Who Pays On Dates When You're Pansexual? • In The Closet

[@ajaxbird2348]

I think that whoever asks the other person on the date should pay. Unless you both agree beforehand to split it.

[@hannikuh]

Yeah I agree :)

[@nathaniel2026]

No cause it is always expected that the man asks.

[@jemma-joon]

true

[@fern4520]

That makes sense

[@ajaxbird2348]

KaceytronPussyDestroyer9000 Well said you could agree to both pay.. Why do you care so much?

[@itssyogirlg6454]

One day they are gonna use Jen as click bait 😂

[@maritapungas5540]

They already do😂😂😂

[@mariareneevargascontreras9234]

They do,once i clicked on it because Jen was in the thumbnail, and then she appeared for like 2 sec

[@sruthidinesh3173]

they already do lol

[@Insomnia.radio11]

No one gets mad at a Jen click bait she's to cute...

[@scapes5548]

What do you guys mean "already do"?XD

[@dopeypluimstra3757]

I'm a simple person. I see Jen in the tumbnail, I click. I watch it, I click on like. I rewatch it like 100 times, then I wait for another video with Jen in it.

[@cuntflakes6225]

How original.

[@nickcar13]

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[@irrelevant22]

Never seen that comment before..

[@dopeypluimstra3757]

Glinting Being sarcastic, I asume :') ? ♥️

[@dopeypluimstra3757]

Vizeax PvP I don't want to be a top comment. There is nothing in that for me. I am just saying the truth, and yes I am simple like that (Maybe a bit weird to) ^_^

[@nolongeractive2581]

"You are pansexual." Me: *screams of delight*

[@wilburnosoot2363]

Same

[@emily18474]

Actually me

[@emeraldruby966]

Same

[@Vuopia]

Meeeee

[@pupisuci]

*squeals in pansexual*

[@its.sarah1guess]

How To Get A Ton Of Views: 1. Put Jen in the thumbnail 2. Put another Jen in the thumbnail 3. Put another Jen in the thumbnail 4. Put another Jen in the thumbnail 5. JENS FOR DAYSSS ~~~~~ Have A Nice Day.

[@misspaintingwoman]

Jenception

[@kelseyleeves8514]

+Diamond Topia yes Jen and Eugene😂

[@tia8396]

+Diamond Topia YASSSS!!!

[@callienewberg7773]

and Eugene

[@kingshowofbabylon2503]

The person who should pay is the person who asked the person out.

[@sera7272]

Totally

[@CommonJ676]

People say that, but that rationally doesn't make any sense at all.

[@jalunabohler9172]

EXACTLY

[@shelby7540]

Just pay for your own, and once you establish a strong connection pay for eachother. Or, if there's a noticeable discrepancy in income for both+ parties, communicate about it. It's difficult to say the person who asks the other out should pay because most situations go like: Person 1: We should hang some time! Person 2: For sure! Let's do a movie. So, who pays when both are contributing to the date plan?

[@ebbandflowph]

I'm old school like this, but I agree. Especially when you're dating someone and it's still new, and you're the one who offered to do [x] thing.

[@kaybabiiiithesecond]

I'm a simple woman. I see Jen, I click.

[@mina7422]

I must be a simple woman too

[@irrelevant22]

wow! what an original comment!

[@luddan9498]

+Glinting the sarcasm is stabbing me . Hard

[@kaybabiiiithesecond]

+Glinting thanks bro 😊

[@kaybabiiiithesecond]

+4567a I really appreciate the compliment 🙊

[@linny3012]

we need an asexual in the closet

[@melonsoda123]

I am not one, but I've been expressing my wish for more asexual representation in one of these videos.

[@daylynnwilliam20]

omfg yes

[@ufobunni7150]

phan yass

[@artichokez3270]

im asexual and you guys are correct, we're still a joke while trans etc. is becoming accepted.

[@Teenbabz1995]

I may not be Asexual but I totally agree with you all.

