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[@gavreynolds2689]

Hey mate I read a comment below about custody of kids and stuff in Thailand which you and I replied to. Been thinking about what they said and feel like I have to tell you this, go and get some legal advise from a good lawyer in a firm preferably a Western at that firm and just find out for sure what your rights are and what you need to do to protect yourself and the twins in the future.

[@rickyisaan]

@@gavreynolds2689 thank you Gav. Definitely doesn't hurt to do

[@bozbozman1575]

​@@rickyisaanintegrity legal on YT is a good place to start ❤

[@brilliantbutblue]

The Thai Grandma needs to be given grace at this time. She has just lost her Daughter and her Husband in a very short period. Lily and Daisy are helping to heal her broken heart. Respect to you Ricky. 👍

[@hillaryjoymacdonald3019]

❤❤❤

[@liam5382]

People are quick to judge online. I think you're doing a great job mate

[@rickyisaan]

Appreciate it Liam

[@kimtongo3533]

I totally agree!!! Ricky you are doing a fantastic job!!! 🩵❤️💙💚💙❤️

[@fendermatt874]

Thats why there's a comment section 😂😂

[@TangerineTulip]

They should look at their own lives before making unfounded assumptions. 😊❤

[@juliegreentree1773]

hi Ricky your doing an amazing job In a very tragic situation you are a beautiful young man be kind to yourself as you are to all involved 💙 🇦🇺

[@strawbs1005]

Love this! I'm sure most folk watching your videos are cheering you on! I am a single mum and raising one child is hard enough, let along two. I welcome all the support I can get from friends and family. You definitely do not have to justify your life and the choices you make to anyone. If viewers don't like what they are seeing...why on earth are they watching?! All parents are making it up as they go along...after all, kids and life do not come with an instruction manual. You're doing great!

[@rickyisaan]

Exactly. We're all just trying to figure everything out in life. And I don't understand why they keep watching if they don't like it. But I definitely wanted to discuss it, as both those comments were respectful compared to some of the other comments I get.

[@darrenbadger6814]

Some people have no filter and no clue, matt and emma suck

[@rickyisaan]

@@darrenbadger6814 absolutely nothing against either of them. They were respectful in their comments compared to others

[@antruok4950]

Great comment

[@Peter-pe6pp]

It is better for you to accept help from their Grandma than to struggle and not do a good job. No reflection on you but for anyone it would be hard to care for them 24/7 and also provide for them. You have not one but two babies and wait till they start crawling and running around. This arrangement is good for now. Things will change as they grow.

[@chirasirisambhand8274]

It’s great that you are sharing the cute twins with their grandmother, as you may now know that in Thailand, the family is very close knit one. The twins are sort of a remembrance of her late daughter! The twins are in good hands with their grandmother too. All the best to you and love to the twins.

[@mpen5014]

You were blessed to meet a nice person and extremely blessed to have the Thai family to help you and keep them so close to their mom's family!! 💗💗

[@laikaevelyn4478]

Ricky, sharing the twins with Grandma is the very BEST decision for you, the kids and grandma. I am African and there is a saying where i come from that "a child is raised by the entire village and not jsut the parents". I buy into this and i support you fully. Raising any child is stress and if you want to enjoy your children and enjoy them and vice versa, you will need all the support you can get. Presently, your best support is Eid's family cos we trust them fully. Please do not explain this issue anymore. We love to see you and the kids so please keep on with your content as it is. Have fun Ricky and enjoy the babies and enjoy your life in Thailand

[@rickyisaan]

Yes, this is the last time I explain this issue. Thank you.

[@sumaleechuannok5303]

It great that you sharing with grandma,she has lose so much so good for grandma xo

[@melindataljaard2753]

Be yourself and ignore the Emmas

[@Paihok6231]

❤ You’ve has said it all. Any children of any background need to connected with their families of both sides. Grandma LOVE the twins and I’m sure she would care for them just like her own children ❤.

[@wichetleelamanit6195]

Absolutely agree.

[@beverlywinter7625]

I think under the circumstances you are doing exactly what is best for your girls. Spending time with Grandma they will learn Thai culture and the language. You can teach them English and your culture. Children are very adaptable and will thrive under this arrangement. A friend of mine spoke French only to her children and her husband only English and by the time they where 3 they spoke both languages very well. Eid would want this for her Mom and babies. It takes a village to help raise children. Best of both worlds the way I see it. ❤

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you so much Beverly. You're an wonderful person and I love your supportive comments on every video.

