Why Caring Less Makes YOU More Powerful INSTANTLY (shift your reality)

[@AaronDoughty44]

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[@joelmvher]

tried to and got declined?

[@magdelyn]

How,about me,DIVINE FAMINIME, STAR MOTHER'S,I NEED FIND MY DIVINE MASKULIN,NOW,DID YOU WANT WITH ME ITS FIRE LEO READY OPEN MY LION GET PORTAL,AND ALL MY PORTAL ITS FROM MY GODS DNA

[@iposttoxicshorts]

Hey Aaron! I coincedentaly thought of a shoe store analogy to this video & then remembered like me you too worked at one & can probably relate! Remember when supervisors would try to force us to constantly be in shoppers faces. Nothing made them leave the store faster. Many prefer to show in peace so being an annoying salesman causes resistance.

[@erikamasters9945]

People, he is preaching the truth.. honestly. Life is so easy.. just love yourself and everything wil fall in place.. Thank you AD❤

[@KKP20111]

💯

[@MariaGennetti1111]

Yes!! It's super simple. Easy might not be for everyone, bc it takes going within which grants us ease. For many, it's not easy at all, especially for those who bl9ck their emotions. Ease and grace comes when we ask and look for it in our life! ❤

[@NevilleGoddardLOA]

Hearing about putting others on a pedestal feels like a burden has been lifted. The sense of not always having to strive for recognition and the freedom that comes with it is incredibly liberating

[@Katrica670]

@erikamasters yes!

[@Katrica670]

15:03 - put being your authentic self and respecting uourself as the greatest importance, Not making "ppl" ND things important.

[@Stephaniemyersofficial]

My dad used to say “whatever you put ahead of God will mess up” after seeing this I understand what he meant even more.

[@nunyabidness2377]

This is like when you have a huge crush on someone for many years, put them on a pedestal, finally work up the nerve to ask them out, go on a date, and immediately realize this isnt what you expected. No more pedestals!

[@aleksa369]

"Look at evereything as easy and it will be"

[@TamaraOHearn]

It is amazing how so many of us with tough childhoods get lost in limerence, co-dependency, and pedestal-putting for people who are just regular people. Love your videos!

[@furahayamoyo9193]

I couldn't agree more with you. We need videos on childhood traumas, and the impact it has on us as adults in relation to love relationships. We tend to put people on pedestals, and the way we love, and care leaves us drained.

[@tiffszo]

Your channel is literally therapy for those of us who had rough childhoods and have trouble with attachment. Thank you so much.

[@marialaska4613]

when one stops caring and trying to control everything the universe can help this brings profound inner peace as one learns to flow with life 💙💙💙💙

[@carrie-kari]

"Start to develop inner trust with that inner child." I think about this as taking steps towards self-compassion. When we are still and listen to that small voice inside us we can start to cultivate kindness towards ourselves...and then it follows to others.

[@joserosellojr]

I had to pause this because WOW. I have been putting importance on people, places and other stuff that lately thinking that I cannot be in this weird place. My mind and energy needs a psychic shift. You're on time and on point ❤

[@nunyabidness2377]

He's ALWAYS on time!

[@AmandaVeda]

I believe when you learn your value, you will be able to not need the validation of others to be happy. Relationships and situationships become balanced.

[@Katrica670]

@1:27 "making someone or a specific job important is like putting it on a pedestal, and theyre looking down on you!"

[@005Anjaaa]

I’ve been there ….. and I created such a vibe that I ended up being all stressed out and lost that opportunity after 4 months …. It expresses itself on a form of not a nice person who stood in my way …. Lesson learnt !

[@Katrica670]

@@005Anjaaa this was a male?

[@leahpope8672]

Motherhood has escaped me all of these years because I put it on a pedestal. 😮 Marriage alluded me because I had it on a pedestal. I get it now!

[@melanievertalino3382]

Millions of people need to hear this Aaron. You've really outdone yourself again. I can literally feel your desire and passion to be of service to others so deeply. This is another video I need to replay! Brilliant! Your high vibe tribe is the first place I've ever not only fit in, but am also celebrated by similar people and that has to be an extension of your energy. Thank you for all the energy you put into everything you do and creating this safe container for all of us.! ❤ You deserve the life you live because you always over deliver! 💕 I have reality transurfing on audible but haven't read it yet. I put no one on pedestals thanks to your videos. Thanks for being a key component in my own unique transformation. If you ever need a testimonial or glowing review, let me know!

[@scottandersen508]

Best video I’ve seen in a long time! Really hit the nail on the head for me

[@SpaghettiinMilan]

“Don't judge each day by the harvest you reap but by the seeds that you plant” Robert Louis Stevenson

[@fabianafran927]

The things that can really happen to us are the things that we consider natural for us, not the ones we put on a pedestal! Great Aaron!

