As Dita Von Teese says: "You can be the ripest, juiciest peach in the world, and there's still going to be somebody who hates peaches."
@ganymeade51514 жыл бұрын
agree
@wowerman4 жыл бұрын
Because beauty fades away and stops being a barganing chip or a value.
@sunnyokp4 жыл бұрын
Meaning the oldest peach?
@abduljabbarmohammed41884 жыл бұрын
No they are afraid to approach you .Just give men a chance lori
@miamanning78713 жыл бұрын
So true
@jemmaj29195 жыл бұрын
No man goes for plain woman. She's only plain in the eye of other women. Men see things differently.
@ellamaeevangelista51014 жыл бұрын
This is very true, she is not a plain jane, for him she is extra ordinary
@ganymeade51514 жыл бұрын
She has a beauty or appeal that others cannot see.
@mediaworld52094 жыл бұрын
O v O
@carloscabrera53114 жыл бұрын
Wow...the only answer that shows that knows more than the host of this video giving false statements...
@Richards6784 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@IM-uh5tk4 жыл бұрын
1- They're insecure about themselves. 2- Jealousy issues. 3- He actually sees her as beautiful. 4- Has other preferences. Examples: intelligence, wisdom, caregiving, etc. 5- Prioritises her background and path in life.
@onetwo49323 жыл бұрын
From what I’m getting is women only love men when they provide for them, buy them gift a nice dinner etc. selfish. And marriage will be a problem in this generation. Women are gunna be more hungry for marriage while men aren’t cause they gain nothing from it. They’ve seen the side affects of it.
@fanenthusiast38023 жыл бұрын
Maybe he just doesn't want a girl who's not the town bicycle.
@johnevo66513 жыл бұрын
@@onetwo4932 exaclty
@nichtdiejeniche38453 жыл бұрын
@@onetwo4932 Who hurt you, lmao ? You sound like an incel.
@AussieChic9683 жыл бұрын
Usually 4, from what my male friends tell me re the sort of woman they ask me to help them meet....
@fuyoutube57085 жыл бұрын
Actually many insecure men just date beauty woman(don’t matter her personality) because they see her as a trophy.
@dangerousman40714 жыл бұрын
True.
@yawnpherella4 жыл бұрын
Facts. I want an average looking woman that a has a good heart to me that's all that has to matter, this "beautiful" women get lost in the sauce too much.
@depyk79894 жыл бұрын
Αs well as narcissistic men in order to show off....
@saswatsnayak1020304 жыл бұрын
@Mortal Silence yeah and probably lose half of your wealth in alimony after a divorce ( really wise choice )
@alicer.1883 жыл бұрын
@Depy K Narcissistic men marry women who are unattractive too. They’ll marry her knowing that she’s more likely to put up with their narcissistic behavior as she doesn’t have many other men interested in her. They’ll treat her bad, cheat on her while she’s pregnant, have her preoccupied with a job while they sit in their cubicle at work and go online to talk/meet up with other women. Also, nothing wrong with a man showing off his beautiful woman unless that’s his sole reason for being with her. Beauty is important to men as being a provider is important to women.
@jannagrosse80575 жыл бұрын
The look attracts the man, the mind makes him stay 💋
@suziqueue37965 жыл бұрын
NOT ALWAYS!
@stefaniegrunfelder52135 жыл бұрын
Women, too...
@abhisheksubedar24345 жыл бұрын
@Dorian Grey right🙌
@solarlola59535 жыл бұрын
Dorian Grey 98% of men have no mind and respect for women
@abhisheksubedar24345 жыл бұрын
@@solarlola5953 atleast 2% have all 100% women's don't have respect towards men
@gwenshin5 жыл бұрын
Strangely enough, the most handsome men I knew were the least concerned about beauty in a mate. Two very handsome men I dated both settled on plain, slightly overweight women to marry. Both are also nice, intelligent men, wives are nice, and intelligent women too. So maybe handsome men are weary of shallowness from people, and want something with more depth like you said. The plain guys I dated seemed more concerned about beauty in a woman. Go figure.
@digitaljosh_3 жыл бұрын
@Dominique Lavalle Nobody wants to make themselves feel insecure wtf are you saying
@zimjun73 жыл бұрын
Interesting! I dated a stupid man and I mean LOW intelligence and I was dumped because I wasn't "pretty enough!" THAT was in 1983. I was 32 then. Those plain guys you dated that "were more concerned about beauty in a woman" was due to a lack of confidence in themSELVES!!!
@dezinechic3 жыл бұрын
right! its usually/always the guys that dont have anything and look like nothing themselves that always talk about wanting a "hot" woman. like please. the handsome and extremely handsome guys are cool as hell. its the average and hideous guys that think they deserve or are entitled to beautiful or hot women.
@tulipwindmill3 жыл бұрын
100% agree
@dezinechic3 жыл бұрын
@Full of Mischief well damn papi! this is a whole gem! i know i noticed/remember(and just now thought about b/c of your comment) men who would break their necks to finally talk to a girl they thought was so hot and they finally would but it would always seem shortly after you wouldnt hear him talk or even conversing with her any more, i found it strange b/c there they would be still trying to have stimulating conversations with me.