[@beverlywinter7625]

@@rickyisaan Thank you Ricky. I love your vlogs and wish you all the best. Looking forward to your Mom's next visit as well.

[@DreamofThailand19000]

Love this comment!

[@hillaryjoymacdonald3019]

Exactly 💯. The twins need Grandma ❤❤❤

[@annemariewight6079]

I think you're doing the right thing regarding the Thai grandmother and family. I don't think you need to justify what you do and why. You're doing so well and love your girls so much. Take care 💕

[@fxn7279]

As a Malaysian your decision and current arrangement is natural and fully understood. Why do people think they are entitled to make decisions or judge 😮. Most of us here know you are doing the best you can for your beautiful girls, for your Thai family, your Aussie family and for YOU.

[@paulineryan579]

Ricky I understand your situation with the Thai grandmother is difficult in sharing the twins and it's sad that you feel you have to justify your decisions to some subscribers. You are trying to do the best for her, you and your beautiful girls and you are being as fair as you can. Keep doing what you feel is right but you are their father and sole surviving parent so you are their most important person. We go through many changes in life but your kids are always your kids. ❤❤

[@lindc1070]

In Asian culture it is very normal for grandparents and extended family to help raise the kids. Like it has been said " It takes a village to raise a child". Ricky isnt shirking his responsibilities, he is sharing them with their Thai family. It will be to their benefit

[@DaDada-et3zm]

From the body language that the child expresses when he sees his father's face, she knows that she needs his father.Because when she sees his face . She is eager to smile and will hug to be with you.But who willyou raise him?It's your right. We try to support you because we love little Angels who haven't had a mother since they were little.As long as you keep taking pictures for us to watch.!!Don't forget your chidren,the warmth of everyone in the world cennot replace parents.!!! wish you happiness 🎉🎉🎉

[@Seektruth65]

It’s a family thing. I’m a single mum with twin boys and it is hard, I thank God for the support and love that family give them. You’re doing really well. Hang in there mate.

[@pamgobaira4587]

It's your life Ricky and the girls are your children. You do what's best for you. You're a decent person taking consideration for the Thai family. Don't let the comments get you down.👍🌞

[@katypeck8722]

I completely understand what your doing and why with the Girls and Grandma. I shared my brand new Son with his Dad and Grandma often. It wasnt easy, but they love him just as much as me and the bottom line is they are being raised with so much extra unconditional love and how can that be wrong. My Boy is 16 yrs old now and he is turning out to truly be such a well rounded amazing young Man. I think you are doing great!

[@lynettebaker7547]

Omg Ricky don't listen to comments like that, the girls are happy your happy and that's all that matters, you probably see more of your girls than most fathers do. Chin up your doing your best.❤

[@Thailand_fan17]

Mate I don’t think you need to explain but I understand why you are, people are invited into your life because you do KZbin and share your experiences with them. I’m very grateful for everything you post because it keeps me entertained, happy and provides a connection with you and Thailand. Keep being you mate and keep enjoying yourself with your beautiful family 🙏

[@rickyisaan]

Appreciate it Clarkie. Sometimes I need to explain stuff I guess with the audience. But glad you're still liking the content mate

[@antruok4950]

Can’t get any more honest and open Nice video mate You are a quality person , you always work in with the grandma even though the language barrier , for now , is constant - the kids can watch these videos in the future and see how they were looked after - Thanks as always Rick 👍🙏

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you Ant 🐜 you're a great person mate

[@davestringer7378]

Did you know that walk about Wayne is a cheap Charlie and a begger. He lives on £1 a day

[@tiatamara11]

I ended up being the sole parent of my children. I did it by myself and the eldest is a Dr....the others are works in progress.

[@ninaanetteassarsson4328]

Since you now are a single parents, not even your choice ! No one had asked the same questions if you had been a mother ! Or if your mother had helped you out ! This is great ! If something happens to you, broken leg or what ever, hospitals for a few days, the girls are now safe and know the grandmother. It will not be a scary thing for them stay there. I think you are really doing good decissions for you and the girls . Stay safe 😘

[@tobyprice1092]

The first comment is from someone who obviously does not stay here. As we both know your not dumping the kids with the granny. The fact is she wants them to have time with her and the rest of the family. Family is a massive thing here in Thailand. I have two nephews who stay with me and there is nothing strange about it. Their parents work in other locations so we are happy to have them. It's the Thai way. If you were in OZ the kids would probably be in child care while you work. It's better they are with their family.

