Who TF Did I Marry

[@KingofReads]

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[@memoir02]

Stories like this make me feel grateful to be a single woman in her 30s. Peace is a beautiful thing

[@aceshouse3389]

You do know this happens to both men & women right 😂

[@mariametheexplorer]

Me too 😂

[@TeeKaeWilliams]

Yes chile!!💯

[@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely]

@@aceshouse3389I’ve NEVER met a man that got played all the way… EVER.

[@aceshouse3389]

@@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely so because you haven't met them means it doesn't happen 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@migabeth]

She went live and did a q&a: 1. She haven’t forgiven him or herself yet 2. She took full accountability and knew she was a damn fool lol 3. She said he use to pretend to log into his bank account and then would show her his phone (but it was actually just a screenshot of an account from Google) 4. She was able to go through his phone one night when he was sleep and found all the screenshots he kept showing as “proof” 5. She’s been in and out of therapy since this happened 6. She didn’t think/know her story would blow up! And she’s veryyyy overwhelmed with all the new attention/backlash from social media 7. She lost the baby in June but they didn’t get married until the following January. Only because she felt like she was sinning because they were “shacking” Tyler Perry could neverrrr give us a storyline like this 😂😂

[@yoso5934]

The truth is stranger than fiction 🥸

[@deb8911]

Yep! I just came from watching all 50 parts and the live 😂

[@ChuckysOveralls]

No, Tyler could never. He would make the dusty, lying forklift driver the good man somehow. And the heinz vp would exist in his struggle world, but bc he's rich and attractive, he'd be "bad" by default, and reesa would choose to mule with legion like a good solid woman lol

[@terrifaison509]

Thanks sis for the run down because I was unable to get through it😂

[@KC995-c2q]

I believe she knew her story would blow up. That’s why her first video is literally a disclaimer.

[@antoinettejohnson2188]

What got me was when she said "I thought it was my turn" 😢 i truly felt that. Shes an amazing storyteller im not done im on part 39.

[@DJ-wl9iw]

Exactly

[@drnstjhn]

why? she thought it was her turn to have a token husband. not the love of her dreams. it's very clear she went into this with the wrong mindset also. just cause she got burned don't make her a victim in my eyes

[@janaepatterson8486]

yess that part that’s why i think she deserves some more grace like she admitted soooo many times that she knows she was dumb and effed up but i thought she’s a great storyteller imo

[@BrittanyTiara]

Agreed! My heart hurt for her when she said that! 😢

[@shemillbrown0810]

Your selling yourself short for not finishing a t

[@keepingitkianatural]

Her being a fat black woman is the entire story. She fell for this because everyone has told her indirectly or otherwise that she is not worthy of protection and patriarchal financial support. I remember my father telling me " You think a man would take care of you?!" When I found just that, I felt like I had achieved something. I may be fat and black, but I am loved and cared for. I felt like being kept was my biggest middle finger. It took me a long time to decouple my self-esteem from masculine desire. Tragedy or not, it's a burning house, yall. You are the only person who can give you the worth you desire.

[@RipplesnWaves]

Amen! This girl did not have self worth because of her image and how she had been treated up to this point. So when she found someone who she felt was going to “fairytale” her . She was literally over the moon.

[@catmouse2882]

Is your husband Black?

[@emeraldchesnut]

@@catmouse2882😂😂😂

[@nicoleslade213]

I don't understand... Plain & simple lose weight to repel IGGAS thinking they could play you... People only treat FAT PEOPLE like he did...let me correct myself... Only overweight women that ache to be with a man. I feel her pain, but damn !!!❤

[@ritaeiu1]

Yep! And it probably went, "you betta get dat good man girl!" Which is sad!

[@speakingtruth9924]

Nobody forced y’all to watch her videos. I appreciated the long detailed parts, sometimes trauma makes you remember minute details. Most people just played it as an audio book and went about their business.

[@AnnaDreadcone]

Very true, absolutely no part of the series could just simply be summarized and that is just the form in which she could tell the story

[@urban_wire_media_network]

Exactly!

[@KamBB-gu3pv]

Right, how you mad her trauma isn’t entertaining and convenient enough

[@MissTeaJay]

Baby, I LOVED the details. She is out here saving lives! There are women(and men) living through this type of crazy (or worse) right now, b/c they ignored the "United Nations of Red Flags.

[@Southern.Nappiness]

Yes! I love to read and so I didn't mind.😊😊

[@1980Isek]

She said it was 9k in one and 15k in another but they were screenshots

[@oneparent0219]

Okay I wasn't trippin...

[@BeautyNBrains86]

Right. It was still a Fat Faizon lie! Lol!!

[@ivyleaguelovely]

Thank you!

[@You_TroII]

He probably fell asleep on that part cuz child it was loooong story 😂

[@myae9563]

She definitely did

[@RUNWAYBEAUTY]

Legion is a demon…that’s why she called him that 🤭

[@kaysammy6730]

What movie is that from? Is that will smith

[@RUNWAYBEAUTY]

@@kaysammy6730 I can’t remember lol

[@kaysammy6730]

@@RUNWAYBEAUTY legion is actually the name of the movie. I just googled it. 😂 It was a demon.

