Why do men avoid the topic of marriage? || STEVE HARVEY

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[@raddamusray1387]

I love it that the REAL reasons men don't want to get married is not in the actual video, it is in the comment section.

[@drewdatification]

Keepin' it real. Black pills all day!

[@Tushar_Talwar_09]

So true

[@johnratican3824]

I know. We are not commitment phobic; we are divorce rape phobic.

[@tremendousyeet3467]

same

[@scottwall8419]

If a man doesnt want to talk about marrying you theres only 2 possible reasons. He doesnt want to marry you or he doesnt want you to nag him into it.

[@heedmywarning2792]

why don't men want to get married? why don't women want to STAY married?

[@attorneyreid7]

Heed My Warning because there are too many women out there that loves casual sex and don't care who they sleep with. They give it up so easily that men can get it anytime, anywhere, anyhow. I believe if it was more difficult for men to get laid and ALL women kept their legs close, then more men would want to get married. Also, if less people had sex before marriage them both would be forced to get to know the real person without having their judgements clouded by great sex. Sometimes, people are addicted to the sex and they really don't love the person or they are not compatible but they won't see these things if they are sleeping together.

[@specturr]

Just because you marry a person that doesn't mean they wont be having casual sex on the side. Marriage is just a piece of paper and a ring it doesn't guarantee anything.

[@attorneyreid7]

specturr wow, that's so sad! If that's the way you feel about marriage then you shouldn't get married. God created marriage and He sanctifys it. The Bible says "Marriage should be honored by all!". If you have no honor or respect for marriage then it's best that you never get married because it won't work for you.

[@mikewilliamsjudo6160]

D Reid That's not what women think these days

[@max107sky]

D Reid I don't think you understand what he's saying, marriage is a piece of paper and a ring, that's a FACT. People don't need marriage to declare their love for one another, marriage just makes it public. There is nothing physically stopping someone from cheating on the side, any married person CAN cheat, that doesn't mean they will and there are stories of people cheating on their partner, so of course it happens. Specturr's sentence is logical, it is a fact that someone can cheat on the side (He never said that's how he felt about it), but you started thinking with emotions, not logic.

[@PabloPerez-ep5zn]

We don't avoid marriage, we are just avoiding going into debt in advance.

[@TheREALSimagination]

More like bedt for nothing.

[@youtubesucksass8986]

Yeah

[@ezgonman]

Can I get a Kevin Samuel in here.. If a woman said she cheat them women be high fiving and clapping until the building about to come down..

[@gonefishin3620]

Amen. 2 years later I am.still paying for the divorce and alimony debt I acquired and we had no kids. Be careful out there guys.

[@melskilove]

Lololololoo

[@itsallgoodz1]

Women want a wedding but most don't necessarily want to be wives

[@r3dm1st31]

Ain't that the truth!

[@mooktemas6800]

BooooooM 🔥🔥🔥

[@gustavendayishimiye3366]

You hit the nail right on the head brother.

[@edwardtownsendjr.]

OUCH!💯🔥😂

[@lilymensah4860]

So sir what's a wife?

[@deangreen2567]

Women: Marriage is the ultimate sign that we love one another and are committed to it. Men: A written agreement with the government? Really?

[@bestfly8558]

Very unromantic. If it was just a party for our family and friends, then yes.

[@justinfacer6332]

I told my girl that we'll have the whole ceremony and honey moon. She seemed to be receptive to the idea. When I get on one knee I'll say something like do you want to legally change your last name and then we'll just kinda play it by ear from there

[@yuriboyka5759]

100th like

[@SomethinAintRightHere]

Dean Green Marriages, births, deaths & baptisms used to be recorded in the family Bible, and telling the government wasn’t necessary. This is what happens when we let government get too involved in our lives- ruins everything

[@OniNoFro]

A written agreement requiring government approval which women can exit out of (and do over 70% of the time) and derive persistent benefit from the end of that "love" and commitment (over 80% of the time). Basically... they lie. They can't even acknowledge their part in making marriage undesirable to men. And so, walk away.

[@sakatagintoki2888]

"women and children are loved unconditionally, while men are only loved when they provide something"- Chris rock.

[@netecrivernetecassassins2945]

And thus men are the most oppressed people 😔

[@alisontejeda3270]

Lol if women were loved unconditionally then both those ladies wouldn’t have the issues they do.

[@alisontejeda3270]

@@netecrivernetecassassins2945 I agree men are oppressed.

[@sakatagintoki2888]

@@alisontejeda3270 huh

[@netecrivernetecassassins2945]

@@alisontejeda3270 it's how society views people (in regard to the OP). Statistical anomalies in the form of the male killer cop is what should be focused on. Its an anomoly in the regards to males and cops, bcos that isn't the norm. In which case it shouldn't be associated with the norm either.

[@rustynuts4426]

"I wanna recount" I knew it was fixed. 99% Men voted C

[@MichaelJohnson-dt5zr]

That's what I'm saying...if she kept playing games over a period of time and she don't wanna talk things out like adults...well, bye👋...👍

[@error8119]

Facts though ain’t no way. I heard all them damn C’s in the crowd ain’t hear no damn A’s and B’s

[@vessaagosanchez9158]

Hell yeah, 49% of those men are lying.

[@n7elite259]

Yes. I was so sure the majority picked C

[@erikswanson224]

Yes, my guess would be it's much higher.

[@naolfekadu6101]

cheating is not a lack of attraction its a lack of character

[@bukhosidlamini3154]

If she threatens to leave because you won't marry her, let her leave.

[@alexandramaun7366]

Well duh what's the point of staying with useless man anyway

[@theguywhoasked1483]

@@alexandramaun7366 Lmao

[@Ryan-uu8oz]

@@alexandramaun7366 If he's useless, why was she with him. Use common sense.

[@LethalByChoice]

@@alexandramaun7366 Lmao you're petty. If she was useless to him then she wouldn't be with him, use your damn common sense.

[@TheREALSimagination]

Well ... yeah. That's the last and only time you can get her to leave without losing.

