Who Will Help You In Life ?

[@hemagarg9275]

OMG kaha se late h aap ye topic sir.last week se aapko suna back to back dekhti gyi it's so helpful or bilkul extraordinary. Thank you sir.

[@anjup7312]

Same here 👍🏽

[@bhagyashriverma6064]

True I also look forward videos from Sir. Its eye opening and give new perspective to see today's world

[@anjup7312]

@@motichaiwalekabaap3809 why u r using so harsh word's for him ... he is just sharing his life & career experiences.. he is not forcing anyone here .

[@pritigoel3257]

👍

[@sarveshdubey2737]

Correct hemaji

[@nilakshigoel729]

Bilkul sahi baat h sir.. mujhe to lagta h parents aur in laws bhi kaam ni aate wo bhi apni majboori dikha dete Hain .. kewal husband wife hi ek dusre ke kaam aate h but fir bhi husband ko wife pe bharosa nhi rehta

[@a2zuser1]

no friend or relative help only parents and you yourself can help. Sango is correct

[@omprakashkhandal2712]

Ur absolutely correct

[@pankajkamat9689]

Absolutely correct

[@milisingh3155]

Parents bhi nhi karte. Bhai behen bilkul nhi karte. Ladka ladki keShadi ke bad bye bye🤣🤣. Ony u and ur spouse. Dont waste time beyond the husband wife relations

[@a2zuser1]

@@milisingh3155 Aap ne meri aankh khol di Dhanyavaad

[@akshayuhj]

@@ashitmukherjee5934 who is sango?

[@saumyapunekar8625]

Well said , achieve anything in life without relative and friends otherwise you will keep suffering emotionally and they will exploit you throughout life 😊👍

[@jayasonkar5025]

True, but my family doesn't understand it, and I have wasted so much energy and time to make them do so. But now I just don't care

[@padmini1380]

Very true

[@oldschool4714]

True..very true. I am realising this concept very hard.

[@AMJ564]

The passport eg that sir gave is excellent. I got my passport within 3 weeks and the process was streamlined, simplified and easy filled the form on the website, went to PSK, police came for verification and got my passport mailed at my doorstep. Was incidentally having this discussion with one of my friends who is slightly orthodox and lives in rural and he too got his passport recently and was bragging how easy he got it because he has some connection in the Regional Passport office. I asked him how long it took and he said 4 weeks and it took only 2000 rs in cash 😂 And I thought to myself that would he be mad if I told him that I got it for cheaper and earlier with no Jugaad.

[@sandeshpandit5540]

🤣🤣

[@waqarmehdi4394]

Passport seva kendras are managed by TCS which is a private organisation hence the process was so smooth and hassle free. Try applying for a new aadhar card or voter id card, you will realise we are still stuck in old stone age with same old sluggish system in place.

[@sachinkumar-cq9ui]

@@waqarmehdi4394 exact observation , but its not because of private . it has other reasons.

[@waqarmehdi4394]

@@sachinkumar-cq9ui What are the other reasons? Just wanted to know.

[@ROHITRAWAT-ht6iu]

@@waqarmehdi4394 Can't say much about Aadhar Card but recently got my Voter ID, took me 13 days all in all. Also renewed my father's driving licence, it took exact 7 days from filling application to physical card get posted to my address.

[@rohitdhirania]

वाह सर मज़ा आ गया... ये सिखाने वाला कोई नहीं था... कोई इतना समझदार कैसे हो सकता हैं.... मे हैरान हूँ... जितनी तारीफ 🙏 करू कम हैं

[@carolinasharma5574]

Wow! My father was also very straight forward in telling that he cannot help anyone get a job but people took it personally :( I am glad he always stood his ground despite everything❤️

[@kik1139]

respect to your father

[@thehoneyvibes]

Absolutely well expressed. Forget about your buddies, who will rush to your aid in times of need; even close family members like uncle Chacha and mama won't assist you when you're in need.

