for the first time I don't agree with you sir .being an advocate , alimony , 498A , mental chaos, extramarital affairs, laws are very against men , dowary is illegal but alimony is there , fake feminism is at peak etc , Iam 25 and do poetry at kavi sammelan, work for society and for my hobbies , which gives me satisfaction n happiness which I find better than wasting half of energy on a wife for daily ki khich pich . I am awarded by honorable president of India too . Although my parents are really peaceful n loving couple which could ever exist. They are just perfect couple. I believe 90's was the best time for getting married, now things have changed a lot .
@dreamsdesires Жыл бұрын
My mother never praised marriage thus I married late, but these married years have been the best years of my life as I worked on my thinking & believe system. Family, marriage, companionship is the best thing to strive for as a human being in this world. All the best to all
@daar483 Жыл бұрын
Boring life is necessary for high marriage rates, which is being destroyed by extreme competition due to population, gender ratio, courts, corporate, AI etc. Even if you make 1 million videos, it won't change reality
@lleviuchiha5565 Жыл бұрын
I'm 21 year's old who watching this.....and after hearing that , 5-6 year later girl's attitude also became normal 🤣...it is very good thing.. 🥰
@zahrabjinu Жыл бұрын
Even if 72 hr OCP is not used, some women have a lot hormonal problems like PCOD, thyroid etc especially after 30 yrs of age. Even painful menstruations and PMS creates moodswings and cranky attitudes.
@anirbanghosh1670 Жыл бұрын
A generation which did female foeticide(completely destabilize the demography which also increased crimes as most crimes are done by unmarried male) , which did honor killings of their daughter for marrying outside men but they didn't kill and also accepted their own son for marrying other cast woman, as bahu toh bas bachha payda karegi jo hamare caste/religion etc ka identity intact rakhega (in this aspect conservative hindu muslim are all same), which treated their woman like Commodity. They better shut their mouth on how to live life as human because humanity is the thing they severely lack. I'm not saying new age modern genZ are good, I'm saying when u have messed up the situation by ur self then just leave it and change ur self first before commenting. The one who did female foeticide, honor killings they really deserve to have a bride and a next generation? I'm a man who have stayed in delhi for many years,met with people who from different parts of india, sometimes I really feel we as a society need to introspect a lot on all the shit we dumped on our society and shut our mouth regarding lecturing what is good or bad.
@vipulverma10 Жыл бұрын
Before Marriage I was not against the marriage as such, but I (including my parents) was fearful of those type of girls that you mentioned in the video who file false cases against their husband etc. Due to this I got married at 28, otherwise I would have married earlier than this. I found my partner online. I think that online you get more varied options than from the physical world. Me and my partner didn't care about each other's physical attributes at all. We only cared about mental connect and resonance with each other. When I took the decision to get married, then I didn't tell my parents about it because they had been bothering only about my 4 year elder sister's marriage for around 4-5 years. I thought that if I'll tell them that I want to get married then they'll obviously say that firstly your elder sister's marriage is a priority, but with time I was getting hopeless for the same, as my sister was taking a hell lot of time for the same. Her expectations were quite high and unreasonable. So after a lot of convincing, I got married before my sister's marriage, and I would say that it was an excellent decision made by me. As per my experience of around 2 years of married life, I would say that my married life is around 4-5 times more joyful than my bachelor life!!!!
@neelamjangra1380 Жыл бұрын
Marriage is not about acchi nd buri ... Marriage is all about responsibility nd companionship... it's very hard trueof today's that in today's generation they don't want to ready for take this responsibility...as U said My life My rules... who don't wants to marriage...he or she their life is all about Me, My nd My self
@rituparnadutta539 Жыл бұрын
I agree to your point that none of us are right and marriage is growing stronger together, when I married at the age of 24 years 10 years back we both were earning less close to 10 lacs together, now in 10 years we are growing and earning close to a crore, we have a lot to achieve and I believe in the institution of marriage, it gives stability and support too
@iriliral6366 Жыл бұрын
Parents cribbing about marriage is very true and American corporate culture of locking people up inside office for long hours has destoyed the fabric of Indian society.
@budhrajarahul3 Жыл бұрын
Are bhaishaab mai vo insaan hu jisne 12 saal ki umar se hi shadi k sapne dkhe the. Mje lgta h ladke nice hi hote h mger achi ladki milti hi ni aur average size ladkia bht demanding ho gyi h.. Bht competition h aaj ki date me ye mai tb bol ra hu jb i have, tried everything.. I am sure jo log b shadi krke khush h either they are extremely lucky or they have just accepted life as it is.. With acceptance also comes happiness.
