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@asharani4139 Жыл бұрын
Hanji thik kehe rahe hai app
@vineetatewari8808 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for strength my views I am very happy that I follow this rule in my home.
@Sai-q4d Жыл бұрын
Sir pls make a video on current news on jyot maurya sdm and her husband type matter when many men called their wive's studies.
@sun859 Жыл бұрын
Ye video apka bakwas h
@RajSingh-fm6mf Жыл бұрын
@@vineetatewari8808muze aap ke haath ka khana khana hai. Aap meri bhabhi ho.
@ashalatadhone Жыл бұрын
Mujhe bhi bahut sehna pada tha...jab tak husband jivit the roj kisi ko bhi subah subah ghar late the ..ab me south Indian hu to wo log ghar ghus jate the subah subah ...aur un logo ke liye idli,wada,sambar, chutney sab banati thi....ab husband ka dehant ho gaya corona virus me,ab to koi puchta bhi nahi...ye sab jabardasti ki socializing karna aur ghar pe faltu ka laana,aur aurto ko pareshan karna band hona chahiye....wo log khud ke ghar pe chai tak nahi pilate the aur yaha bhabiji ko jabardasti idli,wada,dosa sab banana padta tha....south indian hone ki saja bhugatni padti thi...😮
@sitalaxmiiyer6991 Жыл бұрын
Very sad.. even I faced it.. but i always tell them i am not a good cook..
@anjusingh5082 Жыл бұрын
Ladies ke liye same saza hai South Indian ho ya North Indian 😊
@user-wf4ql6qt9o Жыл бұрын
It happened with almost every innocent lady...it happens because their husbands don't value them above others.
@avs6362 Жыл бұрын
Dear Mother, My Mother also faced the same in Northern India. He passed away in 1997... I was 10 years old...
@prakalpthakur7225 Жыл бұрын
north Indian uncultured hote south ke comparison main i know it sorry
@shellygupta7088 Жыл бұрын
Your lectures have made me guilt free from many incidents of my life. I am not an ideal person. Every role of mine is flawed a little bit. But now I feel it ok not to be ideal. Rather this is more practical. Hats off to you for decluttering our minds from these unnecessary thoughts .
@MrVikasingh1210 Жыл бұрын
Yeah it's called killing your soul, so that you can do business with your dark side. All bad people have their value system. The only thing is that those values are bad. And these people tell you that values are values they are not right or wrong
@starrysky1128 Жыл бұрын
😇
@shrutisargam8121 Жыл бұрын
Resonates
@neetu11p Жыл бұрын
Sir please make video on narcissism especially in Indian households. People in our society are still not aware of how dangerous and damaging narcissistic people can be, when their are so many in Indian families.
@swatikumar112 Жыл бұрын
Please I agree
@vrinderkumar727 Жыл бұрын
Sure Amit ji neurocist log Ghar mey h us par ek video banane ki sakth jarurat h aap hi kuchh kar sakte h thanks Bhai sahab ji
@lekhamanka7196 Жыл бұрын
This man is doing a favor to our society by sharing videos on issues which are real problems in our society and things which actually drag us down. Thank you so much Sir! I love each and every video of your channel.
@rockmittal Жыл бұрын
He is a fem!nist
@RajSingh-fm6mf Жыл бұрын
You are my bhabhi.❤❤
@seer7152 Жыл бұрын
I have experienced first hand. Huge time waster. As a student, attending guest in the house was very stressful. Without information or invitation anyone could come anytime. Staying for night was common too. Never had an option to avoid. You have to be in your best in front of the guests and relatives. अतिथि देवो भव! Sacrifice your wife and children for them. Great advice. Thank you 🙏🏼 😊
@piyushkmanand4994 Жыл бұрын
He is just talking about the official matters, shouldn't come to home ( official matter here means work related to office and people associated with it) and yes the friends too. But if u r talking about relations with bloodline, then I think u should think atleast once.