[@nataliyee]

I love how the Universe is sending answers to me, and your video is the answer I was looking for. Thank you, Aaron!

[@bec85088]

I recently started following you after popping up on my yt and kept quiet, but I must say now, I have no doubt it was meant to be. Every thought, manifestation, and question I have been going through you hit on. Every. Single. One. This one specifically hit harder for me. I am truly grateful for you. ❤

[@krystinehamre7851]

You used to annoy the shit out of me. But you just triggered me because I have similar co dependency and nervous system issues, but you’ve just evolved further ahead. When I bring my energy inwards when I’m obsessively thinking about the guy I like, I notice how tired, sore and uncomfortably reved up my nervous system is. Now I’m working on just trusting my body to heal when I look inward instead of panicking about the state of my being. Thanks for pissing me off and helping me to see how I’m just pissing myself off through you!

[@JohnHamm1969]

Aaron you are wise beyond your years my Friend, Thank You for the Content.

[@quantumhealingwiththeangels]

This is kind of how I healed myself of cancer (without western treatment). Mainly I set the intention, then stopped focusing on it. But a key was believing it would happen - and THEN not thinking about it. I distracted myself by doing work for others, past life regressions and helping them to find out things about who they are. That raised my vibration and I felt happy, and suddenly I realized I didn’t feel pain in my abdomen… a couple of months later I realized I had my energy back…and it went like that until I was fully healed. Without me raising my vibration and happiness level through that service to others, I don’t know if it would have happened, I’m not sure. **Also - the way to the full belief was hard, but the happier I got, the easier it was to get there, until finally I was at 100% belief that I would heal, and I let go of worries at that point. I hope this makes sense? I guess I am agreeing with all of this but saying that raising your vibration and happiness is important, because that happiness led me to full belief and not hoping or wishing, which was also a key component to manifesting the healing.

[@ThutoMawela]

Coach Aaron I don't wanna lie ,you have played a big role in my mental wellbeing &Still are.I started following your videos few months back when I was going through a break up,you just popped on my algorithm & I am thankful for that .I put everything you say to practice and its working for me a whole lot,i have found my inner peace and joy I cannot even explain & since I have learned the power of Detachment and magnetic vibration things are just coming to me effortlessly.Thank you Coach keep doing a great Job 😭😭😍😍😍😎😎🙌🙌🙌👏👏 🌟 👑 💃💃💃

[@victorblackman]

I know exactly what you are talking about, but the only difference is that I love God, so All blessings come from God, it's when I give up Completely God gives me everything I want, when I'm not Focused on it

[@janebraun4482]

Funny how this comes up here for me, dealing with just what he says, realizing how keep placing importance upon the other, your own value matters, and you must not accept keeping someone upon a pedi-stool, they will feel it, and somehow know like they can't deal or live up to it, it will repel them.

[@AJ-jf2ui]

The environment you are in in this video is so beautiful

[@calvinsquire]

The moment you find the things you care very deeply about, the moment you begin to stop caring about what doesn't matter. Keep up the great work, Aaron!

[@megang6880]

Really appreciate your presence on this planet Aaron. Up until now, I had always put people I respected on a pedestal. I see now how this was futile. I've really been listening to you a lot lately. I look forward to meeting you in person. 🚀🙏🏽🙂

[@jacedjohnson3541]

You’re one of my favorite channels. I come back everytime I need to do shadow work. Thank you

[@Ella_1567]

Another can be decreasing the level of importance of an aggressive person's actions. To detach from the aggressor rather than engaging in the conflict.

[@nolwazidube7591]

This just made ne feel at ease, thanks Aaron😊 sometimes we take life too seriously we end up not enjoying the moment ❤

[@thomasdillon7450]

Thank you

[@Katrica670]

Final part: "have structure; do your 🌄 routine, work or business, dinner with fam, night routine. "This creates certainty aka comfort in knowing, in security!

[@kitthomas5227]

In 2018… that’s when I found you and I’m still watching.

[@eva_dx]

Your the only reason I come to youtube. You are my number 1❤

[@MeganCleland111]

Thank you so much for being such an inspiration and helping me start my own online journey which I am so excited about! Your amazing content and the way you share your experiences have truly made an impact.

[@oriigiinbrock]

I’m so grateful your patience with people is so high. I know you’ve made this same video time and time again, but seriously, thank you

[@atipachaleka9172]

I am trying my best to let them go after 2 months of no contact.I was too attached to the outcome.I now spent time with family ,friends and do what I love.I am taking care of my inner child but when I come back home,He is always in my mind.