[@kaysammy6730]

It makes sense now. I was wondering how she pick that name out of all names

[@remnantone9586]

Legion is a multitude of demons biblically... Mark 5:1-20 ..Chile she made me need therapy after listening 😂

[@Camille4Real]

It's simple: Reesa wanted a man. The point of her sharing was cautionary for other people. The lesson: if you ignore the red flags you will suffer, so please follow your instincts! Reesa said this in part one, lol. She called out her own mistakes while telling the story. BUT when she kept talking herself out of his BS and making excuses, I was yelling at my phone though 🤣 Like "Girl! Nooooo!"

[@Hadjjjj]

Exactly! And because of her age, she felt pressured to get married and because she was pregnant. She also let religion pressure her into marriage as well.

[@cinnamonstar808]

She believes in too much Fairytales❤ just look at all the cities she want to bust in Europe They are in EVERY ROMANCE 💝 movies 🍿. Reese looks like she watches waaaay yyy. too much “Walt Disney Presents…”

[@islandgirl8067]

Legion is 🚮🗑️ but she admitted that her desperation for marriage caused her to overlook his lies. She grew up on public assistance & was living from paycheck to paycheck, so I think she was impressed by him paying the bills & buying a fancy house & luxury car.

[@drnstjhn]

exactly. she not a victim and idk why people feel that way. play stupids games with stupid prizes

[@amysmith8043]

she is ??? y’all think this man falsifying documents, lying, impregnating this woman, making her go through a miscarriage alone, and destroying her mental health is normal ????

[@carrington2949]

She is a victim. Have you ever lived with a white girl or went to school with one, especially in the south? They are raised believing a man should not even be a candidate unless he is a provider. Black women just got the f’ed up end of the stick when it comes to their counterparts. Providers are the exception, so yes in That manner they have to be careful.

[@PureNapture]

@@drnstjhnshe is and this mentality is also the problem in the community. The Lack of empathy is disgusting.

[@drnstjhn]

@@PureNapture empathetic over what? this lady never said she was in love with this man. EVER. she saw a man and some imaginary dollars. and got y'all wrapped around her finger

[@dearisrhymes6426]

A lot of ppl struggled with keeping up with the story because we are living in a generation that doesn’t read or research. Instead, we want everything fed to us quickly because we have so much other content to consume. I study literature & there was a time Charles Dickens released parts of one book little by little. People during that time waited on it because their attention span was better. I think this is a larger conversation we need to have. How much are we consuming and why can’t we sit through 10 min detailed videos?

[@mobanks1573]

Social media has really messed up attention spans of both children and adults …. I read and research alot too so I had no problems following … but it’s scary im how quickly people lose interest these days 😮

[@blackedout1990]

Well said. I'm actually surprised to come to this side of KZbin and find there were people that were annoyed. Most other people I know of were hooked to the story regardless of how many parts were there.

[@sjor3569]

@@mobanks1573yep. This is so true. I think the only reason I’m not completely gone is because I read a lot l. Otherwise my attention span would’ve been cooked.

[@loviaroberts293]

Yes I agree. This is why I still read books! I actually enjoyed listening to her

[@antoinettejohnson2188]

Initially i didnt want to sit down for the 1st hr but i was sucked in within minutes i stuck it out so worth it 😊

[@kiashaw]

I liked how she told her story. She was very detailed with all of it and it was all crazy.

[@sibzism]

Maybe it's for some people and not others because I LOVED her storytelling! In fact, that's what I came for 😂😂

[@lashundrashinell]

She set it up perfectly. I enjoyed her story telling. Details and all

[@shawnmatthews9594]

The way Reesa Teesa told the story was just fine. I followed and it perfectly done.

[@pinkpetals601]

I was too thru when she moved in with him after 2 weeks!! Like really, she lucky to still have her life. It could have turned out worse.

[@phyllis718]

Girl when I tell you I paused the video and me and my husband started cackling like no hell she didn't 😂😂😂

[@pinkpetals601]

@@phyllis718 baby she was the biggest fool!!

[@kiashaw]

Yea because it ain't no way I'm quarantining with someone I just met in the middle of a pandemic!!! They could have kept talking on the phone and visiting each other

[@ed-0364]

@@kiashawexactly

[@thatgirlkells5505]

I'm convinced she has some type of STD/STI.

[@dotdot_8003]

This explains why I ask a million in one questions and get to searching them up online. Once the math ain’t mathing I let it be known.

[@BtycanimationsYT]

Idc what NOBODY says, I go through phones too! If I wasn’t that type I would have caught an STD, but that text msg I saw made me check the medicine cabinet and boom there was the pills

[@Garglemymayo]

​@@BtycanimationsYTwow 🙏🏽

[@whywyatt376]

@@BtycanimationsYTi hope you know KoR has hiv

[@thatgirlkells5505]

​@@BtycanimationsYTLord Have Mercy!!!!