[@deborahjames7090]

Any pansexual representation feels so refreshing cause I'm tired of feeling alone in this LGBTQ community

[@ameliorated]

Are we ignoring the swallowed a goldfish thing?

[@EleanoreS]

I want a whole vid on that ASAP

[@ameliorated]

me too

[@trinityhamlin5275]

I think we're better off if we don't ask questions 😂

[@ameliorated]

weird

[@chinita2463]

Yes Pansexual pride!! Thumbs up if you're pan!

[@rickicrook7334]

I am pansexual and pride:)

[@heartshaker3889]

I'm Pansexual! :D

[@faz4999]

Pan and areomatic!

[@rosebud1669]

Pansexuals! *WOOT WOOT!*

[@Liz-di9yg]

170 pansexuals out here who saw the comment this is good

[@baileyswink4111]

soooo many people will often say that pansexuality isn't real and that it's the same thing as bisexuality. think about it like this 1--------10 see that? 1 is completely female and 10 is completely male. Everything in between is people who don't consider themselves completely feminine or masculine, they're just not completely to one side. Bisexuals like people who are either 1 or 10. Pansexuals like people who are 1, 10, and everything between (including agender people who aren't even on the spectrum but they still definitely count)

[@CosmicEpiphany]

Well whenever bisexual was defined the entire human race was under the umbrella of male or female. So Pan is really just a modernization of bisexual.

[@cyeram]

BaileyIsPresent omg that is so tru. That's a really good way to think about it. I feel like ppl think pansexuals are just bisexual but it's more than that. We just love everyone for who they are no matter the gender. I like someone who is a giraffe. (If anybody gets who that is cuz they are pretty popular I will love you forever) 😂💜.

[@ryleesmith3855]

Tactical Bacon there is more gender identities than male and female, thanks. #pansexualsquad

[@rosebud1669]

Well said, mah dood. 😤✌🏻

[@tanya-do8kc]

YES I hate it when someone says pan is the same as bi, they may be similar, but NOT THE SAME

[@TooTiredToCare100]

See, I'm pansexual. I once went on a date when a transgirl who'd just come out, and we were kind of talking about the tab. She basically said that she was raised as a man, so she felt obligated to pick up the check, even though she Identified as a girl, which really sucks that it's kind of the norm, because in the end, I don't think parents realize that their children won't be carbon copies of what they raised them to be.

[@EleanoreS]

I think the person that asks the other out should pay

[@joru8673]

+

[@livying1386]

Agreed

[@sarasides2223]

And if you aren't paying don't get a expensive meal

[@goatbot9733]

Why? Why not just split the bill?

[@natashanajam3499]

unless the date is going horribly and you realize that your date is a total obnoxious arse in which case you order the most expensive plate , eat it excuse yourself to the bathroom and then run away

[@lindsayenrique]

I'm pan too ^ - ^ i find all genders or lack thereof beautiful

[@awestning4317]

just say bisexual m8

[@lindsayenrique]

Pan/Bi same thing imo, used interchangeably

[@gabrielav7892]

Awestning we're not bisexual m8

[@Sarah-hu1ev]

Clear from California is pan and bi the same thing ?? I'm bi btw

[@shortstack2085]

Sarah De Martin No like she was saying in the video bi means 2 people who are bi like girls and boys pan means all so a person who is pan doesn't care what you identify as and just likes you

[@jaspermeadowlark9614]

FFIINNAALLYY SIMONE ELSE WHO'S PAN!

[@melissafaye6126]

Simone (sorry)

[@Monkeyslayer316]

No

[@its.sarah1guess]

I'm bi. I don't know anybody who's pan. sorry

[@emilymerckx9620]

+Raspberry_Pi_961 Eyy I'm bi too!

[@laoiseryan1490]

Sameeeee

[@angiejch]

A VIDEO WITH JEN THAT IS PANSEXUALITY RELATED WHAAATTT YEEEESSSSS I'M PAN AAAAAA

[@mokko759]

The way I see it, whomever asks for the date should pay but if the other person wants to at least contribute or split it, that's cool too.

