WHY DO PEOPLE MARRY? What was Your reason for marrying? by Fr Nelson Lobo OFM Cap

People marry for various reasons and intentions such as for companionship, for old age security, for procreation, for thrill of the ceremony, to satisfy sexual desires etc.

[@agneloquadros6916]

Beautiful fr.Nelson lobo it's true story

[@ritafernandesfernandes1867]

Very nice sermon good fr nowadays marriage is not reality its like game nobody can understand no love no God's blessing 🙏 this days no responsibility of marriage

[@blanchdsouza2127]

What a wonderful homily, explained real meaning of Sacrament of marriage, but the world has abused and misused and taken for granted..

[@samfurtado5971]

Very good sermon and a very sound advice by Fr. Nelson Lobo to people already married, those couples divorced and those seeking to marry or seeking Annulment.. Great advice by this well learned Priest in the name of GOD and our Lord Jesus. My humble request to all those who are planning to take a plunge into a married life first seek marriage counselling from Priests well versed in Matrimony, especially priest like Fr. Nelson Lobo. May GOD guide all those people who are planning to get Marred and ask the Lord his Blessings. AND REMEMBER WELL DEAR BROTHERS AND SISTERS ONCE MARRIED THERE SHALL BE NO TURNING BACK UNDER ALL CIRCUMSTANCES "TILL DEATH DO US APART" AMEN. DON'T BREAK THE SACRAMENTAL VOW WHICH YOU TOOK IN CHURCH BEFORE MAN AND GOD, BY SAYING THE WORD "I DO" IT'S AN OATH YOU ARE TAKING BEFORE GOD AND PROMISE TO OBEY THE SACRAMENT. So please ask the Lord Jesus before plunging into married Life whether you will able to uphold the Sacramental vow or not, if not better remain without marriage and devote your time to God and humanity. This would be a great Blessings from the Almighty GOD. Amen!

[@sharmilapereira8355]

Very nice talk Fr Nelson. May all our young married couples n planning to get married know the real meaning of marriage. God bless u Fr

[@veronicamartins2103]

Bravo Fr. Nelson. Nice preaching. I enjoyed listening to it. God bless you Fr. Nelson.

[@gracypereira315]

Excellent ! Fr. you have covered all the best points of marriage.

[@vicentinacosta3766]

Very nice sermon fr God bless you abundantly

[@petersequeira680]

Beautiful meaningful Sermon Fr. Nelson u have explained about the marriage life. It's true specifically happened in our goan Catholic family. May God bless you in your future Priestley life 🙏.

[@marthafernandes4198]

Very beautiful sharmu fr Nelson Lobo God bless you 🙏🙏

[@pascoal524]

What a beautiful and meaningful homily.Only if all follows it the world would have been a heaven.Bless oh Lord the marriages.

[@rosadmello5253]

. Very thought provoking sermon. God bless you father

[@mariamagdalenaalmeidaevale9495]

Very thought provoking and intro prospective ❗️

[@martinrodrigues9894]

Very Much inspiring Sermon fr G

[@fshdyhdudjrj8060]

Yes Fr, this is true story

[@erenaathaide9365]

very heart touching homily

[@perpetuafernandes6594]

Thank you father for such a heart touching sermon.

[@agostinhodebraganca2709]

Praise the Lord Father, Almighty God Bless you abundantly with his blessings 🙌

[@valenciafernandes1287]

Most beautiful word of God.each a every word. " Manun gevunk zata tanne manun gevchem"

[@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441]

