Why Behzinga’s Girlfriend SHOULD Take His Last Name…

True Geordie reacts to a recent viral clip from Behzinga’s Growing Paynes podcast.
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[@TrueGeordie]

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[@vincentene4834]

I think you are the misogynistic one here lol😂 . Not Ethan

[@gmatt999]

What have you got to say now, big clown? Fury finally to slap Usyk all around the ring.

[@HikeWizard]

No video on russell brand?

[@haveanice1946]

Not a misogynist just a standard 'argument' that plenty of couples have. The reality is this is stuff that's easily avoidable by just not discussing personal matters on a podcast

[@KaranS2022]

this podxast is painful to watch .(even on shorts)

[@inahole2678]

⁠@@KaranS2022I think they chat shit for viral clips

[@Mrperfection97]

The only bad thing Ethan thinks

[@serkomaani4346]

@@Mrperfection97? How is that bad? Ur comment is a bit cringy

[@mikcu7531]

well they need to talk about something... so they bring pointless drama up

[@noahlaprade566]

If Geordie really did put a ring on Ethan he could rebrand to "The Payne Game"

[@thechimpndelpodcast7968]

He’d be called true Payne 🤣

[@jamesarthur4601]

I love that

[@Ads_Snaps]

The fact that this is being made into a big deal really shows… they literally just have different opinions, why does everyone feel the need to attack them for it?!

[@ikpodavid5794]

Exactly

[@Icanbacktrailers]

Then they should keep the discussion private

[@TrequartistaFM]

@@Icanbacktrailersthe discussion isn’t that deep though, private maybe but it’s not that crazy a debate to have on a podcast. The fact I’m seeing it all over social media like it’s actually a big story is crazy

[@ltreanor99]

The issue is she's only with him cause of the kid- I'm pretty sure she mentioned that before... Ain't sure if it was a joke or not.

[@Ads_Snaps]

@@ltreanor99 That was quite obviously a joke

[@ef4298]

Growing paynes is just a couple getting passive aggressive at each others insecurities for an hour or 2

[@DanWalker97_]

Dunno how people listen to it, listening to another couples domestics 😂

[@ef4298]

@@DanWalker97_ if I was in the room I would want to leave, not how a podcast should make you feel

[@Clang2023]

Every clip I hear just makes me sad for their child lmao

[@unamusedmule]

But she doesn't even reject his name, she wants a double-name like, doesn't she? His name is the last one that appears when she says it.

[@EJB2274]

Yeah exactly, confusing why he's so against that

[@unamusedmule]

@@GhastlyCretin85 You'll realistically take the last one of the double-name if you really want to.

[@EJB2274]

@@GhastlyCretin85 what you on about lad? You're talking about hypothetical scenario as opposed to what is actually going on🤣

[@kacieb2002]

@@GhastlyCretin85how does that effect the world in anyway 😂 does it effect you? It’s no one’s business how many last names someone wants

[@keroro7777]

​@kacieb2002 if that's your logic you're an idiot, thank God I live in Bosnia

[@D.Records]

Bryan gone down a weird route since he did them interviews with that pearly things ngl

[@michaelhorden7997]

Drifting into red pill more and more imo

[@avacyn2000]

@@michaelhorden7997based

[@fads232]

Yeah I’ve noticed that too, literally unsubscribing now. He used to have his own opinions even if he was a prick but now literally sounds like he’s apart of a red pill community

[@mccy9198]

@@fads232truth is truth whoever it comes from….

[@LegalizeTheNuclearBomb]

@@fads232 😢

[@James-uu9nx]

If she doesn’t want his name don’t take it. She clearly wants a part of his name while still retaining her own identity. It’s a compromise. Nothing wrong with that.