[@jyotigupta2889]

jab jarurat padi to mere to parents hi kaam hi nahi aaye tabse hi sikh gaye ...thanks

[@posh5763]

Same experience 😊😅

[@amol9616113945]

Maa bap bhi muh pher liye

[@vijjulb6307]

badtameez kam karte waqt parents ka khyal na kiya hoga,,,, jab problems me phasse to parents yaad aagay......... tab ..phir parents ko jimmedar thaheradiya ..... wah ji wah.....kya khoob.... gair jimmedar bachho ko unke haal par chod dena hi sahi hai....

[@renujindgirai9940]

I think no friends no reletives only money is just like DETTOL it solves all problems

[@kazimayaan5892]

This is very true, i always had a great relationship with my mothers relatives, i used to never relate to relative memes, but last year my mother passed away at age of 43, everyone showed their real face, only people who even care about you is only your parents and not even immediate relatives, even only some from immediate relatives. Learnt this in a very harsh way.

[@padmini1380]

Yes then we see true colours

[@chetansood1178]

Like how they showed thier true face ?

[@sandeepsai4669]

My mother's sisters who always have taken help from us, doesn't want to host me for a single day at their home.

[@Ryzeanalysis]

I severely fell ill and was living all alone. I told my sister and hospitalised soon. Immediate family will work for you

[@beingbharat1969]

बढ़िया वीडियो है, सच है। 9,10,11,12 कक्षा के बच्चों को, डिग्री की बच्चों को बिजनेस के लिए, बडी नौकरी करने केलिए , practically kya सीखें, वे कैसे तैयार हो, कैसे स्टार्ट करें, पैसों का जुगाड कैसे करें... इस पर वीडियो करें।

[@ankurkumar7835]

Bilkul sahi baat hai aapki. Its better to keep a low profile and hustle in silence. Rishtedaar is other name of Gaslighters/Crabs. They have a crab mentality, if you prosper or look to prosper they will bring you down (directly or by manipulation). One should be capable enough to fix things by itself.

[@vibha-ff1ee]

True

[@AtulRaj-uz1rs]

Guruji aapke jaisa wisdom kisi youtuber k pass nhi h.banki youtuber ne sirf Chand bestseller books padh k gyaan dete h but aapne zindagi ko padha h insideout...n thank you sir apne wisdom ko hamare sath share krne k liye...god bless you sir

[@JaatDevta00001]

more than 4 saal hogaye hain muje, ghar walo ko samja samja k ye cheez, amazing video, now sharing to all, thanks a ton!

[@shonchaudhary]

💯 % right GuruJi ✅️ 👌 कोई काम नहीं आता। और जरूरत भी क्या है किसी की? कोई काम रुकता नहीं है। फालतू लोगों को अपने जीवन से निकाल दोगे तो बहुत शांति मिलेगी सच में।

[@careermining8404]

Perfect sir. You are absolutely correct. In the govt sector nobody have the absolute power. I am an govt officer and many people tell me to give employment but I am helpless. I can't do it. There is proper system through which recruitment is conducted wherein chances of corruption is very minimal. Even if any high level officer/minister do he takes a very big risk.

[@AmitMishra-wm3ph]

बिल्कुल सही कह रहे हैं आप .. मेरा भी ऐसा ही अनुभव है एकदम सच है ये ।।

[@sudhirgkulkarni]

Very true Sir , real life me only Family hi aayegi aakhir me..Even friends dont help without anythign in return only time makes us realise that !!

[@abharazdan8082]

सच कह रहे हैं । अपनी ज़िम्मेवारी ख़ुद ही लेना सही है …।

[@coderguy339]

Sirji aap bilkul great ho.... 😊 Dil se salute apko.... 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@samitadutta5730]

Yes you are right it is my own experience in life no one help except father n mother . Father and mother help till their end if life.if you say any of your problem infront of you they sympathetic but in reality they will enjoy your bad time. Have courageous and help yourself. That's it

[@reshu7860]

Humlog ke liye apko Allah ne banaya salah dene ke liye mashallah.. Bari positive energy aati hai.. .. Mughe to bahoot help milti hai... Main knitting karti hoon tab sunti hoon.. Kitchen main Kaam karti hoon tab sunti hoon

[@PavanKumar-jj3dp]

I am 40 now I experienced this.we have to lead our own race

[@dahliajaji9547]

