Why Average Black Women DON'T SETTLE For Average Black Men!

Why Average Black Women DON'T SETTLE For Average Black Men!
In this revealing video, we explore the intricacies of the modern dating market, examining how people rate themselves and each other based on various criteria. At the heart of our discussion is the concept of hypergamy-the idea that women should aspire to marry men who are above their station in status, money, class, and accomplishments.
Key topics we'll cover include:
Join me as we delve into the effects of hypergamy in today's dating world, analyzing how it shapes relationships and influences the expectations people have for their partners.
Whether you're single, dating, or simply curious about the dynamics of the dating market, this video offers a comprehensive look at how hypergamy affects us all. Hit the play button now to gain insights into the realities of dating standards, self-ratings, and the pursuit of romantic success in today's world.
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[@bigwill9421]

The average man has a hard time finding love because the average woman doesn't think she's average.

[@SolidSnake-cn7mo]

Just like the one in this video with the blond wig, super average but somehow believes they're high maintenance, suffering from identity crisis.

[@Vivian-ht3pp]

BINGO! Also...she fears being judged by her stupid peers. If she's with what appears to THEM to be an average man...that makes HER a woman who "settles" in THEIR eyes. These women care too much what other women think of them.🙄😑

[@technofilejr3401]

Bingo! Asking some of these ladies to be realistic about their looks, attitude and social class is like trying to push a building up a slippery hill.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Absolutely!!! 👊👊✊✊👏👏👏

[@feywinterfox9630]

I would totally give it to them IF it wasn’t for the fact that 99% of the time the average woman talks about and wants a life style they have never had even once in their lives, know little to nobody who lives such a life, and if not for social media and tv it would be such a life style they wouldn’t even know about. And no, getting flown out showed around some stores or a beach to get pumped and sent back home when done doesn’t count as living that life style…honestly it reeks of another lifestyle…

[@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTime]

This is why Becky wins.

[@gordonallen9095]

Say it AGAIN! Along with Marisol, Mai Ling, and Fatima.

[@marvinjohnson-gp1yd]

Don't forget Sarah.

[@314jrock]

A lot of Black Women don’t want average Black Men but then turn around and get mad when average Black Men date and marry White Women.

[@abnormal_norman766]

The Beckies stay winning, lol!

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Absolutely!!! 👊👊✊✊👏👏👏

[@brooklyngemini3410]

I'll take my average 85k salary and keep enjoying costa rica, Morocco, and the Seychelles 😎

[@Nightrain349]

Because they want the average WM. These are not and never will be our women.

[@dman221]

Bingo!

[@alsimmons1650]

"I'll always love you" "Whitney Houston". Think about it (if you'll seen the movie) And why that song was such a huge hit and BW especially loved that song. It was dedicated to zaddy no matter what or how he treats her she's his ride or die. And BW globally outside the U.S are zaddy lovers too.

[@Nightrain349]

@@alsimmons1650 That's why we must move on.

[@alsimmons1650]

@@Nightrain349 It's been latinas mainly and others for me going on 30yrs now. Stepping out the box made me realize these are not our wmn. I've Addressed it back then and was called a sellout the chickens have come home to roost.

[@lejamesbron5880]

Maybe not AA women, but yall ever think about women from the diaspora? Carribean, African etc

[@johnserosanguineous1886]

Shout out to Becky, Maria and Ling-Ling. Treating their janitor husbands like absolute KINGS!

[@tayshunsmith666]

As a young black man myself I have strong preference for white women and Asian women they are so sexy as hell that's what I'm attracted to but all races of women are beautiful in their own way

[@tayshunsmith666]

White women who are from Florida I'm from California I need be in Florida Miami Tampa

[@troywest1724]

@@tayshunsmith666Dude you are 20 years late.

[@tayshunsmith666]

@@troywest1724 bro the comments you just post are stupid as fuck you don't make sense at all

[@Hybrid_vigour]

This is what makes black women unattractive

[@nameblocked]

Keisha hates the word AVERAGE, when the majority of them are "average at best" (s/o the Godfather). Reality, and the Wall 🧱 are waiting for them.