[@Etwilder]

I'd rather be a king in my own castle than a court jester in a queens castle🤷‍♂️

[@Blog4Justice]

Very nicely put. 👍😂

[@onur-a-k]

Well said

[@iCANT_BELIEVE_YOU_SAID_THAT]

Love that comment. 🤣🤣🤣

[@mahersabit9265]

And that’s coming from van wilder

[@jlee6772]

Facts all day 💯 somebody give this man his props for saying that ...king never a jester in a queens castle

[@brododipollonews]

Why do men avoid marriage? For the same reason people in jail avoid picking up the soap.

[@joernshealthcare585]

Zozo box nice one!!!!

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

Zozo box That deserves to win the comment section.

[@fluffysnatch4689]

I lol'd so much I think I messed my drawers.

[@cristiannaldoro2985]

epic

[@gene4438]

300th like

[@oifaye]

It's been 2 years and no new episodes. I want to watch more of this relationship advice. This is comedy gold! 😀

[@agoraphobicadam1171]

I will break it down for you. Women say,I like marriage because it brings me security. Men say, Marriage takes my security away.

[@julianacheriza1575]

True!!!

[@stupidboy1746]

please change your profile to a different colour its confusing

[@carlmeh4674]

Jeff Haigs sometimes custody is still sometimes given to women even though they are abusive or negligent.

[@alibawazir8056]

Men say marriage takes their security away and their hard-earned MONEY.

[@leem.5917]

Suad Mahfouz women begin to control men in marriage it can be seen everywhere. Women become the pupeteer and men becomes the puppet

[@gatorp9536]

“I want a recount!” -that guy is a legend 😂😂😂

[@SoTrue144]

C should of been the answer

[@BillClinton228]

They are so offended when they get older and men stop paying attention to them, but younger men who are less attractive or overweight are literally invisible to 99.99% of females. So let's cut the BS

[@shamibrown2287]

Rotflmao

[@seankenneth8622]

I loved that too

[@def702]

That kinda sounds like ice cube

[@Joker-sx5qj]

1 Gen feminist : we want equal rights 2 Gen feminist : we are equal to men 3 Gen feminist : we don't need men 4 Gen feminist : we are men

[@mythicalirishman6346]

5 Gen feminist : eliminate men

[@ananyapamde4514]

7 Gen feminist: since we are men now, let us eliminate ourselves

[@ghostup101]

9 Gen feminist: we ended the world. Why won’t men marry us?

[@jaybajan]

10 Gen Feminist : where have all the men gone?

[@archive___134]

12 Gen : Become the victim

[@leeboriack8054]

“Marriage is a great institution, but I don’t want to be institutionalized.” ~ Mae West

[@captc0ck5lap60]

Damn, the comment section gives me hope. Stay strong bros.

[@blazetino5713]

Ikr, I’m surprised they didn’t turn off the comments

[@user-cc4kq6hl4c]

Sarcasm ?

[@sakatagintoki2888]

you too 👍

[@capt.sparrow8898]

It gives me despair lol

[@noordiamond6308]

😅

[@lilshokan]

"marriage is tradition" Tradition is peer pressure from the dead

[@goondocksaints9597]

No sex before marriage is a tradition, too. But women tossed that one out without any complaints. If you are going to look at traditions like a salad bar, men get to pick and choose too.

[@AnthonySforza]

The problem is, that certain traditions we've collectively tossed out because "Reasons"... Well, as we're seeing the destruction wrought by doing so, they were clearly there for a reason.

[@AntoninusPius100]

Goondock Saints Yes traditions are very important. Marriage was tradition because it worked back then. Women were less promiscuous, less likely to cheat, and had happier marriages 50 years ago.

[@AntoninusPius100]

cotton eye joe Traditions are defined as “The transmission of customs or beliefs from generation to generation.” Human rights are something that is passed down generation to generation, if everybody in this generation happened to spawn in the world with no passed down customs or beliefs, killing and slavery would be fine

[@raheemcamal998]

@@AnthonySforza this tradition sprung from religion to which people are throwing away nowadays, so don't expect it to work without the manual, it will inevitably fail

[@gardhd4623]

Its gets me really PISSED when steve harvey continually lies to these women to make them feel better about themselves 🤦🏾‍♂️ instead of telling them to go IMPROVE themselves

[@James_C_Park]

I know right? I'm glad that I wasn't the only one

[@gnomeking6568]

He's PIMPING these women on their EMOTIONS... Steve is making MONEY! Just like a pastor in the church, pimping Jesus & FALSE HOPE to the congregation.

[@andresperalta5258]

Knome King Bro I realized that ever since I was a child. My family and friends were trying to push their beliefs on to me.

[@hogant.551]

@@gnomeking6568 💯

[@kristapsjj8520]

His moral barometer wouldn't allow him to tell those women the truth and potentially offend them xD

[@danielclocanas7751]

I lost everything because of it.. My daughter taken away from me, my business my mental and physical health, etc...etc.and my ex is a Doctor. Never thought a Doctor would destroy my life...but she did!!!

[@kazj1728]

Were her relatives heavily influencing her?

[@bgoneification]

My dad used to say, "It's not worth giving away half your groceries just to get the other half cooked." He also said that women trade sex for love, and men trade love for sex.

[@jeremyweekes2126]

Wise man

[@MrNeboff]

Legend. May he live forever

[@adflix424]

@@MrNeboff his dad 'used to say'

[@MrNeboff]

@@adflix424 Ah damn . I'm just realizing . Still a solid advice from him tho . May he RIP

[@EGoWhittier]

If a Son learns the lessons his Father taught, the Father will always be with him.

[@Dadee3]

*I love how they left out:* *D. Women will take our finance/assests in divorce.*

[@lorenzoclement2013]

exactly

[@TheREALSimagination]

SHHHHH!

[@Hussuki]

Bruv!!! I was thinking that! Too bad his show isn’t no nonesense or else I’m sure it would’ve been up there. I used to want to get married, until I learned of their scheme. Marry a dude who’s financially stable, stick around and have kids for a few years, then, once boredom settles in and a new guy shows up, divorce and take just about everything he got including the children. Thus, leaving him out to dry in a decaying dating pool with less than what he’s originally worth while they live la vida loca on the spoils with their new fling. No thanks, no thanks.

[@jamesedwards5070]

Because that's the plan of the government, who benefits from it as well

[@southerntiger3107]

TRUE!