A beautiful association made as manmade marriage with money, asset, facilities, etc. wrapped with dowry of world venom and the beauty - charm of Elysium; thereby spoils it. This association is between two individuals but two families in it and lot of dear and near one’s of both sides. With the intention of constructive association however late it becomes destructive, sour, fighting, divorce, etc. because the intention of beginning vanishes. Companionship: A Respectful responsibility to understand and behave accordingly and lead a healthy and beautiful life but in times it becomes doing because do. Thereby making own and others life miserable - vulnerable. An association of two individuals thereby their families, but the worldly burden put on the shoulder of that beautiful family plant. That family plant, supposed to near buds and after that buds into flowers. But worldly burdens spoil that beautiful association. Dowry, Asset, etc. (which is no worth because the part of parents property comes to the partner), home loan, vehicle loan, etc. For children, education loan also. Finding a Slavery (a job) etc. Over and above physical interaction and bearing expenses are the two practices the partner supposed to do, all other things the partner self has to do. Beauty I.e. selfless disappears and in that place selfishness take seat. Beauty of partner disappears and finding a new one. Partner and dear and near one’s becomes as a burden. In the beginning there were beauty in all and decided to be a lifelong association of two but later the same individuals could not see beauty at all and better of all, alas gone with the world and broken the beauty for lust ride, greed, suicide and self destruction mode. Without knowing each other and all, everything was good later…… To become a slave there are plenty of higher studies... but the truth is that there is no course or teaching on earth for this crucial subject. If one can lead one's life with selfless goals and lead the life of others, family life is 100 times better or to fulfill one's selfishness, nuclear family life can ruin life and then lead to slow death. The joint family is natural and excellent. Only patience is enough Control emotional outbursts and disturbances compared to the nuclear family. In a nuclear family, one has to bear all the expenses, debts, loans, borrowings and all the burdens. Then, see how mankind live happily ever after on earth, at all times, in all circumstances, during their lifetime. Respect to self and others, caring, responsibilities. Mutual trust of partners. Faith is not hypocrisy or showmanship. Learn and live life without living as it seems: natural: simple and serene. Minimal consumption of food and everything. Silence, less or More, Hyper, Loud. What course did you take to study life? You have actually done nothing, instead live only with the pain of the world of barking and screaming. physical relation is enough for birth of a child? The truth is that there is no course or teaching on earth for this crucial subject. If you are right then little money, wealth name is enough. Abundance in everything…

[@jasmineafonso326]

Nice explaination fr Nelson

[@ritafernandes8996]

Very nice sermon father God bless you abundantly

[@eliassouza4014]

Best sermon

[@LORD-IS-MY-SHEPHERD3161]

Thanks and God bless you dear Fr. Nelson, for being a blessing in our lives. This is most meaningful sermon, which touched my heart. Only prayers can save marriages other than anything. You just enlightened our minds. May the Lord give you good health and keep you, to change our future generation! 🙏✝️

[@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441]

A beautiful association made as manmade marriage with money, asset, facilities, etc. wrapped with dowry of world venom and the beauty - charm of Elysium; thereby spoils it. This association is between two individuals but two families in it and lot of dear and near one’s of both sides. With the intention of constructive association however late it becomes destructive, sour, fighting, divorce, etc. because the intention of beginning vanishes. Companionship: A Respectful responsibility to understand and behave accordingly and lead a healthy and beautiful life but in times it becomes doing because do. Thereby making own and others life miserable - vulnerable. An association of two individuals thereby their families, but the worldly burden put on the shoulder of that beautiful family plant. That family plant, supposed to near buds and after that buds into flowers. But worldly burdens spoil that beautiful association. Dowry, Asset, etc. (which is no worth because the part of parents property comes to the partner), home loan, vehicle loan, etc. For children, education loan also. Finding a Slavery (a job) etc. Over and above physical interaction and bearing expenses are the two practices the partner supposed to do, all other things the partner self has to do. Beauty I.e. selfless disappears and in that place selfishness take seat. Beauty of partner disappears and finding a new one. Partner and dear and near one’s becomes as a burden. In the beginning there were beauty in all and decided to be a lifelong association of two but later the same individuals could not see beauty at all and better of all, alas gone with the world and broken the beauty for lust ride, greed, suicide and self destruction mode. Without knowing each other and all, everything was good later…… To become a slave there are plenty of higher studies... but the truth is that there is no course or teaching on earth for this crucial subject. If one can lead one's life with selfless goals and lead the life of others, family life is 100 times better or to fulfill one's selfishness, nuclear family life can ruin life and then lead to slow death. The joint family is natural and excellent. Only patience is enough Control emotional outbursts and disturbances compared to the nuclear family. In a nuclear family, one has to bear all the expenses, debts, loans, borrowings and all the burdens. Then, see how mankind live happily ever after on earth, at all times, in all circumstances, during their lifetime. Respect to self and others, caring, responsibilities. Mutual trust of partners. Faith is not hypocrisy or showmanship. Learn and live life without living as it seems: natural: simple and serene. Minimal consumption of food and everything. Silence, less or More, Hyper, Loud. What course did you take to study life? You have actually done nothing, instead live only with the pain of the world of barking and screaming. physical relation is enough for birth of a child? The truth is that there is no course or teaching on earth for this crucial subject. If you are right then little money, wealth name is enough. Abundance in everything…

[@sherylfernandes907]

Lovely 👌👌👌👌..... beautiful Homily 🙏🙏🙏

[@peppydias4527]

Rev. Father Nelson it would be nice if you could translate this in English and other languages as well. This will save many married couples and the family.

