Simon Sinek: "I FEEL LONELY!" How To Deal With Loneliness! | E230

Simon Sinek is a British-born American author and inspirational speaker, his most recent book is “The Infinite Game”.
Topics:
0:00 Intro
02:43 How are you doing?
13:26 Knowing what loneliness looks like
25:25 How to get out of a dark place
39:02 What to do when you feel lonely
44:56 How do we become more self-aware?
52:24 How to find love in the modern world
01:05:23 Learning to understand yourself
01:21:23 Why heartbreak is a good thing
01:24:22 What have you changed to create better connections
01:31:03 What does a perfect life for you look like?
01:51:02 Is someone on this mission with you?
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[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

An evening with me and Simon - waiting list here: stevenbartlett.us4.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=12d7331c8fadafd64f7122bb9&id=99f0722744

[@sandrabentley8111]

Raising money for which charitable cause? Thank you.

[@stevecatanio8532]

Simon you are a good person. You don't have to over explain things. Not saying you are.

[@stevecatanio8532]

I love your intro message "keep it to yourself". Perfect. Diary of a CEO is the most personable interview online

[@vanhoudtshoorn]

Great conversation😊. Thank you.

[@joeldwest]

We need to deal with bad exploiting employers

[@kapsunadams3874]

I am 69 years old and when I was in early 20’s, I experienced loneliness. I read many self help books to understand what I was feeling but still felt lonely. At night the loneliness was unbearable. I put pictures of universe on the ceiling of my bedroom and kept telling telling my self that compare to universe I am smaller than a speck of sand. Then one day I started to talk to my loneliness as if it is a human and ask to be my friend. I accepted and embraced it. As time went on I stopped being lonely. To this day I don’t feel lonely. I guess the loneliness became a part of me.

[@MdTahsinulIFayed]

I’m in my early 20’s and going through exactly what you went through. I guess loneliness doesn’t want to be my friend yet.

[@kapsunadams3874]

@@MdTahsinulIFayed - Getting to know is good…

[@MagdalenaShakti]

Gorgeous! Thank you❤

[@MagdalenaShakti]

​@@MdTahsinulIFayedThank you for your vulnerability, friend. You are not alone. I hear you❤

[@simarjitkaur3411]

What a beautiful share...amazing...I remember feeling so distressed and alone. before an exam...my dad got me to go to the garden, look up at the evening sky....and said we are part of all this.....your beautiful example reminded me of this

[@user-hv3iy3gr7k]

In 2017, the night before my surgery for a broken ankle, my husband of 27 years and my best friend in the world, had me listen to Simon Sinek. He had been reading "Leaders Eat Last." We had so many conversations about meaningful work! He had been a pilot in the Marine Corps, was an amazing husband and father, and was inspired by Simon's words. In November 2018 he tragically and suddenly died of an aortic dissection at the age of 51. During the past four years I have been working to be strong and resilient for my children. And now, I feel he is speaking to me through Simon's words, inspiring me to be more vulnerable, to really listen, to just sit in the mud, and hold space... sharing struggles... deepening relationships... thank you both.

[@newhorizonslifecoachcheers]

#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You kzbin.info/www/bejne/aaDVi6WPhah9prM

[@soniaperez2417]

I am Christian and your reply is extremely self-rightious and judgmental. Next time get down from your sel-righteous pedestal and offer comfort and hope. I am convinced that would have been more helpful. 😢😊

[@sueh2295]

❤❤

[@dancorpe3945]

Thank you @@soniaperez2417 for responding with such eloquence and love to the above ❤👌🏼 I’ll be honest, I was rather maddened that someone has taken such a beautiful and vulnerable comment about the positive impact Simon has had on their life, and used it to talk about religion 🤦🏻‍♂️ I support wholeheartedly those who have faith, but this is unhelpful. So thank you for your wonderfully measured response, I imagine you’re a pretty awesome human being 🙏🏼

[@juliaprahac3135]

Thanks a lot for sharing, it is very helpful, we have tendency to give advice, and you are right it doesn't help, until we are ready to receive it. But what we need in this moment ,just sit in the mud with friends 😊and also very important point, I like,that even we are not in service, our obligations is to care for people, who are ❤

[@GillianLarmond]

This interview made me so emotional because I am a woman in my 50s with no kids and no partner therefore I get lonely all the time. I won't say that I have a terrible life but sometimes I don't like being lonely. In these times I am so grateful to my siblings who all keep in touch with me. There are so many key takeaways in this conversation. Thanks to Simon and Steven..

[@angonorato1770]

I am exactly in your boat...every word! We got this!

[@GillianLarmond]

@@angonorato1770oh yes we got this. Best regards to you.

[@reen964]

That’s exactly me. I’m going 51 in Jan 24 with greying hairline. To make things worst, I work with young co workers and they have partners married or to be married . No one looks up to a single person who earns average wage . Especially so a woman. And when you get angry about some work issue due to some poor response internally, I hear people say ‘Non married woman are angry and behave differently from married ladies.. sigh 😢

[@clickityclick5237]

That’s exactly my life except my siblings are too busy in their own lives. My fur babies help to some degree.

[@SimonBrice]

And I feel just like you do in a similar situation

[@PT-tw6kg]

I'm struggling no family, lost my son, husband it's been the worse time in my life. Isolation, 100% I never go out unless it to food shop or doctors appointment. At 69yrs old it's extremely very hard. No friends here we moved and then my husband passed away. My prayers for anyone that reads this may the Lord bless you.🙏❤️

[@evadebruijn]

🍀🍀🍀❤️🤗❤️🍀🍀🍀

[@Mitachiyo]

You keep it going.. even daily walks in the neighborhood seeing other people going about their stuff will help.

[@josieposie9969]

God bless you! I hope God sends you a friend you can enjoy your time with and share memories!! Amen!

[@lanalekopoy6154]

You can do this. Complete your journey of life with grace. B4 you know it- your journey will be done and you'll be reunited with your Son and Husband. It is a current trend of no friends. So it's not just you. People are so complicated now, be grateful to not be drawn into the drama of life.