@abhaysoni926 Жыл бұрын
Are yaar sch me rishtedar aajate hai poori padhai ki maa bhn ho jati hai
@tiredsoul007 Жыл бұрын
@@abhaysoni926 tumhari language dekh ke lag raha hai, tumne sach me padhayi nahi ki
@chhavidua9904 Жыл бұрын
After so many years of being a good host n realising that i have wasted a lot of time and energy on these stupid circles. I simply took back steps and stopped entertaining people. I realised it is such a heavenly blessing
@Hetal28 Жыл бұрын
Me too Same here I was always a good host went out of my way to cook serve or entertain and then later none invite us back So I too have stopped now
@nikshu85 Жыл бұрын
100 percent relatable , my inlaws call everyone into the house for get together without asking me , after that they give me whole responsibilty to comfort the guest , i feel like i became robot to them
@shubhabharti7071 Жыл бұрын
Whose house you are living in? Is it yours or your in-laws'? They can invite but shouldn't expect you to cook, serve and clean alone. It should be a team work. I have organized parties (4-5 times a yr) for 24-25 ppl single handedly while working full time. It used to be fun, my guests and family members enjoyed it and in return we used to be invited by some of the families as well. I think if you are away from your city, province, or country then it is a nice way to stay connected to your culture. Socializing at home is much better and economic than socializing at a restaurant. Yes! Picnicking in a park is another option where families can bring food and share it. Don't stop socializing, eating, laughing, joking with friends and relatives is tonic to your health😊.
@shubhabharti7071 Жыл бұрын
I mean that we should not stop socializing at home. Eating, cracking healthy jokes and laughing with friends/relatives without any inhibition is a tonic to our health.
@abhaysoni926 Жыл бұрын
Mere yha pe sb relatives bhi aa jayengey toh sara kaam phir bhi mere maa aunty ko hi krna hai baki relatives ki taraf se ek ladies bhi help nhi kregi bhle hi bua ho ya koi aur I also had seen ghr ke ladies ki kamar toot jati hai raat tak subha se sara arrangements krne me phir bhi no respect and saas sasur unke betiya bhai unke bccche alag ji level ke kmiya gina dete hai koi kuchh
@arushibajpai4147 Жыл бұрын
Aap bhi apni friends bula lo and loud music bajao 😂
@IamSoangelic Жыл бұрын
@@shubhabharti7071every one is not like you everybody is not a party person like you if there is no team work it will suck!
@manaschawla3616 Жыл бұрын
You are someone who is a great stress buster, I can listen to you any time of the day it's like listening to an elderly from life's experiences way to go forward Mr. Sanghwan... You rock 🤘
@saurabhshukla3893 Жыл бұрын
Many motivational speaker are now days only (storyteller) but this man is true who change our society. Genuine respect for you sir from heart❤ You are real Acharya🙏
@iamkrishnaavtar Жыл бұрын
Dark side of narcissist people. We need video on this topic.
@devanshgupta4107 Жыл бұрын
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@Ritez_ Жыл бұрын
Taking about narcissism Bhai tum khud to Krishna avatar bolte ho ?
@memepop6563 Жыл бұрын
@@Ritez_ Well said. This is one of the traps people fall into while trying to pursue spirituality. This phenomenon ultimately becomes the reason for something called religion.
@LuckyIndian7 Жыл бұрын
@@Ritez_ I am also Avatar
@avinash_ingle Жыл бұрын
Privacy is previliage , protect it . Awesome articulation and message passed with relatibililty l❤❤❤
@hari_b Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right. Same is to be done while inviting marriage party where real well-wishers and near relatives only need to be invited. No need for envious and jealous people around. Please make a video on that.
@skalrask8097 Жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍 great comment and observation!!
@shailarateja2634 Жыл бұрын
Nailed it sir.... This video is the voice of most of the ladies.... Esp daughter in laws. Thank you so much for discussing topics nobody even thinks about. 👍👍👍Respect for u
@Sonia-xe2mg Жыл бұрын
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@Sonia-xe2mg Жыл бұрын
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@Sonia-xe2mg Жыл бұрын
O9
@kavita9249 Жыл бұрын
आधे घंटे कोई आएगा पर पूरा दिन इसी में गुजर जाएगा और कभी कभी एक दिन पहले से ही तैयारी
@rrmishra277 Жыл бұрын
This is truth of Indian society,Did this mistake almost for 20 years in life,learned from mistake in year 2018 and corrected.Lot of respect for you as you are teaching a large numbers,who to be saved from this trap.
@S.A.1 Жыл бұрын
Sir thanks a million for this video. I don’t feel guilty anymore about not replying to relatives who just want to drop in on a Sunday evening because they are driving on this side of the city, when I am relaxing and getting ready for the upcoming work week.