Excellent vdo. We both were in transferable job. Postings in different places. Only my parents and on laws helped to look after children when we were in different cities. No senior officer helped us to get transfer together. We never socialized or kisi ka chatogiri kabhi nahi kiya

[@prathikbhat]

Sir, I am commenting first time on your video even though I was watching you from quite beginning. Talking about this one, I am 36 year old and got a very different life experience. According to me I completely disagree with first 10mins of the video saying "we need to help our parents and wife along with wife's parents. When I was completely distressed, I got the support from somewhere else who are not my blood relations. I got my own association(selfless) where I worked for someone unknown and they are extremely happy. I feel we need to help someone in need which is possible from your end irrespective of blood relations. Rest of the video is fine and I agree.

[@devika7938]

Yes same with me ...i too got help in my distress from other than my blood relation ...they helped in setting up new business and with their help i m doing very well now

[@crystal6350]

Naseeb

[@amitdivakar2113]

spiritually motivated people will help u as a human being without any materialistic conditions but hard to find those until you become like them.

[@prathikbhat]

@@amitdivakar2113 Nope, they I will call brother from another mother. I am not talking about donation here which I am not expecting either as I am self sufficient. Timely help during crisis is what it needs and for that trust is most important.

[@amitdivakar2113]

@@prathikbhat i will still say escaping from family isn't a way changing their mindset will prevent them causing more pain for themselves. you should have compassion for ignorant people which you think not supporting you actually they need your help and you're making your own way and leaving them in darkness once u will realise this you won't be able to sleep.

[@vishalpratap403]

Even some parents don't help at all. Just be yourself. You can help you the best. No one else, not even blood relations.

[@jayaprakashshukla9316]

You are telling the fact of life

[@tejigill8062]

Apke saath kya huya plz explain

[@AnkitKumar-kk3iw]

Right brother

[@aastha466]

I second

[@vinu-y7r]

Parents r also selfish sometimes but Noone dares to accept it

[@robbenchopra6473]

This video and gyan in it is absolutely correct word by word. My dog was critical in pet hospital last month, I had to literally stay there for 20 days, i couldnt even go to washroom sometimes for hours because i was all alone. I needed my friends especially people for whom i ve always been there to stand by me not for formality once or twice i expected them daily that was my expectation but god was i wrong. They didnt turn up even on r. It was my sister who slept with my at that pet hospital and consoled me when i cried not friends or any relative per say. Hats off to this video.

[@NA-vt6mz]

No one will come even if ur mother Is in hospital why will anyone come for a dog

[@GarudAtma]

well, in reality, when a friends stands with you then the friend start loosing his repsect and is taken as granted and get no return help over that

[@priyaanshumanbs8444]

Sir depression se nikaal Dia aapke videos ne....bhot bhot aabhhaar...Pranaam..having tears in my eyes

[@kuldeepsinghwani3293]

Very true, nobody is going to help ,, what ever sango says is true work on yourself 👍

[@lantherpagdi]

Aap ne aaj confirm kiya ke mai selfish nahi simplistic hu. Thanks.

[@bhagyashriverma6064]

100% true ... vo bolte hai na sukh k sab sathi dukh mai na koi. If I look back today only my parents, my siblings, my husband and money helped me in need. Baaki sab time pass hai jab samay accha hota hai to jud jaate hai jarurat aane pe bhaag jaate hai. Networking is total time waste and people who are actually helping you in life have taken so much granted and not getting what they truly deserve. They are most ignored in the family.

[@henieljain]

Ekdam sahi bole aap

[@sirishmosale]

Sir, I liked the way you deal with life. It's liberating from the copycat kind of bourgeois living. I had about 3 decades ago declared that if a wedding expense decides the fate of a whole family, we are not even educated, leave alone the wisdom part. In these times of materialism ruling, it is very important to understand and follow your advice. I'd also want to have a one to one discussion about decisions, if at all your time permits.. Thanks a lot

[@deepakdhamija4425]

Amazing Content! Very much relatable! Those who have experienced life for 35-40 years can easily understand the concepts you have explained in the various videos on your channel are very practical and the bitter truth of life. The earlier one understands them, the better it is for them! Thank you for making such videos!