@pransukh8250 Жыл бұрын
Peter Jordanson :) By the way i respect you, and my wife is big fan of you and we both laugh at your expressions and dialogues .... Hope your content will save/make some lives better. wish you luck.
@divineray7822 Жыл бұрын
Even before watching the video I can tell why Indian men are bitter about marriage - They aren't getting a great deal like their dads got. No dowry, no submissive docile wife who depended on them financially or took the responsibility to feed, clothe , clean his house forever.
@DhirajSingh-zw7mx Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Amit Sir, aapne India ki us Problem ko bahut achche se highlight kiya hai jo Aaj ki Taarikh Par Japan and South Korea ( Late Marriage, No Marriage, Late Pregnancy, No kids , Decreasing Child Birth, Increasing Old age Population, less young age Work Force) face kar rahe hain and India is Following the Same Path, But Aap apne Desh ki Jo Prominent Middle Class ko Jagruk karne ka kaam kar rahen hain,uske liye Hriday se Dhanyawad Sir👍🙏
@suravibehera2246 Жыл бұрын
Your opinion on why women r not marrying is absolutely correct.. Now a days the societal realities compel many men and women to stay single forever...
@SuradkarTushar Жыл бұрын
"I am against the normalization of thought - that not marrying is OK" - Sir, you are saving India from going down the same drain where great countries like Japan, Korea, and Scandinavian countries have gone, and China is on the way. What is the use of the huge prosperity and great life longevity if one is not willing to continue the God-gifted life form itself. Sometimes, I feel like not watching your videos because it is like a bitter pill, but I don't miss a single one because your videos are lifesavers to the families, common people, the nation and our civilization. I am not exaggerating at all. Take my bow in respect and appreciation.
@MensAttitude11 ай бұрын
He is telling the truth very bluntly. And this is the reality of todays scenario. We have to accept and find our way around it. Thanks for this video👌👌
@mogambo-ry5qe Жыл бұрын
Aapka kehna sahi hai accident hua to kya gaadi Chalana chod doge par yeh divorce se compare nahi kar sakte kyunki usme ladko ko hi mentally financially barbad kiya jaata hai aurat aur kanoon dwara.
@rey2801 Жыл бұрын
In my opinion....now girls are getting financially independent...so they are looking at marriage as burden .... society is shifting slowly towards their betterment...where the burden of Household chores child rearing is not a single parent job anymore....when they will see such...as a companionship...and not just day to day working for other family who they don't even know....i am more than sure 40 percent marriage to aise hi badh jayenge
@manjulasaxena4784 Жыл бұрын
Very true..when my son said what did you get in marriage ? i replied i got you... parenting is recycling of own life..we relive our childhood...😅😅😅why should I get marriage was the question and my answer is लड़ने के लिए। बहुत जरूरी है दिल खोल के लड़ना 😅😅😅😅
@padmajavadada8650 Жыл бұрын
I am 48. Married life is a combination of pleasure n pain. Most welcome.
@suresmal-dm4qq Жыл бұрын
We are at the good time at 21 year. after 5 years we will be at a good marriage market.
@AbsoluteRaw Жыл бұрын
Peter Joderson 😂😂😂 2:10
@aniketchowdhury7338 Жыл бұрын
9:12 meme material. Love you sangwanji!!
@GinRa14 Жыл бұрын
I struggled for 1st year in my marriage but later on me and my spouse became best of friends. We can't even think anyone else as our partner now. So my suggestion is that give some time to your marriage, things will change for the best!
@satyanveshi1939 Жыл бұрын
Sir one question I want to ask. Your direction is focused on maybe small town and 2 or 3 tier cities. In big cities among middle and upper middle problems have different angles. You can easily say that people who are unmarried are not happy . I completely disagree to this. Many single men and women are way more happy and fulfilled in life than most of the married couples. Couples who have amazing alignment with each other in all different walks for life which I believe is less 10 % are the only exceptions who maybe are happier than single. This is a very hard and subjective debate and lot depends on the individual person. People who are independent have an individual strong personality, earn good money, have good education and open minded view of the world will always to be happier single than married unless they are extremely lucky to get a partner who aligns with them 80 to 90% of the times. Which is quite rare.
@RahulYadav-nx7xf Жыл бұрын
Life improves after marriage. You get a best friend.