[@AlexLoskutov666]

" Divorce for men is like getting raped, in a police station, while the cops are watching and doing nothing. Men are not afraid of marriage, we're afraid of divorce" - Aries Spears

[@AlexLoskutov666]

@Jn35 *She can find another victim to pray on. You are one of the proofs to why marriage is a really bad idea for men, that women lose nothing while men lose everything.

[@creepy_regret5542]

@Jn35 so why she forces men to marry ,when she don't want to

[@AlexLoskutov666]

@Jn35 all the bs you wrote can only happen in countries in which women really don't have any rights, like some 3rd world countries or Muslim countries, but not in a western country

[@PAIP_Studio]

Yeap, men are afraid of divorces laws and women them selves that can grow fat, bitchy or even in some cases go crazy kill you in your sleep and claim abuse to get off easy.

[@PAIP_Studio]

@Jn35 Yes but they don't kill you with a hammer in your sleep to get the house and your investment portfolio from your kids now do they... So shut it.

[@jslack8973]

There’s no way I would be with a man that doesn’t want what I want with each other. You have to know when it’s time to move on. Both people need to be happy

[@furyberserk]

Let me tell you. Steve Harvey had 4 divorces and he has 6 shows and is always working. He's bald for a reason.

[@alextrujillo1613]

I’m 27 never been married and I’m balding

[@denisewhite3902]

Men go bald with age. That’s just how it is 😂😴

[@denisewhite3902]

Barber of Seville .... imagine assuming that im putting it there for anything other than getting tired of stating the obvious 😂😴

[@makaynchealhalibbealkhooo9673]

He got bold for all the money he loosing for them lazy women ... but he can’t say something different cuz it’s his job requirements to love women , feminism , ...

[@aloveaffairwithself]

Hilarious! But, something is not too right with a person that’s been divorced 4 times...whether man or woman...I’m just saying...😂

[@lemhendrix]

She's NEVER yours, it's just your turn. Even in marriage.

[@magichoodoo5028]

You need to make better decisions with what women you date

[@DJ8017]

@@magichoodoo5028 Lol classic shaming tactics. "Must make better decisions". bla bla. Never mind there is a 50% divorce rate and 80-90% of those divorces are filed by WOMEN!

[@ElGeneralDelAire]

ShoUt oUt to ya! WE ARE THE PRIZE!!

[@JD-hx7yd]

@Roland Fraser Unlucky.

[@silentwitness536]

@@magichoodoo5028 bs. Bad women can fake being good women, and then reveal themselves eventually, long after the wedding.

[@llgla]

If you're not in love with your partner any more, end the relationship first. Cheating is just despicable.

[@Animusapertus]

That's a good point, I guess some people are rash enough to want the "better" sex, but don't want to lose what they have either..

[@rae7269]

yes i agree. Its crazy how someone can not be in love with you anymore and will not say nothing or end the relationship. They cheat or if you leave them they get homicidal.

[@raitodigital2092]

Becaus it's a taboo, it's exciting.

[@pirates9109]

raito it's exciting to be a jerk then ? ok

[@babayaga1767]

so , for bettor or worse, just words?

[@aberrantlawyer59]

"Why do men avoid marriage?" Same reason we avoid prison.

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

"Sex you want, you ain't getting. The sex you're getting, you don't want it."

[@mahsi03]

Maybe we're just smart enough to know that marriage is a sad joke.

[@ragingnoob3603]

A sad joke with no punchline...

[@God-gi9iu]

@@ragingnoob3603 y

[@bacon_affair4480]

True

[@burry218]

Legal marriage typically has zero incentive for men and tonnes for women. Marrying for religious reasons though is a totally different ball game

[@Blackwingsss]

"For every woman that needs a man, there is a man that needs you too" LOL not anymore. Men are walking away.

[@Kennykomar]

For every woman that needs a man, there is a cat that needs you too

[@NN-cc8uo]

Women need men... not the other way around. Sad thing is many women don't even recognize this and then cry when something inevitably goes wrong

[@xargalakthe7thplanar326]

and the woman think its men's fault they are single no most men are hotwired that if they see a hot woman theyre carnal desires manifest(and even Steve Harvey said if he had media he would cheat on his wife and he himself said that) in the end we are no better then rabbits we fluff and fluff till nothing is left

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

Yep until the Laws are Changed that are Unfair to Men.. NO MAN should get Married.... #Marriagestrikebymen

[@NinoBrownBoxing]

Math doesn’t agree with Steve

[@THEFIRST39]

I’m with the brother who 1:55 in yelled “I want a recount“ this video was taken over five years ago; things have changed. That 15% could be closer to 30%.

[@lord2529]

What you've said is absolutely true. I was confused when the results came out. And then I saw the date on the video.

[@weaponxi6151]

The 15% is way off. First thing I said to myself was "okay with it never happening". Times really have changed

[@granthill2980]

Men, because of feminism, have found out theres really a great life out there without them.

[@MrEysox]

@@weaponxi6151 I really thought the answer C would have get a 70%

[@randyjones3050]

Absolutely. It's "C" all the way in the 2020s!"

[@GitSumGaming]

Steve Harvey really knows how to lay down the truth easy on the women and change the words up so they understand

[@Trid3nt861]

"Roses are red, love is fake. Weddings are funerals with a cake" -Anonymous

[@javierfito5077]

DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN

[@probrobosnian]

You earned my like

[@nunyabusiness168]

Whoever came up with this deserves a cookie.

[@Farmores]

@Bartandalus Blue It was rick from rick and morty.

[@BlessingTshegoM]

😂😂😂 Why do I feel like you're anonymous

[@DoctorCataclysm]

Why do men avoid marriage? It has become a gamble not worth taking.

[@brendakabanda2181]

lol, that's a very good answer.

[@Maxantium]

Thank You , Well said !

[@jessehargrove6737]

"I want a recount" 😂😂😂

[@Wanderer628]

Jesse Hargrove Yeah, the C option should have way more votes.

[@obed5oa]

It was rigged. Option C was the most picked. They had to give the women hope.