@sunpi5 жыл бұрын
Maybe some men... actully go for personality lol
@kp7824 жыл бұрын
sunsbookishgamesx haha yes!
@anaayana26324 жыл бұрын
noooo
@anaayana26324 жыл бұрын
@@kp782 noooooooooooo
@kp7824 жыл бұрын
Ana Ayana what no? It is a fact
@gohan34484 жыл бұрын
Yea men do look for personality, women Go for looks and money. That's why they keep losing in the dating world
@suemg18785 жыл бұрын
I picked up a rich man being a plain Jane because I thought he wouldn't be interested in me lol so I was comfortable talking to him normally
@coaluck5 жыл бұрын
Sue-Anne Gayadeen yup! This is the story of my life. Sorta. When I don’t like a man I can be myself and they alwayyyyys start liking me when I like the man? I try to be cool but really acting like a fool and I miss out. Wellll I did back in my dating days
@lootangshellhouse25065 жыл бұрын
@s c simple don't let him leave the house hungry or horney
@ThePapayaqueen5 жыл бұрын
I did a similar thing! I am average looking, maybe even below average and I dated the MOST attractive and popular guy in the town. All the popular gorgeous girls would literally fight over him. I had a huge crush on him for many years and was too shy and nervous to talk to him. One day I just gave up and talked to him like I would anyone. He started liking me in that very instant and we dated for 2 years. I ended up breaking up with him---he wanted to marry me and I wanted to experience more of the world before getting married. He was the sweetest boy ever, on top of being tall and handsome. Girls would literally just come up to me and tell me they liked my boyfriend. Lol. Or as we walked by people at a party or something, all the girls would say, "Amy, your so lucky." The most popular girl--rich and cheerleader type...all the boys really liked her---she pulled me to the side and said she thought I should know that she liked my boyfriend. Lol. I didn't care because I was very secure in our relationship. He could see past all the superficiality. It was awesome. He cried so much when I broke up with him. 😔
@mariasmith21985 жыл бұрын
@Venth Z I have never heard that attractive women are more slutty. Actually, the other way around. Plain Janes tend to be more desperate.
@mariasmith21985 жыл бұрын
@@lootangshellhouse2506 And if you have kids, don't hire a nanny.
@joyceoboh30585 жыл бұрын
I married a very rich man and all my friends gone. But I have been with my husband about 20 good years and then I have some many friends then. Once I we got married, they were all bitter. Well as know that , I didn't care about them. If you can't be happy for me, then you are not a good friend. I am still married to the same man and thank God. Fake friends bye.
@amandah18754 жыл бұрын
Ohhh I think that’s what has happened to me recently! When I got married, the friends I had since childhood, some of them, stopped being my friend. They don’t even give me a like on my marriage photo on Facebook. Wow. But as you said, if they can’t be happy for me, they are not real friends, thank you for that sis :)
@sylviasolomon22414 жыл бұрын
They are not you friend.
@xJustJadie4 жыл бұрын
You are very lucky. Got yourself a good man and got rid of bad people. 🙏🏽
@spinnerfidget95464 жыл бұрын
I'm engaged to a man who can't even afford a 300 dollar mortgage in a crappy run down cabin and I also lost all my friends when we got together. Literally have nobody but him now and my parents.
@saludosalsol4 жыл бұрын
@@nadiablue5989 some people value loyalty over money. its not a bad thing. You can always earn more money but its very very hard to change a rotten character and instill good morals in people.
@gelatoallimon5 жыл бұрын
I've worked in finance and dealt with a lot of wealthy clients. In almost every case I've encountered where the woman is less physically attractive than her male partner, her mind more than makes up for it. These men are not insecure. They want a woman who is sharp and intelligent and is not there to take his money because she is out there making her own bank. These women are in finance, enterpreneurs, attorneys, surgeons, executives, i.e. high power individuals.
@i_only_simp_for_myself8005 жыл бұрын
gelatoallimon wow really? I go to med school, and I alway hear that I’m pretty so do you think I have a chance to catch a wealthy ( maybe attractive man) if i want to?
@digitaljosh_4 жыл бұрын
@@i_only_simp_for_myself800 Jeez dude just stop looking for self-affirmation from these videos
@Greedude4 жыл бұрын
Yes, this is very accurate. Usually self made men who didn’t inherit their money have very different mindsets than other people and prioritize certain things in women more than others.
@umm_areyouokay81863 жыл бұрын
@@i_only_simp_for_myself800 of course sweetie.....every one has a preference so ....u make your wish list about what you want in your life & work for it ...by work i mean self development work tooo ....men usually notice a woman who is quite unfazed at anything coz they are quite relaxed with their life which makes them wonder🤣🤣 i don't know if it has scientific back up...but try to love your own life..... people will come running to you coz they don't find peace in themselves sometimes 🥰🥰
@melodiechartier51733 жыл бұрын
@@digitaljosh_ seriously!!!!!!!