[@woshdndndj2103]

Why doesn’t she propose to him then? 🤣🤣

[@chapman2001]

She should take his name

[@James-uu9nx]

@@woshdndndj2103 Well if she did would Ethan accept it. It’s clearly annoyed him enough to put a dent in any proposal plans

[@jorgeandrade783]

@@chapman2001Why? Completely up to her. Also she is offering to take his name just to have her name which again up to her. If the name means to much to you then ask her to take yours then. If you can’t do that then don’t pressure her if she doesn’t want to

[@murphy1094]

What a beta male you are 😂😂

[@rossistfc]

It’s their issue let them sort it out, why is everyone so offended on behalf of someone else 😂

[@mrt6528]

Because they put it out there on the Internet for everyone to see so ppl are going to comment.

[@josephhunter1627]

They will make thousands of pounds of of that video they put up for everybody to see of course people are going to comment on it ? 🤣🤣💵

[@ayaanlatif2296]

Welcome to the internet People think they know the guys personally and wanna give their own clueless opinion

[@berlin4103]

Don't put stuff on internet,if you don't want people to talk about it ,your comment is very tarded mate

[@rareclassicart2857]

@@berlin4103 them putting it public still doesn't justify people getting offended on their behalf , they should've not put something like this public and u shouldn't get involved either lol

[@ayaankhan2717]

I don't understand how someone could see it as misogyny. Ethan's just a bit daft innit. Not a bad person. Just making a massive deal of something that really isn't.

[@rayeya3138]

They’re both nit very bright.

[@iiiiii7739]

His reasoning definitely can be rooted in misogyny. The whole taking the man’s name is rooted in misogyny

[@snupermoto723]

Correct, not misogyny in ay way...... so, is it cool if others tell you what's important to you, rather than what you think? no? then how can you say this isn't a massive deal (to Ethan)?

[@MathewBall]

It's not daft or misogyny, it makes perfect sense when you're the head of the household.

[@connieharrison6077]

@@MathewBallbut that’s not his reasoning he wants her to take his name for “tradition” and what’s that tradition rooted in … take a wild guess

[@luispelleranonadal2419]

It’s kinda weird seeing this whole situation as someone from a latin country. When you marry someone they usually keep their name they just add yours to their name, for example: Faith would be, Faith Kelly of Payne (Weird translation i know). Then the children get both surnames (dad first, mom second), but when they have kids their mother’s surname dies out. The kid’s name would be Kid Payne Kelly (both parents get representation).

[@adomaskn]

Interesting stuff

[@coolhaydos]

Weird 😂

[@MMKLYH]

Misogynist is so overused, disagree with a women and the internet will brand you a misogynist

[@hibernopithecus7500]

Well it’s easy to be overused since it’s being redefined. When did it become about just _disliking_ women? So if you’re a man who doesn’t like what could be seen as a typically female trait (don’t hate or despise it, btw, just dislike it), you’re a misogynist? When did that start?

[@MBroz]

Exactly... And it'll continue being used the more we actually pay attention to the people that make these ridiculous accusations. It's a non-argument. Don't pay attention to it ...

[@Beebeepbooboop]

"Misogyny🤓" won't exist if we take away rights from these brainless Liberal femnoids and make everything go back to normal again

[@MacEwan23eh]

I’m an only child and extremely proud of my surname. I always want to represent that. Obviously as a man I don’t need to give it up, but I actually understand her point. If she didn’t even want the double barrell, Ethan would have an argument. But she’s willing to do that, that’s compromise. He’s taking it far too seriously.

[@tbow6719]

Especially as he has his mums maiden name not his dads anyway. Faith Payne sounds a bit blunt Faith Kelly-Payne sounds better imo don't know why he is deeping it so much

[@MacEwan23eh]

@@tbow6719 it’s not even misogynistic, it’s just a bit weird.

[@fls128]

Not really. She wants a traditional wedding and everything else (with him obviously paying for everything), but won't compromise by taking his name. She wants him to do all the "manly" duties and enjoy all the benefits but won't follow through on her part of the tradition. That's more than likely what's pissing him off.

[@jdssmith7467]

Sat in hospital currently with a heart condition. Plugged into all sorts of machines. And yet Brian still manages to make me laugh. Honestly, thank you. ❤

[@kevlar2037]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@snupermoto723]

good luck with your struggles bro, God bless.