[@davidyoung6400]

Real reason most men don't wanna get married wasn't even in there. Most men I've known including myself say they're terrified of losing half their stuff,paying child support (even tho a lotta men don't get see to the kid and a lotta of the time the money doesn't actually get spent on the kid) and they don't wanna pay alimony. The marriage system is not set up to benefit men, actually seem like the opposite. It's pathetic and cowardly not to allow that opinion on the show but his shows are made for women not men, like family court.

[@tamani9553]

why do men avoid marriage. scared of divorce maybe

[@MGTOWUNIVERSE]

+slimflex1 MGTOW!!!!!

[@poopoo4469]

+Tamani Wheeler XD much earlier than that, they scared of the woman saying NO to the proposal ;/ but thats a risk u gotta take

[@andrejohnson1028]

+Tamani Wheeler paying for ring, then wedding, then bigger house, then maybe a kid that I never wanted, then new vehicle..ugh

[@rick_santana]

+Tamani Wheeler No REAL Return On Investment.

[@nofybn7794]

+Andre Johnson new vehicle?

[@JustMe-ku6rk]

Simple answer why men don't talk marriage: men have everything to lose and nothing to gain, while women have everything to gain and nothing to lose.

[@Anonymous-pr3gr]

You used to have sex but now it's handed over much more liberally...

[@sohlohmon3012]

@@Anonymous-pr3gr bro sex can be handed over to you liberally if you play your game well , what you say now doesn't justify anything , marriage is a cage , it takes some of man's rights

[@Anonymous-pr3gr]

@@sohlohmon3012 ...And women make it so easy that it's not worth spending time on one that won't give out sex. It's just easier to go out and find another one who will.

[@JustMe-ku6rk]

@@Anonymous-pr3gr I always had much more sex as a single man than I ever did as a married man. I believe that most men can say the same.

[@bullballsallday]

@@JustMe-ku6rk Depends. There are a lot of men out there who get no action whatsoever unless they have virtually no standards. It's only a small margin of men who have the opportunity to widely distribute themselves out to lots of women.

[@TerryJohnson757]

Don’t take advice from Steve ladies.

[@folabomi713]

They should look at his daughter

[@Supreme_Lobster]

No one should really take advice from Steve IMO.

[@walterbrown9079]

Thank you Steve Harvey has ripped women off with that book think like a Man and act like a lady but Steve Harvey acts like a tyrant when you being around a traitor like Donald Trump and see where he is now

[@walterbrown9079]

@@folabomi713 yeah Steve Harvey abandoned his first 2 daughters in his first marriage and when he married Marjorie he accepted Lori Harvey as a stepdaughter this bama here is no relationship expert !

[@mathabahassan3471]

@@walterbrown9079 Omg really???? I look at him like a father :')

[@MissMetaBlack]

On the second question: A is actually the minority. B and C are both reasonable answers that hold the same weight, and because it's a pick one answer survey the more reasonable guys had to choose one or the other. A is 40%, B and C combine is 60%. It's still pretty shocking to see that slightly less than half of men would cheat for physical reasons. Just means us women got to choose well 🤷‍♀

[@adjustingmythreshold233]

I’ll get married when they change the laws on separation. Or if I find a girl who makes just as much as me.

[@Blog4Justice]

Not even then. No thanks.

[@orientlombardi6903]

Then you'll never get married brother 😂😂😂👍🏻👊🏻

[@zack_0psgaming150]

Oof, word of advice, marry someone who makes less than you. Women don’t date down and they elevate their own number so equal salary to them is you making less, and she’ll see you as nothing less. Stay safe and live smart my friend.

[@zack_0psgaming150]

@Florian what? I'm saying avoid women with higher wages. where did I say marriage was a good idea??

[@kuraido6370]

She can quit her job and play you. Also child support will come for you and you will still lose part of your assets.

[@NiftyShifty1]

If 50% of parachutes didn’t work, would you go skydiving?

[@itsdemidy5439]

makes sense 😂😂😂🤣 all the signs are clear, women will win in every situation in marriage,, why should i marry ? MGTOW ~*Wow so many likes I ddnt expect*~

[@kajalkangra9423]

75% buddy where u live

[@joec1212]

#myweinermychoice

[@3ossomok588]

But above all that, i don't understand the idea of marriage, can any body tell me please ?

[@yobootystank8160]

Nathan Frey you got that from bill burr huh?

[@ephraimphiri5789]

The options of answers you provide Steve are not thorough, but still interesting...

[@Ben-Ken]

Imagine Steve telling a man: "You're perfectly fine. No need to maintain your looks or level of income. It's not your responsibility if she cheats on you. "

[@krono6967]

And that would be true.

[@robertravena]

but they do NOT want to hear that. EVER.

[@masterskywalker8877]

@@krono6967 No?

[@somber8233]

That's true though too. If you love someone, they deserve to have the best you but if you go through some hard times - some family dies or you get laid off, it is their responsibility to be there to support you. Goes for both men and women.

[@MaihymCG]

@Esphaeras Praestans I think she bares some responsibility though, she's obviously overweight and probably doesn't look as well as she used to. So of course her man went after a younger and probably hotter woman. If she kept her image up or at least showed effort then she might not have gotten cheated on. You just heard that man say that attraction is important, she let herself go therefore making her man lose attraction.

[@joslu80eight5]

Damn I’ve been single for quite some time now and every time I come across relationship videos it’s all just videos of why you’re better off single lmao

[@lm3729]

Real talk

[@biglittleyeti8870]

@@mrnobody6609 Stop dating western women. This is why religion matters find yourself a religious Russia/Ukrainian women and you will have none of those problems.

[@tyrannosoreusflex5297]

@@mrnobody6609 could u tell me some reasons why were better off single? I’ve never dated before just like the original comment

[@bullymaguirememes7390]

@@tyrannosoreusflex5297 there's a big possiblity that you'll get your heat broken and no one will care thinking it's your fault. Or simply : we are not in a romantic movie.

[@doyourbest7655]

So the negatives are pretty strong and very real, however one needs to negotiate them with a plan for their entire life. Do everything you can to be financially secure in your 20’s and early thirties. Place those assets in a trust. Start again when you begin with a relationship. Don’t get married until you are financially secure and starting new money growth. Your trust is separate and un-comingled property. Recognize that everything built after she knew your name Is subject to take. Also the rule is she gets half in the divorce and the other half in monthly installments. That indentured servitude lasts until you are 65. That’s all you need to know. The So get married when you are 60 and hopefully the marriage lasts until you retire. It’s the slavery part that breaks most men. I misspoke I meant unending “alimony”.

