Why gay pride is making things worse

I'M SO TIRED OF TRYING AND I GIVE UP!!!! My anger stems from consideration and love. if thats not visible to you thats ok i dont care!!!! i know my intentions are good and if it comes across as if i am tearing down a community and have internalized homophobia then so be it whatever!!!yeah thats why i spent time energy trying to help the lgbt community. FED UP LAST TIME I'LL BOTHER TRYING. giving up hope and its affecting me severely it seems this world wont change anymore. this world will diverge into 2 and im not partaking in the lies anymore. its sad so many cant see the ill intentions that come across as good.
#gaypride #pridemonth #lgbt #activism #gay

[@Uranianth]

was hesitant on sharing this but f it im mad and find it necessary. last time I will try even bothering in regards with this situation . if im crazy i dont care I'M SO TIRED OF TRYING AND I GIVE UP!!!! My anger stems from consideration and love. if this message offends you, and if what im trying to say is not visible to you thats ok i dont care anymore!!!! i know my intentions are good and if it comes across as if i am tearing down a community and have internalized homophobia then so be it whatever!!!yeah thats why i spent time energy trying to help the lgbt community. FED UP LAST TIME I'LL BOTHER TRYING. giving up hope and its affecting me severely it seems this world wont change anymore. this world will diverge into 2 and im not partaking in the lies anymore. its sad so many cant see the ill intentions that come across as good from the mainstream community and the pop culture puppet influencers and other fake individuals. cussing is way healthier than the toxicity people do and enable. tough love i dont care anymore

[@Consciousnature]

I'm glad you shared this video here.

[@giovannifontes8759]

Uranianth, I understand you! I've been feeling the same sh*t.. It's angsty, I look around and see porn0graphy everywhere, a lot of stup*d behavior and stup*d conversations. Like some gay men's acting all the time just for sex and this happy-ego-narcissistic to show bodies and getting sex (on internet have a lot of videos of men doing sex even in Pride Parade). It's terrible, I also feel misunderstood, you're not alone!! Thanks for share your feelings on KZbin. If you understand it, and me too, we are not alone in this world

[@yazz2jazz313]

Totally understand what your saying. It's heartbreaking and tragic to see how everything is unfolding. 😪 When the system collapses a lot will form their own communities. Try to hang in there and focus on your own positives. There's many out there that think and feel the way you do.

[@Consciousnature]

You are right the system will collapse, maybe even at the end of this year. However, things will turn out well but not for everybody and in the US thing could becoming more difficult.

[@arthurhenriques2804]

It's okay to cry. I've felt the same as time passes. As a gay man and part of the "cause," I've seen the hypocrisy regarding "Pride." It should celebrate love, yet sometimes it doesn't. Despite this, our community is marvelous, though it can sometimes be quick to react. Of course, this isn't true for everyone, but it seems easy for people to hit back when they feel threatened, which isn't logical. People like us, who share a realistic vision of the world, are unfortunately fated to see the hypocrisy, lies, ignorance, and pain around us. But I have one thing to say to you: You are not alone! You don't have to carry this weight by yourself. You can probably engage in activism, but as you experienced in your video, the message is clear only to those who know how to listen, comprehend, and be human above all else. I understand your feelings because every day, I wake up knowing I need to overcome this crazy world with its crazy people. It's my fuel to keep going. Being awakened is my way of making this world better, just as you are doing. I ride for you, and I know you sharing this video, you ride for me too. 🫂

[@Uranianth]

thank you x nice to know

[@Consciousnature]

OMG it totally resonate with what you say. I have so many things to say to you. I think I could talk with you for days or even much longer. But I don't know where to start. What I can say: Finally a gay man says something about the elite and the hollywood celebrities.

[@ecuadorian_gamer]

I understand you, it seems ever since same-sex marriage was made legal and the majority of people became supportive of gay marriage that many so-called “activists” became complacent. Many simply post on social media showing off their body or selling merchandise, establishing this self-absorbed image of themselves. These are the type of people that treat pride like some sort of party when they forget the tragic history of the LGBT community. Workplace discrimination on the basis of one’s sexual orientation or gender identity is still allowed in many states of the United States, issues such as these must be addressed. Complacency will only harm us in the long run.

