Why are Women Unhappy? Working Women v/s Housewives

[@viditjain123]

I loved this. You not even being a woman and still you said what even woman don't get about themselves. Best video that i have seen on this topic. Clarity, thoughtful and on the spot.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@viditjain123 thankyou for kind words, glad you liked it. 💌⭐️

[@nikitafernandes461]

A women 's life no matter her age, no matter if she is a housewife, homemaker, mother, and or a working woman it's very tough and hard life for her

[@Sunny-wp4fd]

Ask how much Difficult a life of unemployed, ill parents, no house, assets ,fake case charged youth face.

[@YashbirSinghNegi]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂nice joke

[@SUKHPREETSINGH-hy2zp]

Atleast womens have law , womens commission but Mens have nothing. + fake cases , Alomeny etc

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Agreed, it’s difficult. Respect!!🫡

[@Raviyadav-qn1re]

Please go back in 90's and you can compare your mother dadis and your struggle

[@Priya-wj2ip]

No homemaker didnt get respect any time, if you have money you have respect, depended rahoge to taken for granted lega husband

[@TheGutFeelShow]

That’s sad, hope things get better now atleast

[@githvfyzhub]

It's not always true some husband really appreciate their wives for raising kid's.

[@SPtl-lg7oo]

my husband takes my whole salary every month. then i hv to ask him my own money to buy clothes for myself plus i manage the whole house n kids. i already got medical problems due to stress. life of married women is stressful.

[@Priya-wj2ip]

@@SPtl-lg7oo don't give him, is your in laws controlling him? Or he has a affair, stay safe and try to get the answers. May be he is giving that money to his parents/ gf

[@randoms323]

@@SPtl-lg7oothat’s financial abuse ! take control of your own money. Ask him what he does with ur money, u have every right to do so ! if he is misusing it then just give him half and for house stuff and take half. But if he get really defensive and refuses to show u the transparency then u should know that’s gonna be a disaster so plan things and be ready to separate and run for ur life ( without tell him of course)

[@kp-ps7wi]

But now a. Days men do not prefer to work harder cz they know they have a side income from wife. But they forget that they do both kids and work both. My husband forces me to work and has laid back life. While on the other hand his friends who have same skill n experience earn double than him. My kid is in day care all day. When he comes he eats n goes to sleep. I have always loved children but cant be with my own kid😢. When I ask my husband if i can stay with child he says then we have to give up all things like going out having fun. Men are becoming weaker.

[@akankshasisodiya9877]

My mother always show regret of leaving her teaching career because she lack financial independence. she says when i see your success than i feel satisfied but still according to my mother she has sacrificed a lot of things her hobbies, her career and couldn't keep with the world now. She doesn't like to spend money on herself because she feels she is wasting her husbands' or childrens' hard earned money. She couldn't accept anything as hers. Also i have seen her struggling whenever we are discussing anything about our career or investment with our father because she is not understanding and has left behind somewhere, we try to explain her and she gives us suggestions but seeing that suggestions she is giving noone is taking(because she doesn't understand the complete scenario) she feels sad. Looking at her struggle i feel like is it worth, but i have seen other homemakers also they are very confident may be because of having a supportive partner and also when the male partner gives a portion of his salary as monthly expenses women have some independence, they can save take decisions about it In my mother's case she had responsibility but no power financial or any other. I would not choose the same path as my mum, she herself want me to take a different path.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

I can feel for your mom, hope you all are doing well. Take Care and Find Your Own Path!!

[@arjuntyagi5860]

May be a excused she can give home tuitions 2-3 hrs a day,hobbies has no age

[@Khushi32405]

Har bar jaruri to nhi partner hi support kare bachhe apne mammy ko support kyu nahi karte

[@train_xc]

My mother is a housewife, she’s happy and don’t regret. A few aunts of mine are teachers, they’re happy too and don’t regret. My sister is a doctor and she complains about the job everyday. Few of my cousins work in corporate or PSUs. They regret it everyday. One of my aunt is a doctor. She practised for 2 years and later chose to be a housewife

[@TheGutFeelShow]

I see, must be tough for them

[@shamimaiqubal9261]

Thank you so much, I'm also suffering from the guilt

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Glad you liked it, take care and seek help if needed! ⭐️💌

[@nikitafernandes461]

A woman 's life no matter whatever she does in her own life ,how many sacrifices she has made for her family its not valued

[@SUKHPREETSINGH-hy2zp]

You do it for your family why other cares ?

[@TheGutFeelShow]

That’s sad, it’s time for things to change!!

