Why am I here on YouTube???

[@melissaferguson3464]

Hi ! I know what you’re saying! I don’t understand why this evenhas to be addressed. It makes me sad that some people who clearly don’t know whats going on! Making assumptions are just not good! I know it can be hard with Judging people!! I just wanted to tell you that I appreciate everything you do! you are one of the most down-to-earth people, and you make me laugh all the time because you’re just being yourself! Your channel is refreshing and fun and everyone in this wax family brings me great joy! I love that you share your passion for wax, I love that you share your thoughts and your excitement! It is always a joy to see your hauls and what your warming! I have never heard anything other than complete honesty come out of your mouth ! they like to start drama and cause other people, frustration and hurt! I’m so sorry that any of you girls are going through this.!!

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Thank you my friend!! Yep, someone always has to stir things up! We are all here for the same reason, what did people get, is there a new vendor, who likes this or that....no need for drama! People thrive off it! Which is sad, there is so much suffering in this world, this community should be negative free to get away from all the BS 💜

[@melissaferguson3464]

@@Dazzling_scents_with_chris I agree !!

[@JustJenny2023]

The sad part is, the people that believe these things either won’t watch these videos or these videos won’t change their minds. There will always be negative Nellies, don’t let them ruin your joy!

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

you are so right Jenny!!💜

[@hannahbrodziak8064]

I'm late to the video, but I've got to say, you are the only wax youtuber who consistently makes me LOL. You are great, and I so appreciate and enjoy your content!

[@laura10777]

Exactly, Chris. Drama-free space, please! I’ve never had a doubt about your integrity. Keep on being you, girl!

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Thanks Laura!

[@XizhousScentStudio]

I'm glad I haven't personally seen these comments (about anyone on KZbin). Cuz these are shocking 😅😅 I'm here for the wax and definitely none of the bs

[@katiejones7212]

I will support you. I LOVE watching your honesty. You seem like a wonderful person and I will continue enjoying your videos. People suck and misery loves company. You can keep doing you, girl! You dont owe anyone an explanation. I will continue supporting you. You are awesome just the way you are. ❤

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Aww Thank you!! 💜💜

[@Martha_FragranceCorner]

Thank you for this video. You are speaking for me and others like me that started a channel to talk about wax because it brings me joy. Through this community many of us have become friends through the love of wax. I love what you said about bashing vendors. There are tactful and polite ways of saying something is not someone’s preference without being rude or trying to ruin a small business. I’ve mentioned many times that I’ve had a hard time getting a vendor to perform in MY HOME and know it performs well for some of my friends. I have no reason to lie. None of us do because we all know that wax costs money and we’d hate to have anyone spend their hard earned money on ass wax. I don’t buy it why would I want others to. That makes no sense. None of us get paid by vendors or get discounts or free wax besides samples because a vendor may be looking for specific feedback and they trust our nose with certain scents. In my two years that has happened 3 times and it was for feedback and I know that vendor has also sent samples to non KZbinrs as well. It has nothing to do with views or pushing product and everything to do with getting feedback from people in the community. Wherever there are people there will always be a few rotten eggs that like to start drama or play victim or try to spin something that isn’t true in a negative way. It’s sad but true. Anyway I left a long old comment on Summer’s video as well because I feel the way you feel. It’s upsetting. I almost want to tag on but I think you covered it. Thank you for sharing ❤❤❤

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Exactly Martha!! It's just crazy. Yes, there are a few bad eggs evening life and it's really sad because this is a fun space and it's just wax. There is nothing covert here, just wax! Hell, people haul all kinds of things and show what they love.

[@happilyscentedlife]

I woke up to seeing this video and I’m sad that people feel the need to assume things that are false to hurt someone on YT. We share wax because we love wax and like you I have no one in my circle ( besides my mother) that loves home fragrance as much as me. I love that I found all of you here because you opened my world to vendor wax. I don’t ever feel like any of you are being pushy or salesy or thought once that you were dishonest or getting a kick back. Like what the hell is that? And if you want to be in a round robin, start one yourself!!!! Wth 🤦‍♀️ Love you Chris! ❤

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Thanks Amy! I love seeing your videos! I get a lot on insight from them and enjoyment watching you "love" a scent even when it's something I don't care for. It's food for thought and many times gets me out of my wheelhouse to test my nose on something different to see if my scent preference may have changed. 💜💜💜

