Why do HABESHA women LOVE NIGERIAN men?! (Orthodox Easter Special) Ft Babashikor - Hey Hels TV EP 4

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[@beecool6551]

Actually,what I see is that most eritreans dates each other,they rarely date outside.

[@hello-nz4hy]

Let me drop some game on yall. Having children with your people of your culture strengthens your community by population, keeps your culture going into the future. Women have an imporatnt part to play in this because they are the morhers and firts teacher. If the women fall, the society goes with them.

[@Abel-pf4by]

That's actually a very valid point Like statically, our population of eritrean people is declining drastically due to many reasons ......

[@howtotieatie5845]

Great point !

[@mikelary6071]

tell her that

[@keshi5541]

When women fall the culture changes completely and rip all that history is gone.

[@howtotieatie5845]

Habesha women don't love Nigeria n men, some of few love them doesn't mean all habesha love them. Your title is crap!

[@HeyHels]

Sorry lol

[@mt9609]

Well said

[@lobsterbalelegesse9919]

They want to learn their scams that's why.

[@user-gb4rd2hb4q]

You chose that title on purpose to get Nigerian audience. You are a disgrace to habesha community.

[@Sophia-angel]

She is a liar, I had some African guy at my job say we chase Nigerians on college too stop lying everyone. It’s the other way around but to be fair Nigerians chase anything

[@secularjihadi]

The answer is simple: These people go viral because this specific pairing is provocative and surprising. Precisely because it's not expected and not all *that* common. Of course it happens, but there's not some wave of women going to Nigerian men. I find it hard to see how anyone would even believe that. No offense to anyone, but that's how social media works. Most Habesha women who marry out aren't marrying Nigerians or obsessing over them. It's certainly not some prevailing preference. A small percentage in a diaspora of millions is not indicative. And men who date/marry out are less likely to be interested in posting it on social media. I'm a Somali woman, and the same thing happens with the minority of Somali women who date West African men and post it online. People who don't pause to think probabilistically will use them to claim there's some meaningful trend. These aren't statistical indicators

[@user-fc3fc5xm6e]

I could not agree more well said. And people who want a click, aka more views or attention, would bring this on to youtube and make it look worse than it actually is. I went to University and had a few friends from Nigiria, both men and women. Most if not all of them want their own women unless they want use it as a short cut getting a status or just messing around until they are ready to settle down. Even then some would go back and marry one of their own. I know it happened to one habesha lady who is now raising a child as a single mum and regrets her decision, because the man went back and married one of his own. Of course, we are all human and can fall in love, nothing surprising, but is is far less commen seen habesha marriing out of their own community. As a matter of fact a lot of beatfull habesha girls are patiently awaiting their habesha men when a pool of other men out side of community are begging them. Stop this non sense please.

[@ih9286]

I’ll be real, blood sweat and tears were fought to make Eritrea independent and the amount of eri women marrying out in the name of ‘preference’ is like a huge slap in the face to the martyrs (at least 200k). You’re first gen eri women and already divesting en mass (in the west), imagine 3 generations in.

[@BereketJr]

C'mon they aren't ready for this conversation

[@diekop6204]

Bro with all due respect Mali woman in London getting bagged left and right. Habesha woman dont behave like that at all. Behaving with class and marrying outside your race aint a problem to me.

[@ih9286]

@@diekop6204​​⁠​⁠first of all I didn’t say Mali women don’t date outside their culture (even tho it’s nowhere near the % of eri women doing it). Mali women marry Mali men for the most part lol and I’m from London so don’t try that. Do not compare us because we have 30x population more than you, we will be alright. Eri population is 3mil so it’s a huge cause for concern. It’s not a problem till your 3 generations in and Eritrean blood is heavily diluted to a point where an Eritrean don’t look like an Eritrean no more and the culture ceases to exist. 3 mil is a TINY populace.

[@ih9286]

@@diekop6204plus it’s worse that good eri women are marring out cuz they’re reducing the amount of eligible good women to raise the new generation of Eritreans. Most of the Malis I’ve seen marry out are trash from a deen (faith) point of view so it’s like other countries are taking our leftovers anyway. Bad quality women need love too I guess.

[@diekop6204]

​@@ih9286 Bro Mali woman get busy. Like crazy busy. Habesha woman are more on a relationship thing witch i respect more. They can date whoever they want its not my business, but the reputation of habesha woman is very good. On the population thing bro your going to far, this is gonna be the case in the diaspora but in the motherland this has zero effect. The community in the diaspora is so small you have to date outside at one point or else you gonna get to a point of incest.

[@ben-so2ry]

Bro, west African men is this women’s personality its all she has to talk about

[@user-rv7sw3tc7j]

She is very delusional

[@bronxrams]

As an Eritrean, I'd say habesha mainly seek habesha 😉Everything else is secondary.

