WHY DO WE FEEL SO ALONE IN OUR 20s?!?

[@arivelreads]

im feeling extremely alone right now so this is about to be one of the most comforting episodes ever… i hope i dont cry too much i love you guys

[@anaj4248]

I hope your next days become a little sunnier, happier, healthier and you can get past this feeling 🩷

[@bakhtawar6411]

i hope and pray for ease for you :)

[@arivelreads]

@@anaj4248 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@arivelreads]

@@bakhtawar6411 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@suburbtalks623]

Sending you love and healing ❤️🫂

[@arivelreads]

i so badly want nick to find love he truly deserves it and more he’s my comfort person

[@murr8799]

Small manners like Sean waiting to eat the cake till Maru finishes cutting everyone's is so attractive

[@itstw1sh]

MARU WITH GLASSES IS SO CUTEEE!!

[@Victoria-wr3gn]

the eye bags Devin nick and Sage have is how yk they partied crazy😭😭

[@rubyx9654]

Their voices too lmao

[@suburbtalks623]

It was in fact a long weekend😭

[@Delta_pmRadio]

MY GOAT MARU IS BACKKKKKK

[@suburbtalks623]

🐐🐐

[@anaj4248]

Loneliness is such a hard feeling to process especially seeing other people have someone they can rely on. Things change just trust that you will find your people. Don’t hide who you are. You will never be truly alone. Please seek others and open yourself up to new possibilities. Life is changing and things will get hard but you’re stronger than you think you are. You are resilient. To have a better future you will need to leave your current life to begin the next one. Success comes to the ones that are actively seeing and working for it. Look back at what you’ve survived so far. You’re here for a reason. It’s okay to take breaks!! You are on your own timeline. Everything does happen for a reason. Trust in yourself. Surround yourself with love. There is always a way to succeed. Take each day as a blessing because you get closer to your success story each day. Know your strengths but also know your weaknesses. Loneliness isn’t forever. Love you guys!! Also Nick you make 66 look good. Happy Birthday!! And to everyone else in the podcast involved congratulations on being who you are because you are all lovely. ❤

[@suburbtalks623]

❤️❤️❤️

[@jenn_fromtheblock]

22:24 wasn’t expecting nick to look like he’s in a 2000s daddy yankee video 😭😭

[@Remix22561]

59:35 I think sage has a great point about smoking. Especially for people that are trying to use it to get over something specific like stress. It always is good at first because of the feeling but then comes the added effects of starting to rely on it too much. Stay away from drugs.

[@Emily12387]

I think learning to be comfortable with being by yourself and not having to rely on others for entertainment is rlly important , needing others for your enjoyment makes you dependent on them and when they're not able to be there , you feel alone and depressed that's why I think it's important you be so rooted in yourself that nobody's absence disturbs your peace or happiness. ps I love yall sm ❤

[@suburbtalks623]

Couldn’t have said it any better🫶

[@ohok_gen]

FINALLY SARU SITTING TOGETHER 🫶💗

[@MusicLoser]

This really made me feel better bc I get it when yall were talking about hanging with your friends and you get that high from being with them and then when you’re alone after that it’s so lonely and sad watching this made me feel so seen with my emotions I love yall so much♥️

[@stephadlt]

the title alone made me tear up omg??

[@rileylynn5816]

I cried

[@Lara-s5q1t]

Best episode saru siting together , happy birthday nick

[@sarahichavez4772]

dude the not wanting to text back segment is so real i thought i was the only one with this habit and hearing other people relating helps me feel so much better 😭😭

[@extremelydepressedninersfan]

Alex & David chilling in the back was such a vibe 🤙

[@gisellesalinas]

needed this so bad my absent dad recently passed i’m abt to be 19 next week and i have been having so many conflicting feelings. but i’ve been rewatching yalls old videos for comfort and yall have been so helpful and yalls different povs have been helping me navigate these weird feelings , i appreciate yall more than yall will ever know.thank you🩷🩷

[@cloverking4206]

I just want to let yall know that yall are doing amazing work. I just lost my mom last month and yall have given me so much comfort and wisdom so I thank yall. Keep working hard yall are amazing

[@gabbiewright]

i’ve never felt so validated by a video and its comment section like this before🥺

[@suburbtalks623]

In the suburb talks community, we all fam!

[@jackies7292]

devin & sean, come home the kids miss yall 🧎🏻‍♀️

[@cierramedeiros2403]

for someone who has been feeling the loneliest I've ever felt, this episode is probably my top 3 favorite. you guys really know how to talk on certain subjects and make your viewers feel seen and help us to understand that we are not alone and we all go through similar struggles. this is why you guys are the only podcasters I listen too because I feel like you guys really take your viewers into consideration with every episode. love you guys and keep up the good work!

[@rfanaccount]

To the title- yes, I have but every Tuesday I feel less alone :) Congrats on 200 episodes!!