@GeminiMoon2 Жыл бұрын
PERFECT!!!!❤️ GLAD to know we as a family we have started doing this way before. It has been 9 years we insist on meeting out and stick by it. And your talk has filled us with assurance that we are on point with what is required for healthy living. Healthy boundaries - is a prime necessity today, no Doubt. Great video Sir. 🙏
@mousonasarkar1037 Жыл бұрын
Thank u sir for this nice content...I am 68 born..I too hv done these socializing in my young days..but over the yrs I too hv learnt alot ..and now I bluntly say NO to my hubby and to his friends ..as I remember last week I refused to my hubby's friends to have a get-together at my place.. it is due to aging and my health issues..
@supercrazydesi Жыл бұрын
Please don't feel bad or guilty. No one will take care of you.
@mousonasarkar1037 Жыл бұрын
@@supercrazydesi ..true..
@SonuSingh-uu6sb Жыл бұрын
Excellent. I have a same thinking but my own husband doesn't understand this. I don't want to invite people and throw parties. I have been tagged as 'ghamandi'. But I don't care
@user-wf4ql6qt9o Жыл бұрын
Intelligent women who have self respect and take decisions indwpendently are generally labelled as ghamandi
@shubhabharti7071 Жыл бұрын
Ghamandi for what? Are you earning millions?
@11swatisharma Жыл бұрын
I am tagged as non social.
@shiprachamoli824 Жыл бұрын
In every video, it's like you speak my mind. I don't think it's easy to make such bold videos. It requires a paradigm shift to appreciate such content. Keep up the great work!
@florajgoogle8632 Жыл бұрын
I think you are God - sent. 🙏🏼 Keep up your great work Sir. You are UNIQUE, your thinking is great. Gratitude and appreciation is just what you deserve 💞
@sarikagupta6379 Жыл бұрын
Your videos are very good Mr. Amit. You always give so much clarity on so many issues. Most of the time I am already doing what you are advocating. It’s very reassuring. Thank you 🙏🏻May you get many more subscribers 😅
@mienvan16 Жыл бұрын
Sucha practical n straight verdict on pressurising wives n whole family is so relatable.Being a vastu expert myself completely agreed to ppl have different energies n your house has an aura of you n family simply touched my❤kudos to you….subscribed.
@SapphireEngineering Жыл бұрын
Jinka east positive result na de unke yaha itni socializing ni hoti
@abundant224 Жыл бұрын
I lost it at "Chuna hain kya?" 😂😂😂😂
@devshelke1545 Жыл бұрын
everyone did haha
@mamtamodi6791 Жыл бұрын
30 ,32 साल झेलने के बाद अब हाथ खड़े कर दिए।पति और उनके परिवार वालों ने जीरो इन हॉस्पिटैलिटी का खिताब दे दिया 😅😅
@user-wf4ql6qt9o Жыл бұрын
Bilkul sahi kiya aapne..love and value yourself first
@meenasrikanth Жыл бұрын
Bahut Daer ki aapne
@AS-jo8qh Жыл бұрын
Meri mummy ko bhi turant shadi ke baad bahut sehna pada tha ye. Par jab meri mummy unke ghar jati thi wo chai bhi nahi puchte the. Infact jalte the aur mere parents ke bich fut dalne ka kaam karte the
@vikashranjan1436 Жыл бұрын
Meri mummy 20 saal tak sahi.
@Ritez_ Жыл бұрын
@@vikashranjan1436Fir kya hua
@Yogendra55Yadav Жыл бұрын
@@vikashranjan1436 Bhai aab India mein bhi west ki tarah nuclear family system chalu hoo Gaya hain
@underratedidiot4568 Жыл бұрын
Apki mummy apke samne roti thi ye sab baato pe? Very bad mother tbh
@friendshiprocks8673 Жыл бұрын
@@underratedidiot4568Maa ka sabse achi dost beti ya beta hi hota he. Wo aur kiske samne roegi, feelings exchange karna jaruri hota he nehi to insan depression me chala jata he. Jisko mental health k bareme pata he wo log samajh pate he. Aur maike wale bhi sadi k bad itne puchte nehi, boldete he teri kismat ham kya kare. To maa kisse feelings share karegi, she is also a human right?????
