“White Cis Women Are BAD Trans Allies!!”

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[@marcusdib]

Do you have a trans friend?

[@moviemelody2210]

I knew a transgender person in college and learned a lot BECAUSE HE EDUCATED ME on a topic i knew nothing about

[@frankyp1330]

I met a few in university but only one was like these people and she was insufferable 😂

[@PurpleMonadoBlaze]

Nope and I lowkey refuse too. The reason why I say lowkey is cuz all the trans people I personally know (including those i interacted with online) have NEVER once been nice to me (some of them pretended to be my friends) and I am kinda scared to befriend a trans person in real life or online EVER again because of it.

[@HenrikBSWE]

Yes, a close family member whom I love very much, but other than that I've met like 3 trans people in my life.

[@RosesandNiGHTS]

My best friend is actually trans, but he's nothing like these gender obsessed people. A lot of trans people I meet irl are really sweet, but ngl some of them can be a little annoying bringing up trans issues into every conversation

[@LalaDepala_00]

So let me get this straight. We have to call women "cis women" but we have to call trans-women "women"? How arrogant 😂

[@Eragarev]

Yeah, stop using cis. They don't respect the difference between trans and non-trans people, so there's no reason to use it.

[@svetlanaandrasova6086]

And if trans women are women, and there are only women, why call us cis in a first place?,

[@bryanthealien6734]

Glad more people caught on this

[@latonyanewsome0]

🔥🔥🔥

[@Mr_user_1000]

@@svetlanaandrasova6086 Cognitive dissonance is what they do best.

[@petersjj]

One of my favorite remarks has been, "You aren't special enough to require an instruction manual on how to interact with you."

[@Sl1pstreams]

The demand grows out of narcissism, as does the anger associated with it when people don’t (for whatever reason). It’s about being “special” and “unique,” and getting people to center their existence upon them and their demands. The insane rage and vindictiveness that also grows out of noncompliance with the demands is also narcissistic. I’m gay. I know plenty of gay men, lesbians, bi people and trans women/men who know that not everyone will accept us - and the healthy ones are okay with that. I don’t need acceptance and validation from strangers to live my own life as I please. We have equal rights under the law now, so if the guy a block away hates me, who cares? I certainly am not walking around demanding that he acknowledge and validate everything about me or face destruction. That’s giving him too much power over me, and everyone who is mentally healthy understands this. Only narcissists impose this expectation on others, and it is a way of gaining narcissistic supply.

[@petersjj]

@@Sl1pstreams Totally agree. I'm gay as a goose. The movement has moved from one of love and acceptance to something hellbent on vengeance and destruction. It's become toxic AF, and I want nothing to do with it anymore.

[@petersjj]

Ideology in the political sphere serves the same purpose that delusion does in the private. Actually, it serves both. It not only provides a personal narrative for the ideologue-a story which gives their life meaning and importance. It also FORCES others to participate in their story, thus reinforcing the ideologue’s private motivations, which are generally about control and power. "It's not ENOUGH that I believe what I believe or think what I think - YOU HAVE TO THINK IT TOO!" Total narcissism and it's how all totalitarian societies keep power - everyone has to go along with the lie.

[@dougcherney7981]

Exactly

[@Sl1pstreams]

@@petersjj The movement ended when we won equal rights. Political activists on the extreme left have picked up its remnants and have appropriated it to promote ideas that were never part of it - borrowing our credibility and history without our permission.

[@moviemelody2210]

As someone who is apart of a minority group (disability) I hate the word “Allies” because it implies there is some kind of war going on when that is not the case. We should all strive to be friends

[@MsTessLJ]

I agree 100%. I believe in being kind, it's that simple.

[@djsioux2265]

Spot on 👍

[@TomiDeLuna]

Yes, it is creepy. It is very cultish. I think they are in a cult.

[@bobtepedino5661]

EXACTLY! I don't want everybody in the bar saying "Oh! Here comes Bob, that deaf guy! Lets go over and flap our hands in his face to show him what good "allies" we are!" NO THANK YOU! I appreciate your thinking of me, but REAL disabled people - just like real trans people - DO NOT want special attention. We just want to blend in, live our lives and draw no special attention, just like normal people. Although it's difficult (a burden that I take great pride in learning to overcome) I love going out to eat, to the bar, etc and having a great time WITHOUT making the whole bar aware of my "specialness" and without foisting my issue onto the room.

[@enibeni2071]

I don't think disable people are minority. There are millions of people on Earth who wear glasses, displaced eyes, inequal leg lenght,etc.

[@batmanforpresident9655]

STOP 🛑 calling men and women "cis"....they are simply MEN and WOMEN.