[@sodone466]

Why? Because,,, "There is no wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it."

[@giaco5390]

Chick felt like her man wasn’t attracted to her.. she try putting the fork down? It’s fine for a woman to say a man’s too short etc but if a man were to tell a woman she’s fat (something she can control) it’s misogyny… Truth hurts sometimes

[@gaugeray7462]

Never enter a contract with someone paid to break it.

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

Pay really close attention to the small print.

[@jenflower2687]

I believe in marriage like in your 40s not in a young age and I STRONGLY believe in prenups in the female and male side ur marrying the person heart their soul if something ends if something ends move on with your own stuff . Period

[@omarraymundo7475]

Losing your kids, home, business and self respect yeah marriage sounds awesome !!!👍😃

[@SONORSQ2guy]

Omar Raymundo Hell Yeah!!👍😀

[@vladberez3974]

Omar Raymundo this guy gets it lol

[@RaggenZ]

Yep

[@deme22255]

Omar Raymundo Correct. No woman is worth marrying.

[@anthonyperkins5856]

yeah tell me about it

[@mrpk188]

Why Men don't wanna get married? "Never sign a contract that only benefits one party" simple

[@zakbrinkhoff324]

Yep

[@astromaniac7459]

Exactly

[@Memerproductions]

Its like me sighning a contract that says i serve them for 2 months and get nonthing, bassically labor without pay

[@silvanbodea8606]

Nothing is simple, it doesn.t benefit 1 party if you both grow into your wealth

[@silvanbodea8606]

@Overlord 3108 grow its just a figure of speech ofc you work

[@arhabersham]

1:56 "I want a recount!", I almost spat my coffee in laughter

[@InstallaFriend]

I WANT A RECOUNT

[@traviselliott6329]

Give that man a medal lol

[@GplusGains]

I want a recount without having someone look over their shoulders as they vote. While they're at it, no video taken of them either.

[@jomomma8754]

Flawless timing.

[@steveouk90126]

I want a fourth option: D. Not worth it.

[@scylla019]

None of the answers are right. Don’t get a marriage because there’s nothing in it for the men.

[@wolfspain7385]

The comment section on these videos are gold.

[@TravelWithBradley]

Full of virgins who are afraid of women and can't communicate in any way. It's a sad, depressing place to view.

[@toonballoon6244]

BobbyRice2 are you serious lol

[@TravelWithBradley]

Not just serious, I'm correct!

[@sargentslim300]

@@TravelWithBradley sure you dont know them all

[@TravelWithBradley]

I mean that would still make me correct.

[@Anusuyaadass]

Marriage isn't about love always, it's about responsibility.

[@theintruder6085]

Both

[@ilikepancakes2368]

Most women don’t understand this that’s why smart men like me tend to avoid it.

[@LuxuryOption4756]

Men have no biological clock. Class is over. Thank You for attending the seminar.

[@nakedfaves4445]

+Roz Hudson Some women KNOW that they don't want children, even before they start dating the man that they're eventually going to marry. And then of course there's the topic of adoption. If you really want a child so desperately, adopt one that somebody else didn't want at all.

[@lobecosc]

+Roz Hudson Yes we do. It just set differently.

[@mfriedrich2012]

The wall, sexless marriage and decades of trapped misery. Thank you all for coming and goodnight. Be sure to tip your waitress.

[@olganozdratenko3394]

Men do have a biological clock. Just because they can produce sperm doesn’t mean it’s any good. If you study the biological science of children who’s father were over 40 when they were conceived, then you’ll know that mental disorders in those individuals are a lot more prevalent than those born to young fathers.

[@ryanphillips5591]

@@olganozdratenko3394 men can get mates at any age. Older women have far fewer options.

[@DavidPerez-lo4dn]

Divorce is a bigger industry than ever before. I've heard a friend of mine once compare marriage to buying a flashy new car and never able to pay it off while keeping up it's maintenance. I'm still never married yet.

[@oldschoolfarmtough.bigbloc7129]

Those men are lost souls. 75% percent of those 2000 men will end up in divorce and lose it all

[@emmanueldamilare211]

You saw that too!😂👌🏾

[@kylethekanadian2790]

Like lambs to the slaughter

[@eliaspittman]

@@jonathangrabban912 what a waste of time !!! If the trust is gone the relationship is over already. Gentleman don't waste your energy and money on this foolishness, if you're not a #mgtow then don't just marry some woman you like sleeping with but rather make an educated decision using logic and rationale so you don't become another divorce story.

[@JackRafael]

rvhron08 why you laughing

[@gracieanderson9390]

The comment section is making me so happy 😁 The game is changing and so will the players

[@zoomtutor2925]

RIP

[@mainawangondu8205]

You enjoy the truth.

[@anfrewllaves1752]

Why are you using a burner account v for a Steve Harvey show comment section 😆🤣😂

[@stephenmacleod6173]

Why would I invest in something that has a 50+% rate of failure and that will cost me more in the end.

[@Genpri]

*cough cough* 75

[@varietydreams3707]

Fr

[@wezichirwa5398]

Aren't there ways to make sure it doesn't cost you more in the end?

[@stephenmacleod6173]

@@wezichirwa5398 none that the court system can't overturn

[@wezichirwa5398]

@@stephenmacleod6173 I think this is primarily an American problem... Most of the things divorce law demands in your country don't happen where I'm from. There's no alimony for one thing. Only child support if there are children involved.

[@doctorj1607]

There are always 3 parties in marriage. 1) the husband 2) the wife 3) the government Never get into a contract that involves the 3rd one.

[@mr.speyside5240]

Men don’t avoid marriage. We avoid divorce!

[@sid6.764]

Mr. Speyside, actually men do avoid marriage because when the courts got involved in the process, men can't avoid divorce.