[@aceshouse3389]

​@niyahjordan6901 yeah but going through someone phone who you just met is wild

[@jadehines4269]

She miscarried before they got married. Months went on and she knew he was lying but she still married him in the beginning of the new year.

[@adams8830]

She was desperate. She said that.

[@jadehines4269]

@@adams8830 she stated other reasons but it’s just crazy how desperation allows this type of person to enter your life.

[@carrington2949]

Biological clock.

[@ed-0364]

That was her sign to leave and run, not get married. 🏃‍♀️ 🏃‍♀️

[@ed-0364]

@@carrington2949plus she can work at a daycare to test the waters, you can’t be that desperate. Parenting is hard work, very hardwork. I babysat too too long. 😊

[@MegaBrownie19]

She covered up for his lie after finding out the house was sold and still moved on with him and got married. The red flag was a tsunami!!!

[@latanyamccray50]

Snapple facts 🤌

[@Alwaysgotsum102say]

She was the red flag

[@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely]

I hollered laughing 😂

[@kia.203]

That's when my compassion for her dwindled tbh. Sis was assisting in them lies like an alley hoop 😂

[@Goddess_Isis]

I'm screaming!!!! What in the Tyler Perry Tik Tok JK Tyler Perry couldn't be this creative if he tried!!!! 😂😂😂😂babay! Thank You 😊

[@757Princess]

I was about to say… when does he have good story lines?! 😂

[@HaintblueRee]

😫🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@themissingink444]

NOT IN HIS WILDEST DREAMS! He needs to go on and come out the pocket and pay REAL WRITERS for his shows and stop gripping the coins so tight

[@Naeema311]

I personally LOVED the way she provided all the detail and gave the many short form pieces so we can string it together. I feel like her 50 parts was some of the “OMG what is happening” that folks had as it unfolded. Maybe you had to be there the day she was recorded. I thought holding folks attention for that long in this short attention span economy was historic. Not sure that’s ever been done before and I wanna see more if it

[@satisfakskion]

Don't get me wrong if she wants to share her story and make 51 parts of it cool, but uh Tubi done stole it and she basically done sold her rights for $5 because they in the business of remaking it right now as we speak.

[@sadenoya2906]

Actually it’s 90k she made and counting 💅🏾

[@livewell-xt5xr]

​@@sadenoya2906 that's good

[@Jamietheroadrunner]

I’m gonna wait for the Disney musical

[@stephanie6676]

​@@Jamietheroadrunner 💀💀💀

[@757Princess]

@@sadenoya2906 wow! I’m glad she was compensated for her time. I’m sure she would prefer not to go thru that but it’s something better than just words

[@ValerieAbena]

I thought there were too many details at first but it worked 🤷🏿‍♀️ We can say we don’t need to hear everything but she still got millions of views and a following

[@adams8830]

I can see why she added all the details. People try to poke holes in stories all the time or act like someone purposely left something out of the story.

[@kiashaw]

I liked having all the details

[@cwill2285]

She saw the red flags, she willfully ignored them .

[@19GENESE13]

This wasn't Christianity... this was desperation & insecurity. She had 8 million read flags within the 1st week of talking to him. She wanted a wealthy man & that IG relationship BADLY

[@bunchielove6893]

Nope. Her Christian beliefs shamed her into marrying him because she felt convicted "shacking up".

[@drnstjhn]

@@bunchielove6893both of y'all are right actually. it doesn't have to be one or the other

[@Opbabyyx]

@@drnstjhnfrr

[@biscuitoffme]

She said it herself that she wasn’t obedient and wanted to do what she wanted to do. Her tire blew out was the first sign.

[@drnstjhn]

@@biscuitoffme yet she also thought she was being obedient by marrying him

[@gwendolynb1]

She did say that the checking account showed a little over $9600. I think that was the Chase account. But he would not show the off shore account. That was the account that she found out was a screen shot off of google images.

[@j_bubblez279]

That was a fake screenshot

[@shelocsher2396]

Reesa Teesa is an amazing story teller. Myself and so many others were glued to that 50pt story time. I was listening to it like an audiobook lol. My favorite thing about it is how she took accountability for her naiveté, desperation, and overall poor decision making. I hope this is a start of new and prosperous lane for her. Go, Teesa!!

[@tyrreloneal5178]

12:34 hate to be "that guy", but we're still IN a pandemic; it never ended! The danger still looms over us...

[@Mrsqueen876]

Which you say the same for chicken pox or the flu? Or is it different?

[@SunnySecular]

Exactly..a lot of us who work at the airport STILL mask up! Watching these people show you exactly how nasty a lot of them are.😑

[@tigerlilly9038]

Thank you!!!