[@devon-u7w7i]

couldn't hv said it better

[@Hot_potato101]

I felt called out it when they started talking abt bed time procrastination because I’m doing that RN😭

[@devon-u7w7i]

proud to say I've been here since the car videos, can't believe it's 200 episode, congrats guys💞

[@suburbtalks623]

OG!!!!

[@cyn867]

this podcast got uploaded at the perfect time because i’ve been really going through it feeling alone, you guys are like my comfort podcast

[@mimak1129]

Maru looks so cute with glasses ❤

[@irischavz]

the 44 on the cake 😭😭

[@ariyanabustillos9876]

going through a break up and am going through the biggest mix of emotions. Definitely needed this episode, thanks guys 🤍

[@irmaahrndz]

needed to hear this 1:34:37 , thanks nick for the reassurance and i agree sometimes we do need to swallow our pride.. from experience, taking a step back and starting at “the bottom” helped me build the experience for my current position and meet great people along the way

[@Raven-cw8rc]

like i said before i think last episode, i love your guys’ podcast and energy i love that you guys can get vulnerable with your platform and i love that with this podcast i can just sit here and feel like i can relate to you guys🥹🤍

[@myl3age]

33:06 Maru's face bro 🤣

[@sydneyperdomo]

the social security segment was so unhinged LMAOAOA

[@LamasajorJalloh]

I really appreciate the fact that you guys are able to know when to get serious and be so humble and down to earth💛. And happy late birthday nick, and happy 200 episodes you guys have come so far and have really made my Tuesdays a whole lot better and can’t wait to see how much more you guys will grow!!! 🥳🎉🎂 Also, what happened to this week’s theme?

[@Nahhhhhh1716]

i think when they have these more serious episodes they don’t dress up

[@LamasajorJalloh]

@ i just realised that!!! Which makes hella sense as to why they do that and also adds to their maturity level. Props to them for that!!!💋🤌🏽

[@sarahichavez4772]

i loved this episode it was so laid back and i missed the deep episodes, WE LOVE YOUU

[@luvjeonlee5302]

college is hard and lonely right now, this was just what I needed to boost my mood ❤️ love you guys

[@anaj4248]

yeah, I can totally relate to that. I’m a recent transfer and it’s all so lonely. BUT it’s okay it all works out eventually

[@lizetmendez1570]

I literally had a talk last night about LITERALLY without smoking sometimes how its hard for me to see the light at the end of the tunnel sometimes. Literally like my world is ending and I just really needed to hear this. Like smoking isn’t something I want to depend on to work through things. And it is LITERALLY your choice to stay sad. You just have to wake up and be different. And I ALSO JUST WENT SOBER 2 days agoI said it’s something in the air that is making us all go through something. Maybe gatoradeit wtv its called.Thank you for being raw but literally relatable. Literally an icon to me but I feel like I am a bestie at the table too when I listen to this. PS as a low appetite girly, smoking is what helps me make sure I eat.

[@lizetmendez1570]

LOL still watching. Also told my mom in that same talk ^ that I know she loves me and my family but sometimes I don’t haven’t anyone to talk to or I just already know what they will say.

[@jaylawright5390]

watching them feels like a breathe of fresh air especially after a long day!!

[@zeph3816]

This year has been very tough I’m a freshman in college tryna get this degree but I always find a way to watch your guys videos. I’ve felt very alone at some point still tell this day I go through it. Just like you guys I have a close friend group but It’s like you can have such a big friend group and still feel so alone. It’s really not until you do something for yourself that you can come out of that loneliness. You guys are really my comfort podcast and I hope you’re still doing podcast even when your old having robots cook ur meals.

[@marissluvsyou]

never clicked on a vid so fast i really needed this💗

[@lekendrahill2925]

Watching y'all feels so refreshing because every podcast i watch y'all touch on topics that i relate to but i never know how to exactly explain how I'm feeling but y'all explain it so well and I'm like yesss this is how i feel and i never felt so alone/lonely until i go to college especially cause i was in a friend group were i was a totally different major than everyone else but thank you guys y'all are amazing and deserve the worlddd♥️

[@bakhtawar6411]

genuinely have had the shittiest past two day and came home to my ac not working and was crying. i am on my way to work this morning and someone doesnt break soon enough and my breakfast gets ruined. i have not watched it yet but i almost cried cause i really needed this now (i have watched all your videos) yall change lifes just by being you :) I listen to this podcast all the time at work

[@bakhtawar6411]

when nick said this was the deep podcast (which is my FAVORITE yall should do more) it was just a breath of fresh air in my days. I have been waiting for this episode!!!

