyone can speak the words, but you saying them connects deeply w so many bc you're trusted, and that people here feel a connection with you that they don't even have with many people in theirs lives. Awesome stuff, kind sir.

[@BlackLightOracle]

I place the phone to my stomach and my anxiety melts..I really love your magical healing intention. I feel so safe in your presence that I weep. 💓

[@ameliaterry1240]

You have no idea how incredible you are, sir. I have several sleeping disorders and one of them is chronic insomnia. Your videos and calm moon asmr are my favorites to watch and listen to before I sleep. And they do help. So thank you 🖒😊

[@gabbygonzalez8059]

You have no idea how much this helped me last night. I wish I could give you a hug.

[@rebeccaclement99]

These are my fav Steven! Thank you for always providing a constant safe space for us all. 🙂

[@cp606]

Your videos never fail to make me fall asleep thank you so much. I’m so happy I found your channel when I did. It’s truly amazing how good you are at this. I really appreciate how much you do for all of us whether you realize it or not ☺️

[@TheChrischris27]

I don’t know how you do it but as soon as you start talking I’m mesmerised and instantly relaxed 🙏🏻

[@lorihovey2626]

I work in a field where I am surrounded by people all day and I make a million decisions by 10am. By the end of the day I’m in such high alert mode that restful sleep is almost impossible. Listening to you quiets my brain so that I can relax and drop into a deep sleep. If I hadn’t found you I’d still look like an electrified hamster every morning.

[@glowingbuddha]

Thanks!

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

That’s so very kind of you my dear friend! Thank you

[@brenb7153]

I love your energy that you put off it’s so comforting, you have this strong safe aura about you but it’s also gentle and nurturing. It’s honestly the epitome of a dream man. I think that’s why you’re so good at this, is because so many people gravitate towards that kind of unique man that possesses such strong masculinity and at the same time puts off such nice gentle vibes without it feeling feminine.

[@devraresendiz3061]

Thank you for this. You are so soft and respectful. I love that you ask permission before acting. It's not common these days for a man to ask if I may be ok with contact of any nature. Respect and care we all need this from others. Yet we forget to give time and contact as a gift of tenderness. Namaste

[@victoriaellis4860]

The brushing is giving me comfort but your breathing is calming in an entirely different way. Along with the soft whispers of course ❤️❤️

[@angie7798]

I want to say I really do appreciate you and your ASMR because you make me feel safe. I usually don’t watch men ASMR because most men are scary to me because I’ve had to deal with SA but you really are great and help me sleep when I have anxiety. ❤

[@claudianajera3500]

Just THANK YOU. Literally, you've been keeping me going for the last couple of months, since I discovered ASMR. I have had so many dark thoughts, so much want to just die for such a long time now... but I can't go...just yet. Thank you for helping me. I love your voice, I love the feeling you convey. THANK YOU THANK YOU

[@colleenahoutz]

Absolutely the best way to fall asleep on nights when your SO can't be with you. I love spooning with my boyfriend, but when he can't be there, this gentleman makes me feel so relaxed and a lot less lonely. I don't think I've ever watched a full video, though. I'm usually asleep by the 40 minute mark.

[@BoyKwentoOfficial]

this is calming me so much ive been having depression today a lot of problems and loss atleast im being calmed im glad i found this channel

[@Alex-id8tv]

About a month ago, i went through a rly messy breakup. I was having trouble falling asleep until I found this video. Apart from the fact that I usually only watch female asmr, I have never felt so safe in the presence of a man in my entire life. This was the only thing that helped me calm down, and i still use it from time to time when I feel lonely. You are honestly a gift, thank you so much ❤

[@robsutherland5744]

This is so far beyond an ordinary experience. Thank you for this beautiful session Steven. It's a pure pleasure to spend time with you.

[@christianne29]

I've been watching/listening to ASMR videos for years now. Since they were first posted on YT. I don't necessarily experience tingles but they do soothe me. I tend to gravitate toward artists who are committed to their craft and produce really quality content. Such as yourself!

[@danielaangela3277]

I'm going through a very tough time and needed this, Started immediately to cry. Found you in the right moment. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

[@monicaordonez5249]

I use to hate any type of talking asmr. I came across your account, and ive been sleeping sooooo much better with your asmr!

[@loretohidalgo3533]

Thank you so much for this. I have anxiety and most of it and my panic attacks happen at night. Now I live alone so it’s even scarier. This video makes me feel like someone is here taking care of me ❤

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

I will always be here when you’re in need my friend

[@patriciameares8265]

I think this might be my new favorite. I needed to hear this tonight. I just drove a 1000 miles for a fresh start. Soul searching time. Thank you for all your videos. I never thought I would enjoy a male ASMR artist. But here you are .