[@tarasfragrancedworld]

It’s sad that people want to spread negativity and misinformation in the wax community. There’s always going to be people that want to create drama but we can’t let them bring us down. I completely agree with you. I do this as a hobby, this is not my job. I have a full time job and just do videos to share my love for home fragrance and a lot of times I don’t always share my hauls cause I only film when I am in the mood 😂 thanks for this video Chris! 💜

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

thanks Tara, you are awesome

[@Wax2love]

Hey Chris! ❤ I agree with everything you said on this video. Wax is fun for us and we spend our own hard earned money on it. And that’s why I started a channel…to just share my own thoughts on wax as an outlet for me. KZbin is therapy for me at times. Thank you for sharing your input on these topics.

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

It's great we have this place to come share! 💜

[@saraspillers9865]

I love you Chris! Drama free zone😊

[@susanfitzpatrick3369]

Sadly there will always be people that try to steal the sunshine from people. Like I said on Summer’s video, anyone can send friend-mail or start a round robin. Same Chris, I send wax goodies to people that are not on YT. We enjoy sharing the love! ❤️Its soooo funny to me that people think vendors send wax orders to YTers first. Lots of vendors do not even watch videos nor do they know who anyone is! LOL People that are bitter about the wax community are bitter in life in general. Thanks for the video .😊

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

100% Susan!! we know who we are and liars we are not!

[@CourtneysScentSociety]

Great video Chris! These misconceptions are annoying. We all spend our money and if you’ve watched any of our videos we tell you what works and what doesn’t in our homes. As far as round robins you hit the nail on the head. If you want to do one start one! That’s what I did recently! If you want to participate in a live…ask! Our community is so welcoming and I’ve enjoyed getting to know everyone on a deeper level. I’m not worrying myself with anyone who doesn’t get that

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

You are awesome Courtney!!! 💜

[@emilyrolls3171]

Hey Chris! You are such an honest person. I’ll never forget about the time you said, “smells like your house is burning down.”😂 I love watching your videos and never thought once you’re getting stuff for free or you are pushing me to buy more wax. I love wax just as much as the next person so I’m going to buy whatever excites me and sometimes it aligns with what you all picked up. I certainly appreciate all your videos and the time you put in to share your love for wax with others❤❤❤

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Thanks Emily!! Yes, you do love wax! I've seen you post your hauls on Facebook and would love to see you doing a video LOL. I get so excited to what people bought!! LoL 💜💜

[@emilyrolls3171]

@@Dazzling_scents_with_chris Awe I know! Summer wants me to as well but I just can’t get myself to do it. I’m way too impatient/excited to just open my boxes and sniff through everything😂

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

🤣🤣 this made me laugh out loud!!

[@StacysSagas]

This is breaking my heart! 💔 Where is all this coming from. 😢You ladies are awesome and soooo welcoming. Y’all are such a positive light. It may be an unpopular opinion but I love when y’all get previews. I honestly don’t care if it came to you for free or testers or early access or just by happenstance because you ordered fastest and shipping fairies were on your side. It’s so helpful especially for RTS prep. Especially with NTMV I love hearing other peoples pre order hauls and using that to help me dip my toe into the RTS. I’ve not participated in a round robin .. at least not yet. But I don’t feel excluded. Friend mails are also a favorite. Because they are heartfelt. I typically, can’t listen to friend mail videos while I work because I get so distracted by how the thought and care that goes into them. That can’t be forced. It just comes from the heart. Please don’t let the negative voices crowd out the positive impact you are making. I can’t always comment. But you are one of my very favorite parasocial pretend coworkers.

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

I love being one of your pretend coworkers!! You are my late night videos because your voice is just soooo relaxing! A great de-stressor for sure! It doesn't bother me, I just wanted it to be known that this sort of chatter is out there. I hear you on the commenting, it's hard! I get it! Sometimes I just drop an emoji so people know I was there LOL Thanks Stacy! 💜

[@StacysSagas]

@@Dazzling_scents_with_chris Hooray! I'm glad to be something you can unwind with. Thanks for all you do.

