The Man Panel: Can you really be a born again virgin? || STEVE HARVEY

The Man Panel continues with questions about "born again virgins" and whether having kids too young will lead to an early death.
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[@MissBlueBeauty]

Steve spoke with so much empathy toward people turning their lives around. Best response by far!

[@Jafar.Jamal-175]

@@SANDOSMT Why? are you trying to be a born again virgin 2? 😂

[@factswise-psychologicalfac84]

You still not a born again virgin 😂😂 good luck with your used up twat.

[@shay1999]

@@bedal2002 probably the women you've dated and gone back to. Humans can embrace change

[@shay1999]

@@bedal2002 you are not determined by the past but who you are now. Remember there's other women who's virginity was taken by gang rapists

[@JuanitaMichelle]

"Born again Virgin" isn't meant to be taken literally. Once your virginity is gone it's gone. Being born again is more of a spiritual experience. It doesn't erase the past.

[@ddh19454]

I was waiting for someone yo bring that up Not like girls expect their hymen gon grow back It's more of a decision u make for yourself

[@stektirade]

Yeah but they are trying to erase their slutiness by saying that

[@estheransereafriyie1187]

I understand you cannot become a virgin again,that part is there. But you said it does not erase your past and I think you are wrong. Yeah, you can't go and undo things from the past but 2 Corinthians 5:17 says Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.

[@mariamalfa7026]

Old things are passed away and you are a new creation. You can be a born again virgin. God has erased your past and you're a virgin to him

[@jesustryingheh6864]

Of you tell people you are a virgin after having sex your lying and that's sinful.

[@melliemel32]

No you can't be a "virgin" again, BUT you can decide you don't want to sleep with someone again until marriage. I think that you can make changes for the better...PLUS, if you're doing it according to the Word of God, the Lord can FORGIVE anything. Just stick to it!

[@eugeniyah8078]

YASSSSSSSS 👍

[@britneybaby636]

good, I like how you speak positive stuff..

[@glo1005]

Mel L Amen!!

[@saleh6272]

Still not virgin

[@kellyempress6943]

Virginity is a myth that words is how u define celibacy is the same thing as virginity. So you can always be a virgin again

[@midnight_yota]

I think Steve said it best . You can change and evolve but you can’t claim to never do what you already did.

[@billh.1940]

You can claim it, but WE know! Just remember I didn't have sex with that woman, and the choir said oh! Yes you did!!

[@jainae1]

I AM NOT A BORN AGAIN VIRGIN. BUT I HAVE BEEN CELIBATE FOR 3 YEARS ON NOV 25TH....AND I AM OK WITH THAT

[@cuervothorn3947]

XD, Lol, are you still celibate?

[@kevinarias1862]

No one cares

[@jaylynemikeyandmommy4541]

THATGIRLSANI congrats!!!

[@HD-Australia]

Congratulations

[@tinahuttner7280]

You can be emotionally but physically hell no,I agree once you've past that line,no going back.

[@sunniallwein86]

everyone has the right to reinvent themselves. however you cannot market an open package as new.

[@erikedgerton5951]

Best response ever.

[@justinpenn1081]

Being celibate and being a virgin are 2 very different things. Just say you are now celibate.

[@jesterarts734]

It doesn't sound as good or make them "feel" validated. lol

[@323azteca]

Underated comment. 👍

[@blackwealthmotivation1799]

Facts 💯

[@beverlyrhame3692]

Exactly so.

[@billh.1940]

Or just say...mind your own business! Or let him without sin...! Btw even some virgins aren't so celibate! Does anyone remember the anything but girls!

[@purplelonghorn07]

you're a virgin once. There is no born again virgin. Now you can abstain from sex but your virginity is something you cant get back. As to the kid thing, I think it depends on the person. Some people can have kids and be ready at 20 and some people should wait until later in life. I was 19 when I got married and 20 when I had my first child. I was ready for kids but should have waited anyway.

[@ShukitaShipper05]

27 years old and I'm STILL a virgin!!! WOO!!! Loving it!!!!