[@sb853547]

Yeah why should we care either when there are fake rape cases

[@konianfatima7025]

​@@SUKHPREETSINGH-hy2zp bhai other me mil ajate hai jinke taane aur jinka chidna kbhi khatam nahi hota , hum ne b Kiya wala attitude aur har choti mistake per backlash.... Husbands b aajkal k Kum nahi h shadi is a rotten topic ofcourse girls will opt out .. I appreciate those that don't marry they chose freedom over bullshit which I go thru everyday!

[@ultranexthdgaming7127]

​@@konianfatima7025tumse na ho payega bachhi

[@varshitakamal4301]

You should ask a child of working mothers... Then only u will get a clear picture. It's not about wt women feels but it's a necessity of a young child to bond with his/her mother. Of course financial independence is very important for a woman but everything comes with a cost... It's a sad reality!

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Agreed!! Respect 🫡

[@கசடதபற-ற5ல]

I'm a child of a working mother and honestly my mom balanced her work and Home well. Yes there were days when I missed her. But now we are financially independent only because both of my parents worked and saved for our future! I'm greatful

[@rosegold2617]

I am extremely greatful that my mom worked when I was a child. She gave me good life, taught me values and fulfilled all my desires.

[@jzara1917]

I was separated from my mother because she was not earning. Sad reality man never understand kids feeling. Kids want a happy and independent mother.

[@Subhasmita_Behera]

My mother was a working woman ( retired now). She provided me and my brother with a wonderful life interms of livelyhood, education, moral values, vacations n many more. We were raised with much love and respect. We experienced many beautiful things in our life "only" because she was working.Yes, sometimes she was unavailable for us but if today I see the whole journey of us , my parents' , me n my brother's ,its all worthwhile.😊

[@Pooja-y3n1m]

I was working in an ad agency,I left my job after pregnancy ... I love being at home taking care of my family ❤ they mean world to me , outside my home that's some seriously fucked up world 😅 ladies stop comparing ur life with someone else ... Regret and guilt only comes to mind when u r doing anything wrong and immense love in anything cannot be wrong.... Like it's said in Bhagwat Geeta "Kaam hi Puja hai" so do what u love and love what u do... 💯✌️Peace 🕊️

[@DrAlpanaBhartiGynecologist]

Touched every aspect I have gone through all

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@DrAlpanaBhartiGynecologist glad you liked it, thankyou maam ⭐️💌🤗

[@rayartcraftvlogs7732]

​​@@TheGutFeelShow without listening as a women my gut feeling with independent without being independent house work is done totally by me no one helps now a days where my mom time period there used to be grandmother who could look after kids and mom were given time for some leisure time for self care but now women should be multitasking and working at home and office and look after whole family along with both sides of parents and relatives and their tantrums and kids responsibility is mothers only men are just bread winners of family he works alot and giving money to house is the biggest work of his life poor women all rounder without any coaching and classes she learns everything by means of life lessons and becomes a great daughter great daughter in law stupid wife super mom super grand ma and she dies in vein no one recognise her and i don't feel any pressure or guilty because its way of women life process even u try to raise ur voice for identity there is no identity after all these years of my life and marriage life i came to a conclusion being peaceful is important to my own wellbeing.... left all things and flowing with flow of Life as a daughter, Dil,wife ,mom n i love myself in all characters and i like my story

[@Parentingtips007]

I am at home with mjy child since 5 year. I am not willing to go out and left my child with someone else. But same time is feel that i have financiallly zero money

[@TheGutFeelShow]

I can understand, that’s a dilemma of today’s world. Take Care 💌

[@arjuntyagi5860]

Then start work at small level home Boutique,makeup artist, cloud kitchen,tuitions ,drop shipping, work from home company, teaching job etc

[@neharani4847]

Dil ki baat kah di aapne...Mai house wife hu ..aur ye sare khyaal aate h mujhe

[@TheGutFeelShow]

I can understand, hope you are doing well ⭐️🤗

[@Aishwarya1625]

I worked as a school teacher for 10 yrs. Then dropped my job for better upbringing of my teenage daughter. Guilt tab v tha aur ab v h. 😢

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Oh I can understand, hope you are doing well. Seek help if needed!!

[@arjuntyagi5860]

Start home tuition 2-3hrs a day ateast

[@farihaaizaz]

Well said about working moms and housewives. Good video. Totally agree 🎉

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@farihaaizaz thankyou!! Glad you liked it 💌

[@MohiniPhatale]

Women life is very hard in every turm

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Agreed, the transitions have been too fast!!