[@summermichelle_]

Chris, I love you and I love this video. I am blessed to know you and call you a friend. Stay true to yourself and what content you want to put on your channel. I repeat, your channel. 🙃 Thank you for sharing your heart with us. 💜

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

You are a shining light my friend 💜💜

[@summermichelle_]

@@Dazzling_scents_with_chris 😘 TYSM

[@jasons_favorite_hobbies]

Unhappy people will allways have something negative or sarcastic to say, when good things are happening to good people. Keep doing you and block those that don't share positivity in the wax community. There are plenty of other channels they can follow and watch, if they like drama.Sadly, our society has become overly sensitive and hateful.

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Thank you Jason, I appreciate you!! 💜💜

[@CandleNurse]

Wax friends are the best friends ❤

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

This is a great idea for a shirt! LOL

[@christinaanaya30]

Aloha Chris... people can be funny, quite irritating funny 😅 but in all that, I love this KZbin wax community... everyone that I have watched is very honest and open in what they have ordered... it has helped me in purchasing and opening my window in trying different scent wax, in fact it's because of you Chris and others KZbinbers that has helped me a whole lot of the time in my orders so I want to give you a BIG THANK YOU!! for your love of wax and having a toutube channel and sharing with us all. Much Mahalo 🌺

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Aloha!! Thanks Christina!

[@joan6873]

It's unfortunate that this resurfaces every once in a while. I've been watching wax videos since 2018 and it's not anything new. I don't know if it's newbies to the community or the same ones stirring the pot. Don't let them get to you, you know the truth and I guess some won't be convinced otherwise. I wish I was comfortable enough to start my own channel but there's always someone who wants to spoil it for everyone! Thanks for the honest reviews.

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Thank you so much!! Yes, I have heard that this sort of thing comes around and rears it's ugly head from time to time. Very sad. I'm not too bothered by it, just wanted my 2 cents and let everyone know that this is a small community and poop gets around LOL. If you ever decide to start a channel please let me know! I will support! 💜💜

[@melissajohnsonhaight5036]

Oooh I feel like I missed something 😔💔 I need to watch summer’s video. Ugh I totally dislike when people are mean. I did have one vendor send me some wax to show. I said sure. And Anya asked me to help her test a couple of her new formulas. The only reason I got early access to zeep fall was because I visited and she was so nice to let me. I think wax pen pals are fun! Sharing with friends, making friends! I did have a bunch of people gift me a ton a free wax when I lost my clubs 😢 maybe it’s me they mean?? I thought that was the sweetest most beautiful blessing I’ve ever had. ❤ maybe I should do a video and explain? 🥺 I’m so confused on what’s happening. I just know I love you and the wax community so much and treasure the friendships I’ve made!! ❤ you guys make my world a better place and inspire me to explore things I haven’t before and I’ve had so much fun!

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

love you to bits Melissa! You are all good!

[@ashleyw3552]

Thanks Chris for doing what you do. Your videos are always enjoyable to watch. I’m a Scentsy consultant myself I’m my own best customer. I think it’s great to see someone who doesn’t enjoy everything they smell. That’s just life not everyone has to like the same thing. The wax community is an enjoyable place, like you I have no one in my real life that enjoys wax so it’s always great to get to watch all of you ladies. I do not have my own channel but have considered starting one.Keep doing what you are doing !

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Thanks Ashley! And if you ever decide to start a channel let me know! I will be there to support! 💜

[@CandleNurse]

I love love love this video!!

[@joannegillock4363]

It's so sad that you have had to address some of the "rumblings" out in the wax community. When KZbinrs have to address these kind of comments, it takes the fun out of this hobby. I appreciate that you have directly addressed any misconceptions some people may have. Keep on going with your channel, Chris. I love your videos and enjoy how you and the other KZbinrs share your enjoyment and love for home fragrances. Like everything in life, there will be negativity, but we're just going to focus on the positive.

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

💜💜

[@CandleNurse]

Wow, I don’t know what to say except that you and many others that I watched for a very long time only encouraged me and gave me the confidence and support to start a KZbin channel and it has been the greatest adventure. This is such an open community and very accepting and feedback is so important. I love your channel! My family has grown to love a lot of the people in this community and love to support their channels. We have a common denominator and that is a love and passion for home fragrance along with other things. This video and Summers video speaks volumes.