[@lyesabdi4753]

Marriage is not a long way relationship if a women cheats and gets problems that leads to divorce, so yeah that definitely the main reason for us man to avoid marriage

[@wildyato3737]

The main problem is all the sympathy and the argument are often listen by women's side And since women are innocent ,Men have to do all things And when this thing happens at the court ,Men life is ruin over emotional ly, financial and his freedom gets f*cked Also if there is a child ,then your life is completely hell ,cuase you need to pay the whole salary as a wife and child support when you get divorced It's like a good man always cut first ,even he didn't done any wrong in his life!:(

[@lumox7]

I've heard that marriage is the number one cause of divorce.

[@drunkmexican814]

Wrong sir! We avoid prison

[@booyaah82]

The man that said 'I want a recount' is a hero

[@PsychosisFire]

Why do men avoid the topic of marriage? Because we don't want to spend thousands of dollars on a ridiculously extravagant, pointless ceremony that will, stastically speaking, most likely end in divorce, in which case we will most likely have to give up half our stuff, pay your alimony and give you custody of the children. Marriage is a hideously unfair deal for men, and no man in his right mind would want one.

[@BigMan.270]

For us blokes, its a costs benefit analysis

[@PsychosisFire]

pinkwonder power I notice you haven't actually refuted anything I've said, though... lol.

[@Ashbringer36]

Hey loneliness and single are two very different things

[@prncessbaby16]

im a woman but i TOTALLY agree 10000%

[@Blackstock123]

I would read that as a compliment

[@longwildernesswalks]

My wife was a size 2 when I married her. She's now a size 12 or 14... FFS I don't care. My god, she gave me 3 beautiful daughters! I love her because she KNOWS me. She's my best friend. No matter how big she is. Loving my wife is physical, but loving my wife for just being her takes no effort at all. Marry the woman you can see gaining 50+ lbs and still rock your world in more ways than one.

[@adammada511]

"chivalry is dead and women killed it" "Relationships are dead and women killed them also"

[@reedy_9619]

Lets invade poland (Cuz they re not « progressists », to my knowledge)

[@ywoisug8845]

@@reedy_9619 what

[@reedy_9619]

@@ywoisug8845 it s a questionnable joke... i was calling for emmigration towards poland (and eastern europe in general)

[@Nostri85]

@@reedy_9619 don't bother, that femi disease is spread already there

[@d.h.dd.h.d.5230]

Beg to differ. Guys & dudes killed it. Not real men. Our friends are living proof. Here's a single example & I have a plethora x's 20. Including my brothers, cousins, & yes my own Dad. My hubby is in mute shock. All he can say to them is, "Dudes, really--oh man! I merely smile mk small talk so I don't get too close to the ladies as they wont stick around for these behaviors. Ex: Our 40 yr old Ivy League best man met a wonderful younger 30 yr old woman with a real heart. She helped him thru the death of his Dad, 9-11, & an MS diag. He fell in luv. Wants to marry her, but. She hasn't completed dental school so shes on a budget. Her income at this time doesn't allow for our fancy Dr vacas so he dumped her for a fellow heartless celeb Dr. Why? The heartless narcissist has a slightly cuter exterior face The younger lady cd only afford to pay 1/2 of her own expenses for the trips he planned. He stated... "I need a female prettier than my boys ladies, one who can pay her own way 100% on our planned vacas, & I don't have to luv her just like the way she mks me look.

[@FreeSpeechIsDead]

Steve's just telling the ladies what they want to hear.

[@Rahsaun77]

That's where the $$ is.

[@geraldfountaine1619]

Of course. He's not gonna alienate half his audience.

[@Rahsaun77]

@@geraldfountaine1619 half? More like 70 - 80%

[@geraldfountaine1619]

@@Rahsaun77 the majority of his audience then.

[@GabbieCh]

That's his job. But this is one of the most truthful episodes with him that I've seen, I think because there are actual men who vote and say their truth. He was right when he said that you shouldn't cater to someone's wish, it is true, you should be who you are because you wanna be that. If you're the type of woman that likes eating fast food and sitting on the couch all the time, you shouldn't force yourself to be active and food smart just for a man, that man should just find another woman. You should only change for yourself, otherwise you'll turn into someone else and you'll hate it.

[@MoodyAfrican]

They are many reason that can lead to a person to cheat, but there is no excuse to cheating.

[@cynicalape1015]

Men don't put getting married on top of their too do list!

[@paradigmdashed]

Amber Ay.. yeah sorta how its the mans reward to smash her after paying for dinner and a movie.

[@mainecoon6514]

cynical ape, men want their cake and eat it too. They can have multiple partners and have all the sex they want w/o commitments. I guess that's 'Friends with Benefits.' Good deal for the men, a raw deal for women who want something more than a 'one night stand.'

[@eugenejoseph6910]

It's not Even I the bottom either

[@theemoseum8371]

Uncle Steve need to bring his segments back. we need this wisdom & these conversations in the 2020’s

[@troym33]

I've been married and I hated it! Everything was always about her and what she wanted. If I ever wanted something of my own she felt like I was choosing myself over her. She ended up doing what every MGTOW video was telling me she would, she left me for a guy with more money and status. HYPERGAMY!! The guy did me a favor! It just took me a while to realize it.

[@raven75335]

troym33 people these days get married for the wrong reasons. It’s not that marriage sucks, it’s the people who suck. Marriage is not about what you get for yourself, it’s about what you give and receive. People need to live by love, becoming loving people to love others.

[@radmanpedram3214]

troym33 I am glad you escaped that trap enjoy your freedom 👍🏻

[@mgfan4lf]

Enjoy your freedom, health and piece of mind, it only gets better

[@supe12man1991]

Seriously my dad hasn't had a vacation in years but my mom with no job goes on vacation to Mexico 4 times a year. She's also always comapling about being tired WTF you don't work

[@salemsaberhagen8390]

man thats the problem guys that snap and go after the one their partner slept with when what they should be doing is going after the one who betrayed them not some stranger. Though this doesn't apply when she cheats on them with someone they know like a friend or relative in that case they both deserve it, sadly that is exactly who most women cheat on their guy with.

[@saintbenitz6291]

That dude with the vest... man he has a surprise coming to him..

[@saintbenitz6291]

@Jai Rock Yeah, that's not something a regular straight dude would know. Thanks for the info.

