Why Do I Do THIS?! Liams 1ST Ride, Breastfeeding Journey, & Coloring My Hair

[@KellieAnn14]

Please don’t apologize for saying having baby is hard. It IS hard. & you’re doing a wonderful job.🖤

[@beautifulandbold7117]

Exactly. Overly offended society🙄

[@JessicaMillerNashville]

@@beautifulandbold7117 sooooo true!

[@ssslone5584]

YES. Don’t apologize Mindy cause it is dang hard!!! People are way to sensitive. A mommas job never ends. Love and hugs!

[@tuckerfamilyof4]

It is hard and wonderful at the same time!

[@angelablack7946]

Stop apologizing. Motherhood is the toughest hood but so worth it.

[@SnippetMoments]

Having a baby is hard!!don't matter what anyone says . Being sleep deprived is no joke, just because it's hard doesn't mean you don't love your baby . People like to weird and twist things you say don't pay them no mind, you're doing a great job mama. 👏🏿

[@daniellehatzenbuhler6026]

Consider yourself blessed. Some of us had our baby & had to go back to work. Then come home.. cook supper, clean house, laundry & take care of the baby.

[@llovingllife]

Please don’t apologize for saying your opinion on your lived experience. Having a newborn is hard, and receiving “flack” shouldn’t make you feel like you have to come back and explain yourself to those who are critical of you. You’re amazing!

[@toridriggers18]

As an IVF mama that exclusively pumped for my Daughter (we had latch issues) for the 1st year of her life, BE SO PROUD OF YOURSELF! It is so hard but so worth it! There were so many times I wanted to give up but so glad I didn't. Also, exclusively pumping is still considered breast feeding. ❤️ Hang in there mama, your doing great!!

[@Tfowler1026]

Don’t you dare apologize!! It’s been 26 years since my first child and I still remember how hard it was! The sleep deprivation is real as well as the postpartum… which now I realize how bad I struggled!

[@julialarson401]

Your breastfeeding journey sounds similar to mine! Welcome to the exclusive pumping life! It’s hard but you are giving him such an amazing gift! We are 11 months strong over here, 10 of them exclusively pumping! Also can’t believe people are giving you a hard time about saying it’s hard to have a baby.. that seems rather nitpicky! Love you and will always support you!

[@Steph.Mama0321]

Mama’s who exclusively pump are are rockstars! I nurse and it’s easier for me. My best friend exclusively pumps and that is easier for her. You have to find a way that works for you. You may end up nursing here and there when/if you get a clogged duct. So painful and my baby can get it out so fast!

[@kelliewonch6055]

Having a baby is hard! Doesn't mean you don't love being a mom. Sleep deprivation is so so hard. My kids are all older (10,12,14) and I remember those hard days/nights like it was yesterday! If people say being a mom is easy they're lying!

[@JordanStar7]

Coming from a brunette, I used to always want to change my hair color cause I would feel the brown hair would get dull.. but nothing beats having my natural brunette hair. I color my roots once a month (grays are starting to happen) and do a clear gloss through the rest and that always refreshes the shine in my brunette hair! I love your hair brown. You always go back to it!

[@Alyssamc73]

No matter how you or any other mother chooses to feed their baby, it is all your decision and it's wonderful! I chose formula after breastfeeding didn't work out, whether you breastfeed or pump or choose formula, it's all valid and no one should give you ANY flack for it! Ever!

[@hanab837]

Oh my goodness, Mindy. Being a mom is SO HARD, especially if you want to be the best mom you can be. Don't ever apologize for acknowledging the hard parts. I HIGHLY recommend a book called The Complete Book of Breastfeeding. It has SO much invaluable information about things you might run into and lots of good info for pumping, too. I have breastfed five babies, and this book was a lifesaver for me.

[@mione134]

Remember Mindy, FED is BEST. As long as he eats, no matter how its done, that's what matters. Don't let anyone, especially people in the comments make you feel a type of way. Having a baby IS hard. Don't listen to the noise. Just keep doing you! :)

[@sharlenevillnave7347]

you don't owe anyone an apology, you do you, how you can,plain and simple...........pump and freeze ,pump and freeze,pump and go.... keep that supply going!! I am so proud of you!!! you have a great attitude, your a great momma!!

[@meganhale3317]

What color do I like your hair best? It changes seasonally! Blond in the summer and dark in the fall and winter! Love both.

