Why are women not obliged to lower their gaze, Quran says women must also lower gaze

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[@abumansaray7]

Before people say the Shaikh is wrong about women, perhaps go read some literature on the topic. He is 100% correct about the way men and women approach attraction and relationships with the opposite sex. The primary mechanism of attraction for men is the way a woman looks. For women, physical attraction is not the primary. Before saying the Shaikh is incorrect, go read and educate yourselves first.

[@daydreamendeavors3695]

Salam.. Women should lower their gaze even with other women because they get envious.

[@thabassumzulfikar8463]

Very true. I realized I do this a lot and it helps me not feel bad about my appearance and accept the way Allah has created me. Thank you for speaking the truth. May Allah guide us.

[@yeasiraman2474]

2:29 story of yusuf (as) instantly popped up in my head

[@syedafaryal3883]

My opinion is contrary. 1) The hadith he mentioned is authentic, but at that time the hijab ayat didn't come. Later on the ayat came and ask women and men to lower their gaze and women to cover themselves. 2) Secondly, Hazrat Ayesha was a kid at the time, and like normal kids who love to see something entertaining like a game or sports. She was also a kid and it was a kind of entertainment for them and Prophet SAW allowed her to look at them as long as she was satisfied.

[@mohammedmmm6063]

Now a day It is very common dialogue in girls He is my Crash at my first look

[@farahsiddique6702]

May Allah save us from sins AMEEN AND forgive us our sins

[@farahsiddique6702]

Thank you

[@MohamedShou]

The example that Sheikh gave is a bit misleading in my opinion. I’m pretty sure especially where I’m from if a very handsome man walked in front 20 women I’m certain most will look as well. Even in the Quran we have the example of Yusuf (AS) and his story where all the ladies cut themselves because they where distracted by looking at Yusuf (AS). I agree there are differences in how women and men see beauty and choose one another but don’t be mistaken beauty is beauty regardless if you are a man or woman

[@afra4712]

Oh. I get it now. So I don't have to lower my gaze unless fitna? JazakAllah Khair. But I wonder how men lower their gazes nowadays. Must be hard. Don't get me wrong there are many tight clothed men but I feel as if men face it harder.

[@mohammedismail201]

Yea ur ryt... Both gender shouldn't wear tight clothes... sheikh assim al hakeem said for men its not recommended to wear tight jeans bit if they wear its permissible cuz the tightness of the awra of the man is nothin compared to tht of the tightness of the awrah of the women. Depends how tight they wear.. Still men should try to wear normal clothing

[@mercifultime1687]

2:23🤣🤣🤣🤣 shaikh you're sooo Savage !!!! May Allah give you long life

[@wwidgworldwideislamicdawah197]

2:29 Women in Surah 12 Verse 30-31 cut their hands when they saw how "beautiful" Prophet Yusuf (AS) was.

[@muslimah868]

You are right sheikh... May ALLAH give you long and healthy life because you always talks about the authentic resources and you are like a teacher to me. A very respectful person near to me. May ALLAH be please with you ameen

[@bilkissdhar787]

The way you explained is really smart with funny remarks. I certainly like all your video.

[@mohamedismail6273]

Eye opening video for people like me who complicate the laws

[@mohammedmmm6063]

Mu’awiyah ibn Jaydah reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “Three eyes will never see the Hellfire, an eye standing guard in the way of Allah, an eye weeping from the fear of Allah, and an eye lowering its gaze from what Allah has forbidden.” Source: al-Mu’jam al-Kabīr 1003

[@Fadedfrost1]

This is a rare case today ya sheikh, even in Muslims. 2:39

[@abdulhakamjibril]

You may have a point

[@khalidsaeed786]

Salaam brother. Thank you for guiding us. May Allah bless you.

[@mohammedmmm6063]

If both men and women are required to be modest, then students should consider that the Qur'an is describing the ideal society that Muslim men and women should build together, one that requires both men and women to avoid eye contact, provocative clothing, and situations that might lead to sexual encounters

[@mohammedmmm6063]

Umm Salamah reported: While we were with the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, Ibn Maktum was given permission to enter. He entered and that was after the command to veil. The Prophet said, “Veil yourselves from him.” I said, “O Messenger of Allah, is he not blind? He cannot see or recognize us.” The Prophet said, “Are you blind such that you cannot see him?” Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2278 What you think women should not gaze infront of gayre mahram I think both men & women should not make eye contact... It will lead them both to big seen

[@AhmadEdinHodzic]

Sunnah is important but Quran is more than sunnah!

[@AhmadEdinHodzic]

You judge Sunnah based on the Quran you don’t judge Quran based of the Sunnah Astaghfirullah! Allah AWJ words never change!

[@arandomguywithabrain]

2:14 Bombshell lol 😆😂

[@izy9911]

Alhamdolilah for this video

[@mohammadiaa]

The hadith is cute

[@ridovercascade4551]

This Hadith came after the Ayah or before?

[@sulaimanahmed6566]

What abt men looking at women with no fitna

[@shadowstorm5261]

The hadith says they where training with their spears. It didn't mention them being uncovered. So we can assume that they were covered. Unless there is a part that I haven't seen specifically saying that they were not covered.

