Why Do Narcissists HATE To See You Happy?

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Mental Healness

Mental Healness

Күн бұрын

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@cedrico.7136
@cedrico.7136 15 күн бұрын
It’s crazy how you let them live their life but the moment you living your life they want to be all up in your business
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
🎯
@ma-lovee
@ma-lovee 15 күн бұрын
That part!!!
@mammadingo9165
@mammadingo9165 15 күн бұрын
Oh but they'll remind you to mind your own business
@walkernicole26
@walkernicole26 9 күн бұрын
💯 In parentage court with my ex. He dragged me back (he is still inconsistent and disrespectful plays games using kids ect knowing court just lets him do whatever) he wants regardless. I moved on into a healthy happy relationship after we separated at some point and now have a newborn. Part of my ex smearing is I'm on drugs, implied multiple times I sell my body, negligent towards kids ect. So while he states "I'm not trying to get her in trouble *proceeds to drag out some lie he is implying*" Gets down to point saying I'm a negligent parent, because I'm on drugs that'd mean not only would the two kids he and have together be taken away so would my newborn. Talk about being so bitter that someone that took abuse and the kids you share with someone is happy and healthy (him) your admitting to being willing to make kids suffer (including one that's not his). It was ironically funny to me, when (if there's any partial truth to it) that I found out he tried to get sympathy and claim the assigned GAL (kids attorney judge put in place) he was going to complain to judge that the the GAL was disrespectful to him asking did he even care about our kids bc he didn't pay anything or work out a payment plan. Na i believe my ex thought i couldn't pay. He def doesn't want to pay, yet dragged me to court for attention and judge assigned GAL expecting over a $1,000 from us each. I know my ex he lying to a degree, but I guarantee he is upset bc he possibly: 1. Told lawyer he'd give him something and didn't (I'm pretty sure the GAL wasn't disrespectful, he wasnt to me.) So bc ex knows he didn't ever intend to pay any attorney nor has the $$ he needs to be the victim and trying to use the exaggeration that attorney was disrespectful to him. Wholetime court is/has literally catered to my ex bc they only care if he abuses or probably prefer he try to kill them as he did me. Until then court decided I'm just delusional and no facts (screenshots of un-alterted messages parenting app of doing everything but threatening me and kids physically. He has talked to me any kind of way, changed every visit/canceled, harrassed me at at work ect. I'm hoping one thing if the judge who clearly is giving him everything at least gets offended that my ex didn't RESPECT HER COURT ORDER FOR GAL. At some point even when judges pick who they favor they can still get annoyed enough and get tired of the person they favor. Question is: how many court sessions until this clown judge on a black robe gets tired of him when he disrespects her instead of continuing to GIVE HIM SYMPATHY KNOWING HE PLAYING HER.
@O.Sea.D
@O.Sea.D 7 күн бұрын
So true, once I was visiting my ex narc, and he saw me booking with clients (I was running a new business) and he literally threw me out of his house claiming I wasn't paying attention to him 😂😂 I drove home crying and he called me when I was in my car and said "why did you leave? Cant you see i was joking? You left me alone because you feel better then me, you are being arrogant!"
@glowieokenney7915
@glowieokenney7915 15 күн бұрын
Imagine competing with the one you are supposed to love?!!!!! So sick!!!!! 🤢
@Smashgamin
@Smashgamin 14 күн бұрын
My ex walked past me with her bf and i l3t them do as they please I removed myself and they were back love bombing me😂
@walkernicole26
@walkernicole26 9 күн бұрын
My ex implied I was competing with me times. The last was a few days ago when he brought finding therapy for our kids and he knows the kids are under my insurance. When I pointed out factually he didn't know my insurance info or availability (no he didn't forward links for resources he did this to "look good", he has no insurance nor can pay out of pocket, and of course wants to control the narrative w/ a therapist. He just kept playing the victim by telling me he couldnt pay bc he missed a day of work bc of me (when i dont even know his work schedule), told me he wasn't trying to "outdo me". We all know he doesn't pay child support (if he sends something it may be $50-100 here and there. Nothing more than that set in stone consistently) manipulates everything with selfish intentions, ect. He took me stating and remind him the kids under my insurance and me never asking for any $$ as an insult and ego hit. If he brings up him finding therapist (in church or directly to me) I'll tell him to put him under his insurance. Especially in front of judge she wanna ask and act like I was difficult and ex needs sympathy ill tell her how he didn't send links or screenshot of people on Google he did free consultations not knowing if insurance is accepted, but saying he can't pay. And to be petty point out if ex wants to do all that he can put them under the insurance he doesnt have. I don't mind our kids in therapy but know his games. I need her to make judgements/orders and let ex openly defy them bc he cant follow through enough times she can't keep giving him sympathy when SHE the judge is FED UP ENOUGH.