[@tigerlilly9038]

​@@Mrsqueen876 *DIFFERENT* is that enough for you? VERY DIFFERENT

[@Ayesha_Michelle]

It’s definitely a discussion to talk about because she was with him for a year and her family didn’t know all of the foolishness she was dealing with. But I’m sure they had questions they didn’t ask. It also speaks to the societal pressures we put on everyone to live up to getting married and having kids and living the “American dream”. Her story is a lot of people’s stories yet it keeps happening. People right now with “partners” they well know are lying to them because it looks good and it doesn’t hurt bad enough to deal with the assumption that the relationship failed❤

[@tarab.5421]

She mentioned seeing 2 of his “accounts” one had 9k the other maybe 20k or something like that--he used screenshots from Google--I think she was just happy she didn’t have to pay bills and nearly sold her damn soul over it.

[@niax782]

I remember this too. He *did* show her, but they turned out to be screenshots. And, he pretended to be logging in.

[@tarab.5421]

@@niax782 yep!

[@lamikiminach9503]

The part I never got over is how she MOVED IN with him after 2 weeks… I get it was Covid but I’m maybe thinking about planning a second date at week 2 not shacking up together

[@drnstjhn]

desperation

[@denisedixon1579]

He moved in with her ok.

[@crystalcastillo7575]

@@denisedixon1579 and she allowed it, so the point still stands dumbo

[@greenbyrd3665]

He moved in with her because she was an easy target. This man was a predator. She was an obese black woman and he was a tall, nice looking man. All he had to do was love bomb her for a few days and he was in. It worked.

[@TheJessEffect]

I for one enjoyed how she told the story! She explained everything in detail and if you watched it from she posted the first video it was an easier watch than if you jumped on the bag wagon after it was all posted! There were no follow up questions really needed because she addressed everything in detail.

[@sakiolu1]

Been waiting for someone to summarize because I’m not watching alldat.

[@megmeg1686]

😂😂😂😂😂🙋🏾‍♀️

[@antoinettejohnson2188]

Its pretty good

[@legenaSmorhers]

I fell asleep on it😂

[@deehillard]

It was very slow. I had to watch it at 2x speed

[@d.nicolesmith7130]

Just start at video 30

[@DJ-wl9iw]

The marrying him AFTER she had already seen so many red flags is what I’ll never understand.

[@memoir02]

Alot of people have this mindset that the men will somehow change or get better with marriage smh

[@Ash-zf8ir]

I married someone, the red flags were smacking me in the face and I still went through with it.

[@aceshouse3389]

​@memoir02 thats not just men thats people in general

[@lilir3m390]

1. Religion - She felt bad because they were living together without being married. 2. Before the marriage, there were redflags but she said she couldn’t believe that he could lie to that extent. Especially because he was paying for everything and she ´saw’ the ´paper’. After the marriage, it’s when she started unveiling all the lies, the cheating and all. Also, he totally change after.

[@BlackberryTitties]

@@aceshouse3389🥱🥱🥱

[@lalac7207]

I'm glad she shared her story as a cautionary tale. Legion is nothing but a demon fr cause lawd. I'm not gonna lie I was hella invested. But I'm glad she too accountability for her part. But that legion...omg! Even his own family doesn't mess with him and that says alooooot. This was just as good as some of the urban books on audible

[@killlamas57]

I love your content and all but I didn’t like how you said she should’ve told the story more succinct. I get your frustration bc 50+ parts is a lot, but it’s her story and she’s telling it her way. She deserves that much after everything she’s been through. She didn’t have to tell us at all. And like you said, she was partly talking to herself so I say, let her have her little 50 part series. I think it felt good for her to get it off her chest.

[@killlamas57]

Again, not trying to be hateful or criticize you

[@BrittanyTiara]

‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

[@onlyerikkaaa]

I thought she did well I was invested throughout the entire story she’s an amazing storyteller she should be writing shows and or books

[@FutureFriendsEvents]

You can't tell someone how to tell THEIR OWN STORY!

[@BrittanyTiara]

‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️ she told it her way and got coin from it too

[@Clover_868]

Lets be honest if she was skinny and based off of society standards "desirable", yall would be having all types of sympathy. Plenty of women have felt desperate for a relationship. She probably dealt with things alot of women probably have concerning a ain't ish man but just don't want to admit.🙄

[@kash_leahxd9756]

Exactly! her being fat is why everyone thinks she went through all that mess and not just because she had a self esteem problem. I’m guessing if she was skinny then what would everyone say 😂 I guess smaller women never been a fool, okay lol!!! I known several that been a fool but they get grace

[@marygreen8151]

First of all you’re my favorite King of Reads!!! I have watched the entire series… So much of what she was going through I went through!!! But for me when after around the 5th red flag I left.I felt everything she went through! I know how it is to want to believe a person but your gut instinct knows that they’re lying! I really loved that man but I knew either I was going to hurt him or him me!!! I’m glad she shared her story hopefully it will help someone else… Praying for you Tessa🙏🏾

[@Karena_Karena]

I give her some grace. I truly believe had the pandemic not happened she wouldn’t have ended up with him the way she did. We were all scared and not knowing what the quarantine would look like. She didn’t want to be home alone. COVID really did a number on us and those effects have set to really be seen. I truly enjoyed her storytelling. She spoke clearly which I really appreciated. Also, she did talk about seeing dollar amounts in the “accounts”. The only ones she didn’t see what the offshore and the USAA account.