[@Uranianth]

exactly! complacency is the enemy

[@Mark723]

I hope you are doing better after sharing your thoughts. This was very brave of you. In the words of Saint Mother Teresa: "The good you do today, people will often forget tomorrow; do good anyway." So, your efforts may not be noticed, nor acknowledged, nor appreciated; yet, don't stop these efforts. You've already had one rant from me on this channel, so I won't repeat myself. I understand what you are saying. It's like here in the U.S. when people wish each other "Happy Memorial Day" on what is supposed to be a day of solemn remembrance for those who have fallen in service to their country, not a day to have celebrations and fireworks and picnics and barbecues and new car/furniture sales. Many current members of the military take great offense to hear, "Happy Memorial Day." Nonetheless, the "holiday" creates a guaranteed three-day weekend, which is a rarity in this country, so folks mark the occasion of a paid day off with celebrations. Who is right? It's a matter of opinion and a chance to look at things from a different perspective. The key is kindness, though it is challenging to be kind to those who want one dead simply by one's mere existence. Perhaps the history of the original "Pride" parade should be taught and remembered better, when those first brave souls had no idea what to expect, taking their lives into their own hands as homophobic hatred was (and still is) a prevalent issue in the world, when they marched for recognition, acceptance and freedom, or, simply, not to be harassed for the act of enjoying a drink in a bar which collects taxes to pay the salaries of those "public servants" who are perpetrating that harassment. Can we do activism and still celebrate the inroads which the LGTBQ+ community has made? Perhaps. But, again, we now see that displaying a simple rainbow-colored flag is met with vitriolic hostility even with all these inroads; so, should we still be celebrating under such circumstances? These are challenging times. But, times seem to present challenges throughout the ages, taking on differing aspects depending upon one's lot in life. In any event: I wish you good things and bid you peace. Be well and please be safe. On a side note: I think it's time for another our-of-doors video as I enjoy the vibes which such of your videos send into the universe.

[@Uranianth]

thanks Mark as always x and yeah ill film outdoors when it gets warmer😺

[@Uranianth]

"Pride goes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall." - Proverbs 16:18

[@gnuwaves743]

Should call it Kink month.

[@rockowilson2320]

This 💯

[@user-ss9ci7gn6w]

I really identify with your content and totally find your thoughts in line with my own as a single gay man in the crazy " LGBT+ community "

[@Uranianth]

@@user-ss9ci7gn6w stay strong bro x were in it together

[@tomjanowski8584]

I totally disagree with you. Any act of pride, any party, any parade, any protest, any act is activism in light of the renewed and increased pushback on the LGBT community. Several years ago, a few straight friends of mine would randomly make comments about how they thought pride celebrations would come to an end because of what we had achieved. I founded a local political action group and our main focus is voter registration and candidate support. We do about 6 voter registration events per year and by far our biggest event is the local gay pride event. We once registered 1600 people during pride weekend, though typically, our average is around 800. Our support for candidates has nearly stopped in the last few years specifically because candidate have a renewed fear of being very supported of gay rights and the LGBT community because they believe doing so will prevent them from getting elected. So while many in attendance at pride events are merely there to be seen and party, I see them mainly as body count that shows the world we are still here. We are still trying. We are still pushing for more respect and rights. And even if many view pride as nothing more than a party, I still join them in their celebration as they draw the attention to our activism. It's the pride event that brings out the people and it is the people who allow us to spread our activism. One is nothing without the other. I want to give you a hug.

[@erikpeltomaa9873]

Instead of crying i would only be angry super angry because there are so so many crazy gay men who never wanna accept the reality of gay life they always think "ooh gay life is so amazing everyone loves me etc. But thats not how I see it at all all that cuteness, suportivness kindness you see in all these god damn visual videogames, movies, tv series are far away from the truth its nothing but crap i think the pride month feel so Unesecery these days because just because its called" pride" doesnt always mean you are proud for who you are. Im not dissapointed for being gay but it feel so annoying because when I see all of those gay men who have found someone no matter if its someone famous or non famous how the hell did they managed to find a partner im sure they did not do so much to find that partner they just find that partner because he looks attractive and thats all. I tried many many times until i found my boyfriend i was so close of giving up but I just didint i still had hope that I will find the one im sure of it. But even though I found him we still dont see each other so much becsuse we dont live in the same city.

[@Uranianth]

thats a bummer. long distance can be rough sometimes. i am crying out of anger though as well.

[@illnoissoline9641]

Other people are toxic. You can't have a discussion online. You can say the most innocent harmless thing and people will still find an excuse t insult you and bash on you. I shut down my reddit account and I feel so much better.

[@Uranianth]

Reddit is the most toxic place on earth LOL!! ive stopped going on there for long time now. on rare ocassions i hop on to lurk a bit but then regret it hahha

[@Taurusboy07]

I get you. You have a wonderful heart. There is something about our insight that makes people feel as if we are judging them. We are just men who happen to be gay and INFJs that don’t agree with the destruction of the gay community. I also hate the word pride. So many men in the community make it all about sex. It is very lustfully driven and damaging to many people. On average, the majority of them are lost, confused and don’t even know who they are. Love is not sex nor drugs.

[@Uranianth]

@@Taurusboy07 thank you man much love x

[@Taurusboy07]

I totally agree with you. Don’t feel bad, I feel you 100%!!!!!! We are deep individuals and deep lovers.

[@Uranianth]

@@Taurusboy07 nice to know im not alone♥️

[@Taurusboy07]

@@Uranianth Absolutely, ❤️❤️❤️

[@Taurusboy07]

I feel your frustrations. It is so touching. ❤❤