Why Gentleness is True Strength? Islamic & Psychology Perspective, Dealing with Conflict

[@Haajar-z1o]

Thank you for posting this, Mariam. Not letting someone's meanness change me is what stuck with me the most. Your videos carry beautiful reminders.

[@mariams_interlude]

You’re most welcome 💕thank you for this beautiful comment

[@Ahmadovic26]

Another important point to mention that, it's never easy to become gentil or kind it will always be hard, cuz were are human and human are not perfect so we have to accept that and embrace it.

[@aamenawahab3179]

Notes: You have to learn to be okay with being misunderstood Don't over-explain yourself When someone wrongs you, try to see it from their perspective Don't reciprocate people’s bad behavior → don't stoop to their level How to maintain gentleness in conflict: Learn to respond, not react Don’t respond when your emotions are very high → make decisions level-headedly Then look at it from their perspective You will regret what you say when you are angry because that's when the devil has power over you Think of it without any bias: “Am I the victim here?” You’re only responsible for your feelings, not others You ARE responsible for how you treat other people Reply to the message, ignore condescending remarks: “What do you mean by that?” Try to listen and understand, not just try to reply There’s a point where you value your self-respect and time → enough is enough if the conversation is useless When someone’s trying to take advantage of your gentleness, set boundaries Being kind doesn’t mean being a doormat Have a good relationship with yourself and be confident in yourself Have empath, gentleness, and compassion with others even when they're being bad to you -> don't disrespect your values When you look back you want to be sure that you were not in the wrong “Allahuma la taj’al fi qalbi ghilal lilazeena aamanuu” Oh Allah don't put an ounce of hatred in my heart for those who believe” If you start hating someone it will only affect you Hatred is the same as drinking poison yourself and expecting the person you hate to die Forgive people That doesn't mean you allow them to continuously hurt you If they were really hurtful: Set a boundary Forgive them and move on with your life Be humble enough to look at your actions → there will be times when you’re in the wrong When you're not gentle and graceful with yourself (talking bad about yourself, etc.) you won't be able to feel gentle for other people Think of all the good you’ve been through with the person you’re in conflict with: Will you let their mistakes erase years of friendship, etc.? The Prophet was gentle and forgiving → we get rewarded for following his sunnah You get a house in Jannah if you don’t engage in an argument (even when you’re right) Life itself is a gift, don't let things ruin it

[@mariams_interlude]

This was beautiful jazak Allah kair 💕

[@FathimaCkassim]

Jazakallahu haira

[@afshanahassan8221]

jazakallah u khair

[@kjy05]

"A weak man wants to conquer others; a strong man wants to conquer himself." Maashaa2Allah coming from a man this entire video is amazing💯💯💯💯💯

[@rafiqrr898]

Assalamu alaikum Mariam Sister...Ur eyes speaks alot the gentleness of ur face Masha Allah ♥️

[@mariams_interlude]

Thank you so much 😊

[@asadshafi91]

Mariam may ALLAH SWT bless you and your family. I really appreciate the bonding between sisters & you love your sister like a Mother. JazakAllah.

[@mariams_interlude]

Amen and Thank you so much may Allah SWT bless you as well

[@jillanwar3303]

Love, love, love your videos. They exude so much gentleness yourself that it is contagious. Keep shining. You truly have a huge impact. May Allah keep using you to have an impact and to teach people about Deen and Dunya.

[@mariams_interlude]

Amen 🥹 thank you so much 💕may Allah SWT bless you

[@darilensaharithariffin]

I’m listening while doing dishes. Great podcast.

[@mariams_interlude]

Love that!

[@ayanahel-amin600]

Subhanallah sister!!! You have no idea how helpful this video is to me. I love you for the sake of Allah swt. May Allah bless you endlessly and surround you with loving and gentle people. Ameen!!

[@mariams_interlude]

Amen 🥹 may Allah SWT bless you and I’m glad you liked it 💕

[@Abdu_Samed]

Maryam, you've changed very much, which suits you, but simplicity suits you more, الله أكبر But after 7 months, im watching this video again, like im faching issues, may Allāh increase your wisdom يوتي الحكمة من يشاء ومن يوت الحكمة فقد اوتي خيرا كثيرا and then sitting alone 😔 in mosque thinking to be more patient Maryam, may Allāh protect you from each and every single negative thing of this world.

