Why Girls Put You in the "Friend Zone" Even When There is Attraction

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Should you be a challenge to a woman? How do you avoid the friend zone with a girl.

[@yessir7004]

Idk who needs to hear this. But...Stop simping. You deserve better. I believe in you

[@Ladosligese]

wow .. grown ass man here .. and for the first time i read a comment that i needed to read .. ty for that man/mam whatever :)

[@AlexPenn.DatingCoach]

Great insights, Bobby and Chris! It's refreshing to see a nuanced perspective on the 'challenge' concept in dating. As a dating coach myself, I completely agree that being a challenge shouldn't translate to being disinterested or inexperienced. It's crucial to find the right balance and master the art of being seductive. Looking forward to your upcoming class, 'Be Friend She Falls in Love With.' It's a valuable approach to navigating relationships, especially with female friends. Keep up the excellent work.

[@earlcreamer7838]

Has anyone ever heard that "honesty is the best policy?" Just tell her you don't want to be in the friendzone. Tell her you want a more intimate relationship. Offer to exchange massages. If she tells you that she is not ready for that, then you move on. When she calls you for help to move a refrigerator, or hang a picture, tell her she should call a handyman or her boyfriend.

[@michaelz6555]

This issue was encapsulated more than 100 years ago in an old song: “On top of Old Smokey All covered in snow I lost my true lover For a courting too slow”

[@Mystery-ir5wn]

Such an issue, it's really difficult to find that sweet spot between not being too much of a challenge and not seeming needy.

[@alexflips393]

So basically you’re saying she can know you’re attracted to her but don’t confess feelings until you’ve slept together a few times.

[@djcaly84]

Actually, let her talk about her feelings first. As men, we don't talk about our feelings, ever. That way you keep the mystery alive, and you become a challenge. I'm not saying you can't express your feelings, but the easiest way to do it is through touch, and physical contact.

[@stevensaleh6955]

She knows you like her because you asked her out. You started the courtship.

[@andreaspeters3773]

Exactly.... and to be honest, you probably have an idea of you and her in your head....but you can only be shure that the imagination of feelings of you both is good and true if you experience an amount of time and intimate moments with her. It also can turn out that your imagination of of her isn't real and your feelings cool down...

[@nickbloom84]

@@djcaly84Speaking from experience I think there comes a time where a man who needs love should be able to voice his feelings properly. If you can’t it’s not a life well lived IMO. Waiting for her to propose or increase the relationship level might be tough too

[@djcaly84]

@@nickbloom84 A man doesn't need love from his woman, he needs respect. When a woman respects you, then you know she loves you. I think the word you're looking for is affection. When a woman respects you, she will show you affection, desire, etc. A man doesn't need to wait for her to propose or increase the relationship level. I mean, why wait? That's needy behavior! When he desires to do it, he will make it happen, by leading. That's alpha!

[@LoneShadowBlogz]

The POV of this video today which I’ve deduced which you’d agree with me too is “Being too late about your feelings is not a good idea”

[@BobbyRio]

not too late about feelings, too late about expression of attraction. the comment above is correct. most guys do the opposite.

[@embackmusic2692]

This is advice for boys... Here's some advice for MEN that actually want to mature. Develop these four pillars: 1) Self Discipline / Physical strength / Personal Defense skills (provides physical protection to a woman) 2) Ambition / Prosperity mindset (provides provision and material stability to a woman) 3) Leadership / Emotional inteligence / Social studies (provides emotional stability to a woman) 4) Virtues / Spirituality / Philosophy (provides ethical/moral security to a woman) At the end of the day, truly feminine women need SECURITY. Not just financial, but in these four areas. If you provide them security on a physical, material, emotional and spiritual level you will be magnetic to that type of woman. If you develop yourself as a man in these four areas consistently, you will become magnetic to every woman on the planet that is worth your time, that is interested in having a family and that has similar values and goals as you because those four pillars are what truly and universally attracts all feminine women (the ones that are actually worth dating). It's as simple as that bros and it's been like that since the beginning... let's not complicate it, just get to work.

[@CoachSteveJandS]

A challenge is good if the prize is worth the effort required to achieve victory/success...

[@AlanOnYoutube]

Thanks guys! These tips will help me avoid making again some mistakes you mentioned.

[@NoName-zb1gm]

I'm going through this now because I wasn't sure how she felt about me. I've liked her for a few years kind of a low key not really crushing that hard. I started to see her looking at me differently so my feelings felt validated. But we're total opposites she's like a super sweet and sensitive biker chick 6 years older than me and I'm a college grad analytical type but we have this attraction so I wanted to make sure she was feeling the same. I think it was easier and safer for me in her FZ and when I asked her out it forced her to think about how she felt about me.