[@ThePhilosophicalInsomniac]

She did not and would not have been at her home alone! No one was locked in their homes being watched one of the MIBs watching them. That’s the excuse she’s using to justify shacking up with this man she didn’t actually even know

[@adrienneconner5744]

Thank you!!! She CHOSE to accept the lie knowing it was a lie bc she wanted to get out of riverdale. Had it been a case of not finding the truth until months or years later, she found out within the first month. We have to stop hoping for fairytales and desperate to be chosen

[@ValerieAbena]

That was the point of her telling the story. She admits all of this

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

Duh she literally admits this DID YOU NOT WATCH!!?? She KNOWS she has a lot of responsibility for this.

[@jadehines4269]

Yaaaasss I knew you had to speak on this!

[@madii319]

I can relate to her because I was married to someone for 10 years who lied in so many increments that I ignored the 🚩 🚩🚩for “love” but this man took it to the MOON 🤣 Listen to his behaviors made me believe he is schizophrenic 🤷🏾‍♀️😩

[@moonlitegamer]

Offshore accounts and proof of funds need to be some merch!😂

[@antoinettejohnson2188]

Ikr

[@roses4me451]

Don't forget he said he was an "Arena football player". (Trying to fool her he was in the pros) They only make $18.76 per hour in the U.S. 2024) Chiiile! The only time he wasn't lying was when his lips stopped moving. All of this could have been avoided if she did a background check on him first.

[@Skhaisdalimit]

I’m waiting on the “Cash Offer” merch myself 😂

[@Liiinda4]

Her getting pregnant by a man she didn’t even know for 3 months is a huge red flag. People actually do this?!

[@jojobrown2504]

Some people get pregnant quickly and it works out . But yeah..3 months is wild

[@Liiinda4]

Some people play Russian Roulette and it works out too, doesn’t make it any less crazy to me.

[@EternityxForever]

It's not out the ordinary. Some people get pregnant after one night stands, so 3 months is believable especially if it was an accidental pregnancy.

[@badbxtchbritt960]

i did after 3 months 🥴 real clown shhh

[@dionna6360]

That wasn't Spirit that was her doing what she wanted to do because she allowed desperation make decisions for her

[@Lin10uson]

11:55mins. - "You did not see because you did not wish to see" (John 9:14).

[@thehyenamakeupslayer3819]

Exactly! She knew what it was.. she just didn't WANT to know that because it wasn't the reality she was hoping for! So .. she ignored it and pretended it wasn't what it was until she couldn't anymore 😞

[@Lin10uson]

I also agree with your latter point about 'short-' versus long-form content; so many people want to revert back to long-form content but do so in a gimmicky, short-form way that gets them more engagement across their channels. It makes me very disinterested when I would normally be very interested because I'm not invested enough in a random person to endure a 'to be continued...'. Like you said, this is not some syndicated series that reaches millions and is already established with the audience; this is a random person most of us don't know who has a story that may or may not be interesting enough to engage people. Now, it did engage enough people in her particular case, but a lot of people, like me, don't have the patience.

[@thatgirlkells5505]

Amen!!!!

[@KChenae]

There was a point when they were in marriage counseling and he “showed” her the bank accounts. She said one account had like $9500 and there was another account too he showed (turned out they were just screenshots). She asked him to show her the offshore accounts but he refused

[@latresemilton6729]

No Christians don't have to take this L. She's the only one. I've got common sense 😂 BUT I do feel for her for going through this. I'm glad she was able to make it out of it.

[@natalieshepp641]

Religion has done a number on black women. And yes we need to wake TF up!!

[@imanicunningham5965]

@@natalieshepp641religion or any ideology that’s misinterpreted has done a number on people across the world. What’s your point to include solely black women?

[@ischakaharris1850]

Right 💯cause that’s a completely unfair comparison imo🤷🏽‍♀️

[@bigelowkaryn]

I agree. We not taking this one, plenty of nonChristians go through this

[@ljackson24]

@@imanicunningham5965Bc our experience in the Black church is different from other women in church. It was pointed out bc it’s different. Have you not noticed?

[@amysmith8043]

making fun of this woman’s pain when she herself ADMITTED she was desperate for a man out of her own insecurity is so low. she took accountability! the man is WRONG.

[@BK-tj4fw]

She shouldn’t have told the story! The public can do whatever they want

[@EternityxForever]

@amysmith8043 💯

[@thefemalefuture1]

@@BK-tj4fwlmao and so can we

[@harriyanna]

yoooooo this lowkey the new zola story 😭

[@Kitty.Everything]

You are missing so many details and explanations she gave, she told us the amount that was in his checking and savings account.. she told us the excuse he gave on why he was living in a studio and why he was driving the car he was driving.. did you even watch/ listen to her story?😂

[@christianab429]

He’s complaining she gave too many details and he didn’t even pay attention to the details that she did give 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@hannaha4823]

My mom always says that religion does not take the place of common sense. A lot of people use religion as an excuse for not using common sense or paying attention to red flags. Yes marriage is important in Christianity but not at the deferment of your sanity. God is not the author of suffering.