[@bevmacmillan7079]

Great video. My children are not motivated by money. They could have more but spend time with their families instead of working all the time. Balance is the key. U have lots on your side Ricky

[@jadebaz5571]

Ricky you're doijg a great job, i am a twin and raised my son on my own whilst working full-time . It was my biggest regret working full-time and putting my son in care, my mother wasn't interested in my son's life. I think you are doing an amazing job and you will find most of viewers have no issues with the decisions you are making for your twin daughters and most importantly you need to take care of yourself and mental health as first priority. You're doing a great job! I think it's wonderful the Grandma is involved, she has lost her daughter and husband , this time spent with the twins would be very therapeutic for her. Take care 🙏

[@michellegordon4211]

Your kids will have the best of both worlds as you navigate this path. God bless all of you.

[@mygoodlife9725]

Hey Ricky, It takes a village to raise kids and you are doing what's right for you and your family, due to very challenging circumstances . Good on you and keep doing what's right for all of you!

[@LindaHadley]

Those baby girls need to spend time with their grandmother to learn about their Thai heritage. It is difficult for a single man to raise 2 babies on his own. Let the Thai family help you and it makes them happy to do it.

[@MoonlitMumma]

I think your doing an amazing job with all of this. If I put myself in grandmothers shoes, I can totally see how this would affect her. I commend you for thinking of her and taking her feelings and wants on board. I'm so glad you have found someone too and also feel Eid has had a hand in this. Keep on keeping on Ricky. Don't worry about those who can't see past the surface as what you are doing goes so much deeper than they can obviously understand. Much love from FNQ 🇦🇺

[@deangillam8604]

Fully understand what your saying it's a thai thing,my wife who is Thai got brought up for about 7yrs with both her grandparents while her parents worked away to build a future.your doing good ,for you and their grandmother.i look forward to see what other projects you get on with.

[@stevenm7692]

Hey mate, keep chippin away, keep your head on straight and don't worry too much what others think.

[@rickyisaan]

Appreciate it Steve. Doesn't both me much. But when the same questions get asked over and over, I thought it's best to clear things up

[@Freewheeling6060]

Totally agree

[@baaser900]

Hi Ricky, there are so many people with so many opinions and personal views which I have heard in my life and I found that following my own heart and path has served me best. I, as anyone else have my own options and views on what I value and how life should be but I do not pretend to know and prescribe how someone else should live theirs. You picked out two great examples of comments that although perhaps trying to help are not in your shoes and do not know what is best in your situation at all or know all the nuances and details of your life. You answered these comments perfectly in your video btw. You are managing the situation perfectly imho, you have found a perfect balance that is practical, emotionally supportive to all involved, and benefits the girls, grand ma, your in-laws and yourself. It would be a mistake and wrong to deprive this experience and sharing together the girls at this beautiful stage of their lives. Life is long and it will wind in many directions and in many ways and almost always ends up much better than we think it will. No need to act on things that are not relevant in the present as is our human nature and tendency. So bud, keep doing what you're doing, it has been a difficult year with everybody's loss. This togetherness is what everyone needs to heal and this sharing will, in the short and long run help everybody get through this big emotional challenge. You're doing an amazing job and keep up the good work on your channel. Watching your videos really makes me miss Thailand. Cheers, from a Thailand loving Farung from Vancouver, Canada

[@Davrosss]

Keep on keeping on mate.. you’re doing a fantastic job Ricky ❤

[@musaziz1948]

You're doing a great job mate. ❤❤to the twins.

[@billyjohnson9166]

Ricky you’re spot on. You’re doing the best for you and your girls and I applaud you. You as there father should have them at least a few days a week as they’re your children. You’re living a dream as I am in the Philippines.

[@kookietherapy9398]

A couple of things: I know great sadness, and babies are the only Cure and bring great Joy. Your girls give Grandma Life. My bro had a baby. My Mom was Thankful that she was allowed and involved in her only granddaughters life, they shared 8yrs together. I understand. It's all good.