[@dareo25]

...and after the wall, there will be hundreds of cats to choose from. {...no men...}

[@Popoutrockout]

You’re so kind, my friend. I would venture to say most are below average.

[@0bsmith0]

A whole lot are well below average.

[@MarcellusWhyte-w3i]

​@@dareo25 And blame bm!

[@kidkid985]

That’s why the dating dynamic is off many average women won’t date average men, most single people are average, but they will blame colorism.

[@tayshunsmith666]

Black women who are the most complain about colorism themselves when black men prefer black women who are light skinned they always saying black men are the most colorist in the black community but black women who are colorist too

[@jmjenkins97]

Again why waste your energy on these women who you say don't want you. BM says they have many options outside of BW so exercise them and be happy. It is weird to be talking about the women you don't desire, or they don't desire you for decades...heal and move on to your non-BW...life is too short.

[@kidkid985]

@@jmjenkins97 what are you talking about? Where did I say I don’t date blk women, stick to the topic about average women and average blk men. Stop deflecting to some hypothetical non BW that you are jealous of.

[@daudi43thegod]

Now you understand why average men stopped approaching them and start approaching other women from other nationalities

[@markbrunner7793]

YAHTZEE

[@jmjenkins97]

Great but why are you still concerned about the Average BW. For at least 10yrs BM has been very clear about them moving on to other nationalities and yet most BM are still focusing on these average BW who they say don't want them.

[@daudi43thegod]

@@jmjenkins97 I can't answer why these men are contradicting themselves one minute they say I'm cool on B dubs then next still laying down with BW. They seem hurt and confused. No need to create anymore problems just leave in peace and go where you are wanted. Don't let skin color be the reason for your mating selection over the content of a person's character.

[@CorGP]

1. They don’t think they’re average. 2. The average BM is less valuable to them than the average other man. 3. Society as a whole affirms their actions.

[@jmjenkins97]

The BM in the comment sections says that non-BW who are average are lining up for average BM so focus on them and move on from average BW

[@Curtis_George]

​@@jmjenkins97 I think you're on to something

[@Kuroyasha2099]

@@jmjenkins97 They do hence why so many are married to non black women.....HOWEVER that's not their first preference. Most prefer to be with black women. How about YOU be honest about black women's behavior and mentality. They're the least married demographic for a reason.

[@SAINTMAURICE-tl7kb]

​@@jmjenkins97 need to wake up more before the darktimes come on earth.

[@BigReggii]

@@jmjenkins97 Wow at 41 years old after 25 years of observation , I think your right I could of never thought that up (sarcasm) .

[@genovasquez8361]

i had heard BBWS say they dont want to date a man who is Big. they switch it up now. They say TlllTTlles bigger than hers. But at the end of the day if she is 300lbs she dont want a man who is 320lbs.

[@bigwill9421]

Yet, her BMI has more to do with Cheetos and Not Child-bearing.

[@Israelite-iq1gd]

These women don't know what they want other than money.

[@jehoshualewis2525]

This is all facts. Just because they sleep with or have slept with a man in great shape they think they're on the same level. I'm part of the problem because I've slept with women I shouldn't have due to going through a dry spell and the way these women talk is amazing. They get one round because I would throw up or be disappointed after post 🥜 clarity but they lay there thinking we're going to be a thing or something. If women could read men's minds they would humble themselves

[@genovasquez8361]

i dont love WEAVE, Dont love make up, NO fake Eye lashes. WE LOVE: Slim bodies or No Fupa. Take away all that Glamour lets see how Cute is she really, Women with faces ie 3/10 have to wear all that stuff to not gross people out with their face.

[@yessir8805]

Sound like a black American women to me.

[@gordonallen9095]

A woman that needs that many "accessories" to look "pretty" is usually anything but. FAKE hair, FAKE eyelashes, FAKE nails, and a TON, of makeup, but she wants a REAL man. GTFOH!

[@dred9174]

Speak for yourself I like thick women (not BBWs).

[@Vivian-ht3pp]

"Fupa"?🤔

[@12Gates.]