[@malxpd]

Cynthia G always talked about things like this, too bad her channel got plucked from KZbin

[@adams8830]

She's still on patreon, but you're right, this is exactly what cynthia talked about. This desperation to be married.

[@sandidy]

Oh so that's why I don't get her suggested anymore. What happened?

[@thatgirlkells5505]

I miss her so much!!!!

[@DawnWilsonVideos]

Nah, she wasn’t dedicated to being a Christian. She felt convicted because of how she was raised but moving in with someone after two weeks is not dedicated to your faith. She owned her mistakes but it wasn’t due to her being a Christian. That’s an insecure issue that’s pushed on many women as we age and are not married or have children.

[@sage-luxe1198]

Right? She remembered she was Christian when she got pregnant lol

[@kia.203]

Exactly. Thanks for saying this because sis, even though she claimed Christianity, she wasn't living that way. She shacked up with this man, got pregnant by this man, and still continued to live like that for a whole year, before she got married. I honestly wish she kept God out of it, because God was nowhere in the midst of that. I feel like saying" im a Christian ", is the fallback to justify behavior/decisions that isn't logical, and its annoying at this point. She should have just said " I wanted live-in D, I was desperate, therefore, I allowed myself to play the fool for this man ", without the mention of religion. Because even when she found out all this was a lie, it wasn't until she saw evidence of him cheating with peaches , that she was ready to file for divorce. I was aggravated

[@andreasmith3638]

It’s a good thing God is a forgiving God bcuz listening to the two of you…most BW are on their way to hell…. Including the two of you!! Grace and mercy ladies geez!

[@DawnWilsonVideos]

@@sage-luxe1198 that part!

[@DawnWilsonVideos]

@@kia.203 Very well put!!

[@bigelowkaryn]

I’m not taking this as a Christian 😂. If she was “living as a Christian”, then she would have never been living with him and getting married without counseling. I wish her the best and she can truly have the life she wants and people she can trust

[@adams8830]

She had to repeat things a bunch of times because i hate to say it but sometimes the viewers can be a little slow so the creator has to remind them of things a bunch of times. For example, people keep saying she stayed because she was desperate and paid all the bills like this is some of groundbreaking observation: she literally said this a many times throughout the series. Next, I don't blame her giving the side stories and extra details. Commenters always try to poke holes in peoples stories.

[@drnstjhn]

incorrect. she never said she stayed because of that. she made excuse after excuse. she said she stayed because she didn't want to look bad, she wanted to make her marriage work, etc. she never used to word "desperate". never said she stayed cause she was in love or anything. she wanted a token husband, he wanted someone easy to manipulate

[@adams8830]

@@drnstjhn A person wanting a token husband = DESPERATE. Next, she literally said several times that she was DESPERATE. Lastly, she said it didn't make her look good to admit it but he paid all the bills and it felt good so she wasn't leaving anyways. She wanted the luxury lifestyle she thought he was about to give her.

[@drnstjhn]

@@adams8830 i said she wanted a token husband. not her. and you're interpreting what she said as her being desperate. she never said it edit: either way, what does her admitted to it have to do with people acknowledging it?

[@ta9985]

@@drnstjhnlove how you didn’t watch it well enough to know what she said

[@realbrat40]

Y'all leave god out of this🤣he popped that tire on the first date and she still went on ahead, he gave her soooooo many signs and she still went on ahead, after about the 100th sign, I think he just got some popcorn and watched her go down a road she was never supposed to go down🤣I'm sorry I had to🤣🤣 but I honestly do wish the best for her.

[@antoinettejohnson2188]

I shouldn't be laughing but the popcorn comment had me on the floor 😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@leeleea4164]

I'm laughing at your comment because that's what I thought God was doing in giving her those signs. He just finally said, "Imma go sit in this corner and be quiet. You figure this mess out."

[@Aname87]

I’ve said for years “I don’t value marriage over a healthy relationship.” I always have to explain myself bc I’m often taken the wrong way at first. I always get told “nope i wanna be married.” And then i gotta be like “Wait hold up…I didn’t say I didn’t want to get married. I just want my relationship to be a good one.

[@RamboQuellz]

she keeps saying it was for religious reasons why she stayed, but I feel like she's just insecure and was happy that a man wanted to date her and possibly marry her period.

[@ThePhilosophicalInsomniac]

I believe you are definitely correct.