[@kaleabwondimu7581]

I completely I agree with you,

[@HeyHels]

Not all of them

[@bronxrams]

​@@HeyHels Yeah it can never be all ofc, but an tangible majority.. And I appreciate this a lot about our culture tbh.

[@caslas-bj7wd]

Before I downloaded Ticktock I thought it is just me but then I saw saw habesha women prefering West Africans and habesha men preferring Europeans. I don’t think we (in the diaspora) are made for each other because we often come from broken and chaotic family backrounds, so we seek safety and a normal life in European families or anywhere else that does not remind us of the chaos at home.

[@bronxrams]

@@caslas-bj7wd Can we please stop normalizing the claim that Habesha women prefer West Africans lol? All habesha I know prefer habesha. Men and women.. But you are right that some women end up with West Africans, but that doesn't necessarily mean that is their first preference....... But you have a interesting point of view. I think it mainly has to do with the guys not stepping up. Habesha women are amazing but the guys don't keep up.. and I think there is a reason for that as well.

[@notitle9941]

Date and be with who ever you want to be i am a somali guy married to a girl from ivory coast living in london dont let gamily or culture stop you from being happy

[@ugaaskacadde3961]

You Married A jareer 😂 Loser Hhhhhhh

[@digimine7772]

Habesha women don’t love Nigerian men at all, a few viral TikTok KZbin or twitter videos doesn’t represent a whole demographic. Poor title, bad promotion.

[@Eribella955]

Beautiful dress Helu haftey! 🥰🥰 where did you get it?

[@HeyHels]

Thank you love! It’s from Ethiopia

[@lobsterbalelegesse9919]

Cost $10 it is cheap.

[@jlove5465]

She call us freshy, like banana boat 🚤 😂

[@lanteTV1]

Our Ethiopian Womens mostly stick with their own men and if they date or marry out, it will be with white man. But…..

[@Juubo]

Type shit with most of habesha ladies

[@bellaxo1597]

Very true. Love is love regardless, we all have the chance of suddenly falling in love with someone different but it’s important that we never disparage or disrespect each other

[@Sophia-angel]

But they definitely get chased any pursued by African Jamaican Arab Indians etc I’m habesha and always have Latin all the people bothering me 🤮🤮🤮

[@heruy8274]

​​@@bellaxo1597You might as well disrespect and disparage each other because I would argue that act in itself is a disrespect against your culture because its ramification is its undermining and bastardization, like the Amerikan Indian.

[@heruy8274]

​@@bellaxo1597h

[@TheSallyManuel]

I'd say people back home now casually date as well from what I've heard. Not as extreme as us here though. They also (illicitly) get soft adult content for a price too. Times have changed lol great vid!

[@heruy8274]

Though it is not preferable, I think the fact that Habasa date and intermarry with other people to be a greater problem than the prevalence of dating in the homeland. At least they date their own people.

[@heruy8274]

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[@IgboAfricanboy]

@TheSallyManuel is the number one lover of Nigerian men 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@laryjones-jm7ng]

Nigerians got all of the women around the world

[@diekop6204]

You guys don't like your own woman it's sad

[@african-history-fountain]

@@diekop6204Who said? They are 240 million Nigerians and they are married to their fellow Nigerians in Nigeria and outside.

[@chidubememma-ugwuoke9660]

@@diekop6204yes we do lmaoo; that’s african americans not us

[@GiftMichael-ii8wp]

​@@diekop6204They don't like marrying their own? But their population is over 240million people. Think before you comment or people might think Ethiopians has low IQ. Even if 5 million Nigerian men marries out their country, there will be multitude remaining. And Nigeria has more men than women in population 😂

[@keshi5541]

@@african-history-fountain Yet you run after all the ones outside.

[@mussiemezengie2703]

I like the guy he is very Conservative and realistic Helen you try to twisted him but you can not change his believe He believe Eritrean women should marry Eritrean men

[@helenmesfun8969]

He didn’t say that

[@hello-nz4hy]

He didn't say that. In fact he didn't say anything.

[@davidgobrain497]

But why is Nigeria in Subtitle ya'll should do your things and leave Nigeria alone!! Habesha or Elitrean Ethiopian Somalia this ain't in Nigerians Men rather!! Period!!

[@laryjones-jm7ng]

Nigerians are the smartest people in the world

[@fbawaterdragon4592]

I'm Black American/FBA male. I'm also a Sofa Knight. Do Habesha women like Nigerian men🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔????? I don't have the answer to that question, but my guess would be some do, some don't. It just depends what type of women you're talking too, regardless of nationality. FBA all the way, everyday🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻!!!!! Yera💧.