[@anaj4248]

I hope better things come your way. Keep your head up. 🩷

[@suburbtalks623]

We hope the rest of the week treats you well, hope you have a great rest of your day 🙂‍↕️💙

[@bakhtawar6411]

@@suburbtalks623 Thank you soooooo much!!! Yall have amazing weeks

[@bakhtawar6411]

@@anaj4248 Thank you so much. Appreciate you

[@MissBubbakush]

ngl I'm in my primetime im 21 I'm supposed to be enjoying my life... spent my 21st alone in my bedroom thankfully my parents kept me company but just feeling like i wasted out on my hs years on fake friends and bc of covid hitting back then and my chronic illness i didn't even enroll to college Bruh smh the past idk 3-4 years just felt like a major blur after my abusive relationship. being a caregiver to my family members, slowly growing up and not being able to stop time, seeing your loved ones slowly fade as you grow up, stop feeling joy but more like an end-of-life crisis, not having a friend group or lover, not having a social life, not feeling like the best version of yourself justtttttttt sucks. I experience alot of eco anxiety just simply due to our society and humanity. we are so desensitized yet so sensitive too many things... hence why I dont like a lot of these so-called influencers lately.. they have no right to be called an influencer.. theres people with no platforms no followers no views whos making more influnece to the world and their voice should actually be heard. so many ppl are focused on the wrong things so many people are selfish. i wish there was more people that truly cared about saving our environment. saving the animals, stopping violence, helping those in need...

[@mariamargarettsandiego4078]

I’m hella older than y’all but the very reason why I got hooked on y’all 2021 is cause it reminds me of my core group back in my home country. I moved to Canada to study and it’s been lonely and quite challenging but I also learned how to seek communities, connect with like minded people and meditate, time for self and checking in with people that celebrate you and with you regardless.😊

[@kennachilders1142]

Maru girl you slayed those glasses

[@kassandraamaya4251]

social media has truly been a huge impact on my loneliness. when I was battling my depression and suicidal ideation my therapist recommended me to remove everyone from my ig because I couldn’t get myself to delete the app. the change I noticed in myself was insane. I didn’t realize how much I was comparing myself to people I hadn’t even seen since high school and I felt so much envy because all I did was work and all these people were living their lives. It’s insane how much comparing yourself to others can deteriorate your mental health.

[@anjanetteb]

I definitely relate to the first convo about being alone. I'm addicted to my phone, I don't have a job, a car or a license and I'm not in college. While EVERYONE around me seems to have everything figured out and I just feel so isolated among my friends because I feel as though I've gotten nowhere in life when in reality, I'm literally 18.. my life just started so I shouldn't be worried about all these things but I am you know?

[@anieren14]

AYE 44, THATS THE GOATS NUMBER. Also anyone else tripped out by the different cameras. It's like one is filmed at 60fps and the other is shot at 30.

[@beats44412]

david’s advice and perspective was such a light ⭐️

[@nancykalu7075]

Love when yall do deep podcasts, they’re so relatable

[@lauraazuaa]

was literally just thinking about this earlier today, so nice to be reminded youre never the only one feeling this way

[@Cindy-gb3ms]

Ive been struggling a lot with loneliness in uni, especially since I live on my own.. Its been a challenge to put myself out there and make lasting friendships. This video really made me feel understood and less alone. It definitely gave me new perspectives on loneliness. Love you guys 🫶

[@gissela355]

This is what I've needed since last Tuesday. 😢

[@mayelablancas2295]

Wow this podcast came out at like the perfect time. After the flood in the east coast in the mountains, I had to move back home from college and I hated it because I had built a life at college. But, coming back I knew I was feeling really lonely and being with family its helping my mental health. I still am overthinking everything about life and after losing everything like my house and car and belongings, I feel like coming back home has healed me. ❤

[@heyyyisa8149]

I felt the same way when I moved to Texas after college. For the first few months it felt lonely because I knew no one from Texas, but along the way I met a great group of people who I'm still friends with. After three years of living in Texas, I moved back home to NY to be closer to family. Ever since being back in my hometown everything felt very much nostalgic and comforting. My best advice is to find your own community where you can meet new people who may share similar interests. Sometimes change can be a good thing because it allows you to grow more in your life.

[@livelylovely6045]

AWWW STOP THE CAKE IS SO CUTEEE THATS SO WHOLESOME LOL

[@Bobalover98]

The social security number convo has me deadddd😂😂😂

[@sunshinevue4678]

I definitely feel alone and lost. Trying to figure out what to do with my life. No one to turn to, trying to push through by myself. I truly respect you guys because you guys are so real and raw. 🫶🏻💗

[@vybzDenzel]

moved outta the country back into my family house and had to leave my friends behind, this last year has been rough but im proving to be a lot more resilient than i thought i was which is the silver lining

[@bri5471]

LMAOOOO not sage sharing his password with us 31:40

[@salwaabdalla5576]

something about this ep is so cosy I love it

[@amoonamooni]