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

For the most part this is the best place to be!! Love our community here and I'm so glad you got inspired, started doing videos and making fantastic wax!! 💜

[@monicaruiz1310]

Hi Chris! You’re awesome!

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

💜💜💜

[@eddaharrison2030]

Great video!!! Unfortunately, assumptions usually arrive when someone only knows A,B &C, but they don't know about the rest of the info in the rest of the alphabet. For example, you said and I've said that we watch many videos that we haven't commented on. Someone might assume that we don't watch that person's channel and are excluding them, but they don't actually have all of the facts. I've said many times that I'm so bad about replying and commenting on videos, but that doesn't mean I'm not watching. The community is huge --- I bet I've never even seen 50% of the wax youtubers because they've never come up on my feed. So many times people say "I can't believe I've never seen your videos before". We're a community but that doesn't mean we all know each other. I bet there are so many of us that are introverts ---- introverts don't always want to be involved in everything ---- maybe they were invited for a Live, but declined. The rest of the group isn't going to say that "Name" didn't want to join. Personally, I've known people who got things for free and I really don't care because they've been people who were honest anyway. So much I could say, but this would be too long. We know we're honest, and that we care about each other --- it's great to be in a community where we can share our love of wax. One last thing, I just got monetized recently after reaching 1000k subscribers ---- my current revenue as of this moment is $ 4.10 ---- that won't even cover a souffle or wax bar LOL --- full disclosure 😆

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

🤣 this is why I love watching your videos!! You make me laugh and a pleasure to watch! Yes, commenting is tough because there are soooo many things we want to say in response and a 20 minute watch time video turns into an hour because we type and type LOL I'm just starting to get used to dropping a quick hello, watch and like the video and check out the next one! Go make that KZbin money Edda! Lots of wax to buy! Thanks friend! 💜

[@QueenOfEverythingPeriod]

I love your videos because even if you tried to pretend you liked a scent that you didn't, your face wouldn't let you! 😂.. Love your videos!❤

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

exactly! LOL

[@kathylafayette3765]

Hi Chris, I did watch Summers video but am not always on KZbin so I'm unsure of who is making assumptions. For myself, I am not here for any drama, just for the fun and reviews. Thank you for always being honest, I appreciate your integrity.

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Thanks Kathy! Appreciate you 💜💜

[@julieg1413]

Thank you for speaking your mind! As far as the round-robin misconception goes, I thought you guys included everyone quite nicely with doing a give away at the end! 💜

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

yep! I wasn't about to let that one pass! Thanks Julie! 💜

[@adilenejimenez2990]

I love your videos thank you for being honest continue doing what you’re doing❤

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Thank you! 💜

[@christinedurbin3146]

Speak it girl!! I can’t believe the immaturity of some people!! (But I guess they’re behind a screen) I adore you ladies that make wax videos, I’ve wanted to start making them myself but just haven’t! We do have a love of wax, we all love to chat wax, and we all feel safe in this community about that love! (The “real” world peeps don’t really understand our love and our huge collection of wax) so this is where we can share, without being judged!! I’m glad you spoke your peace!! Hopefully whoever is making these ASS-umptions will understand now. Sheez, some people just love and thrive off drama! Don’t let them get to you! This is your platform to speak YOUR thoughts and opinions (we all have that right) I love your honesty and transparency, that’s a big reason I watch you. I also happen to have similar scent preferences as you! Please keep on keeping on❤❤ 😘

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Yes, yes and YES!! Thanks Christine! And should you decide to start a channel, let me know please!! 💜

[@christinedurbin3146]

@@Dazzling_scents_with_chris oh if and when I do, I’ll be sure to tell all of you!! But then what would I call my channel? And I go by Chris as well! So, there would be you, Kristine and meee!!! 😋

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

hmmm..... that's something I'm terrible at! I didn't name mine and I'm sorry because I don't like it LOL

[@melissaferguson3464]

I love that you andI I have become friends 💜

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

me too!!!! we would get along so well if we lived near each other!!!💜💜

[@melissaferguson3464]

@@Dazzling_scents_with_chris 💜💜 We sure would!!💜💜

[@lynnallen7430]