@poojanandan1072 Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right sir Every marriage has its own problem but it is very good Institute
@Mbbs_in_veins_2000 Жыл бұрын
Yess I'm a mbbs graduate, I agree
@visheshbhardwaj9003 Жыл бұрын
See the divorce rate in western countries.Divorce rate is very high because marriage has become a contract. Prenuptial agreement has been legalized
@ram0000011 Жыл бұрын
Loved your Batchelor carbon footprint dance 🕺
@sudiphui4566 Жыл бұрын
Instagram, fb reels vulgarities are the main reason why families are getting destroyed.
@artibhatnagar7062 Жыл бұрын
Ye baateein na koi batata hai na koi discuss karta hai aapko koti koti dhanyawaad this is a very very important topic and the most relevant topic nowadays
@Maverick-tk1jy Жыл бұрын
9:14 awesome act ❤️
@ishabanerjee158 Жыл бұрын
Also 27:56 haha
@ravidhankhar6700 Жыл бұрын
Governor General Gold Standard of Clarity.
@akhild69 Жыл бұрын
Guru Tatva, Very relevant, Gender gap is the key issue.
@rahulgupta800 Жыл бұрын
I am a 40 year old man with 3 kids. Really happy with the married life. Completely support you Amit ji on this.
@nuukizmir Жыл бұрын
Because of this We are now ahead of China. Most populous country in the earth 🌍
@nikhilrajjainvi4704 Жыл бұрын
Super insight. You can anytime pass as excellent comedian as well.
@mohitjain2192 Жыл бұрын
Amit sir this should be discussed in the next COP27.. How bachelors are having more carbon footprints than the married ones 😄
@abhigyanbhasin6659 Жыл бұрын
All middle class people should marry, enjoying life and getting the best of girls is for the rich, either become crazy rich or settle for marriage
@lucky81jv91 Жыл бұрын
sir agape great ho,,,,,,,,,,, perfect and to the point ladies and men just follow blindly,,,,deceive me I have gone through he is exposing the risks after post delayed marriage impacts people ,,,sir love u
Marriage gives you companion for life time who always there for you in thick and thin.
@humanbeing585 Жыл бұрын
Rightly said in the entire video, m married nd saying on base of experience.
@duasnehil727 ай бұрын
Been married for 27 years. Both of us have grown with each other. I couldn't have been the person I am without this growth. There is no other way I could have grown this way without getting married. Our kid is a blessing. Life has a meaning and a purpose. We have our share of disagreements. It requires effort to become right for each other. That effort leads to personal growth. Our kid totally believes in the institution of marriage. Sir, you are very entertaining and very wise.
@mrajput6585 Жыл бұрын
Best mimicry chaka daaru at 9.10 😆🤣
@abhinav_v_y3440 Жыл бұрын
Mr Sango u say I will not let this trend get normalised, but always remember, which thing is normal or abnormal in a society or culture is decided by majority...and we milenials are in majority thus we are the people who have power do this...number matters man🤟
@adityavikram5338 Жыл бұрын
That's a good way to present. Arguing from both sides to convince of something which is very easy to rebut otherwise. Well I like your way of putting things, but I don't completely agree or disagree with you, also, I am sure It won't be that easy for you if I or someone with developed arguing skills is pitted against you. I still congratulate you for being so entertaining. Keep it up.
@gunjanraj635 Жыл бұрын
Good video. ....You are right. Some youngsters ko mirchi lag rahi hai....but that is false.
@Jay-rv4ee Жыл бұрын
Normalcy itself has become abnormality 🤣
@prashantgoyal2597 Жыл бұрын
Married two years ago and I can vouch for Shaadi ka ladoo.. kha lo..
@vipinnirmal1263 Жыл бұрын
Pehle kabhi nahi suna kuch aesa, thank you so much...
@sanjaysingh-rx8uk Жыл бұрын
Amit ji ka koi jawab nahi.. Aapke jaisa content KZbin per kahi nahi hai..
@mani1829r Жыл бұрын
topic you bring forward are really unique and you understand the scenario what is going in society. you bring clarity about life , to the table. we can't deny it. The words you use like 'Behude, bawli puch, bakwaas, thick skin' are 😂
@Hetal28 Жыл бұрын
Sir Aaj toh aapne bahut hassaya 😂 Such a fun video 👏🏻
@bawagrafix Жыл бұрын
I agree with legal marriage against live in relationship
@vipinnirmal1263 Жыл бұрын
Kya baat hai sir...😊
@grievanceredressal6757 Жыл бұрын
your esteemed opinion solicited
@artibhatnagar7062 Жыл бұрын
Sir you are the most practical counselor
@barsha567 Жыл бұрын
I am ready for marriage but parents aren't what should I do
@iXpress Жыл бұрын
I have a friend who's Communist and as per ideology they want to destroy Family system 🤣🤣🤣
@charupahwa3225 Жыл бұрын
Sir kya bat kya bat bahut badhiya logo ki ankhe khul Jani chahiye
@ShohiniSaha1 Жыл бұрын
You are right!