[@meyou5336]

Yesssssssssssssssssss, I am no CIS bull I am a man

[@TomiDeLuna]

Do you want help me with a little project? Quote the accusers from the Salem Witch Trials, say crazy things, instead of saying Witch, say Cis that way they can't call us Cises anymore. We can create a fake hysteria, and make them think they conjured their "genders" from Hell. Oh, yes. They are that stupid. Hahahaha. #TheCiscraftHysteria

[@priscillajimenez27]

Amen

[@azalex91]

I’ve never run into someone calling me a cis man or using it in everyday life conversations. I really believe it’s used more online

[@TomiDeLuna]

We are in the Salem Cis Trials. Cis means Witch.

[@Ripley1994]

I was at a work conference recently. While signing in, one of the several people assisting others offered me a pronoun pin. I politely declined. She asked "Well how is anyone going to know them?" I looked at her and said, "I have long auburn hair, a D cup chest and am a woman. Wouldn't you agree?" Her answer was yes. After I started walking away, I could see the person working with her go look my name up. I walked back over and let the other one know my name, team, and manager, just so it will be easier for you to tattle. She stuttered, and I walked away. Never heard anything else about it. Was it petty? Yeah, a bit, but I'm tired of asked/told to bend the knee.

[@lemravity4453]

Seems to me that she tried to get you fired or something for not bending over backwards for her, that's disgusting and screams entitlement.

[@Ripley1994]

@lemravity4453 exactly what I thought. I have no problem with anyone until they start demanding me to play pretend or are an activist. And I don't care what you're protesting. If I don't agree, don't bully me. It will not end well.

[@lemravity4453]

@@Ripley1994 Is it too much for them to understand that it's annoying to pander to their people continuously and expecting us to stand there and act as if we agree with everything they say or do. Haven't seen one act like this yet, but the second they do I am leaving and letting them scream their lungs out at thin air.

[@scotthix2297]

Not petty at all. Unless we start standing our ground, we will continue to lose it. BRAVA!!

[@unitysprings3631]

Ask them how much they weigh, next time, if they want to be intrusive.

[@Tossler]

Marcus is so normal and likeable I forget he's trans sometimes while I watch his videos

[@josmclove4426]

He is trans and not annoying like the "activists""🥂

[@scotthix2297]

Yup. That’s the idea!😉

[@reality_is_the_key]

That's how true transitioners are. They literally want to live a normal life. I still don't know what happened where the "new" trans people got the way they are. It's the opposite of how REAL trans people are. I just don't get it.

[@Ilivedbih]

​@@reality_is_the_key Yes, exactly. I think they have some other thing going on, they all look mentally unwell, but gender dysphoria isn't one of them. They all share the traits of NAPD as well, so it's fitting Marcus called them narcissists.

[@kate7413]

That's what most transexual ( the real ones no the tik tok activist) want, they only wanna live their life as the opposite sex without causing drama , they don't wanna be like "look at me I'm special "

[@patricialea4024]

They look more deranged as they go on.

[@lemravity4453]

Mhm and it is only making their actions look worse each and every time they throw a temper tantrum over such simple words.

[@DeadAlready_1248]

Literally

[@dandy269]

“Look with your eyes, read!” Read what? There’s like fifteen things hanging off your lanyard

[@Sl1pstreams]

“I’m special! Read all of my pins. Internalize them. Comply with my demands. Recognize me as a super-unique person! Alter your existence to validate me based upon my demands!” It’s narcissism. The “pronouns” thing is a way for the narcissist to get narcissistic supply from colleagues, friends, family and strangers, to make the narcissist feel special.

[@ArachnerdGC]

And not only that, but I did look at her, and I did read her as female. Oh dear!

[@the_doubting_thomas]

Also if you were trying to read all of their pins, you would probably be called a pervert for staring at their chest area.

[@panpizzaslice]

Also kinda ableist of her to assume everyone can read a small pin. I'm vision impaired and found that rather offensive. What a bigot. 🤪

[@alisongodden4500]

I'm dislecix and autistic and would find trying to read all them pins so difficult. I have also been bullied in the Workplace by people who are like this person due my disability.

[@InkedCarpenter1776]

I'm so tired of the rainbow mafia and the hate they/thems spew.

[@priscillajimenez27]

And perversion

[@rosiegaming8112]

Honesly when is this gonna stop

[@lemravity4453]

I saw a few of them on X directing people to a service called MAID which assists in self-offing, and they weren't suspended at all.

[@AWholeBeew]

I'm a middle-aged lesbian and I'm sick of this, too. The LGBT community has made a ton of progress because of how inclusive and welcoming they've been to everybody, and all of this hostile, blame-game nonsense courtesy of (mostly) Gen Z Tik Tokkers is going to undo all of it.

[@Ripley1994]

@AWholeBeew I have 5 relatives who are gay. They're sick of it, too. It's never been an issue in our family. They're my siblings, cousins, and nieces/nephews. And like yourself and many others, just want to live their life and be happy. There's no activism, no judgments, just family. BTW, when they came out to us, we already knew they were gay, so it wasn't a surprise. My nephew was so scared to tell us, but we all supported him and loved him. He's in a wonderful relationship, and his partner is amazing.