[@rhysdrakefordbennett6818]

In 5 years you’ll look back of how strong this adversity has made you. You’ll survive g, consume positive media, seems you’re already doing a great job! This is a mere dropped stitch in life’s tapestry… the human will is stronger than you think. All the best ❤

[@frostyirish9448]

All the best mate 🙌

[@Ben14102]

All the best bro stay strong

[@samueldjones8259]

'He allows her a very nice lifestyle ' - Very poor choice of words brother...

[@blakehydra]

faith kelly payne actually sounds 10x better than faith payne

[@yol_n]

I think our society would be better off if we gave attention to REAL problems like how much attention we're giving to this.

[@StarBoyyX]

Gen z mate 😂

[@SuperGlue4321]

We are paying attention to this because it matters. Women are people who live on this planet too. Every law in society screwing them over for men’s benefits should be paid attention to, don’t you think? Yea why would you, it don’t bother you right. Must be a man.

[@TheGreatIRSH]

"That's how it should be done", he literally has his mother's last name

[@connormurney8891]

bro doesnt have a dad of course he has his mums last name

[@oNextq]

Let’s ask his dad about that 🎤: ….

[@vanitas9837]

Yeah mate there's a pretty good reason for that.

[@beautyinsideruk5293]

@@vanitas9837why doesn’t he speak to his dad?

[@Beebeepbooboop]

Both of his dads left mate. Yes, even the step father. Not his fault mate😂

[@joarborneland1708]

the tradition in it of itself is misogynistic as during the oppression of women through the ages they had no choice but to take the mans name as they now ”belonged” to him as a sort of property and when ethan cannot accept that she simply wants to keep her name because he wants to honour tradition its upholding these misogynistic values from the past, it would have been a completely different scenario if she actually wanted to take his last name but ethan is very much in the wrong for pushing this on her so diligently

[@theconvent6183]

it's kinda disappointing that TG doesn't see that, he may not BE a misogynist but he's thinking in a misogynistic way. especially the way he was talking about the money thing, money isn't everything

[@gy6078]

Making a video about this is bottom of the barrel

[@nicholasingall5413]

exactly, I laughed to myself when i realised this was all the video was about

[@Pukkaping]

However you're still interested, watched it, and commented. Dick heads 😂

[@alexdawson1203]

This is something you should always discuss before getting engaged. If she won't take your last name don't marry her.

[@Cluelessch]

its only tradition because our history is very male dominated, tradition doesnt automatically equal good, there are a lot of horrific past traditions in the world…personally I dont see the big deal about a woman keeping her name and also taking their partners.

[@philip244]

Imagine a female dominated history. Nothing would get built

[@archiewall124]

Our history isn’t that male dominated. Most men born before the 1930s had absolutely horrible lives and over a million sacrificed themselves in the two world wars. Just saying. That’s not mentioning the fact that every building and structure we have in society was built by men from the ground up, and that’s not a task most people would want.

[@nodruj8681]

We men created society so the games the game..

[@camhusmj38]

@@nodruj8681I guarantee you that no society that only included men survived. Society is all the people in it.

[@archiewall124]

@@camhusmj38 there’s never been a society with only men. No ones arguing we only need men in society, obviously you need men and women. The point is, the things and the cities we live in, were built by men. Many men sacrificed their lives for us to have the things we have now, and it seems people are completely lacking any kind of gratitude for that.

[@ybntoye2376]

He’s not a mysoginist

[@ianwazowski5607]

He isn't most likely but Brian is.

[@novaclan8542]

@@ianwazowski5607why😂😂😂

[@JJ-io9ms]

​@@ianwazowski5607you've clearly never met a real misogynist if this is the standard lol

[@olepetter7856]

@@ianwazowski5607what? If anything, Brian loves women more than a lot of dudes😂

[@serkomaani4346]

@@ianwazowski5607by how? If u gonna make those kind of big accusations then explain urself…

[@KeyTrainin]

Factual and funny geordie. Love your takes on these topics. Looking forward to the next podcasts and studio

[@mediamonster8005]

it basically is misogyny if the tradition came about from misogyny.... he should just take her name. who the fuck cares. the whole discussion is ridiculous

[@jamesarthur4601]

Look, I think whoever has the coolest surname wins. Therefore Payne wins

[@michaelcorleone7598]

I couldn’t careless if my misses wants my last name or not. Our child will have my last name at that’s the only thing that matters.