[@aurorafernandes6962]

Father please pray for us gift of child Edward and Aurora Fernandes. God bless u father, very interesting . Yes we should pray for everyone.

[@judithxavier9021]

Married couples should not stay in their parents house and refrain from making public their marital difficulties, not even their family members but offer it to Jesus. In time they will learn to adjust and be each other's strength.

[@xavierfernandes6201]

God bless you dear fr. Nelson Lobo. 🙏

[@tymeline5283]

Some husbands wants caretakers to take care of their parents. Because you don't have to pay these caretakers.

[@anitafernandes3076]

God bless you Fr.Nelson.

[@ceciliofernandes4582]

Spoken truth father very nice sermon

[@joswinfernandes2853]

Very true fr. It's same happens in our every day's life..yet but we must surrender to God....

[@jagdishdias2181]

Fr father you say really true

[@rossdsouza6232]

Nice sermon ❤father very true reality ❤ this is cocktail world nonsense happenin 😢 kazari bail n akvar boy , married men and akvar choddu and unwanted divorces pls pray for everyone 🙏 and players dont marry and spoil others life

[@sweetyfernandes3342]

God bless you fr.Nelson

[@rivarebello1509]

So true your words are, Fr. Nelson. May it benifit for those married, and also those who are going to get married. God bless you Fr.🙏

[@alexmascarenhas3220]

Thank u

[@carminefernandes2837]

God bless you fr.very-very meangful sermon 👏

[@MrPfurtado]

Long live Fr Nelson and other priest to cast away satan from seperating marrisges. GOD made one .HE made another one .HE called them one. Sex is a beautiful gift from GOD to be enjoyed between married couples only. Increase and multiply said GOD ...,,,,,,,

[@zionkolkebail730]

👌👌Reality of modern marriages explained so beautifully. Its an eye opener. Thank u father for a wonderful sermon. 🙏🙏

[@tymeline5283]

Ita mostly husbands mom or sister. As bachelor's brother gives and shows everything to his sister well after getting married he does not give so here everything starts . Bachelor time he used to give sister but now his wife is there. He has to think of his future. The same sisters treat their husbands same way will that sister allow

[@lugialugia8153]

What a beautiful and meaningful sermon Fr. Nelson. God bless you Fr.

[@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441]

A beautiful association made as manmade marriage with money, asset, facilities, etc. wrapped with dowry of world venom and the beauty - charm of Elysium; thereby spoils it. This association is between two individuals but two families in it and lot of dear and near one’s of both sides. With the intention of constructive association however late it becomes destructive, sour, fighting, divorce, etc. because the intention of beginning vanishes. Companionship: A Respectful responsibility to understand and behave accordingly and lead a healthy and beautiful life but in times it becomes doing because do. Thereby making own and others life miserable - vulnerable. An association of two individuals thereby their families, but the worldly burden put on the shoulder of that beautiful family plant. That family plant, supposed to near buds and after that buds into flowers. But worldly burdens spoil that beautiful association. Dowry, Asset, etc. (which is no worth because the part of parents property comes to the partner), home loan, vehicle loan, etc. For children, education loan also. Finding a Slavery (a job) etc. Over and above physical interaction and bearing expenses are the two practices the partner supposed to do, all other things the partner self has to do. Beauty I.e. selfless disappears and in that place selfishness take seat. Beauty of partner disappears and finding a new one. Partner and dear and near one’s becomes as a burden. In the beginning there were beauty in all and decided to be a lifelong association of two but later the same individuals could not see beauty at all and better of all, alas gone with the world and broken the beauty for lust ride, greed, suicide and self destruction mode. Without knowing each other and all, everything was good later…… To become a slave there are plenty of higher studies... but the truth is that there is no course or teaching on earth for this crucial subject. If one can lead one's life with selfless goals and lead the life of others, family life is 100 times better or to fulfill one's selfishness, nuclear family life can ruin life and then lead to slow death. The joint family is natural and excellent. Only patience is enough Control emotional outbursts and disturbances compared to the nuclear family. In a nuclear family, one has to bear all the expenses, debts, loans, borrowings and all the burdens. Then, see how mankind live happily ever after on earth, at all times, in all circumstances, during their lifetime. Respect to self and others, caring, responsibilities. Mutual trust of partners. Faith is not hypocrisy or showmanship. Learn and live life without living as it seems: natural: simple and serene. Minimal consumption of food and everything. Silence, less or More, Hyper, Loud. What course did you take to study life? You have actually done nothing, instead live only with the pain of the world of barking and screaming. physical relation is enough for birth of a child? The truth is that there is no course or teaching on earth for this crucial subject. If you are right then little money, wealth name is enough. Abundance in everything…

[@christinedacosta7946]

Absolutely Spot On Fr.nelson..."The real Power of Man is in the size of the smile of the Woman sitting next to him." You are an asset...not only to the State of Goa...or India our Motherland...but also to the World at large...shine on.👌

[@manishafernandes8808]

Absolutely true🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@cynthiarai1226]

👍🥰

[@camilofernandes1997]

As long as the tubelight gives you bright light, jolly good. If not to bediscarded and get a new tubelight.

