Why Are Over 40% of Older Men in China Staying Single?

[@VelvetSky1102]

this is becoming the norm not only in China but everywhere globally

[@supernovaversion3.05]

Thanks Goy tube for removing joke.

[@shirleygriffin7672]

True

[@michelleduvois2755]

These men's ; must to research for rich women's their own ages if it'possible 🙉 4:58

[@Natascha1979]

As a woman, I support this message

[@TellthetruthaboutChina]

I’ve seen too many men in their 50s and 60s regret getting married. It’s not that they couldn’t make it work, but they realize they gave up too much.

[@John-c4r1o]

Correct, women expect you to enslave yourself to a mortgage and putting children first. The man has to give up all his dreams, he must stay at that safe job because wife and children depend on him etc.

[@Erin-te8bl]

Don't have kids, that help a marriage alot

[@RohitOneWho]

​@@Erin-te8bl No who marry have to thousts as him if not he gona nagging and from kid well and there are risk of divorce and demand of half of property So im not that waek but i also feel there is point if Ur resly poor and u can't even eat food relax then u don't have to be so like that Yep but most of women who last long are divorced or complexes like guys fredome and them so why should sacrifice Yep I'm poor so ik also don't reay want marrage its better if i stay helth and improve life qality Yep im not planing staying to old to live im gona make arrangement u know 😅 If um not able to move like old man in there last breths im gona consume poi@n or May be hevy sleping pills Or thre many way to peacefully pass away Don't scared its not oain like u think its bit but uts better when u grew ild ur senses are geting laking And u cant fell that much Blood in body its best u feel pains of hour But uf old and can't like be able to move freely then u done for it

[@smcdonald9991]

Never got married, never wanted to. Not for me.

[@dassemultor2980]

Men are expected to do their duties until they are dead. They don't have to protect and provide only when they are young, but until they are old and they feel already pain in the morning when they wake up. Women's duties are only optional. If she doesn't want to be sexual with you anymore you shall respect it, when she expects from you that you also do household cores additionally to working full-time and paying every bill, you shall respect her wish, if she doesn't want to cook for you anymore, you shall respect it. Of course you can divorce her, but then she will with the help of the state transform you into a pay slave.

[@vvcc-kg9dp]

We don't need to be married to be happy. Society's pressure to marry is outdated. I'm happier living alone.

[@CIST3]

Good for you. People were created to be in a community. I you don't want to get married, don't. Better than making yourself and someone else miserable.

[@juliansearcie1758]

​@@CIST3 yeah mostly himself since men bring everything to the tables women don't .

[@OptionSpreadProfits]

You are so miserable

[@loneranger66888]

Live alone doesn’t mean not having friends…😊😊

[@svsv1191]

You dont need sex?

[@riffraff521]

My single life is so peaceful and rewarding. You could not pay me to take woman into my home. I’m 72

[@svsv1191]

How do you afford sex then?

[@riffraff521]

@ A single man pays far less for sex than boyfriends, who pay far less than husbands.

[@svsv1191]

@@riffraff521 Sex with condom sucks

[@riffraff521]

@ So do days filled with drama on an emotional rollercoaster with someone who is perpetually dissatified. The sex lasts 20 minutes, the drama filled day lasts 24 hours.

[@svsv1191]

@@riffraff521 Still, sex is a need. No reason not to have sex

[@marymimouna]

I’m an older woman and really enjoyed this thoughtful video.

[@The.End.Begins24]

Being alone doesn’t make anyone lonely. It’s truly a sign of enjoying your own company.

[@shirleygriffin7672]

True

[@sylviaj270]

Also we have people in our lives that we keep company with sometimes.

[@annabanana50]

Instead of getting married as a woman I took care of my elderly mom. Best choice I ever made. She was always there for me and the only loyal and loving person to me. No one else deserved that from me❤

[@mengho7230]

That's a perception. Wait when she's too frail and need constant healthcare.