[@sutha0677]

This weirdly is not as bad as their other ones, Ethan comes across badly but actually realising where he comes from it’s a valid opinion as faiths is. It’s a normal conversation couples have.. but they make it come across badly.

[@RhysVT]

Brian you're completely off with this one.

[@mariagambardella7718]

I would understand Ethan’s point of view, IF she didn’t want to take his name at all, but that’s not the case, she does want his name but also wants to keep hers

[@vould7233]

@@GhastlyCretin85 That's not how it works buddy - the kid would generally have the mother's last name as a middle name instead

[@Wee.low1]

Even if she didn't want to take his name at all, that would be valid. She's her own individual at the end of the day, he doesn't own her

[@propelledpingu]

@@GhastlyCretin85never been a problem before in the world, I don’t it’ll start now

[@ZPM18]

Ethan wishes he stuck to making pan cakes with Elz the witch 🤣

[@novaclan8542]

Instead of having a kid with a chav who used to do onlyfans😭

[@Beebeepbooboop]

​@novaclan8542 Did she actually? Everyone says that but no source

[@ZPM18]

@@Beebeepbooboop someone is thirsty 👀

[@Beebeepbooboop]

@@ZPM18 if you think I want to see any of the mid sidemen girls in that way when I've way better ones I'm good lmao. Found it anyways

[@ZPM18]

@@Beebeepbooboop send me it 👀

[@darkhorse5722]

This is the sort of stuff you discuss before u have a baby! You can say the same for everything they disagree about to be fair

[@AlphaAbyss_]

They probably did but Ethan probably thought she would come around to it

[@Beebeepbooboop]

Even the baby wasn't planned and she "forgot" to take the pill😂

[@SuperEmm4]

TG would have a heart attack if he found out about men being able to take the women’s surname 😂

[@jonathanmarkham1998]

Ultimately this is none of our business and they shouldn’t have put this out there imo.

[@davidspears4524]

Your the best geordie in your crack you bottled it😂😂😂😂

[@rounakvarma3399]

I don’t think you of all people are qualified to comment on this

[@bananabread4075]

Its a great feeling, wtf is that feel man ik what it means to trust someone and that is a great feeling but its just weird to put that kind of feeling in such a simple question like yes you would hope anyone would take the time to learn how someone gets along with another person but anyone can just say yes to changing their last name and not actually care the way you would think they do, i also just believed that british people are more traditional for lots of things and reasons and thats why it shouldnt be this big a deal but it really doesnt take that much arguing either

[@wadooshful]

Why is a middle aged man fannying over drama

[@xavlionheart]

imo he thinks she's not giving their relationship 100% so he's making this a bigger deal than it has to be.

[@De3dSh0t]

Don't think it's that deep tbh. If your woman has an exceptional personality, makes you happy, is a great mother, hardworking and loving, her wanting to keep her name shouldn't exactly be a deal breaker. If she isn't those things, than your problems are bigger than just keeping a name.

[@sandrobarbisan3498]

yeah just an advice: maybe discuss stuff like this beforehand, as well as kids planning, contraception etc.

[@loudog3398]

Brain Payne does have a good ring to it plus the Payne game would work

[@Nightmxre_cloudzzz56]

The answer is no, this guy really doesn’t know what a misogynist is

[@Lukey111]

Brian you know how narratives go, please change the title even if you arent on that side even bringing up the idea creates opposition when behz very clearly isnt a misogynist

[@nicolettacinci3053]

In Italy,like in all the latin countries,women keep their surname

[@Lukey111]

Irrelevant isn't it

[@philip244]

Not in Italy are we . 🤡

[@river5554]

WHAT NONSENSE. I AGREE WITH HER LOGIC

[@zacfuller7970]

I’m sorry but this whole situation really doesn’t deserve the traction it’s getting. There’s levity in both Ethan and Faith’s voices, they’re just disagreeing about something. Who’d have thought a couple’s podcast where they have a discussion on things they disagree on?! Whoever thinks Ethan’s a misogynist doesn’t know wtf they’re on about. He’s simply stating a preference and Faith is countering it that’s it. Fuck, I hate the internet sometimes.