[@Books_BrewsandBeyond]

The natural brown looks great Mindy!. It is very nice of your friend to do your hair at your house. I prefer the darker colour. I only tend to get my foils done every 6 months sometimes a year- I will need to get it done again soon.

[@Dreamseeker731]

Don't ever apologize to anyone for your experience. Yes having a newborn can be challenging at times so yes it can be hard! Your experience is your experience no apology needed.

[@Indentified5]

What's your pumping routine looks like? How much time before feeding takes you to pump?please explain a little bit more.

[@carriemoore4380]

I'm loving the hair❤ Liam's bright blue eyes in the stroller with his chubby cheeks was the cutest💙

[@staceypennington919]

I recently went dark and I do not regret it one bit. Saves me time going to the salon, the upkeep and saving the money.

[@hollyiman8931]

I totally relate when you said it’s hard having a baby! No shame in admitting it bc it’s the truth❤️

[@diane6644]

It is very hard becoming a new mom! That’s a perfect word. It’s also been the most fulfilling, blessing filled job I’ve had…..but it was hard in those first few months.

[@brandy2374]

Hi I know he’s only out for a stroll but I just wanted to make sure that you know that the chest clip should be on his chest. The top of it should line up with his arm outs. Having it too high or too low will cause severe injury to soft tissue/ organs in a crash. It should be correctly positioned any time he is in his car seat. I know sleep deprecation is real and being a new mom there is a lot to learn abs remember so I just wanted to pass this info on. The manual that cam with his car seat is extremely useful.

[@brandy2374]

Mindy, I forgot to mention that it also appears that his harness straps are in a slot above his shoulders, all rear facing children need the harness to be coming out below their shoulders or exactly at their shoulders but never above. I’m sure you have realized this by now but wanted to make you aware because there is so much more than we realize when it comes to strapping children in correctly.

[@dewdrop4330]

I’ve been forgetful all my life and it’s gotten worse with age. Don’t trip. Love seeing your videos and life unfold.

[@c.j.7593]

Truly you are amazing. Everyone has opinions. The only thing that truly matters is what works for your family. If people don't like what you do it's not there's to judge. Having children is hard. Regardless what you do it's hard. Your a fantastic mum. Beautiful mum too. ❤️

[@crystailsthomson3801]

YOU and Hubby had the PRETTIEST LITTLE BABY BOY!!! GOD REALLY BLESSED YOU WITH THIS LITTLE ANGEL. .. I hope you have one more. .. much love to you guys...Hugs from Gulfshores Alabama

[@MGraceFrank]

“Whatever works for you & your breastfeeding journey - is what flows.” Haha, no pun intended. I got a little chuckle out of that. Also, I couldn’t agree more! Fed is best!

[@kelciwallace8669]

You don’t have to explain yourself Mindy! Having a newborn , your first baby, is HARD! I felt that so much, so many emotions, postpartum anxiety, and people kept telling me “this is the easy part”. Well everyone is different. For me, the new born stage /early postpartum was HARD! Now my son is 19 months and things are challenging in a whole other way but I feel like it’s getting easier the older he gets and the more I learn to be a mom and handle things and find balance in my life again. Much love to you guys! Love your videos!

[@havecourageandbekind9605]

Your brown hair is my favorite on you! Also, I love your hair dresser’s messy bun! Wish I knew how to get that look!

[@Mrsdumee]

I love that you are uplaoding more😊 And autumn/fall is here🥰🍂And i love the brown on you so natural, I always dye my hair purple when autumn/fall hits😉🍂 Makes me feel like myself again💜I find my own brown to light for my skin tone😉 But don’t apologize to those people , I have no children medical reason, But i can’t handle it mentally and i have a bad back and bad chronic knee, But don’t apologize everyone needs to learn and find there lwn way/path😘

[@nataliewingate6475]

Mindy, I exclusively pumped with all three of mine due to tongue tie. I made 80 ounces a day...no lie ...that I froze the milk and stopped pumping around 10 months. I had so much saved that they all had it until they were 18 months. It doesn't matter what they get, whether it's a day, a week or a year worth. You're giving him the best no matter what!

[@ericaruberto7141]

The same thing happened with my son. We started off breastfeeding, but he began to get frustrated with how slow it would come out, so i was pumping and feeding him like that. But once he was older, like 3 months I tried to latch him again and it worked! You never know. Every journey is different and every baby is different! fed is best!!