@melvinniedhamer44365 жыл бұрын
Iam wealthy and I got wealthy male friends, in general when you know that you can get any girls, the only thing that will be attractive in a woman is her mind, how intelligent artistic unique in case of originality, this type of thing. Cause we already got all the money the power, we don't chase beta males meat no more... I'm going to tell you a secret but 🤫. When an average male chase the most attractive woman ( most of the time) that's a low self esteem issue, an ego thing. In their head they are like "if I can't get the MONEY, I will go for the attractive woman" this is about what they represent in society. When you already got all that you want, achieved your material goals, got high self esteem, you got nothing to prove the car, the suit, the money prove it for yourself, you as a man will start look up for something more, something bigger more profound and high vibrational, then all the superficial girls look the same and overtime the physical attractiveness became completely shallow and you become what we call a Sapiosexual, love of the mind the originality. That's why if a rich man marry a girl just for her beauty, he will end up cheating or something else cause in reality he's completely lost. Make sense right. Well I was, just passing by have a good day!!
@missphilosophie5 жыл бұрын
Lies!
@djhanecostin41655 жыл бұрын
I see this a lot
@Undefinible5 жыл бұрын
True. What I've noticed is that average men don't want original, artistic and highly intelligent women. They simply run away from them, even if those women are also very beautiful.
@rolamahmoud89095 жыл бұрын
kireo scalers Several good looking smart successful women get prejudiced by how they look. I think most rich men don’t need a challenge. They find it very difficult to cope with a smart attractive women. It’s very challenging to have a healthy marriage with a smart attractive woman, as it brings out masculine insecurities and controlling issues in most men. Obsession with looks can underestimate good men and human. You can’t judge a book by its title. Can you?
@lalili13585 жыл бұрын
Ofcourse they have to have chemistry and a good personality. While physical beauty is important, it's not everything.
@audraelynnegrimmelhaussen88084 жыл бұрын
I'm engaged to a quality man and I've always seen myself as plain and nothing special but he told me that he chose me because I can make him laugh, I take care of him, and he loves that I'm kind to animals. He says I'm a combination of Audrey Hepburn and Angelina Jolie 🥰🥰🥰 And I don't feel so plain anymore.
@stepheessel66673 жыл бұрын
Awwww that's lovely 😊
@nathislda3 жыл бұрын
none can be plain being a mix of Angelina and Audrey!! :D
@Heavypantshitter3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful.
@lotuswolf15183 жыл бұрын
I am autistic and stupid my millionaire handsome smart bf loves me anyway
@zimjun73 жыл бұрын
I make men laugh, LOVE all animals (they love my soft voice ) a good listener. BEEN said, I'm almost 70 now, that I resembled Natalie Wood and/or Jill St. John. Did that mean I could have had a chance with Robert Wagner?!! Just a bit of levity, there. Only still trying to find answers. Part of the problem is that I cannot be "unevenly yoked with an unbeliever" in Biblical sense. But OTHER friends have been able to find husbands. Still people say I look incredibly young for my age. Hair is it's natural color, too.... Will likely delete this in a month's time. Did anyone ever tell "you" that life would be fair? My Mum used to say that....All I have to say
@markedwards77215 жыл бұрын
Even Brad Pitt got dumped.
@PuneetChhikara4 жыл бұрын
In hindsight, Jennifer would have been better for him. Plain Jane.
@spinnerfidget95464 жыл бұрын
@Sweetpea Especially now. He was hot when he was younger but people keep using Brad Pitt and George Clooney as like the epitome of hotness even though that stopped being true like 2 decades ago lol.
@CececeTK24124 жыл бұрын
Jennifer Aniston must move on.. She's a beauty. Brad have done so much.
@Lalalu743 жыл бұрын
@Sweetpea he is got the perfect face shape for a man😍
@ErinIsReal3 жыл бұрын
Cuz Brads got a pit down there.
@VintageCardinal5 жыл бұрын
Most of these comments imply that attractive (or mode type) women are not smart, or that they're shallow and high maintenance. Some are, some aren't. Don't judge.
@jasminealexia4 жыл бұрын
S O 💯
@moucoucoubg95644 жыл бұрын
When you live your life obtaining opportunities from beauty it's hard to develop your critical thinking and logic I agree with you that not all beautiful people are not smart but it's hard to be smart if you focus on shallow beauty
@soumil57944 жыл бұрын
Yup! Look at Madison Beer ! Best combination of personality, beauty and brain.
@gabrielac71814 жыл бұрын
As I listen to Anna, she states, it is just a general observation as everyone knows there are exceptions.
@miamia58024 жыл бұрын
@@moucoucoubg9564 Well, some people are just blessed by the puberty fairy, you can still be smart
@MsDeMandeville5 жыл бұрын
That’s the cleanest kitchen I’ve ever seen.
