Why ESFPs and ESTPs Peak Early: Shocking ISTP Insights

[@mkingISTP]

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[@justcallmejon22]

I appreciate hearing your thoughts on the 'momentum' aspect of Se! We don't hear about it much in the community but I've observed it countless times about Se-doms and how important momentum is for them. Keep it up bro! Learning a lot from you!

[@mkingISTP]

Thanks. 🙏🏽

[@kevrokka.d.9749]

Very insightful video.

[@mkingISTP]

Thanks

[@askarufus7939]

I really admire ISxPs and ENxJs for the balanced Se and Ni. Se doms and Ni doms are often either doing without thinking or thinking without doing (both dont take you anywhere). ISxPs and ENxJs keep doing something all the time but they act like it's not their priority just a side quest. Side quest to side quest and suddenly you have the whole game completed. ISxPs especially are like those people from children stories that you can see wandering here, wandering there and suddenly you get to know they walked the world all over, without making a lot of fuss about it. You seem like you act on a sudden whim but somehow it is all in a spectrum of things that can actually take you somewhere. Neither ESxPs nor INxJs are good accomplishers (or to accomplish something takes a lot more effort for us). At least not as good as those that have Ni and Se as second and third functions.

[@mkingISTP]

Very true. Interesting points

[@MaxBur]

I see a pattern where SE doms were really strong and aggressive in high school and then often times they stop that pattern of being “better” because they don’t change their consciousness and beliefs often so they repeat the same pattern often. The motivation for being on the pedestal isn’t there anymore because the situation changes. Ni being “the reality of reality” function sees reality the way it is and does not believe in possibilities , so when that function is low they might mistake their perception of reality for reality itself and need someone to help them with that . While me being an Si inferior , I struggle with routine , organization , and having that specific structure of the way of doing things . While I also seek innovation which is my ability . I had an ESFP friend that was homeless and they stayed that way and they don’t change their addiction unless someone forces them to do so .

[@mkingISTP]

Yea sometimes Se doms just don’t grow past a certain point

[@ishyameru6232]

I second this as an ISTP, I can f*** myself over being prideful. The ISTP weakness is best portrayed as a frog being boiled on the stove through gradually adjusting the temperature

[@MaxBur]

@@ishyameru6232 You have as big of a strength despite the weakness. You have a good ability to navigate certain parts of reality

[@MaxBur]

@@ishyameru6232Along with the weakness there’s also a strength. The key is to not believe in limitations .

[@kmoyao50]

Se a great teacher indeed.

[@kmoyao50]

Nice, well said.

[@mkingISTP]

Thanks

[@dominicsey3032]

I'm trying to overcome this; especially after psychosis.

[@mkingISTP]

@@dominicsey3032 yea it can definitely be hard but consistency is key

[@dominicsey3032]

@mkingISTP consistency/continuity is my weakness--I need momentum, intensity, even if just an insight that inspires me. Or, I gotta take one step at a time and have a sense the overall works out. Maybe you can make a video about low Ni problems, such a fixed negative future, uncertain future that you ignore by indulging in empty pleasure, and in my case awhile ago, too much socializing and not enough reflection.

[@mkingISTP]

@@dominicsey3032 good one. Will do if I don’t forget

[@MaxBur]

I think my least favorite type a lot of times is the SJ. Although they can be great people and great support , sometimes it can be the exact opposite . Although they are underestimated by others , they are really good at practical application , they can be intelligent , and if they are , they are intelligent at practical reality. They can become dangerous if they are unaware because they neglect Ni, so what they do in physical reality they see as preparation for the future . The reason to why they are my least favorite because they are the most ignorant , in regards to many things, but not ignorant in regards to practical application.