@smrutinayak2836 Жыл бұрын
Who is right Acharya prashant ji /Amit Sangwan ji
@samsonmeitei7809 Жыл бұрын
Guruji aapne day to day tension ka sujhav kar diya ... pranaam 👌👍☝️
@mandeepgill4931 Жыл бұрын
Nature wants us to get married for procreation.....so it os like duty....
@himanshuprajapati1106 Жыл бұрын
Most valuable channel on youtube
@ccc122 Жыл бұрын
#amitsangwan make a video about how to protect your assets and properties and your present and future income sources incase a marriage goes bad, and the partner decides to throw the other under the bus.
@sahilsrivastava17 Жыл бұрын
Awesome explanation sir ❤️pura dimag khol diya
@sukhendra100 Жыл бұрын
मजा आ गया सर! शादी करनी चाहिए! बहुत जरूरी है! शादी से पहले Mental Fitness पर एक वीडियो बनाइये! हर व्यक्ति शादी योग्य नहीं है!
@nitinbindal2275 Жыл бұрын
We are living in a democracy and the population of antisocial elements is rising in India soon no future is left for these types of intellectual in India
@decembersunita Жыл бұрын
Aapki baatein jabarjast hain 😄👌👌
@sanjaysingh-rx8uk Жыл бұрын
Amit ji...good job Full support hai aapko Keep sharing these eye opening content with us..
@0OO369BfF-_0O Жыл бұрын
Hello unkil, chahe garam tawe me baithalo , par apki baat aaj ka youngster ladka ladki nahi manenge. Baat khatam. Aaj k youngster k natak, dhoka ,nakre aur demand bahut hai. Bahut bahut bahut jyada demanding hai ji. Esse achcha single hi thik.
@innocentjatt8870 Жыл бұрын
Clearity giver sir
@yasheshshah7129 Жыл бұрын
Yes, Guruji... Hum to Godi pe taiyar hai 😊 After watching your videos
@manjushaghildiyal7466 Жыл бұрын
सही मार्गदर्शन सर।
@sanj15246 Жыл бұрын
Khush Shadishuda nhi batate kyuki nazar lag jati hai 😂
@artijain3833 Жыл бұрын
4 din se continue aapke video dekh rahi hun bahut kuchh naya sikhane Ko Mila thank u so Mach sar
@sabyasachidash683 Жыл бұрын
Excellent video sirji 🙏🙏
@harshit7406 Жыл бұрын
Shaadi se pehle kundali matching par appke kya suggestion he guru g
@Jeet2607 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the eye opening video
@gopalkrishna644 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for this information 👍life saving tips
@saurabhparkash8025 Жыл бұрын
Mag Sir Ultimate Video
@suruchisharma1416 Жыл бұрын
Apki baat 100 percent sahi h sir
@gunjanraj635 Жыл бұрын
Challenging that so called Acharya in this video.
@hgff69 Жыл бұрын
Thank you sir 🙏🏼
@utkarshsoni7938 Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot for making such video 🙂.
@246india Жыл бұрын
U are inspirational. Thanks sir.
@charupahwa3225 Жыл бұрын
Super hai sir video what an insight 👏
@spacenerd23mu-gv7od Жыл бұрын
Excellent. How to take the platinum member ship?
@viscom999 Жыл бұрын
India ka Peterson😜🤣
@supriyapadhy1023 Жыл бұрын
Man and woman are incomplete without eachother... just like parents required for a child
@geetanjalibiswal8943 Жыл бұрын
very nice topics , full balanced topics of life
@nishu7sun Жыл бұрын
Kya dance tha sir !! 😂
@Shorties88 Жыл бұрын
Very good uncle ji
@fairandlovely108 Жыл бұрын
Sir .. god blessings 🕉🙏🏻 I agree with you… can’t help d thinking of this 3D world people..because people need to understand that.. marriage is not just two people coming together.. but a lot of things attached to it.. So knowledgeable people can only guide in this respect..🌿👍1212🌱
@scswami Жыл бұрын
Marriage is the best decision of my life and I feel it is must for all individuals