[@AAAA-vu7fp]

You are a LEGEND That is so blessed

[@annabanana50]

@@AAAA-vu7fpI am blessed I had the chance to take care of her and make her happy❤

[@NaturalDisasterObserver]

Why do people assume single men are lonely? I've got everything I need-money, health, and independence. I don't need a wife to complete me.

[@saltydriver3722]

Marriage is for women. It's what they do 2 secure a man. A man don't need a woman. A woman needs a man. That's why you find a man at 18. You trap him with purity and marry him 2 lock him down. THIS IS THE END FOR MARRIAGE. ENJOY

[@kendall9758]

Everything a traditional wife provides can be outsourced via capitalism.... Horny? = Professionals Hungry? = Uber eats Cleaning? = Cleaners Kids? = Surrogacy Loyalty? = Dog

[@jeremiethomas8005]

Because they can’t see past themselves, and just assume you feel as they do. The same reason they think the things they look for in a partner are the same things you want.

[@springwaterusa2195]

Because people are planning for the future, not the present. Trust me I work in the hospital and have seen so many olders are struggling with no relatives.

[@moonshadowsong]

But you need me😂 we can hang out and play online games at your home

[@YoTrizzy]

The first guy is an absolute legend 🫡

[@nailboy7370]

I agree!!!!! He hit every point with a sledgehammer. He didn’t miss nothing. So right on 👍🏽 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@Markanimation-t2v]

Chinese men are smart

[@rothschildianum]

I was too poor to get married when I was young. At the time, I could get married, but I knew that the problems will arise from lacking of money. Now, I have money, but I do realize that I made the correct decision not be pressured by society. I have a very peaceful life. There is always time and place for everything. I sometime do envy those people who have kids, etc, but also at the same time, their life is not as rosy as it looks. There are more problems than the fun. Those men just have no choice. I am not far from the retirement, I have the money to live till I die.

[@moy9022]

Very smart and practical men. 👍👍

[@Ace1000ks]

I am 48, and I never got married. I had many chances to get married, but I choose not to because I wanted my freedom. My mother keeps nagging me, and say I should get married. Says stuff like don't you want a woman to be near you and eat with you? I said no, I like being alone.

[@manifest2203]

This is the same for wmn too. Except as soon as marrge happens the dude wants her to do all the wrk at home. It makes mn even less desirable as companions.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@manifest2203The same goes for women too. They make their men ATMs and slaves. It goes both ways.

[@v816333316351]

Thats extremely reductive. It needs to be a partnership.

[@kgyapper]

You don’t need to be married to still enjoy another’s companionship whether male or female …. What’s wrong with friends‼️ Or living together⁉️ Just keep your finances separate‼️

[@kgyapper]

Having kids are not what it’s cut out to be …. Lots of kids grow up and leave parents alone or they’re estranged from them‼️

[@TheDragonofRevelation]

The first man is the one that's correct.

[@manifest2203]

All these are good reasons. But anothr important factor is China has 30 million more mn than wmn. So these mn can’t ma5rry even if they want to. Acc to estimates, even if all wmn marr5ied (which wmn don’t want), it is estimated that 30% to half the mn can’t get marr6ied. Apart from marrge rates, brth rates are low too. In their society, fatherhood is a hobby. Motherhood is unpaid, hard labor with no time off for good behaviour. Plus everything is the mother’s fault. Always.

[@shirleygriffin7672]

Exactly

[@thephotochad]

Marriage isn't what it used to be. The game has changed for men.

[@25Soupy]

Exactly, it's a whole different ball game now. All the rules have been changed through feminism, government laws, everyone moving to cities, Women's expectations of being an independent woman yet want men to be traditional at the same time. A woman's money is for her and a man's money is also for her. The first gentleman said it the best, "Women see marriage as a resource they can exploit."

[@davidpitchford6510]

Marriage isn't what is used to be what marriage is now is to be used.

[@CtrlAltDelite]

Greetings, fellow Never Married Gents. Stay strong and happy!