@diegogalindo94864 жыл бұрын
Shes in the kitchen section in home depot
@jacksmith19574 жыл бұрын
Diego Galindo ahaaaahaaaaahhaha
@jacksmith19574 жыл бұрын
Diego Galindo likely
@jacksmith19574 жыл бұрын
Jay facts that’s why men go for normal women because they have common sense
@stevrgrs4 жыл бұрын
Uber Eats ftw :P
@zed30635 жыл бұрын
“Catch a man when he’s weak or vulnerable” LOOLL sounds like catching a Pokemon 😂
@heatherlavalle68715 жыл бұрын
Zed truth!
@sipe2544 жыл бұрын
@@KawaiiGoddess2023 not with that fake blonde wig on....
@krismladjenovic50344 жыл бұрын
That is what men do to women
@dz19334 жыл бұрын
I guess that was my wife's strategy when I was a broke teenager XD. I see it totally different now
@ganymeade51514 жыл бұрын
Yet this is so true. Timing is everything.
@WeCaredALot5 жыл бұрын
I think there are two things at play. 1) Men and women have different standards of beauty. What women might call 'beautiful' could be boring or dull-looking to a man. What some men call 'beautiful' can look tarty and basic to women, etc. And 2) you have to remember that a lot of times very rich men have already had their share of beautiful women! They've slept with models, actresses, escorts, etc. At that point in their lives, beauty is abundant and far more available to them than an average man. That's why a woman who has other qualities besides beauty can seem more interesting when she's compared to the exceptionally pretty women he has had before.
@timelessredlipstick2 жыл бұрын
This is so true too!! I love how you wrote this.
@lunalu5522 жыл бұрын
@@timelessredlipstick And he will still sleep with them on the side.
@rachelrasmussen11012 жыл бұрын
My favorite answer thus far.
@xmoreno3366 Жыл бұрын
man i got have change inside
@Turnpost2552 Жыл бұрын
Also to become rich you must be discplined and have a daily routine. A girl that is supportive may have build him up and given him that chance to have stable and push through that difficult job.
@suman21755 жыл бұрын
My husband is actually way better looking than me and younger than me. I never thought he would be interested in me and that's the reason I was normal around him and didn't try hard for anything. After watching your video I think he was one of those types where be didn't know he was a catch! Good for me!
@ZeePark214 жыл бұрын
I can see why you're thinking that way. Kudos to both of you!
@jacindapeters23034 жыл бұрын
He's probably making fun of you behind your back those types of guys do that.
@suman21754 жыл бұрын
@@jacindapeters2303 as long as it's behind my back. He is still with me after 15 years. He gives me everything I desire. Treats me like a lady.
@tellatt42114 жыл бұрын
@@suman2175 plain jane where? Dear you husband know what he was doing, you look amazing. Don't sell yourself short.
@suman21754 жыл бұрын
@@tellatt4211 😘
@CosmicSpaceAdventure5 жыл бұрын
Honestly, when I first started watching her, I thought the videos might be kind of sexist. But after watching her videos, I think she’s really sensitive to other people’s views, and being really respectful and inclusive of everyone. It’s a really wonderful thing, and I’m glad she decided to start a finishing school. I think she’s great at it.
@orubek3552 жыл бұрын
👌👌👌
@MatheresaAguilar Жыл бұрын
❤👍👋
@nousnous43615 жыл бұрын
I'll never forget this old French film where this businessman was married to the most gorgeous, model like woman. Literally a 10/10. And he ended up falling in love and having an affair with his plain, chubby and frumpy secretary. He said the wife looked perfect but she was shallow and self obsessed while the Secretary was kind, interesting and made him feel like a king. Looks aren't everything kids -especially when hot girls are everywhere!
@nousnous43615 жыл бұрын
@Diamon.Yeah I think the message is more revolutionary than the idea that it's stereotypical for a gorgeous woman to be self centered. A lot of people can think of one gorgeous woman they know that is unattractive internally but not a lot of people would easily accept when a wealthy/handsome man falls in love with a '4/10' instead of a '10/10'
@Phoephoey5 жыл бұрын
Nous Nous what is the title of the film? Would like to watch thank you!!
@diamondgoddess58575 жыл бұрын
Trop Belle Pour Toi (Too Beautiful for You) is the film and it stars Bond Girl Carole Bouquet. The end is really interesting.
@aluxuriousmess76685 жыл бұрын
@Diamon. Or the self-esteem of men.
@punstress5 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty sure I saw that, with Gerard Depardieu. It didn't ring true. Yes, he might choose someone less beautiful than his model wife, but not to that extreme.
@miamanning78715 жыл бұрын
All my rich male friends are married to very intelligent women looks are second..it’s about compatibility..true something for everyone 👍
@ganymeade51514 жыл бұрын
Usually rich men marry sensible, calm, down to earth, mentally-stable women with common sense and that could be called a form of intelligence. Even better if this type of woman has money and is from money. Looks are secondary. A rich man can have an affair with a beautiful young woman on the side anytime he wants; and wifey if she is smart will deny or ignore it.