I have to agree im a black american man we get stereotyped for liking over weight women but i prefer slim body

[@theaccuser9000]

Let them deal with the consequences of their choices.

[@technofilejr3401]

Exactly. If you were warned ahead of time not to do something and your life breaks bad. Oh well start digging your own way out of that hole. I'm not here to save hard headed folks.

[@BluEx22329]

Its always "settling" when you dont have respect

[@stevieking915]

99 percent of the time the guy is settling anyway idgaf what they say

[@itsgreat7150]

How can be “settling” when BW are dead last on the dating Apps and dead last on the marriage list. Nobody looking for BW.

[@Hybrid_vigour]

They are men with vaginas

[@0bsmith0]

Funny too as more often than not guys are settling on them.

[@dred9174]

That Dominican woman she had on the other day had a pretty face but like a lot of women on her show she had a kid with Pookie.

[@durwinsmith8911]

I'm an average Black man, retired at 55 6 months ago..house and cars paid off, married 10 years and doing good.

[@Antonio_Todd]

Why is the term “average or regular” so triggering to our people? By definition most people are average or regular. Society wouldn’t exist if that wasn’t the case. We get emotional over basic terminology. Shits weird.

[@TheDanster4]

I think this is only a problem for women who are perpetually online. In real life, I don't know any woman, Black, White, Asian, Hispanic, who have insanely high standards for their men. The women that I work with have men who are average but are the right men for them. Everyone is ordinary and that's okay. We need to stop focusing on the Black women where social media and narcissism rules their lives.

[@technofilejr3401]

0:33, I always found it hilarious that the most average of women came on Kevin Samuel's show expecting a far beyond average man. Make it make sense.

[@omegamalerevelations7543]

The word "average" is being thrown around so much like its a curse word. Can we just say "normal" or finally establish what an average black man is?

[@ChezCharde]

There is literally nothing wrong with average. Average is not an insult

[@omegamalerevelations7543]

But to be average means to be the norm. If black women want the 666 then that would equate to less than 10% of the black male population. So I wouldn't say these men are "average" but what is normal before social media and reality TV.

[@t.p.m.414]

Average= work, pay bills, do hobbies, ect. No celebrity, not rich, just work, bills, & hobbies... Yes it sounds boring but women are boring too

[@ShinobiShaman]

The truth is you want white men, but they're not interested. & black men really aren't either, because they get white girls. I don't know what to tell ya. You can always get a female companion.

[@damiendehorn6350]

The total number of billionaires in the US is only 813, that of all races and gender. The number of single male billionaires in the US is less then about 50, so you have a better chance of winning the lottery then marrying a billionaire.

[@justiceforjuicy9795]

Women are generally delusional, and therefore will reject this sense making argument.

[@heruapocalypse2021]

Men like well groomed Wholesome Women.Not Overly Cosmetically High Maintenance Women.We don't like all that Overdone Overkill Gunked out Bullshit.😎👍🏾

[@kmonger]

Wigs,weaves,manicures ,designer clothing and handbags , regular trips,expensive restaurants,expensive make up , etc

[@kidkid985]

Keep in mind these blk women will take a average white man but not an average blk men.

[@itsbeyondme5560]

Who? No

[@kidkid985]

@@itsbeyondme5560 many.

[@kidkid985]

@@itsbeyondme5560 yes many

[@tupactargaryen]

Not even average, bottom shelf Brad a lot of times.

[@itsbeyondme5560]

@@kidkid985 I'm not . some pick the ugliest one

[@omvful]

All that fake stuff she named men don't want that

[@jmjenkins97]

okay don't choose it...and it won't be your problem

[@omvful]

@@jmjenkins97 fake shit

[@Vivian-ht3pp]

@Chez Charde Average bw DON'T settle for average bm because THAT would make THEM appear even MORE average!😜

[@TheBlackManMythLegend]

they are waiting for a whatever you like TI situation happen in their life. but the odds are up to zero

[@bigwill9421]

Becky Marisol Mai-Ling Katerina and Jamillah has entered the Chats.