[@hailstorms.0352]

This is so real

[@veronicagl]

believe me, the more you want something and press for it mercilessly, it just starts to move away .If you start to like someone very much and you feel that you are attached or slowly this attachment becomes unbearable, it is time to withdraw ,focus on yourself for a few days and explain to yourself that all this energy should already be for you . I know it's quite difficult at first but the more you push something the more that thing or person will move away because they feel the pressure

[@ShinHarmony]

Not giving an F, is the ultimate human experience😎

[@ericamccleary9268]

I'm so glad you talk about the book again 😊You are very good at explaining the concepts ❤

[@felix5864]

Meant to find this for sure we figured out lot of the same but your definitely ahead and I’m not alone

[@the_infinity_channel]

Finaaaly thank you Aaron for speaking about your moving out from parents house. I really need it mostly from you and your experience.

[@Katrica670]

15:11 -15:17 "make being the authentic you the most important, and resoecting yourself!"

[@heureuse8568]

Wow, this is so true when I think about it. I've lost the opportunity to date so many attractive guys because I've been putting them on a pedestal. I mean really attractive. It's like I don't even see them as humans, but as objects. They feel that. It's almost rude actually, like when a narcissist glorifies you for something you're not.

[@ReikiMasterCarlie]

Feel everything as a normal.💖🌟 It is the way to attract it.

[@josephcarioggia9506]

You're so more chill and helpful now...

[@IlluminatingJules61284]

No wayyyyy, check out his stuff from years prior, when he actually was giving 4th dimensional guidance and he still had a heart. I don't know what happened to him but he's not the same, his messages and his entire mentality changed. Telling people to "embrace negativity."

[@AurtisticallySpeaking9]

I used this exact method to get my dream home. It works.

[@IanocityReacts]

These videos changed everything for me. Thank you Aaron! Much love brother 🤝

[@sorayahara]

Amazing insights! Thank u! I wish I could like this twice 😊

[@andreashifflet4071]

You just did! Lol

[@dotaboy888]

i saw this just when i was learning how to stop caring

[@Adonayyy]

This advice is Gold. ❤ Thank you

[@LaneyandherGermanShepherds]

If is doesn't flow let it go ❤

[@tressaloar-rankin3875]

I do understand what you're talking about. So true. I souly focus on my Mom that had a major stroke in January this year and just not worry about others as much and things are working out in my favor ❤ The universe is working with me and I am so Thankful for that. To me it's like about damn Time 😂 Thank you so much for being my mentor among others to help guide me along the way ❤️ Thank You for being you and always take Care ❤ Namaste My friend ❤

[@Katrica670]

End part: not seen, not heard, not soothed, not nurtured! Unfortunately lots of kids went through this!

[@tomrydzik9539]

Just started listening to the audiobook....so far its awesome

[@Thegoddesssoul1111]

Thankyou for the valuable wisdom you share every time. Beyond grateful Aaron!❤

[@Cocoblklove]

I needed this! I woke up the next morning and listened again! Thank you ✨

[@salenzeka]

This video got me thinking. And I thought, well, where does importance originate? Well, it originates from within you. There is no one defined meaning to what is outside of us, we define what everything is for ourselves. So, since the importance comes from within, the important thing is within, not out there. So, if you're thinking that say, that abundance, is out there and is so important because you have bills to pay, you are looking in the wrong place. You are looking at lack of abundance and asking it to give you abundance... which it doesn't have. The abundance you are looking for is within you, and if you focus inward, and let the outward be, it will shift to the abundance that was important in the first place.

[@ManuelaAyr]

He saved my life thank you ❤

[@megamanwins2016]

I overly care to the point I give up before I begin because of fear of failure I need to stop!

[@chandanmukherjee5555]

Thank you yet again Aaron

[@harrietpeabody2118]

Thank you beautiful soul

[@skylark1111]

Aaron, it is true what you are trying to tell... But, do you know what? There are some moments in life, (when it comes to relationships), it's good to show someone how much we care about them. So that person is important to us. Because if we don't show our feelings, how can we expect anything in return? if our inner child constantly convinces itself that it doesn't need anything, and therefore pretends that it doesn't care, it can lead to stagnation and isolation. I convinced myself this way for years. It was just a poor band-aid for the fact that I'm not hurt" and that I don't want more. (because my dad was not able to give it to me) He who expects nothing gets nothing. I show feelings to the people I love and let them know that they are important! I don't want to be like my dad. I will not give him that power. It's my life!