@MrBuddyLuv
@MrBuddyLuv 15 күн бұрын
If they're not the reason your happy then they'll do everything to ruin your vibe
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
😢
@walkernicole26
@walkernicole26 9 күн бұрын
That part. I swear they thrive of you were miserable with them.
@glowieokenney7915
@glowieokenney7915 15 күн бұрын
I started my own dog walking company 8 years ago. He literally never acknowledged my business. He said it wasn’t a business. Never complimented me on starting a business by myself. My friend once said to him that Gail runs a small business. He said, “absolutely NOT!!!!” It makes me sick that he is so unhappy himself, and he has tried to make me feel less than. No! No! No!!!
@arci.challenger
@arci.challenger 15 күн бұрын
Because it’s not THEIR happiness 😅 as sad as it sounds
@arci.challenger
@arci.challenger 15 күн бұрын
I learned this by watching Lee’s videos consistently for 8 months now since my breakup ❤
@donnakjohnson
@donnakjohnson 15 күн бұрын
Lee, you’re speaking truth!!!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
😩
@foxiefair123
@foxiefair123 15 күн бұрын
I still don’t get why they’re like that.
@glowieokenney7915
@glowieokenney7915 15 күн бұрын
Yup I volunteered for hospice for 7 years. He was so mad that I volunteered. He never once even asked me anything about my patients. He minimized it to the extreme!
@CoachHadassah
@CoachHadassah 15 күн бұрын
11:31 My narc spouse started committing adultery against me because I went back to school. I knew the night that he started having sex with his coworker but I stayed focused on my studies. At my graduation he didn’t get in any of the pictures and then accused me of having something going on with one of my classmates. After I took the test for my professional license and passed that’s when I confronted him about his infidelity and of course he blamed me for it. 🤦🏽‍♀️ After 24 years of marriage with him I’m SO GLAD I’ve been DELIVERED from that mess.
@planbmindset9475
@planbmindset9475 15 күн бұрын
Yeah, I just started back working in the oilfield, and now i am working out of state. Now she's not answering my calls or texting me. Im fine with that though because i have lost so much dealing with her. Im not falling for it this time.
@karenbowen3978
@karenbowen3978 14 күн бұрын
24 years!? Ohhh dear one! You deserve high praise for lasting and surviving that long torment of hell! Good for you for finishing school! And leaving that person behind you! I hope that the rest of your life is filled with JOY!
@michellecoleman1627
@michellecoleman1627 14 күн бұрын
I’m so proud of you that you kept going no matter what God had his hand on you you Go girl❤
@CoachHadassah
@CoachHadassah 14 күн бұрын
@@planbmindset9475 Count it as a blessing. When you stop calling or texting for a while she’ll Hoover you. If you have no ties to either like children, property, etc stay no contact for your own peace. 🕊️
@CoachHadassah
@CoachHadassah 14 күн бұрын
@@karenbowen3978 Thank you 🙏🏾 All praises to the Most High EL because that’s the ONLY way that I got through this mess.
@goodwillhunter6831
@goodwillhunter6831 15 күн бұрын
The Narcissist’s Prayer I did nothing wrong. And if I did, it wasn’t my fault. And if it was, you made me do it. And if you didn’t, then you’re too sensitive. And if you’re not, then you misunderstood me. And if you didn’t, then it doesn’t matter. And if it does, you’ll forgive me eventually. And if you don’t, you’re the problem.
@mollykayramstack6193
@mollykayramstack6193 6 күн бұрын
@@goodwillhunter6831 THIS!!! 💯
@shaunogg9966
@shaunogg9966 15 күн бұрын
They make you feel like you are being selfish if you are happy.
@annascorpio117
@annascorpio117 15 күн бұрын
My Mother use to say “ misery like company”
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
Loves it
@MissReneeMichelle
@MissReneeMichelle 10 күн бұрын
So true. I come from a narcissistic family dynamic and years long narcissistic relationships. When I started getting healthy, my mother tried to derail. She'll text me abusive messages for no reason when I express any type of excitement or joy - has done this my entire life. Best strategy? Find someone else to tell your wins (and losses) to. Leave them in the dark.
