Who Idols Go To For Advice (FULL Episode) | GET REAL Ep. #20

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[@donnavlogslife]

We'd be ok with longer podcasts as well

[@aneisap7517]

Its official: Peniel is husband material.

[@Yunjinsqueendom]

yes

[@DelaraPlayfield]

For sure

[@jayanikol7140]

cant agree more 😩

[@bunny4u535]

YES

[@yjas8904]

more like dad material, peni be my daddy

[@starflight921]

Peniel: I've never seen you with unnies actually Ashley: mm yea we never had unnies around BM: or we just old i have never laughed so hard in my life

[@navi3430]

That made me laugh so hard when BM suddenly said that 😂

[@jessicabadere530]

You know, with the amount of times Stray Kids or Bang Chan or Felix has been mentioned on Dive Studios, I’m surprised they don’t have their own podcast here or guest appearances by now lol

[@nathancoleman544]

If it happens I’m down

[@LISa-do5pn]

FACTS !!!!! M SO GONNA DIE IF IT HAPPENS

[@ayeshasiddique1476]

they are definitely very busy and I think jyp makes restrictions 😔

[@vilanbon3341]

SKZ on GET REAL would be mental!!

[@carolines1055]

they probably want to but SKZ is too busy😅

[@asdfghjklz1228]

"Everyone sucks at sucking it up but you still try." BM, 2020

[@keiuy8342]

CAN I JUST SAY THAT PENIEL IS THE MOST UNPROBLEMATIC ARTIST OUT THERE

[@stanstraykids4610]

I fee like Ashley always blindsides Peniel with really genuine compliments that he doesn’t know how to respond. 🥺🥺 Yes Peniel deserves all the love

[@melodybtob1717]

I always relate with what Peniel said. I dont wanna be crazy rich, but I just wanna be comfortable, can provide my family, and life easily. What's things that made you a role model Peniel? Its your mindset, positive vibe, and your kindness (actually I have many reasons)

[@WongInTheFog]

gotta love these themes they're coming up with, feels just like having coffee with friends and catching up

[@aurynaprillia]

Peniel: ''I don't like my picture taken" BM: *slowly takes out phone and points it at peniel*

[@sihars7214]

Peniel. It should be Peniel. I like his takes on many things in life. He has good and positive attitude

[@vmrich]

Yeah same, he has a calm approach towards many things which generally people (like me) would freak out about. I really think he could give positive and mature vibes to others. Personally, I also look up to him when sometimes things get unexpected or hard for me.

[@roter13]

I kind of wish that BM and Ashley or BM and Peniel or just all three of them collabed on a song or something. Even if it's just like a passion project.

[@hades1907]

Same here dude!

[@LifeisMelody342]

I can see it now, The three surviving members of LC, KARD, and BTOB doing a charity single

[@Weneebebe93]

Peniel is so chill! I think he is BEST suited for celebrity life who wouldn’t let fame and fortune change him negatively like it does most celebrities! He’s down to earth and psychologically the most stable for celebrity life! Then he says he doesn’t like being in front of the cameras or take pics...🤨🤷‍♀️😂 Still tho he’s the most stable minded for celebrity life!

[@annerf__]

Peniel is so relatable, but super kind and awesome. like how, this industry doesn't deserve him huhu

[@Ashley-ub8sj]

Peniel talking about his parents made me feel so warm and fuzzy inside, that was so sweet

[@cecilialapuma6381]

Ashley is a role model for me because of how honest she is. She isn’t afraid to show her emotions and talk about struggles that she’s had which really can help others learn how to get through similar issues. I’m also always amazed at how easily she makes friends! Social skills goals honestly

[@beth-jj9lr]

I know bm since kard's debut and honestly i consider him as my role model because in the past years he taught me a lot of things, also how to appreciate life, yourself and yeah maybe they don't know why or how they become as role models but i think it is because they don't see theirselves like we do and i am really thankful with him (honestly i don’t know how to explain myself + my broken english doesn’t help so yeah )

[@blueen235]

you said you dont know how to explain yourself but i feel like you explained it so perfectly, those sentences really speaks for me. thank you!

[@zongi700]

You said it really well!

[@zongi700]

@@blueen235 i agree :)

[@ell6309]

Ashley talking so fondly of her church unnies is so sweet and pure✨

[@jennifertruong3037]

reasons why ashley is my role model, because she is her amazing self. specific reasons, she's super hard working, very wise and always brings something new to the podcast, even after multiple obstacles she till overcame them and pursued her singing career, she's living independently and killing it. also, because she's truly so sweet and kind. don't forget her cute laugh and how she can literally make every single hair colour and style look gorgeous!