[@CelaenaSardothien-zy9zd]

I thought about that too. But maybe he was talking about detachment but operating in the place of love. Sometimes when we put importance to something, it can stem from lack mentality. That's why we sometimes control how things are because we care too much of the result and what we want to get from it, our expectations and stuff. But if you just let love flow without thinking much or expecting much what you'll get from it, or how it will end, if you just let it flow, let love flow, there will be no resistance because you're in a place of love and abundance mindset that all you care about is to express love and kindness. That's my take on it. Not caring and not making things important doesn't always have to mean being aloof about something. I do get your point tho cause I was also thinking about that and I tried to apply what lesson he was trying to point out and this was what I came up with so i thought I'd share😊 Have a good onee

[@skylark1111]

​@@CelaenaSardothien-zy9zdhm, although it is true, but it is good to apply at the beginning. And I live now in different reality, where everything is connected and "important" ALOHA to you🙏🌺and best wishes!

[@princesitaColombiana]

The best advice my dad gave me is: a man must know that you love him, but also that you are capable of leaving him at any moment if he makes you feel bad. I think that's the point of letting go. Being happy with yourself, and then someone else can only make you happier.

[@sylviadaub6964]

beautiful house and garden...✨🌿

[@amanda-jl8fx]

thank you Aaron so helpful!

[@gseanlake9765]

Ok Aaron this was a great video; a lot of excellent information in this video. Thank you for sharing. I listened to it twice. Good video.

[@danielahoxha28]

You are spot on. Thank you for sharing this video❤

[@donnagudalovic6617]

Exactly my journey for last 20yrs

[@natigood23]

You are awesome ❤ Thanks for what you do.

[@kroy5918]

I am resonating so much with this stuff at the moment ❤❤❤

[@Kristinewildnfree]

Thank you! What you say makes a lot of sense

[@assurdo8888]

Like dropped in the exact moment you said "i stopped caring"

[@shaydjokes]

Great stuff Aaron 👏🏻👏🏻 thank you

[@sectoudie1820]

Brilliantly saud Aaron. Blessings

[@roxxlush2587]

Thank you, Aaron !❤ Definitely in a much higher vibe by decreasing importance 😉

[@animalconsultant7796]

Define importance though. Something can be important to you in your subconscious mind but you don’t need to display it, you don’t need to bring it into your conscious mind very often, but it still has to be important. You can use manifestation and even reverse psychology or manipulation to get what you want, but you still have to CARE about what you’re doing. You have to stay balanced. I notice doing this practice girls will constantly check me out while I’m walking down the street, I’m more magnetic, and I can alter my mental state at will. I still choose to find some things important even if I don’t display it to others though. I also find text to speech is good for getting your thoughts out rather than typing. If you guys aren’t already doing that start now.

[@TheDutchOracle]

Thanks for another great video, Aaron! I've struggled with this when I made my hobby my job. You need to keep getting excited about doing what you love, why you wanted it in the first place. I've also noticed that giving importance to the external is also linked with perfectionism. Or is that just me?

[@SRtruth]

Thank you Aaron

[@YusufPeeally]

Thank you for sharing this video, and for helping me to understand me better

[@QueenofBeautyandSpa]

Wow what a powerful video ❤ reparenting explained beautifully… and what you said about anxiety! Lightbulb moment!

[@agarrett4131]

I love you brother Aaron❤

[@Maverick-so9fg]

I have that grid you speak of on my fridge. I put my frog magnet in the middle.

[@dajanamaas7611]

Thank you, thank you, thank you!!!!!

[@CoverPlays]

Thanks a lot for the video Aaron, I have struggled with this for a long time, especially for my partners...

[@ericamccleary9268]

These are such great reminders ❤

[@madeleinecho3669]

Incredible video

[@enikobartos2810]

Thank you. Much love 🙏💖

[@kitsiediaz6048]

Thank you 🙏🏽 Very True.

[@anaschilling2668]

Soooo true!!! Thanks Aaron 🙏

[@sarahbatsford4791]

Gaining alot from your channel. Appreciate your content❤

[@davidmurphy0922]

Great video, sums up essential esoteric points👍

[@generalusearch]

The more 'You' care the better you'll be.

[@yogaffect]

1000% agree! Focus all energy on flow and keeping your vibration high ✨

[@005Anjaaa]

But you are so amazing and I would still be like omg omg Aaron you’re so amazing - but I am normal I promise ☺️🙌💝

[@DrJaredNelson]

Incredible video. Thank you for this sir. 🙏

[@StormyLove657]

I'm the first to like lol. Thank you Aaron

[@mayastjernholm2023]

Hi Aron. Thank you so much for sharing your insights, that is very valuable to me 🥰 Do you have an upcoming video concerning the topic/concept ‘resistance’. You talk a lot about it, but i struggle to get my head around it. Thx 🙏

[@pinklucie123]

Fascinating and accurate in my experience.

[@martinmayfield1932]

Great book. I refer to it daily

[@amandapaigejones3659]

Hi funny Watching this today and I have the Reality transurfing book on my bench for a week I bought it about a yr ago and didn’t read it and took it this week 🎉🎉🎉