[@Aging_Casually_Late_Gamer]

Having people yell at me to "do better" when all ive wanted is to just treat people like everyone else and not special, for almost a decade now, literally has had the opposite effect. Ive pulled away.

[@MrHayato-wi2sv]

I belong to two minority groups as a mixed race individual. Someone outside of that group calling themselves an “ally” annoys me because it implies that my respective groups need the help of (usually) white people to succeed or get what they want. No thanks. I would rather you just see me as an equal, not someone who is lesser because of the “system.”

[@lemravity4453]

All people are equal and should be treated equally, if someone is this race or not. I understand your frustrations as I am biracial and it's annoying to see someone do that all while thinking: "It's either they pretend to care or they want the benefit of being called a hero." Note: I am not trying to be rude with the "this or not" thing, it's that I'm tired of people focusing way too much on things such as that and forgetting that there's more to life than focusing on one thing constantly.

[@knrdvmmlbkkn]

@@lemravity4453 "All people are (...) be treated equally" Not all but no.

[@lemravity4453]

@@knrdvmmlbkkn Your comment is kind of confusing.

[@Mikinaak2023]

Frustrating yes, but systemic issues do require allies at times.

[@ruth4376]

Do they not realise they're going to LOSE support by being so hostile? People who may have been supportive and sympathetic, are now being attacked and may decide to wash their hands of the 'movement' and leave people to their own devices. You don't win friends by abusing people.

[@Daniela-xy8wj]

I love it when people call me a cis woman. I can easily see who i don't want to be around and who should stay away from me 😊😊😊

[@AngiefromOZ]

Never thought about it that way, I like it 😄

[@blankadams3120]

"Who helped you today?" 'The asshole with the badges.'

[@k.d.kelley2830]

😂

[@rp3804]

I am not a "CIS" woman. I am simply a woman. Since when did being a woman become offensive? In order to get respect one must give respect. A lot of "Trans activists" demand women respect them. Yet, force themselves into our safe spaces. Ask before demanding. It's that simple.

[@sophiacalon3463]

They cant even explain what a woman is😂

[@sophiacalon3463]

A woman has a vayjayjay

[@sophiacalon3463]

Intersex have a chromosomal abnormality

[@EEsYouTubeChanel]

At planned parenthood I was instructed to put down my pronouns for a gynecological exam… 🤨

[@StephieH]

These trans men who despise biological females simply for being biological females are pretty easy to spot. Kind of hypocritical to hear these trans men piss, moan and whine about being bullied, harassed, hated and picked on, yet they are doing the same damn thing to biological females. What a joke.

[@Mistmantle88]

Pretty sure if I stared at those silly pins trying to discover if there exists a “pronoun clue” printed on one of them, I would be splashed all over TikTok as a creep who “stared at your chest”.

[@realgtasacramentodashcam7292]

The thing that cracks me up is that they literally crave validation and affirmation above everything else.

[@rgood66]

I have wealth dysphoria. my bank account must be Affirmed.

[@mountaindesert34788]

I hope your bank account finally stops being "miscalculated" and you finally feel affirmed! 😊 I don't believe everyone is trans but I think a lot of people are suffering from the problem you just described!

[@Gernot66]

the turd is they found no medicamentation against it yet😁

[@atk_1]

I do not accept someone trying to call me out because of their own personal issues. I’m not their friend or mother. The world doesn’t revolve around them.

[@monicakruczaj2244]

Marcus I love your content. You and Buck Angel and Blaire are my heros. I’m a straight woman. I have transsexual friends,gay,lesbian friends. That also are in the “normal” world if you will. Stating facts and truths. Keep up the great work. I and all my friends refuse to live in the delusional, world that these activists live in. I refuse to be held hostage by their delusions.

[@jenA9026]

Same.

[@jamesm217]

This is absolutely lunacy what's going on today. Everyone is obsessed with themselves and are complete narcissists. I wish we could go back in time when things were normal. Shout out to you for keeping it real.

[@lemravity4453]

Common sense is entirely extinct on this planet, those people prove my point every time I think of that.

[@annamossity8879]

Wonder what happened to make so many people so needy? 🤔

[@mah3223alia]

I'm old....I value my friends for who they are, not 'what' they are......

[@kristheten]

What makes me so nervous thinking about potentially running into people who use something as small as a pin or sticker with their pronouns/etc is that they'll freak out on me. I have social anxiety - I am not examining their body, I am looking everywhere with small glances back to the person I'm speaking with, trying to keep my composure until I can run away lol

[@TomiDeLuna]

I'm so sorry. This Ciscraft Hysteria will end like the Salem Witch Trials. They'll regret what they did like the accusers in the Salem Witch Trials did.