[@himawariuzumaki1998]

Bm be hyping skz every chance he gets

[@jadem2277]

Me answering: my role models will be BTOB, each member's has like different perspectives that I learn from. They just inspire me they're not the perfect humans I know but really I love their songs and their personalities soo relatable I am so open minded rn like not judging everything from the surface, looking things on the brighter side instead of dwelling upon the bad such and such. They're the older brothers I never had so they just be my role models

[@keiuy8342]

I truly agreeee, they are the best and most genuine group out there 💙💙💙

[@asmitagupta1527]

I second that😌😌😌

[@luisam.7552]

you know I have been listening to most of the episodes of get real and let me tell you Peniel has gotten sooo much better at like talking skills lol he's more articulate and all of them gettin more natural with this, love them

[@asdfghjklz1228]

My role model is BTOB (esp Peniel and Eunkwang) themselves like in all aspects. 👌🏻 "This too shall pass." became my motto too this year. 😭

[@dessagee]

I wanna add to what Changsub once said in one of his Vlives, his like motto is: "It's only going to be hard NOW. It will pass"

[@asdfghjklz1228]

@@dessagee ahh yes i remember that. twas so pure and true to life experience. relatable and comforting 💙

[@keiuy8342]

💙💙💙

[@pearlrebello6475]

BM: Everyone sucks at sucking it up Peniel & Ashley: giggling in a corner Me: "Dirty Mind" how can I think about it so quick

[@agustinavega1998]

I think, like BM said, that having a role model can be a heavy influence but also don't having it can be too. Cause when you see everyday the things that you don't want for your life, you get smarter, you know what to do and what not. Not having a role model can teach you things too, at least that's how I grew up in the right direction

[@娜娜雅]

“Everybody suck at sucking it up, but we still gotta try it “ 🥺🤟

[@juanitagutierrez402]

BM is one of my role models right now. He works really hard on his music and with a lot of love and passion, and constantly tries to bring out a good message through his music and actions. Even though I’m not in the field of music I hope I can do that in my professional and personal life. Plus, he reminds of always being grateful of what I have and not what I lack☺️still thanks to the three of you helping out with this podcast in this difficult time 😷✌🏻

[@diLusinam]

Who said that spoiling your child will only make them fail their life? Look at peniel...

[@schmokehng]

I actually think it doesn’t apply to everybody. Peniel is one of a kind and one of the most wholesome person I’ve seen so far. But other spoiled kids grew up to be a bonafide a-holes. I guess there’s just a certain amount of spoiling and also disciplining to help a child grow up just fine.

[@TheRukuta]

This three together are something very special! From the first podcast they became my favorites. GET REAL is a podcast that I genuinely enjoy and click on because listening to this three is an absolute pleasure! 💚

[@laitaulait]

And Ashley is one of my role models because she has such a big heart and the sweetest personality. Watching her vlogs of living adulthood is really inspiring too! I just wish to give her a hug one day ❤️ love you guys!

[@pie1990]

Peniel was so energetic this ep and really cool guy

[@auroramarixx]

Ashley: *compliments peniel* Peniel: s.u.r.e (: I am so much like peniel whenever someone compliments me AHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@ourlove9159]

I honestly feel like BTOB's Hyunsik is a role model to me these days although he's same age as me. Because he seems to know a lot of things, he's very understanding because he feels a lot of emotions like he absorb it. At individual level, to me he's very successful, with or without BTOB. He's not chasing material things and cool just like Peniel. Hyunsik off-camera sometimes do appears in front of camera. He feels down, nervous, excited, and all just like us. He speaks through his eyes and body language more than his words. I don't feel like seeing him as a celebrity, that makes me more easily to get influenced by Hyunsik. So I think he's like a best friend who gives you great influence. That's why I kinda looked up at him because I feel like I need to work hard but take it easy at the same times. Looking at him doing his jobs pushing me to strive harder to be at his level.

[@mariechinks]

Peniel and BM are the type of guy that any decent woman would wanna marry.

[@dowonlee9518]

Guys btob 4u are having a comeback on music bank nextweek! Lets support peniel and his members!! 💙🤙🏻😎

[@keiuy8342]

💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@mitch1085]

"This too shall pass" good to know that Peniel and I have something in common.

[@diahalukita2871]

Is BM wearing batik shirt? Danggg, looks great on him...