[@kirtichandran8210]

Very nice video! You covered all aspects in a very unbiased manner. Keep it up👍🏻

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Glad you liked it! Thankyou!! 💌

[@pP-nh5qk]

Your perspective about this topic blew my mind

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Glad you liked it, thankyou!! 💌⭐️

[@fatimabiamjad3522]

Thanks a lot sir,is episode ne thodi nahi bahut help ki hai.... Best video,may God bless u

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@fatimabiamjad3522 i am glad i could help, most welcome ⭐️🙏

[@Shalini7448]

Dear girls stop getting married, mard nahur ghatiya chiz h, saadi krna bnd kro, apni life freedom se kio, baby adopt kro or use paalo, bina baap k or baap k naam ka concept ko khtm kro, kyuki baap vse b kuch nahi krta...

[@HoneyMoney-p4l]

😂😂😂 tere jese se shaadi Karega V kaun re, Agar ye soch rahi toh Thooke bhi na Koi.

[@007arnov]

True even guys are fed up with Biased Indian laws which are too much women centric. Even a working women claims maintenance and Alimony in the court. Men should too avoid marriage to face unnecessary harassment of these.

[@githvfyzhub]

So much hatered against man this is what feminism taught it's a sweet poison🤮

[@githvfyzhub]

Tumhare Bhai aur Pita bhi Man hain.

[@yoginagowda7410]

True

[@yournightmare12]

Financial Independence is very important

[@TheGutFeelShow]

True, in today’s time that’s part reality!

[@unsheladcyberninja5066]

Lekin fir bacha bhinto xaruri hai..agar nhi sambhal.paati working ladies apne bachey ko tonfir kerti bhi ktym hai unko peida

[@yournightmare12]

@unsheladcyberninja5066 I hope men to have the same problem . But it is always women.

[@saumisardar4932]

​@@unsheladcyberninja5066 ladka bhi payda kyu karta, as a father what's your opinion

[@unsheladcyberninja5066]

@@saumisardar4932 u r right....agar nhi hai time bachey ko.paalne ma to plan hi kyyn kerte hai parents

[@SwathiY2024]

Guilt is Much better than Regrer😢😢 I myself going through..no one care, respect those who takes care of house and family. I m unmarried but even my own parents, siblings not care. But sabko apne kam chahiye time pr. Bas mere liye koi ni rehta. Being with family I am Alone, I was always Alone. Today I have no carrer, no money, no respect but A servent for others who Didnt care for me. Can you teach it to my parents?? No unko apni koi galati lagti he ni. Wo to khud ko bhagwan samjhte h jo ehsan kiye h mujhe paida kr.

[@Moonlight291-f9m]

Same goes with me too 🙃

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Thats Sad, hope you are doing well. Take Care 💌⭐️

[@Kettyperry11]

Kitna saal ki ho ?

[@005chouhan4]

Ye me b face kr rhi hu ... Pr me jaldi hi nikl jaugi is phase se..... emotions se nhi chlti na ab hoti hu ab Logic fact... Financial safety jaruri h bad me kisi ki izzat kisi ka kam matter krta h q ki me hu uske bad hi ye sb chize aaegi... Mentally strong hu or financial b ho jaugi ab.. emotional jise hurt hona h mere kam se ho ab me responsibie ni hu .. kisi or ke dukh ka .... Ab ise selfish hona smjhe ya brutal hona me ho jaugi q ki ye andha hua h kitna b sacrifice kro kitna b help kr do log ni setisfy ho sakte... Khas kr ghar wale....

[@romateendarwajawala2567]

Muje kuchh dino se yehi sab guilt tha aap ne sab clear kardiya now i know muje kya karna he God bless you

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@romateendarwajawala2567 wow u am glad, u could help. Thankyou very much!! 💌

[@Iranianmushrik]

I jus have one question.. first give respect to housewives whether ye generation ya pehli wali ya bad wali tb bolo ki women work kyun krti hun ..

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Respect Always 🫡 ⭐️💌

[@ruchi7292]

Went through both phases, both sort of dilemmas. Financial constraints don't allow me to leave hectic full-time job. Obviously can't feel empowered 😞

[@TheGutFeelShow]

I see, I am sure it must be difficult

[@sana-bz1gs]

Yes, It's true that it depends on the mother/ father's nature how they raise their kids..If they are responsible and sensible parents they would spend quality time with their children and raise their kids with proper mental support.. Both of my parents are working individuals but we siblings recieved enough love and care on the other hand my husband's mother was a homemaker with six children so my husband is envious of the friendly bond I have with my parents what he never received from his own parents...He was raised in a much strict and controlled environment and that has negatively affected his mind(that has negatively affected our relationship too initially, now that I started to understand his mental condition a little and act accordingly the problems are lesser)...The parents have to have a calm and collected approach towards their children as it can affect their children for a long term...