[@CrossxFir3]

I'm with her, he's being kinda stupid over name.

[@parmaman8551]

I think it's to do with the association of a double barrelled named being posh, which Ethan probably doesn't like.

[@JudoPanda58]

Ethan is not a misogynist, but the idea that the woman must give herself and even part of her identity to the man is a misogynistic traditional standard

[@robertsampson3772]

I’ve said the same about these double barrelled names , when’s it gonna end 😂

[@raenfairy]

Also, she didn't say she wouldn't take his name. She wanted to double barrel meaning BOTH their names.

[@10thTigerProductions]

In a time when left wingers and right wingers are so polarised, true geordie is doing a great job to bridge the gap and give objective unbiased opinions.

[@joesxd3357]

brian has a lot of opinions in line with the tates, surprised they had a back n forth

[@moisesceja5294]

Did not expect TG to agree with Behzinga. Major W. Imagine being a Multimillionaire just to get bent over backwards by your baby momma 😂😂😂

[@gman1921]

Common Geordie L here, nothing wrong with the issue at hand, but the way you speak about women, mate...

[@danselwood269]

It’s like he’s gone back to 2016 Brian with his sexist views since he’s been riding solo.

[@gman1921]

​@danselwood269 for somebody who had a lot to say about Andrew Tates' views on women.. seems he's trying pander to the red pill brigade

[@EliteMMA.1]

This comment section is full of beta males. Weak men create hard times

[@ellleigh1216]

Dunno why people care about the name, it’s just a name.

[@Cesarr_08]

Ethan just want girlfriend to have his last name, nothing massive 😭 it something he wants. People act like couples don’t ever have a disagreement..

[@AlphaAbyss_]

Yeah I sided with Ethan in the comments of there podcast and people were calling me all sorts sexist misogynist bigot etc it's a crazy world that people can be so offended by anything remotely traditional

[@Cesarr_08]

@@AlphaAbyss_ 2023 for ya 😪 tbh don’t know what got into them for making a podcast about their relationship. Since the first episode it was never gonna work out..

[@iiiiii7739]

If u don’t see how that tradition is rooted in misogyny then u don’t understand

[@RZ6787]

​@@iiiiii7739she still wants a ring thats probably like 50k hes gonna pay for the wedding get on his knees and propose guess thats rooted in misogyny too?

[@iiiiii7739]

@@RZ6787 u can choose the traditions you don’t like. The taking of the man’s last name has historically been about being owned by ur husband

[@sammitchell2924]

Someone’s been watching Emergency Meeting 😉

[@AFCb818]

Spot on Brian

[@Al7ajri]

MAD TITLE

[@raenfairy]

What he did wasn't misogynistic, but it is controlling & uncomfortable to watch.

[@thechimpndelpodcast7968]

So many people are gunna put at comments but what Brian is saying about men is so true I think

[@yehldyehld]

It's a pride thing to take the name of a man. He will like it. It doesn't make him a misogynist.

[@BFNoobanworld]

sorry last comment, but TG doing a really good job here! from all perspectives

[@kerryadams9208]

Given Ethans childhood and the 'Father' issue, he just wants to be the man his dad wasnt. He wants to be the best dad he can be, and for him the last name would be important.

[@robertjordaan9924]

She still wants to take his surname so you have no point, the kids don't have to have a double barrel surname. My sister kept her surname didn't take his at all, but their daughter has his surname

[@Ellerz03]

Ethan gets so much unwarranted hate, it’s actually embarrassing because he seems like such a sound bloke

[@DWboy14]

She definitely baby trapped him

[@imran008ia]

5:05… The Pain Game about to become The Payne Game…

[@duskplains1235]

Having a double barrel name isn’t that bad. Also why is Geordie making it about money that validates a persons perspective on this. He said it isn’t but I don’t believe he’s being truthful.