[@prachiv1234]

Who is the angel?....Peniel is the angel...💙🥰

[@aneisap7517]

Just patiently waiting on the Stray Kids part... I'm happy there's someone like BM to talk with.

[@princessconsuelabanana-ham2480]

love how they summed up adulting as: just sucking it up alexa play aint in fun by paramore

[@MrSuperjam789]

25:42 Peniel quoting Rihanna's "Work" and Ashley smiling while she's explaining her answer had me cracking up.😂

[@sehriniazi2176]

my role model in kpop idol is got7 youngjae he is so competitive his training time was only 7 month...bcz he is main vocalist of got7 he was not really into dance but in just 7 or 5 mouth he become as good as others ....he is so hardworking....he have sunshine personality and angel always care about others😇🤗

[@qstrjd]

My top 5 reasons why Ashley is my role model: 1) nice af 2) fashionista 3) languages queen 4) hard worker 5) talented person There's so more, but to simplify. Ash, you're role model of so many people, just believe & trust in yourself !

[@qstrjd]

oh shoot, they wanted something explicit lmaoooo, sorry im just finishing the episode so im hearing it now.

[@rebootalbum9479]

I'm gonna be so sad when Ashley officially outgrows her bangs, she looks too damn good with them TT

[@Kristo9x]

Since you guys have started this podcast, I have really looked up to all three of you. You guys make me want to be a better person and focus on positivity and spread positivity. Thank you for sharing your struggles and guidance. ❤️

[@XCornelia14]

I love how sometimes Matthew gets the point a bit later on and his laugh just resonates through the room! :D

[@ayyoisaac]

Pls invite jay to this show! I know he's gonna be on kpop daebak, but I want him and BM to interact so bad haha

[@diorteez8405]

as a 20 year old struggling to step into adulthood after watching ashley's adulting series it has inspired me A LOT, i was very "afraid" of independence but after watching her vlogs i now feel excited for this new chapter in my life, i also fell in love with her music and her personality, so i can say that i'm proud to have her as one of my role models ♡

[@shirleyvs]

No lie, Ashley genuinely feels like an older sister, especially in her KZbin channel. The whole adulting series feels like a FaceTime call with my role model & just knowing everything she has been through helps me stay motivated :’) Love you Ashley!!!

[@rubberduckie3298]

The point, that 3 of my role models are talking about role models 👁👄👁

[@munggi9999]

Everyone sucks at sucking it up, BUT you still try - Big Matthew

[@kiponee3057]

Ashley you’re a role model bc you left your family and worked your ass off to become an idol. Like moving, living, and thriving in another country is so hard and something I can only dream of

[@MissSapphireBlueELF]

Awww. I love this episode. Ashley is such a cinnamon roll and Peniel and BM made me laugh so much. Love you guys!

[@regulusluna]

I’d love to see an episode about friendship and how it’s important to choose your family because not everyone has to be blood related to be considered family. A guest could be Sammy from The Rose!! 💚

[@asmitagupta1527]

BM keeps mentioning him in so many of his stories. It would be great to have him on the show

[@sans3775]

i don't know if it would make them feel better, but fans feel down after concerts too, some even call them post-concert depression or something. i think it's the way how a whole bunch of people come together to celebrate and enjoy music, each other, their relationship and just have fun ! so when you come down from that high and realise that it's going to be hard to feel that high again, it gets you down and you miss all that

[@josephjlzt8662]

36 minutes is too short when its the only thing you look forward to the whole week haha😝😝😝 Always love listening to you guys, gives me some sort of sanity.

[@loisjadedotimas6709]

Peniel the best boy. I wanna thank his parents for raising him.

[@Ivy-pi8bs]

Peniel is the life guru we need

[@donyconjux1]

One good thing about bad or meh times is it makes you appreciate the good times more. One bad thing about good times is that it's not going to last and that's a great reminder to cherish it while it lasts. I'm paraphrasing this from different role models and it's from both Stoic and Buddhist philosophy :) Thanks everyone!

[@jefcergos]

Big Matthew becoming even more official to me with that Jay Park shout out as a Role model. Respect!

[@trusha9]

I've been a fan since day 1 and everyday I'll wish for NCT Johnny to come on the show one day 🥺

[@priyankabanka2714]

YES PLEASE

[@helenakage]

YES WILL BE LITTT

[@MuqaddasQutbi]

It'll be lovely to know johnny fron Chicago

[@alzbeta2967]

That would be awesome, but I don't think SM would ever allow this. Chan and Felix have bigger chance with JYP allowing them to go there than Johnny have with SM. They usually try to keep their artists away from such an "informal and chill" interviews and talk shows.