@sundayesisio62804 жыл бұрын
Mia Manning is that really it?
@miamanning78714 жыл бұрын
Sunday Esisio Yes ..I believe Geny Meade has it right..see above commenit
@sundayesisio62804 жыл бұрын
Mia Manning I agree with you on compatibility. However looks are very important as well as being intelligent. I think everyone has his/her own opinion and desires, people are different. Same vain it’s what causes attraction.
@sundayesisio62804 жыл бұрын
Mia Manning You sound good, how about you?
@saradyer91242 жыл бұрын
It's been my observation that my very good looking friends have struggled to find a stable man. I've had men say to me they wouldn't dare ask my friend out, because she is too good for him. The ones who do ask them are the arrogant, narcissistic types who believe they deserve. I'm 64, so have spent many years watching this phenomenon. This is a very interesting topic; thank you. 🌹
@SheIsTired2 жыл бұрын
Struggled? You mean they’ve been monkey branching between men to find the right rich one but it’s now too late because they’re old sags 🤣🤣🤣
@celebritytarotreading3545 Жыл бұрын
@@SheIsTired She probably has younger friends too and she has been seeing this since her youth.
@lisaeve64265 жыл бұрын
Even if some of her points are valid, this was hard to listen to. It's sad we are such judgemental creatures....I would rather have self respect before having a man control me... but then again, I bought my own BMW, botox, laser treatments and vacations... it's best to be beautiful inside and out and financially stable from your own success. I have a successful career and told am hot, beautiful etc.... have it all... mostly secure people approach me. I can smell a narcissist a mile away... learned the hard way... but I learned. Doing it on my own feels better than being arm candy...I know first hand.
@sundayesisio62804 жыл бұрын
Lisa Eve is that really it?
@winner.7774 жыл бұрын
Truth. It's still best to be financially independent for women so there's no guilt of splurging money for yourself no matter how expensive. 😊
@chattimac24764 жыл бұрын
S O L P A H M for unwanted pregnancy as well ^^
@pru6er3 жыл бұрын
Most can't sense a "narcissist" right away UNLESS you've already been burned to the point of learning your lesson. Otherwise, you're just paranoid and really not sure what to do when you do smell it!
@iambloopy3 жыл бұрын
I aspire to be like you 🥰💓. Congratulations on everything you have earned. Have a beautiful day.
@mastermedicalterms5 жыл бұрын
Its because we look for heart above beauty. When you reach a certain success it comes with wisdom. Simple as that.
@PamelaChynn4 жыл бұрын
@My Sunglasses I agree looks do play a part but generally we're attracted whether we like it or not to what we deserve. Intelligent men are attracted to intelligent women.shallow insecure mwn will be attracted to shallow insecure women. If you want insight into a person's character look at the type of people they are attracted to.
@priscillavalenzuela97364 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true.
@lougomez58244 жыл бұрын
Yeah.. Right
@nenpogiga5434 жыл бұрын
@@HeavenlyRainPath because she is only one night stand material then😂
@d.benders24134 жыл бұрын
Boom! Well said!
@ashleynicole94235 жыл бұрын
Some women can’t help being beautiful. It’s not something they can choose or turn off. They were just born that way. They just possess an innate femininity and magnetism that attracts certain men. Not all beauty is manufactured. And for those women who have it, they should absolutely use it to their advantage. Some men want a woman who is sexy and gorgeous, some men want a woman who is smart and educated and financially successful. Some men want a woman who is domestic and maternal. This to me is great news! No matter what a woman’s attraction is, it simply means that there is a place for her! And all women have to do is hone in on what they uniquely and individually have to offer. The differences we as women have is what makes being a woman so wonderful.
@aureliaavalon5 жыл бұрын
Thank you, your comment made my day 😃 i love it
@ashleynicole94235 жыл бұрын
Aurelia Avalon Awwee you’re so sweet! Glad I can help :)
@rickimcfarland22695 жыл бұрын
Yes, great comment Ashley 😘
@dabihijinks67815 жыл бұрын
Sweet
@MsSilentAssasin5 жыл бұрын
Beautifully stated🤗😍
@lindianarch4 жыл бұрын
I really like the fact that there are men amongst us who have watched this video and also commented.
@ashleyillustrated5 жыл бұрын
She nails it. Everytime. She is real, raw, and unafraid to be honest. I absolutely admire her for that. She speaks so much truth, and is very knowledgable of looking at things from all perspectives. Love this video, so true.
@undercoverhamster25494 жыл бұрын
She doesn't nail it every time. Sometimes she is just superficial.
@jacksmith19574 жыл бұрын
Undercover Hamster - yeah she is superficial just like heir “attractive” (fake,unnatural) body
@ishabrown4 жыл бұрын
Anna is spot on I agree with everything she says she is down to earth even though she is in the elite
@hambeshdahfer95313 жыл бұрын
she is the female version of incels. adopting her attitude will make you very unlikable
@ballerman223455 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of men do this because a. they don't want to have to deal with a high maintenance woman, or b. they are looking for something deeper like personality, kindness, brains, etc.