[@eritreashikor1991]

Babashikor holding it down for us Eritrean men ✊🏻

[@bennn9280]

I don't support intermarriage, but if you marry outside your culture, expect disapproval from our community. Habeshas prefer to stick with their own, so if they seem distant after you marry someone from a different culture, it's just their preference. Not hate.

[@howtotieatie5845]

Absolutely

[@jewelofnashville1726]

That's why you remain local in thinking, but we coming for women. We like them.

[@bennn9280]

@@jewelofnashville1726 stick to your own 👍🏾

[@heruy8274]

​​@@bennn9280Baryas like him dare to disrespect Habasa men because Habasa men dont put them in their place. Baryas are naturally cowards. They would never dare to speak to Arabs so boldily. The sad thing is that Habasa men in the past knew baryas were an entirely different creature unrelated to them, and they treated them accordingly. It was considered shameful to have barya lineages. Maybe Habasa men need to learn from the Arab or better yet learn to channel their forefathers energy. Dont buy the propaganda that extol their kind. They are nothing like us.

[@heruy8274]

​@@bennn9280h

[@tesfalidermirajh5743]

Could you clarified who is habesha women?

[@ogechiogan-ekandem2776]

Dear Lady, You simply used Nigeria as a click bait because of our Melanin Power and Global Afro relevance like other members of the vast Global Afro Community. 2.Otherwise, your podcast is extremely boring! 3. Incidentally, have you observed that Men and Women from the Global Afro Nation are moving together in every respect? We are proudly Global Afro like anyone who has no equivocation about who they are. 4.Please do you people even define yourselves as Afro or African? 5. We in Nigeria are proudly Global Afro in Nigeria that is why we are forever bonding with our Afro peoples across the planet. 6. Finally, it was quite a job trying to watch your podcast to the end so I did not but it was perhaps because you are Habesha only. Nothing spoil. 7. However, if your women should ever get lucky enough to have Nigerian men stumble on this podcast of yours and can afford to watch it up to the point where both of you indicate any form of exclusiveness, they will make you change that mind of yours about exclusiveness. As for me: 'Not subscribing. 'No thumbs up but we wish your well. Incidentally, why did you and your friend state that the genes of your people are weak?😢 What a pity😢 Regardless, stop using our Proudly Global Afro Nigeria as a click bait. What a boring podcast!

[@ih9286]

11:05 It’s more accepted for male to have an interracial relationship because his kids will keep his last name and continue his ethnic lineage. Not the same the other way around.

[@HeyHels]

This!

[@fruitsarelife7073]

They will keep the name but the ethnicity is going to get lost the same way.

[@heruy8274]

@@fruitsarelife7073 A Habasa women must always be the first marital choice for a Habasa man because a Habasa family consist of a Habasa man and woman but it is the father that defines the identify of children so the children of Habasa men will always be Habasa regardles of their mother's origin.

[@heruy8274]

@@fruitsarelife7073 h

[@heruy8274]

@@fruitsarelife7073 h

[@mussiemezengie2703]

Eritrean should marry only Eritreans in my opinion

[@howtotieatie5845]

Yes

[@jewelofnashville1726]

Naa... we coming for your women and we shall get them.

[@davidgobrain497]

Who cares!

[@TesfuMeh]

​@@davidgobrain497We care, but Nigerian selfhaters don't care. For Nigerians getting habesha is like winning 100m lottery

[@heruy8274]

You are not Habasa. Its not your concern so get lost.

[@firyaleyasu9481]

Brohh , he is charismatic tho 😀

[@Ab-.-]

I like him

[@luyoha_]

Because they are funny

[@laryjones-jm7ng]

Quit hating on Nigerians they winning I am African American

[@jewelofnashville1726]

Well.... Nigerian men are coming for your women and there is nothing you can do about it. We've not really look into Ethopia, Eritrea and somali axis. But i think your women are beautiful and we want them, and we are going to get them. Treat them right and prosper us. Dont hate on Nigerians. We are only built differently.

[@zmzm6193]

Every woman can have a nigerian man which is Not a flex at all!! Its more a downgrade to us....before we go for west african we go for whiter and brighter. You can never be a competition to an Habesha man.

[@mikelary6071]

yall dont get it yet, yall are their last resort and their simps they walk all over. the shame they live with is a lifetime they wont show it but its deep down. and their bloodlines forever lost with your offspring. keep thinking your an upgrade lmao.

[@diekop6204]

Why you don't date your own women? Is it because of the waves? Or aren't they pretty. I have never heard any race say I we are coming for your women to a nigerian but here you are, dreaming about our woman. Man God bless our woman they are so beautiful we don't need to go to other races.

[@mikelary6071]

Lmaoooo bro you are too funny. All you think about is women. Well sad to say habesha women are the easiest in africa, if you have money and can take them away.