[@kookietherapy9398]

Otherwise, I only want to see you HOLD your daughters more. I hope you do. They sure seem to love you. I am certain it is not easy holding a camera and a child. I Know there is So Much we do not see on 30min videos.

[@user-xq1qb1pk1o]

ริกกี้คุณทำดีที่สุดแล้ว ความคิดและสถานการณ์ของคนเราไม่เหมือนกันเสมอไป

[@user-tl7xz3xj6o]

👍✌️❤️❤️❤️ Hi, today you did your best.✌️✌️❤️

[@Vlogged-off]

Your life Ricky your decisions your babies ... Beautiful arrangement you have ... There are many ways to bring up children .... ❤

[@maewparker588]

You do the right thing Ricky 👍I'm on your side and I understand you. Some people are not knowing what happens in real life in Thailand you don't have to worry about them. Do whatever you happy and sharing the Princess with yai yai ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@belindarayner2101]

Keep going Buddy your doing great ❤ luv watching your little chiclets grow

[@dirk7207]

I am divorced from my sons my mother, I still every year fly him to the Philippines to see his grandparents. Best decision I have ever made. Anyone who questions someone's desire to keep these bonds alive is not really human inside.

[@jamiesutton5429]

Hey Ricky The wife and I really enjoy watching all of your videos. We appreciate all what you choose to share with your viewers. How you are and have handled the situation you found yourself in, in a foreign country alone is an absolute credit to you. You are a great role model for young Aussie men on how to handle very difficult situations in life. As an Aussie myself, very proud of you mate. 👍🏻👍🏻🇦🇺🇦🇺

[@nikkimclay5474]

Well said

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you Jamie. Not always easy. But trying my best. Hate having to explain it. But it is what it is

[@michaelomara1922]

Well said ricky ya doing what makes yo happy for you and the girls

[@juliehawkes1050]

Hi ricky it doesn't matter what people think,there your children so no ones buisness what you do.your doing a great job

[@Cryptonight3]

Ricky your doing a great job mate ,you keep doing you and ignore all the negative comments.

[@vicky4vixen]

Very well said! I have to admit, I wouldn’t have given such a gracious and understanding response! At the end of the day, you are living your life, no one else is living it for you. Your decisions make perfect sense to me, and I totally get where you are coming from. I can understand you’re trying to keep the peace, with your family, while also accepting their very much needed help, in a foreign country. Of course you are young, life’s a learning game at any age, but you’re not a monk! If people feel you should be staying at home, twiddling your thumbs from dawn to dusk & back again, without interaction, including socialising with other people, then that’s their prerogative. But I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again, this is YOUR life, which is nobody else’s business but your own! I can’t see any chains shackling people to your channel, so If they have issues, they can simply walk away! However, if they can behave like most normal adults, and give constructive advice, to help, or even make suggestions for you to consider, then fair play! Anything else is just bullying/trolling in my opinion, which is unacceptable! My little offering of help, which you can choose to consider, or dismiss, is: continue doing what makes you happy, and the fine man that you are, and ignore the baiting. If I were your mum, I’d be so proud of you, and your gorgeous young babies! Much love, from the UK! XX

[@amiami9608]

You are a great father and it's very nice of you that you care about your Thai family!

[@sallygilbert7536]

Good for you Ricky!

[@mathiasgrahn4440]

Hi Ricky. Hope all is well. I think you are trying to do what is best for you and your daughters. There will always be people who have opinions that you should do one thing or the other. As long as you put your daughters best interests first. It's good to live in the present but at the same time have a look ahead for the daughters and yourself but it seems you already have that so keep working on it. Full understanding that it is a lot of work and you do everything you can for your daughters. It's important to take a break when you can and relax, you have to conserve your battery in order to be a good parent Best regards Mathias

[@rachs7920]

Thanks for your videos and sharing your heart wrenching journey x. There is no right or wrong in your situation you have to do what you feel is best for you and your daughters and extended family - do what you believe is right and OK in your heart - bless you all x❤

[@alandowney8847]

Hey Ricky, just keep doing what you think is best its your life and they are your beautiful little girls..