@SmithaSeshadri Жыл бұрын
This man is doing a favor on the small percentage of sensitive people in this country. Large part of India is insensitive on these topics and mental trauma is mostly for the sensitive minds
@chetnakatyal5625 Жыл бұрын
Right
@Lolobebo51 Жыл бұрын
Sir aap ko khuda ne door tak dekhne ki Shakti di hai.....u r genious
@atithembram9768 Жыл бұрын
"CHUNA HAI KYA"...i laughed out so loud🤣🤣🤣🤣
@harimaxrealty6786 Жыл бұрын
Agree totally, Amit ji. Thank you so much for posting videos. My husband and I appreciate your thoughts a lot. Absolute truth . Amazing observation with perfect solutions. You are doing a great work for the society🙏
@SumanSingh-wv4ue Жыл бұрын
Thankyou Sir, aapne to 20 mnt m 12 saal k guilt se nikal dia....aap jo bol rhe ho same situation were at my sasural..and last m jb maine job ki vjh se kisise jyda milna chhida tb baaat samne aai k atleast chai paani puchhne or namste krne to aaye bahu....😊
@creativityunlimited3694 Жыл бұрын
Really...😂😂😂....much-needed topic, as usual Amit Sir all your topics are essential n mind-blowing...Thank you 😊😊
@dhanrajbabooram6 Жыл бұрын
It is a very important topic for the new generation living in India. They must understand that their dwelling is the most important and private place that needs to be protected from your friends and far relatives.
@iampeaceful Жыл бұрын
I recently found your channel and it has been such a delight to watch you. What beautiful takes on day to day life! What humour! Clarity on various subjects is superb. I’m writing this to appreciate so you keep making more. Thank you.
@Hetal28 Жыл бұрын
I am so tired of these comments and pressure “ Ghar aaye mehmaan or koi bhi ghar aaya toh bina khilaye pilaye kaise bhej sakte hai !! “ Elders say such things and shame our generation always I think we are the transition generation who adjusted to such things but next genz won’t
@aarthishetty2214 Жыл бұрын
Not transition gen ,sandwich gen between 2 dominating gen.
@Samikshakomal Жыл бұрын
Simple that aaye Rehman ko bolo apne ghar jake aaram se khaye jo khana h❤😂😂😂😂
@Hetal28 Жыл бұрын
@@aarthishetty2214 yes you are right We are sandwiched for sure
@sawrajsingh3469 Жыл бұрын
👍👍
@doncorleone3901 Жыл бұрын
i don't understand the negativity around this whole food thing. I feel it is a way of showing love to people. It need not be an elaborate thing - but asking someone to join for lunch is such an act of love. It is also an Indian thing. Nobody is dying to eat at my place, it is an honor if a close relative or friend is dropping by and i can share food with them.
@saadatmanzoor4440 Жыл бұрын
society will force these things upon you, but remember, the time you let the environment control you, you start to loose, don't do things just because others are doing it, do what suits your needs and what benefits you and your family. Amazing content you post on this channel sir.
@sandeepchaudhary9670 Жыл бұрын
Sir I have so much suffered due to behaviour of my father. For 5-6 years there wasn't a day when we don't have guest in our house. My study suffered due to this so much.
@Hetal28 Жыл бұрын
100 % relatable This is still happening so much With in laws or parents both sides same system where women only have to bear the brunt but how to make our dad or father in law or uncles understand this issue ? Very difficult to bring about this change
@aarthishetty2214 Жыл бұрын
True that. I regret falling in line with such freeloaders
@lakshaybajaj7733 Жыл бұрын
🎉🎉
@atithembram9768 Жыл бұрын
send this video to them.....
@vasundharakulkarni-km9xr Жыл бұрын
@@Hetal28 same with me.even still I am doing.
@doncorleone3901 Жыл бұрын
Its your family. Do it lovingly and you will also get a lot of love and affection
@shikhajain8406 Жыл бұрын
Festivals per bhi mandatory hota hai ki nanad aayegi to bhabhi hi khana banayegi aur serve karne ke aur unke jaane ke baad hi woh apne ghar jaayegi.
@Sarojdixit1 Жыл бұрын
Yah culture m.p. mai bahut hain.
@utsavmehra98 Жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong 😅
@SK-ge3vi Жыл бұрын
@@utsavmehra98bhabhi maike ja sakti hai ,kya bhiya khana nahi khilayenge?
@soumalyachakraborty7622 Жыл бұрын
Very practical sir. A very clear line should be there in friendship. I maintain it throughout my life.