[@MG.102]

Selam aleykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh Brother i wanted to ask. Is this Intro just edited or is this an streaming app for Islamic content? Barakallahu feek

[@dareemaaboobacker3889]

assalamu alaikum please try to answer my question i am confused..... can a girl can wear loose jeans or pants and t shirts..m which is fully covered...

[@Justalayman]

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[@Justalayman]

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[@TawheedPromoter]

Don't thinks so tbh but you should ask a scholar

[@prizma45]

The example isn't true, men will look at any woman but women will go for the most handsome man even if they're poor.

[@umarjanbhat3819]

❤️

[@abubakribnzuber6193]

What if there is some famous actor or singer

[@Earthling108]

2 out of 20 looking at a handsome man… he clearly hasn’t seen how a Justin Bieber concert operates lol

[@baheejtsk7314]

It's people like Justin beiber, who is a musician, arr more than just looking good.

[@sanssufiyan6261]

he's comparing bearded people with sharp jawlined trimmed males.. the way females look at henry cevil and so many other celebrities etc emraan hashmi these females have huge crushes on these celebrities and please read my comment on this video..

[@sanssufiyan6261]

@@baheejtsk7314 no... they are hella attractive..

[@Rashda123-qm7tl]

I am a woman but iam get attracted to men and i try to lower my gaze . So is there anything wrong with me?

[@nahhme6484]

But if the Quran says it… then it says it….

[@Rashda123-qm7tl]

Iam a woman and i get attracted to men so i lower my gaze . Is there anything wrong with me?

[@Safx_72]

But like what if there are men dancing or something does this count as fitnah??? Plz someone help me🙏

[@5mala]

Well first off, the men would most probably be dancing to music so that's haram uknow😅 it just depends from person to person if you start to feel attracted towards them even a lil bit then that means look away.

[@okkydirgantaraohara126]

Yes. Dancing is form of seduction and seduction is only halal if done by marriage couple.

[@fardiishereable]

every sheik can make mistake... and this time he didnt end with Allah knows best...... Quran said then clearly it is finished... women must also lower gaze......that hadees is not enough to cover Quran clear cut verse..... I request please recheck and remove this video

[@programferris1018]

Ash-Shaykh Albaani, may Allaah have mercy upon him, said this for MEN who wear tight pants: “(As) for Wearing pantaloon (i.e. tight pants), then we have spoken about it numerously. It is a foreign type of clothing. It is not permissible for a Muslim to wear it … (rather), wearing it in the prayer is more deserving to be rebuked due to it showing the shape of the major awrah and the minor awrah. It shows the shape of the private parts and it shows the shape of the thighs. In reality, those who are afflicted with the clothing pantaloon (i.e. tight pants) should bring to attention to themselves that it is appropriate they be like the women (by praying in the last rows of the congregation prayer), The best of the rows of the women is the last of it.” The Reference: al Haawee min Fatawaa As Shaykh Albaani , page:335, print: Mussasah sumaa.

[@Directlite664]

I think he is wrong about women.

[@Nima-ec4tr]

hello

[@ringgame]

Bombshell xD

[@yusufmustafa7159]

Sheikh will all respect women are as corrupt as men are aswell I’d advice them all to lower their gaze as to not let the shaytaan get into their mind to trick them

[@lilyrosesoul0077]

Salam brother - to some extend i agree with you. Women today usually not as shy as 1500 years ago. But there still some modest shy ladies around. Besides in one surah it is mentioned the women stared at Prophet Yusuf due to his beauty. Nonetheless i do agree with you - both men and women - better we try to lower our gaze. On the streets, in social media etc - good looking people like to show off to attract attention - so both men and women can end up committing zina with our eyes. And its not easy nowadays! May Allah protect us and forgive our transgressions. Usually I agree with the sheikh - but i think maybe he may not realise society has changed too much.

[@Am-ss6qi]

Women look at men too .

[@mikailipek4971]

ok

[@definitelynotcharaznable7749]

Well, i guess those K-pop fangirls are special case

[@5mala]

😂😂😂 But alot of women are just away from nature these days even the ones with hijab don't have modesty in their hearts and eyes sometimes

[@As_salafiyyahh]

Bombshell?!?!?!?? 😇🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@rizqiwidyananto3546]

I think Women also obligated to lower the gaze because there is a reason why Allah SWT say the women also to obligated to lower gaze in An Nur 31. If Syekh told women didn’t need lower the gaze ,why Allah put the command to lower the gaze in that verse (An nur 31) ,So contradiction. I believe Allah SWT as the creator know Women also like man ,as Allah imbued the desire for them. The case is different with the hijab.The Reason Why Man didn’t wear it because there is no single verse which tell men to wear hijab .but it told to the women. But for lower the gaze ,Allah SWT mentioned both gender.

[@mohammedmmm6063]

women can fall in love with men Love at First Sight... Is this not possible ? A women's husband can be bad looking. She can be empress by a handsome men by her first look. Or they can make eye contact It is very simple Whar will happen then Between them.