[@kidkid985]

Some of them be on bs too

[@maaruf1]

Thanks for the comment on the impact of single parent households feeding the social media frenzy. KS (rip) actually filled the role of the man / father / uncle missing in so many lives who one could go to for advice. As someone who's been away from the dating scene for over 25 years of marriage, I'm shocked at how little benefit is provided by all the "advice" given on social media. All that advice has to be thrown out when it's tested in real life, trust me y'all.

[@Millennial-Investor1914]

Damn I miss K.S. Definitely like a father with his advice

[@shawn_and_one]

The best part is you can start off average as a man and build yourself up into a high earner. If you meet a woman willing to go on the start of your Journey, cool if not buyer beware.

[@marvinjohnson-gp1yd]

Passport time...(yup)

[@Indyawillis85]

You're gonna go make a bunch of fatherless children in other countries too? 😂😂😂

[@Mighty-VizioN]

The only reason a lot of these women are saying these things on social media about the type of men they want is because they realize that it's a very popular topic that gets plenty of views and they're hoping to go viral. But if you dig into these women personal lives there with average everyday men or they don't have a man at all. Everyone needs to seriously stop taking these women serious. Or just simply ignore them

[@jmjenkins97]

Including some of these men they are looking nuts

[@sheldoncampbell7030]

Emotionally immature women have this tend to have this mindset, that they want to be taken care of like little children. Grown women understand it’s a partnership and we must build together to make it work.

[@j4crypto4all1st9]

Because they actually believe there the ultimate & better than average regardless

[@TheLilOlMan]

Man most guys in my industry don’t even entertain dating, relationships or marriage. They buy __________ hire maids & cooks to prep meals.

[@jamest1242r]

or they go far east

[@darkpower6406]

She has a blonde mop on her head but she thinks she's well kept! Nope!

[@technofilejr3401]

I find sisters rocking the blonde look to be sad. It's like "Do I have to tell you your hair isn't naturally that color?"

[@cpthetrucker9067]

​@@technofilejr3401Ironically, she will say it's because WW are BM's preferences and they think if they can be WW on Wish(via Blonde hair)....BM will be attracted to them, too.

[@tayshunsmith666]

​@@cpthetrucker9067we dgaf about what they think about black men dating white women so they need to get over with themselves

[@firmbodyval4536]

When I see them with the hairhats, I feel a bit embarrassed for them, especially the ones with the blonde hairhat. I don't look good.

[@axxelfoley3304]

Guess wearing lacefronts makeup eyelashes to BBL's dont make them average women lol

[@genovasquez8361]

I have never in my life approached a woman or rejected a woman because of Her nails!!!! i care about about your stomach than your nails.

[@yessir8805]

I love women with pretty feet u on your own playa lmao. And a big stomach on a woman is nasty, I agree with that

[@technofilejr3401]

3:51, back in the day Public Enemy had a song about this mentality "She Watch Channel Zero". This song was about a woman with tv addiction who then expects real life to be like her soap operas and night time dramas. If they wrote that song today, Chuck D and the crew would add in addiction to social media as well.

[@jetblackanddarkblue7548]

Yeah I remember that song. They nailed it, especially relevant to today's world.

[@flrbase]

I learn to never complain about a woman standards because being settled for you will never make her happy....been there

[@matthewgaines10]

I don’t worry about her standards but my own. It isn’t anyone’s duty to make someone else happy. Once you appreciate your own standards and stop trying to make broken people happy, you’re ahead of the game.

[@jmjenkins97]

Now this is the most mature answer...all this attempt to guilt some women to "settle" for someone they don't want make the men seem desperate and low value...just move on. BM are NOT entitled to BW and vice versa.

[@leekydun]

Following social media trends

[@FormerIFBBJudge]

And worse than that average women saying a man must be 6ft tall even those she is 5'0ft, SMH.