@balrajsharma9609 Жыл бұрын
I can only say great things to learn n listen as usual. MAZA aa Gaya or kush samajhne ko mila. Thanks
@sg_j1547 Жыл бұрын
Each word makes complete sense . Worth listening.
@truptidhoot733 Жыл бұрын
Very practical video sir Please make a video on mother in law staying with family on her conditions after demise of father in law How to tackle the situation positively
@kannanmassey5783 Жыл бұрын
Very good content. Even I follow the same rule. My whole family like brother sisters etc when we have get together we used to do it at a central place where everybody's commutation is easy, it's good in way no budy is burdened neither the host nor the guest. Baithak system was the best...
@Sarojdixit1 Жыл бұрын
Mere husband aapke videos dekhne se mna karte h...kyoki aap truth samne rakhte hain..🙏
@friendshiprocks8673 Жыл бұрын
Sach sunke logon ki fat ti he. Even old people doesnot like his videos 😂
@sonychaturvedi523 Жыл бұрын
😂😂 same here
@av7337 Жыл бұрын
Auntyji chubti vahi baatein hai jo Sach hoti hain..
@user-tp9hn7wv8j Жыл бұрын
Auntiji kya aap earning woman ho?
@JyotiTiwari-oq9jp Жыл бұрын
Indian log private space ki respect nahi karte which is too essential for mental health. Mujhe to saare creative ideas hi akele mein aate hain. When we have our space we evolve better.
@jignagandhi7787 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely true...my mom entertained cousins CMG from USA and every time they stayed for days and it was so disturbing
@Kushagrasgupta Жыл бұрын
People have their say that one should spend time with their elderlies. But I haven't found a single aged person in my entire family, thought process of whom I get inspire from. Thank you so much for filling that vacuum in my life.
@kirtichincholkar2048 Жыл бұрын
Sir, please make video on narcissism especially in Indian households. Liked each video by you.Hats off to you.
@nilinimagupta5311 Жыл бұрын
Very relevant advise Amit ji. Bahut dino se koi case study nahi aayi. Eagerly waiting for the same.
@shibakarmakar7030 Жыл бұрын
Urban life is so stressful. Now i get the point why they need consultants to talk other than friends, teachers, relatives.Come to villages the real sukun is here believe me or not.
@jaineetsethi5235 Жыл бұрын
Hello sir I really want you to make a video on ladies whose husbands are all time busy with work and ladies are house wife’s . Please guide them how to utilise their time n not get frustrated for being alone most of the time.
@nirupamasharma438910 ай бұрын
Look for a job if you have so much of free time. He has mentioned that thousands of times in his videos.
@prabhavenkatesh7931 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful talk, Sir. You are bringing about a much needed positive change in Indian society. And since you are direct, unassuming and sensible, you tell people things as they are😅
@dumcharaz8538 Жыл бұрын
Sir plz make a video on Sexless marriages which me & most of my friends of this generation are going through
@ayanbhattacharjee1076 Жыл бұрын
Nothing like that exists
@dumcharaz8538 Жыл бұрын
@@ayanbhattacharjee1076 it exist my dear. If you don't have depression then it does not mean depression does not exist. You only understand or relate those things which you know or hear about. This is new trend which we are facing recently
@Hetal28 Жыл бұрын
Yes this is also a underlying issue in many marriages across the world Lot of my friends have told me about this openly which then leads to affairs & divorces
@anjusingh5082 Жыл бұрын
@@dumcharaz8538really
@akstream6172 Жыл бұрын
Underated topic.
@juhisharmaprasad7381 Жыл бұрын
I can understand this.....but my husband doesn't understand this ...
@AS-jo8qh Жыл бұрын
Meri mummy ko bhi turant shadi ke baad bahut sehna pada tha ye. Par jab meri mummy unke Ghar jati thi wo chai bhi nahi puchte the. Infact jalte the aur mere parents ke bich fut dalne ka kaam karte the
@neetu11p Жыл бұрын
Please share this video as much as possible! It is very important that people understand this.
@rupalishankerarthub Жыл бұрын
Great video! The occasional dinner or lunch invitation to friends is fine I think. But inviting office colleagues at home is completely not required.