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Oh that’s a great observation and I understand the situation of your husband, glad you are a good observer and take care! 💌🤗

[@finally9342]

Super video 😊😊❤🎉🎉

[@PriyankaSharma-hl5gz]

It's a great video and motivational for each women and men and every family member.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@PriyankaSharma-hl5gz thankyou very much, glad you liked it!! ⭐️💌

[@jamyangpelmo5214]

Your content gave me clarity 👍👍👌

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Glad to hear that, thank you 🙏

[@schaudhary9819]

Very good video, we need such channels, all the best

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@schaudhary9819 glad you liked it, thankyou! ⭐️💌

[@aimstark2600]

Sayad is topic pe koi Video ho Salute You ❤❤

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Much needed topic!!

[@mamtalodha6061]

Very well explained

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Glad it was helpful!

[@ShwetaGrewal-h2d]

My partner and I want to have a family life where i want to be a housewife and my partner wants to be a bread earner but my family is forcing me to get a job and saying your life is a waste as you are not willing to do work outside the house

[@Satya9708-b4t]

Sirf bol dene se ki stress ki jarurat nhi hai. Is not enough. You are just talking about how to handle all this. You are talking like its only her responsibility to raise the kid. None is for to equal sharing of responsibility . Sorry but that was not expected out this video. Only shaping women and asking again to reshape her n her only is again a rudimentary approach. Working women is a reality now we can't go back on this. Matter is why she should be responsible only for everything. Shared responsibility.....is need of the hour.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

We will try and highlight that in upcoming videos 💯🙏🤗 thankyou for bringing this up.

[@preetitripathi4361]

Mera ek 2saal ka baby hai uska hearing loss hai implant hogya hai but abhi wo ek word bhi nahi bolta Or mera kisi pe puri life depend hone ka bilkul bhi irada nahi hai Ab mai apne bete ko dekhu ya apna carrier I am 28year old

[@asthagarg4614]

Very relatable topic

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Glad you liked it, Thankyou ⭐️

[@rabiakhan5070]

More videos on this topic

[@007arnov]

This problems gets resolved to a certain extent if a women agrees to stay with her in-laws or both parents doesn’t have kids. Think in perspective of the kid how he/ she feels ignored by the parents if both are working.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

I agree, kids are suffering with the hustle culture getting hyped

[@anshac1709]

And what if the in laws are toxic and only add more to your sufferings

[@007arnov]

@@anshac1709Don’t marry then, stay alone. Men’s too are suffering - No Gender Neutral Laws, Multiple Financial Burden, wife’s not doing household work, men leave their parents etc. most of the women anyways don’t share the money in common household expenses, rather they would save it in their personal bank account or use it for personal expenses or transfer the money to her parents only.

[@Dimple3]

​@@007arnovFirst you dont get marry with such thoughts! Wife is your better half , not your roommate !

[@sb853547]

Household work can be shared even but ofcourse it's below "men"

[@forstudy-n5f]

Don't raise your kids. Just work for companies. And don’t expect from your kids anything when you are in your 60's.

[@Vidyahappiness]

For that husband should make good money and not blame the wife for every little expenses that he pays for the house or the kid.

[@forstudy-n5f]

@Vidyahappiness don't get married And don’t have kids. You only need to work for big big corporate companies. Why have kids and husband when you can have Money? Money is what you need.

[@neerajanaghosh1007]

Says a frustrated jobless guy😅​@@forstudy-n5f

[@songbird810]

Kids these days seldom look after their parents in 60s😂 ...... don't know which generation you are living in?? It is better to be childfree and earn for ownself these days.

[@forstudy-n5f]

@@songbird810 Yes.... You are absolutely right. I am with you. it’s better to be a Narcissist and selfish.......... Why have kids and family be lonely for rest of your life. And what ever you earn for yourself Spend them all in therapy sessions for overcoming your loneliness in your 60's. It’s fun........ Btw i am a Gen Z . Which generation you are?

[@manjulah7220]

Very much needed video for me 🙂 meri daughter 1 year ki ho gayi h aur m 1 year se maternity leave p hu aur mera company 1.5 years tak maternity leave deti h but I am still thinking how will I rejoin my office who'll take care of my child but I have to work to be financially fit.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

I can understand, that’s a difficult situation to be in. Hope things get better, take care! ⭐️🫡

[@arjuntyagi5860]

Join office with baby day care Parents buttering so they take care Nanny at home with cctv

[@Jyotikumawat15]

Bohot sahi kaha sir

[@shrihari_9999]

I'm married , housewife and student in higher studies but still my mother call me every day compare with my working sister she is a good daughter but I'm not😢😢

[@sunnytaye8489]

Dont talk to her too much

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Ooh, that’s sad. Must be difficult, hope you are doing well! 💌