[@shanaiahcruz3647]

Whispering Gentleman I usually don’t watch asmr but recently I found it helps me go to sleep. Thank you so much and I’m happy you do these videos. I hope all is well with you as well! 😌

[@milorbilly]

This is totally going to my "Sometimes I get sad" playlist, thank you so much for this video ^^

[@Sisiowl]

You made mer feel safe

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

Thank you my dear friend! I’m so glad you feel safe here

[@VictoriaAlberta93]

This is the first ASMR that I have found that works. Thank you. I suffer with ADHD, Anxiety, Insomnia and more... you calmed me down. - Victoria x

[@c.paddock1348]

You are such a kind energy, and it is calming and inspiring 🤎 I also appreciate how long your vids are!!!!❤️‍🔥

[@chronicallyartsy]

I was having a panic attack about school, and listening to this really helped ground me again. Thank you so much.

[@Lachimolala-br5vq]

I'm French and I don't understand everything, but this video comforted me a lot, thank you 🥰merci beaucoup, pleins de bisous 😘

[@user-vs6uh7gc6u]

Its always so nice to listen to these ones while relaxing where its like a comforting or assuring kind, like as if its some parent figure type or like when comforting like your sibling to bed. Been listening to you and a few other male asmrists to kind help with letting me try to relax around male voices since due to some early trauma we were always on guard around most males unless could see them as semi safe like some close family since whispers means close in personal spaces

[@sweetest_fatemel1700]

I miss my boyfriend so I’m watching this… 😢 usually he reassures me and makes me feel safe like this and it’s very comforting. Thank you for this, your videos are very great!

[@Burtonnightmare88]

You are absolutely amazing. There’s something so sad behind your eyes tho. I hope that there is someone there for you like you are there for so many❤

[@AngellicAkima]

Love these facial treatment videos most of all. Thank you, as always.

[@soulwarmerhome]

Your voice is so calming! Thank you

[@squreshi8413]

Yup took me till 2 minutes to start crying. Thank you for your work.

[@Dameinthewild]

Whoa. The little pop noise you were making while you used the cotton swab was awesome.

[@RainnRiptide]

Genuinely never get tingles but they’re constant in your videos, thank you!

[@AshRaeK]

I frequently come back to this video when I'm having a panic attack or can't sleep. Thank you

[@WhisperingGentlemanASMR]

I hope you’re okay my friend, but I’m glad I’m able to help you relax

[@at.9801]

Your voice is just magical.❤you actually make me feel safe and cozy🤗

[@gracieh3499]

I have a hard time sleeping without ASMR! It helps slow my mind. Thank you for this. ❤️ It will be in use at bedtime tonight.

[@hj7947]

Thank you so much-already saved the video for tonight. You are incredibly empathetic and comforting, and it is always appreciated.

[@sarmaxsam]

Steven just read these comments. I told you people loved you. It's amazing seeing how many people are discovering this safe space with you.

[@AdaAdla]

Facial treatment is the best! I love to see your hands close to the camera, It is so tingly :-) And the scratchy sound is also perfekt :-)

[@specyooktle5890]

This really means so much. Im learning how to drive and its very scary and just intimidating. Its all happening so fast sometimes it feels like im becoming an adult too soon. So thank you for this, it wont make me driving any less scary but it will calm me down for the night so that I can deal with it tomorrow

[@magicallyme96]

Maaaan I felt this!!! I’m glad I’m not alone! I wish us both success 💕

[@marcialopez7228]

Thank you for the tingles and for the sleep!!!🙏🙏🙏

[@hearts._.for._.him.07]

This made me very calm, I have been under a lot of stress the pass 2 weeks, and I almost fell asleep in less then 15 minutes.

[@MrHubb1]

Love this. So relaxing. Such a calming voice.

[@ositogary50]

All of your videos are top notch! I can’t believe how you put out amazing content one after another! Also there is no one like you, so original ❤

[@DxddysKitten34]

You make me cry 😭 sometimes because I need lots of comfort cuz of mental health issues and your ASMR helps along side my therapist and stuff I know ASMR is not a cure all but wonderful work ❤❤❤❤

[@amberella_._7461]

Oddly enough, listening to your breathing is what makes me calm and sleepy

[@logansmom007]

Ty Steven for comforting me to sleep 💤😴 not just tonight but I watch your ASMR or Natalie's ASMR sessions now nightly... Ty for all positive thoughts and messages you tell us... I forget how nice it is to be comforted on a nightly basis now... Ty for helping me to sleep after very busy days... good night my whispering gentleman friend... ❤

[@NickJamesonASMR]

One of my favourite ASMRtists