[@mukhtarhashimi]

Wallahi the only reason why I use KZbin, Wholeheartedly I wanna say you are exceptional Thank you my beloved sis 🤍🤍🤍

[@mariams_interlude]

You’re too kind 🥹 may Allah SWT bless you, you guys always inspire me to keep going and making more thank you for being here

[@feli542]

Omg stopp ❤❤❤how cute was this! ❤I’m a new revert, and it’s been awesome watching you.

[@aysha134]

Sis May Allah make it easy for you, you got this! X

[@The_Jishan]

Welcome to the family, sis.

[@feli542]

@@The_Jishan thank you! 😊

[@zakingatchess]

The ending was soooooo sweet.

[@mariams_interlude]

🥹

[@mashalnajimudeen820]

Mariam I am from srilanka and as a teen girl i am struggling with this kind of problems.you make my day better and insha allah now on i am gonna be so gentle with the people who hurts me .thanks mariyam.

[@mariams_interlude]

Ya habibti may Allah SWT bless you and make it easy for you 💕 glad that you find comfort here 🥹 walhi this is such a huge compliment

[@samamabarabood8537]

Your sister is same like you mashallah... May Allah (SWT) bless her and shows and guide to the right path.... Ameen..

[@RifanaSherin-ye2no]

Im literally crying 🥹♥️ That last clip of you and your sister is 🤌🏻🫶🏻🥹 And you know what My wlppr is a facehide pic of you with a quote that “treat people with kindness “ And i put that bcz i take ur pic as a reminder to be happy and kind🥰tq sis😍 اللَّـهُمَّ بَارِكْ ❤

[@mariams_interlude]

My sisters are so sweet allhumabarik 🥹💕 may Allah SWT bless you habibti

[@RifanaSherin-ye2no]

آمين يا ربّ العالمين ببركة رسول اللّٰه ﷺ😭🥹 you replied الحمد لله ♥️🌹 Im from 🇮🇳india miles away but see allah gave me a chance to talk with my fav sis 💐🤲🏻💌

[@samamabarabood8537]

Ya Allah! we are razi with you. Please grant us Your raza.... Ameen

[@mariams_interlude]

Amen

[@cheiba]

Slm Alkm Mariam (and youtube). Thanks a lot for this video. I am actually living with someone that has the tendancy to say harmful think to me and at the begining I was responding and trying to defend my self but then I started to let things go and respond to that person calmly. Cause I don't like myself being in those states of angriness. Even if the words affect me, I am not responding back anymore. And as time go, gess what now that person is less rude to me and talk to me with respect.

[@mariams_interlude]

Once they realize that they can’t get to your head and their words that they say to trigger you are not triggering you they give up, because they realize that they don’t have an effect on you. I ask Allah to make it easy for you

[@cheiba]

@@mariams_interlude Amine 🙏 Thank you so much.

[@ExploreUSAWithKhadija]

I really need this kind of loving video. Mashaallah sister. May Allah bless you with happiness

[@mariams_interlude]

Amen 🥹 and glad it was helpful 💕

[@HaniyaHabib-b5j]

Your videos are so motivating and inspiring .Thanks for making our connection with Allah swt stronger. May Allah bless you with more happiness and smiles (ameen)

[@mariams_interlude]

May Allah SWT bless you and grant you happiness and fill your life with joy 🥹 thank you for your sweet words

[@sanianasir959]

Awwwww mashallah Mashallah you are sooo generous and may Allah pak bless you for your kindness and good efforts.I truly want to follow all these things because I truly love you by heart and want more more good deeds on your side as well . Mashallah Mashallah love you so much my sister….❤

[@mariams_interlude]

Amen 🥹 may Allah SWT bless you for your kind words 💕 and I love you more !!!

[@fatimaali7872]

ASSALAM -0- ALIKUM thank you soo much mariam you are so motivating after watching your videos i recently start to balance my deen and duniya i recently start to learn Quran with translation thanks alot you are such a humble and kind lot of love from Pakistan❣

[@mariams_interlude]

Wallikum aslam! This makes me so happy hear 🥹 may Allah SWT make it easy for you and help you with it

[@marsmakesart]

i really needed this today! i stood up for myself but i didn't do it in the best way so this resonated. thank you 💖

[@mariams_interlude]

You are so welcome🥹 may Allah make it easy for you 💕

[@Muhsine1]

MashaAllah sister, that's beautiful. More of that please! It's inspiring.