[@heathfitzgerald363]

You will be for another 27 years if you don't grow out of the cartoon phase

[@TYINTOSPACE]

That's awesome! I am not 27 but I am 23 and still a virgin. I don't intend to loose my virginity until marriage.

[@jzero671]

@@TYINTOSPACE It's crazy reading people being so old and still holding true. I'm happy that you'll avoid so many problems these women develop from having sex at young ages and with just about anyone.

[@mikeoxlong]

You lucky

[@roseenanga1353]

That is amazing it is a great decision. I'm with you

[@freakyeah95]

If you take care of yourself, it doesn't matter what age you have kids (physically speaking). My dad was 50 when I was born, he was in great shape then and now. 71 years old now, works out every other day and keeps up with my 7 year old niece better than my sister or I can.

[@scottwall3095]

I think physical accumen is less of a concern as mental health. If you aren't able to mentally handle it because you're still growing as a person then the potential stress can affect your health, add the stress that not being mentally settled into a marriage relationship adds from having a child early into that relationship adds and you end up with to much for a young man to handle.

[@AlainaCain]

I don't use the term born again virgin. I tell guys that I have taken a "VOW OF PURITY". It means the same thing.......no sex BUT at least men (the smart ones anyway), have enough sense to respect my decision. Plus the fact that it has made more men shamelessly throw themselves at me purely coincidental!

[@Walking-MY-Path]

You mean you're celibate.

[@jesterarts734]

@@Walking-MY-Path lol...it sounds better to use more colorful words for the same things. I told a chick I was an underwater ceramic cleaning specialist-technician. I could have just told her I'm a dishwasher but it don't make me "feel" as good. lol

[@Walking-MY-Path]

@@jesterarts734 Lmao yo females be doing the most when it comes to deflecting and running away from accountability/responsibility.

[@ivanfunctionx8431]

@@jesterarts734 lol

[@misssugacoco]

Only non virgins would call themselves a born again virgin, an actually virgin wouldn't go round saying they are a virgin.

[@romariosmith422]

Big facts.

[@billh.1940]

They can say virgin, you have know need to say born again!

[@phoebe109.]

Exactly I wouldn’t randomly tell ppl

[@esmeraldavaldez9853]

After I got back into church and finally got baptized I promised myself to wait till marriage because I now know the importance of waiting for the right one... my past has nothing to do with what I’m doing for myself for the future...

[@Rose-zh5xg]

That's great man, I hope you stay strong

[@dutchesscarniegegordon56]

Congratulations

[@ravenzyblack]

Are you going to be honest about your body count? Your past informs your future whether you want it to or not. It actually matters to a true Christian. To lie about that would be a greater sin.

[@pepsico6734]

My father was 20 when he had me. And I'm glad that he was young because I have a very hip father who understands todays youth. Sure my father was struggling in the beginning but it turned out great. I'm 18 now and I feel like my father isn't as old fashioned as most of my friends fathers

[@bayank6366]

How old was your mother when she had you?! Sorry for my English I'm still learning

[@pepsico6734]

bayan K My mother was 22 , your english is okay by the way. I'm still learning as well

[@MrTufanOzdal]

its not about wether u are glad about it or not but how he felt and what he has to go through at the time

[@MrTufanOzdal]

had

[@Walking-MY-Path]

That's a cool-ass Dad!!

[@iamcharlie4588]

People are never going to be “ready” to have a kid.

[@Samsam-vq4se]

Iam Charlie I think they mean more about being financial ready and mentally ready and there, when you’re in school, working overtime to meet ends for rent and your child and day care, you’re just exhausted and you won’t be there for your kids as much as you’d like. But as you get older, if you make the right moves you will be more stable to raise kids ina better environment. It all matters on circumstances and willingness. Everyone’s different

[@cguilla49]

I love Todd!!! He is hilarious 😂😂😂😂

[@nygreggs7730]

Why is there a need to rewrite your past decisions? It is ridiculous! You can't change the past - You can only change the future!