@RajSingh-fm6mf Жыл бұрын
Muze aapke hath ka khana hai.❤
@richasingh2184 Жыл бұрын
Sir seriously ye video to mujhe apne saas ko dekhna chahiye.....m ye baat 14 saal se apne saas ko husband ko kafe samjha chuki hu.....thanks for this video 👍
@Prachi-sha Жыл бұрын
100% relatable content. Guruji always on point.
@manas4752 Жыл бұрын
Best thing about videos is that it gives awareness of our surroundings in utmost interesting way. Thank you Guruji
@Rn45634 Жыл бұрын
Defence sector ke families jo quarters mei rehte hai unko yahi kaam hai. Dusro ke ghar jaana.
@namratas1929 Жыл бұрын
10 years before in Singapore I observed this.Our neighbors though very friendly with us fever even once invited us today their house.We would sit in hotels during get together or birthday party celebrations.I appreciated their style of privacy.
@caankitagrover4992 Жыл бұрын
Very deep video.. I understand these things quite well. Thank u for bringing out these issues openly in society.
@preetisingh9761 Жыл бұрын
Main bhi ye dikkat jheli hai apni pregnancy ke time par. 3rd trimster ke akhir ka 1 month bach atha jab main apne sasural gonda gayi thi. Gonda shahar ka ghar gaon ke ghar se bahut pass hone ki wajah se aur meri saas ki ati mitrta ke karan pura din koi na koi ghar mein guest rahta tha. Pura din chai pani dene mein hi bit jata tha. Pareshan hokar maine bhana banna shuru kar diya. Pregnancy ki wajah se raat mein neend na aaye aur jab din mein kisi waqt aankh lag jaye to meri saas mujhe chai banane ke liye utha deti thi. Par thank you sir ji aaj aapki baat sunkar bahut achha lag raha hai.
@GyanBhaktiSagar Жыл бұрын
Sir aapke video practical , spiritual aur bahot hi knowledgeable hai🎉
@sayeemazainab8327 Жыл бұрын
Your content is much needed for this generation as we are confused in life and our parents dont teach us how to tackle real life problems we face in day to day life
@theohewson5992 Жыл бұрын
This was a very needed video. I have personally faced and observed the same. Thanks for bringing these topics in light.
@IamRahul_007 Жыл бұрын
Dhamakedaaaaaaar Mazzaaaaa Aaaa Gayaaaaa, Amit Guru Ji!!! 🔥✨🌪️🔥✨
@ushna5569 Жыл бұрын
I don't know how to thank you for these eye-opening videos! Probably by becoming a paid subscriber 😏 If only we had this kind of information 40 yrs ago. My parents, in-laws and myself would have had much happier lives. My parents had a miserable marriage because of this issue. Thankfully at least now we have the opportunity to fix it 🙏
@nene-chan2990 Жыл бұрын
Ye bilkul sahi bat jinko hum khilane ko bulate h wo khud kbhi nhi bulate hume, meri life me 6’7 family aise h, pehle ladke the shadi ke bad khudki wife ayi to kbhi ek bar bhi nhi bulaya 🙄
@Samikshakomal Жыл бұрын
Very good topic ..but sir jo real relative aake ghar me ghus ke aapki hr chij ko lekar judgemental hote h unka kya kiya jaye...I am also living in gurugram but I am bothered abt inviting anyone at my home ..because I think they will come and meri hr chij ko lekar judgemental honge...I am too much peach lover..dont want any chaos in my life❤❤❤.plz make a video on this topic also
@farzanayasmean3586 Жыл бұрын
If a man of house is not stronge for their family then it will happened.stupid husband
@shubhabharti7071 Жыл бұрын
If you are at peace with yourself then why should any judgment of anyone rattle you... You don't go to others and they won't come to your home. Period! Kabhi kabhi bahut peace bhi nuksaan dayak hoti hai. You may be young now so can afford to be aloof but once you cross 30 yrs, you will long for some social interaction. Try to strike a balance between work life and healthy social life. Loneliness can lead to depression so be wary of it, many young ppl are battling with it in their plush apartments.
@Prince_Oberoi4u Жыл бұрын
Really at least someone stood for middle class. God bless you
@mihirdey_1813 Жыл бұрын
Great video guruji. My mother used to do the same tired thing when father's relative and colleagues use to visit on every holidays. Well, waiting for your video on MGTOW movement.
