Actually,what I see is that most eritreans dates each other,they rarely date outside.
@hello-nz4hy3 ай бұрын
Let me drop some game on yall. Having children with your people of your culture strengthens your community by population, keeps your culture going into the future. Women have an imporatnt part to play in this because they are the morhers and firts teacher. If the women fall, the society goes with them.
@Abel-pf4by3 ай бұрын
That's actually a very valid point Like statically, our population of eritrean people is declining drastically due to many reasons ......
@howtotieatie58452 ай бұрын
Great point !
@mikelary6071Ай бұрын
tell her that
@keshi5541Күн бұрын
When women fall the culture changes completely and rip all that history is gone.
@howtotieatie58453 ай бұрын
Habesha women don't love Nigeria n men, some of few love them doesn't mean all habesha love them. Your title is crap!
@HeyHels3 ай бұрын
Sorry lol
@mt96093 ай бұрын
Well said
@lobsterbalelegesse99193 ай бұрын
They want to learn their scams that's why.
@user-gb4rd2hb4q3 ай бұрын
You chose that title on purpose to get Nigerian audience. You are a disgrace to habesha community.
@Sophia-angel2 ай бұрын
She is a liar, I had some African guy at my job say we chase Nigerians on college too stop lying everyone. It’s the other way around but to be fair Nigerians chase anything
@secularjihadi3 ай бұрын
The answer is simple: These people go viral because this specific pairing is provocative and surprising. Precisely because it's not expected and not all *that* common. Of course it happens, but there's not some wave of women going to Nigerian men. I find it hard to see how anyone would even believe that. No offense to anyone, but that's how social media works. Most Habesha women who marry out aren't marrying Nigerians or obsessing over them. It's certainly not some prevailing preference. A small percentage in a diaspora of millions is not indicative. And men who date/marry out are less likely to be interested in posting it on social media. I'm a Somali woman, and the same thing happens with the minority of Somali women who date West African men and post it online. People who don't pause to think probabilistically will use them to claim there's some meaningful trend. These aren't statistical indicators
@user-fc3fc5xm6e3 ай бұрын
I could not agree more well said. And people who want a click, aka more views or attention, would bring this on to youtube and make it look worse than it actually is. I went to University and had a few friends from Nigiria, both men and women. Most if not all of them want their own women unless they want use it as a short cut getting a status or just messing around until they are ready to settle down. Even then some would go back and marry one of their own. I know it happened to one habesha lady who is now raising a child as a single mum and regrets her decision, because the man went back and married one of his own. Of course, we are all human and can fall in love, nothing surprising, but is is far less commen seen habesha marriing out of their own community. As a matter of fact a lot of beatfull habesha girls are patiently awaiting their habesha men when a pool of other men out side of community are begging them. Stop this non sense please.
@ih92863 ай бұрын
I’ll be real, blood sweat and tears were fought to make Eritrea independent and the amount of eri women marrying out in the name of ‘preference’ is like a huge slap in the face to the martyrs (at least 200k). You’re first gen eri women and already divesting en mass (in the west), imagine 3 generations in.
@BereketJr3 ай бұрын
C'mon they aren't ready for this conversation
@diekop62043 ай бұрын
Bro with all due respect Mali woman in London getting bagged left and right. Habesha woman dont behave like that at all. Behaving with class and marrying outside your race aint a problem to me.
@ih92863 ай бұрын
@@diekop6204first of all I didn’t say Mali women don’t date outside their culture (even tho it’s nowhere near the % of eri women doing it). Mali women marry Mali men for the most part lol and I’m from London so don’t try that. Do not compare us because we have 30x population more than you, we will be alright. Eri population is 3mil so it’s a huge cause for concern. It’s not a problem till your 3 generations in and Eritrean blood is heavily diluted to a point where an Eritrean don’t look like an Eritrean no more and the culture ceases to exist. 3 mil is a TINY populace.