[@wiphaphonprice8143]

Hi Ricky I am from Burirum and recently I am live in UK 🇬🇧 I am watch your channel every day and I am learning a lot more English from you ❤ I quite like the Australian accent love it ❤ Anyway stay strong and think positive ❤you are doing well ❤

[@lanivonn-pw8gd]

🌺🌸🌼 Ricky! I think you’re doing great!! I love what you said about “ grandma getting all the Lily and Daisy time she can because she absolutely deserves it” and “ we need to share them” 🥰 so sweet! I think you’re such a great father!! Keep up the good work 👍🏽 I am so happy for you and finding someone 🫶🏽, I wish you the best! Love from Hawaii 😊❤️🤙🏽

[@wichetleelamanit6195]

Ricky don't worry and be happy!

[@lillylausable]

Ricky do your thing, you are doing amazing! It is such a beautiful thing you are doing for the girls and their grandmother, what a gift to her after the loss of her daughter and her husband. Things are different in Thailand (I live there too), what you are doing is not unusual, so many children actually live full time with their grandparents. Keep doing what you are doing, keep loving your girls and please keep sharing your life with us.

[@mikeyboy3054]

I really appreciate your honest and respectful responses to questions regarding your wonderful children. The culture is very different from the West. Family is everything and I feel you're doing a great job balancing all of your responsibilities. Keep going!

[@esosun7893]

Your life, your choice. It's great for them to know both cultures. It's tough being a single parent on top of the grief of losing your wife. Take care of your mental & physical healt. Wishing you all the best

[@mariareid4908]

After watching a few of your videos this particular one inspired me to subscribe! You come across as an amazing daddy to your beautiful daughters as well as kind and understanding to your in laws 😊

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you so much Maria. Welcome to the channel

[@annssundream4729]

Well said . You are doing a great job bringing up your children and keeping the family link going. Don't worry too much you are doing your best and you need time for yourself too . Best wishes to you .

[@CaptainsVoyage]

Dear Ricky! You are doing well, and I will cheer you on. I have lived in Thailand for two decades myself, but have moved back to my own country a long while already. What I want to say, is that there are many foreigners in Thailand making videos but you are my absolute favourite channel because of your honest, chill and down to earth personality!

[@helendymock8265]

Keep up the great job you are doing. I live here and understand. Try to forget the negative vibes however just know I think most are coming from a caring place. Look forward to meeting your new companion ❤

[@rickyisaan]

100% most of the concern is coming from a good place. Just a minimal amount of trolls I guess are taking advantage of the situation. But I'm glad I've discussed it in depth now

[@helendymock8265]

@@rickyisaan yup for sure. You have done it now so let it go and those that don't agree hopefully will move on. Hope you are keeping cool, very hot here down south at the moment.

[@user-mc5fx1zy1y]

ขอชมภาพคุณเป็นคนเก่งและคนดีมากค่ะสู้ๆนะคะ

[@jiepper]

I believe that people may not fully comprehend a situation until they personally experience it. Only you know what steps you need to take to move forward with your life. Each one of us is unique. I might not be doing exactly what you are doing, but it doesn't mean what you are doing is wrong. I sincerely hope that the special person in your life will cherish and love the girls as if they were her own.

[@andydawson5341]

Good on you Ricky. You're looking after yourself, the girls and grandmother. Job done. There's no step by step guide on parenting, you've just got to follow your heart. You get some right and you get some wrong! It's cool. And there's no step by step guide on keeping the KZbin viewers happy :) Keep marching forward dude :)

[@martinomelbourne2714]

Good on ya Ricky. You've got to do what you think is best.

[@margyduke1136]

Bro, you're the expert of your and your familys life...I support you in doing what you feel is rightfor you all. ❤

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you so much. You're right, only I know. It's a shame I have to explain it all sometimes

[@assi2424]

Your doing a great job Ricky fully understand the situation you are in to be honest the twins are having the best of both worlds spending time with yourself and grandma surrounded in love ❤️ as a mum and grandmother myself i respect you ❤️ from Scotland

[@stevenboyd8747]

Hey Ricky, you are doing great mate🎉,, those kids have the best life in front of them,, tell the neysayers to go ride a bike, i just tripled my membership contribution because of this vlog. You are doing the right thing, and my guess is a lot of your viewers do not understand Thai family village life. Don't let the rubbish comments create doubt or bring you down. Cannot wait for our introduction to new good friend, i hope you bring her out of the spare room soon 😂, Cheers Ricky

[@nikkimclay5474]

That’s so kind of you

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you so much Steven. I really appreciate the support mate. Glad you're enjoying the content and what I'm doing mate. Hopefully I'll introduce her to the KZbin world one day mate

[@Citizenjim61]

Great talk Ricky setting the record straight 👍the big takeaway is that people outside of Thailand don't have an understanding of the culture that is for sure, It's great that you have met someone too. I can imagine the isolation must have been horrendous, are you going to or are you learning Thai Mate?