[@TomNook.]

If you've spent your entire life saving to buy a house, car, pension, then find a girl, she's going to keep all that AND a bridal price. Once married, everything will be in her name.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

run! Not a good deal.

[@manifest2203]

Yes as it should. Mn are the pr6viders in pat5chy.

[@YourHineyness]

@@manifest2203 Who hurt you? Damn, so bitter!

[@zikaenendu6214]

Why would everything be in her name when it is your work?

[@litecoinawarenessphoenix34]

Basically "You came empty handed and you will leave the same"..

[@NightmareManX]

Everyone keeps telling me I should get married, but they never consider the emotional toll it takes. Being single gives me peace of mind.

[@shinrinyokumusic1808]

It's impossible to date modern women anyway

[@RohitOneWho]

Whenever I worked 3 to 4 years i also experienced just loked at old peoples miserable life Im not sure but in job they everytime i see them they sems like angey and pain Well its not full of family is reosone but what its related to all that Just after 59 69 its tough if u not fit and only drink alcohol Well but u take care of urself and manage so i think its not that bad

[@imagoodlistener2730]

Never put anything on your name that eats while you sleep.

[@TommyDJr45]

As an American living in SEA I thought this was an American thing. But I'm starting to see that this isn't a cultural issue. People in general, all over the world, are going the same thing. Idk what the issue is or how it can be "fixed" but I think we are experiencing something really interesting. We are leaving behind certain traditions and beliefs.

[@AlaaNasinza]

As a Ugandan,I believe in what you are saying but it's done in both sides, for men and women

[@daniella8400]

Everyone is tired! Especially women!

[@kokoyaro]

Men don't have the natural urge for human connection and/or group belonging as women do. That's why men don't feel lonely when we're alone.

[@vaguincolombia]

You are right.

[@4evertrue830]

Even when men decide later on in life at the age of 40, 50, or 60 to get married, you will realise that the women who are single, are still picky and nag a lot. Is that the woman to get married to? 😊

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

That is actually not true. I see men who are lonely long for connection more than women do overall. But it still depends on the person.

[@kokoyaro]

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj Men long for 5ex, not emotional connection

[@manifest2203]

@@kokoyaro yes and wmn form other social networks which aren’t about smex. And wmn don’t prioritise smex.

[@anguslaing6611]

Love to our Chinese brothers

[@agnesw4189]

Moral of the story is NO marriage!

[@MasticinaAkicta]

Smart and wise men! Definitely with how dangerous marriage is.

[@Layput]

I was married. Married the love of my life at 22. Then we fell out of love. I gave up a lot. I wish I never married.

[@jaytso1883]

There are always pros and cons to any one particular consideration. It's up to each individual to think hard and decide whether marriage is suitable for himself.

[@poodlescone9700]

Wow. these men are wisdom incarnate.

[@VMChannel588]

those men are make sense 😊😊

[@shlee3120]

One can be fulfilled as a single,travelling holidays n free to do as one pleases! 👍👍👍

[@James-mc5hc]

No one can be happy living alone. But getting married and losing your properties house car and children anytime is suicide. Moral of the story. Cohabitate don't marry.

[@jaijai5250]

Speak for yourself. Don’t judge others by your own standards. Just because you’re codependent, doesn’t mean that the rest of us are. Some people can be fulfilled and contented living alone. Being single doesn’t mean you don’t have contact and interaction with other people.

[@saltydriver3722]

2 much risk. Not enough reward. Easy answer.

[@rross27]

True... The juice is not worth the squeeze...

[@akula9713]

The way he carried the food at 13:08 🤣 he was obviously looking forward to it. Good for him!

[@TJ-bs4wv]

I'm a European man, and the older i get, I know that women are women and men are men, no matter where we are in the world. Listening to these Chinese men, I really understand them. Who wants to be with a woman, that only wants the man's resources. Women needs to step up, for to long, they had been put on pedestal, with few expectations and no accountability for there actions. Relationship will be great again, the day woman learning about accountability and humility

[@MPeaches1958]

So, In other words....never.