[@lethyadon1182]

straight up. known her for 2.5 years pssssh. Just wait till the 5-10 year mark when she starts really showing her true colours.

[@256mike]

I'm going to be straight up after 10 years of marriage and one day she telling me that she wanted a divorce out of the blue I became a red pill it's been 4 years now I have slept with over 57 Mary woman that cheated on their husbands I didn't even know they were married I met them on tinder guys don't get married it will be the biggest mistake of your life believe me I'm telling you like a brother

[@nlytend1]

Thanks for the insight. More men with similar experiences need to share their stories so we become disillusioned with the implicit necessity of marriage/relationships. Especially the stories of the cheating wives whose husbands probably believe they’re in happy marriages.

[@lipsonjonathan211]

Shocking. Unbelievable. (sarcasm)

[@frosksdeadteeth5163]

57? Ew I hope you used protection

[@zack_0psgaming150]

@@frosksdeadteeth5163 I’m pretty sure it’s implied but yeah. If you didn’t give her the juice chances are she might give you the squeeze. ...this is a terrible babytrap/STD analogy my apologies.

[@johndillermand4053]

Preach!

[@attilaambrus4521]

Men are always told that if your wife/GF cheats on you, it's not her fault, it's your fault that it happened. Steve is telling the women that if their men cheat on them, they should not feel responsible. In other words, it's ALWAYS the man's fault!

[@Chad_Hart]

Marriage in this day & age provides zero benefit to men, huge risks and zero return on investment. You dont have to be a businessman to see this isnt a good idea. Men avoid marriage the same reason women avoid talking about the total number of past sexual partners.

[@jerrynavarro2404]

Right ✅

[@orientlombardi6903]

And when they do talk about their sexual partners they lie, believe me, always multiply by 2/3, I would say 3

[@YungMono0]

6:17 "attraction is important..." Steve Harvey is lying through his teeth when he said "you're perfectly fine", she's looks unhealthy, overweight, looking like she's 40+, and even with makeup on she is not even attractive. I can see why her ex cheated on her with someone younger, she stopped taking care of herself.

[@sweetandyyy]

That’s not an excuse to cheat. Just break up

[@lipsonjonathan211]

He has to say that. Truth is kryptonite.

[@God-gi9iu]

@@sweetandyyy yeh but they can’t in today’s society as they will call abuse, rape, assault, child support etc

[@sweetandyyy]

@@God-gi9iu break up, pack your things, move away from her and get a restraining order.

[@NoFapKing]

@@sweetandyyy Sure it is cheating is fun

[@devinmanderson]

Marriage is the one thing that men still control the keys of access to...that's it, after the I DO men are at a complete disadvantage and have little to no power.

[@ericevans4775]

There is no benefit for men to get married... None.

[@basmalasaad3039]

If he's mature, having children with her and has love for them, he'd definitely see the benefit in providing a strong, stable family environment

[@Stupid33]

@@basmalasaad3039 You don't have to be married to provide that and marriage doesn't last 18 years.

[@leone41ll]

@@basmalasaad3039 So what does a woman have to do, to be considered, "mature"? Its a trick-question, think carefully.

[@user-np3cp2cb7u]

@@basmalasaad3039 stable family environment requires both couple to be mature. not just the male one. and benefit is like privilege. it is to be received without having to work for it first. so what benefit is there that you're talking about?

[@teddynasrpiano3965]

Eric Evans i mean there is a difference between no benifict and disadvantage in this case their is a disadvantage like 50% splits of the men money and all....

[@ISoloYouRelax]

Don't bear the responsibility when you're being cheated on. It's the mans fault when he cheats. When the woman cheats it's the man's fault.

[@CobbyLouis]

Why does Superman avoid Kryptonite?

[@usmcmanatee2591]

It slowly kills him, inside and out.

[@ianm8218]

Abstrakt Dragon sounds like a marriage

[@ryanthesavagegamer4543]

Louis Ayensu-Mensah Cuz he is a blood

[@bryantaylor9084]

@@ryanthesavagegamer4543 😂

[@ryanthesavagegamer4543]

Bryan Taylor (;

[@colbalt95]

With the laws changing and favoring, marrige is starting to become really for the poor men.

[@aj7460]

More like with all the gay marriage, its becoming a joke. Nobody values marriage anymore. Not men not women. We should both put it in effort to look good and make each other happy

[@colbalt95]

***** some prenups are being thrown out now and you can pay alimony in some states just for letting a woman live with you long enough.

[@colbalt95]

Peter Kazavis Sorry. some men are starting to catch on.

[@doremysheep7864]

Why do people think you NEED marriage to go somewhere with a relationship? You don't need marriage to have a life with that person. I really don't understand.

[@mgtow6683]

Marriage is like a Tornado: "In the beginning there's a lot of blowing and sucking, then you lose your house".

[@fernandod4046]

But only when the blowing and sucking stops. Just keep the sucking and blowing going

[@VaticusChadicus]

I spit all over the place when I laughed out loud at this.

[@NietzscheDevot]

This is the best thing I have read today!! 😂😂😂

[@brickbraker5033]

wait you said this in another vids comments

[@deadpoolthepsycho_________2428]

Pun intended?

[@evercast9213]

"Its not your fault you got fat , its not your fault you dont communicate , he is just and "ass****" " Yeah put all the blame on men and get paid we get it LMAO

[@wenlambotomy6231]

Remember the 3 rings of marriage 1-the engagement ring 2- the wedding ring 3- the suffering

[@AnjaliKumari-tn3cv]

All women r nt same

[@thatoneguy9666]

@@AnjaliKumari-tn3cv most courts are

[@AnjaliKumari-tn3cv]

@@thatoneguy9666 ya...

[@AnjaliKumari-tn3cv]

@Colonel Gibbs agreed. Too much of feminism.. Even I hate too... I miss those old days where true love was in the existence...

[@iCANT_BELIEVE_YOU_SAID_THAT]

Just got red pilled. Thanks Yoda!

[@vivianli7699]

He is a man with a good heart, people feel comfortable with him, it’s so charming.