[@jaejae5782]

Ny Greggs obviously it’s not a literal term. . BORN AGAIN VIRGIN is normally just a woman who just decided to take a break from sex until it’s actually worth. For most women it’s not just a physical act-it means a lot more than that. It’s normally fir several years not months. (It’s long term celibacy/abstinence & I hope no woman honestly believes otherwise.) A lot of Guys can just become whatever u want them to be like, until they get it, then change or leave/cheat on you after the fact. Yes we can be naive but because we learned our lesson, we then just decide to STOP that pattern of behaviour to merely weed out the ones who are just here for the short term or for those who are not really serious. If u don’t like it then keep it moving because u r obviously the type we are trying to avoid. (No shade)

[@underwaterseas]

I just don't understand why women are held to a standard of such purity while men barely get a slap on the wrist for being sexually active with several partners.

[@aznpanda510x]

+underwaterseas because we men don't claim to be born again virgin because we know it bs. Men are called perverted, nasty and dogs but we don't let that effect us.

[@somedude5553]

+underwaterseas Because more men care about a womens chastity but women could care less about men they just care about how we make them feel.

[@msozzlover]

+underwaterseas SLAP ON THE WRIST??? More like a standing ovation :D

[@tamiekaaugusta4058]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@yitzchakepstein2142]

Because women can get it whenever and however they want. The only thing a man is thinking about, is doing it, and all she has to do is ask.

[@vanaphill2454]

Born again virgin is a mental thing not a physical one.

[@MinkyKhuzwayo]

Problem with the question "can a WOMAN be a born again virgin?" 00:48

[@victorreid4106]

Minky Khuzwayo That’s because y’all are the ones that say it, you don’t hear no man saying that

[@1SweetQ]

It is possible. I was Celibate, by choice, for 8 years. For me it was about a spiritual transformation that I was undergoing.

[@AmishMicrowave]

Still doesn't make you a virgin, once it's given away it's gone for good. No redo, no refund, no take backs, done and done.

[@kylesavage4525]

And u can stay celibate for another 150 years but still u will not be a virgin ever again no matter what transformationu go through. Accept it and stop living in denial/dellusions.

[@RH_2012]

Todd is hilarious!! I love it when he gives his opinion. I want to sit down with him and ask him some ridiculous questions just to hear his response.

[@ladymay7789]

You and me both...I would LOVE to hear some of his southern gems of wisdom.

[@DaLane4real]

The mind isn't fully developed until 25 years.

[@MrRasmus500]

DaLane J my mom got my sister when she was 18, (she got pregnant at 17) she then went on to get 4 more kids with the space of 3 years 1.sister 2.me 3. Brother 4.sister 5.brother. Yes my parents were broke for a good part of their lives, but now my sister 22 and me 19 helping them financially really shows that having alot of kids to start of with, really pays of at the end of the day.

[@anyo_mations]

Yeah, but I think it was more common to have kids at a younger age back in the day because less people went to college and more started working right after high school. Today, it takes so much longer for people to become independent. For me, having kids seems so far down the road because I still have to finish up high school and I'm planning on going to college. It'll be ten years before I can even support myself, so there's no way I could take care of a child now. I still feel like a kid to be honest

[@scottwall3095]

I think the idea of having kids young not so much the issue as it is where is your marriage or relationship at that point? People are still growing to know themselves post high school, maturing and figuring out the intracacies of marriage, the stress comes from taking one thing(marriage) you have a hard time with and are learning to balance and throwing a child into the mix. That was my conclusion from having a child young. Not to mention the implications on the marriage and the possible long term effects of not settling into the long term relationship before taking on a 18 year project as complicated as rearing a child.

[@1st_b]

There are religious women who’ve practiced the self restraint and discipline to wait until marriage. If you haven’t done that why should you get to make the same claim without having made the sacrifices they did or without having had the same discipline they had?

[@princessmanga2]

None of those guys were virgins when they got married I can assure you. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

[@MuseTheSoloist]

LeyLey That may be true but none of them are claiming to be virgins

[@Pomme843]

For a lot of women, virginity in men is a turn-off. It reeks off immaturity and unattractiveness.

[@The_Maori_Taro_Planter]

I'd prefer not to stone people for their sexual activities...

