Why 90% Of Men Struggle To Build Attraction

Let's delve into a fascinating truth about modern masculinity. Discover why most men unknowingly shy away from embracing their true power, resulting in women only seeing them as friends. It's time for men to confront their fears and become comfortable with the darker, more primal aspects of their sexuality.
Your shadow is powerful, you need to learn to embrace your dark masculinity.
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[@SpieleSuchti894]

Accepting the thoughts instead of surpressing them. Sounds like reasonably healthy advice.

[@KManAbout]

Great advice

[@MrCATA326]

I'm gonna try what you told us Damien 👌

[@gasman7478]

Yes all good points.

[@re_flow]

This is amazing! I tried the method and it fucking works! The lady couldn't stop flipping her hair and keep wanting my attention once I do that in my head where just a few minutes ago she was talking in an uninterested deep voice. Although it was hard to keep doing it since I kept getting pulled into fully focusing on what she was saying, I can start from this and hopefully find more methods to project more of the sexual vibe naturally. I really hope you explore and share more practical methods like this. I have read many of your videos & web pages, and Sincere Seduction, but this video is the one that works the most and really helped the ideas clicked in my mind. I guess I am not smart enough to fully grasp the your ideas and meanings until I actually perform the actions and learn subconciously haha.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Wow mate - thank you so much for sharing!! It's amazing when you get that response, and all you did in effect was be more transparent with what you're feeling

[@ajg9937]

Every time I watch this video (I watch it like once a month) I get better and better results. And I can 100 percent feel the feminity when I talk to girls now. This is literally more important than anything. I could talk to a girl about anything and as long as I am masculine I will always get good results in bars.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Wow mate - I'm glad to hear it's helping so much!

[@ajg9937]

@@SchoolOfAttraction Yeah it's kind of crazy. Because when you are in your masculine frame, and you can feel the girls femininity. It's almost like a psychedelic experience. You could have the most mundane conversation and it still gets results. Game changer.

[@andrewjordan4811]

Great video 👍🏻

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Cheers Andrew!

[@mfc4655]

Interesting.

[@reneruiz4467]

I got this topic that seems really interesting to me and I want to see if you could talk about it in the future, if you were to classify women across multiple dimensions in order to extract the most "common" types, how woud you do it and what categories would you get as a result?

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

hrm... interesting topic... I'd have to think about how I'd structure that video exaclty... thanks for the idea!

[@svenphil8879]

Nice neighborhood, is that Melbourne?

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Thanks mate - no, it's a place north of Sydney - called Gold Coast - it's nice warm weather and incredible beaches :)

[@naveenM.]

Are there any books on this? Thanks brother.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

I haven't found one book that alone covers this topic well... But I would look to books such as: - Iron John - No more mr nice guy - The professor in the cage - Way of the superior man

[@naveenM.]

@@SchoolOfAttraction I thought so, but that's better anyway since this aspect is subjective and requires the dimension of experiential experimentation since it's different for everyone. - Thanks for the books too. I'm going to read the one that I'm most attracted to. I owe you one brother.

[@XPuntar]

I've read a supposed "dating" book where the author had written exactly what you are talking about! As strange as it sounds if anyone actually knows about Kybalion or ancient Hermetic practices. Even in this ancient teaching, it is said that person needs to imagine/visualize the result or at least part of the process of what needs to happen sometime in the future! Use imagination to create the life you want to experience! ... In terms of dating this is the fastest way to test how The Law of Attraction actually works! You can certainly have very immediate results with some women. But do remember that the mood of a woman can actually throw you off because they will test your mental power either to get you angry or to get rid of you, only because she is not in the mood for "the thing"!

[@xMckingwill]

Question for a friend what if when you do the " imagining" situation you imagine them as the "Dominant one" ? Just asking for a friend 👀👀

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

Heck I mean, I'm a 'switch' myself, so nothing wrong wtih picturing that instead if it's your thing :)

[@deepun9091]

Thanks. Suggestion... "dark" suggests something bad. Rather, you could say something like "deep, innate nature"...."natural instinct"....

[@rubenfresco2212]

I'd be cautious sharing this kind of content on the internet without giving a lot of context. Don't get me wrong, I agree with everything that you say here, and I strongly believe that men need to awaken their dark masculine energy, and that both men and women in the world would benefit from this. Yes, a lot of women crave a dangerous man who will take care of her and ravish her, unleashing his sexual energy BUT this is done in the context of full respect, full empathy, clear communication and deep understanding of a woman's body. She needs to feel (and be) safe, comfortable, respected, loved and then there's room for animalistic sex. I know this is obvious to you, but it's not to a lot of guys out there, who might watch your video and go treat women like shit because they thing this is the right thing to do.

[@ifeelhalfnaked484]

people who do things complete black and white sense are deeply traumatized themselves, sadly they require a lot of real world feedbacks for change

[@rubenfresco2212]

@@ifeelhalfnaked484 I think everyone needs to get out there, experience and get real world feedback, and I don't think this is sad. But whole other topic my friend ;)

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

I did try to emphasize this point - perhaps not enough though it might seem.. Men who are too 'tame' are never at risk of suddenly becoming toxic, so the need to stress respect isn't really there - o nly for the sake of women who dont' really understand men and the men who are going to watch this video... but yeah I need to be careful form a pr standpoint

[@Mrjunkyarddog44]

I disagree. Creating familiarity defeats the notion of more visceral animalistic sexual dynamics. Building sexual tension and mystery (and a bit of a dangerous allure) comes first. Comfort and familiarity should only happen when u r already dating her-and in VERY small doses. U r basically promoting being that safe, harmless soy boy (i.e., the nice guy), which is repulsive to females. Women f@ck the guy that they’re attracted to, but most importantly, the guy that they respect.