[@vilanbon3341]

@@alzbeta2967 so true unfortunately

[@AniMin82]

Role models can go both ways. What I mean is, when you see a kid do kid stuff, and as an adult you realize you forgot how to be that open/carefree/passionate, and you realize you want to be more like that again. I'm 38 and this happens to me a lot now.

[@JK-go1ut]

Peniel said he was spoiled but I see it differently. I think he just was raised in a very care-free environment with not much pressure but with love. If he was so spoiled I think he would’ve been much greedier and ignorant. He’s not like that. And I’m jealous. I can’t wait to live my life on my own.

[@chains1436]

Ahhhhh BM come backkk to the new season 😭...the combo of u 3 is just amazingg I am just bingewatching all of the episodes 😍

[@haley7808]

Hi this is kinda late but do you know what happened is he taking a break?

[@jiramae1688]

they're having him as a gueeessst!

[@jiramae1688]

nothing so serious, he just wanted to focus more on music and his sched is kinda full so if he's still a host and just be there once in a while... ykwim... sad, the chemistry between peniel, ash and bm is sooo good but junny is getting better anyway and he's really relateable too (especially to the genz side)

[@kc_ch]

damn, I can't even imagine being an extremely introverted person and be a public figure...how do some idols deal :(

[@triz8399]

a lot of big artist are introverted like Beyoncé, Ed Sheeran, Britney Spears, Meryl Streep... anyway being introverted is not the same as shyness, of course you can be introverted and shy, but introversion just means that you will feel more drained energetically when around many people, excessive lights and sounds and will need more rest to "recharge" yourself. It's probably more difficult if you a solo singer, thankfully in a group (as in life) always have this extroverted member to get the attention and set the mood ^^ p.s.: I'm a introverted person too

[@kc_ch]

@@triz8399 i'm also introverted, so i can relate. always thankful for those extroverted friends that will set the mood most def :)

[@leilani2258]

My role models growing up and still to this day are my 3 siblings. I'm currently in my mid-20's and they are roughly 10 - 15 years older than me and have always be there for me for advice and guidance. I got really lucky, because I feel like I got 3 amazing siblings who helped ground me and build good morals and standards in my life. My oldest brother is always there to have deep conversations about life. My sister has always influenced me by her lifestyle and following in her loving and caring footsteps. And my 3rd oldest brother has always told me the cold truth but always out of love which helped me handle any type of critic in this life. Forever grateful, love you guys! 🥰

[@adelepenguin13]

I think the word Peniel was looking for is “impressionable”. 😅 also, am I the only one who is always like 🥺 when I see Ashley look at Peniel?

[@aaas6906]

not me having a dive studios podcasts marathon at 2:30 am, while studying 😗✌️

[@camilla9422]

I cant study and listen to them Lmao😂 Id be learning about the kidney and the next moment Id have the book down and me making hand motions and mouthing a reply as if we were having a actual convo😂😂

[@pencarihidup9119]

Dear Peniel, I always said to everyone and maybe to you and other BTOB members that you're all my role models. I don't want to burden you all with the responsibility that you're have to always do something good. Because I like you as a person, as a human being so I (maybe other fans too) would understand if you're do some mistake because that's what made all of us as human. I think fans who are more already mature can filter what's a good things that we can learn from you or a bad things that we shouldn't learn from you. So just being you, because we love you💙

[@minadahae]

I love to hear when you guys talked about idol life..cause there is so many things that people dont know.. how good and how bad the idol life is.. now at least we knew a little bit..

[@kiiu550]

I really love the talk of 3 combinations of Peniel, Ashley, and BM in GetReal !

[@geekdiggy]

i'm so charmed by how ashley's bangs go **doink doink** every time she blinks😍😍😍

[@ShamblesNRambles]

32:50 the post concert depression goes both ways I see, thank you guys for shedding light in this bc I've always been curious

[@TheReviewHuman]

Y'all are my role models ❤️❤️ I really appreciate hearing your perspectives on all these different topics. I'm glad you're making these podcasts 😊

[@christianshoalin244]

_I feel like we all learned it the hard way that just because our world stops, doesn't mean theirs too._

[@Mieklet]

so interesting, the 33:25 part about the after effects of performing at a concert, even crazy events where fans pour their admiration... I remember lady gaga had the exact same sentiments, im sure a lot of performers in the entertainment business go through this!

[@svtsvt2297]

i went here to calm myself with all the news about the things happening in our country, the Philippines. thank you so much for this, it really did made me feel less anxious. love you all and take care always everyone in dive!