[@Kingaoiun57831]

LeyLey they aren't saying that they can be born again virgin either. You can decide to stop sleeping around but you can only be a virgin once.

[@sonnetmorrison1469]

amen

[@lobecosc]

Adulthood and Manhood are two things. Believe that.

[@natashascott5148]

He said "first one at 21. First one at 22"

[@mandisashabalala6466]

I picked that up too, so funny.😂

[@TangledLover13]

He meant he had his first boy at 21 and his first girl at 22. Those are his eldest kids

[@stiggywiggy3868]

once u lose ur virginity it's gone, I had my first two kids in my early 20s but I wrk hard everyday to make sure they get what I never had

[@shawntalwilliams8271]

i know everyone is not a Christian but if you commit to not having sex before you get married that is honorable, and for Christians the bible said if any man begin Christ he is a new creature old this have passed away and all things become new but the key word is commitment.

[@Ssookawai]

+Shawntal Williams I'm muslim and it's the same thing... virginity isn't "THE THING" to be, it's about chastity/celibacy. If you're a believer (christian, muslim,etc), you know it's forbidden yet you do it then you decide to become celibate, it's okay and no one should judge you.

[@mimilove7284]

No one is saying it's wrong you dope head! They talking about the term not the commitment!!! There is no such thing as born again virgin!! You're just celibate and abstaining from sex!! You are no longer nor will you ever be a virgin once you've given up your virginity!! Stop lying to yourself and deluding people!! You can live a pure and holy life post loosing your virginity if you chose to stop being sexually active and wait till marriage but that does NOT make you a virgin again! Just celibate and abstinent

[@shawntalwilliams8271]

+mimi love I not sure of the name calling but I stand by what I said, I know what being celibate is and I believe those who have made that choice being a Christian or not have claimed back there Innocence of spirit soul and body is all I am saying,virginity is purity and when you cleanse your self of all the partners you been with what are you gaining purity a state of the heart that has had healing and is made whole so when you give it away to the one you love it is fresh and new (matters of the heart not the body) . I know you can't turn back the hands of time physically but your heart can be brought back to a pure state like you've never made that decision to give your chastity away. #bornagainvirgins a condition of the heart not the body.

[@shawntalwilliams8271]

+Maska Jinzo Honey ignorance is never bliss you know nothing about my life or where I've been nor do I know where you've been so you can keep all of that to yourself. God bless you my friend

[@shawntalwilliams8271]

+Maska Jinzo Prayed for you today hopefully your having a good day. Much love...

[@acacius9903]

Oke not true. I personally know guys who married around 21. They have children and live a happy and successful lives. I feel that I am not ready to get married though eventhough I am more then 25 but there are many people who where ready around 21. Just saying.

[@Kaganath]

My parents were 19 and 18 year olds when they had my older sister. They had a very stable job at my family's company and at the time they were better off than most people in their 30's so I don't blame them for thinking that they can raise a baby at such a young age, and they did. They're both amazing people and I highly respect them. Of course there's a lot of hardships that came their way(based on their stories) but I think it made them smarter and more responsible than those older than them. My family's company went bankrupt 7 years ago. Everyone in my family lost their jobs, my relatives literally became poor but me and my parents bounced back almost immediately. I had to change schools, my Mom needed to work oversees and we needed to learn how to make the best of what we have but now, we're back on track and I think one of the reasons my parents were able to remain calm and make good decisions is because they forced themselves to learn things at such a young age. I'm not planning on having kids till I'm at least over 25 and don't think that having kids at a young age would truly benefit you but whenever there are negatives, there's always positives. I don't even know why I'm writing this, I just think my parents are awesome... Yeah das bout it.

[@veronicagoss7225]

Once you have sex you cannot become a virgin again everyone knows that. But there is nothing wrong with being celibate and realizing that you want to wait for that someone special.

[@timtommy278]

I came here only for Todd Lmmfao!!!!

[@289dancer]

Facts.....no printer.

[@Brimstone-Gaming]

I had my first kid at 25. the best thing from it was I finally realized I needed to grow up, stop acting like a juvenile and I had responsibilities.