@jeffreywolf6732
@jeffreywolf6732 14 күн бұрын
I was with my narc for 7 years. 22-29. I was always told that she wanted to be married and have 5 kids. We had a difficult time after Covid trying to find a house. We finally won a bid on a home. I was in the process of ordering the ring and was excited about the future. After moving in I felt like the most confident I’ve ever felt , everything was falling into place. aside from the fact that my parents weren’t able to come look at any of the houses because of a false pretense that my mom was too nosey and in “our business” it turns out she was planning on putting her name on the house only. In 8 months of being in our new home that I felt would be the home I’d start a family in I was emotionally discarded being told I couldn’t provide the life she deserved. I was a gloried renter that gave her half the mortgage every month, paid more for groceries, and cooked dinner almost every night of the work week. I ended up sleeping in the Spare bedroom after finding some incriminating items from a co worker of hers. I then moved out around a month later. We had a shared savings account that she said she’d give me half of (obviously I never saw that). I lost my confidence, my money, my trust that people have your best interests in mind, and I lost the love story I thought I had. Female narcs can be so horrifying. I just want to thank Lee for including the male survivors and thrivers in his posts. A lot of content is only based on females being affected.
@jaxiearmbrister4223
@jaxiearmbrister4223 9 күн бұрын
So sorry she did that to you. You are a man that plenty women wish that they can find. She isn't worth sh*t. There still is a love story out there waiting for you you're still young, keep your head up love
@mollykayramstack6193
@mollykayramstack6193 11 күн бұрын
💯 3:57 He ALWAYS did that!!! My birthday, my promotions or bonuses at work, my being happy or excited over anything and he would ruin it in some way - every single time! SMDH!!!
@Rachel-iStockholm
@Rachel-iStockholm 15 күн бұрын
I have been trying to develop my career in fitness. Last summer I was training to get my personal trainer license. There was a lot of studying, the second I said this is a lot of work, she told me to quit. (!!??) When I finally got my license, she discarded me THAT DAY She used to criticize me not making enough money just being a gym instructor. Nothing is ever good enough
@mollyerickson4897
@mollyerickson4897 15 күн бұрын
If you have to make yourself small for someone else, that is your biggest clue that you are in the wrong relationship. It is NOT going to get better with time. You will never make yourself small enough to make their ego big enough. Never.
@jokettedj
@jokettedj 15 күн бұрын
When my ex knew i loved cats, he went and told me all the negative things he could about cats. And he did that with anything he found out i loved. He would tell all he could negative about it.
@LadyBug-sd9sk
@LadyBug-sd9sk 15 күн бұрын
All truth!!!! Mines used to get pissed and always say I was “corny AF”! I started feeling bad about being happy, joyful and lighthearted around him. I started acting like everything was just blah. It was only okay to be happy if he caused it 🤦🏽‍♀️. Just sad!!!
@Gabriele1996-u6f
@Gabriele1996-u6f 14 күн бұрын
It sucks when the narcissist is your mother. 'what are you so happ about?' was constant growing up.
@rebeccafield7006
@rebeccafield7006 15 күн бұрын
My ex tried to sabotage me having my current job, and it was one of the final breaking points for me to officially end things. Within 2 months of them trying to ruin a job I truly love, I kicked her to the curb.
@debraskye6553
@debraskye6553 15 күн бұрын
Mr. Lee is Absolutely Right, Your Happiness is None of Their Concern! This is Terrible!
@annascorpio117
@annascorpio117 15 күн бұрын
OMG my ex said that “all I want is to see you happy”
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
😫
@foxiefair123
@foxiefair123 15 күн бұрын
Yeah, mine did, too.
@jokettedj
@jokettedj 15 күн бұрын
Saaaame
@marcealvarezg
@marcealvarezg 15 күн бұрын
They hate seeing you happy, smiling, shining and achieving your goals, because they feel frustrated with themselves and as they lack of emotions and feelings, it is impossible to them to feel something. As soon as someone is happy for any reason, they have to destroy that, by saying "oh congratulations" but then you see, what is coming is a negative statement "oh, congratulations, but you have a long way to go" or "congratulations with your new car, but is not as reliable as mine". Things like that, to minimise you, to make you feel bad. My ex NPD partner told me, as soon as I got my driving license "Congratulations, but you still have a long way to go" . I started paying an instructor to give me lessons, but as soon as I did that my ex started pushing me every day more for me to get full license. He used that to control me more and to prove my boundaries.Basically they say to you " if I am not happy, no one else will be" and as Lee always says :is not your fault! We are empathic and that destroys them!