@garnetsword5 жыл бұрын
High maintenance?... I thought the better you look, the less you have to do to make it look good... or at least the less time it takes... I would not want to spend my life in the beauty salons, although I do spend quite a bit time on self care.... doesn't make sense.
@songbirdforjesus23815 жыл бұрын
@@garnetsword maintaining good looks over time is expensive
@garnetsword5 жыл бұрын
@@songbirdforjesus2381 ... and depends on what all you want to get done
@sfab50395 жыл бұрын
Kindness isn't only a plain Jane character. It depends how the person was raised. Just because someone has looks doesn't mean thats all they have to offer the world.
@snap21145 жыл бұрын
@@songbirdforjesus2381 Yes, once I was at a music shop at the mall in a amall town near where I live. The cashier saw me checking out the many posters of beautiful, famous young mexican & mexican-american female singers. Then she tells me 'it takes a lot of money to look like that' & she smiled. I have to agree with her. There's the gym memberships and/or personal trainers, hair salon visits, nail manicures & pedicures, braces, teeth whitening, beauty spa treatments & the list goes on. Sigh. I try to do what I can with what I can afford but I refuse to be a slave to todays beauty standards. I no longer wear fake nails & I won't wear fake lashes. I also color my own hair at home. 😊
@segamanable914 жыл бұрын
It takes couple of months to help someone to improve their looks (ie food, exercise etc). It takes forever (if ever) to drastically improve her personality to something sweet, nice to be around and caring
@catonamushroom10194 жыл бұрын
Best not to go for people you have to improve.
@stepheessel66673 жыл бұрын
So true
@stargirlfan58243 жыл бұрын
Marry me
@xmoreno3366 Жыл бұрын
food exercise wont change body type
@Chi9ja5 жыл бұрын
i think the guys who are tired of shallowness and looks don't necessarily go straight for "plain janes" rather they become more open to dating women they would never have considered before. Because some plain janes can also be really plain, dull and shallow also.
@MeesterGonzalez4 жыл бұрын
I've come to accept that you seriously cannot judge a book by its cover. Dated a very beautiful woman, for a short period of time, and what ended it was the fact that our conversations were horrible. She was more into common gossip, and I was not. Since, I've noticed that I tend to stay much longer with a woman that can engage me in great conversation and laughs, and who enjoys getting out and doing "outdoorsy" things, regardless of whether she's considered a '10' or not by society.
@shun23 Жыл бұрын
You dated 1 beauty and just assumed they were all superficial, dumb bimbos so you settled for an unattractive woman?thats even dumber i think. If you like attractive women you just keep pushing until you find a beauty who also has the wits and can carry an interestimg convo w you!
@boss_niko Жыл бұрын
You are a man of culture. Actually having partner with desired personality is more important than looks in the long run.
@goodboix352811 ай бұрын
Ohhh yes! I've been fortunate to see many older women in my community as they go about their lives, and oh man, being tied to one with bad character would be absolutely horrific. Like with post-coital clarity, now you are stuck with the person: the whole person!!!
@theunicornsin11445 жыл бұрын
I've learnt a lot from reading these comments. I love how different people have different positive perspectives on this topic and how many people can relate. This video and comments definitely made me have a broad perspective of things. I don't only have my version of the topic of this video but also many other peoples versions. Thank you
@corinabizzell62995 жыл бұрын
Internal beauty is priceless Ana. Humble hearts are so more attractive than a beautiful harping woman who wants only things she brings headaches and heartache to these men.
@kaydub685 жыл бұрын
there are alot of ugly plain women who are high maintenance unpleasant dumb controlling bitchy and undercover gold diggers as well. just because a basic plain or down right ugly woman gets chosen by a rich good looking man doesnt mean she is exceptional- or smart or nice or non shallow. or beautiful on the inside..the guy has low self esteem or childhood issues or insecure control freak or fetish for certain type of woman.
@kaytaylor17665 жыл бұрын
Well said !!!
@gigglypuff35895 жыл бұрын
Kar Doubleyou couldn’t agree more!!. I am speechless at how many people automatically assume that the plain Jane is the “nice” one and that the pretty girl is the “bitchy” and “high maintenance”. It’s not that simple- people are much more complex than their appearance. In fact many plain looking girls are jealous, manipulative and catty with attractive girls- I see this all the time.
@suemg18785 жыл бұрын
So correct that's what he said
@misschocoholic825 жыл бұрын
Exactly! Usually its the opposite!
@bettylynn665 жыл бұрын
I believe that a lot of times when a wealthy man goes for a plainer woman it is because of her higher intelligence.