[@tinyderppotato5410]

yep, they have no interest in making YOU feel comfortable, quite the contrary.

[@Sl1pstreams]

They’re narcissists. If you comply by putting energy into honoring their demands, they get supply because you conformed and made them feel special. If you don’t comply for any reason - including your own introversion - they love that even more. They get even more supply off of making their specialness and demand for being the center of attention into a massive drama-fest and getting you to beg forgiveness for the awful crime of not validating their right to be Very Very Special And The Center of Attention.

[@jenA9026]

And being an old lady, I LITERALLY can't read your pin without a magnifying glass.

[@ForeverMe543]

They never call out black or Asian [redacted] allies

[@DutchIsraeli]

I'm getting so tired of this. For years, I've always done my best to be an "ally", but the goalposts change constantly. It's never good enough. On the internet anyway! My gay friends in real life never go on like this! They are just nice and normal people and they don't need "allies". I'm done being an ally. Thanks again Marcus! 🧡

[@AWholeBeew]

The goalposts don't change if the people you're talking to just want to be people and not victims. I'm a lesbian and I only have one rule: If you're cool with me, I'm cool with you.

[@DutchIsraeli]

@@AWholeBeew I'm cool with you! :)

[@moviekidd222]

Today our german parliament voted for the "Selbstbestimmungsgesetz", a law that allows everyone to change their prename and gender (man, woman, diverse or none) on all government documents, including ID and birth certificate. A reference of medical or psychological documents is not required. Kids under the age of 14 can change their name and gender together with their parents. Kids over the age of 14 will be even able to act alone on this law. If the parents don't give their permission per signature, the case will be taken to the family court. There will probably be a restriction included; you will be fined if you use someone's "deadname" or wrong pronoun. This is my opinion: This law offers no actual support for actual gender dysphoric people since their is no medical supervision encluded. Instead it offers pervese and autgenophyle men to harras women and will lead to confusion and indoctrination of kids. My question is: I know there are countries that have passed similar legislations, what experiences have you personally and your government made with these laws?

[@jenA9026]

Read Graham Lineham and what's been happening in the UK. I do not believe myself to be a trans hater (militant trans activists would probably disagree), but all this gender stuff seems to be happening by stealth. We don't get to debate or vote on it. And it's womens protections and opportunities that are being eroded.

[@sheerbeauty]

Ugh, sorry to hear that happened in Germany.

[@indy_go_blue6048]

It won't be long before the age of consent is lowered to reflect this new law, which is what this whole stinking mess is all about.

[@Annani007]

I'm not Cis. I didn't agree to that. Thank you.

[@tomnoziglia8385]

😢😢

[@Annani007]

@tomnoziglia8385 Yes it is sad when people assume who you are...I do not answer to Cis.

[@PeanutStrawberry]

@@Annani007 next time someone tries to insult me with that word, I'll just reply "Ok, cishead" and see how they like it. :P

[@geirpg]

I'm not CIS, so I have no idea what they're talking about. I'm just a man. Simple.

[@weederian123]

yes brother. the truth must be said.

[@PeanutStrawberry]

We should just start to call them "cishead" from now on. They like to say "cis" means "the same," so since they all have "the same face/head," we should just call those people "cishead" and see how they like it lol

[@djjaysky9071]

Its a term made up by a German pedophile

[@Gernot66]

if you don't accept this label then you are a trans-exclusionary radical male! 😂 and santa clause will record you! und auch Knecht Ruprecht wird sich das merken und es dann Frau Holle erzählen und dann kannst du aber was erleben mein Junge!

[@renzinthewoods]

And the pronouns I use when speaking with someone? You, me, us, we. What I say about you when I’m talking about you out of your presence? That’s MY business.

[@toodlescae]

Exactly

[@annamossity8879]

YASS! This has been an argument of mine. I don’t need pronouns when I’m talking to you, I like to use your name. And I won’t be talking about you when I leave your presence because I have a life!

[@stevenalexander6713]

Nobody owns their own pronouns anyway. The essential function of pronouns is to make speech EASIER. To be able to refer to someone or something without having to repeat the name of the person or object over and over again. Ironically, gender ideology has reversed the function of pronouns, because their use of pronouns makes language more DIFFICULT. For anyone to say that they have their own word or set of words as their pronouns is the height of narcissism.

[@gensogirlcirno]

Totally get that, but lets take this scenario as an example: You, a trans guy (biological female) and your friend are having a conversation. Trans guy: ‚…Yeah and thats how we ended up here‘ Friend: ‚Wait but why?‘ You: ‚*she* explained that earlier‘ In that case the trans person was present and you used other pronouns. So yeah situations like these happen a lot just wanted to point that out because theres no way that you didnt consider this

[@renzinthewoods]

@@gensogirlcirno I can assure you that my conversations with a trans individual would be brief and formal.