[@Ms.matrixmetaphor]

Sending you heartfelt love❤and hugs and to keep reaching out just as you did here on you tube. You never know who may become a long distance friend or if you will find that one video that will help lift you up snd onto another trajectory. ❤one small step at a time and keep your heart open even if it feel’s crushed - love always wins.

[@jessicas253]

From now on I'll stop trying to fix people and be a better listener. Such a powerful message.

[@KingsCrossVIP]

exactly lol

[@deborahcurtis1385]

YES that's great! The fixers tend to interrupt the sharing and get impatient and get angry with you for not adopting what for them seems the simple and obvious solution. I've been in the situation many times where there are key factors hidden to me and them and those were the keys to resolution. It's not a simple fix in any case.

[@vishalkhatri6723]

Exactly, I feel like I know better and can fix all their problems and make their lives easier but now I know that is not how it works.

[@pablorages1241]

It might suit him ... but not most men

[@ebbyc1817]

I think we all just want to be 'fixed' We just want to be happy We can't figure out how to do it for ourselves, so we project onto others, by trying to fix them. Empathy for the fixers would be nice too. No one 's trying to hurt anyone. Just state your boundaries, say, you don't need help, thank you. That's what I do.

[@nilepearl1997]

The Diary of a CEO has become my best friend so far ... The guests and their vulnerability are legendary. You've restored my faith in humanity again. Thank you so much, Steve !

[@AljeanJumamil]

same. I listen to DOAC everytime I work at home.

[@danielejaclyn]

Same! I just discovered this last week and I feel so blessed to know this exists

[@Earthangelfish111]

Oh, OK time to settle in yourself up ! Lol

[@ED-007]

Agree. It’s such a powerful show. Not just another podcast. They’re impactful honest conversations.

[@xtinaroma]

Same here! I struggle to create meaningful connections with my acquaintances and colleagues, I feel like they're just not that interested. This really helps, it's a surrogate of having those conversations that I'd like to be having

[@jaywandery9269]

"Serve those who serve others" really resonated with me, such a deep message. How I wish to get friends who feel the same.

[@gilliandarling9239]

find a real tibetan buddhist

[@donluluz]

Yes you can, teach your friend what and how you would like them to be.

[@Carolwhite814]

And here in lies the magic of life!

[@peterwinson317]

I experienced a very late diagnosis of ADD and ADHD at almost 40 years old. Simon’s comment about “mourning the past” really resonated with me.

[@PeggyShingleton]

Having a really hard time moving myself on. Afraid to stay and hard to go.

[@peterwinson317]

@@PeggyShingleton I think we have to learn from the past while enjoying the present

[@hirsutuscanis]

I appreciate you making me aware that there's a distinction between ADD and ADHD, i've seen high level ADHD on days when he didn't take his meds. But feel my sister and i could have ADD which seems to at least display itself quite differently externally

[@bobettepage4440]

I’m a therapist and if everyone had a friend like these two men, I would be out of business. Everything discussed is great therapy for self and others. Therapist sit in the mud too! Such a great description! I actually ask my clients if they are wanting to vent or want to fix. Sometimes when I’m in the mud (with my own issues), I pause, then I get up and do something even if it’s wrong, it still feels better.

[@aishwaryar1998]

Thank you for sharing you insight ❤️

[@Photik]

What are some examples of things you'd do that would be considered wrong?

[@ishavidaayurveda]

But they get paid for sitting in the mud, it's very hard work and can't be expected as a free gift of everyone. It would be a relationship that has a balanced emotional bank account.

[@sweetest247]

Really? I think the paid part is there for just that...$ A stranger a friend a family member a clergy etc sit in the mud w you as I do for them so no you don't sit in the mud w your clients. Unless you mean something else?

[@bobettepage4440]

@@ishavidaayurveda it’s still not easy to sit in the mud with someone whether you get paid or not. Not everyone can be that person for even someone they love. It does take love to do it.

[@sadaamhasaan_]

Simon’s authenticity and willingness to be honest about his inefficiencies… Has given me another level of respect for him. Something we should all admire

[@laurab9867]

..You hit the nail right on the head. So few people are willing to be authentic.

[@SuperKong57]

Admire and imitate or adopt

[@CandiceMitchell-xb1kd]

I have been answering that question, as well as "are you okay?", with a no, nope, a side to side head shake. Everyone walks away. Leaves me ALONE! YAY!

[@armuanmcduffie940]

I’m 19 years old about to turn 20 and the part where Simon talked about just sticking with something and not worrying about arbitrary numbers really spoke with me

[@sheilaanderson912]

I love this so much. I know what it is like to feel lonely at times. I would sit in the mud with you Simon. One of my favorite quotes is from A.A. Milne. Very profound. "Today was a Difficult Day," said Pooh. There was a pause. "Do you want to talk about it?" asked Piglet. "No," said Pooh after a bit. "No, I don't think I do." "That's okay," said Piglet, and he came and sat beside his friend. "What are you doing?" asked Pooh. "Nothing, really," said Piglet. "Only, I know what Difficult Days are like. I quite often don't feel like talking about it on my Difficult Days either. "But goodness," continued Piglet, "Difficult Days are so much easier when you know you've got someone there for you. And I'll always be here for you, Pooh." And as Pooh sat there, working through in his head his Difficult Day, while the solid, reliable Piglet sat next to him quietly, swinging his little legs…he thought that his best friend had never been more right." A.A. Milne

[@claudiafegari5116]

I only knew certain parts of this. Thank you for posting more of it. It brought tears to me eyes.

[@michellecd4722]

@Sheila Anderson We could all use a little more Pooh & Piglet

[@rethabilenxumalo9742]

Love that.

[@andreedwards9893]

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[@theflaca]

I've sat in the mud with so many. But who has ever sat in my mud just for a change? Sorry, but this is all BS. There's a lot of self important, totally selfish aholes out there and it's nearly all of you. Signed single white ageing woman, never married no kids because all males are getting boring asian females who cannot even speak english let alone engage in interesting deep and meaningful conversation, because let's face it they actually all just want a servant, and whose name is now a source of prejudice and discrimination. Money talks. The only way I will ever get a man and get married is the size of my investments. If i declared that I am worth $10000000, I guarantee not only will i get flooded with dates, they will all arrive early, dressed in a suit with a bunch of very expensive flowers and Dom Perignon, along with a dozen marriage proposals in the first week.