[@Julia-sj9rz]

Being a parent does have it’s hard moments and there is absolutely nothing wrong with owning that. We all knows it’s also the most rewarding despite the difficulties. You’re doing amazing.

[@DiscoLiz]

Late response, but I love both looks on you! I think you can pull off either one, but I can totally understand wanting to look like "yourself" as a new mom! Jess does an amazing job. Definitely the best your hair has ever looked, IMO!

[@missybecker34]

I love your brunette hair! You sound exactly like me when it comes to hair. I go blonde from March-September and then back to my natural Brunette. This year I’ve told everyone if I even mention going blonde next Spring, stop me! Lol. I also have red undertones that cause problems when I do anything to my hair.

[@MegaDreamer87]

I love your hair colors. I find it funny when Larry tries to and does open the dishwasher while it's running.

[@jenniemills1989]

My mother & I both have where our hair turns a reddish if we're in the sun, but we have to be in it a while before it does, it also depends how much of the sun is on us how long it takes to change, more sun the faster it changes.

[@jenniemills1989]

Also in my opinion, I Love UR brown hair, not that I don't like the blond, just really like the brown better.

[@izzyf1539]

Don’t apologize Mindy, having a newborn and a baby in general is HARD! But the joy that we get out of it overshadows everything 😊

[@divaitaliana143]

You are an amazing momma already and who cares what people say no matter how you do it, it can be hard and overwhelming at times. However you eventually find YOUR way and it becomes repetitious and your way becomes the best way everyday. Also it's so hard because you look pretty with both light and dark hair but for fall I would stick with the dark hair. It looks beautiful great job Jess :)

[@eeg122]

Being a first time mom is so freakin' hard in many aspects. It def isn't easy. But we know you love your darling baby. The ones who criticized you probably aren't moms. Your hair looks really nice. I usually do highlights every two yrs. bc it really dries out my hair. Very nice of the hairdresser to come to your home. NICE!

[@kryptonitedelight]

No need to explain yourself or apologize for exclusively pumping. I was a exclusive pumping momma for over 18 months with my son. Similar reasons to you why I did it. He’s still getting your milk and I always considered myself a breastfeeding momma, my journey just looked different 😊 my son just never latched properly due to a tongue tie. I tried for 4 months and finally switched to exclusively pumping. It’s not the easier route by any means. It’s so much work and a true labor of love. You’re an amazing momma. Hope you share more from your breast feeding journey.

[@melissatercero3645]

Hieeee good morning happy Saturday I can’t wait to watch but first coffee and I love that hair color your look beautiful!!😍❤️💕

[@TabithaCortney]

I love the brown on you! I think it fits you better! ❤️

[@malissaroels3234]

My son never latched. I only pumped and it worked for us. You're doing a great job!!

[@Aeae11_]

Love the hair!!! You would look so good with curtain bangs and face framing hair too!!! I love a lot of layers with dark brown hair

[@carmensamone]

I love dark hair on you! 😍 Especially that one time you got it "too dark." I really loved it lol.

[@bulldogmamabulldogmama5555]

I noticed she used redken shades eq. I’m a hairdresser could you ask her the formula she used it’s beautiful ❤❤❤

[@feliciascott5426]

Oh my, I have no idea why people would be offended by that. My husband and I went through 7 years of infertility, multiple meds, surgical procedures and finally IVF. We have our little girl and she will be 11 months next week. She had a lot of tummy issues that took 4 months for doctors to figure out. It was HARD!!!! Having a newborn, healthy and not as healthy, breastfeeding or not, c-section or vbac....it's ALL HARD and an adjustment. It does get easier. But never apologize for saying navigating this whole new life can be hard. Sending lots of love to you 3 and the kitties from Nova Scotia, Canada ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@barbaramcgrath4958]

Same always changing my hair!!!! I’ve coloring like you too. Also shines red orange at times xx

[@mariamoralez3523]

Omg congratulations from the bottom.of my heart ❤️ on yalls new bundle of joy ...im so happy for yall

[@jazminmagana6991]

If you don't mind telling us what pump r u using?

[@pamelarodriguez9349]

I like the dark hair! And you’re right. Having a baby is hard due to lack of sleep. But they’re just prepping you for the sleepless nights of worry when they’re older! Lol i alway say….it was easier when they were newborn. Once they become teenagers and adults the worrying set in lol

[@linnybinny]

Having a newborn is hard!! You can say that but still also love it. You don’t need to explain why. Anyone who has kids get it. I have a 2 month old and having a newborn is the hardest thing I’ve ever done but also the most rewarding.