[@chilipepper9938]

Woman won’t step up, until subsidies stop, and government laws change.

[@Monster-ks2yx]

Women are srpping up, they just aren't settling anymore.

[@MrTheologianscafe]

Damn preach it brother!

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

I agree and my parents taught me that as a woman from the beginning so I know how it is. Many women are too arrogant!

[@stanleysalters1195]

Very good video 😊.

[@SeyfOrmesh]

Wow ,I really like your perspective,and agree with your point of view... keep going

[@hoomannili]

55, stayed in cold-room "marriage" for 20 years and still paying for it. Never again Marriage poses no obligation on women whatsoever, but man are doomed and can even end up prison.

[@thepassportog]

Bouncing back from a divorce with kids will take about a decade. Remember that.

[@nonenothing8648]

Hard to say. I am never destined to be unmarried. I want children around. I am now 63 and my children are no more with us except for the youngest. I have not received any money from my children and never will I ask. But I told my wife, that we got to find an alternative income because our children can not be depended on to support. Unfortunately my wife is not the type to do business. So I have to learn everything without support.

[@Bunny11344]

That’s why I will never have kids. U can’t expect your kids to take care of u or help u when you’re old. Parents are no different than those with no kids at the end, they just sacrifice their life more

[@Erin-te8bl]

Yea, it's alright for men to stay single forever, they can survive well. It's different for females. Being a single female in this world is hard and it's really lonely.

[@Guitar6ty]

Men just get on with it and accept being on their own.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

That is not true as I know many single women who are happy. But yes, some need a man to survive.

[@Erin-te8bl]

@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj not all women are strong enough to lift and carrying, shifting all heavy items, or feel safe being on their own. Men really are valuable help alot in certain aspects in life.

[@supernovaversion3.05]

​@@Erin-te8blInteresting time is loading.

[@Erin-te8bl]

@Bunny11344 well, everyone is different. I wouldn't do well being alone when i'm older.

[@warrior29363]

Here in Colombia, it's the same. First, you must secure a professional career; second, secure a house; and third, live your life. But getting married is not worth it (if you are male).

[@DBX4018]

As a woman I like this video. As a women I also choose to stay single, but it's the men that like to insult me because of my choice. Saying I will die alone with cats. So why isn't anyone saying this about these men? I support their message!

[@oki9395]

On the other hand, my cousin has been bad mouthed by too many women, all women, such as the old aunties, the friends of his mother, even the women about some year older than him. Some men just feel weird, some other just don't care, but none of then ever said bad or bullied him as the women do. Do you think that unmarried people are bullied by their opposite genders?

[@Muzzy0085]

I'm exactly like these guys. Never married but have enjoyed many women.. now my life is peace

[@raymondhumphrey2749]

Little Round Eyeglasses Man Is spot on.. Excellent Explanation 👍💯🎯

[@KennTollens]

51 single, never regretted my freedom.

[@Andy-uj1fe]

Same here!!!!!

[@nb4394]

We must respect each person's choice, but we must accept that if we are in this world, it is because our ancestors took on the challenge of marriage and sacrifice. A truly brave person will accept this struggle, because the noblest act , is to give life !!!

[@rcardoosuna6491]

These seem like smart practical old dudes that have figured out being single the best way to go to avoid high risk and stress associated with marriage and children.

[@Hanna5859]

Older men are happier being single. Older women, well, that's another story...

[@arkansharif5135]

Older women are happy too being single.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

Single man needs a computer, internet and a bunch of games and lots of p0Rn. Women = they need to social and spread gossip to keep them happy.

[@ArifWiwitan]

​@@arkansharif5135 nope women always prefer to have someone else provide for them

[@gstlb]

Here in the USA a higher percentage of men over 50 get remarried than women. It seems more women want to remain single. I’m just sharing the statistics.