[@rakshasingh4408]

१००%सच है।और ये बात समझने के लिए अनुभव करने का इंतज़ार न करें..मान लें।

[@saurabhhgarg81]

amit sir bahut valid and relevant talk ... much appreciated we waste a lot of time in unnecessary relationships which ends up in frustration. thanks for the wonderful content. your videos are very liberating

[@Jhamuraa]

Sir ji aapki videos ke liye ek new playlist banadi hai life lessons karke ekdum mast chize batate hi im 22 no friends and in college now i know what to focus my energy on thanks

[@aspirewisdom]

Sir, in one of your videos titled "Curse of being a good boy" you mentioned that a mother gets more inclined to that child of her who doesn't say anything and acts according to her, in short jo vehla baitha h.. kisi kaam ka nahi hai. phir bhi..(Please go and see that video if anyone doesn't relates to the statement) So if that's the case and the situation is "Elder brother is not taking any responsibility even then mother is like..Mera pyara beta. (with all due respect)".. Then how can a person expect that his/her mother or siblings are going to help him in need because he is the only one to whom others look up when they are in need but he never gets any support from them when he asks for. Situations like these makes me believe that even parents and siblings also don't help because they themselves are dependent on you. Least you can expect is from your wife, if she stays with you for the rest of your life. In worst-case scenario, you are alone, you yourself are the help to you, no one else.

[@aspirewisdom]

People must become practical these days. It is needed. but everyone is happy in staying entangled & later complaints that his/her life has become suffocating.

[@Terahydron]

@@aspirewisdom prepare for the worst, expect the best. If you keep things about the world you will go crazy

[@bhavyasehgal4851]

Very correct. Even my husband says the same that one should become self reliant and do things by ones own efforts coz since everything is coming fully online its easier now. 100% agree with you. 👍🏻

[@ritikaachoudhary8222]

Very true now days people r becoming fools in expecting nobody even people who r directly link with blood relation don't help only members who r living under single floor ie nuclear family helps each other rest even in blood relation uses u in prevailing free service

[@reshamgupta24]

Sir aapke video k krn duniyadari jaise ghar baithe hi sikhne mil ja rha h Thank you sir

[@sourabh3540]

Haryanvi touch is coming slowly slowly sir 😁🙌Deadly Combination (Hindi+English+Haryanvi) Love from CM City Karnal (HR05) Haryana..जय हरयाणा जय भारत 🚩🚩

[@santoshbhatt8629]

aap ke vedio bahut practical hote h jo kehne ke sabke bas ki baat nahi.thanks

[@08prateek110]

Guruji tussi great ho! Sahi baat ko sahi kehna bahut rare ho gya hai. You are leading the way sir.

[@jaihind1304]

I’m addicted to your videos ❤and learning great things about life 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 aapko koti koti pranam guru ji 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@KalpanaKumari-tp9xz]

Sir ji, bilkul sahi ....Lesson learnt. Thank U. I been thru such incidents so many times. But in my case it's role reversal. Me being of a helping nature PPL tk advantage of me then leave me like a used tissue.

[@sharadahire5415]

बिलकुल सही. सर. वो गंदे चादर वाला सर्किट हाऊस का उदाहरणं भी सही है.

[@Sysयोग]

12:50 उद्धरे आत्मना आत्मानं नात्मानमवसादयेत्। आत्मैव ह्यात्मनो बन्धुरात्मैव रिपुरात्मनः।। #Gita 6.5।।

[@varunikulkarni1754]

Very true sir! Itni transparency dekh kar bohot achcha laga.Pls bring more videos like this.

[@simranjeet7427]

I wish Aapke jaise bade sabke ghar me hote .

[@bharatideore3101]

Very much true , Sir ji ......as always you explained all the key points in such a manner that everyone will understand....and why we humans are so....we have to change along with the changing times.....and also one point is that, if someone wants to help you, he will help you in any situation...

[@Chottus2611]

Sir, you have at the very right time told me this precious message.. Thank you so much 🙏

[@girishnagwekar7124]

The world today needs a strong/mean mentality to survive... Yahaan sabki haalat ek jaise hi hein.. Khudi ko ker buland... Baaki jo hona hein woh toh hoke rahenga.. with regards. Excellent topic.