[@piratapirata78]

El ultimo perro tiene rabia.

[@KManAbout]

I just don't think sexuality is dark or anything and that twilight is probably a bad example.

[@xMckingwill]

When he means "dark" sexuality, i dont think he means that sexuality is "dark" I think he means your primal sexual desire and urges but you understand them and channel it.

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

I am referring to it from a place of 'shadow work' where the things that we keep hidden from ourselves live in the 'dark' parts of our brains - and we need to shine light on them and integrate them into our psyches.

[@sashangovender5327]

While I agree with the premise, I question why men should be putting in the effort to develop their dark masculine side to please a woman. I think as a man who has his shit together (i.e. career, financially stable, investments, friends, hobbies) I've put enough effort in. Putting in more effort in this psychological field means I want more in a woman as well. In other words the standard for what I want in a woman goes up. Why can't woman just change their baseline for what they find attractive?

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

I appreciate this question - it's a good one. Actually I don't think we shoudl be doing it to please women - I'd argue that we as men will never feel 100% like ourselves UNLESS we develop our relationships with our dark masculine. It's a necessary part of feeling complete as a man. Without your dark masculine you are vulnerable to being pushed around and manipulated by the world - it's not about pleasing women in my mind as much as be full integrated as a man. I did phrase my arguments around women becuase that's often a good 'inspiration' for men to take action that will also help themslves.. LIke.. If a man eats crap and is phsycially unhealthy - often people will more like get in shape to attract women than to live longer - but it's still a good idea to avhea healthy lifestyle and diet for many many more reasons than just women.

[@jamellcarter5299]

If you’re attractive it’s flirting if you’re ugly it’s sexual harassment. Just wanted to say that bc it’s hilariously true. Attractive is in the hygiene & grooming, you got that and you’ll realize you can get away with being honest

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

So we gotta be careful with this saying... It's true if it's inappropriate behaviour... so if you're 6foot 2 and good looking and flirt inappropriately with the receptionist in a way that's definitely not okay for the workplace, 8 times out of 10, sh'ell giggle and let it slide, but if the 40 year old overweight manager did the same thing, she'd go straight to HR.. So you are right. But with appropriate behaviour - it's a lot less true. It' sjust that good looking people - both male and female - are allowed to get away with bad behaviour a lot more of the time.

[@jamellcarter5299]

@@SchoolOfAttraction it’s one of those nature things vs sciences. I didn’t want to label the attractiveness for my fellow logical guys. Because even in nature animals spend a lot of time grooming so having healthy hygiene and grooming habits can grant you the benefits of being honest with even your eye contact which can be deemed inappropriate if you’re unattractive (ie. poor hygiene, bad grooming) and appropriate by others.

[@Straga_Severa]

@@SchoolOfAttraction Do you agree that many people who are new to the whole dating stuff are prone to do such "inappropriate" stuff? And that we learn much better when we don't get harshly punished for our mistakes? Because if so, then the overwhelming advantage that is innate for handsome guys is the reason average guys have trouble with trying anything but the truly safest option - because they know the first mistake may end with them losing job and reputation, unlike for attractive guys. Or do you think that is not the case?

[@SchoolOfAttraction]

I believe this is certainly a big part of the difficulty for guys with less genetic benefit - Attractive people tend to have better social skills for both genders and yes, I'd argue this is something that begins in childhood already - attractive children get more praise and more attention growing up. I'd argue this by itself is FAR MORE of a factor than the actual attractiveness levels... I.e. If I could inhabit your body for a week, I'd stll do okay regardless of your looks. And obviously I could do better jumping into a male model's body vs jumping into a short fat guy's body - but I'd still get much better results than the short fat guy does on his own. Because I have my own confidence ot add to the mix.

[@Straga_Severa]

@@SchoolOfAttraction The confidence, yes, but confidence does not protect you from breaking someone's boundaries - especially since people have different boundaries, and one girl would love you to place a hand on her hip, while another girl in the same situation would consider it a grave offence, and you would face severe punishment. The "know-how", information about how to discern a girl's boundaries, and how to achieve the "goldilock zone" between "nice guy" and "asshole harasser" may be even more important than the confidence itself. And I agree that this factor is far more important than the initial boost of attraction that a woman has towards a handsome guy - but it is really, really hard for an ugly guy to learn this "know-how" without the "initial attraction boost". Unless he has a backup reputation that he could use when his main one is blown to pieces by the HR visit, of course =-)

[@ScandinavianPrepper]

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[@KManAbout]

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[@StRock-wz6yx]

Nice guys finish last, tell your wife i said f you

[@ifeelhalfnaked484]

sexual energy can help you stabilise your rythm pacing of conversation so that people can pay more attention onto you. Just imagine yourself like an instrument when you talk you'll enjoy it far more when you're less in your head!