[@33Jenesis]

My role model is myself because I make progress and positive changes every year. I wasn’t born perfect but as soon as I became more introspective, I started working on becoming an age appropriated better version. Age and life stage affect a person big time therefore it is better not to get stuck with old goals or past glory.

[@awdesn3096]

this is really one of my favourite if not favourite podcasts! i really love the feeling of its just some pals sitting down to have important discussions you dont usually get from idols! please keep them coming!!

[@pnlsprkls]

Peniel is a babie

[@melodysami2694]

Tbh one of my role models is BTOB members. Why? Because I found that I have similar values, the way of thinking like them. I love them not just as artist but as human being too. Maybe I don't know "the real version" about them but still I can learn. So I like to explore abouth them and learn, not just from their arts but message or anything that i can learn from their interview, etc. That's why I want to say thank you to Dive Studio bcs of you I can learn more from Peniel💙 and BM + Ashley too!

[@sumaya9123]

Everytime BM speaks about 2PAC or Jcole I fw the mans harderrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. He knows who the real musicians are & were (r.i.p 2PAC). I swear this podcast is my fav podcast. I study whilst listening to it and I realise I finished all my notessss. Thank you thank you for keeping it reall

[@jessicabadere530]

Lol I JUST finished listening to this on Spotify 😂 time to listen again, Round 2 w/ visuals lesgoo.

[@LaughCryKLife]

Me every week

[@LaughCryKLife]

I am older than all 3 of you. Here's why people look up to each of you. Peniel- You are so centered. You let no one and nothing throw you off your game. You genuinely represent yourself at all times. Asley- You are raw and honest about your journey. It's beautiful to watch you grow up and for people also growing up it's probably so empowering to see someone re-inventing themself. BM- Your spirit transcends. You are beautiful on the outside but the reason people "see" you is because you bring your full self to every moment.

[@kaylasoriano2086]

would love to see jay park on the dive podcast, seems like it would be really exciting!

[@sadako7864]

My role model is Hwasa 🖤 Her confidence, change in korean standards, and lyric make me feel inspired! I’m growing up seeing all these Instagram influencers (all beautiful) but nothing inspires me other than “trying to be perfect”. Hwasa has made believe in myself & love my flaws!

[@aishwarya3420]

One of my favorite podcast/show ever!! They are so honest and I can listen to them for hours!! I love how BM looks up to Jay Park and is always showing love and respect for him, i hope to see a collaboration between BM and Jay Park someday!! Jay Park has inspired so many people including me ❤️

[@sharonlee4295]

My role model is Jenn Im & Joan Kim ❤️ They really give a positive vibes to me . .... and now i have another new role model ( favorite ) it’s you guys , Ashley , BM & peniel ! 🙌🏻 Thanks to this podcast #GetReal i get to know 3 of you guys a little more & i love you guys ❤️

[@theenaawwsomeness143]

My role model is Peniel! I love his mindset in how he views things in life. How he wants to just live a normal life and go along the flow. Whatever happens, happens. Idk, Peniel has been a WHOLE vibe lately! Love you BM and Ashley!

[@raedahalmarzooq2089]

It would be awesome if u invite jay park ,I need to see BM & jay interact

[@holaola4879]

Peniel, u r my role model

[@catchthesedreams92]

that username of that one responder tho😂 VIVI justice gang....😂 that has to be an orbit

[@lismatamrkar1953]

9:14 Was that aegyo from Peniel?

[@adrianav5534]

Role models are so important when you're a kid, that's why I think representation is important.

[@meganlim9759]

Is it me or does Ashley look like Wheein sometimes

[@AnnisaMaharani-]

I'M KJSHSAHGG ASHLEY'S NEW HAIR IS BOMB

[@starflight921]

for real she do be rocking it

[@AnnisaMaharani-]

@@starflight921 ikrrr 😭😭

[@beehah7633]

Ashley is really inspiring for me.The way she socialise with her friends & having for me a healthy lifestyle. Like she knows how to take care of herself & when i watched her vlog it felt really amazing & really adult like. Because im in the same age with her but she just so mature not like me. Btw i didn't realise that i like this kind of show or podcast. Really refreshing & it seems like im learning how to be an adult. Love you guys & keep going🥰.

[@katycrawford8101]

the fact that stray kids is brought up in like every dive episode but have never been on

[@kasaaa_]

Getting to know you guys through this get real sessions make you a role model to us so yah just keep being you

[@laitaulait]

I’ve just finished binge watching all of the episodes, that’s the best podcast ever 🥺❤️