@ih92863 ай бұрын
@@diekop6204plus it’s worse that good eri women are marring out cuz they’re reducing the amount of eligible good women to raise the new generation of Eritreans. Most of the Malis I’ve seen marry out are trash from a deen (faith) point of view so it’s like other countries are taking our leftovers anyway. Bad quality women need love too I guess.
@diekop62043 ай бұрын
@@ih9286 Bro Mali woman get busy. Like crazy busy. Habesha woman are more on a relationship thing witch i respect more. They can date whoever they want its not my business, but the reputation of habesha woman is very good. On the population thing bro your going to far, this is gonna be the case in the diaspora but in the motherland this has zero effect. The community in the diaspora is so small you have to date outside at one point or else you gonna get to a point of incest.
@ben-so2ry2 ай бұрын
Bro, west African men is this women’s personality its all she has to talk about
@user-rv7sw3tc7j28 күн бұрын
She is very delusional
@bronxrams3 ай бұрын
As an Eritrean, I'd say habesha mainly seek habesha 😉Everything else is secondary.
@kaleabwondimu75813 ай бұрын
I completely I agree with you,
@HeyHels3 ай бұрын
Not all of them
@bronxrams3 ай бұрын
@@HeyHels Yeah it can never be all ofc, but an tangible majority.. And I appreciate this a lot about our culture tbh.
@caslas-bj7wd3 ай бұрын
Before I downloaded Ticktock I thought it is just me but then I saw saw habesha women prefering West Africans and habesha men preferring Europeans. I don’t think we (in the diaspora) are made for each other because we often come from broken and chaotic family backrounds, so we seek safety and a normal life in European families or anywhere else that does not remind us of the chaos at home.
@bronxrams3 ай бұрын
@@caslas-bj7wd Can we please stop normalizing the claim that Habesha women prefer West Africans lol? All habesha I know prefer habesha. Men and women.. But you are right that some women end up with West Africans, but that doesn't necessarily mean that is their first preference....... But you have a interesting point of view. I think it mainly has to do with the guys not stepping up. Habesha women are amazing but the guys don't keep up.. and I think there is a reason for that as well.
@notitle99413 ай бұрын
Date and be with who ever you want to be i am a somali guy married to a girl from ivory coast living in london dont let gamily or culture stop you from being happy
@ugaaskacadde39612 ай бұрын
You Married A jareer 😂 Loser Hhhhhhh
@digimine77723 ай бұрын
Habesha women don’t love Nigerian men at all, a few viral TikTok KZbin or twitter videos doesn’t represent a whole demographic. Poor title, bad promotion.
@Eribella9553 ай бұрын
Beautiful dress Helu haftey! 🥰🥰 where did you get it?
@HeyHels3 ай бұрын
Thank you love! It’s from Ethiopia
@lobsterbalelegesse99193 ай бұрын
Cost $10 it is cheap.
@jlove54653 ай бұрын
She call us freshy, like banana boat 🚤 😂
@lanteTV13 ай бұрын
Our Ethiopian Womens mostly stick with their own men and if they date or marry out, it will be with white man. But…..
@Juubo3 ай бұрын
Type shit with most of habesha ladies
@bellaxo15973 ай бұрын
Very true. Love is love regardless, we all have the chance of suddenly falling in love with someone different but it’s important that we never disparage or disrespect each other
@Sophia-angel2 ай бұрын
But they definitely get chased any pursued by African Jamaican Arab Indians etc I’m habesha and always have Latin all the people bothering me 🤮🤮🤮
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
@@bellaxo1597You might as well disrespect and disparage each other because I would argue that act in itself is a disrespect against your culture because its ramification is its undermining and bastardization, like the Amerikan Indian.
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
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@TheSallyManuel3 ай бұрын
I'd say people back home now casually date as well from what I've heard. Not as extreme as us here though. They also (illicitly) get soft adult content for a price too. Times have changed lol great vid!
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
Though it is not preferable, I think the fact that Habasa date and intermarry with other people to be a greater problem than the prevalence of dating in the homeland. At least they date their own people.