[@tyronrichardson1037]

Don't have trans friends but info have gay friends. I'm not an "ally" I'm a friend. They don't expect me to go to pride parades and I don't invite them to church. But we can still be friends and we'd be there for each other because people can have differences and still love each other

[@GaryMorin]

It's all so tiring trying to keep up with all this aggressive activism and allyship posturing Us old time liberals are tired. I cant keep up with it all. One day I'm told that intent doesn't matter, it's about impact. The next day I'm told it's about intent.

[@jenA9026]

Same here! I feel compassion for both "sides" (trans women and women), but legally we are now getting into zero sum and as usual, it's women who are expected to move over for former men. And being a child of the Enlightenment now living in a post-truth world, my brain is frying when a person stands in front of us all with a p3nis in their swimming costume and we are all to fundamentally believe that person is a woman in the same way that a woman born without a p3nis is. I don't hate the 'woman' with a p3nis (trans woman). But my brain just can't pretend that they are the same as women. I'll call these persons women, I'll treat them as women, but my brain fundamentally does not regard them as "real" women. And I know, I know ... social construct, intersex, no uterus are you still a women etc etc. But my brain is hard wired! We are almost a quarter into the 21st century and each year that goes by I feel more and more that I am a creature of the 20th century. I want to be kind. I want to have compassion. Every day I work to act that way eventhough, more and more, society is getting more divided, more militant, more unkind. But I am lodged in a relationship with facts that seem to matter less and less in the post truth world. It's not my century. Good luck with it kids. I truly wish you well. Im not being sarcastic when I say that. Please try to be kind. Eventhough I remember to be young is to be more "black and white" and angry, and militant. I was an angry young feminist once. Now I'm just an old, tired feminist lol!

[@sirbaronvoncount4147]

Other than the few cases of men finding out too late that their pick up was packing D not P and becoming violent (completely avoidable) I am not aware of any violence problem against trans people. They sure love the victim role for such “strong and brave” people.

[@justmythoughts2962]

Exactly, and I spent some time going down the rabbit hole of the"epidemic" of violence against Transgender and gender non-comforming people. What they DON'T really HIGHLIGHT is almost HALF is a result of DV from a romantic partner. Then there's the people who tragically died while engaging in a dangerous lifestyle of drug dealing and violent crimes against strangers!!. Meaning being TRANS had ZERO to do with how the person lost their life. The HRC goes on to say it's a national tragedy and a national embarrassment. What's really embarrassing is honoring a transgender person who opened fire on police THEN try and blame transphobia hate as the mechanism!!!

[@gle..]

I miss the days when people didnt have to do homework and research projects before becoming friends with someone living a different lifestyle

[@scotthix2297]

Thanks! Marcus, I follow several channels like yours, but I have to say that , personally, you are the voice of calm reason (and mild shade🌔) that smooths my mood. Keep it low key with that wry grin and tell us THE truth. My generation of LGBT are so encouraged by you!

[@TheIntJuggler]

Can I have sum money?

[@sophiacalon3463]

@@TheIntJugglerdo something worthy of it

[@marcusdib]

Thank you so much!

[@Kathleen-vl5ws]

​@@TheIntJugglerDo you have a successful KZbin channel with hours of content that people enjoy for free where it would compel anyone to tip you? Do you play an instrument?

[@Kathleen-vl5ws]

​@@sophiacalon3463💀

[@Ktakahashi18]

I'll suppost them more when they stop calling me Cis. I'll respect you and use your they/ them pronoun. Or call you she when you clearly are a he when you respect me and stop calling me Cis. I am a woman. Not a cis woman. Respect is given not owed. Until then...I'll call them like I see it.

[@Roonayy]

Well if you're not trans, then you would be cis, as cis and trans are antonymous. This is just how language works.

[@gonomalias811]

I understand this a lot since my childhood. There are man, woman, trans woman and trans men. Don't let the other auto perceptions insult the people who REALLY REALLY are transitioning. Lots of 💕

[@mutantbrain92]

Kinda hard to see that little ass pin on a lanyard with a couple dozen other pins littering it. If it was so important to her, she would have just the one pin on it to make it actually seen. Not saying it would help the cause, cause customers literally do not care, but it would make it stand out more.

[@ArachnerdGC]

It's done on purpose to cause confusion. She wants the confusion so she can pounce when people give up and just point.

[@howdidienduphere]

My heart hurts to see these people who are eaten up with so much self-loathing, so filled with rage and anger.

[@SummerStars18]

I love how Marcus just says/ can say 'No'. Very clear, very firm, very honest. I'm no good with confrontation or these aggressive feeling people. I wish I was as sure and confident as Marcus, and could just say 'No'.