[@allibushbaum5570]

Definitely love the dark color. You look beautiful. ❤

[@grandmasgirls2]

People are lying if they say its not hard, there are days that it is harder than others. Sleep deprivation is a struggle, and its hard to take care of someone who can't tell you what they need. Do whatever feels right to you as far as feeding that sweet baby, he is growing and healthy and that is what matters.

[@bonnielspencer1305]

I like it darker .. you look refreshed

[@andreamai6286]

Omg, who the bleep said having a baby wasn’t hard?! That’s insane!! It’s the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life!! Also, I exclusively pumped for both my babies. With my first, I did it for an entire year! It is possible, and the best thing is is that once you get used to the routine, it gets so much easier! I have pumped in my car (many times while my husband was driving!), on a plane, at the movies, at a restaurant, etc etc etc… it just becomes second nature :) you’re doing a fabulous job, and please don’t hesitate to message me if you have any questions :)

[@lilacchocolate]

Love the darker hair on you, goes with the new season beautifully! 🍁🍂👌🥰

[@twiceasmnystars]

I’m a fellow exclusive pumper and I just want to say pumping is definitely breastfeeding - it’s just not nursing ❤️ you’re doing amazing. If anyone gives you flack for the way in which you choose to breastfeed your son, they’re the ones with the problem.

[@cwells2676]

You shouldn't have to explain! Having a baby is HARD and also amazing 💙 I had infertility and took over 4 years to get my little one who is know four, and the newborn stage was so wonderful but also hard, stressful and exhausting! But I also miss it so much! 🥲 Currently pregnant with my 2nd one after having a couple miscarriages, and already preparing for how hard and wonderful the newborn stage is going to be ❤️

[@JazHoll0229]

Omg Mindy!!!! The hair is amazing!!!! Welcome back brunette hair!! 😍🔥

[@sandyhayre188]

Like the brown hair better. Don’t apologize for anything you say. You all are great parents. Beautiful baby boy.

[@dalianaleal2784]

You should never have to apologize for saying having a NB hard. It is hard and a big adjustment. You guys are doing a wonderful job❤️

[@bri9734]

FED IS BEST! Whatever works for you! Thanks for being so out in the open

[@AbbyMcGuire23]

When I was getting married I had this huge desire to go back to my natural hair color (I was like white platinum and my natural is golden blonde)! It’s been over a year and I’m SO HAPPY I made the transition back- my hair has never been healthier, thicker, and shinier! Now I’m 21 weeks pregnant and I’m soooo grateful I have my beautiful natural hair back. 🥹♥️🙏🏻 You won’t regret it! And when you stick to your natural color, you can do a couple highlights in the summer, a couple lowlights in the fall, and still feel like you get to participate in the seasonal hair transitions 🤩

[@MsLizzy2010]

I love your hair dark! I do like your hair light but LOVE it dark! It suits you very well! With your thought process it’s mom brain cause my sister is going through it too

[@annafcates]

Your hair sounds like mine with the red but I LOVE the brown it looks so good

[@Cutepandas768]

Love your brunette over blonde but I do like both. I am 45 and change my hair color all the time, not happy with the results. I am going gray now so may just try and grow that out

[@danielleray9808]

The brown is so you! I love it!

[@jamieshough2791]

Having a newborn is HARD and you're right, the lack of sleep is what gets you. Honestly I couldn't even sleep when my son napped because I had so much anxiety where he's so little and helpless. What ifs kept clouding my mind. Your breastfeeding journey went exactly how mine did with my first little boy but the reason I switched to bottle with breastmilk was because I was just so exhausted. I'd sleep through some pump sessions and be engorged lol ugh, but it's all a wonderful journey. I love the brown hair 😍

[@wendydressler3917]

C’est mama life! We are on the “kids schedule” all the time 😅 …continues well after newborn days. Def the reality. Thanks for always sharing the “reality” ❤PS. Love the darker color.

[@inspirebeauty01]

omg i swear we are soul sisters. due to having a premie babe in May (after infertility), I am an exclusive pumper as well, almost 4 months strong. Some days it’s the most draining thing i’ve ever done, but everyday, it’s the most rewarding. Hang in there mama, every feeding journey is different, and you are doing so amazing ❤️ FED IS BEST. xoxo

[@emkay6969]

I look forward to all of your vlogs !! Thank you for making my morning routine great 😊😊!!