[@paulaelizabeth_ShamanStar]

I always say, "I love you," after every conversation when speaking to someone I feel that for. It's a form of gratitude for the friendship and all received through it. Even friends who felt awkward by that now are so open and return the words from such a sweet place. When I feel alone....I am single and near 60....I ask myself, "Who can i help today?" The feeling of alone begins to fade, and the gratitude of being able to help replaces it.

[@clarerooney9621]

Beautiful Paula. You clearly have a tender heart.

[@godsgrace3681]

That's so kind of you Paula. I love you! :)

[@SheynneDavis7723]

I love you

[@jmwalling1030]

That is so beautiful and openly honest. Thank you.

[@pamelalee5724]

I say this too. My cousins say it's weird. In Asian culture it's faux pas. Lol.

[@ambition112]

0:28: 😔 Simon Sinek discusses his shift away from public speaking and his focus on mental fitness. 13:44: 💔 Loneliness is feeling misunderstood, not being seen or heard, and struggling to communicate or present oneself. 20:50: 💔 Loneliness and the need for companionship and empathy in times of struggle. 39:46: 💡 Building trust is essential in managing chaos and making decisions in high-pressure situations. 41:23: 🗣 Feedback and self-awareness are crucial in building healthy relationships and improving communication skills. 53:13: 😔 The design of the modern world has added a layer of complication to finding and keeping love, and dating apps have made it feel like shopping for partners. 1:01:34: 💑 Being vulnerable and sharing struggles with your partner can deepen the relationship. 1:11:12: 💑 The key to a great relationship is having intellectual, emotional, and sexual compatibility, along with favorable circumstances. 1:21:43: 💔 Heartbreak teaches us about the nature of being human and the importance of co-creation in relationships. 1:29:20: 🌟 Simon measures success by momentum, not by achievement, and feels a sense of meaning and purpose in contributing to a better world. 1:38:35: 💪 The speaker reflects on their experience in a war zone and realizes that the true purpose in life is to serve those who serve others. 1:48:38: 💪 Simon reflects on the importance of serving those who serve others and the personal cost that comes with it. Recap by Tammy AI

[@nosindisomyeni]

Thank you for this ❤

[@LyroLife]

Thanks Tammy AI

[@lyndatruong5946]

Thanks so much for this recap ❤😊

[@tannwich5350]

Thank you. What a friend you are. Saved me 2 hours of my life. Sounds like the same things everyone says.

[@carriekaskiw4781]

@@tannwich5350The entire podcast is worth a listen. If you believe he’s spewing rhetoric, you mustn’t be paying attention.

[@ROBERT-ml7ml]

Any else see the BIG problem with this talk? His methods rely largely on FRIENDS... A LOT of people who are alone have NO FRIENDS.

[@r-ex2945]

It also focus on getting people feel your why and this also great of making comnections and selfreflection.

[@aliciam6725]

Yep. Don’t have a soul to call. Doesn’t mean it’ll stay that way forever, though. I have chronic limiting pain so I have to stay home. Maybe it’ll change one day.

[@TedNemeth]

That’s not a problem with this this talk. That is a problem for you. You need to establish friend relationships in this world. It’s is a FUNDAMENTAL requirement of the human condition along with food, water, sunlight. Companionship.

[@Naonicat]

Agreed 😢

[@RonWesterbeek]

Yes. Probably Many of them don't know how to be one yet . Bless you.

[@TheDiaryOfACEO]

What an honour it was to have Simon come on the podcast and be so open and vulnerable with me, thank you Simon! If you enjoyed this conversation do me a favour and like the video, it helps us understand exactly what type of conversations you enjoy. Thanks! 🙏🏽

[@kemel-7000]

I do not live in London. Is there an opportunity to watch event online?

[@hiiiroobee]

Same, would it be live online?

[@knackfarm]

3:14 I'll ask you Steven, how are you doing? You are PICKING YOUR NAILS, looking at them as you phrase and deliver this question to Simon. Fidgety, distracted. What's up? xx Your viewers happy to hold space with you!

[@astroterra5021]

I loved this! Many thanks!

[@roberta3049]

Yey, I love you both!

[@WayneMorrissetteReal]

This interview was solid gold, wrapped in gold, shipped in a gold box, with a gold bow on it. 24K gold interview hands down.

[@ruthbiafora5443]

My wise father said that loneliness was the biggest affliction in the world. He was right. Thank you for a spot on podcast.

[@andyjame3350]

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[@cam23417]

"We live in a world where most people are not equipped on how to be there for a friend" that hit like a ton of bricks! Sadly, I am finding this out the hard way. My closest friends didn't know my mom was in the last stages of her illness. I didn't feel like reaching out. No one was really asking anyway. When I announced that my mom passed, I was so disappointed in the lack of support from my so-called best friends. A mear text, a message. I am still in shock on how unaware people are. Each person seems to be living in their own bubble. I can't wrap my head around this. Sad to say the least and feeling lonely as ever.

[@abeautifulcountry9353]

I have had the same and in my experience the worst are those who haven't yet lost a parent yet. A friend lost her mother and then said to me (I had lost my mother 5 years earlier) I'm so sorry I wasn't really there for you, I was so blissfully unaware of what it was like until it happened to me.

[@gastroliciousgelayski8584]

I feel you Camille. I no longer have my mom and dad. Aint easy living alone… even my own siblings have no idea how lonely I am

[@cam23417]

@Gastrolicious Gelayski I am so sorry for your loss. It feels very lonely. A lady told me the other day, "we are no longer who we were after losing a parent," let alone both. I feel an identity crisis of sorts. But I have to pull myself together and reinvent myself somehow. I know my parents would want me to be well. I will pray for you as well. May we find strength.

[@cam23417]

@A Beautiful Country good insight, maybe them not being able to relate to our loss makes them emotionally unavailable. But still, common sense goes a long way.