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you so much. I'm always in the process of learning Thai. Everyday I get a little better. Hopefully I'll reach fluency one day. I hope

[@Citizenjim61]

@@rickyisaan thx for the reply Ricky, your 100% in the right environment to learn, I have been trying to learn but its easy to get distracted without having to practice on people in the street, but on the other side I have taught my wife to fluently use the word "dickhead" especially when we are driving 😁

[@LukeyBoy78]

Great vid mate. You didn't need to address it but good on you.. it's your life and your a Winner

[@WalkingmanPattaya]

Good conversation Ricky... appreciate knowing more....have been a little critical of you as well, which I apologize for. regarding work: Older rural Thais likely do not understand KZbin monetization. Yet a job is necessary to save money for the future and am glad to hear you have other irons on the fire. Wish you the best....agree better to do your own thing and not work for other people, or have a 9-5 job. All the best....a difficult situation for sure, stay strong

[@angiep10]

You are doing the best you can ❤ everything will work out for the best

[@somesai]

I hope you're doing well. I saw your video that KZbin recommended, and I want to say how much I admire your strength and love for your beautiful twins. It's clear that you're doing a great job despite the challenges. Remember, it's okay to ask for help when you need it. The Thai family supporting you is a blessing, and as they say, it takes a village to raise a child. Your girls always have smiles when they look at you because they know your love and care. Keep doing what's best for you and the girls.

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you so much!

[@carstenager8821]

God Bless You My Friend

[@jeffevans9071]

My Wife's Mum , brought up all her grandchildren in the Village , while the parents worked full-time , only seeing kids on long Holidays. Totally Normal. Then when they reached school age , started to live with their Mum & Dad full-time. I can see thing's changing for you too Mate like this , especially the City having better School's. Take Care Ricky.

[@jeffevans9071]

Move on , my positive comment is towards Ricky's situation . Not interested in your thoughts .

[@Grimberian72]

finally you sir! i bow! you are only doing what you believe is correct not only for you but for your babies too, and that my friend has more value than money.... respect to you!!!

[@lyndalouise3480]

Good luck to you Ricky and the girl's, your doing your best just keep putting one foot in front of the other, Bless you, take care, to your own self be true, you know what your doing and you know yourself, so don't worry about any negative comments.🙏❤️😌

[@Prostinger93]

As someone who grew up and spent most of my life in a third-world country, let me tell you this: I lived 24 years of my life in a third-world country and moved to Japan. Then I realized how much I missed - education, money, discipline, and more. My father and grandparents are British, but they lived in a third-world country because the British pounds were worth more there. My mom and siblings always think about what a stupid decision it was to keep us in a country like this. Don't do that to your girls.

[@rickyisaan]

Who's in a third world country though? Thailand isn't third world.

[@Ways2BUnique]

Keep up the good work. Life is too short; everyone doesn't think the same. When we post anything online there's always someone wanting to judge someone else life. Live your life and do the best you can and be happy.......That's all. No one is perfect and no one can take anything with them when they leave this earth. Take care Ricky and everyone, and I wish everyone happiness and great fortune.

[@melissamorris6066]

You just keep doing you! Biking is for your health, but especially your mental health. After having the most traumatic loss of losing your soulmate it's important to stay on top of mental health. I think it's great that you are sharing the girls with their Grandma. You're right, you would be away from your girls working a 9 to 5 job so if this scenario works best for you then that's all that matters. I'm a single parent of a 5 yr old & lost my soulmate of 10 yrs so I relate to your pain. I can also relate to wanting to work a job that allows you to have time with your children. I think it's amazing that you want to keep this lifestyle so you can have that quality time with the babies! I wish you continued peace & contentment 🙏. Keep on your journey & don't let the comments get you down.