[@blacklez]

Same

[@athrash5136]

What pronouns does chocolate use? Her/she!

[@allispoon1804]

this is gold

[@imdun8355]

Omg.

[@stterneherz]

not in german

[@RC-de3vy]

+INBLOOM I think you misunderstood. They're not literally talking about the pronouns. Her/She (say it at the same time) sounds like the chocolate brand Hershey. It's a pun :)

[@pastelpepe]

+Daniela Urie Ya^^^

[@mariaisabelrojas1818]

My grade 2 and 3 teacher along with my grade 4 teacher were both women. The grade 2 and 3 teacher she got married to someone when I was in gade 3. She would always say "oh I love them so much" and would always use "them". Same with my grade 4 teacher. Later on found out they both married women. 😂🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦

[@Bhawna03]

Did they possibly married each other? lol

[@mariaisabelrojas1818]

+Bhawna03 lol no I met my grade 4 teachers wife 😂

[@quakelovestoplay5193]

Lol I always say them instead of girlfriend and I say I'm dating instead of I have a girlfriend 😂

[@IJustBrokeSomeMetal]

aww thats sorta sad cause they cant say how they feel

[@mariaisabelrojas1818]

+IJustBrokeSomeMetal True but I think it would be fine now. It was more than 10 years ago that I was in their class

[@jasmine-dz3kb]

I thought jen was wearing karen's shirt but cut up

[@canarysyd]

Woop woop a fellow Pansexual.

[@김남준내아기다]

i love "In the Closet" i think it is a great idea of talking about LGBT+ Jen is genius and cute

[@StrawberryShortyy]

all my pansexuals raise them hands!! 🖐🏻

[@vanillapretzelover]

Scary Cat Ky 🙋

[@myahernandez6449]

Scary Cat Ky 🙋

[@bluestory6997]

🙋‍♂️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️🙋‍♂️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♂️

[@womp3571]

*awkwardly raises hand in the air*

[@ashi_fy1202]

raises hand

[@GreenTea_98]

a fellow 🍳

[@emily-kk2vs]

Pan Sexual? Because same

[@lucybennett406]

Same

[@annikasalomonsson2264]

+Canyoujustshutup same

[@Catrilo]

Same

[@laurynelizz__]

I am an egg

[@robertbrookes2000]

Still waiting for a heterosexual to appear on the show. 🕐🕑🕒🕓🕔🕕🕖🕗🕘🕙🕚🕛

[@mochabarbie3739]

+Katie O its a joke bitch😛❗💀

[@bowiechick]

+Olivia Chambers you're white.

[@non-7150]

^^

[@mnaii6343]

why? its literally called "in the closet" you cant find heterosexual people in any other buzzfeed series. gtfo

[@itme9135]

its called in the closet tho

[@nerdcentral1530]

I'M PANSEXUAL I FEEL REPRESENTED

[@Minibug123]

I love how confident and open about this topic they are.

[@moragsharf3572]

Jen is so beautiful I just can't

[@Oka.Hashininakaya]

YE PANSEXUAL POWER! 0:56

[@teaganp964]

aye fam :D

[@teaganp964]

+Noah Tablit what for? instead of wasting your time telling us to kill ourselves, go and live your life. I have my life and you have yours :)

[@Oka.Hashininakaya]

+Noah Tablit wow your obviously a ball of sunshine

[@ryleesmith3855]

LGBT FAM!!

[@ryleesmith3855]

Noah Tablit why?? Instead of hating on pan people, how about go figure out your sexuality, realize your pan, and then apologize. Joke lol.

[@madanium]

does Jen realize how many people would be willing to drop their life and marry her on the spot?

[@chaoticcanadiancosplay3171]

“ no it was on purpose “ I NEED THE STORY NOW!

[@nataluxx7312]

My girlfriend and I split it all the time, or if we go to the movies and she buys the tickets I buy the food.