@onlinebuddy398
@onlinebuddy398 6 күн бұрын
@@marcealvarezg Oh my God. I feel like I'm reading my own words. When I made a significant amount of money at work and I was so happy, the next thing he said was "enjoy it while it lasts because you won't know when that money runs out."
@marcealvarezg
@marcealvarezg 6 күн бұрын
@onlinebuddy398 wow, it is important we are as smart as them in a good way. It is important too not to give toomuch information because they use it against us after because they envy us! Yes, because they cannot shine like us! Do not give to much information, keep the secret, you will see how they react. Keep safe and strong 💪🙏
@HeavenSent1120
@HeavenSent1120 15 күн бұрын
I do not talk to my mom on a regular basis sometimes it can be years. She called me and when I answer the phone she said Why the f*** are you so happy. And then she proceeded to call me every single day until she baited me into an argument and I haven't heard from her since. So all she wanted was for me to be upset.
@AdriaMiller-v7e
@AdriaMiller-v7e 15 күн бұрын
I've watched lots of videos the last couple of years, none of them hit quite like this! Competition. Its a freakin' competition!! Thank you so much!! 🎉
@yvette11111
@yvette11111 15 күн бұрын
Oh yes. I bought a new car....Mad. I got a new job....Mad. I walk around smiling...Mad. It was a miserable experience for sure.
@mandilynn24
@mandilynn24 15 күн бұрын
Straight up cowards that steal your joy. Their ego is busted, but act like it's grand. Hahah! Love it! ❤
@KristaGraff
@KristaGraff 15 күн бұрын
It’s crazy because he did matter. To me and our children. We all loved him so much.
@IsabellaPiesch
@IsabellaPiesch 14 күн бұрын
The question is: What about him? The sad truth is: Narcissists can´t love. So you have to see it as onesided love. I know it is hard but it´s just the truth!
@LisaTravis-m7e
@LisaTravis-m7e 15 күн бұрын
I remember telling him I got a raise and his face showed so much distain. The competition was ongoing in everything.
@1976smb
@1976smb 15 күн бұрын
Someone made one of the most bizarre comments I've ever heard about narcissists, especially female ones. Someone said that, despite not even planning on being intimate with you or wanting to date you, she wants you to be the only woman in her life and gets jealous and upset if you get with someone else and are happy. It's as if you're in the most intense friendship zone ever. All of you guys have been friend zoned; that is on a whole other level.
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 13 күн бұрын
Thanks SO very much LEE !!! ❤😊❤😊
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 13 күн бұрын
🙏🏽♥️
@donnas411
@donnas411 13 күн бұрын
I used to know someone who used to always tell me they wanted me to just be happy, but the way it was said seemed fake by the way it was said with no expression.
@valiizajames925
@valiizajames925 13 күн бұрын
That's Crazy...From my narc mother to people I no longer consider friends...this is one part of the cycle that I now see alot more clearly! For instance I think my ex was so angry that I could find contentment during Covid and that I believe was the tipping point for him!! Thank you for the explanations Lee and how they show up in practical ways because I now understand much more how insane and insidious narcissism really is! I had no clue...until GOD 4/2022! 🎉😢😢
@karenbowen3978
@karenbowen3978 14 күн бұрын
I have survived a incredible Narcissist relationship that was 6 years of pure hell and torment! Her sister called me to let me know that she was planning on clearing out my house after I went to work! She was planning on taking my dog. She was having an affair with someone across the country. When I packed her things and told her to go live with her daughter. All hell broke loose! She lost her ability to take EVERYTHING I had in my life! IF you are suffering the abuse of a narcissist? Dear one, You can do it! Get rid of the Devil in your life, Remember when they suck the marrow out of your bones and leave you for dead on the floor. They will step over your body and move on to their next victim! Thank You Jesus for setting Me FREE!