[@manisha-lf4vs]

Same with my father. My sister is in government job, I work in private. My sister has good source income. My father treats her like princess, but to me he is always mistreated 😢

[@arjuntyagi5860]

​​@@manisha-lf4vskeep upgrade your self with top paying soft and hard skills and try to do masters from foreign university if possible and learn financial management also start from 2025

[@SUNITADEVI-sx6zw]

Bahut hi shi h ak ak line kase samjh sakta h koi

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Thankyou, glad you liked it!! 💌⭐️

[@suravibesan7443]

Right

[@chandanijeengar3994]

Hello bhaiya nuclear family main kese job our baby ko kese manage kre dono parents working hai our in laws nhi hai koi baby ka dhiyan rakhne wala nhi hai our day care aas paas nhi hai choti city main daycare nhi hai toh kese manage kre job our baby ko after maternity leave ya sabbatical leave ke baad plz guide

[@arjuntyagi5860]

Parents or day care facility for kids in office

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Trustable Nany and Camera at home, else switch to freelance job that can allow work from home!!

[@chandanijeengar3994]

@@TheGutFeelShow quit ni krna hai Job nanny rakh sakte hai

[@chandanijeengar3994]

@arjuntyagi5860 office main main kya day care facility thodi hoti hai

[@chandanijeengar3994]

@@TheGutFeelShow outside job hai bank main

[@studyroutes7325]

Nice video ❤

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Glad you liked it

[@sayandeysarkar3354]

Sir, Please Amit Sangwan(Sango life sutras,clarity for youth,etc....)Ke saath ek podcast kijiye on marriage,relationships,parenting, youth, he is a great person for the channel and topics

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Ok Noted

[@aimstark2600]

aapne Bahot acha Topic Uthaya h Bhai ❤

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Thankyou!!

[@DeepakKumar-ef6sm]

Great Job man ❤

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Thank you very much!

[@Shalini7448]

Ak kdwa sucha h..... Jo orat pti ki sbse jda sewa krti h uska pti use pairo ki juti ki trah treat krta h............ Pati hmesha surpankha jsi orat k hi kaabu me ata h, sita jsi wife ko to vo apne paro ki juti smajta h,..... Surpankha bno agr izzat krne vala pti chahiye to sita nahi........

[@HoneyMoney-p4l]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 Aurat keliye bhi SAME apply. Hota hai

[@githvfyzhub]

Kyoo Mata Sita koo kyaa Prabhu Sri Ram ne izzat nahi dii thi kitna zeher bhara hai tere dimag mein feminism kaa bhoot sawar hai tere sir par.

[@uk6166]

Its not about that you gave all the time for children and you get the due respect its about quality of life sometimes you want something but it is difficult to took money from your husband so financial independence is important but in modern society pressure got doubled on women to earn and to manage children and home both

[@TheGutFeelShow]

You are right, if the quality of life isn’t good then nothing matters. Also it’s time for males to step up and take responsibility of family and step down from only professional life for sometime and let your wife also explore some professions

[@rimasah2460]

I m suffering same situation

[@rakibakhatun2760]

Thanks

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Welcome

[@Wajdahvoiceofficial]

Sahi baat hai❤❤❤❤

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Thankyou, glad you liked it!! ⭐️

[@A2Z-ENTER-TAINMENT]

Guilt vs Regret ... this is the life of a woman .... every woman

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@A2Z-ENTER-TAINMENT hope things get better with time and we learn to balance responsibilities

[@merrybhowmickdas3246]

Ghar k andar ka kam ya family ko manage karne ka kam ek woman jitna achhi tarha kar shakta hai ek man utna achha kabhi nehi kar shakta lekin ek Woman dono kam kar shakta hai frivi ghar jada achhe se samhal shakta hai,Bhagwan ne Man woman ka creation aise hi banaye ,isiliye Natural cheej ko accept karna hi sahi hai.

[@dreamer_canbe_achiever]

meri maa saas sasur ki sewa aur ghar ke faltu kaamo ke chakkar mei humpe dhyan nhi de payi

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Ooh that’s sad, yes a lot of families suffered these complicated situations of family dynamics. No path is full proof, we need to be vigilant and act as per what we want in life and make our choices

[@kaynatdayer1569]

Thanks ❤

[@TheGutFeelShow]

You're welcome 😊⭐️🤗

[@Shalini7448]

Society ne bol rakha h ki pti parmeshwar hota h, sasuraal hi asli ghr h, in sbka fayeda utha k pti ptni ko apne isharo p nachata h

[@MrAnkushC]

Those days are gone ma'am. - Its Sasural is hell. - Women is independent. Work till you wish to work, then slide smoothly to traditional gender role of managing home. Throw liabilities on husband and live a fulfilling life. Moreover conveniently, it is assumed modern day women are full qualified to give kids best parenting. I mean how?