[@Sl1pstreams]

The narcissist craves confrontation because it gives them supply. That’s what is happening in so many of these videos. It’s also ironic because limited visual acuity is a common disability, and demanding that someone read small multi-colored pins and only say what is “allowed” by those pins is often attacking someone who is visually impaired - a real form of bigotry. Ooops!

[@UmamaGoblin]

I respect any trans person who doesn't call non trans people cis 🥃

[@LoveFreak18]

trans ally means to fold like a cheap lawn chair at every crazy idea they come up with.

[@startrekfangirl]

The only issue really is they are attention deprived and being angry gets them the attention they want.

[@Draaca]

You see, if someone ASKS nicely, the vast majority of people are inclined to be nice right back. But if someone DEMANDS of people, ORDERS them, COMMANDS them and THREATENS them in an unhinged, aggressive and rabid manner...well, the vast majority of people tend to NOT react well to that. This is a fact of life that these "people" do not seem to understand.

[@keenabarbara9118]

Thank you! I am a transexual. The glaring inconsistency that made me leave the TG community was the fact that we have a profoundly sick group of people counselling everyone about how to be healthy, calling everyone else sick. As an intellectually honest human being I just couldn't endure the toxic atmosphere of the TG popwave.

[@alliinwonder9675]

If we assume, they are offended, If we ask, they are offended, If we ignore, they are offended. Common denominator…they are offended.

[@FuHackers-wx9lq]

My lord! I started life believing there was one race, the human race. Now, there's WTF? 🤷

[@djsioux2265]

100% 🤣🤣🤣🤣 funny,not funny 😱😭

[@TomiDeLuna]

Exactly! We are still one race, the human race.

[@knrdvmmlbkkn]

"I started life (...) the human race." Then you were wrong... Humans is not a race but a species.

[@FuHackers-wx9lq]

@@knrdvmmlbkkn This, you... is exactly the problem! Dude, are whatever, whoever you are. You get the gist of it, right? 🤦

[@weswolever7477]

If I have to read an instruction manual to interact with someone … I won’t interact with them

[@ophilianecr]

DAMN, Marcus, that sass is sharper than your jawline!!! 😂 These people are right though, TRAllies need to do better, like wake up and realize theyre just seen as pawns, insignificant and disposable to the TQs🤨

[@user-wn1wv1uy5y]

I.m.o. there is a difference between supporting a friend who is going through a hard time and being an "ally" to people I don't even know and who I can't even see are suffering. If you tell me that you express nothing but "trans- joy", why should you need me as an ally?

[@Denise_2262]

I am a lot more concerned about violence against women so I will call that out instead of violence against men most likely

[@ArachnerdGC]

They insist they have the right to feel safe in our bathrooms and changing rooms, but we, of course, do not have the right to feel safe. It's only men who have rights, apparently.

[@desireew4613]

Oh no! Some of them don't want to you to ask questions. "You need to educate yourself transphobe." They'll call you "transphobic" regardless.🙄

[@vivianapereyra6529]

Hmm, I am absolutely not going to change my dad’s or boyfriend’s mind about trans people. They are adults and they have their own opinions and I respect them. Trans people should, too. Respect.

[@jeblmknctmabtaldlr]

"hello!... oh, hold on a sec... gotta read all twenty-five of your lanyard pins to see if you put in some important-to -you information in there..." (Who reads that much flair?)

[@deniseuhlry9988]

OMG....life isn't meant to be a clusterfuck.Why are so many people, so concerned about what someone feels or thinks when they will NEVER see or meet them....EVER?

[@lemravity4453]

They think they are superior and more special than anyone else around them. They also crave the attention from having a tantrum over something simple as basic biology.

[@lemravity4453]

Because they are attention seekers and think the whole world revolves around them.

[@annamossity8879]

Narcissism

[@joanosullivan795]

Who was it said "what other people think of you is none of your business"

[@nicolasandresmartinez-cond126]

I think many of these people confuse sex dysphoria with validation withdrawal.

[@lemravity4453]

Nah, it's attention seeking at its finest.

[@nicolasandresmartinez-cond126]

@@lemravity4453 That's another way to phrase it 🤣

[@baconsarny-geddon8298]

NEVER trust anyone who calls themselves an "ally", for ANY minority/cause. Anyone can have an opinion, on ANY topic, or support/oppose ANY cause/group you want... But you don't get to borrow the "victim" status of groups you're not part of, and you DEFINITELY don't get to use that status to put YOUR voice above everyone else's. When someone declares themself "an ally" what they're REALLY saying is "I've decided that MY opinions are way more important and valid than everyone ELSE'S opinions..." The only people who WANT to speak on behalf of minority groups they're not part of, are petty-authoritarians, desperate for ANY tiny crumb of power, that they can gift to themself.

[@Mishalace]

Being an ally is a bad meaning these days. I'm not an ally, I'm just a decent human being and will act accordingly.

[@cradica]

I mean, it's not that hard to be nice.