[@oderaijere8780]

Steve is funny but he is diplomatic and understanding. Gives very reasonable thought out answers

[@KweKanata]

Physically ...no. Choosing a different life for yourself, respecting yourself, not wanting to deal with males lying and using you , absolutely yes.

[@WhitnyeK86]

As far as the child thing goes I think it all depends on the individual and where they think they are in life. Some people can be great parents at 21 and some should wait. People experience personal and financial growth at different rates.

[@purplelonghorn07]

+WhitnyeK86 agree.

[@BS2all]

That is certainly possible. But only about 2% of people can pull it off at 21 IMHO. Because financially, it is very rare to find a 21 yr old who can fully support themselves, let alone pay bills, rent, groceries without the aid of parents or loans. So you are bringing your child into a rough environment. I had a tough childhood at times, my parents didn't because financially stable until their mid 40s. I'm 19 now and I am just beginning to realize that the world is labelling me as an adult and having this much responsibility is already enough stress. Being a parents is out of the question for the next 5 years for me. Let alone marriage.

[@anyo_mations]

I feel the same way. "Everyone develops at their own pace". I always try to keep that in mind. Hey, I'm in no rush to grow up. Being 17 is awesome.

[@johnjunior2079]

I don't think you can reinvent yourself, I think everyone should be held accountable for their own mistakes (even myself) I think the only thing we can do is try do right.

[@eleanorturner4651]

I am so glad that my Father had us young because He had good patience with us then and it seems like his patients grew even greater when his grandchildren came along oh and he was 23 when he got married

[@brittbrat567889]

Bill rancic 😍😍😍

[@deborahg3093]

I do believe that a woman regardless of the number of sex partners can tell a man name. NO, the word "virgin" is not a legitimate term to describe this.

[@scottwall3095]

I think born again virgin, at least as I was listening to it in Sunday sermons, was more about your attitude toward sex, how we use it these days as a coping mechanism for areas lacking in intimacy and trying to understand under what circumstances it is ideal to be intorduced to a relationship. Yes it can be "recreational" but if you take the same attitude there and apply it to a relationship it can cause problems that wouldn't show up if you waited and learned how to address intimacy in a relationship without the sex bandaid or enticement. I'm not decrying sex in a relationship but I think there is an issue with it being substituted in to many situations for closeness that men and women both see in thier heads and grew up idealizing....it's called friendship. Not preaching but I would have liked to see the panel expound upon how important sex is and there are wrong ways and times to use it. Male perspective should have been stronger and more well defined in this area.

[@Nae9211]

This was a really good segment!!! Steve you should truly do this again!!

[@salvationfaith2964]

I really do appreciate your comments steve Harvey am 27 and am verly finding my self at 21 i was a baby my actions were imature and as we get older we get to develop self-awareness and able to look at the world with responsibility and kindness! @steve Harvey

[@leslieferguson9562]

"Born again virgin" is just a funny lighthearted way of saying/dealing with the fact that--after wrongfully fornicating, or being married then divorced--you're choosing ABSTINENCE and a long time under your belt practicing it! Everybody DOES have a right to do a 180, and live in a way that's far more healthy for mind/body/Spirit. I became divorced, went down that bad forked road for a bit, and now have been abstinent for 2 yrs. IT IS POSSIBLE!

[@jesterarts734]

“Born again virgin?” Just say you’re celibate. I told a chick I was an underwater ceramic cleaning specialist-technician. I could have just told her I'm a dishwasher but it didn’t make me "feel" as good. lol

[@maryhazlett]

I'm a 67 year old woman. I retired at age 50. I STILL don't know what I want to be when I grow up. I don't have kids v or a spouse, but I took care of my parents 24/7 for 24/years. I had no time or energy to figure out my life. I was helping my parents find a way to live THEIR life while being disabled. My mom died when I was 60. I have no CLUE who I am.

[@PonyCarCam]

being a virgin and being celibate are completely different. You can't be a born again virgin however you can be celibate should you choose to be so

[@user-xs5fj3ms2l]

Your past should never be used to define you. We all make mistakes and the beauty of humanity is that we can learn from our mistakes. You can be the person today you want to be.