[@omowhanre]

That sounds difficult. Are you there for your friends? Is it possible to find new friends

[@candicelandiss]

Dear Simon, Thank you for helping me realize I’m not broken. I literally relate to 100% of everything you said in this interview. Conclusion: Surround yourself with people who make you feel heard. Remember that “wait” is not “never”. Lots of things worth waiting for, take time. ❤

[@nancyinthegarden3160]

Be productive while in waiting. When you get busy with you, your person will show up

[@ebbyc1817]

....or they might not (show up). Which is ok. Don't do anything with the condition or expectation that something is going to happen. Just do it because you want to.

[@newhorizonslifecoachcheers]

#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You kzbin.info/www/bejne/aaDVi6WPhah9prM

[@nedsantos1415]

It's OK to be broken as long as you don't give up on yourself and remember even the brokenness is not an everlasting state of you. Only those who have been broken can meaningfully walk with another soul that is about to break or is breaking.

[@ebbyc1817]

@@nedsantos1415 That, is the sweetest thing I 've ever heard!

[@yayapoloo9627]

As a Muslim I grew up learning at school that we as community in mercy and compassion are like a one body,if a brother (not actually related or gender specific) is suffering from something , then your whole community should stand by his/her in time of need.

[@ginnysimonds9670]

This is a great podcast as are many on this channel. Often sitting in the mud IS the solution. Being heard can be an incredible antidote to loneliness.

[@silvanacedillo6890]

"I'm struggling to communicate or present myself in a way that people will get who I'am". my life, so relatable Simon

[@Kinsugi]

I don't think I have had anyone who gets who I really am.

[@silvanacedillo6890]

@@Kinsugi what you want to transmit that’s the key. But it all starts with you knowing yourself at all your ages. That’s how you can extract your true essence

[@rethabilenxumalo9742]

Totally relatable

[@wendysusanlovejoy3983]

This is the most powerful podcast I have listened to ever. It brought me to tears several times. The current greatest frustration in my life is that at the age of 69 and significant physical limitations, I feel I am not of service to anyone.

[@delapedrera]

❤

[@crackhead4540]

❤

[@peacefuldoves]

I'm disabled.. I feel totally worthless, but moreover invisible. I feel you 😢

[@janswimwild]

Simply by posting this you are of service. So many of us can relate to this feeling and by connecting with us you touch us and remove that sense of loneliness and fear. Sometimes, often, we serve others simply by being ourselves. Thank you for your post ❤❤

[@suesjoy]

I’m 60 and I understand. Your comment made me feel better. Thank you for being open and honest. 💜💫💜

[@flooferwoofenschnizz3858]

One of my favorite sayings I've heard- "If you cannot see the light, I will sit with you in the dark".❤

[@robichard]

Steven, you are amazingly skilled in creating space for guests to be truly authentic. I love your interviewing abilities and the guests that you attract. Thank you for what you do !❤

[@H.I.T.E.N.]

I love Simon! Showing everyone you can be a powerhouse even with ADHD. Such a great guest.

[@shalomandrest]

gosh it seems many of the weathiest entreprenuers in the world actually have ADHD. and so many people look down on them. these people have an extreme ability to focus on what makes them tick and just make money!

[@colbyirvin5485]

No joke. I can connect with him

[@jessicakim2398]

Omg i didnt know he had adhd. It makes me connect w him even more !!

[@brittneylemessurier7077]

Yes, amazing!!

[@o6uoq]

Poor little Simon with ADHD :( those kids in Africa are such vain little shits in comparison

[@olgaperry592]

You possess exceptional interviewing skills, as evidenced by the way your guest opened up to you like never before. Your ability to connect with and understand people is truly remarkable.

[@silvernight3428]

I feel exactly the same. (Like, I even got an ADHD diagnosis at 31). This is the first thing on this topic I've managed to listen to since I finally sank in quicksand due to loneliness. Really resonates with me. Thank you

[@yvonnemidgley8083]

Absolutely love this conversation, listening to two men discussing the human condition is not only heartwarming but enormously reinforcing for those of us that battle loneliness and full understanding and integration of all of our parts.....the power of love and connection with self and others.....🙏

[@LeeAdrian777]

You should never cry alone?! Dude I cry when I listen to a good song. Crying is like therapy, you let it flow when it needs too. You don't ask the tears to wait while you see if your friend is available. Anyway, each to their own.

[@lourdeslotusrevell9480]

He plans when he’s going to cry.. didn’t he say he’s on the autistic spectrum Beware of who you get advice from.. just because he’s got credentials & is on a podcast does not qualify him fo this

[@KgosiDube]

You are not alone then. You are with the sound, the beat, lyrics, voice, tone, message and communication with the artist of that good song! Listening to music does not really make you alone. It is the best gift from God. Understand the story of the trumpets in Heaven. It is deep!

[@m.artijn]

The point is that when you feel bad, you should/could call a friend. It's not only about the tears.

[@goodtrouble841]

if missing the point was a person… 🙄

[@LeeAdrian777]

@@goodtrouble841 apparently many agree. And thankfully to the comment section I understand the point better.

[@karenbelisario7591]

I feel so moved with this episode, it seemed to me it wasn't intended to get that far and deep until Simon took the courageous step to open totally and completely. Nobody is fully done with their own personal work, and yet is so inspiring to me, to see role-models of self aware men. The story of finding meaning in the middle of a panic was very powerful. Simon is a deep thinker with a great purpose and a mission. I wish more of those examples in our society.

[@sandralauzon9416]

The fact I cry a lot and always have makes me wonder if I am becoming more depressed as time goes on or more empathic. I rarely feel supported and my loneliness can be consuming.

[@megbailey4565]

This entire podcast touched me and taught me. When Simon got to the part where he was talking about being on the plane when the flag draped casket was brought aboard had tears running down my face. Thank you for being open, honest and vulnerable with us. 🙏

[@SalsAlex90]

I learned the "sitting in the mud" communication by just doing that with my wife and noticed that every time after this conversations she thanked me and was grateful. That was the moment I truly understood the value of just listening. It was literally a big positive shift in our marriage, when I, on a regular basis, implemented just conversation evenings. So thanks for this amazing episode.