[@JL-dn6ph]

@@cradicaI agree so why should I accept being called a cis woman when biological men get triggered when called trans women and not just women? Why should I listen to someone who says times have changed but then have they/them pronounces and use the argument that it described a singular person in Shakespearien time, you can’t just make shit up as you go along to fit your narrative. also debate isn’t a thing anymore apparently, it’s all yelling and childish behaviour from adults who should never procreate in my opinion.

[@no_way_I_care]

I'm an ally to common sense

[@ArachnerdGC]

Same here, and I'm also an ally to basic biology.

[@shylittlealligator9202]

"Read" i can't. I'm dyslexic

[@ConspiracyPundit]

CIS people? No, I am a normal white male. I reject your labels.

[@Inanna1477]

I am now at a point that i do not respect those that just wearing a gender mask just because, and tell me what to do or to say. Thank you for your information and education.

[@svetlanaandrasova6086]

For people who soooo love and accept themselves they are too full of hate

[@norwalkspectator5275]

Years ago, I knew someone who was a M2F transgendered individual. During their transition, I really struggled because this person would call the office and I would hear Joe's voice rather than Joan's (not the actual names) and I would leave a message saying "Joe called back about the..." People would jump all over me trying to correct my mistakes, but no one realized that I hadn't actually seen this individual in a really long time, so had no frame of reference for the transition. What ended up happening was I avoided Joan when she came back to work after the surgeries simply so I wouldn't make a mistake until one day we crossed paths at a restaurant. Joan wanted to know why I was mad at her. I explained I was just trying to be super careful and it turned out that everyone else was more upset about my mistakes than Joan was. Everyone made such a fuss that it actually caused the problem rather than corrected it.

[@TandC9876]

The thing all “CIS” people should do is IGNORE their pleas or rather DEMANDS. Let them cackle on and on to a void of disinterest. Stop paying attention to any of them. They are in a process. Let that happen

[@waynemclaughlin96]

The last one is definitely a lesbian woman, if she can't accept that ? Then that is on her. Not he, him, they , them but HER.

[@alexs6250]

The one at 4:52 is gay man

[@cantbearsedmechanics]

I find the term cis highly offensive

[@Mr.Unacceptable]

Always liked the response 'Why am I a straight person, having to do all the heavy lifting in your transition?'

[@annabagwell7965]

Please leave everyone alone. There are far more important things than what you call yourself.

[@thisdamnguyagain4450]

Why can’t we admit being trans is not the norm and while I don’t think they should b discriminated against and deserve the same rights and respect as other people can we admit it’s weird AF and I’m not the weird one for thinking so

[@ShelldonJPlankton]

Keep up the great work man

[@merbearlorelei]

I'm just going to stop talking to people. I don't want to be acquaintances or even vaguely associated with people who with one word taken the wrong way could get me fired/arrested.

[@user-jy9mh8ku3n]

"Girl blink twice…" I love your sense of humor. 😂

[@dmarcouxbeatty374]

Decades ago in the 70s my mum was a surgical nurse. Her specialty was human plumbing. Mum worked with one of the first Drs. that did the sex changes. They were disowned and shunned. Our family became theirs. I know sacrifice, trauma, pain, hardship, loss, relief, joy, and peace. I saw it. I'm so happy you have found peace and happiness. You are a delightful, intelligent young man. I am as proud of you as I am my own children. Well done.

[@katherinepappas9741]

Love you Marc!!!

[@ginaweith9475]

The differentiating factor here is healthy boundaries. You either have them or you don’t. If you don’t, you will attempt to get others to own your issues. Your issues are your issues not anyone else’s.

[@jakemansfield3486]

6:47 I love how you just say “No” 😂

[@L1Run]

I'm nobody's "ally." I support equal rights for both sexes and all races because i believe it's right, not because I'm an "ally." I support equal marriage rights for gay couples because i agree with the reasoning, not because im somehow "allied" with gays. And i don't support "personal pronouns," puberty blockers, or men invading women's spaces. Because i think it's wrong. If someone demands that i be their "ally" instead of giving me an actual good argument, that isn't good enough.

[@emmapeel8163]

i'm an "ally" of children ONLY. adults have mature brains & should figure out their lives. resolve your issues, only YOU can.

[@localpossum2690]

I knew someone who was uncomfortable being presented as a woman, but also did not want to be a man. They identified as nonbinary. Now I know that they blamed their sex for some trauma they had and I support them in any way I can. It is them and their story that made me try to be open to some of the reasoning behind non-binary individuals. They never got mad when people called referred to them as a woman, never told everyone they didn’t know their pronouns either and didn’t care when people they did tell got it wrong, so yeah. I know there are some people who identify as non-binary who are just doing it to feel special, but being non-binary for my friend probably felt like a shield to protect them from bad men.