[@narcole]

I love the more natural brown! Although both look nice. I have ashy light brown hair and put it through a lot. Started highlighting it young and went very blonde then pink lol then back to a near natural color and finally let it grow out and I’m sooo glad I did. It feels so much better having my natural color back, but that’s just my experience!

[@Horrormoviefan9]

It doesn't matter what hair color you do, you'll always look amazing! 🧡🥰

[@corinneleplaw7347]

I like the dark colour but it doesn’t change your beautiful personality and saying about the having a new born it is hard work but it’s just trying to get into a routine and an not everyone else’s routine yours an Larry’s way you just have to find the new normal hun you will do it you got this hun sending my love xo ❤

[@shellz_2135]

I prefer your hair to be whatever color makes you happy at the moment! 😊

[@jennifertaylor5363]

The brown is my fav ❤ .. but you look great with both . I go back and forth with brown and blonde too lol

[@dianavasto3047]

Your hair looks beautiful with you new natural color ❤️

[@vickigasser9783]

It's hard......but so rewarding. Don't let trolls looking for an argument change what you say. It's hard. Period. You have a beautiful baby boy and that's all!!!

[@KariN-or3sc]

I was set on breastfeeding, but my first was a lazy eater…as soon as he was at breast, he’d fall asleep. It killed my supply. I chose to switch to exclusive pumping at about 2 weeks. It was the best thing for both of us. My second I was able to breastfeed much longer, but still pumped about half her intake, just because it made me less stressed knowing how much she was getting.

[@victoriadelbando3283]

It is hard it’s ok to say that Mindy! You’ve adjusted great! It’s your journey yes! 😍🥰🤗 love the brown hair!!!!

[@cheleeatkins1784]

I love the pic you showed with your hair dark, it’s beautiful!

[@shariwagner3002]

Your hair is awesome! The crunchy animal crackers would be in Wal-Mart where you got the iced ones. They are in a red top bag.💜💜

[@lorihastings8448]

LOVE darker hair on you Mindy! It's beautiful♥️

[@meganbarto4138]

He's so cute sitting in his stroller. Your hair looks so pretty! I really like it. I just went from a medium auburn back to chestnut brown and I'm loving the dark again.

[@livingwell7308]

I love your hair darker. I do go for hair changes like this too. Yes. I like to change it up. Especially in the Fall. 🥧🤗🍁🍁🍂🍂🎃

[@catelyngonzales6421]

Mindy, I love the dark color on you. You look beautiful either way.

[@FFlores79]

Aww Mindy I wish you could have seen a lactation consultant. They can weigh him pre and post feed and tell you how much he is taking. You can still see one if you miss latching him. They can help so much. So proud of you for exclusively pumping that is 2x the work 💪

[@itzelhernandezangel2185]

Hi mindy !! I’m exclusively pumping too ! Make sure to get manual pump and I totally recommend the baby buddah pump to be hands free . They have a stronger suction and empty you so we’ll compared to the willow :)

[@jc1619]

Love the hair color and length! You look fabulous!!

[@denasmolins5938]

Love your dark hair way better! It is so rich and warm and suits you!

[@arabellasplace3823]

Girl I change my hair all the time. I just went dark brown with subtle red high lights and I love it.

[@kjewell232]

Omg I LOVE your hair brown!!!! You look great with blonde too but brown is my favorite ❤

[@meghan7225]

We love both the blonde and brunette. We love you Mindy! ❤

[@meghanblackwell8052]

I LOVE the dark😍😍

[@julialarson401]

Also I can’t decide between which hair I prefer on you because you look amazing with the dark and with the blonde!

[@bronnieCampbell]

You suit both and I love darker as Winter approaches. Love the dark brows and hair to match. You are lucky to have a great complexion, so pull any hair colour off. Having a newborn is hard at times so never justify to the trolls Mindy x

[@margaretconnery7422]

Awh mindy no apologies needed it is hard with a small baby, but oh so worth it. Not enough hours in the day sweetheart, but look at his little cute face xx 💙😘 love the dark for the autumn. 🍁🍂 Larry is a great help.

[@Linda-in9ns]

Good morning my friends! ☀️🌼❤️

[@jessielynn0215]

I love darker hair on you . I think it looks better with your skin tone and brings out your natural features :)