[@jewelofnashville1726]

@diekop6204 We date ours and also believe in variety. Besides you, the guys, look so jelly like. Africans are built strong and we need your women to make that happen

[@fruitsarelife7073]

I think it’s sad that the complaints happen only when it’s west Africans. I see way more habeshas marrying white and it’s silence int those cases. It shows the racism in our culture and the fear of whites. But i also think it’s sad how many habeshas born in the west actually marry out. I think by now it’s more than those who marry habesha. If one values their Identity or culture like they value their religion they would at least TRY to find someone habesha, but many go straight for something else. That’s not love. And it will have a demographic and then sadly a historic impact on our existence, because we are responsible for our own existence, Nobody else.

[@heruy8274]

Since when have we Habasa ever taken responsibility and accountability for our problems with blaming outsiders for all our troubles just to save face? Maybe we deserve to get extinct or diluted like the American Indian. We simply do not have what it takes to survive, grow, and prospere as a distinct people and community.

[@heruy8274]

Next to the despotic regime ruining our homeland, emigration is arguably the worst thing that ever happened to Habasa people. But giving up and existing in a state of nonchalant indifference cannot be an option. Our survival and growth is what at stake here, and our salvation lies in demobilization and democratization in our homeland, and the repatriation of the hundreds of thousands of our immigrant population in the West. We need to be solution oriented instead of crying about the problems afficting our community.

[@heruy8274]

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[@hrhi2874]

That’s the Arab blood lol and they all know it.

[@blackmagic6]

Your comment not only deserves a rapturous round of applause but you personally deserve a bouquet of flowers. Well said my Kween. I’m West African and whilst I have no problem with Africans whose preference is to stick to their own ethnicity or date another African ethnicity …. I do object to Africans who date outside of our race.

[@kalMHe]

Who said habesha women like Nigerian men? If so, what's the issue ? Pls do not generalize.

[@tomasvalentin6896]

Wow, nice outfit. Where can I get one? For my wife, 👍🏿

[@HeyHels]

I got this from Ethiopia, but you can go to habesha stores and find them if you’re living outside.

[@lobsterbalelegesse9919]

That ones is from a cheap Amazon.

[@IgboAfricanboy]

🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 Helen this video is long overdue, but i am not surprised because you Helen are obsessed with Nigerian men. You should have lobbied a group of 5 or more Eritrean girls and the outcome would have been majority Nigerian men over Habesha and east African men 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬

[@ibrahimmuhammed5332]

Too lengthy....difficult to catchup with title.

[@ShaffyWestwood]

How About Rwanda

[@tesfitgebreslasie992]

Why do Nejerya man love Ethiopia women?

[@beecool6551]

Helen is the most interesting East African KZbinr,I wonder how come she has less views compare to mist who only spit bullshit.

[@HeyHels]

🥹

[@Eritel123]

She’s just not everybody’s cup of tea man 😅 she gotta collaborate with Kendrick and drop some diss tracks and that

[@semhoney414]

Helu shekor

[@user-hy9nz5rh1b]

Eritrean women dating any men and Nigeria men dating any women they both the same Eritrea women every where right now Ethiopia women much better

[@heruy8274]

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[@caslas-bj7wd]

Interesting video

[@HeyHels]

Thank you!

[@yordanosg5420]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@AliyuAhmad-jg5fo]

Why are you tageting Nigerians

[@mitikutesfaye9062]

Are u?😊

[@user-gf4rr3nl4n]

Boring topic!

[@michaelzerei3373]

Habesha is Ethiopian. Full stop

[@Lemlem7682]

No, habsha, is Eritrean. I am not habsha, but Ethiopian. Habsha is derogatory name.

[@fruitsarelife7073]

@@Lemlem7682it’s not deragatory just because muslims hate us for being Christian or believe we are Mixed. That’s their problem. Im proud habesha.🙏🏾❤️🌿

[@ItsEyosy]

​@@Lemlem7682 what's its origin? I heard it's like the N word in Arabic. Is that right?

[@Lemlem7682]

@ItsEyosy Yes, it's .

[@heruy8274]

​@@ItsEyosyHabasa is a racial term or ethnic self-designation for Tegrena and Amharic-speaking peoples. It derives from Habasat; a group or a confederation of groups that formed the core of the Aksuman Empire besides the Aksumans themselves.

[@ethio7774]

Eritreans first you promote various relationships and now you discuss them? never heard of this song?(andit okbay luwamey )

[@user-rv7sw3tc7j]

Change the title of the video please. How can you dare to talk about eritreans you grew up in the UK . You have nothing to do with the Eritrean culture and eritreans!!

[@jossytm6814]

As a youtube content creator please be more creative, all you bring at the moment is negativity to the Habesha community . Grew up Helen

[@Azmarino98]

You got one unsubscribe button from one eritrean man good job helen..