[@crypticriddles133]

​@@MrAnkushCNo those days are not gone ,still husband is considered superior than wife

[@MrAnkushC]

@@crypticriddles133 In what sense? a woman has more legal rights compared to a man, socially a man has to be the primary provider, a man has to pay alimony and maintenance else will go to jail, in fake cases no repercussions for a woman, reservation, preferential treatment, male aggression is not good, female vulgarity is normalised. I mean list may go on, but what I don't understand in what terms he is superior.

[@Jhon-x8b]

​@@MrAnkushC yehi sab nautanki hai bhai society bhi toh women ka hi sunta hai koi ladki rote rote bolde ki woh ladka dekh raha thaa toh dekh kya karta hai sab uske sath pata nahi Aisa konsa superiority ladke ke pass hai jo hum hi pitwate rahata hai

[@Mishrayogita]

Thanks sir

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Most Welcome⭐️

[@saam3185]

please help me 🙏!! I have a 11 years fully disabled baby girl and I’m a working women. Mere husband bidesh mai rahate hai aur mai akeli hu daycare ke liye ek assistant hai. Hamare pass ghar or saving kuchh nai hai isliye dono kamai kar lenge toh kuchh save kar paenge ye soch kar kaam karti hu but Offc mai v bahot tension hai toxic batabaran hai. Ab beti badi ho gai hai khud dekhval karu ya kaam karu. kuchh samajh mai nai aarahe sochte sochte ab 35 saal ki ho gai hu kyaa karu 😢😢😢 pls suggest me.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Ooh i would suggest you should seek a counsellor or a therapist to align things better and seek help

[@saam3185]

@ i was hoping you would helping me 😢

[@prishaaneha]

very nice practical video

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Thanks for liking, glad you liked it!! ⭐️

[@santusaikia3940]

Working women ki definition bilkul sahi diya apne. Ghar ho ya bahar kaam toh kaam he dono ki importance same hi he.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Absolutely 💯⭐️

[@nituburnwal2218]

Topic bhot bdhiya hai kbhi hum v aise nyi soche ....

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Thankyou, glad you liked it ⭐️

[@stutikhanna987]

So basically we make sure we stay unhappy in all ways and form 👍

[@TheGutFeelShow]

No that’s not what I meant, sorry but you didn’t understand the idea, watch the video till the end and you will get what I meant!

[@Shalini7448]

Dear girls orato k dukh ki sbse bdi vajah khud ak mard h, jise patriarchy kbi sudharnw kk nahi bolti h...... Jb tk smaaj se patriarchy khtem nahi hogi or mard apne under sudhar ni krenge tb tk kuch ni ho skta................patriarchy orato ko hi unki suffering k lie responsible maanta h jbki unki suffering ka asli karan khud ak mard h, or ye jo mard vdo m bhashan de rha h ye khud b asa hi hoga

[@RajatKumar-cm3ci]

Bas Victim card play karte jao aur Victim Blameing Karte jao khud ki koi accountibility nahi na resposibility nahi sab ka fault mard , patriarchy,men ,boy,penis etc.

[@MrAnkushC]

I agree, no one is stopping anyone. But socially accept idea is to blame it on a man. They'll use tools created by men, society structure by men to curse men only. Why there is no field which is primarily driven by women?

[@HoneyMoney-p4l]

Actually it's the matriarchal Soch Jo aurat ko apni GALTI manne par ROKTA HAI..

[@HoneyMoney-p4l]

Teri MISANDRIST mentality dikh raha hai

[@crypticriddles133]

​@@RajatKumar-cm3ciReality ha mard he orat ka dushman hai

[@jyotikumar1014]

Kindly use the word MAHILA For females

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Ok, will keep that in mind. Thankyou for the input!!

[@arpitaghoshal5670]

This videos is for me

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@arpitaghoshal5670 glad you liked it!! 💌⭐️

[@KomalVN_Aero]

Dude, u missed the idea of helping husband in ur video… a helping husband can kill all the problems women are facing.. help in chores, babysitting, sorting family issues, and the never ending problems…same goes opposite… I wanted to share ur video, but in a married life, u haven’t mentioned anything about support from working husband, so I changed my thoughts… Thanks btw for bringing up this issue

[@Dimple3]

In china one kid was left with licensed nanny from reputed child care service. Her neglect cause the child to fall from building and die . Father mours in video. Not all child care service is trustworthy. I bet the wife left the man after that incident. She was no where to be found.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Oh that’s horrible, I am sure it’s a big task to find someone trustable and hence they say it’s takes a village to raise a child!! 🙏

[@apurvajha9495]

The problem isn't a housewife, the problem is how low housewives are looked upon by others and how badly they are treated.. Aur sach toh ye hai ki women with job also look down on housewives. If housewives start getting at least recognised for house work they do and a lil bit of help from others then a lot of women will be happy beimg housemaker Ap reels mein bhi sune hi hoge ki "we men marry jobless womens " Like bro, kabhi ek week kitchen mein khana bana k hi do time k dekh lo.