@kaytaylor17665 жыл бұрын
There is substantial evidence behind this I have seen this time and time again Wisdom is very attractive #facts
@petersmith20405 жыл бұрын
Not only because of her intelligence, but also her talents and artistic abilities. A plain Jane who knows how to play the violin and can paint a scenery into a beautiful piece of artwork ( a painting) is way more attractive to a wealthy man than a bombshell who lacks brains and talents. Moreover, there's also a higher chance that less fortunate men out there would be physically attracted to the bombshell and have affairs with her which would lead to divorce and the wealthy man would eventually lose half of his assets and having to pay a monthly alimony for the rest of his life. In other words, a wealthy man is usually much smarter than the average Joe.
@elizabethanne87295 жыл бұрын
Sultana Yasemin but as Anna said, the man my find a person that we find plain, to be very attractive. It is quite subjective.
@Noortje3945 жыл бұрын
I agree. My co worker is a very nice and highly intelligent woman. Whenever I talk to her I feel like I’m talking to someone who has a very old soul and that’s so beautiful. Even I have never met someone like her. She is really an intriguing and amazing person. But if you look at her she is not really pretty... her husband on the other hand is so handsome and has a good job, comes from affluent family . And she comes from a very normal family but she did study law but didn’t do anything with her education. For him it doesn’t really matter. He loves her for her mind and that’s beautiful.
@TijaunaK5 жыл бұрын
*Im pretty sure no man cares about that. They all want beauty.* That is a stereotype about men. Sure, there are lots of men who think only in terms of a woman's physical appeal hence the sole reason he gets with her. But there are *plenty* more that value a woman for her independence, child-like nature, creativity and intellect. Beauty and what constitutes it his highly subjective and in fact, no society has ever come to an agreement on what it looks like (paintings and art of once rounded women to now slender ones) can attest to this. Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Barack Obama and plenty others all have average/attractive looking wives at best that do a great job taking care of themselves. I would wager *MOST* wealthy men who stand to have lots to lose prefers a woman he can build a legacy with beyond superficial "beauty" that will look aged in 15-20 years. I feel like there are a lot of immature thinkers under this video projecting their own insecurities.SMH
@claudiamolina91674 жыл бұрын
Also, men sometimes prefer a woman that makes them laugh and have a good sense of humor.
@kd-1-99423 жыл бұрын
yes
@faizahanif95153 жыл бұрын
A shallow reason to marry someone
@faizahanif95153 жыл бұрын
@@Lana.a_ everything fades....nothing is permanent
@bilboriches72163 жыл бұрын
Lol, that never happens.
@selrox8792 жыл бұрын
@@bilboriches7216 so true lol. The most guys I know whom are attractive they go for attractive women, not even looking at plain jane, maybe for a hookup but thats it. Also rich male celebs go for the looks
@kyram1235 жыл бұрын
I've noticed that these men might date more plain looking women, but not "unattractive" women. That is because plain women are still beautiful but not overdone and they come across as more genuine. But, you have to look at little harder to see their beauty. It is not screaming "look at me!" I used to wear more make-up and attention-getting clothes until someone in high society explained this to me, and I have toned it down some. You may not get as much attention, but the attention is more quality and not just men trying to hook up. Let's face it, people think a very made-up woman is shallow, even if she's not and wealthy men don't want that type of judgment on their wife or their family. It's not fair, but it's life.
@solidcatink5 жыл бұрын
Agree with you.
@guesswho57905 жыл бұрын
Makes sense!
@myownlittleworld92165 жыл бұрын
You nailed it with this comment......wowwww
@g_gucci47975 жыл бұрын
Not even close just the girl that is a 7/10 will save you less bullshit and will be real and the girls that are 10/10 just are a headache they ask for too much it gets annoying. I would gladly choose the 7/10 any day, I own a business and really don’t have time for bs so 7/10 is good 🤣, I mean she’ll appreciate it more when she finds out I’m making 6 figures 🤫🤣🤣🤣
@starrix47125 жыл бұрын
It might also be a Eurocentric cultural thing. I know in the east a gorgeous women (who yes, can also mutually be seen as regal and intelligent) is preferred as a wife
@froyokid5 жыл бұрын
I disagree with the "insecure rich men go for ugly women cause he feels he cant do better" no no no. Actually insecure men i find are the MOST likely to be seeking other people's validation and so go for the MOST CONVENTIONALLY attractive women that look like they were manufactured. I doubt there is a RICH man no matter what he looks like that thinks he cant do better uh uh. The attractive rich men who choose plain are actually MORE secure in themselves because they know they are alpha and dont have to prove anything. They lit have women flocking to them but they choose the plains because the plain jane are entertaining and good conversationalists OR she has something else like her own thriving career OR comes from a well off respected family. For example, you really think George Clooney went for Amal because he is insecure????? The guy is HOT and RICH and has dated models, etc. You think Ben Affleck went for Jen because he is insecure?????
@froyokid5 жыл бұрын
@Diamon. yes to you but most guys do not find stick thin like that beautiful. She is skinnier than most victoria secret models.
@Delimon0075 жыл бұрын
@Diamon. I'm with tiger on this one, I don't find stick thin beautiful at all, in fact, I find it repulsive. If I can see your bones without you stretching then you're too damn skinny for me.