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
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@IgboAfricanboy28 күн бұрын
@TheSallyManuel is the number one lover of Nigerian men 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
@laryjones-jm7ngАй бұрын
Nigerians got all of the women around the world
@diekop6204Ай бұрын
You guys don't like your own woman it's sad
@african-history-fountainАй бұрын
@@diekop6204Who said? They are 240 million Nigerians and they are married to their fellow Nigerians in Nigeria and outside.
@chidubememma-ugwuoke966029 күн бұрын
@@diekop6204yes we do lmaoo; that’s african americans not us
@GiftMichael-ii8wp18 күн бұрын
@@diekop6204They don't like marrying their own? But their population is over 240million people. Think before you comment or people might think Ethiopians has low IQ. Even if 5 million Nigerian men marries out their country, there will be multitude remaining. And Nigeria has more men than women in population 😂
@keshi5541Күн бұрын
@@african-history-fountain Yet you run after all the ones outside.
@mussiemezengie27033 ай бұрын
I like the guy he is very Conservative and realistic Helen you try to twisted him but you can not change his believe He believe Eritrean women should marry Eritrean men
@helenmesfun89693 ай бұрын
He didn’t say that
@hello-nz4hy3 ай бұрын
He didn't say that. In fact he didn't say anything.
@davidgobrain497Ай бұрын
But why is Nigeria in Subtitle ya'll should do your things and leave Nigeria alone!! Habesha or Elitrean Ethiopian Somalia this ain't in Nigerians Men rather!! Period!!
@laryjones-jm7ngАй бұрын
Nigerians are the smartest people in the world
@fbawaterdragon45926 күн бұрын
I'm Black American/FBA male. I'm also a Sofa Knight. Do Habesha women like Nigerian men🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔????? I don't have the answer to that question, but my guess would be some do, some don't. It just depends what type of women you're talking too, regardless of nationality. FBA all the way, everyday🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻!!!!! Yera💧.
@eritreashikor19913 ай бұрын
Babashikor holding it down for us Eritrean men ✊🏻
@bennn92803 ай бұрын
I don't support intermarriage, but if you marry outside your culture, expect disapproval from our community. Habeshas prefer to stick with their own, so if they seem distant after you marry someone from a different culture, it's just their preference. Not hate.
@howtotieatie58452 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@jewelofnashville17262 ай бұрын
That's why you remain local in thinking, but we coming for women. We like them.
@bennn92802 ай бұрын
@@jewelofnashville1726 stick to your own 👍🏾
@heruy8274Ай бұрын
@@bennn9280Baryas like him dare to disrespect Habasa men because Habasa men dont put them in their place. Baryas are naturally cowards. They would never dare to speak to Arabs so boldily. The sad thing is that Habasa men in the past knew baryas were an entirely different creature unrelated to them, and they treated them accordingly. It was considered shameful to have barya lineages. Maybe Habasa men need to learn from the Arab or better yet learn to channel their forefathers energy. Dont buy the propaganda that extol their kind. They are nothing like us.
@heruy8274Ай бұрын
@@bennn9280h
@tesfalidermirajh57433 ай бұрын
Could you clarified who is habesha women?
@ogechiogan-ekandem277623 күн бұрын
Dear Lady, You simply used Nigeria as a click bait because of our Melanin Power and Global Afro relevance like other members of the vast Global Afro Community. 2.Otherwise, your podcast is extremely boring! 3. Incidentally, have you observed that Men and Women from the Global Afro Nation are moving together in every respect? We are proudly Global Afro like anyone who has no equivocation about who they are. 4.Please do you people even define yourselves as Afro or African? 5. We in Nigeria are proudly Global Afro in Nigeria that is why we are forever bonding with our Afro peoples across the planet. 6. Finally, it was quite a job trying to watch your podcast to the end so I did not but it was perhaps because you are Habesha only. Nothing spoil. 7. However, if your women should ever get lucky enough to have Nigerian men stumble on this podcast of yours and can afford to watch it up to the point where both of you indicate any form of exclusiveness, they will make you change that mind of yours about exclusiveness. As for me: 'Not subscribing. 'No thumbs up but we wish your well. Incidentally, why did you and your friend state that the genes of your people are weak?😢 What a pity😢 Regardless, stop using our Proudly Global Afro Nigeria as a click bait. What a boring podcast!