[@EleanoreS]

I like that arrangement for the movies, I'm gonna remember that

[@nataluxx7312]

Thanks captain obvious.

[@nataluxx7312]

***** and that's relevant because...?

[@nataluxx7312]

***** I have 3.

[@AlexGaffney96]

My boyfriend and I do the same at the cinema! I buy the tickets, he buys the food & drinks! Same if we go out for dinner and drinks. He'll pay for the meal and I'll pay for the drinks afterwards! I think it's the fairest way of doing it!

[@garyjaycat]

I think that whoever requests the date should pay for the date. And if women want to request a date, they shouldn't be looked down on. I'm glad that more people are accepting of women asking men out on dates, but there are still many places where women are not allowed to do this, so hopefully this will change in the near future :)

[@katherinelyons4489]

Aw yes finally pansexual stuff

[@lucumu8518]

Split the cheque. If the person whose asked on the date commits to going, then they should be willing to pay for themselves. Also, some guys may think that the girl owes him something if he pays for her. And from a guy's point of view, if a girl was to initiate a date, I would feel weird if she intended to pay for me at the end, so just to avoid awkward confusion.....both people should just look after themselves.

[@saphrodite1]

They left the closet? THIS IS NOT WHAT I SIGNED UP FOR.

[@drcrow5767]

Bisexual: sexual attraction to men and women Pansexual: sexual attraction to men, women, trans, other genders etc and often attracted to personalities regardless of other factors

[@lulur6817]

Jen: you are pansexual Me: *smug smile because lol guys it's a thing*

[@cryptidofthemarshes1680]

This is the best series that has ever existed on youtube

[@noelbennett375]

Why did the car seem to have the drivers seat on the right?????? Is it just the camera flipped the image what's going on?

[@songbirdsystem1465]

I'm pan and I don't see a lot of pan videos so this makes me really happy!

[@EmazingNana]

If you are on a date you should always offer to pay and not expect the other person to always pay, even if they asked you on the date.

[@EmazingNana]

At least offer to pay your part.. I don't think one person should always pay.

[@carlymartin1230]

I'm so proud of you for coming out of the closet. I support you and all your decisions❤️ *lol when they went to the car and said "we are leaving the closet"*

[@nnd_077]

I AM A SIMPLE GIRL, I SEE PANSEXUAL AND I CLICK THE VIDEO AND INSTANTLY LIKE IT!

[@ShelbyDevaud]

I'll usually offer to split or simply pick up the tab, regardless of whether I'm going out with a guy or a girl. I've had a few guys feel a bit strange about it, but I'd just say that they could pay next time if they wanted. And eventually, they'd just trust me and stop trying so hard, which makes a relationship more real. I've never had an issue with splitting the total when I'm on a date with a woman though.

[@rogerruiz699]

huh iam pan and my BF is bi so who payss!!!!....wait we're both broke, ...lol

[@kristyproductionstm5138]

when jen looks to the side to look at Karen her hair makes her look like a unicorn xD

[@isaaa7304]

Petition for more in the closet with Jen videos please

[@DelsonGirl]

Best In the Closet yet. The intro was so cute.

[@matildasmither-winslow6618]

there is literally one video about pansexual its that buzzfeed has produced.

[@miahkroker4039]

I know some people who hate the concept of Pansexual and it's annoying like oml ugh

[@thehyperberry]

I honestly thought Karen was Jen's sister... Don't they look kinda alike? I don't mean that in a racist way, but I honestly think their face shapes and eyes kinda look alike ^^

[@debbyek5294]

+Maia Foster me tooo!!

[@kimnorris8581]

+Jennifer Ruggirello You are awesome 👍

[@Regene4239]

hmmmm...I don't see it.

[@mishanovak2460]

Their smile in the thumbnail was almost identical to Jen's!!Thought they had to be related lol

[@whyisgamora4191]

I don't think they lookalike. But how on earth would that be racist?