[@loxsannbraham8281]

I’m gonna disagree with the whole marvel universe sequel thing. I’m very grateful for the way she told the story because I was sat & entertained for a work day. One of my issue a lot of KZbinrs is that you can tell that they don’t write essays because they don’t know how to tell a story in a way that’s engaging and keeps you hooked.. y’all just be rambling. Some of us like a slow burn. 😊

[@nateedredhodge1615]

Knowing that the word "Legion" is always used to reference multiple/group of demons in the Bible (all though the word does mean many of or a group of); my mind would not allow me to process it any other way, and I would have ran away.

[@shoshannahupchurch8726]

Tyler Perry’s new tubi tik tok series 😂😂😂😂😂😂 not in the first few seconds a read

[@lillybilly9954]

I empathize. There are many people who have never lived in proximity to or worked around wealthy people. While some things are obvious to us, others don’t necessarily know how people live above upper middle class.

[@Ellepmarie]

Well, from the beginning you could tell that she just really wanted to be in a relationship , IN GENERAL. He was moving fast right out of the gate ( typical love bombing ) and she didn’t have the discipline or emotional control to slow it down. So, that already made her the “perfect victim.” She saw what she wanted to see until she didn’t want to see it anymore. Because everything she should have seen was right in front of her. It happens. Rose colored glasses are real. She admitted that in her own way. Better late than never because it definitely could have been worse. He’s clearly capable of making it worse

[@sandiebulysse3800]

No it’s not by religion, it’s by a natural longing she felt to be accepted and loved by a husband. Just like some woman want to be a mother.

[@ChosenGemInEye]

It's her story to tell. She can make it however long she wants. Either people are going listen or not.

[@MissGrandeko]

It's so funny how everybody I watch talk about this series has a different take and opinion (obviously lol). I was just watching another KZbinr talk about how Reesa is a good storyteller, and that she was really engaging. That being said, I couldn't get past the first 5 minutes because I'm personally burnt out from awful dating/marriage stories, but it's really cool seeing everyone rally around her and process this trauma with her.

[@msflygurl3760]

Let’s leave the Holy Spirit out of this. Ol girl wanted a man and didn’t pay attention to all the signs. Christians will not be taking an L for this, she will period point blank. Besides if we gone talk about what God said, then He also said “WATCH as well as pray” 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@candicemarie7012]

It’s Tyla P. Catching them strays in the beginning 🤣🤣🤣

[@jayfab4689]

😅😅😅

[@JalenTheCreative]

she needs to make this a movie. I would say a book, but we already know the story. better hit up lifetime lol

[@adams8830]

Yeah i wanna see this done up with dramatic music and an a-list cast.

[@thatgirlkells5505]

She is a great story teller. She may get offers from many different arenas. I hope she stays ready in case that happens!!!!

[@SummerShandy]

This wouldn't be new for Lifetime either. I've seen it there before too. Women have been getting bamboozled by these dudes and their lies.

[@DetroitHimawari]

The videos were perfect and the amount of detail was as well. I loved the way she told the story and I love that it was something I could listen to while working to pass the day. Thank you Reesa for telling it EXACTLY as you did.

[@DenitraRed]

She saw the accounts but later said he was showing her screenshots doing reverse image search.

[@lemonaidebey6190]

King coming out swinging! Loving it!

[@lisalove4183]

There are to many Scammers out here, Watch out Ladies and Gentlemen 😂💯

[@ChuckysOveralls]

I JUST watched that episode of SATC. I'm in the middle of rewatching the series. Again lol

[@Mrsqueen876]

What that satc

[@awanderfullifeblog]

I respect your take on it but I don't feel it was religion more than her desperation (ticking clock) and materialism/soft life mentality. What happened to her was a nightmare, but she talks about giving in more for things (house, BMW, area code) and this man vs faith... IMO

[@lemonaidebey6190]

Reesa says in one of the parts that she demanded he show her his accounts. He showed her checking n savings accounts but refused to show her the "offshore" account. He faked a call with a fake uncle( the uncle is actually gone) n the uncle told him never show his offshore acc to a woman. And he said his ex-wife saw all his accounts n tried to use it against him. That's a lie. And the checking n savings accounts were screenshots from Google. What he showed her I recall was like 10k in one n the other had 9600. I can't remember the exact numbers but something like that.

[@Riaalwayspretty]

As someone who too brought a home in 2021! I thought they wanted to dig up my deceased grandparents to make sure I was their grandchild!😭😭😭 t that process is literally a fine tooth comb! Legion need to be evaluated. She did admit she ignored the red flags but the way it just keep getting worse I would have to say AHT AHT something ain’t right.

[@tiamami6026]

I was waiting for this

[@peypeyyy96]

I believe this is why even though you feel like "nothing is wrong" with you you need to go to therapy. All these realizations she had AFTER the fact would have prevented her from dealing with this.

[@ashleychambers7922]

Bingo!

[@niax782]

IDK… I thought she was _very_ detailed. Sure, she speaks slowly but she also went in order.