[@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj]

@@ArifWiwitanThat used to be true but not anymore as women can provide for themselves these days.

[@GoogleUser-td1ic]

A lot of men fully awoke during the three years of the pandemic.

[@georgecrawford6869]

2nd guy's dad wanted a grandchild to continue the family line or name.

[@MultiLinda42]

I m an older European woman and single and happy!❤

[@rex25k]

This guy is BASED

[@coinsadventurer]

Wow, i'm 46 now, go out any time, eat what ever like, drives anywhere

[@BonnersFerry]

Amen my Chinese brother

[@MukadisAymen-ui8fy]

I Think if all people wants to live a single free life human beings will go extinct okay the program is marriage of become business for more women that is why men are losing interest that's all

[@lowbloodprsure]

His father wanted him miserable as well. Bad parenting.

[@manifest2203]

Exactly. This dude will only spo6il the life of anther woman. Thank God he didn’t ma4rry. These are the men who make bad hdbnds. And then gaslight the wmn. It’s good that his dad pushing him onto some unsuspecting w6ma8n didn’t work.

[@Angelhelo227]

It’s not that men don’t want to get married; there are not enough women in China, and many cannot afford to pay a hefty dowry.

[@billlewandowski-e9y]

Different strokes. Some people crave marriage and 6 kids. Others prefer to remain single all their lives. Others still enjoy being married without kids. Lastly, we have couples who enjoy themselves without the benefit or burden of marriage. As for me the best formula is having a beautiful wife that adores me for no good reason, as I do my best to justify her adoration. Good luck out there!

[@Splittechfeelings]

I will say though myself life has kinda put me in a position of being alone. I've got one close friend and a few loose friends. I'm just trying to aspire to make as much money as I can and be free. I don't want children and honestly the older I get the less I want to get married. Part of me doesn't want to be alone forever, but slowly I'm starting to find the joy in being by myself

[@FHIPrincePeter]

The first man was on point.

[@nicolascanale4877]

I'm single and definitely not lonely or depressed. I'm happy single and I'm 38 no kids never been married. Dating is a constant give give give nowadays, it's exhausting and keeps me down. Women aren't willing to go in 50/50 anymore. It used to be, but is no more. And to be fair, there are women who still value the traditional way over money and material, but they are tough to find and that's why most dudes in the USA are staying single. Life is simplified and cheaper. Sux to say but it's true. If a good opportunity runs my way, I'll definitely take it, but I'm done looking and hoping.

[@AlaaNasinza]

But even serious women are there, who are looking for serious relationships

[@Mulesoftuser]

After watching many videos like this, i observed that single men who realise that its ok to not get married are very happy and content. But single women are saying they r fine, but are really stressed out.

[@BigJoe-g3o]

yeah because guys are just their tools lol .

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

bc, too many gold diggers, women with feminist ideas, bribe price, insane standards at 30+ yrs old and etc

[@teoleno4019]

Why should settle just because they a 30+? We live in different time. Many women have their own money and need men like fish needs a bicycle. The life of a women is way more stressful when you have to take care of a male and his offsprings for free. Nothing is free in 2024.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

@@teoleno4019 Good, let them continue to live independent, no need a partner in their life. Hope their life is good when they are sick and old and on one to visit them or take care of them.

[@BobbyLoo-jr8ys]

@@teoleno4019 Yet, why so many 35+ single women regret not marrying in their mid 20. Also regretted rejecting those men chasing them, saying their careers are more important. And now their career is establish and they are ready to settle, no man is interested, other than 50+ and divorced man. Wonder why!

[@voodo0983]

UK here. I wanted children so took the plunge in the 1990's despite reservations that ultimately came to pass. Divorced after 26 years with her. Not sure how society can perpetuate if we don't have children in a stable partnership but losing half my stuff late in life has been brutal. Ex-wife has a fully paid off 5 bed house, and I am renting a small terraced place. I would love grand children but couldn't recommend marriage to my son.