[@theadraghici2960]

This is my favourite buzzfeed series

[@scottdelgado3820]

so it's okay for either one to propose to the other?

[@EleanoreS]

It's okay for either to propose to the other in a straight relationship too

[@Jennifer-hs8uz]

Totally but Eleanore S is right too.

[@scottdelgado3820]

Eleanore S oh yeah, that's right.

[@scottdelgado3820]

haruno21 you're right. I forgot about that. Sorry

[@EleanoreS]

***** why? Women can do whatever they want. It's not weird, it's normal

[@sruthidinesh3173]

niki awkwardly throwing up a peace sign is my entire aesthetic

[@luvshiei]

Jen is the Jennifer Lawrence of Buzzfeed

[@shanew2150]

That reaction to Niki getting the ball in the cup was priceless lol

[@jasmynw4945]

Karen seems pretty cool, I like her.

[@MahaBenjelloun]

i'm a simple person. i see Jen i press like and watch ♡

[@katiemartin6991]

In The Closet Bisexual video: *defines bisexuality as pansexuality* ( "It's when you like your gender and other genders"). In The Closet Pansexual video: *defines pansexuality as bisexuality* ( "You date men and women.") Me, an open pansexual: *growls and face palms* This is why pansexuality is seen as a hipster thing.

[@revertever]

Karen did mention she dates men, women and "everyone else in-between". kzbin.info/www/bejne/mZqqoKSEnsyHjqcm4s

[@hunterfrazier8938]

You have no idea how happy I was when the heard the clicking of Kendama! I love Kendama and BUZZFEED!

[@pikachu5814]

I live in a closet and have a crush on my straight friend rip

[@EleanoreS]

Oh good lord...bless this child!!! They have fallen for...a straight 😦😦😦

[@elisecutforth8789]

Oh that's really sad :( good luck!

[@goatbot9733]

Then move into a bedroom if you live in a closet

[@gracedavis9354]

Wait. People. Think. Maybe this person is straight too and has fallen for their dude/ lady friend. XD

[@sristiganguly4858]

May you get over it soon. My glitter particles will always be with you to save you from the pain * pats back empathetically *

[@leof4165]

Sees Jen *immediately clicks video

[@itzamelia9776]

Jen Is Like The Bæ Of All Bæs I Love Her So Much Why Can't She Be In All The Vids - BUZZFEED JEN NEEDS TO BE IN EVERY VIDEO

[@itzamelia9776]

I Immediately Like The Video When Jens In It

[@daphnav]

That byeeee in the end from Jen made my day

[@kristinagrayson5031]

Woah all Buzzfeeds videos were good taday!

[@seamusrudolph7665]

This show is awesome! Keep up the good work!

[@agent00beauty21]

YAS JEN AND NIKI

[@FearWithinWonderland]

I love the fact that you all have someone representing someone in the Pansexual community is nice, thank you. Also, Karen and Jenn are super cute. I would love to see Karen more, please bring her back.

[@shaywannabe6186]

IM PANSEXUAL

[@SARAHizROCKIN]

"16 year old me, if I had known this--probably wouldn't have done anything" lol same Jen

[@jazebmahmood6308]

I'm new why does everyone like jen

[@faidiefak]

She's just awesome. In an awkward cute way

[@StevenRoseQuartzz]

she's one of the most relatable buzzfeed members and she's cute

[@abbeycollings]

BECAUSE SHE IS JEN

[@alexangeloni9786]

but why wouldn't you like jen🤔

[@keviunur.8089]

Cuz Jen

[@Fiona_Co]

In the Closet is seriously my favorite buzz feed series

[@navreetsidhu411]

I love Jen!