[@jeviosoorishas181]

Notice, that in neither the comments of the men or the women, is there any mention of the word LEGACY? If you want to understand what the problem is, that's it in a nutshell. When you're not motivated by legacy i.e. something to pass on after you die to your own (not god children, other people's kids, but your own flesh and blood FIRST), it's difficult, if not impossible to distinguish between what's important vs. what's not over the course of an entire lifetime. Everyone wants "LOVE" but in the past we used to distinguish "youthful or puppy love" from "grown love" i.e. a love rooted in the desire for something longer term, if not everlasting...today, women mostly, but even a lot of men, really want a long lasting puppy love, and then wonder why they're not happy in it. People have high expectations of LOVE, precisely because they are still approaching it the way a child approaches it. Fortunately, or unfortunately, nature gave us the ability to look younger than our age, and many of us are buying into our own vanity and trying to act like Peter Pan: never fully growing up and the results speak for themselves.

[@acmaysnetworker]

I am NOT taking her around my family with that hair of fake lashes. this is crazy

[@steelresilience]

I don't have to pretend to like high maintenance, I don't. I see a straight up liability. Showing you off adds no value to my life. Dating you is like buying an abandoned mansion: looks good on the outside but the inside is next to worthless.

[@Iam_Celene]

The average man doesn’t even make $65k. The average black man earns $45k which that cant provide you a comfortable life let alone a hypergamous soft life. I don’t see anything wrong with black women or women in general wanting a man who has established himself and has a world you can just walk into.

[@dred9174]

24% of black men are making 65K or above the thing is. The women asking for these men tend to have kids. So those men constantly reject them.

[@matgamer5916]

Yeah then they best come correct then or know their level.👀

[@josephbranch2342]

Okay, but many of these women are overweight, wearing fake hair, fake eyelashes. fake eyebrows and have kids already. They are average at best themselves.

[@josephbranch2342]

Okay, but most of these women are overweight, wear fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake eyebrows and have kids already. Most women are average at best.

[@revilloteoj1934]

You can want that sure, but can you get it is the question? From the crying I see most can't 🤣

[@freddy8479]

"GUUUUUURL, DEY CORNY AND LAME!!!!" "I GOT THIS SUCKA WRAP AROUND MY FINGER, GUUUUUURL!!" THE REASON WHY WE✈️✈️✈️✈️✈️

[@sir1junior]

1:40 Blonde hair on BW is gigantic 🚩

[@thegamingchef3304]

I like how these women think regular hygiene is high maintenance 😂. And no, I do not like makeup and blonde hair on a black woman.

[@charlesislaw]

Its the "Independence Tax"

[@HoneyGold-o3r]

Im a black woman and i dont have to settle for men who are broke 😂 but do you girl

[@matthewgaines10]

Overweight, demanding, loud, overinflated sense of self women are the equivalent of “broke” men being they are equally undesirable to men. Women with other men’s children are the equivalent of “broke” men. The men that women claim they want don’t want you. They may sleep with but they will never wife you. They aren’t looking for the attitude you represent. Men have settled for economically undesirable women since the beginning of recorded history being that most women didn’t have the resources that men had. The average BM still makes more than the average BW. BM are more likely to be single and childless than BW. BM statistically are more likely to find a mate outside their race than BW. Don’t settle. Enjoy. Men won’t settle for you where their wealth provides them more choices with more agreeable attitudes. That guy can do better too.

[@Bwilli1990]

I am a college educated black man with college educated west African Liberian immigrants and I don’t have to date a women with two kids by two different men.😮

[@jmjenkins97]

@@Bwilli1990 exactly so why are BM complaining about BW choice all day on YT. I promise you the women who you say are complaining about your choices are not the type of women like the lady who is not choosing you

[@HoneyGold-o3r]

@@Bwilli1990 mmmk. Good for you

[@Curtis_George]

You have every right to not settle. I hope you understand that the probability of that guy having multiple options at his disposal is high. Well off men are like mini kings. Hopefully, he doesn't let you have access to his wealth when he's done with you.

[@Diorteaches123]

Half of them won’t interact with you or look at you. Others start demands or being rude immediately. Even ones that are way older / way under my league. I have women message me first on dating apps out the gate asking me my finances telling me they’re going to curve me when I dead ass wouldn’t check for them in person. I gets mine elsewhere

[@Curtis_George]

It's really that bad that they ask your finances at the top of the conversation? That's tacky and low.