[@ZAKI21ALG]

Well this is more complicated than studying quantum mechanics 😂😂😂

[@timo5532]

A question is puzzling me for a long time. Friends or becoming friends with a girl. Know they have a boyfriend or are married, but they never ever mention or talk about their boyfriend or husband; why? Another question is why if you ask about that, they change or ghost subject.

[@bobross1829]

There is just too many "blackpill" guys now who don't get this kind of stuff and just use it as an excuse to quit. I agree with this video, not doing anything is "challenging" in a way, but it often just leads to the women thinking you are asexual or gay or just weird and antisocial. Too many guys have misinterpreted good advice not to learn, but to make excuses for where they are in life. Hey only chads get girls, I am not one, so might as well gain 50 pounds and accept being miserable and never meeting anyone! Don't show any interest at all, it is challenging! It is not. It is a lousy way to live.

[@BobbyRio]

very, very true.

[@john_carter8243]

@@BobbyRiois a ad revenue seeking SHILL ... do what he says and make a sexual flirtation AND LOSE YOUR JOB & LIFE by getting MeToo-ed!!!

[@scaredcrower]

I keep doing something, talking, doing, HR had a word with me, and the girl prefers I do nothing at all, don't even talk her now. Awkward sitting in the same office. I keep compelled to do something, take some action to fix everything, make something happen

[@fsdeadshot5258]

So this girl I like. I don’t simp for her. She has actually bought shit for me like gifts. And I’ve returned the favor buy buying things back. Like we exchanged Christmas gifts and birthday. But anyway. She flirts with me, sends nudes, talks to me every day, but then tells me she still has lingering feelings for someone else that doesn’t like her back in that way. But anyway. Then she tries to tell me I have not been friend zoned though. And it’s just confusing. Like haven’t I been. She still texts this other guy all the time and tried to hang out with him. She’s obsessed. how could I not have been friend zoned? I straight up told her I want my best friend and my spouse to be the same person too because she keeps calling me her best friend. And she said that’s how it should be. Like huh? I don’t mind being friends with her. But it does mean I’m not going to spend that much time with her like I have. I’m gonna go find the one. But she just keeps on confusing me.

[@MrZsoltii92]

Things went well with a girl, then I called a girl out She said yes.. Than later She asked me when I free so lets organize something. Later I asked her when she will be free.. She didnt answered than She blocked me without any reason.. I dont know why I didnt asked.. Happend 1 weeks ago

[@WilliamBrownson-w2e]

So here's the deal: all boy high school, followed by 4 years of all boy military (unless strip bars count, actually making things easier if you're not a sophomoric jerk), then on to 4 years of college, where you can not flunk out, because you got nowhere you can otherwise go, then on to years of corporations, scared to death of getting fired for sexual harassment (again, because from there-nowhere to go), but at least I never wound up living under a freeway overpass, and never turned any girl down for a lay, so long as she was serviceable. And also, I need 3 dates before I make my move, because I need to feel comfortable that she does not have a duffle bag full of doll heads in her closet, based on more than just the answer to the question, so you're from South Dakota, never been, what up with that? I left there because I wanted to get a job. Other than that, anyone who thinks that we had some kind of relationship over my life and is interested in me know (sorry to say), I walked away, and never much thought of her since, and am not interested in seeing her now, but I wish them all only the best things in life, and hope that all their dreams came true, that just not ever will be with me, "pals."

[@WilliamBrownson-w2e]

So (in summary), the story of my whole life: never had anyone to bail me out, always nowhere else to go, so either succeed or die on a daily basis (pretty much the story), and I wouldn't have had it any other way (and never turn down a serviceable lay).

[@x_MrYAYA_x]

❤

[@Nicole-ki3pf]

Very curious about the relationship status of both of these men.

[@larryboldt483]

Paradigm shift. Ask her what she really brings to the table.

[@jboneunbelive6968]

Half of the stuff u come out with is garbage, ya telling people to manipulate opposite sex, with jealousy mind games, they iva want to be with you or they don't, u keeping on about a ex once before!!! Why ain't u with them now, the stuff your saying can back fire in a big way

[@MrNiqozer]

spanish of the class plaase

[@FozzyZ28]

😁👍👌

[@raftea219]

They appear like two nice guys 😂and certainly not alpha Chads

[@BobbyRio]

yes nice guys who learned their lessons the hard way and figured stuff out to help you from makign the same mistakes. Do you think alpha chad can help you? Or do you just prefer watching videos where you can look at alpha chad :)