Secondary gain is absolutely real and needs to be talked about. I see it in myself over and over. Once I shed light on it, it is less powerful.
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing11 ай бұрын
Me too. So helpful!
@emilycarver595 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! This podcast has been so enlightening and impactful. this kind of research is so important to contributing to the medical community as a whole and to individuals such as myself, trying to recover from TMS pain. I definitely can relate to some of the barriers to healing that this study has brought to light. This is is so important for my ability to identify what may be holding me back from fully recovering. thank you both for your contributions that improve the likelihood of of regaining, my health and life.
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing Жыл бұрын
I love it. Yes, keep it up Emily!
@odalysruiz45 ай бұрын
Amazing! Truth. I've always been afraid of letting my anger loose. So, for yrs I would hold it in until I couldnt anymore. I would explode and tell them off.I din't know how to deal with my anxiety/anger. I have been in cognitive therapy most of my life. But, most important. I have a strong faith in Our Lord. I don't think i could have made it thru my life without my faith.Physical pain has been present when life has gotten hard to cope with. Ty! Grateful to both of you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing5 ай бұрын
God is not afraid of our anger. Whew.
@j0e1s2s37 ай бұрын
Secondary gain really is important but soo tricky. I know that my sickness protects me from overdoing, crossed boundaries and helps me to say No. I know that it is my task to learn these things - yet my body keeps protecting me and does not trust me, so kinda stuck here.
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing7 ай бұрын
Keep practicing boundaries , not overdoing, and saying no amongst other pain reprocessing techniques. It’ll eventually the symptom won’t need to protect you
@kristisilvers5061 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting interview. Sounds like a fascinating study. Belief in this process is so important.
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing Жыл бұрын
It really is!
@thesimplelifewife3 Жыл бұрын
What a fascinating interview. Jennifer, I'm loving the videos you're putting out!
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I’m enjoying them ❤️
@lisabeeke7162 Жыл бұрын
Wow Jen! You keep it real and your interviews keep amazing me. Happy New Year dear woman..and to those you love.
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊 😍
@scottyg5403 Жыл бұрын
Wow! Great explanation of healthy anger vs rage! Overall great info and interview! Thank you!
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@Mozzos11 ай бұрын
That part was amazing. Never understood that. Not anger but explosion of anxiety wow.
@THECHARGEwithDennisMetzler Жыл бұрын
I like this guy. Lots of good info. I should have taken notes!
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed! Listen again! Get that pencil out! ✏️
@melissamattoon4219 Жыл бұрын
Excellent! Would love more ISTDP interviews.
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing Жыл бұрын
Noted! I’ll keep my eyes open.
@g.siporin4000 Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Would be great if you got an ISTDP coach!
@cathyjohnson2714 ай бұрын
@Jen, I've been listening to all of your interviews over the past few weeks since taking a course in Christian brain rewire and I'll continue to listen to all your interviews until I'm caught up. Thank you so much! This has been so helpful to me. But I do have a question, why are you all taking the word " connection" away from mind- body?
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing4 ай бұрын
There’s no separation between the two. You can’t disconnect them because they are more integrated than they are connected, therefore it’s just simpler to remove one word. The word “connection” seems redundant. Our mental and physical health are less connected and more integrated than anything. But I often use the term mind body connection - no big deal. 🤷🏻♀️ either way is fine in my opinion.
@jenw70247 ай бұрын
What is the name of the book you refer to towards the end? By Howard?
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing7 ай бұрын
Unlearn Your Pain by Howard Schubiner.
@robertaswanson5633 Жыл бұрын
Great interview. This guy is so cool....wouldn't you love to have him for your therapist? Lots of good information here. Thank you.
@elkepool3861 Жыл бұрын
great interview , thank you both
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@AirSupp0rtMusic Жыл бұрын
Hey Jennifer, is there anyway to make an appointment with yourself or Douglas to set up some sort of therapy? My body and mind are falling apart and I'm desperate to talk to a therapist, but I need someone who understands this mind body concept. Thanks!
@ThoughtByThoughtHealing Жыл бұрын
I’m a TMS coach. I’m happy to do a consultation. Check out my website and send me an email :) Thoughtbythoughthealing.com