@Nicole-v2e8w
@Nicole-v2e8w 13 күн бұрын
He hated me being happy but was turned on by any other woman being happy or laughing out loud
@janenejones-t3j
@janenejones-t3j 14 күн бұрын
Yes. My sister said something similar to me. I cannot do better than her or be sicker. It is a competition.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 14 күн бұрын
💯
@tonyshaya
@tonyshaya 11 күн бұрын
I was searching for this information. They really jealous about our happiness, success, luck, good looking, having a good relations with family and friends, and even a good mood. I was always nice with him, modest a quiet. Otherwise it was enough for one more conflict. In the end I realised that I wasted years on person who jealous about time. The main treasure was my time. And he took some. We have 20y difference. And I still have years ahead, possibilities to start again, change life - and he don’t. This is the way his Ego works. The opposite from Love. And what I was doing called Patience - the opposite from Life. He is the moon reflecting a sun light, but the moon is a piece of rock, not a star.
@nikkiall-smiles4943
@nikkiall-smiles4943 13 күн бұрын
This is correct. Every time I post an inspirational post my soon to be ex husband posts a TikTok video bashing me. So far he’s done 30 in one month. So now my social media is private.
@patriziastella6564
@patriziastella6564 15 күн бұрын
Yes, Lee he was saying things to me in the last 12mnths before we split up saying "oh me & my girls deserve to be happy i cannot make you happy" "im a failure im not good enough for you" He also went on a dating app while i was on there & warning me to be careful hahaha like what the hell i had to watch out for him being on there stalking me 🤣🤣 I believe he is still hoovering me & checking up on me after 2 yrs i dont respond & ignore. Their such a looser 🤣 & his got a new supply but still reaching out to me.
@JanetSnakehole28
@JanetSnakehole28 14 күн бұрын
Not just special moments, either. My parents despised my contentment with my 'poor person' lifestyle and how I wasn't interested in whatever jewellery or antiques they bought that week. I don't do the status and superficial window dressing stuff, and I've never understood it. I left home young and never asked them for money, even when I was homeless. My 'oh crap, run fool run' moment was when they suddenly wanted to buy me a house. I know a gilded cage when I see one, so I went no contact, lol. They hated how I'd always bounce back from a crisis, too. Got a big discard when I bounced back from homelessness, had adapted to a new normal and was genuinely happy. I could see them thinking 'omg, why won't you stay down' every time.
@glowieokenney7915
@glowieokenney7915 15 күн бұрын
Gosh, EVERYTHING you say is right on!!!!!!
@glowieokenney7915
@glowieokenney7915 15 күн бұрын
Yup, my husband put his hands around my neck 2 years ago because I was filled with joy on Christmas Eve. Just sickening!!! I just don’t get it. What could have killed me, made me stronger. I completely ignore him now. We are getting divorced thankfully. It’s so messed up that my authentic happiness makes my husband upset.
@janenejones-t3j
@janenejones-t3j 14 күн бұрын
They will minimize good and bad because they are secretly jealous.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 14 күн бұрын
💯
@lorettaalexander1152
@lorettaalexander1152 15 күн бұрын
Got to say and mean “I’m not gonna take this 💩
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
🎯
@AudreysBrains
@AudreysBrains 14 күн бұрын
OMG The Office reference wowww my whole KZbin life has come together 😂
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 14 күн бұрын
😆
@michellecoleman1627
@michellecoleman1627 14 күн бұрын
What’s crazy is you try to keep them cheerful but they such a pain in the you know what you really don’t know what to do
@mollykayramstack6193
@mollykayramstack6193 11 күн бұрын
13:42 He would always take credit for anything I did. If we had a party~ and I (of course, because he didn't do crap) cleaned, cooked, set up and prepared everything - when people arrived, yep! He did everything! And after, he'd tell me everyone had such a great time because of him. The delusion is epically off the charts!!
@candyc6057
@candyc6057 13 күн бұрын
Its always a competition with them literally always. My ex and certain family members I realized after dealing with my ex was like this but I never knew then but they will watch everything you do though and low key or sometimes upfront wish you bad or start breaking you down. I keep my distant do not make anyone family, ex, friend or foe steal your joy or peace of mind because of their misery.
@CheriseBright
@CheriseBright 14 күн бұрын
Yeah but they also downplay it when you’re miserable because it couldn’t possibly be worse than what they’re going through. Told my mom my 11 year old has a terrible chronic illness for which there is no treatment or cure and she complained about having to drive home from work in the rain.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 14 күн бұрын
🎯
@Shortlady82
@Shortlady82 15 күн бұрын
It’s even more effed up when it’s your own parent. Never understood growing up why narc step parent would get so enraged when me and my siblings were in a good mood.