[@haderahmed9606]

بجد ما شاء الله اللهم ما بارك عليكي انا بشوفك من مصر و بجد نفسي يكون فيه محتوي اكتر كدا في اليوتوب ما شاء الله انتي جميلة اوي يا مريم من جوا و من برا ربنا يباركلك و يكرمك كذا فيديو عملتيه فادني جدا و غير فيا حاجات كتير❤❤

[@mariams_interlude]

الله يسلمك ويحفظك يارب 🙏 شكراً على الكمات الحلوة ♥️ فرحتني كتير 🫶

[@haderahmed9606]

@@mariams_interlude يارب دايما فرحانه و شكرا علي دعواتك الحلوة❤️❤️

[@zulaykhaibrahim8859]

Alhamdulillah, for sharing mind-blowing thoughts, it's so true and practical. may Allah bless you in everything you do and wish for ❤❤

[@syed_ahmed18]

Glad to see such perspective still existin. Power to you

[@mariams_interlude]

All Praise is due to Allah SWT :)

[@mdrased7048]

Lots of Love Mariam. Your all contents are really good & positive. And the way u talk, I love it. I love your smile ❤... May Allah bless you.

[@mariams_interlude]

Thank you 🥹 may Allah SWT bless you 💕

[@darilensaharithariffin]

Thank you for the sharing, Mariam

[@mariams_interlude]

My pleasure 😊

[@tohiduddin787]

You have the sweetest heart I have seen. I love that sweet moment with your younger sister. ufff... what a sweet moment! So much love from me to your sister...❤❤❤

[@mariams_interlude]

Thank you so much!

[@tohiduddin787]

@@mariams_interlude welcome ❤️❤️❤️

[@hassanmahamadou75]

Keep yourself KIND like you are. I started watchind your videos recently but all i can say is more blessing Allah helps us in our responses

[@funnytv6257]

cute hug of your sister

[@ukhticookie]

Salam! Please make a video on how to deal with comparisons with other hijabi girls (those who wear makeup for eg) & other pretty girls who adorn themselves. As a hijabi I find it difficult since it’s haram to commit tarabujj, but it’s been really affecting me, Jazakallah khayr

[@MUSLIM-xd1gm]

Yep, truth!

[@quranandhadith.reminder]

Allahummabarik mariam❤ May Allah reward you. You inspire me!

[@mariams_interlude]

Thank you habibti may Allah SWT bless you

[@Abdu_Samed]

الله يسعدك في الدارين الله يقويك ويقوي ايمانك الله يحفظك من فتنه الدنيا وما فيها الله يرزقك من حيث لاتحتسب والله يعطيك العافية الله يعطيك كل ما تتمناه ويملأ قلبك بمحبة الله ورسوله .احبك في الله

[@noorafathma]

Masha Allah sister...❤

[@Seagate1981]

Such a beautiful way to deliver a meaningful message. MashaAllah. JazakaAllah Khair for your efforts. More power to you.

[@mariams_interlude]

Wa iyakum! And thank you

[@Safia_Farzana]

The hug!! Ma sha ALLAH .. I was feeling we were hugging me,sister. Your voice is so calming.. I am glad that I found you.

[@Mikaela07988]

You are such a wonderful role model for your sweet sister Mashallah 🥹💕

[@xyz7327]

Jazakallah khair....

[@owhlust4567]

Keep going queen👑 you r so. Much beautiful 😍✨thank you love you😘❤

[@HajarZamfour]

In love with your channel بارك الله فيك ❤

[@heheheh402]

Very good lecture on gentleness really nice😊

[@mariams_interlude]

Thank you! 🙂

[@RidaShahid-b5e]

A beautiful video with so many insightful things. Thankyou for reminding that gentleness is true strength

[@mariams_interlude]

Glad you enjoyed it! 💕 thank you for being here

[@ضوالقمر-ز7ذ]

Thank you million 🙏 ♥

[@mariams_interlude]

My pleasure 💕

[@MuslimahTiktok]

Allahumma barik. Wow it is so sweet to add your sister. Allahumma barik.