[@kymo6343]

"Whether it be your dads, your uncles, your brothers, grandpas, call them out!" Yeah I did that my whole childhood and got teeth knocked out for it and I still get called transphobic, so do it yourself now honey!

[@MazeCoolGamer]

Thanks Markus for calling this sh*t out, for telling the truth and for being a light we can follow. You make this trans-mess understandable and based in reality.

[@Rezd-Out]

I can’t respect anyone that INSISTS on calling me “cis”. I love how straightforward you are, I wonder how many people you have given a voice to?

[@racenturtlez]

I wonder at what point “cis” will be considered a slur…

[@Mistmantle88]

The second after everyone has been trained to use it.

[@ArachnerdGC]

It already is!

[@lemravity4453]

It is, it is being forced on us by people that are too sensitive and think they are soo special.

[@carocatho]

It wasn’t originally a slur, I think, but they use it as a slur. So yes, it absolutely is a slur.

[@JamieMarzy]

Off topic, but you have marvelous bone structure. You could cut diamonds with that jaw line 😉

[@Beacon.of.Strength]

This man wakes up every single day of his life and decides to speak FACTS

[@Madonnis]

You speak so sanely and eloquently on this topic. Thank you for your important insight👍👍😉

[@damiandrennen9180]

Lol if women could control men, there would be no grape culture. Women need MEN to stand up and protect women!!!! Women are not here to massage the egos of other adults!!! We lost roe vs Wade- where is our support!!!! Domestic V, SA*?- I don't see any of these people standing up for women. Not my job to be their therapist

[@anniemacleod]

I'm a single mom and chicken breasts are currently $5 a piece where I am and my wages are not even close to keeping up, i treat everyone with respect but don't have any mental energy left over to actively campaign for they/them pronouns, im just trying to survive and take care of my kids and I know I'm not the only one

[@alexs6250]

I hear you. If they want you to do something they should pay you.

[@carrienichols-lundqvist7970]

I wear ”please look at me, I read lips” or ”I have a hearing problem” pins everyday. People do not go looking for pins. I have one on each side, yet people do not always see them. So not seeing or noticing a special pin is not the other persons fault because humanity is selfish. Getting pissy with other people is a waste of time, energy, and Self acceptance.

[@alangay4180]

Best of luck to the person with the "they/them" pin on their lanyard. Went out for breakfast and as I walked into the place there is an A4 size sheet of paper stuck to the door, explaining that due to technical issues they cannot serve tea or coffee, several people walking up to the bar to order breakfast then ask for tea or coffee having completely failed to notice the A4 paper taped to the door they just walked through.

[@RosPal-Tesao15]

These people don't accept themselves so they expect acceptance and validation from every single person around them, makes no sense

[@camoflash7621]

i've got social anxiety and i don't wanna speak to a random person at work and ask them what is their pronouns as this could lead into a full blown conversation. nor do I want to stare at someone long enough to read a "they them" pin badge. I also don't want to have to explain my life to anyone as to why I did not feel comfortable asking about pro-nouns. just leave me alone!

[@FunnyGermanMan911]

We need a podcast. Edit: - I know a “trans” person, I dated her and she doesn’t have male parts, at all. And then she’s gets mad over a mistake when mis-gendering her. She made my friends with a neural disability cry over it and I had to calm her down, my friend.

[@AS8643]

It's at a point I want to call them whatever they don't like on purpose. It's a joke at this point in time.

[@edithguzman7277]

I'm tired of this "cis" nonsense! And it is a slur!

[@HenrikBSWE]

So.. I'm a man in my late 30's, and I think I'm 6'2 or something in American numbers. I have long hair and a long beard and I dress almost exclusively in black. (I'm just setting the scene here) If I'm understanding this right, I'm supposed to go up to someone and bend down to their chest level and squint my eyes like some viking-pirate in order to read their pins? I'd have to get much closer than whats socially acceptable in most cases, and I'm someone who looks quite intimidating due to my size. And this won't make them uncomfortable? Am I understanding this right?

[@priscillajimenez27]

7:07 Marcus, that was adorable. Girl kicked it that hm lol 😄

[@diaporamabygj]

"or rather slow down the decrease..." Well said, we were almost there.

[@sarab2324]

The fact that they say “cis” isn’t a slur. 🙄 Also can you imagine just walking up to someone and staring at their pins before saying anything? That would be so awkward!

[@The_Nightsong]

I honestly didn't care at the beginning, I felt like there are more important hills to die on. But after i learned who came up with the term, I refuse to be called such.

[@latonyanewsome0]

They're just pushing their misogyny on women. They say it's a "medical term", but it's not like it's literally not. Also if they're real women why do they need to call us "cis"?

[@cradica]

I know some staff at my local library where those pins but they seem like decent people overall

[@Violetbunnyfish]

Especially if they have a female chest. Then they'll just think you're looking at their "girls" instead of the pins. No thanks.