[@shirlebryant9427]

EXCELLENT

[@shirleygriffin7672]

Just subscribed

[@bairamkhan8]

Now a days it has become very tough to get married and raise children because of which this situation has arise. Women's are no longer feminine and has a very expection. Things were not like this in olden days. There was very strong family system so that everyone was taken care off.

[@manifest2203]

Yes mn haven’t ev8lved. They still think they are the main character.

[@kalasatwater2224]

I wish many old men going to the Philippines thought like that man from the beginning

[@abfab2517]

people from philippines are way too atractive and friendly and excellent cook !

[@jo_elvis2805]

👉🏼We've reached that point when the risks of becoming old alone - outweigh the stress and risks of being with the wrong mate.

[@kubasniak]

I have the same mindset as this man. Too bad there are not many or probably any women at all who want the same especially in adulthood.

[@donaldwu909]

I really don’t know where you got the figures from.

[@irenetalan8593]

You are a smart man.

[@AlphonseWeebay]

I will NEVER have somebody telling me whatnot

[@josephroth8761]

I enjoyed your video as I am married for the 3rd time and only learned in my older years it is better to be single. Men as far as I know marry for love and women marry for security but after some time women want something else and a man will lose a lot of what he has worked for. I would tell men not to marry and enjoy whatever you like to do. Whatever little you get from a women you will pay for many times over . Women are beautiful and very desirable but what they offer once in a great while is paid be a man many times over.

[@flyonevilwings]

this dude's glasses are sending me. im addicted to these videos, even if they are quite sad

[@richieredw9218]

That man speaks the truth...I thought it was only in the Philippines that the women look to men to solve their financial problems, the difference is that Filipinas look for foreigners to improve their life and in some cases help their family.I agree with those Chinese men Bravo 👍😉

[@MonchoDeLaMota]

These bros do eat like kings, can’t deny that.

[@user-jq7rt1qu6i]

Smart man. I like what he said marriage is love and not to take an advantage of each others.

[@pandereodium]

Although I won't get married again, I gotta be honest, it is still hard to separate the word "marriage" from "family". I may create a family someday, but I won't sign any papers that will turn me into a soulless slave.

[@CalebSpirit124]

Had family member , who watched argue with argumentative wife everyday. Glasses breaking; slamming doors. Because one of them, didn’t know how to let the subject go. A horrible experience. He ended up marrying another; lil more peaceful, did some traveling. Able to create a life. He asked me, when I was going to settle down with someone; I being married and divorced, 20 years in .. by this time. I said “ What for “. He stated “ For Companionship “. I ended his questioning, with “A companion for who ?” So many get in relationships, to satisfy other people’s dreams for you; not your dream, for yourself. Note: Someone bringing More Peace; then I am 100% all for the companionship. But, if all it is stealing time and allot of drama … to me, better off temporarily alone. I believe, everyone’s added peace is out there. But until then.

[@markumoeder]

I wish there were some traditional woman, but all there is, is government profiting off of relationships. In the name of liberation.

[@susanmullins7713]

They observed,got smart!💓

[@susanmullins7713]

Stay single guys,marriage sounds like parisite wasp and your the caterpillar.💔

[@akula9713]

The food looks delicious 😋😛

[@ForgedSigma]

The first dude got his act together. His theme song is….”I ain’t sayin’ she’s a gold digger, but she dealing with no broke…”😂

[@dakinejeb7890]

That first bro was spot on. 😊

[@eltoro6064]

All the men are wise, smart, and right. Their concept of staying single is profound and correct. I agree and support their thoughts totally. Don't get married because others want you to. Don't get married because of a pretty face, a nice body, etc. My thoughts and sympathy go out to all the men in this video, and to all the men in China.