[@Talib_Husain18]

So insightful , wow

[@sihaaam_22]

Thank you , Jazakallah Khair 💌💕

[@mariams_interlude]

Wa iyakum 💕

[@habeebahamza-st9ot]

alhamdulillah iam sooo greatful for finding ur channel iam learning a lot from u dear sis ❤.

[@naimahmansur]

Allahumma barik sis, you are beautiful

[@ateeqasiddiqui1336]

This was amazing ❤ you are amazing. Allah humma barik ❤

[@afsheenmandlekar7246]

Huge huge HUGE fan of yours Mariam!! U have no idea how much of impact u have had on my perspective of Deen and Dunya!! I AM OBSESSED. May Allah swt bless u abundantly!! Looking forward to many more yt videos and vlogs and much more!! LOTS OF LOVE!!❤️❤️❤️

[@mariams_interlude]

You’re so sweet 🥹may Allah SWT bless you endlessly 💕 and all praise be to Allah SWT, if there is anything that is beneficial it’s from Allah SWT and anything that isn’t good is from me 🤍 thank you for your beautiful message

[@amyamistad7239]

I have this situation in our office that just triggers negativity. It makes me just want to think of having revenge and all that negativity, all the things that are not really who I am and I don't want to be that kind of person. I cried in my sujood because this challenge is making me the person I don't want to be. This certain person and situation really triggers me and testing my sabar. I remeber your video sister that gentleness have a lot of benefits and it is the best thing to do. Sabar is the key. But sister, how I can have a some kind of revenge or something I can do to make me feel a lot better by not doing bad things. Being to kind is so hard

[@NANINANI-cs6rn]

Very true sister

[@anitamabecuane1364]

How can I put 1 million likes?? ♥️♥️ Gentleness is the strength 🔥 From Mozambique 🇲🇿🔥

[@mahdehassan9702]

You talk so nicely. You are so cute Ma Sha Allah.

[@hadiyakhan17]

It's very positive.... And i love it....!!! 🦋🤍

[@lialmnora6180]

That video was the best thing i watched in a while, i felt peace hapiness and calmness while watching may Allah reward you a,d guide you tp the wright paths.I love you for the sake of Allah Mariam❤

[@mahdihesham1523]

Very nice❤ Follow from Egypt❤🇪🇬

[@layanben139]

mariam i love this video so much ive started watching u today ive watched 2 videos only but keep on going these videos are so amazingly beautiful 🤍

[@mariams_interlude]

Thank you! Will do! May Allah SWT bless you 💕

[@Fiizzaayy]

Great video once again and loved your sister's reflections that was beautiful ❤

[@mariams_interlude]

Thank you so much! May Allah SWT bless you 💕

[@BD-gc5ol]

Dear Mariam thank you so much for this insightful video ❤️ I'd love to see a video where you talk about your favorite books be it islamic or non-fiction. Maybe one day you will share it with us if you want to. Have a blessed day 😊

[@mariams_interlude]

You are very welcome 💕 and inshallab I will

[@BD-gc5ol]

@@mariams_interlude inşaAllah thank you 😊

[@amyamistad7239]

Thank you for this sis! You inspire me. Jazakhallahu Khairn!

[@mariams_interlude]

You are so welcome 🥹 may Allah SWT bless you

[@Umama-j7r]

❤ please make videos frequently i loveeeeee them and am imidiatly following your steps

[@mariams_interlude]

Inshallah that’s my plan! Any video suggestions?