[@reazl773]

The 3+1 philosophy about partnership made me realize alot of why many of my dating experiences have failed to work. And the way he transforms the idea of meditation to train to be a better listener is just amazing. Lots of love to anyone reading this, who takes his time scrolling through the comment section and also to simon and steven for providing the content.

[@alexxenaosas2416]

but i like to be lonley ! :))))

[@andreearatiu4188]

Hi @reazl773 Thanks for making time to comment on this.

[@jean300490]

Do you know where I can get info on what 3+1 is and get detailed info on that?

[@reazl773]

@@jean300490 01:05:20 if you listen 20 mins from there you will understand it

[@theflaca]

Get off the internet and start meeting face to face. Maybe it might work better.

[@denisec-businessskillscoac2581]

Such an authentic conversation.. thank you. I love the idea of asking my friends to just sit in the mud with me, no judgement, no solutions, just being there.

[@tallyfriend9701]

I have listened to this more than once. I cry every time. Such a wonderful message. Walking alongside and holding space, even sitting in the mud,, truly amazing ❤ I celebrate your tenacity

[@mariabeckwith3336]

I'm 68 with ADHD and finally just understanding how this has effected all my relationships...and yes, there is a period of mourning that I have been going through that is not easy. Not only are these feelings difficult, explaining these feelings are difficult.

[@newhorizonslifecoachcheers]

#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You kzbin.info/www/bejne/aaDVi6WPhah9prM

[@sohosteveuk]

I'm almost 65 and just realised the exact same thing. At first it came as a great revelation and liberation until the sense of mourning the wasted opportunities caused by a lifetime of confusion kicked in. So, maybe I'm being unfair here but, I'm struggling to feel much sympathy for someone who has realised in their 30s when they still have more of their life ahead of them than behind them...

[@infowazz]

@@sohosteveuk I'm 49 and have nothing to show for it. I feel 38 at the most. I never really understood "reality" and how to navigate it. I wish i chose a different career path that had more opportunity. I am shifting to something much better and with no salary ceiling. I also plan to take my landscape painting father. That seems to be an old person game anyways lol. My life was ruined by caring too much what other think and limiting myself. What i went through sucked and i can't even talk about it. I mean to a therapist i could and will. I just don't want to die single. I have very few friends. Once somebody moves i lose touch with them. A good friend died recently. I've known my best friend since 4th grade, so that helps. But we don't have that many deep talks. I do have ADD, not sure about the H part. It never got diagnosed. School was a total shit show. My parents never monitored me as they were dealing with a dying marriage. After school and the Army i just bounced around......then bamm here i am. Meanwhile my bro got a sweet job right after college, then another and now has been at SAS (like Google) for 20 years as a project manager. Easy job, great pay and benefits. He chose a much better career path. I tried to be a graphic designer but it was too demanding for my brain. You create something really cool, then gotta do it again and again and again. Good luck getting past 50K for years. When i was younger the idea of marriage or a relationship made me feel smothered. I didn't have the income to support it and my mind was always daydreaming or moving onto the next thing. It really sucks. I will finally seek help soon. I've suffered enough but then i'm so used to that, that it seems like that is just how my life is. Meanwhile others just go through life like a hot knife going through butter.

[@itsdonuttime7729]

@@infowazz as a person on this planet you aren't required to be something impressive or do a ton of things to show yourself as being successful. You live your life, do things you like, connect with people, work, relax and be human that's not failure.

[@andrewwillard5773]

I'm not a man of many tears.. but the end story was great. "Serve those who serve others" and "go on; were with you" 🤗

[@antoniettepalumbo1346]

This is one of the powerful conversations I’ve ever listened to! I hope Simon finds a loving relationship with the right woman one day! Many blessings for using your heart and mind to the work you do for people! ❤️

[@dawndevilliers225]

Oh my gosh, this is so relatable. How many of us have put our careers first and now sit lonely and wondering how do we change now. But won't go swiping for many reasons. Thank you for being so open with your true feelings.

[@makellyjt]

Finally shared with friend recently and family member last year that I've had such feelings of loneliness. Family said nothing and friend told me all the reasons I shouldn't feel lonely. It helps to know that it's not that they don't care but that they don't have the skills to sit with me as a lonely person...

[@Froglet1968]

And opening up and making yourself vulnerable by sharing how you REALLY feel can be tough. Well done for being real. I'm sorry they reacted like that, it can hurt. I'm so glad you've seen that it's not that they don't care. I remember a few years ago, sharing with my Mum how lonely I felt...she told me to go for a run! She has Aspergers...

[@TenTenJ]

I love him. He’s a genuine person. I would feel lucky to have him as a friend.

[@ThisIsNao]

Found this by chance while having a really bad day. Definitely cried my way through the entire video but what a great and insightful conversation. I feel like my entire circle of friends have been struggling with how we can show up for each other that we tend to immediately redirect each other to therapists instead of rly being a supportive presence. definitely will look into this more purposefully. thank you!

[@cmc_0]

Excellent point. It’s the people that make us need therapy. Children need to be reinforced knowing that they themselves are enough, and being your own best friend allows you to befriend others ❤

[@arturomarin8549]

Absolutely MAGNIFICENT! Simon has an incredible way of putting feelings into words and painting a picture! Thank you for the gift of this talk!

[@yleniamorselli7988]

What a man, a leader, humble. Just adore him.

[@windhorse3889]

We are not loneliness. It is an emotion that is witnessed and passing by like a cloud in the sky.

[@HealingMagick]

One of the most soulful conversations I've heard in a long time. It almost never happens that I feel such admiration for someone, but I'm at awe of Simon right now. Thank you Steven for touching "uncomfortable subjects" outside of the scope of business and creating an atmosphere where a person can open up like this. The vulnerability, self awareness and accountability that Simon displays is truly remarkable. Sometimes I fall into the trap of thinking I'm the only one that values meaning over profit (although profit is necessary to provide good service), the joy of service, of being a witness to another person's "mud", or the painful feeling when a close friend can't be present with my mud. It helps (I'm on the other side of the planet) to hear people who have achieved so much, articulate those same needs with this level of candor, and also enthusiasm and hope. I'm taking it all in and saving it for when I forget!