[@cm-lv1bu]

Awesome chinese wisdom. I'm getting married though. C

[@pamelaye5591]

Not only men, some women also prefer to live a single life. More women also pursue education, jobs, and financial independence. Looking for the right partner is also a challenge. Here in America, some younger men and women also just look for someone who will support them financially. Looking for a partner with the same values is not as easy. There's nothing wrong with wanting to stay single.

[@choonlianchee8601]

1st single man is very smart. Knows how to protect himself.

[@SunnyLin-j9w]

This is happen all over the world. It's because of how off balance the masculine and feminine energy is in each person. We are in soft times now. It's sad how now days men are giving up there men hood so a woman can be the head . That's what is off balance.

[@TmoneyOGGamer]

The first guy says it all, great reflection of his life, peace of mind! Not being taken advantage of, men have awakened, and we are not going back. The financial aspect of a relationship is more important than love in a modern relationship. Those with experience knows that, getting married doesn’t change that, you just have to live with it everyday…lol She loves her designer bags and perfumes more than she loves you, a marriage means you have to maintain that habit, she just got herself a slave

[@addis.temari]

My Asian Brothers!!!!!! I've always had a deep respect for philosophy, especially well thought lessons. Be Respectful. Eat/Drink Well. Leave No Burdens. Great Lessons, Brothers. Black American.

[@pwu8194]

Who needs a spouse when you can have pets? They never argue with you. Okay, you can't travel around the world without a pet sitter, but it's cheaper to hire a pet sitter than divorcing a spouse.

[@25Soupy]

Facts!

[@shlee3120]

This is most sensible outlook in life! it's both sides working towards same goal!! Partnership n companionship!

[@thescribe3184]

There's nothing more important than marrying the right person and starting a family.

[@angeleye8953]

When stating a family not and

[@natashadickson4819]

The older women are framed as "leftover" but not the older men who outnumber such women. Um. Okay.

[@kleek2217]

very true. and curiously a majority of old men insult older women and look only for young girls... who often just want to trade themselves for money or power. So the old men without money? The young women dont want them. The men dont want partners their age. And thus - single. sigh. .

[@fialee8]

I would add that if anyone goes to a "retirement" home, it's prob 90%-99% women. Almost all men will die before going to a retirement home, or will die soon after. So men, live your best life, and don't worry too much about getting very very old... as you won't get there. Your concern should be to spend most of your money before dying, and leaving a huge pile of money for someone else.

[@manifest2203]

No. It’s because the husbnds receive care giving from the wives. It usually ends with end of life care for the mn done by the “wives”. But wmn never receive caregiving from husbnds. More wmn shld espape the care giver trap. No one is more devalued than the “wife”. It sucks her life force. And wmn married oldr and outlive mn by 5-7 years. So even if a woman married someone 3 yrs older, she will be alone for a decade. Then more mn will flood the retirement homes 😂

[@manifest2203]

No. It’s because the husbnds receive care giving from the wives. It usually ends with end of life care for the mn done by the “wives”. But wmn never receive caregiving from husbnds.

[@manifest2203]

More wmn shld espape the care giver tr4ap. No one is more devalued than the “wife”. It sucks her life force. And wmn married oldr and outlive mn by 5-7 years. So even if a woman married someone 3 yrs older, she will be alone for a decade. If more wmn don’t become “wives”, then more mn will flood the retirement homes 😂

[@manifest2203]

More wmn shld espape the care giver tr4ap. No one is more devalued than the “wife”. It sucks her life force. And wmn married oldr and outlive mn by 5-7 years. So even if a woman married someone 3 yrs older, she will be alone for a decade. If more wmn don’t become “wives”, then more mn will floo8od the retirement homes 😂

[@fialee8]

@@manifest2203 You apparently don't understand dying earlier is not a good thing.

[@anguslaing6611]

I'm from Australia. We had to vote on whether it became legal for gay people to marry. I voted YES... I think everyone should have the right to be miserable.

[@jimbennett3788]

They are better off as single economically and likely emotionally too

[@aniinnrchoque1861]

Simply put, pay for play is cheaper in the current environment.