@ostrav24 Жыл бұрын
I am 1950s model and neither me or my mother ever learnt to cook. We always had cooks. So no bhabheeji ke haath ke khana was ever offered or asked for.😅😅😅😅😅😅
@SK-ge3vi Жыл бұрын
Sso lucky.
@ostrav24 Жыл бұрын
@@SK-ge3vi my 7 decades on living in society has taught me one thing: DO NOT ATTEMPT TO DO ANYTHING YOU DO NOT LIKE.
@meeeeeeauuuuuuuu Жыл бұрын
I am seeing this playing out in my parents house in the villege. relatives, papa ki dost aa jaye aur mera apne room me band ho jata hai, nikalna hi nahi hai jab tak log chale na jaye
@aarthishetty2214 Жыл бұрын
My inlaws stayed separately, believe it or not , they kept coming ,and invited their relatives to my home . I spent 20 years adjusting my work, children ,inlaws, my people with Sanki maids . Suffered a lot . Women suffer when husband doesn't open mouth kyooke usko mummy henpecked bolegi.
@VJ-4444 Жыл бұрын
Another 20/10 video sir. Please make a video on guests staying at your house & vice versa to save hotel expenses. 😊
@kuldeepsinghwani3293 Жыл бұрын
Very very true sir, respect u for all video's, our privacy gets hit, we get tired of all this, bahar wala comes pokes nose, create fights in family, make fun of children,, everything is very very bad and this is true Narcassist likes this,, very good observation 🙏
@ushasingh1761 Жыл бұрын
Menfolk who impose such things on their families..don't know what they are trying to prove. Mostly visitors come to judge and flats are just not conducive for such get togethers.
@alkadeshpande6628 Жыл бұрын
so true!i have seen people who are in blood relation they just come and take your hospitality and they turn their face when some callamity comes or you need them.ये बहोतही सच बात है!आपके पास आके सब आदरातिथ्य लेनेवाले सगे संबंधी,खुनके रिश्तेदार आपपर कोई आपत्ती आती है या आपको उनकी जरुरत लगती है तब मुॅंह फेर लेते है!क्या मालूम इनकी सोचही ऐसी रहती है की आपका अच्छा खासा चलते घरमें कुछ अनबन या न चाहनेवाली बाते होने लगती है,घर बिखरनेतक नौबत आती है!
@kavitatiwari9661 Жыл бұрын
Mai varanasi se hu, bt Mere husband aise hi hai.... Kisi ko nahi bulate... Jo ana chahta h use bahar hi le jate hai.... Hamari life bohut smooth chal rahi hai,
@quinorioncess6796 Жыл бұрын
Sir, cent% relatable. You have said the truth. Please do make more of such much-needed videos. Really eye-opening.
@User6m7-112 Жыл бұрын
Mere frends ko main jab bhi ghar bulati thi..shadi se pahle to vo apna nasta maket se lete hue aate the..😂😂 ek din mujhe apni colleague ke Ghar kisi kaam se Jana tha to main sabke liye chhole bhature pack karke le gyi... Sabne sath mein nasta Kiya..aur baate ki..mujhe khud kharab lagta hai koi hamare aane ka naam sunkar pareshan ho
@user-pf6uz5sj3n Жыл бұрын
बहुत ही अच्छे टॉपिक पर विडियो बनाया और बहुत ही सही बात की है, आशा करते हैं कि आगे भी ऐसे ही वीडियो देखने को मिलेंगे
@amijoshi2559 Жыл бұрын
Hamare ghar ek bar relatives aa gaye the kehke ki usi side ja rahe hai milne aayenge fir no ladies were present in the house to kehne lage arre yaar tu batata nahi ki bhabhiji gharpe nahi hai bhabhiji ke hath ka lunch karke jaate...fir they sat for half an hour and left
@friendshiprocks8673 Жыл бұрын
Bade ae free ka khana khane wale
@sowmyasowmyaroopa4483 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you Sir.We should invite only a few,trusted and genuine people to our homes.