[@DeepEmoticPhoria9]

Steve you have an unimaginable way to let people open up to you. Lots of same people I've listened to in other podcasts, never shown their shadows as openly as with you. And this is why we love you and your work. And we love Simon!

[@rianavanvuuren4470]

This Podcast has been the best birthday gift I received in my 47 years on this earth. You guys made me cry, you made me laugh, make me think about why I still do not trust men after my divorce. I have built a wall around me and I have my own mudhole, but know I can start working on myself so that I'm not so alone.. All the best for you from South Africa.

[@indgaming5452]

Hope u enjoy every day🎉

[@robertpaulson6388]

Happy post birthday - this podcast resonated with me as well.

[@rianavanvuuren4470]

@@robertpaulson6388 - oh yes, it was the right place and time for me...

[@KyraSimoneofficial]

11 minutes in and I am fighting tears and don’t know why. I really felt that. ❤

[@MA-eb2kz]

Same!

[@erinjean9971]

🤗

[@mimap275]

The thing l love the most abt your channel is , we get to see these amazing highly successful people who seem untouchable and get insight into their real lives and then we actually see that we are all human, we suffer the same things and can also achieve great things. Truly inspiring. Thank you for giving us the opportunity to experience this Steve!

[@careyholness840]

I mean this with all my heart, THIS IS THE BEST PODCAST THAT I’VE EVER LISTENED TO. The openness, realness, and logic in the insights has giving me a brand new perspective. THIS WAS HELPFUL AND RELATABLE, THANK YOU❤

[@elliotrogers3057]

It's amazing that a man with so much success and impact has the exact same problems as the rest of us. Great podcast.

[@912musiclover]

We need to open up and communicate our loneliness because it’s a very painful feeling. But we don’t in fear of being judged by others, and that by itself makes us feel lonely.

[@himanigautam3562]

This conversation is like two besties having deep conversation.... It's so vulnerable and sensitive and intellectual... Sooo good❤

[@emmanueldigenakis1168]

I am in my darkest days ever. In a span of three months I lost my husband , my father and my best friend. These people were the most important people in my life. The love was different for each of them but the pain is the same. After the funerals everyone goes to their families and homes and I felt soooooo alone. Nobody has time for other people's problems believe me. They stop calling cause they are too busy making Money. Without a social support your doomed.

[@ichasmith4855]

I must start by saying that, this is a deep s**t conversation. It shows that we are human beings, no one is perfect and neither is life. Regardless of our status in life, we all share the same emotions, thoughts, feelings and mud. Why not, at the end of the day, we are human beings and we are all vulnerable. Another great conversation, Steven. 💙

[@MrSantiagotri]

I really felt the part when he said, young people feel they're wasting their time when they take a gap or have a bad boss. It's really challenging for me not to feel I'm achieving remarkable goals, like every day I'm not giving 200% from myself, I feel like a looser.

[@AdamGlenHogan]

This whole conversation was profound. It connected a lot of dots inside of me I didn’t know needed connecting. Holding space with someone, truelly holding that space is a whole different way of communicating. And I love it.

[@cl3165]

Oh boy, listening to Simon brought me to tears. That's because I hadn't had to people to connect/converse with about such matters for a while. I dare say humbly, his experiences and words touched on thoughts and feelings I've had covered up for a while. After watching this interview, I learned I'm definitely guilty of stone walling. I have to learn to let people in. I always felt like an ATM machine that never got money deposits so to speak. Always feeling emotionally exhausted and drained in relationships (friends, family & partners) and now I know why. Giving and receiving is something I need to practice. Thank you both for this interview!

[@nubiemoonsoriginal]

feeling lonely is top of the list for me too. I find that when you move into the loneliness and sit with it it’s not so intense and lifts slightly. We shouldn’t worry about our vulnerability. Covid has left many off us with less friends and family and the world has been turned absolutely upside down. We are raising our vibration and we are all learning that being HUMAN is key to success and vulnerability is nothing to be scared of but to know that we all feel the same things and we can celebrate that now like never before. Celebrate quietly and know you know it all already and then you have the energy to hold space for others. Im single, a middle aged woman Simon if your ever in London and fancy a date!!’ 😂❤😅😮

[@mcm6563]

Tkank you.

[@newhorizonslifecoachcheers]

#1. If you feel lonely and isolated it is because you do not immerse yourself (like basking in sunlight) in his love morning, noon and night every day of your life. #2. They look for love outside of themselves in all the wrong places instead of turning to the True Authentic Light of the World, Jesus The Christ. #3. God, The Holy Trinity does not isolate you. If you draw close to him, He will be your God and protector. #4. Your life path will always be harder when you don't choose Jesus. It's as simple as that. Not my words but his in the Holy Bible. It's like having a choice between two crosses. One 25 pounds and the other 5O. The larger one looks easier and lighter so most people choose it only to find out how tedious it is and regret it terribly. #5. You will never know Heavenly Peace in your life when things are up or down unless you trust in The Holy Trinity. #6. I can say this because he has been strengthening me while I'm going through a mega storm right now. I have heavenly peace in his love although all hell is breaking loose around me and threatening to drown me. I'm standing on the rock Jesus the Christ. He loves and cherishes me and I'm safe in his arms. Blessed with joy and happiness. Powerful Anointed Prayers Just For You kzbin.info/www/bejne/aaDVi6WPhah9prM

[@christinarichie6171]

Did it?? I don't know anyone dead from it not one person. I've heard of a few people been murdered in hospitals or "care homes"... Strange that 💀 lots of heart attacks as well since that injection.

[@christinarichie6171]

​​@@newhorizonslifecoachcheers Yea okay. You still need people it's the way we were designed.