[@latamange1883]

Bahot dil toda hai sabne .jarurat padne par yaad karte the .ab dekhna bhi manjoor nai .

[@sudiptabrahma2631]

Excellent advice Sir. God help those who help themselves.

[@kaushik947]

Great

[@waterbearernaturalhealer8920]

Aap bahut hi clear hain Or real bhi India me sabhi fantasy me raheten hai Reality ke kisi dur

[@kreative_artistrybyketaki]

its absolutely correct ! Ek kahavat hai ki Agar aap Balwan ho to jindai acchi hai.

[@joannav982]

Bilkul sahi keh rahe ho...kisi ke haath me kuch nahi h...aur agar hai bhi toh apke liye kyu karega...socho

[@sjc4836]

Immediate help is always from husband/wife...so Pls..understand and maintain this relationship..then comes..parents if they are young,then children..then bros siso ..

[@Sunil-xv8tj]

No one helps when in need. I have experienced this multiple times.

[@shankarshanchoudhury585]

Sir, Aapka baat 100 percent sahi hai 🙏🙏

[@AnuragSingh-fx2pd]

Many have the same feelings and experience but clarity is missing ....thanks for clarity on points 🙏

[@goldlotus7831]

The video is very true and it applies more to indians( whether in India or living abroad). In other countries they know this and have always lived independently and not dependent much on anyone( relatives are pretty much non existent and even with friends the relationship is superficial and artificial). With Indians,there is a lot of emotional attachment to people and the tendency to cling to them .

[@parvezakhter5015]

Very well expressed.practical and realistic

[@nirmlavaswani603]

Bshut hi practical video hey thanks🙏🙏🙏

[@AashishOza]

7ank me 😂....relatives me..... Aaj hi yeh video dekha suna sir bilkul sahi....par khate hai na bhool ki kimat chukani padati hai.....blood relation ka bola aapne sir par Mera delurbhagya ya kismat ya kuch or....unhi se jyada khata khai....ki sab rupiye ke lie.......khud ka swarth........me itane niche utar Gaye...........bilkul Sahi bataya....1000%✓...par jab chidiya chug gai khet to pachtane se.....bas😂

[@icverma1695]

Needs more such videos giving practical teachings 🙏

[@ajiteshmishra0005]

Great Sirji 200% truth

[@vipinkumar-dy8vu]

Real guru ji Amit sango life sutra❤️

[@lateshkumar1950]

Wah... Kya Baat Hai... The Ultimate Gyan... ✨ 👍 👌 🙏

[@ionafernandes3681]

Dr Amitji Bilkul Sahi ke Rahi hai❤

[@anushashukla8102]

very empowering video for people who believe in their own deeds

[@roddickrocks100]

I think the relatives and friends part is spot on, however too much optimism about the system transformation is depicted. Jugaad ab sirf bade industrialists ke hi chalte hai jinke sabse upar ke leaders se contacts hote hai.. This is the only difference the country has observed in the past decade or so.

[@ayushisharma647]

Yes you are absolutely right no one help without any reason

[@savitasharma8137]

Absolutely right Now it seems it is ultimate truth

[@AkshiTaro]

Namaste sir, I have a request to make, could you please a video on daughter mother relation and the cycle that continues? I'm sure you understand it better than I can say. Thank you very much for your videos and your wisdom, its been nearly not less than a week but I feel like I found someone elderly I have often found lacking in my family. Thank you very much!

[@sangeetaagrawal8871]

Sahi me, aisa lagta hai pitaji sikha rahe ho, Kaash pehle miley hote sir🙏 Pranaam sirji

[@meenanair6970]

Sir, please make a video on the futility of extramarital affairs of elderly males and females and its negative effect on them and their families.

[@reshmasonawane5377]

Hello Sir, you are making really insightful videos and I have been watching your videos since couple of months and I can say you are showing us reality. I too would like a video on mother daughter relationship these days. I myself belong to a Generation Y, where I have only a 4 year yonger brother. Thank you again for enlightening us.