@piscificocean683010 ай бұрын
Amit ji, I totally agree with you. I know a person who lost his house because of inviting wrong people in his house, some of them were narcissists and emotionally toxic people. So it is very important nowadays to not invite people at home. 🤔
@sayansarkar17 Жыл бұрын
9:07 my reaction when a girl texts me too much
@friendshiprocks8673 Жыл бұрын
😂
@AnkitKumar-kk3iw Жыл бұрын
😂
@dr.sangitavaidya3657 Жыл бұрын
आजकल जो कुंवारी लड़कियां सुंदर दिखने के लिए फैशन करती हैं, अदाएं दिखाती है, social media पे अपनी ग़लत तस्वीरें रखती हैं, विडीयो डालती हैं, शादी हो या कुछ नाचने का मौका ढूंढती है, उनके लिए भी जरूरी ज्ञान दें। Career में, intelligence और maturity पे इनका ध्यान नहीं है। लोगों का attraction और likes चाहिए इन्हें।
@shivkapoor3302 Жыл бұрын
Don't worry Ma'am 5 se 6 saal ka khel hai sab balance ho jayega nature ke dwara just wait and watch have faith in divine
@user-nh9wt7pr6s Жыл бұрын
@@shivkapoor3302 👍bahut sateek baat boli apne
@user-nh9wt7pr6s Жыл бұрын
@@shivkapoor3302 is baat ka anuman kaise lga apko ,matlab kinhi mhapurush ko follow karte hai aap?
@shivkapoor3302 Жыл бұрын
@@user-nh9wt7pr6s samay ke flow ko samjho aise logo saath company karo joh tumhe tumahari sacchai batate ,growth mindset ke ho aur friends wisely choose karo ho hanuman, lord shiv and ganesh ji jo mahapurush follow aur wisdom jo over the period of time aata hai anubhav experience ke saath
@swatipriya562 Жыл бұрын
?? Toh kya hogya ?? I think there is no harm involving in extra activities; only thing is kisi ka addiction na ho ;
@CuSeer Жыл бұрын
Why don't you say - men learn cooking, start cooking and then invite people
@get2dude2000 Жыл бұрын
My friend, men already took over cooking regime from ladies long back... Look out from chef to cook to delivery everything is men only... Ab Ghar par bhi Aadmi hi kare...
@PLAY-zb6sz Жыл бұрын
Masla jamajh nehi aya..think deeper...no hard and fast rule..oversimplification: entertaining self invited people is ur choice..and there is an option. Kisko bulana hai aur kisse bahar milna hai,khud ko samajdari ke sath decision lena hai.
@nacked832 Жыл бұрын
Bhabhi ji ke hath ka khana hai means dirty mind
@gauravsinghrajawat99395 ай бұрын
Bhabhi ke hath ka bhojan karna hai, not bhaiya. 😊
@lawanyaarvind2810 Жыл бұрын
What a crackerjack of an explosive topic, Sir...Incisive and insightful analysis as always
@CreativityEducation Жыл бұрын
Sir aapke video se bht knowledge milti hai. Maza 😂 aajata hai.
@keshav1578 Жыл бұрын
Very right... When somebody comes, other members of the house activities are stalled, disturbed.. it becomes so uncomfortable, no freedom.. But, it is very difficult to avoid these people.. Ghar ka address to pata hai.. as jate hai.. andar bulane se Mana kaise Kare..
@shahnazali2146 Жыл бұрын
Yea topic hamari society ki requirement hayn abhi kuch log bohot bholay hayn . GOD BLESS YOU ❤
@nikhitasequeira3555 ай бұрын
Very true Sir. Moreover, I have witnessed some husbands boasting about/praising their mothers for serving guests, cooking for 30 plus people back in the days and how their current wives have so many issues doing the same. Also true, many husbands themselves would never cook for their own friends but will invite their friends and expect their wives to cook.
@shirleybose1798 Жыл бұрын
Namaskar Mr. Sangwan 🙏you are quite right. We stopped calling people home 10 years ago
@anitaprabha1783 Жыл бұрын
Apkey jaisa sabhi gents nahi सोचतें hai. Aur old generation ke husband abhi bhi apni wife ko apna life partner nahi balki maid servant samajhtey hai
@neelamaggarwal4053 Жыл бұрын
It's true sir , hamare parents ke time PE to bahut zyada hua, hamare time pe bhi bahut that but ab bachhe samaghdar ho gayee hai. Na to vo kisi Ko bulaye Ghar PE aur Hume bhi kehte ki bulana hai to tab bulana jab hum Ghar PE nahi honge
@shashijain5084 Жыл бұрын
This won't sit well with some people 😏 but you are absolutely right about all the aspects of this .
@manishgupta8592 Жыл бұрын
U r 100% right. My father insulted in front of everybody who came to our house.