[@MK7of7of7of7]

What? I know a woman who shoveled the entire driveway while her husband watched and could have given a big rats butt if she broke her back doing it. She asked for him to hire a snowplow with a (man) to do it next time it snowed. Did he? No, he put a snowplow onto his small four-wheeler recreational machine, ran it around for approx. five minutes until the plow fell off broken. Yep, she has his last name, yes, she does everything for him, yes, he treats her like she doesn't exist and is entirely worthless, yes, she takes it and tries even harder to please him. I'm watching from here. Isn't that interesting. He also makes almost all of their money, but she gave up a career to have their children, she raised those children, she coached him into owning his own business after meeting him as a want to be plumber. I'm missing the point I guess of why she should feel honored.

[@georgejohnson9056]

Faith KELLY should be more like her mother.

[@miralabualjadail4206]

I don’t think men being sole caretakers has anything to do with taking his last name 😂

[@yoyoclodie]

Give the kid his last name. That's a compromise

[@ethancostello5132]

PREACH!! 👏👏

[@TrealFOET]

Idk if this isnt common in the UK but in the US it is very common what faith is trying to do. Idk why ethan us trippin about this lol

[@seanodonnell3903]

Is this now a Ricky gervais tribute act? If it is keep it up fucking hilarious 🤣

[@ghausiamushfiqua8216]

Deliberately trying to get cancelled ☠️☠️

[@dfgaJK]

10:01 Why is it automatically the man ("we're") that is getting fucked over in a divorce? Surely it is dependent on who provided the most/is losing the most. Why do you assume that it is always going to be the man providing the most?

[@adammacdomhnail2014]

Because in most cases its the man that provides the most?

[@rory787]

Some very good points made in this brain

[@Sagarock]

Ethan does not wanna let go of that payn e

[@Paul_Keegan]

Omg you've uploaded🤣

[@mattnolan4469]

This is gonna rub alot of people up the wrong way

[@bencarr6074]

That’s their problem

[@AlphaAbyss_]

This is a massive 1st world problem were adhearing to tradition is viewed as awful

[@morgancarolan8680]

Because the world has gone soft

[@albertguldbrandsen969]

Let them be angry, not Brians fault they dont have a brain

[@BenAttwell]

I think its not that Ethan is a misogynist but more like he needs to get a grip. She wants to double barrell her name. That's her right

[@sammysp6365]

The worlds going mad.

[@ellie20lm]

what has happened to true goerdie talk about something interesting

[@sya8109]

Fury vs Usyk is on!

[@m.j.d.3017]

Where I am from its very common for a woman to keep her last name and add the surname of the husband..

[@v3165]

I hate my last name so if marry a women with a good last name im taking dont care 😂 but I understand why hes so annoyed by it. Men never feel loved so he just wants to feel loved by her, an taking his name is her saying im in love with you in its purest form in a way. So I understand it

[@jbutfc]

I’m on Ethan’s side. But have the conversation in private not on a podcast hahaha

[@TheeporiAnnan]

If the woman completly depends on the man to live. Like he provides for her. Its not unreasonable for him to ask. Same if its the other way around. But if both can support themselves. Keep your names. Or take both names. Or change your names i dunno.

[@TheDevilsOwl505]

He's not a misogynist, clear and simple

[@alexhaynes7220]

There is nothing wrong and bad with having a big wedding

[@goti6539]

The word “misogynist” is being swung around so much these days that it’s starting lose it’s meaning in my opinion.

[@mikebelsack6907]

This planet is fucked, now you've got people who copy words like "misogynist" without knowing what it means & paste it in every commentsection they see.. Social media ruined everything

[@MazzaProductions2019]

Couples and podcasts shouldn’t be a combination, both just air each others dirty laundry for thousands each week

[@bcpbrennan]

Very good video 👍👍👍

[@AlphaAbyss_]

I was in the comments of that podcast and I was getting called misogynistic for siding with Ethan like people don't even know what that word means 😂

[@ajaykhela547]

If it isn't a big deal just take his name if it means so much to him 🤷🏾‍♂️