[@wamaingi8612]

​@@christinarichie6171 77i

[@tracethisspace]

"There's no greater honour than being able to serve a friend in need." I had a close friend who needed me to just sit in the mud with her yesterday, and I went into full fixer mode.I see that I should've dialed it down a bit. I know better now. Thank you for the great conversation, as always. 🙏❤

[@sourcehauntings8851]

During my depression I had a lucid dream of Joseph Campbell in a dancing unitard. He was old- in a room full of people dancing. They all danced in unison. He took notice I was out of step. He tried to help but I still could t get the moves right. He told me to move until I move towards something … ( my depression had caused me to be inert) then he took me and spun me like a wind up top and slid me down the long narrow room towards a wall of mirrors and yelled- if you let go it doesn’t hurt as much! I hit the mirror and stood up and shouted.. it didn’t hurt! Everyone clapped and I woke up- totally freaked out

[@EnthusiaBookkeeping]

I’m profoundly impacted at the depth this conversation went. I’ve always had the utmost respect for Simon and what he stands for. This conversation has been such an incredible learning experience for me. Thank you this conversation.

[@armada369]

I watched this 4x. I have all Simon's books. I love him more now that I see this vulnerable part of him. It resonated with me. It is very difficult for me to find love as it seems there is no one I am compatible with. I understand the struggles of loneliness. Thank you for this wonderful journey.

[@JodySugarspringerdoodles]

This is exactly how I feel!

[@rosemaryearly663]

​@@JodySugarspringerdoodlesm

[@Jaymal198]

❤❤❤

[@matthewsowden7646]

This guy is so inspirational , so emotionally strong. What a man 💪🏻

[@di2743]

Noone is like Simon Sinek - ppl matter to this man! "Life is beautiful not because of the things we see or do. Life is beautiful because of the people we meet.” Simon Sinek💜

[@pe9147]

Simons honesty and vulnerability is so inspiring. Thank you both for this conversation

[@goldkeyguidancetarot]

I'm astounded with the level of vulnerability you allow your guests to have on your show Steven, truly inspiring. I also really enjoyed the sense of innocence and curiosity you express when talking to them. Really wonderful to watch, and thank you for your work in this podcast, it's so needed. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@radhikabagadthey3184]

Dear Simon, This might sound hyperbolic and somewhat dramatic, but it isn’t. This was the most authentic conversation I’ve ever heard. What you said about ‘sitting in the mud’, about listening and NOT trying to ‘fix’ things, about practising meditation to empower ourselves to listen respectfully has brought about a paradigm shift in my understanding of close relationships. I couldn’t hold back my tears. It was truly cathartic. I know now what I’ve been doing wrong. Clearly, empathy works like nothing else does. Truly truly grateful for all those insights…for being brave enough to be vulnerable. My prayers for you to find happiness in your personal space. Much love and regards come your way… P.S. Thanks Steve for enabling that engaging conversation. You bring out the real person you talk to, each time.

[@XchelDominguez]

I relate to a lot of Simons philosophy on sitting in mud or dark tunnel but still having that positivity and know there’s light at the end of the tunnel. I relate to the loneliness because of my similar stonewalling behavior. I am direct and stoic but also very sensitive and cry alone. My last relationship ended and i just wish i wasn’t neurodivergent. I didn’t realize i wasn’t showing her how much love and enthusiasm i had internally. I know there’s a lot of benefits to having the type of brain that i have but after so much pain and love lost, i just wish i was somebody else. i feel lost and displaced. i know i’m a genuine good person and all i want is to walk this earth every single day with a heart/mind/body full of love. i’m just constantly stuck. After listening to Simon, I do feel faith in humanity. I realize right now i need to find a life coach or therapist

[@chirokathleen]

I think he’s ND as well. I’m NT and hyper-emotional which isn’t fun or the answer either.

[@JasmineLapuz]

Hello, is there a test we can take to find out ?

[@KureOng]

i just want to say you are not alone, because here I am, with the same exact situation as you, as well as the same mentality. I myself haven't sought out a life coach/therapist yet, but it is one of my next plans. Go for it and I wish that one day we can find a way around this, finding the happiness that we seek

[@jairaphael5222]

This is a really powerful message. I lost my sibling to suicide and I could see he was struggling but did not know how to show up for him in the ways I wish I could have. I really feel that this valuable skill could have saved him.

[@Guitar4life99]

This is why we love Simon Sinek, mind you this is the second time seeing Simon anywhere, but I now understand. What a truly inspirational and outstanding human.

[@mapleacademyofperformingar2679]

I love this and am reminded of when I was a teenager, and went through a series of bereavements, I wrote the words "Flowers never grow if they just have sun, they need the rain too". I forgot those words for many, may years and am grateful that you've had Simon on the show to remind me.

[@KaliKali-hv9bt]

Sounds amazing what you wrote❤

[@CsillaX]

Beautifully spoken about the flower.

[@mariagaralde]

I absolutely love this episode with Simon. I even shed some tears when he was talking about his friend in the army being so vulnerable with him and saying "i love you".

[@mrelixirgalactic]

This is an interview I can watch and listen to over and over and over and over.

[@cjwratchford9428]

This episode tugs on the heart. Yes, we have to go on and be a part of the mission- to serve those who serve others. ❤❤❤

[@piroskavigh6359]

I listened to this during work and there were a few times when I felt like crying. Steven was born to do this. The more guests he interviews, the more aware he becomes of himself and his thoughts and better questions to ask. What is really meaningful in life. Not to have all the money in the world, but to have enough to help yourself and others while serving those in need. I started listening to Steven in 2020. I had moved to the UK just a few months before that and I was soaking up all his knowledge through the podcast. I love the book, bought the journal too and literally can't wait to go on a live show. This has to be my favourite episode. At the end I felt like nothing can surpass this. It's like when you finish reading a good book and you don't know what to do next because it left you speechless. Well, this conversation has left me with so many emotions and thoughts. Steven and the crew are amazing for doing these episodes and I really wish this never ends, because the lessons learned here are priceless. Thank you Steven and DOAC team❤

[@frankyavery]

I love this. Thank you. This guy speaks to my soul. Single, never married, no kids. Minimal friends due to job and travel choices. My biological clock never really ticked outside of early societal pressures but now I'm over it. All I want are some quality friends who get me and someone to share my fun life with. I'm tired of just talking about my life with other people. I just want someone next to me when it happens. I actually try pretty hard to make friends. I'm on all the sites (meetup, fb group, etc). I go to things but getting people to hang out and not flake is like pulling teeth. Especially outside of an alcohol context. I'm not an alcoholic, it's just damn I don't want to be drunk every time I see you. Couples are fun to hang out with but couples dont want to hang out with a single woman and some couples don't know how to uncouple for just a ladies night out. Edit: I wrote this comment before he said that he has a wonderful life and doesnt just want to talk about it hahaha. I wanna cry. Someone actually gets it ~_~.