Sad that you have to make this type of video due to someone’s thoughtless, unnecessary comments & misconceptions …you are one of my favourite KZbinrs… your complete honesty and transparency is what I love the most…I know Chris will tell it like it is and not sugarcoat things. And there are other KZbinrs I watch that are exactly the same way. I appreciate the honesty and all the work you all put into your videos and yes, it is a hobby and it’s wonderful that you can share that with us. I love home fragrance, I’m a Scentsy consultant, not a KZbinr and I do not have people in my life who feel the same way about Home fragrance so I appreciate you and all the other KZbinrs who talk about Home fragrance because it keeps me in the loop and aware of things going on In The wax community. People need to lighten up and get a life. If you have nothing nice to say go elsewhere

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

thanks Lynn!! appreciate it. Some people just like drama and wax is no place for drama LOL 💜

[@lisabremer9391]

It is sad to me that you and Summer had to do these videos to “clear the air” - I am excited to start my own channel and be in this wax community. I love your reviews and others here as well. There are some scents that I have tried and would have been out of my wheelhouse because of the honest reviews! Chris keep doing what you are doing!!

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Let me know when you start your channel! 💜💜💜💜

[@lisabremer9391]

@@Dazzling_scents_with_chris I will! I did the videos but for some reason I must not have my settings correct when recording my video because I did a 13 minute video and when I went to upload to YT it said the file was too big. So back to the drawing board - meanwhile I have wax sitting waiting for me to video! 😊 Thank you so much for the support!

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

oh poo!!! I can't even offer any solution to that because I didn't have any issues. I'm sure it's in the file settings somewhere.

[@Faithlovewax]

I use all scentsy wax and they work amazingly for me

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Agree! I would really have to think about if I've ever had an with Scentsy wax not performing. It always throws for me as well! 💜

[@Faithlovewax]

@@Dazzling_scents_with_chris I use all scentsy warmers as well which do great

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

I can't say enough about scentsy warmers!!! First of all they are the prettiest one's out there! MOST of them work just fine for vendor wax and I only use my non scentsy hot plate warmers for the wax that doesn't like Scentsy, which isn't too many.

[@AaronandJessica]

Sad that you had to make a video explaining this. I haven't noticed any negativity. That's one thing I love about watching my wax community, the positivity. Just ignore the haters. There are far more of us who just need the community surrounding our love of wax. No one local to me understands it, Lol.

[@CandleNurse]

Amen to this❤

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Same here! I have not one single person in my circle that understands the obsession and oh lord if they ever saw my wax room they'd probably have an intervention! 🤣🤣

[@penney1307]

What floors me is you said there’s a wax vendor that doesn’t know what Beach Nights smells like. I wouldn’t pay attn to any negativity if I were you. It’s probably coming from the facebook community & the fact that haul videos are now posted in vendor groups. And even if you were sent free wax why would that matter??

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

I know right. She sent me a sample of what she poured and I never reviewed it publicly. I reached out on IG and discussed it with her. Then I send her samples of a bunch of different vendors beach nights that I had so she could compare. Thanks Penny, I appreciate your input. 💜💜💜

[@amscott24]

I would like to see a video about how you change out the wax so frequently because I don’t understand. Which makes me not want to try wax

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Absolutely!! I'll add it to my list of videos to do!! Keep your eye out for it! 💜💜💜

[@sheherezadek.3812]

I really don't think it's very many people that have those types of assumptions. If you see negative comments, just ignore them, block them, whatever you decide. There will always be that stuff on the internet. I guarantee those people are not your core audience anyway. We know you are not doing this for free wax or $ lol honestly the thought is quite ridiculous.

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Thank you!

[@saraspillers9865]

I love you Chris! Drama free zone😊

[@CourtneysScentSociety]

Great video Chris! These misconceptions are annoying. We all spend our money and if you’ve watched any of our videos we tell you what works and what doesn’t in our homes. As far as round robins you hit the nail on the head. If you want to do one start one! That’s what I did recently! If you want to participate in a live…ask! Our community is so welcoming and I’ve enjoyed getting to know everyone on a deeper level. I’m not worrying myself with anyone who doesn’t get that!

[@Dazzling_scents_with_chris]

Exactly Courtney! I love how we have all made connections people here and not just ones who do videos 💜💜💜