[@sustainf]

“We don’t stress over marriage because it’s the day of your dreams. Our dream is the women of our dreams.” Says the man that’s surrounded on by both sides by large groups of frustrated women. With that ability to smoothly deliver a bs line under pressure, he should definitely be in politics.

[@KrissowskiM]

He had that prepared earlier. It’s an easy prediction in such a meeting!

[@ivervj2923]

I was looking for this comment. Good thing I found it. Totally agree. Steve is the classic media celebrity who plays the social expert and tells women what they want to hear, not what they need to hear. The hard truth.

[@randyjones3050]

Exactly! He was just telling these women what they wanted to hear and sparing them the cold hard truth. I guess that is to be expected from a TV host with an audience that is mostly female.

[@Dakidd-pb9zc]

FACT!!

[@jonathanalphonzo9097]

Isn't it true though, that our ULTIMATE dream is a woman of our dreams (who no longer exists thanks to the cult of feminism)? Are you saying you don't dream of a cute virgin with no tattoos?

[@someonejust5062]

80% of the dudes answering the first question are lying

[@johnclayton4946]

Marriage is Slavery for Men Watch this video men kzbin.info/www/bejne/qpPXaqyBZ6l5qMk

[@crashpal]

that's why the one guy said "i want a recount". i too feel choice 'A' because it's a huge step in commitment and we gotta make huge financial choices like a house to live in and provisions for wife and future children but usually we are not ready since we are still making something of our own selves financially. Right now i'm studying in college but i know 10 years down the road i'm going to come at that stage

[@ysmithriley]

Make that 99.9% and you'll be more closer to the truth. ROFLMAO

[@angelgjr1999]

They definitely rigged the polls. You can hear most of them answering differently....

[@raymonddelacruz846]

Exactly

[@joshuacox581]

Women think they are always ready for marriage, but their not. Men propose when they know, they are ready.

[@DavidZakuzaRyutashi]

When i was a young lad playing sonic games on my gamecube, one thing always stuck with me... Every time Amy asked Sonic to marry him, he always curved her request. i was a young lad so i was curious as to why. Looking back....i think Sonic the hedgehog knew all along what marriage was really finna end up as...so he avoided it at all costs. Homeboy tried to warn us all along.

[@utfkygkuyh4386]

Sonic was redpilled lol

[@sorakh4119]

@@utfkygkuyh4386 He knew the truth.

[@mookie1247]

Marriage is not a good deal for any man.

[@lkfng]

MGTOW!

[@AlexLoskutov666]

Yup, the whole audience is filled with Blue Pill men

[@mrsmum6752]

I read often that men who are married outlive men who aren't. Apparently marriage benefits men significantly. I'm sure a google search will help you find the study/ies.

[@mrsmum6752]

Hopefully the 56 men who upvoted this are as unattractive as all the other MGTOWs - best you stay out of the gene pool and not reproduce spreading your hateful Sharia Law.

[@Walking-MY-Path]

+Sim Ba Ah the classic and typical shaming language!

[@rolsonDotcom]

There’s nothing in it for men ladies. Marriage has nothing to offer men today.

[@romaneros4583]

Nothing to gain, everything to lose.

[@imtmvm9107]

Maybe in the Western world 😬

[@imtmvm9107]

@Jacob Good on you! 👍🏼

[@MrEysox]

@Jacob Try to avoid America

[@BeanOnTheFlipside]

@@imtmvm9107 even in my country india men are opressed

[@GardensoftheAncientsHerbal]

What it is is when the emotion behind it is more about the symbolism of it all than the bond then we run.

[@JSolar590]

My condolences to those that get married.

[@lifeisbeautiful9455]

J-MGTOW 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@realiztik6670]

Lol

[@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa4842]

😂

[@SONORSQ2guy]

👏👏👏👏👏

[@gloomy9728]

RIP

[@gummysmile7298]

I don't know but this is what I felt about this day romantic connection especially marriage. A lot of men now expected women to have a job and they feel used if they pay for everything. And I realize a lot of men right now also don't want to date a girl if she has financial struggle (happens a lot of times my sister, my Cousin, my bestfriend) they always bring a question "do you want to have sex with me everytime I want to" give me the vibe that your thoughts just all about sex. But all these women around me always say they pay their meals an even pay for the guy too and this guy always force them to have sex. And when they are jobless the men disappear and broke up with them, even when they are planning for marriage. I always have thought that. Not just some women who are jerks, men also some of them is jerks manipulative selfish, at least if you don't want that girl not match what you want say that at first and don't date them at all. Find what you want and stop playing! Don't force ANYONE to do what they don't want them to do. Don't judge a women if they want to find a wealthy partner if you also left if the women jobless. Like right now I don't care what people say.

[@Nicklessization]

Marriage? Hahaha.. You must be joking ladies. This is 2019 and beyond.. Men don't like drama.

[@Walking-MY-Path]

In 2020, things are WAY worse and everything is crumbling down and only getting worse by the day.

[@RhyperiorRanger]

“I WANT A RECOUNT!” Alright who’s the smartass?😂

[@Theogenerang]

Same reason they avoid traffic cones. Because they're not blind and they're not stupid.

[@brenthodges7202]

If you are in a relationship with someone and one person starts a bad drinking habit, smoking habit, porn addiction, or any number of things that are not what you consider healthy just leave the relationship. Getting fat is a perfect reason to leave. There is no need to stay with someone just because you feel bad about how it'll look after you dump them. If you both get fat together sure, be two happy and fat people. But when one of you still spends hours in the gym, eats healthy and takes care of themselves and the other turns into a land whale it's not a fair deal. In the past 4 years I've been with multiple women in their early to mid 20's and I am currently 30. I work 70 hours per week every week at my own business, go to the gym and stay in great shape and make quite a bit of money. But the last 3 gf I've had have all gotten fat/lazy and didn't seem to try any more. I feel in my case it's because they think they've won the jack pot and assume they'll be getting a ring eventually but that's not going to happen if you can't take care of yourself. How the hell are you going to take care of the house, family activities, children and all of that? Being ugly is one thing. You really can't change that unfortunately. But at the very least you can stop eating twinkies and mountain dew.

[@williamwilkins3084]

It's not called "marriage" any more, it's called "divorce assurance".

[@Lidiaaa10]

Why?