[@tubeslats]

Let's stop calling them "high standards". They are "high hopes"!

[@kiriende3691]

As quiet as it’s kept there are number of communities around the world with just as high a percentage of single parent households as black America and the female children of those relationships don’t seem to function like prostitutes.

[@jmjenkins97]

What is wrong with not giving your body and time to someone without them having to qualify to YOUR standards...trying to shame women by calling it prostitution is old dog whistling. If that's how you feel the move around to the dump girl who allows you to enter into her life with NOTHING...the rest of the SMART women will continue to have THEIR STANDARDS.

[@malachibenyisrael4621]

Not my problem.

[@Cahluvca]

This is a macro level problem...not a specific race, its western eurocentric cultural problem

[@TheBlackManMythLegend]

a well kept woman is cool if I have money It's like I pay for that. I don't have to worry about that . I can focus on making money. A woman that want my time and attention that I can't give if I am making money that's harder to get.

[@TheBlackManMythLegend]

you give what you have at the end of the day .. that's the way I see it.

[@shanepowell6556]

Im not taking no black woman with Blonde fake hair serious

[@freddy8479]

DITTO!!! Talk about INTELLECTUALLY CHALLENGED!!!

[@hr9336]

Most have a poor work ethic. They put very little effort to what will not immediately benefit them. Just take a glance at the people they look up to. Usually, someone slovenly or lazy or an outright scam artist.

[@stripedrajang3571]

Like the Kardashians? Nicki Minaj? Cardi B?

[@hr9336]

@@stripedrajang3571 Come on. Kim K maybe a lot of things, but you definitely cannot call her lazy or having a poor work ethic. Same for her mother.

[@stripedrajang3571]

Hookers work really hard. How are the Kardashians any different?

[@hr9336]

@@stripedrajang3571 sounds like jealousy

[@stripedrajang3571]

Really? How so?

[@j4crypto4all1st9]

Wanna show you off because your existence is temporary according to her intentions which is going shopping for most

[@musingsofawokehebrew3356]

They might settle in their minds but a decision is made to remain single by that intractability....not settling but ending up with...NOTHING ....too foolish to recognize the conundrum and consequences of that folly....most men and most women are AVERAGE....that's why it's called average....

[@jmjenkins97]

It's not choosing NOTHING it's call choosing yourself...a relationship is work and most relationships are NOT fulfilling so why be miserable with a man you did not want in the first place.

[@Drazja]

Will they settle with an average white guy?

[@mlspeopleshoulddateeachoth6940]

Yes even below average white men

[@NigerianCel]

cause race is the most important trait in make attractiveness

[@jmjenkins97]

So what is the issue that is there preference. BM has told BW for centuries their preference is light-yellow bone etc... BM colorism is NOT Real so stop it

[@jmjenkins97]

@@NigerianCel BM colorism is NOT real...those BW are just going with their preference

[@kikio-rq9kx]

Nope.

[@cahokia33]

Standards and Values One is Earned and Maintained, and the other is Fantasy and Juggling the Highs and LOWS. Values go after Values, and Standards go after Standards. Gender Neutral

[@TheBulletzgottishow20]

❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰😘 hey chez

[@UrbanSipfly]

Today's modern day women who are seeking validation from well to do financially stable men are in their 60s and likely already established and secured in a romantic relationship with women who have helped in some way build their personal empire for over 25 years or more.

[@thePraddagee]

Those women in the shows also consistently have a Pookie or a bus driver busting them down in the background so they are 🧢

[@faves2012]

That young woman has it twisted. I would NEVA bring a blonde wig around anybody .

[@CAJFB]

✈️

[@tupactargaryen]

🇹🇭 🇵🇭 🇩🇴 🇧🇷 🇨🇴

[@bisquit48]

This is not upsetting. I understand my lane and I'm only interested in women who are in the same

[@moneymone32]

She didnt mention good hygiene, nor did she mention not being overweight.