@_Angela289
@_Angela289 14 күн бұрын
This is exactly what I went through 😮
@walkernicole26
@walkernicole26 9 күн бұрын
In parentage court with my ex. He dragged me back (he is still inconsistent and disrespectful plays games using kids ect knowing court just lets him do whatever) he wants regardless. I moved on into a healthy happy relationship after we separated at some point and now have a newborn. Part of my ex smearing is I'm on drugs, implied multiple times I sell my body, negligent towards kids ect. So while he states "I'm not trying to get her in trouble *proceeds to drag out some lie he is implying*" Gets down to point saying I'm a negligent parent, because I'm on drugs that'd mean not only would the two kids he and have together be taken away so would my newborn. Talk about being so bitter that someone that took abuse and the kids you share with someone is happy and healthy (him) your admitting to being willing to make kids suffer (including one that's not his). It was ironically funny to me, when (if there's any partial truth to it) that I found out he tried to get sympathy and claim the assigned GAL (kids attorney judge put in place) he was going to complain to judge that the the GAL was disrespectful to him asking did he even care about our kids bc he didn't pay anything or work out a payment plan. Na i believe my ex thought i couldn't pay. He def doesn't want to pay, yet dragged me to court for attention and judge assigned GAL expecting over a $1,000 from us each. I know my ex he lying to a degree, but I guarantee he is upset bc he possibly: 1. Told lawyer he'd give him something and didn't (I'm pretty sure the GAL wasn't disrespectful, he wasnt to me.) So bc ex knows he didn't ever intend to pay any attorney nor has the $$ he needs to be the victim and trying to use the exaggeration that attorney was disrespectful to him. Wholetime court is/has literally catered to my ex bc they only care if he abuses or probably prefer he try to kill them as he did me. Until then court decided I'm just delusional and no facts (screenshots of un-alterted messages parenting app of doing everything but threatening me and kids physically. He has talked to me any kind of way, changed every visit/canceled, harrassed me at at work ect. I'm hoping one thing if the judge who clearly is giving him everything at least gets offended that my ex didn't RESPECT HER COURT ORDER FOR GAL. At some point even when judges pick who they favor they can still get annoyed enough and get tired of the person they favor. Question is: how many court sessions until this clown judge on a black robe gets tired of him when he disrespects her instead of continuing to GIVE HIM SYMPATHY KNOWING HE PLAYING HER.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 9 күн бұрын
oh my goodness
@michellecoleman1627
@michellecoleman1627 14 күн бұрын
Yesss omg when I passed my classes to become an foster parent he was so dry about like okay anyone can do that I’m like huh 🤔 this something I really wanted you know that why not support me I felt the hate from him.
@ShaydaJewelsFeeley-v7i
@ShaydaJewelsFeeley-v7i 14 күн бұрын
They love to ruin a special occasion!!
@isoldeandseamusclubhouse2863
@isoldeandseamusclubhouse2863 14 күн бұрын
My happiness would illuminate their unhappiness. They couldn’t ignore it anymore or pretend to be okay… so I was punished.
@isoldeandseamusclubhouse2863
@isoldeandseamusclubhouse2863 14 күн бұрын
Pretending to be happy and fulfilled must be exhausting. Especially for people who lie to themselves
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 14 күн бұрын
🙏
@IsabellaPiesch
@IsabellaPiesch 14 күн бұрын
Because they are in a competition with you. And they are unlucky people. So if you are happy - it is simple against their persona (their ego). But I am at peace now - so I am happy.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 14 күн бұрын
🙏
@cathyjennings5580
@cathyjennings5580 13 күн бұрын
Happy feelings, joys are a choice for self!!! Emotional Choices. 😮
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 13 күн бұрын
😶
@Nicole-v2e8w
@Nicole-v2e8w 15 күн бұрын
Yip it takes its toll .. to not be yourself bcoz you dont want to trigger him
@michellecoleman1627
@michellecoleman1627 14 күн бұрын
No matter if they go more then you going on or anything
@foxiefair123
@foxiefair123 15 күн бұрын
Why would a man compete with a woman? Don’t men like it when they have a nice looking woman with him that tries to take care of herself for him?