[@mariettathornton5924]

Ricky- just do what feels right for you! We all know you have a good heart and you love your girls! At the same time, you do care about what your late wife’s mother feels…. You’re a good human being Ricky! I’m old enough to be your mom…I’m so happy that you have met someone 😊 Take care & be well Ricky ❤

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you so much. It probably is a flaw of mine. I want to do what's best for everyone

[@reTHAIredLIFE]

We will see where it all lands in 5 years! Hmmmm

[@rickyisaan]

Yep, see you then

[@Mydogpenny1970]

Good luck Ricki

[@wiphaphonprice8143]

That the best way to do Ricky's to make you and grandma all Thai family's happy and you sharing times between you and grandma to look after baby's girls ❤❤ you are the greatest Daddy and you're the best son in law for grandma ❤❤

[@RebeccaYoung441]

I believe grandparents are a blessing. If it works then good luck to all of u. The twins are beautiful and more than anything they seem so happy. Your doing an amazing job

[@ramfrancisuk]

I think it is good you make use of the your wife's family to help you raise your children. It is a big help and allows you to live your life. Being a single parent is hard, especially in a foreign country. The mother in law is a big help with your children learning Thai and preparing to them for school. The whole situation is a difficult one, for both you and your mother in law. ATB

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you for understanding

[@MrSnoopy400]

Hi Rick basically I think you are doing a great job looking after your twins, I am lucky to have been with a Thai lady for 25 years, and there are lots children and babies in my large Thai family, there is absolutely nothing wrong with your grandmother looking after the twins it will help develop the girls communicating , and learning being around different family members and feeling all the love , I think some people forget that your girls are half Thai , let the girls learn western values and Thai culture from the start I and my big family agree , keep up the great job you are doing as a new father xxx

[@Sarah-yq2mj]

Ricky I think you did a good job addressing the comments made by viewers who has no idea about the whole picture of your life as well as your twin daughters. Keep living life and be happy! Don’t let the negativity in others bring you down. I appreciate your honesty and humility. God bless☺🙏

[@PloyandJayinThailand]

Great explanation video, Ricky. People should understand that you are now in Thailand and it's a different culture to raise and take care of kids. There is nothing unusual that grandmothers (Yais) take a big role -Jay

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you Jay

[@rickitait4110]

You are doing fine! Wow people really should mind their own busines

[@susigorges7035]

Stay strong…..you are doing the right thing…the girls are yours…..Grandma will share❤from Australia

[@nosyfunnychannel8169]

You’re doing the right thing, I know grandparents always love their grandchildren my mum said they love grandchildren rather than their children, however I haven’t got children but understand how grandparents feels.

[@AaronLOSTWITHOUTGOD]

Ricky, you're doing great man. Good luck with everything. Take care.

[@rickyisaan]

Thank you so much Aaron

[@johnrait4784]

Good stuff Ricky, you doing the right thing in a tough situation where there's different cultures/thinking involved and it's just a balancing act, if anything maybe you are over sharing your personal life a bit too much on KZbin and there's always going to be negative comments regardless what you do, dammed if U do dammed if U don't.

[@dexterling3276]

Live your best life Ricky!!! Much love from brizzy

[@rickyisaan]

Cheers mate. Hope life is amazing in Brisbane

[@lelesaufoi3221]

Do what's right for you and your girls and their grandmother. You have a good heart and want to be fair to everyone. People can only suggest but the choice is yours. Easy said than done.

[@tairaki8219]

Hi my name is Tay my heart ❤️ go's to your twins 💓 it so sad they lost there mother.Please be strong don't let people run your life you do what best for you and your baby's. They are so beautiful 😍 I'm from Melbourne Australia 🇦🇺 love watching your Chanel i want to see your baby's grow up and God bless you all ❤❤❤

[@waynemiddleton4577]

Those girls are very happy and healthy

[@fionahamilton2060]

Hang in there Ricky. Time changes things and you never know what next month or next year will bring. Live in the moment with a set routine with the Thai family. Everybody wins then. Obtain passports when you can for the babies so they can also spend time with your family on holidays.

[@dawnegan3984]

Ricky you are very understanding of grandma to share the girls she lost thier daughter and husband I do understand you are doing the best for grandma and you babies love you all 💟🌾🐿️💟HI LITTLE GIRLS 💟💟💟💟