[@georgieb1471]

This sounds very similar to my experience too. I have lots of good people in my life but I want someone to be in it next to me. Hope we both can make that connection.

[@misscogito9865]

I hear you. Same here…. I’d like someone to make memories with but people I meet, even if they do show up, are only interested in mutual consumption. I miss going on holidays with someone, but I won’t couple with just anyone to have that experience. 😢

[@juicykindess3129]

@@georgieb1471 let’s be friends

[@user-ge6uo2ry2b]

same girl same

[@jalanG10]

I think there are a lot of us in this world right now... It's pretty sad.

[@suzannecrone5897]

I have watched this several times since I discovered it. This is so rich, and I mine something from it every time I watch it. I have experienced so many interactions where I just needed to be heard, to have them "sit in the mud with me," but instead there have been tsunamis of advice, of analysis, and attempts to "fix." And yes, I have ended phone calls, as gracefully as possible, because I wasn't getting what I so desperately needed in that moment. I work to be there for others by being fully present, and am honoured when someone vents. I let them vent. I do this often, but as for my own opportunities, I depend on my therapist, and look forward to finding better community. It's up to me, and it will happen! Grateful for this! Seriously!

[@bridgetambrose9206]

I watched Simon Sinek....(S.S) about 8 years ago and was totally blown away with his philosophy, I could relate to everything he stated. And now I've found him again and just Love how I've grown nearly exactly as he has. Love you Simon Sinek ❤️

[@ElenaKamesh76]

Ciao from Italy, i thought i must say loud about my lonelyness, i'm kazakh from Kazakhstan , we have so social life, we share everything, even food from 1 plate i mean all like 1 person united, not bcz we dont have enough plates..lol we help to each other, neighbor's your truely family etc. Western society is seems so fake like wearing mask, they look like interested in you, say like wanna be friend with you& i believed in them but its just words not more just to look like friendly, i'm shocked in 7 year i found 1 friend only. I'm moving back so finally i can live real happy life.

[@DK-pl1wz]

Takes 10 years usually

[@DK-pl1wz]

In the West, much less in the Balkans

[@erinjean9971]

I would like a community where I’m not told, “you should see a therapist”. I am not stuck, just lonely too. As well as an internal optimist. Wonderful podcast.

[@carlacummins9821]

[type:] HI REN [take:] 9min20sec for viewing [try:] not being touched by it [do:] a deep dive on Ren; learn his medical history and latest treatment for misdiagnosed Lyme Disease [read:] multiple responses by thousands of people and not one of them is negative or even rude [cry:] inevitable, so let it happen [allow:] yourself to feel a shift on levels both micro +macro [know:] we will never be the same "_____" and then ... [feel:] again; finally!

[@fedebrebarzu]

This is by far the best episode I’ve seen in your channel and learned so much from your interaction and stories shared. Wow, thank you both!

[@bacflash]

I came here looking for a fix for my own loneliness but came away with so much more. Its amazing courage and authenticity how Simon breaks down while recounting the Afghanistan experience on a public podcast. What an incredible speaker but an even better human being. Its a privilege watching this and having deep resonance.

[@cristinapachano2306]

It makes me feel if fuzzy inside, proud and relief in humanity masculinity and men as partners when I hear and witness them wholeheartedly sharing about Simon’s service to the world and the reality of his devoted career and relational cost of it !

[@MM-yi9zn]

What an overdue & emotionally supportive dialogue. Simon is a breath of fresh air! We all need this immensely!Thank you so so much Simon.

[@mariannavera3182]

I've struggle so much with having a supporting system that I'm actually writing a book on how to hold space for others and how to communicate and listen our friends... This is a must in our society.

[@karencastoldi1291]

I listen to so many podcasts, but can honestly say that was the most amazing one I have ever seen. I have saved it, I have copied it, even took a photo of the screen, and I’m going to print it out because I am going to be watching this one over and over again. Just wow.

[@ChristineROdera]

What a powerfully real and honest discussion, vulnerable, human to the core. Serving those who serve others ❤️

[@rubinagomes2950]

I didn't expect this conversation to be this enriching, real and vulnerable. It's making me cry and smile at the same time. 💖

[@monikapfingstl1387]

This moved me to tears specifically parts of the discussion. That as an unbelievably powerful conversation. That's as authentic, honest, raw, emotional and as good at serving as it can get on a podcast. I mean you both Simon and Steven you do not just share information and giving great advice which is definitely there but you go a step further showing your own vulnerability and where you are in this journey of life. That makes all the difference. Truly thank you -

[@Ward2010ful]

1:50:18 so inspiring!!! I also cried .. listening to you after heard “ Go on” and sitting in the mud with me…My son joined the Air Force! I am honored to be his mom and hopefully serve him while he serves this world we live in🌻

[@TeachTruth]

This is arguably the best conversation yet. The deep vulnerability and relatability on so many levels and topics is unmatched. Thank you for allowing us to partake. We are all better for it.

[@meesamagill1193]

This episode made me feel less alone, knowing that someone like Simon exists, with similar values to my own and with an army feeling the same way❤

[@graphicallydeb9897]

The most perfect conversation I found at the perfect time. I’ve been a fan of Simon for a very long time now…so long I thought I’d heard everything he had to say multiple times. I’d kind of moved on. This conversation opened a different side, and the two of you went deep on so many topics/ issues. Thank you for this, exactly what I need to get out of a stall and back on track. :) and excited to listen to more of your work. It’s 4:30 am and I’m jazzed to hit the ground running. Thank you for a wonderful surprise start to my day. ❤