@JustMe-nm2gx
@JustMe-nm2gx 15 күн бұрын
You would think 🤔 😩
@glowieokenney7915
@glowieokenney7915 15 күн бұрын
28 years of that crap
@rushininglightcortez6235
@rushininglightcortez6235 14 күн бұрын
It irritates my mom that I'm happy without her around. Even bitter 😂
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 14 күн бұрын
😆
@nicholecornes1915
@nicholecornes1915 15 күн бұрын
😂 let their asses goooo
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
🏃‍♀️
@glowieokenney7915
@glowieokenney7915 15 күн бұрын
@@MentalHealness100
@AGB_RECORDS
@AGB_RECORDS 15 күн бұрын
They see you out in about having fun or smiling and they will say your a show off
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
!
@hunsbuns...
@hunsbuns... 15 күн бұрын
Yes, I would call others before him to tell then exciting news or happiness, I knew I would get made to feel like s**t if I told him!
@Analist_altijd_elegance
@Analist_altijd_elegance 15 күн бұрын
Need some advice. I dealt with a narcissist and am traumabonded to one I have last seen years ago. I just met him and I noticed red flags and decided not to see him anymore, I followed my intuition but couldn't cut off contact due to the traumabond. For years we had contact where he was furious I wouldn't want to meet with him anymore but I kept following my intuition. We haven't had contact now for 1.5 years. Still I miss him and I crave contact eventhough I won't contact him, even when I have contact with him I wouldn't ever meet up with him anyway. I have trouble 'feeling' the bad things he did, I made a list a few things of the bad things he've done, but my brain just doesn't engage in those bad things. My brain only focusses on the good things, I know WHY this happens, but even when I make lists in details and feel the emotions of the bad things, my brain just still only focusses on the good things. I repeat, I know why this happens but what is the SOLUTION to this? I want to see him as he is but I have trouble doing so.
@msgapeach
@msgapeach 14 күн бұрын
Cognitive dissonance
@JJ-zv2vc
@JJ-zv2vc 15 күн бұрын
my narc bf now ex- ruined EVERY SINGLE HOLIDAY INCLUDING MY BDAY. n my narc sister ruined holiday and dinner events as well. Exam- I was happy n just being myself n she began targeting me and gave me a back handed compliment but I corrected her and dismissed her and it was like a literal slap on the face for her I could see her dumb founded expression on her face and it's like it throws them off when you stick to your guns and remain happy. Like they aim to bring you down. So... GLOW BABY.
@glowieokenney7915
@glowieokenney7915 15 күн бұрын
Sooooo true
@ThorAllMighty7333
@ThorAllMighty7333 15 күн бұрын
Malicious envy is theirs internal driver…
@frederickamelbourne1331
@frederickamelbourne1331 15 күн бұрын
Lee My Ex Narc told me to be happy with someone else just don't jump into marrying the first person. In one ear and out the other ....
@tinaprobert1550
@tinaprobert1550 14 күн бұрын
Why are they so sick in the head. My narc hated me being happy. So what did he do ??? Yes he cheated on me. Worra bloody arsehole.
@kimberlywilliams9635
@kimberlywilliams9635 15 күн бұрын
Hello Lee🤗
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
Hello 😊
@janenejones-t3j
@janenejones-t3j 14 күн бұрын
My ex is going to go against me. I have to lie and say it happened to someone else. He is so shallow that it hurts.
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 14 күн бұрын
Protect your peace
@nanettesimon9388
@nanettesimon9388 15 күн бұрын
Its called jealouse
@CTahoe1
@CTahoe1 15 күн бұрын
is it in the water or what? Why so many Narcissists everywhere,,,,
@AquariusWoman32
@AquariusWoman32 11 күн бұрын
Very sad
@NS-id7ff
@NS-id7ff 9 күн бұрын
Hehehehahahahuhuhu 😁 always authentically happy 😎🥳😏 thankyou god 🥰
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 9 күн бұрын
🤭🤭
@iAmYourKarma1111
@iAmYourKarma1111 15 күн бұрын
Hello
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
👋
@zachmccloskey7011
@zachmccloskey7011 14 күн бұрын
No shit my good days were turned into bad days soon as I got home h8 narcissistic women
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 14 күн бұрын
😥
@WendyDrayke
@WendyDrayke 15 күн бұрын
First!
@MentalHealness
@MentalHealness 15 күн бұрын
🎖️
@glowieokenney7915
@glowieokenney7915 15 күн бұрын
Imagine competing with the one you are supposed to love?!!!!! So sick!!!!! 🤢
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