[@UziGR6642]

next day women watchs corn of man😂😂

[@halalpolice7544]

So, I was lowering my gaze in my while live especially when I’m watching movie and they kiss, I naturally hate it but now I can watch it?💀😳😂

[@Jirenblack82]

You can’t watch people kissing, cause public display of affection is Haraam.

[@tidra4079]

Well movies are full of haram stuff anyway such as music, display of half-naked people, haram ideas that cause fitnah (premarital relationships, drinking, drugs, gambling etc.) so it is not permissible to watch them. May Allah guide us.

[@zeeshankhan5302]

you still can't watch it because it is haram and you should refrain from watching indecent things like this

[@baheejtsk7314]

Wht you mean by "Can" here? Did you mean ALLOWED by "can" or Just CAPABLE? Second one might be possible since you are woman. But that still does not make it permissible for you to watch it. This is a common misconeption among muslims that they think if they do not get turned on by seeing somethin, it's okay for them to see that. It is usully heard from women since they arr not that visual as men they can see and watch many things without getting turned on so they think it's okay for them. No, it's not okay for them like it is not okay for a man to look at other men's private parts even though it doen't make them turned on. Therr are things which we are not supposed to look at, whether they make us feel like looking at them or not.

[@sanssufiyan6261]

Idk what makes some people think that women are bashful or they find it easy to lower their gaze i just don't get it that what these people come up with... WALLAHI I AM SOMEONE EXPERIENCED WITH CRAP LIKE THAT AND I SAY THAT FEMALES ALSO LOOK AT MEN THE WAY WE DO... IN SCHOOL GIRLS USED TO STARE AT ME AND SOME OTHER BOYS AND THEY WERE SHAMELESS... NOWADAYS AS WELL I NOTICE LITERALLY EVERYWHERE WOMEN ARE WITH THEIR FRIENDS SAY STUFF IN EACH OTHERS EARS AND I HEARS.. I HEARD THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT CERTAIN GUYS AND MANS HOW MUCH ATTRACTIVE HE WAS HOW MUCH SEXY HE WAS HE HAS THIS HE HAS THAT ETC ETC... WHEN I WASN'T MUCH CLOSER TO ALLAH ME MY OWN FEMALE FRIENDS WERE WALLAHI INTO BOYS SO MUCH AND ONE GIRL SAID IT FROM HER OWN MOUTH THAT "I have a crush on every boy" When her friend asked her who she had a crush on... A girl friend of mine was telling me that a girl that i know had a huge crush on me and she used to annoy her friends all the time talking about me with them... I HAVE SEEN WOMEN CHECKING MEN OUT.. I HAVE HEARD THERE CONVERSATIONS.. I HAD FEMALE FRIENDS AND LITERALLY SO MANY COUSINS AND 2 SISTERS... I HAVE NOTICED THEIR FREAKING NATURE... HOW IN THE HELL ARE THESE PEOPLE WHO NEVER EVEN "SAW" A WOMEN CLAIM THAT THEY HAVE SPECIFIC NATURE... HOW?? LIKE HOW???? Men and women are totally same in nature... We are different physically.. But mentally we are all same.. Some women out there are smarter then men and some men out there are smarter then women... Intellect patience discipline and all of these things depend on person itself.. Not that men are more and just every men are more smart and every women is more smart or whatever... Is completely wrong... Female nowadays are addicted to porn and they find hard to lower their gazes as well... Some people say men are the ones who find it hard but idiots are just telling their own stuff.. Men who are not addicted porn and masturbation find quite easy to lower their gaze lowering gaze for them is nothing... It's not even a big deal.. Me myself Alhamdulillah it lowering my gaze feels nothing to me... It's no big deal for me... But a men who's a thirsty simp pervert would for sure find it hard to lower his gaze.. He doesn't even respect women around him.. What kind of men are you when you don't respect women??? Idk what is up with people... I mean in my entire life i had so many female friends cousins that used to talk to me and i used to respect them like other boys in my family and other friends of mine in school as well.. It was nothing big it was respectful simple and everything was normal.. When i got religious what i noticed about religious boys is wallahi they are so weak in controlling their desires and they way the define women nature.... Wow.. Just incredible... Perverts for sure.. This is their mentality.. Though they are religious i was shocked... I was like dude these people pray so much worship Allah so much how can THEY be so simps? And weak minded?? Boys who were in my school and my old friends were way better... Though they weren't much religious but wallahi they could control their urges as if it was nothing and they used to respect girls.. We had such a great friendship back in those times.. But i know that this is wrong so now I've changed but wallahi i am disappointed at some people and the fact they are scholars is more shocking.. Whenever religious male look at women i notice his behavior he starts to act like as if he never saw a women in his entire life... He feels uncomfortable anxious and just starts to look at her like a creep sometimes... Dude.. Wth?? men who say it's hard for them control their gaze maybe it's for them.. At least not for me and normal boys alhamdulillah... And also my friendship with females were very simple and respectful we were like brother and sisters we did used to have crushes on some of us with each other secretly but intentions weren't sexual and perverted.. They were pure and good intentions.. Some of people might not even know how "pure love" feels.. Anyways 😑