Can y’all get Jackie on another episode? The last time she was a guest was one of my favorite episodes 😫

[@michellew3710]

DAVID APPEARANCE OMG

[@mariamargarettsandiego4078]

happy to see Daviddddd and Daniel during their san diego trip. OGGGGGs hehehe

[@amoonamooni]

YESSS IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS TO DROP‼️

[@carolinamedina6033]

1:37:30 It is one of the reasons I like people watch or observing people or taking a step back I reality because everyone has their own things going on and they are in the same area as you😭idk it always trips me out

[@Jaymonbebe]

So what i heard the conclusion of the catch up was Nick ended up in Sean's bed for I feel sick cuddles ,Love that

[@vybzDenzel]

bro alex has been cooking lately! petition to give bro a cam

[@ayoxhilaryyx3]

One of my favorite episodes , felt seen & reassured with everything yall touched on 🫶🏼

[@Sk8ngetc4ke]

Such a good episode really needed this thank you

[@lemirnada777]

1:36:26 i felt sage so heavyyyy on that like it trips me out ALL THE TIME

[@harishholmes6391]

lmao everyone missed sages baseball player joke i was dying bruh

[@lissettelvr]

suburb talks always cheers me up! love the podcasts

[@Kal_eigh]

Not only feeling alone but actually alone 😭 literally been celebrating my birthday since I was 16 with my mom grandma and aunt cause I am so alone 😭😭 They real tho love them down I turn 21 in 19 days

[@aritobaye]

THIS IS THE BEST EPISODE I’VE SEEN SO FAR

[@uluvcc]

IVE BEEN WAITING FOR MY TRIOS BACKK🙏🙏

[@xot3rmxo]

54:24 Thank you Nick I really needed to hear that. It's crazy too think yous are younger than me on the other side of the world. Yet somehow y'all can give well articulated advice to someone y'all don't even know. Thank God for this podcast 🙏 thank yous for always showing up. P.S come to New Zealand 😂

[@keila2948]

I love y’all so bad, my comfort people always🫶

[@okbuddyy]

Maru one of the finest individuals ive ever seen

[@NikkiGiraldo]

comparison is the thief of joy!!

[@suburbtalks623]

🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@luv_leo6729]

Another podcast yesss!! I’m go to sleep watching it

[@jouribataineh4414]

This podcast felt so more like your two years ago podcast Better than the recent ones you’ve been posting when you guys use the Google to search things up and you use the screen idk this felt more like home love you guys but I just wanted to throw it out there I genuinely didn’t want this one to end and I loved how we gave nick more screen time and talked about him I feel like he’s the least one I know about expect for the things he gets made fun of

[@tianamcmath1509]

petition to have quen on the poddy 😮

[@Carla-bk3zu]

During the manscape ad Nick is giving baby bash 😭😂😂😂

[@xiix478]

kinda crazy that i did a speech just yesterday for one of my classes about the topic on how social media is affecting us in many ways but the main topic would be how social media is affecting our mental health. We waste so much time on these apps that we miss out on other things. I feel like we need a break from all of it, just a day shoot even a week would be so good for our mental health

[@lovemercedes468]

My FAVORITE podcast ever!!

[@itsmemirandapandag9407]

this video is going on my comfort vids playlist.🫡🫡

[@jimmyneutron08sanchez96]

Can we talk about Maru's look this ep she ate down

[@anjanetteb]

Realizing now that my mom was right, it really is that damn phone 😭

[@Brandon-yp4qq]

Happy 44th birthday nick your voice is changing too! 😢

[@alltimealy]

not gonna lie, where I'm from, celebrating monthaversaries (within the first year at least) is very normal!

[@najihah1352]

needed this today 🙏

[@Emmanuelx13]

Yes our frontal lobe is right, me and my friends have been having deep talks about all this whole last month. We said the same thing. We’re maturing and becoming wizards lmao. But good thing we all talking about similar things around the same time

[@manikaur9030]

26:42 Dude sage is so funny😭

[@livelylovely6045]

LMAOO i could tell right when nick started talking i could tell they were hungoverrrrr

[@justnoel3350]

the percentage of those who feel lonely and their use if social media being high is so sad, and is bound to keep going up especially as technology advances and new forms of social media come up

[@jasonmiranda861]

36:48 LMFAOOOO SAGE😭😭😭

[@Person-oe7li]

Yes oxytocin is the “cuddle” hormone !! It gets released with cuddles, breastfeeding, after an orgasm… that is why woman tend to get more attached. I learned about this is my personal relationships class 🤭

[@lunarghostt]

lebron in my tummy is diabolical 😭😭😭

[@bdomma4]

feel so bad for being 19 fr😹when Mary said i don’t wanna be 24 and i’m like girl me neither and i have like 5-4,5 years until that😭

[@xot3rmxo]

The lighting makes Cynthia's vapor look pink 😍