[@scientistswife]

Me too

[@shalleygupta4138]

बहुत अच्छा video sir....propel to think clearly

[@digvijaysinghtomar]

सही कहा आपने . मेरे पेरेंट्स जिन रिस्तेदारो की चाटुकारिता करते थे वो कोई काम में नहीं आये . में तब से ही सिख गया हु हू . आउटसोर्सिंग शादी में आने से बहुत से रिस्तेदारो की चाटुकारिता से बच गयी आज की पीढ़ी . शादी में अब सब कॉन्ट्रैक्ट पैर मिल जाता हे . पहले रिस्तेदार ब्लैकमेल करते थे हम तुम्हारी यहाँ शादी नहीं संभालेंगे . टेक्नोलॉजी अब सब चेंज कर देगी .

[@mlalit2037]

Very true n practically explained Salute to u sir Keep these experiences and sutra endless...

[@archanaverma9976]

Very true sir.aap serious topic lekar bhi usme jo funny content ka tadka lagate hain,uske liye hats off.

[@MALF999]

There is no friendship, No Animosity. Only Common Interests.

[@daymah.l1840]

Jiwan se juddaya hai 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ thanks sir

[@Elite8476]

Apko dekh ke Chankya ki yaad aate hai thank you so much keep it up you rock🎉

[@rashmichoudhry3161]

Very practical and balanced. Thank you for the sound advice

[@balasahebkhedkar8809]

Very true and practical knowledge. Nobody will help you in your bad times. You should be self respect and confident and you have eablity to face situation at your level mostly.

[@ppvshenoy]

Great practical life advice. Thanks for shedding some light on such topics. Much appreciated. These are not discussed anywhere!

[@abhaykaushik95]

Very true Sirji, the way everything is digitalizing, soon the power will be COMPLETELY decentralized and nobody will hold it in upcoming 4 to 5 years. Also, Corruption would be very very less.

[@TheNeerjaarora]

Mere husband ka hamesha hi y tarika raha , jo apne video m explain kiya , social networking hamesha hi nill ke barabar , phle mujhe lgta tha husband galat hai , kisi bhi tarah ki jugad se kaam nhi krte , pr apki batain sun kr laga ki vo bilkul shi the , he is Dr. nd now retired as CMS from State Govt job

[@minakshiupadhyaya7496]

आप का हर शब्द सही है !👍

[@manibatta8242]

Sir ek video mey apni life journey batayey because your thoughts and way of teaching is very clear and impressive

[@RishabhMathur-fv5tq]

Yes, the current way of getting things done is totally different from how it used to be 15-20 years back, Almost all services we want to consume are digitized now , many things are automated and self serving, it is no longer dependent on people rather it is System, Process and technology dependent, very transparent with digital records , so no one can influence or alter course of things as records and databases are fully digitized , Technology System cannot be corrupted, So, what ever you are saying is absolutely correct.

[@abhishek-kumar100]

You are doing great service to common people.

[@NeerajKumar-hi2ju]

Absolutely Correct Sir. You are always practical and have Realistic Approach

[@bkmehrotra8130]

While I fully agree with you to a large extent but I wish to state that maintaining good relationswith your relatives/colleagues/ superiors/neighbours etc. always help in crisis period besides it gives your confidence and pride in knowing resourceful persons who can be instrumental in helping you if situation warrants. I have always tried to help others and God has always helped me thru others somehow. One has to be honest and sincere in maintaining relations which is the essence of human life. This is my view-point.

[@Bolshevikrussia]

Original Authentic and real talk. Not copy pasted from some western KZbinr. Not only for Indian Audience..this is advice of gold for Pakistani audience as well Sir. Bravo. Keep it up.

[@kamaluddinkhan6052]

You are absltly right. Socialism is failed we are Indulged in socialism for Last many decades.we must Come out this phenomenon. Sir carry on .

[@OmprakashSharma-lg3kp]

आप बिलकुल सही बोल रहे हो सर

[@sankyppp]

Uncle apke saare videos mujhe samajh mein aate hai aur meri samjh badhaate hai. Aap sahi mein ekdam prectical hai.

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Wonderful sir, please bring more videos on related topics