[@slimthickjones1584]

Your car will warn u when to not meet a person also I really believe this,,😂her dam tire caught a flat right before their first date!!! 🤦🏽‍♀️she said she had so many red flags an that was the first one!!! Man she had me tuned in I'm on part 38🤣this is veery interesting im alll in 😂🥴

[@Roxie76]

Why can't we just respect everyone's belief or non belief 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@puddin640]

Her wanting to be loved desperately is what led her astray, not God or Christianity. She admits she was shown every sign and received the spirit and still decided to lean on her own understanding and rush Gods timing. I pray for her healing.

[@claudewashingtonkevinthoma6527]

I agree with everything that was said. The deal breaker was when he got sick . She left out the part that she had to start paying bills including that car note…so now the red flags are blaring…so now he’s getting on her nerves, so now she’s digging and confining the lies. she didn’t want to know because then her dreams of the house, husband & the BMW would be over. She played herself more than that man ever did.

[@ThePhilosophicalInsomniac]

YES!!!

[@bobcat8654]

Why are people overlooking how greedy she is

[@deb8911]

Baby I just watched it all AND the live! I was entertained to say the least 😂 as someone who was almost duped into similar foolery…I’m so glad I listened to my intuition

[@iAmLocGoddessK]

I actually enjoyed the way she told the story. I loved that I had something to listen to at work for almost two hours😅

[@tyaherndon9840]

I don’t believe her about him paying all the bills. It doesn’t add up with the rest of her story 😬

[@ivyleaguelovely]

She included all those details, yet you missed them. Also, you sound crazy policing the way she told HER story! There are so many people summarizing her videos. You were not forced to watch. It’s also low key heartless for you to say you don’t care, while simultaneously capitalizing off of her story/trauma. Remember that you’re talking about a person, who before telling her story was not an internet meme/celebrity before last week. I’ve been a long time sub, but this ain’t it.

[@PurelyPlush]

This is about the best comment I’ve seen and I 100% agree with you. ❤

[@a.c.n.9421]

My thoughts are, homegirl IS the red flag. Her unhealed childhood and ancestral traumas make her a red flag. Blame goes both ways.

[@WWJD-MIA]

Ding ding ding….bc mam you didn’t know him. 😫

[@mobanks1573]

Most people have unhealed childhood traumas… it’s usually subconscious…. Unfortunately it usually takes something horrible like this happening for people to realize their blind spots and weaknesses…. Then the healing comes …. I commend her for putting herself out there … I hope other young women can learn firm this … a lot of women routinely ignore red flags and hope for the best… Blessings

[@christieomojo]

I agree I feel a lot of women don't take ownership of the fact that they are acting desperate and trying to force a solution for finding a mate. That type of desperation is like a moth to a flame for these awful men.

[@loyaltyb71052]

He is trash but she is a participant not a victim and I feel this is going to come out to be yet another embellished story for the viral moment to gather those coins. Neither look sane by the eyes!

[@lalac7207]

That's why she took accountability through out the story for her part...

[@Jaetheeintrovert]

I believe she shared a generalized amount but not exact numbers. This story was insane. It was a nice reminder to be aware of red flags and why it’s important to be healed yourself before getting serious with a partner. but I am wishing her better this year ❤

[@Goddess_Isis]

I havent watched it. Im not. I cant. Id rather watch you for 20 minutes versus 50+ tiktoks. You are right. Its a gift to capture peoples attention

[@nicki...6938]

Me neither. I cannot bring myself to commit to this.

[@MiniM69]

Grift?

[@Make_it_Make_Scents]

Chile there are so many playlists on YT, it’s a good listen. The details (not discussed here) are alarming

[@Goddess_Isis]

@@Make_it_Make_Scents right after this I saw a SEVEN HOUR STICH!!!!! awe hell no. 7.5 hours double speed 3.75 hours. I will not commit 🤣🤣🤣

[@Goddess_Isis]

@@Make_it_Make_Scents just like she should've committed to that man 🤣🤣🤣 I'm sorry I couldn't help it 🤣🤣😩🫣

[@slayedbysym]

She said when he asked to open a joint account she wanted to discuss account balances. She showed him how much she had. He “logged in” to his bank accounts, showed her one account with 9k in it and another account with 15k in it. He refused to show her the “off shore account.” This caused a big argument between them, they went to therapy about it and she was unable to convince him to show her. This is what made her start to believe it didn’t exist. Because of this she refused to open the joint account since he didn’t want to be honest about his finances. She later found out the two accounts she saw were actually screenshots from Google

[@relaxitslife]

Not the Holy Ghost told her 🤣🤣🤣

[@home-818]

She said one account had $9200, the other i forget and the rest she said he refuses to show her. Turned out they were all screenshots from Google

[@JustSaying83022]

Perfect victim or not I promise you there are many more that would fall for it even after knowing this story. There are a lot of very lonely women out here. So sad

[@taylork7530]

Unrelated: we’re getting Normani and Flo’s debut albums this year!🥳

[@raeahthewriter8082]

"Christians y'all are cooked" took me out 😂

[@MakingNImpact4_CHANGE]

I ❤short version only. I'm like get to the point all the deets I don't have time for people go on and on and NEVER get to the point majority of time rambling.