[@DipaliNare-f1g]

😢😢😢 me mere bachhe ko chhodkar kabbi nahi jaungi 😢❤ bhuhut pyar karti hu

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Awww that’s adorable 💌⭐️

[@arjuntyagi5860]

Toh ghar se hi kuch karlo

[@merrybhowmickdas3246]

Woman ko padna likhna isiliye chahiye k hamesha working woman ban ne liye nehi apne bachhe ko achhi shiksha de sheke,education me vi help kar shake,har bachhe ka pehela Teacher ya guru Ma hi hota hai use achhi tarha niva shake aur vi bahat sare karan me woman ko educated hona jaruri hai sirf working woman ban ne k liye nehi.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Agreed, good point

[@matildamaher111]

I felt sad when you related about step dad, mum and children went out without him

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Likewise, it’s a sad story!

[@anishaduttaroy7295]

I have an Autistic child and normal child I left the work for my son and daughter

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@anishaduttaroy7295 that’s great of you, I hope you are doing well, proud of you Anisha ⭐️💌

[@dreamer_canbe_achiever]

8:30 its very true

[@hasha2221]

As a teacher mujhe bhi apne baccho ko lekar bahut guilty fill hota h. Husband bher rhte h month me sirf 2 din ke liye aate h baqi sab kuch mujhe khud karna pdta h. 😢😢

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Ooh, I can understand. Must be difficult, hope you are doing well! 💌

[@chandanijeengar3994]

Kis ke bharose chodte aap baby ko

[@ShwetaGrewal-h2d]

govt should remove the age criteria for women It is very important for society

[@PUJADAS-tw7ry]

Homemaker ki kabhi bhi izzat nhi hoti thi. Aj bhi nhi hai

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Hope things get better soon, fingers crossed

[@Jhon-x8b]

Women women karke sab view le rahe hai koi ladko ka sacrifice,pain,mental health, responsibility,akelapan ke bare mai baat kyu nahi karta nahi sochta bhi hai ladko ke pass career ka option nahi hota unhe bananahi padta hai soch paa rahe ho 90% channel ka sachai

[@TheGutFeelShow]

You are right, that’s how the society is designed and that what I am talking about that males ko he kyu pressurise kiya kaga, it’s time to balance things up!

[@simplyanupama319]

Aurton ko kaise space di jati hai wo northeast states s sikh sakte hai.......

[@sheetal7122]

Relatable every woman

[@TheGutFeelShow]

Thankyou, glad you liked it!! ⭐️

[@sristi6850]

Guilt by society 😅

[@factsandnews749]

What if the pressure comes from your partner

[@phoenix_swati]

❤❤❤

[@Abhinav_kuntal_Fitness]

salini jee abhi aap sahi point note nahi kiya ye sara khel hai over work or jyada janta ka na ki kisi admi ka

[@TheGutFeelShow]

True!!

[@Shalini7448]

Pti ko ptni se bs ak hi chiz chahiye xxxx or kuch nahi.....

[@githvfyzhub]

Yaar kitna faltu bak rahi hain pagal ladki

[@DeepakKumar-ef6sm]

❤❤

[@fizzahrazzaque6609]

Han g to kbhi ap ne socha k ye sab sirf orton k lye hi q hai har sacrifice ya har taqleef zyada orat k hisse me hi q? qk ye muashra orat k lye hai hi nhi ye sirf mard ko faida pohnchane k lye banaya gaya hai or ap dekh len mardon ka hr cheez me faida hai or orat ka zyada tar nuqsaan hi hai is society me!!😏

[@Thoughtsofanetizen]

Bro leave this topic to women. Women should tell what makes them unhappy and regretful, and you should listen and accept it, that what she feel. May how much you try to interpret you will not understand it. Let them speak and then understand it.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

I am sorry if this hurts you, but I am not taking any sides here and I am only helping people who are unable to come up and speak to share the stories and speak what they feel, it’s not for outspoken people, this video is for people who have become introverts due to life situations

[@hitendratiwari1990]

महिलाओं को हर चीज से problem है 😂.... आदमी ने सब कुछ किया 14 14 घंटे धूप में खड़े होकर काम किया but कभी शिकायत नहीं की 👍🏼