[@olivierblais-turcotte2841]

TV commercial announcer: Hey, kids of America, it's hand-painted, wooden Ball in a Cup! Who needs constant electronic video stimulation when there's Ball in a Cup, Mexico's favorite toy for over 340 years! Toss the ball, catch it in the cup, dump it out of the cup, toss it, and catch it in the cup again. The ball is on a string and attached to the cup, so there's no worry if you don't catch the ball in the cup, and clean-up is as easy as catching a ball in a cup! So why spend another day not catching a ball in a cup when you could be catching a ball in a cup? Kids: Ball in a Cup, Ball in a Cup, it's a Ball in a Cup! Boy: Ball in a Cup! Kids: Ball in a Cup!

[@lenniegray3086]

Who else watching actually IS pansexual?

[@vanillapretzelover]

Logan Elizabeth Me😊

[@intergalacticspacequeer]

me

[@ronanturner219]

Jen is my favorite member of buzzfeed she's the coolest 😂

[@nadiasurujdin3484]

When all the comments are about Jen but I'm here for Karen...

[@saydee6591]

I love how they were using a Kendama in the beginning 😂😂

[@kimberley5802]

Both of them always pay not just the male

[@bba3875]

Whoever asks the person on the date should pay

[@aaronmoise8261]

+Neon E. So in 90% of the cases the man

[@mangorumble2114]

+Neon E. no

[@leslie-abahambaptiste6602]

Almost all the time, the guy has to pay tho

[@CommonJ676]

+Leslie-Abham Baptiste If you can give a valid rational reason for that you might have a point, since there is non. You don't

[@elfishawol4506]

Who pays on a date for me depends on a lot of things. Who is better off financially, who insists more, who asks who on the date, how interested I am in the person (personally, if I find I am not interested in dating you during a date, I am NOT okay with you paying for me or me paying for you, man or woman. That is usually when I try to split the bill.). I am currently going on dates with a man 4 years older than me. He insists on paying and he's also better off financially. I am okay with him paying for me because of this, but make him let me pay for our dates every now and then so that it is fair. As long as you are not mooching off the other person, It shouldn't matter who pays, as long as you find a balance that works between the two of you.

[@Bhawna03]

WAIT NICKY IS GAY??

[@brendonorzechowski716]

Bi

[@emilywhite8954]

think she's bi, I know she has a girlfriend

[@iliketuttles2712]

+Emily Grace White I think in a video she said she was gay

[@emilywhite8954]

+i like tuttles ah OK haha, wasn't really sure Lol x

[@libertyhemming9360]

+Xx Simply Pineapples xX pansexual

[@Kylarsonabcdefg]

What a coincidence my name is Karen and I'm pan 😂

[@roxyt7897]

Buzzfeed needs to make a "Jen reads KZbin comments" video

[@mayaharbert6554]

In the closet: car chronicles ✨

[@samanthachang6290]

I love this series so much 💕

[@unicornnaxor2245]

I m a simple girl. I saw Jen's name and then I click it, I m here.

[@AznBarbieStick]

I don't think actions should be defined by gender norms or expectations. You're more masculine? Who cares, doesn't mean you have to fulfill male norms. You're more feminine? Doesn't mean you have to be submissive. People should break these societal expectations.

[@lucygrainger7067]

Saw Jen on the thumbnail and that's the only reason I clicked 😂

[@anakinb]

I'm here for Jen, a good video is just a plus

[@tiaraschwarze-taufiq2319]

Unless the bill is split or each person pays for their own food, I'd say whoever asked the other person out pays for the date because when you ask someone out, you're asking for their time.

[@chillcloud3339]

Jen is like, my favorite person in buzzfeed

[@kichains1824]

And it posted on my birthday, thank you Jen

[@caitlinhano1000]

has anyone noticed that jen has worn that shirt for like three of the ''in the closet'' videos hahahahaahahha

[@lannyplume4369]

I love jen!!!! she's so relatable

[@asvoria7626]

I just can't wait for videos with Tan and Jen

[@elizabethkaplan7782]

who ever asked to go on the date should pay, once youre in the relationship, you and your partner can figure out a system

[@oliviasharp129]

I spent all of this video staring at Jen's collar bone and thinking about how she needs to be my wife.

[@camillehenley5238]

finally, a video for us pandas