[@khandiking3901]

I know you're not asking me. More vlogs, i love them🩷

[@mariams_interlude]

@@khandiking3901 I take all suggestions 💕 thank you for leaving yours I appreciate it

[@Abdu_Samed]

اسلام عليكم يا مريم My self Abdul samad hope ur fine May Allah bless you I swer the positivity I feel watching you is something can't tell you sometimes I cried I don't know why but this is from my heart

[@blondie24-l6s]

Yes the best KZbinr 😎

[@asmaanjum-g4u]

Your video always makes my day more beautiful.. jazakallah khair ( may Allah SWT bless you with good ) 💗

[@mariams_interlude]

You’re so sweet 🥹 may Allah SWT bless you 💕

[@asmaanjum-g4u]

@@mariams_interlude Shukran! ❤️

[@bhattmahrukh1007]

Thanks for posting such beautiful content ❤ may Allah bless you 💞

[@jamilsundas]

You are amazing sis❤ I love the way you keep smile❤

[@sibyhawa7892]

You are literally my favorite on KZbin, I hope you’ll do more videos like these in the future. Wa Aleykoum Salam❤

[@mariams_interlude]

Thank youuuu 🥹 and inshallah I will 💕

[@Ramadan23-w9w]

Islam is awsome . Modern Psychology removed the equation of Allah.

[@tprtutor]

Useful Mariam 💕🎉

[@shamnabeel6]

Thank you mariam❤ masha allah it was so help full insha allah may allah bless you❤

[@elenagilbert250]

Beautiful video 🤍 Thank you for your work 🤍

[@silva3654]

thank youu so much for this video💗 you'r so pretty and i love your smil and your positive energy may allah bless you🤍and your sister is so nice🌷🫶🏻

[@Er.Sumaiyya]

Thank u so much siste lernt lot jazak allahu khair🥰

[@fgd9775]

Alhamdulillah this is an amazing video, much needed especially for me since I get so worked up when someone annoys me! I wish I had a wife like you to calm me down. Much love Mariam 💗

[@bettercallatef]

Great, all love and respect ❤❤

[@AmnaFaraz-w5d]

yor are my new friend now my girl >>>>>> Aina and Maryam 💕

[@gufrankhan3326]

❤

[@Hayatinah]

Mashallah maryan❤️ I don’t usually like to comment; but I felt to comment and I would like to ask Allah to give you the best in Dunya and Akhirah❤️🥰 mashallah sis🥰🤩 You mention a lot of beneficial things that would help us better ourselves🥰 I can tell that you are a gentle soul and a kind one. Lots of love sis😘

[@szr-ve2qv]

Amazing reminder ❤

[@fatmazohra8306]

The best MARIAM 🌻💛💛💛

[@martl3288]

I just my shahada I ask Allah if it's his will and he chose me

[@myra4862]

Thank youfor the video!!!

[@bhattmahrukh1007]

💐

[@behramahmad8008]

Mash Allah

[@anantsharma3853]

Walikum Salam sister

[@halimesultana7110]

Assalamualaikum Mariam ❤I am so happy that I found you Alhamdulilah❤❤ I love you sooo much ❤ Insha Allah I will continue to watch you❤hope to meet you Insha Allah ❤May Allah SWT grant you Jannah❤Ameen❤Lots of Love ❤❤

[@YawarsInterlude]

Its really powerful video 💪

[@anantsharma3853]

Loved your videos sister

[@-MysticMangoMedia]

Nice ❤

[@MaryamAli-vd1xv]

Beautiful

[@iamSalehin]

Alhamdulillah:)I am very happy to see that you are pious women, May Allah grant every sister and women a strong IMAN like you. But one thing if you do not feel bad, I want to tell you that shaping, plucking or trimming your eyebrows is HARAM as our Prophet said those who do curse will be with him/her.

[@mariams_interlude]

Kazak Allah kair and amen 🤍

[@ansoripainting6417]

Waalaikumus salam wbr alkhamdulillah yaAllah AllahuAkbar Allahumma solle wasallim ale Insya Allah sehat selalu Mariam Amin yarob insya Allah ❤Allah❤ you Rosullullah insya Allah

[@lameeszienab7954]

What a great reminder ❤ Where're you from ,Mariam ?

[@mariams_interlude]

Thank you 💕 I’m Iraqi but I grew up in America

[@lameeszienab7954]

@@mariams_interlude awesome !!! May Allah bless your efforts ,dear ❤ I'll definitely watch every single video of yours 🥰💜 all love and respect 🙏

[@halimesultana7110]

❤ Masha Allah ❤ Sarah said really well❤Mariam I would suggest you to watch dr.Haifaa if you haven’t watched her ❤love you ❤

[@weebe00]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@fousiaazeez4069]

❤❤❤❤❤mariam..