[@Rose-zh5xg]

❤

[@Nae9211]

Todd is MY ABSOLUTE FAVORITE!!!! I just love that man. He should do stand up comedy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hotfish13]

I’m 26. Got married two years ago. My husband is 5 years older than me. We just bought a house and I am going to school full time and will have my bachelor’s degree next year and then plan on getting my masters. We don’t have kids and are waiting another year before we start a family. We are both grateful that we’ve waited to start a family and still don’t feel fully ready yet. The biggest goal is for me to be done/almost done with my bachelor’s by the time we start a family.

[@veronicamphela771]

Steve is very funny, how can you dive off a door knob? LOL

[@daseanclark5462]

agreed I try to encourage my friends to wait as long as they can to have kids. like we've literally been in school for almost 2decades.. can we be out of school for another decade before having children

[@penelopejulien1909]

Great panel discussion

[@4daluvofnikki]

I disliked this segment so much. Not one intelligent response from this panel of men regarding the topic of Born Again Virgins. The only thing I agree with is what Steve said about the terminology. Some people will get caught up in the verbiage of Born Again Virgin. But all it means is that a Woman or Man has decided to take a vow of celibacy. They have chosen to wait till marriage to have sex again. Doing things the "RIGHT WAY". I know some will disagree with that term but so be it that is the way I see it. I just hated how these men made leaping assessments that a woman who calls her self a Born Again Virgin must have been very promiscuous. That is not necessarily the case. She may have made that decision after having just one sexual partner or after having many. Each woman is different.

[@AkonFenty1992]

+4daluvofnikki It should be called celibacy cus that's what it is not born again virgins cus once you lose your virginity you're no longer a virgin, but when you stop having sex then you're celibate not a born again virgin, that term doesn't logically make sense.

[@Karamelkissiz23]

+4daluvofnikki Well said!

[@therock809]

Girl everyone there made sense is that Steve was the only one to say it nicer than the other guys.

[@BS2all]

Just call it abstinence then?

[@akumaisreal2090]

+4daluvofnikki the question is can you REALLY be a "born again" virgin. Yeah the guys may have made fun, but the fact of the matter is you can't. Once you've crossed that line, that's it, you're not a virgin anymore. Deciding to become celibate until marriage is not the same as being a virgin, and being a virgin doesn't even mean you're waiting to get married before having sex, so you can easily see why this is laughable. Like steve says, they need to change the terminology. because as it stands it makes no real sense and won't be taken seriously. Also, there is nothing factually wrong about having sex before getting married.

[@Miladyluvs]

born again virgin. is like a metaphor.. obviously not physically possible.. but as we process and cleanse our spirit through a life without sex.. theres a transformation. within the person. me.. ive been born again in christ.. ive been cleansed by the blood of Jesus christ. going on 3 yrs of celibacy.. by choice.. ..

[@wcthesecret]

then your celibate, dont insult virgins by calling yourself one when you lost that long ago.

[@Miladyluvs]

wcthesecret when did i claim im a virgin!! re read my comment..

[@WildBison74]

Lily congratulations on finding christ and becoming celibate. I think it's ok for you to call yourself a born again virgin. I think it's exactly what you said: a metaphor. Woman are not claiming that they are literally a virgin, but are starting new and fresh. I hope you are doing ok with your choice of celibacy and just wanted to wish you blessings and encourage you. You've made an honorable choice in a world that seems to revolve around sex.

[@JustinRWhite]

Congratulations on your three years my friend! You have been born again. Non-christians would never be able to wrap their heads around this idea until they come to know Jesus themselves

[@guzlemuzle]

how are you doing?

[@glorymosbyfloyd3878]

Love Steve & this all male panel! ! Telling the truth! !

[@mitzi769]

Funniest panel ever. It's good to hear from them.

[@rainealogan6068]

"Yes individuals can't hold people to their past" A person it self have to make that change. And surround themselves with positive people, and have a positive mind set. And I agree stability, and knowing who you are very important.🙆👍

[@litheran69]

“I waited for you, why couldn’t you wait for me?” Only thing that needs to be said.