[@TheGutFeelShow]

We will talk about men problems soon! 🤗

[@AsterRays7979]

Kyunki unko bache ki utni chinta nhi jitni maa ko hoti h Or agr dono hi kam chodne lage to, paise khan se ayenge??? Mano na mano, this financial , independence thing is "safety plan" of women to escape the abuse in marriage both coming from husband or on laws

[@hitendratiwari1990]

@@AsterRays7979 किसने कहा father को अपने बच्चों की चिंता नहीं होती और अगर ना होती तो वो 14 घंटे धूप में खड़े होकर काम ना करता.... Please काम कम करने का excuse मत दो 😊🤣.... और तुम औरतें हमेशा बच्चों का excuse देकर कठिन काम से बच जाती हो

[@AsterRays7979]

@@hitendratiwari1990 aisa hai??? To apne bache k sath aisa krke dekhna 🤣 Maja.ayega, tum mardo ko kuch pta nhi hota Itne ache or hardworking ho to, apni wife ko kabhi mat rokna uske career me "bacho" ka r@ndi Rona krke Ye in laws hi hote hn jo sabse phle aurat ko tana marne ate hn, agr vo hardwork kre to. I hope your follow your advice in your married life. Koyi aurat kathin kaam se kabhi nhi bachi h, vo tum mardo ki tarah weal nhi na to bacha sambhlta h na career. She can do both, u 🤣 men are so "kamchor", never care for parenting at home Excuse: Mai kamane ja rhan hun, tum Ghar me krti hu kya ho I honestly hope, all women get childless coz society is never kind to women. If she is independent, she is bad mother & as u said "kamchor" If she is dependent, she must face the sasural ridicule & title of "burden". Btw i do agree, women are kamchor , can't do late night overtime, why?? Coz some men have made india so unsafe to travel after 7pm Woman life is so easy!! Since birth u must protect yourself from men, then get exploited by men

[@AsterRays7979]

@@hitendratiwari1990 no kids , No kam chori, No Excuse to not work (in eyes if males) I get why even south Korean women have stopped giving births.

[@arnavsamaddar6638]

Tu celebraties ko apna bhagwan kan le

[@masoomamuzaffari7611]

I believe woman should work children can be cared by grandparents or nanny

[@sanchitachatterjee8229]

Don't have kids

[@Sunny-wp4fd]

Women has options, men don't

[@TheGutFeelShow]

It’s all perspectives, but yes difficult life of a female!

[@priyanka1506]

Women also have no options just have to take care of baby first

[@veerajain1500]

Men too would start having options then if they become biologically capable to give birth. LOL

[@Sunny-wp4fd]

@veerajain1500 you type of people only know to argue without understanding others perspective.

[@kaberipaulmandal9419]

Mard ko avi aurat ke payse se ais karna mangte hay. Mard ko rozgar karne se dard hota hay. Kam kar ne se dard hota hay, gharki a bahar ki. Mere as pas ki sab hi friends ki ai dhikkat hay.

[@biswajit681]

So called wannabe youtuber know which topic will get higher number of viewers!! Struggle is nothing to do with gender the only difference womens are vocal about their problems and multiple platforms highlight that issue and mens are not vocal about their problem and no platform discuss about that ..even after 1000 years also this crying will be keep on going

[@TheGutFeelShow]

I am sorry, but you didn’t understand the idea here. I can understand you pain, take care!!

[@biswajit681]

@TheGutFeelShow it's not rocket science to understand. it seems like you are in real pain after getting exposed..but any way you have to earn somehow..

[@gkarthikraja1890]

Baccha mat karo simple

[@TheGutFeelShow]

That’s not the point, you didn’t get the idea. Trust me People without kids are also in Regret later in life.

[@sweetchillies3162]

​@TheGutFeelShow No, not all regret kids, and not all enjoy having kids.

[@gkarthikraja1890]

FOMO is always there. One way or another. We have to learn to live with it.

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@sweetchillies3162 I agree, I am taking from all perspectives and that’s the complication we have in today’s time. It’s difficult to understand what we really want!!

[@sushmitamukherjee8502]

People should have atleast 2 kids 😊

[@TheGutFeelShow]

@@sushmitamukherjee8502 😁⭐️

[@ichchhagupta6421]

That is not for you to decide

[@githvfyzhub]

Meanwhile Muslims - we will produce atleast 4 kids inshallah

[@eren5411]

ya like indian population aren't enought why 2 3 would be better😊😊

[@SPtl-lg7oo]

i kept my kids in daycare when they were 9 months of age and uptil now they go in daycare.