[@filomenarodrigues6465]

Very nice you spoke about marriage life father almighty God bless all marriage familys amen 🙏

[@tonyfernandes1776]

Fr. Pray for our Happy Married life Cyril and Hazel

[@eliasdsouza9398]

Very True Fr. Nelson. Thank you for the beautiful word's... 🙏

[@marianthomasdcosta2286]

Best sermon to lead married life

[@jocyleenfernandes578]

Fr Nelson , Your explanation on marriage is excellent.Those who r planning to get married must watch this video

[@peppydias4527]

Amen.

[@maviacardozo8263]

Wow ! What an excellent explanation Fr Nelson, lovely sermon. Heart touching words, before getting married all should do little bit homework, understanding and patience is more important in married life. really like your video. God bless you always Fr.

[@valentinasequeira5087]

Well explained fr. Thankyou

[@saritacarvalho9617]

Yes understanding n patience is of utmost importance n With God by your side you get the Grace to carry the cross in the marriage.

[@maggievaz8185]

Very nice Sermon , Fr Nelson ,God bless you.

[@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441]

A beautiful association made as manmade marriage with money, asset, facilities, etc. wrapped with dowry of world venom and the beauty - charm of Elysium; thereby spoils it. This association is between two individuals but two families in it and lot of dear and near one’s of both sides. With the intention of constructive association however late it becomes destructive, sour, fighting, divorce, etc. because the intention of beginning vanishes. Companionship: A Respectful responsibility to understand and behave accordingly and lead a healthy and beautiful life but in times it becomes doing because do. Thereby making own and others life miserable - vulnerable. An association of two individuals thereby their families, but the worldly burden put on the shoulder of that beautiful family plant. That family plant, supposed to near buds and after that buds into flowers. But worldly burdens spoil that beautiful association. Dowry, Asset, etc. (which is no worth because the part of parents property comes to the partner), home loan, vehicle loan, etc. For children, education loan also. Finding a Slavery (a job) etc. Over and above physical interaction and bearing expenses are the two practices the partner supposed to do, all other things the partner self has to do. Beauty I.e. selfless disappears and in that place selfishness take seat. Beauty of partner disappears and finding a new one. Partner and dear and near one’s becomes as a burden. In the beginning there were beauty in all and decided to be a lifelong association of two but later the same individuals could not see beauty at all and better of all, alas gone with the world and broken the beauty for lust ride, greed, suicide and self destruction mode. Without knowing each other and all, everything was good later…… To become a slave there are plenty of higher studies... but the truth is that there is no course or teaching on earth for this crucial subject. If one can lead one's life with selfless goals and lead the life of others, family life is 100 times better or to fulfill one's selfishness, nuclear family life can ruin life and then lead to slow death. The joint family is natural and excellent. Only patience is enough Control emotional outbursts and disturbances compared to the nuclear family. In a nuclear family, one has to bear all the expenses, debts, loans, borrowings and all the burdens. Then, see how mankind live happily ever after on earth, at all times, in all circumstances, during their lifetime. Respect to self and others, caring, responsibilities. Mutual trust of partners. Faith is not hypocrisy or showmanship. Learn and live life without living as it seems: natural: simple and serene. Minimal consumption of food and everything. Silence, less or More, Hyper, Loud. What course did you take to study life? You have actually done nothing, instead live only with the pain of the world of barking and screaming. physical relation is enough for birth of a child? The truth is that there is no course or teaching on earth for this crucial subject. If you are right then little money, wealth name is enough. Abundance in everything…

[@willy200970]

Beautiful

[@camilovaz3621]

God bless you Father

[@jujupires4845]

God bless you father

[@bettycastanha8346]

Very beautiful sermon fr Nelson God bless you

[@serenagodinho4967]

Thank you fr Nelson may almighty God bless you and your family 🙏

[@valentinafernandes6731]

God bless you Fr good sermon

[@Cgj899]

After a week a husband complain about his wife to his mother and then it is all hell let loose... The mother is the main reason for separation and divorce... Son is told to leave his wife and find another... Or it will be the daughter who talks 24x7 to her mother... Asking for advice how to treat her husband... Today they look married but actually they are 24x7 asking their parents to help them... Lacs spent on a grand wedding but in less than a year they are living alone and out to find another innocent person and again marry then the same thing happen and again another divorce and again another marriage.. This is on account of the interference and harassment and fights of mothers and sisters who break up marriages and relationship..