[@iSpunkrandom]

If you get sexually assaulted your first time having sex I think it's okay to be a born again virgin. Also I don't see the issue in sleeping with a bunch of people voluntarily and then deciding to be a born again virgin. You're saying born again. This implies that you're acknowledging that you've had sexual intercourse in the past. It's not a lie so I'm not sure what's wrong with saying it.

[@mystuff8570]

I think age of having a kid depends on the person. Me and my husband had our first baby right before our 21st birthday. We’ve never had a problem with financials or how’re we’re going to raise/feed our kids. We’re not wealthy by any stretch of the imagination but we live within our means and do just fine. Me and my husband also have a wonderful relationship, totally depends on the couple and how much you got your crap together. But that’s just my little two cents/experience.

[@shornetbascoe6543]

Why why did i subscribe i am not able to do any work , Steve you are killing me😂😂😂😂😂💖💖💖💖💖

[@chrisylove1659]

2019 and I'm still watching this

[@omanemorgan805]

I became a man at 17 with 2 kids im Jamaican we do stuffs like that make mistakes but we step up our game to ensure we there for our kids and im 23 now my kids are doing great in school and i work and go to school and the fun part about it is we get to grow with our kids understand them more

[@jjmnz956]

I think people should wait and have there children when there older cause being a young father does cause overwhelming stress. I became a father at 16 and living on my own with my wife and child and going to school. I don't even know how I managed to get this far.

[@justsimplegamer]

3:25 That guy us is so rich, his watch became next sun.

[@gabbymccallister9820]

Talking about 21 being way too young for marriage and kids. Meanwhile I’m 23, been married since 18. 2 kids and one on the way currently. Had my first child at 20 (pregnant at 19). Been married for almost 5 years. 😂 Welp. 😂🤷🏼‍♀️

[@Rose-zh5xg]

That's adorable, I'm glad to hear it turned put well for you ❤

[@Sam11747]

At 19, I had my first child, and I'm glad I did cause I had a lot more energy back then. I knew myself, knew what I wanted out of life, and had my life together. At 19, I had two paid houses, two paid cars, making a decent paycheck from my businesses, and a decent amount in investments. Financially speaking, because I had my children so young, it actually allowed me to save more money on my taxes.

[@dusica1904]

Me as a woman agree that especially man shound not be married or have kids before 30.My dad got me and my sister at 34 and 35. He lived his bachelor life until he met my mom. He became a family man, dedicated to his family and kids...And he gave me an example that you should wait until you are matture for that.

[@coolhead8686]

Everyone make mistakes. It is Okay to correct yourself and change. However, you cannot erase it.

[@JoyFoolActs2035]

There is pros and cons to having kids at a young age and there's pros and cons to having them when you are older. I had my first child at 19. My second at almost 22. And my third at 24. It has not been easy. When you are that young and you have kids it's a struggle, financially and mentally. Sometimes I wish I would have waited and got a good job. Went to collage. Saved up. Took care of my health better. Had good mentors. Chose better men and made better decisions. But the upside is that I'm 39 and my kids are basically grown. My daughter is 20 now, my son is about to be 18 at the end of this month. And my youngest is 15. So I'm still young enough that I can enjoy life and go for my dreams. As much as I wish I would have waited, I'm glad I'm not almost 60 watching my kids graduate. God willing, I'm glad I'll have the energy and be alive to see my kids become successful and get married. It is what it is.

[@paulabarrows7023]

I love Todd! He's hilarious

[@SlideRulePirate]

My parents had me late. I had my Son early. The age gap is largely what governs how much in common a parent and child have. The relationship I have with my Son is one of far more common interests and activities than I had with my Father.

[@hannahjames6]

it s good to have your kids young you have more energy

[@Iluv2bblk]

Everyone has the right to change

[@kaddatbrands7732]

I got you brothers I am 23 and still I like dating, but marriage nooo,!.Them girls want to but I can't,I got a lot to go for, a lot to learn until I marry someone.Thanks for the enlightenment.