@ih92863 ай бұрын
11:05 It’s more accepted for male to have an interracial relationship because his kids will keep his last name and continue his ethnic lineage. Not the same the other way around.
@HeyHels3 ай бұрын
This!
@fruitsarelife70732 ай бұрын
They will keep the name but the ethnicity is going to get lost the same way.
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
@@fruitsarelife7073 A Habasa women must always be the first marital choice for a Habasa man because a Habasa family consist of a Habasa man and woman but it is the father that defines the identify of children so the children of Habasa men will always be Habasa regardles of their mother's origin.
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
@@fruitsarelife7073 h
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
@@fruitsarelife7073 h
@mussiemezengie27033 ай бұрын
Eritrean should marry only Eritreans in my opinion
@howtotieatie58452 ай бұрын
Yes
@jewelofnashville17262 ай бұрын
Naa... we coming for your women and we shall get them.
@davidgobrain497Ай бұрын
Who cares!
@TesfuMehАй бұрын
@@davidgobrain497We care, but Nigerian selfhaters don't care. For Nigerians getting habesha is like winning 100m lottery
@heruy8274Ай бұрын
You are not Habasa. Its not your concern so get lost.
@firyaleyasu94813 ай бұрын
Brohh , he is charismatic tho 😀
@Ab-.-3 ай бұрын
I like him
@luyoha_3 ай бұрын
Because they are funny
@laryjones-jm7ngАй бұрын
Quit hating on Nigerians they winning I am African American
@jewelofnashville17262 ай бұрын
Well.... Nigerian men are coming for your women and there is nothing you can do about it. We've not really look into Ethopia, Eritrea and somali axis. But i think your women are beautiful and we want them, and we are going to get them. Treat them right and prosper us. Dont hate on Nigerians. We are only built differently.
@zmzm6193Ай бұрын
Every woman can have a nigerian man which is Not a flex at all!! Its more a downgrade to us....before we go for west african we go for whiter and brighter. You can never be a competition to an Habesha man.
@mikelary6071Ай бұрын
yall dont get it yet, yall are their last resort and their simps they walk all over. the shame they live with is a lifetime they wont show it but its deep down. and their bloodlines forever lost with your offspring. keep thinking your an upgrade lmao.
@diekop6204Ай бұрын
Why you don't date your own women? Is it because of the waves? Or aren't they pretty. I have never heard any race say I we are coming for your women to a nigerian but here you are, dreaming about our woman. Man God bless our woman they are so beautiful we don't need to go to other races.
@mikelary6071Ай бұрын
Lmaoooo bro you are too funny. All you think about is women. Well sad to say habesha women are the easiest in africa, if you have money and can take them away.
@jewelofnashville1726Ай бұрын
@diekop6204 We date ours and also believe in variety. Besides you, the guys, look so jelly like. Africans are built strong and we need your women to make that happen
@fruitsarelife70732 ай бұрын
I think it’s sad that the complaints happen only when it’s west Africans. I see way more habeshas marrying white and it’s silence int those cases. It shows the racism in our culture and the fear of whites. But i also think it’s sad how many habeshas born in the west actually marry out. I think by now it’s more than those who marry habesha. If one values their Identity or culture like they value their religion they would at least TRY to find someone habesha, but many go straight for something else. That’s not love. And it will have a demographic and then sadly a historic impact on our existence, because we are responsible for our own existence, Nobody else.
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
Since when have we Habasa ever taken responsibility and accountability for our problems with blaming outsiders for all our troubles just to save face? Maybe we deserve to get extinct or diluted like the American Indian. We simply do not have what it takes to survive, grow, and prospere as a distinct people and community.