[@merwyndmello1945]

If there is no understanding, no respect, no open communication, then no matter who tells whom what, nothing is going to change. Nothing from inside the house should go out of the house, [(not even the wife's mother)]. Right is Right and Wrong is Wrong. One information leaked to the neighbor, and that is the beginning of the end. Marriage Courses should focus on explaining about the marriage vows more and elaborate on it with examples.

[@user-et3gb3my5q]

my dear husband and wife always be united your life partner 💕

[@micheallobo5810]

PRAISE THE LORD AMEN 🙏 🙏 🙏

[@pradeepfernandis]

Good way of marriage..

[@domnicdsouza8328]

beautiful sermon fr Nelson...very true...

[@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441]

A beautiful association made as manmade marriage with money, asset, facilities, etc. wrapped with dowry of world venom and the beauty - charm of Elysium; thereby spoils it. This association is between two individuals but two families in it and lot of dear and near one’s of both sides. With the intention of constructive association however late it becomes destructive, sour, fighting, divorce, etc. because the intention of beginning vanishes. Companionship: A Respectful responsibility to understand and behave accordingly and lead a healthy and beautiful life but in times it becomes doing because do. Thereby making own and others life miserable - vulnerable. An association of two individuals thereby their families, but the worldly burden put on the shoulder of that beautiful family plant. That family plant, supposed to near buds and after that buds into flowers. But worldly burdens spoil that beautiful association. Dowry, Asset, etc. (which is no worth because the part of parents property comes to the partner), home loan, vehicle loan, etc. For children, education loan also. Finding a Slavery (a job) etc. Over and above physical interaction and bearing expenses are the two practices the partner supposed to do, all other things the partner self has to do. Beauty I.e. selfless disappears and in that place selfishness take seat. Beauty of partner disappears and finding a new one. Partner and dear and near one’s becomes as a burden. In the beginning there were beauty in all and decided to be a lifelong association of two but later the same individuals could not see beauty at all and better of all, alas gone with the world and broken the beauty for lust ride, greed, suicide and self destruction mode. Without knowing each other and all, everything was good later…… To become a slave there are plenty of higher studies... but the truth is that there is no course or teaching on earth for this crucial subject. If one can lead one's life with selfless goals and lead the life of others, family life is 100 times better or to fulfill one's selfishness, nuclear family life can ruin life and then lead to slow death. The joint family is natural and excellent. Only patience is enough Control emotional outbursts and disturbances compared to the nuclear family. In a nuclear family, one has to bear all the expenses, debts, loans, borrowings and all the burdens. Then, see how mankind live happily ever after on earth, at all times, in all circumstances, during their lifetime. Respect to self and others, caring, responsibilities. Mutual trust of partners. Faith is not hypocrisy or showmanship. Learn and live life without living as it seems: natural: simple and serene. Minimal consumption of food and everything. Silence, less or More, Hyper, Loud. What course did you take to study life? You have actually done nothing, instead live only with the pain of the world of barking and screaming. physical relation is enough for birth of a child? The truth is that there is no course or teaching on earth for this crucial subject. If you are right then little money, wealth name is enough. Abundance in everything…

[@teodoracardozo8463]

Nice sermon Fr Nelson God bless you

[@aurorafernandes6962]

God bless you father very true

[@jenifarodrigues9359]

👌

[@shanthabangera2446]

Father it would be very nice if this message could be in english

[@anapereira5065]

🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@estefaniafernandes406]

Father please pray for me for gift of child father now my husband is not making me good he beat me gaving bad word my mother is low and borther in law also saying me that I am not good what to Father pray for my husband please thank you Father god bless you Father 🙏🏿

[@josephinevaz2049]

Sister I will surely pray for you, don't worry sister. God loves you sister

[@danfordfernandes6579]

I also will pray for you sister,, may God bless you n give you what you need in your life. Praise you Jesus ❤️

[@sebastianadiniz3748]

❤🙏

[@alexmascarenhas3220]

Father

[@mymemories4849]

God knows why they marry...specially men...would have been good if they did not...

[@joaquimgomes9616]

Father , where is gospel words .you have said only worldly words. Explain from gospel,word which Jesus has spoken. Meaning of it. Please 😊😊

[@alexmascarenhas3220]

Thank u