[@gregorythomas4470]

Most of the comments you agreed with were pure CAP!! Black women aren’t just looking to be loved! Where??? Please

[@NigerianCel]

No shtt. I stopped talking to black women a while ago

[@jmjenkins97]

I yet you are still here...lol

[@Curtis_George]

​@@jmjenkins97 you're a troll 😂. Did you act like this when the hyenas on Cynthia G were attacking BM? And they're insane and self hating.

[@mikenagol69]

Did you all see that blonde wig?

[@oseiosei6649]

Because it is natural. Every woman wants to mate with a man who is more successful than her. A woman wants to mate with a man that she believes will be able to provide for her and her children. Even in the animal kingdom, a female animal always wants to mate with a male animal that she believes is stronger and more capable of protecting her offspring.

[@gordonallen9095]

There is nothing wrong with "hypergamy." as long as it's based in reality and logic.

[@dred9174]

Except that's not the case because Pookie is the knocking all these women up and he doesn't even work! He just stands on the corner selling drugs.

[@Vivian-ht3pp]

Didn't you mean to say "a woman wants to mate with a man that she believes will be able to provide for her and THEIR children"? If that's the attitude a woman has going into a relationship, if I were a guy, I'd run the other way!😬

[@Vivian-ht3pp]

And , sadly, you are uneducated about what happens in the animal kingdom, if you believe that the female of the species is the one that has a "choice" as to whom she will mate. This generation watches way too many cartoons where animals can talk and have human personalities. Go watch some REAL animal documentaries or something!🤣🤣

[@technofilejr3401]

@@Vivian-ht3pp Bingo. It's always "her children". I played that game in my single days and strongly recommend productive brothas don't do that.

[@tiktoktim]

Naw folks men just looking for a woman with a genuine heart… men actually want to be able to vibe with a woman the same as what we had in highschool… but bw make it seem like it’s a chore to keep them …

[@MTXSHO9732vV8SHO]

(Explaining Opportunity Cost/ yes this is a business concept) Guys.. Let's say you could pacify a Female averaging a $25/day spend. That's $9,000 yearly and $600 at 5.5% you can't earn from the market because you spent it on her and she's tired of looking at you. Pray tell... I'm searching for the VALUE ADD!!!😂😂😂 That's $100,000 per decade without calculating compound interest. So if you spend 20 years being a SUCKA, you'll EASILY BEAT YOURSELF out of a $250,000. Find someone that understands THAT and not wasting money or time on 🐂💩

[@RShaun]

1:27 Bleach blonde…

[@ChampagneFrost]

❤❤❤

[@manafront]

yall really showing a skit as a real kevin samuel interview

[@itsbeyondme5560]

Get educated= married a high educated men. Black men i met dont have these qualities.

[@DievestorsNeverLearn]

@itsbeyondme5560 You're attracted to pookies. Most black women prefer and raise the type of men that they complain about.

[@robertcortez3526]

Then you need to look into the mirror and ask why?

[@itsbeyondme5560]

@@robertcortez3526 nope. why you

[@DievestorsNeverLearn]

@@itsbeyondme5560 You aren't attracted to educated black men. You're attracted to pookies (like most black women).

[@robertcortez3526]

@@itsbeyondme5560 Can you type in English please?

[@ttmazz1]

I don't want purses & goofy lashes, hard pass!

[@DerekFullerWhoIsGovt]

🥂

[@JGB128]

Eve did not desire adam. Her first desire was to be like God.

[@christopherquezada2066]

stay gone working and away from her, get a small apartment, get someone you trust to help you file for divorce, keep every piece of evidence of the kind of women she is. It's fucked up bro but you got the rest of your life and your kid's life!

[@tiktoktim]

Naw talk to God to know what a happy relationship is: the inventor of humans - AKA get in that BIBLE

[@sammywilliams6]

Blonde trippin she is stuck up and most men don’t want her let’s be real look at the stats 😂😂😂😂💯

[@nolenation1993]

High Earner man.

[@snuggles668]

👀

[@laundromat5237]

Sysbm

[@Curtis_George]

Amen

[@dandaman9009]

We do not care, enjoy reality we are not your daddy’s and your actions have consequences. Save yourselves we will not save you

[@NaggaShaYah]

What did that, "German" lady say? 😂😂😂