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
Next to the despotic regime ruining our homeland, emigration is arguably the worst thing that ever happened to Habasa people. But giving up and existing in a state of nonchalant indifference cannot be an option. Our survival and growth is what at stake here, and our salvation lies in demobilization and democratization in our homeland, and the repatriation of the hundreds of thousands of our immigrant population in the West. We need to be solution oriented instead of crying about the problems afficting our community.
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
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@hrhi28742 ай бұрын
That’s the Arab blood lol and they all know it.
@blackmagic62 ай бұрын
Your comment not only deserves a rapturous round of applause but you personally deserve a bouquet of flowers. Well said my Kween. I’m West African and whilst I have no problem with Africans whose preference is to stick to their own ethnicity or date another African ethnicity …. I do object to Africans who date outside of our race.
@kalMHe15 күн бұрын
Who said habesha women like Nigerian men? If so, what's the issue ? Pls do not generalize.
@tomasvalentin68963 ай бұрын
Wow, nice outfit. Where can I get one? For my wife, 👍🏿
@HeyHels3 ай бұрын
I got this from Ethiopia, but you can go to habesha stores and find them if you’re living outside.
@lobsterbalelegesse99193 ай бұрын
That ones is from a cheap Amazon.
@IgboAfricanboy28 күн бұрын
🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 Helen this video is long overdue, but i am not surprised because you Helen are obsessed with Nigerian men. You should have lobbied a group of 5 or more Eritrean girls and the outcome would have been majority Nigerian men over Habesha and east African men 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
@ibrahimmuhammed53322 ай бұрын
Too lengthy....difficult to catchup with title.
@ShaffyWestwoodАй бұрын
How About Rwanda
@tesfitgebreslasie992Ай бұрын
Why do Nejerya man love Ethiopia women?
@beecool65513 ай бұрын
Helen is the most interesting East African KZbinr,I wonder how come she has less views compare to mist who only spit bullshit.
@HeyHels3 ай бұрын
🥹
@Eritel1233 ай бұрын
She’s just not everybody’s cup of tea man 😅 she gotta collaborate with Kendrick and drop some diss tracks and that
@semhoney4142 ай бұрын
Helu shekor
@user-hy9nz5rh1b2 ай бұрын
Eritrean women dating any men and Nigeria men dating any women they both the same Eritrea women every where right now Ethiopia women much better
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
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@caslas-bj7wd3 ай бұрын
Interesting video
@HeyHels3 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@yordanosg54203 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤
@AliyuAhmad-jg5fo24 күн бұрын
Why are you tageting Nigerians
@mitikutesfaye90623 ай бұрын
Are u?😊
@user-gf4rr3nl4n3 ай бұрын
Boring topic!
@michaelzerei33733 ай бұрын
Habesha is Ethiopian. Full stop
@Lemlem76822 ай бұрын
No, habsha, is Eritrean. I am not habsha, but Ethiopian. Habsha is derogatory name.
@fruitsarelife70732 ай бұрын
@@Lemlem7682it’s not deragatory just because muslims hate us for being Christian or believe we are Mixed. That’s their problem. Im proud habesha.🙏🏾❤️🌿
@ItsEyosy2 ай бұрын
@@Lemlem7682 what's its origin? I heard it's like the N word in Arabic. Is that right?
@Lemlem76822 ай бұрын
@ItsEyosy Yes, it's .
@heruy82742 ай бұрын
@@ItsEyosyHabasa is a racial term or ethnic self-designation for Tegrena and Amharic-speaking peoples. It derives from Habasat; a group or a confederation of groups that formed the core of the Aksuman Empire besides the Aksumans themselves.
@ethio77743 ай бұрын
Eritreans first you promote various relationships and now you discuss them? never heard of this song?(andit okbay luwamey )
@user-rv7sw3tc7j28 күн бұрын
Change the title of the video please. How can you dare to talk about eritreans you grew up in the UK . You have nothing to do with the Eritrean culture and eritreans!!
@jossytm68142 ай бұрын
As a youtube content creator please be more creative, all you bring at the moment is negativity to the Habesha community . Grew up Helen
@Azmarino983 ай бұрын
You got one unsubscribe button from one eritrean man good job helen..