[@phyllisbrockington5275]

There is no such thing as a "Born again Virgin" Unless you are a virgin and get born again.......

[@phoebe109.]

THANK YOU

[@jeniferschultz9756]

Yes you can,I've been celibate for 7 years after my split with my husband

[@rostallar4243]

Love these guys!

[@willydb11184]

Damn Im glad they said 21 cause my daughter was born on my 22nd birthday and she's the best present I ever received!!! She's 16 now and we drag race together so each to their own!!!

[@marieowens4943]

Bill and David said it best, "Once you take a bite of that apple, you're done". No such thing as being a born-again virgin...dry spell yes, but a re-virgin...no. My dad was 26 when I was born (he just celebrated his 80th in July), and I honestly don't know if he was really prepared to be a dad at that time, or understood the responsibility that it would entail. When I think back, I remember he did his best to provide for as my siblings and I. We always had clothes on our backs, a roof over our heads and we never went hungry.

[@leonhouston4604]

well i was taking care of other people kids an i didn't have my first child untill i turn 29 yrs old... an married at the age of 38

[@arjunsubba7171]

Age is just a number . It really depends on how you r brought up , and each and ever person is different . If u r 40 and still don't care about family matters well u r still baby and big one too . But if u r 20 and can some how provide and take care of people around you u r the man . We learn new things every day . As we all know there only 24 hours a day but actually A lot can happen in those 24 hours

[@bryanpenaloza5697]

1:43 not the voice i was expecting but i love it

[@kayla5160]

A man being 21 is so much different then a women being 21 though. I think a woman can do it. I'm 24 and I'm ready. My husband is almost 35. It seems like the perfect time for us. It really depends on your situation and where you are in life. Some may be ready sooner than others.

[@claudiaelenasanchezquinter7452]

I see this time and time again. Steve is the best.

[@sungirl9951]

Love this video. Thank u

[@alwaysarcastic]

I agree with Steve, the term needs to be changed or people need to go back to using the term "celibate". As far as the age for kids, it depends on the person. I've met those who have had kids at 16 and 17 that are great parents, have done an incredible job with their kids and because they've been financially responsible, independent at a young age and accountable for what they do or don't. And I have met those who are over 30 who aren't up to the task and yet keeps on having kids. You are never ready to be a parent regardless of income, class, race and gender. Having money helps a bit, but it all depends on the person. Some strive and some fail, if you have support from friends and family it can also help you.

[@yendang5403]

It doesn't matter what age you have children. The bottom line is are you there for your children when they need you? Being present for your children during their childhood is the most important things. How many people out there who parents were not around while they were growing up???

[@rogerhuggettjr.7675]

I'm glad I had my kids starting at 19. I pay 4 times what I did for insurance for family then vs single now and my insurance covers nothing. I couldn't afford to raise them now and given how uncertain relationships are, being empty nest by 45 means more options and grand kids.

[@jacquelineduran8213]

I beg to differ. My husband and I were 21 and 23 when we got married and have our children. Not everyone is the same. We were ready to settle down, and we've been married for 29 years.

[@PrettyBlk318]

I love Todd lol that man sarcasam is so expectly unexpected

[@Sisterlisk]

You can't undo something. You can, however, abstain going forward.

[@teliciasmith3552]

Diving off the "doe knob"🤣🤣🤣

[@tebogomorulane2637]

I had my first child at 18, I'm 21 now turning 22 December... I have 3 Daughters from the same woman who's 4 years older than me.

[@_ash_doll]

I love Steve Harvey and Todd Chrisley, great show

[@Mindful_Mm]

Some people claim to be celibate not because they have just chosen it but because they don't have a potential date. Wait until you get into dating now you can evaluate if it was celibacy or was just a lack.

[@FirstLast-gk6lg]

Resetting the odometer on a car to 0 miles, doesn't remove the ware and tear from the engine, wheels and all other parts.

[@unpopulardollsdontreadrepl8453]

If someone tries to manipulate you with words and doesn't take accountability , just run. It is a just a way to increase their SMV.

[@Mxxjzz]

Todd has such beautiful smile 😍😍😍😍