@Delimon0075 жыл бұрын
@Diamon. Who considers models as trophy wives? We obviously don't, models are good to look at. Just because you are good to look at does not make you wife material.
@Delimon0075 жыл бұрын
@Diamon. Okay I want you to think about what you just said then go back to your original comments towards us. We explained that we are not interested in trophy wives, but you said she had the entire package. Do you see the issue here?
@froyokid5 жыл бұрын
@Diamon. Giselle is athletic build and is not stick thin like amal. Kate moss has wide hip bones so she doesnt look as straight up and down as amal and is currently dating a nobody. When I say gorgeous I mean Scarlett Johansson, Amber heard, Halle berry, Miranda kerr(model that is not too thin) in their prime. MEN find these women attractive not Amal, who WOMEN only find attractive cause she can dress but doesn't have the assets to be a threat to other women
@emma-he4zp5 жыл бұрын
Wow! Secure a guy when he s vulnerable and week?! Girls, put your efforts into developing careers and yourselves rather than having it as a goal to find a rich man. You can make your own money. Respect, compatibility and love are the most important in a relationship if you want a happy life and peace in your hearts.
@feliciadebek43752 жыл бұрын
Well said .
@tikdoe75635 жыл бұрын
This is about the women in the comments & not so much the person making the video as she made good points. A lot of women use this question as a way to validate themselves. There are a lot of these types of women in this comment section boosting their egos by categorizing themselves as the beauty who can't "bag" a rich guy becuase she's too intimidating. There are people who choose less attractive women for the reasons anna said, but the "I'm just too pretty, he would prefer me if he wasn't so intimidated by my beauty" "why would he want a normal looking girl when he could have an expensive looking one" are often coping mechanism type questions.
@violetjane71525 жыл бұрын
Looks aren’t everything, once you hit 25, 30 it’s more about an inner connection. Unless your extremely superficial. Intelligence, kindness, authenticity out weighs looks any day.
@wakeup67784 жыл бұрын
I agree with kindness. You can learn that proces being more nice during your life, but intelligence is something you are also born with or without it like looks does, so to me its also superficial to say i love him because he or she is smart
@sundayesisio62804 жыл бұрын
Sarah Drake wow is that really it?
@darktruth94212 жыл бұрын
Sensible comments
@yellymack89814 жыл бұрын
definitely agree with the safety, my first girl was extremely good looking she came to the gym with me 5 times a week to keep in shape. She definitely had a lot of options but chose me. But through time dating her it got very tiring she was very spoiled by society and she acted like she had a lot of options other than me which slowly got old since I had heaps of options too but chose her. Now I have a girl I would say is 6/10 when she wakes up most of my friends find her average but my attraction for her grows more and more. As she's a good daughter to her parents, the most valued person in her friend group and extremely loyal.
@edoboleyn2 жыл бұрын
She sounds fantastic. She has many more options than some schmuck who’s giving her a number rating for strangers on the Internet. I wonder what she, her parents, or the friends who love her would think of that? 🤔
@balbi16772 жыл бұрын
@@edoboleyn yes, came here to say that. He really thinks he did something here, but actually sound like a douche.
@yellymack89812 жыл бұрын
@@edoboleyn I don’t know what don’t you go ask and find out?
@danieldiaz-lebrun49562 жыл бұрын
@@edoboleyn Women rank men, too, either numerically or nominally (attractive or unattractive). You probably do the same in some capacity. This is reality. Stop being so sanctimonious.
@oceanrocks2 жыл бұрын
@@edoboleyn Oh please. Women are just as shallow and looks obsessed as men are. Get over yourself
@skbennett57615 жыл бұрын
Rich, attractive men of inner substance marry women they LOVE and have a strong connection with in all the ways that count in a committed relationship. Whether the woman is plain or beautiful, does she fit into his life and his long-term goals? He may be very family-oriented, and background very often does count. Old money men tend to marry old money women, and if they want a beautiful side piece, well...that's where mistresses come into play. For these men, family bloodline and legacy is all. If you're all that and beautiful, you've got it made! If a man only loves you for your beauty and sexual desirability, beware. If he doesn't introduce you to his friends & family or take you to places he frequents, that's a bright red flag!
@ShushaSofia5 жыл бұрын
They marry the one they love and sleep with the one they're attracted to. Lol
@turnthepage8675 жыл бұрын
Men can see more deeply into a woman's beauty than she can see when she looks in the mirror.
@CompleteBeautyTreat5 жыл бұрын
Or maybe they just connected in some deep level and fell in love .... real love ... you know that when a man is with a not so attractive woman that he really and truly loves her and nothing will break that because he loves her for who she is
@Risha-Rene5 жыл бұрын
Beauty is within the eye of the beholder. Many women "level up" with the fake hair, make-up, plastic surgery & still aren't attractive. In most case they look worse I would prefer the natural, plain Jane with substance
@JenineJones755 жыл бұрын
I read somewhere that the majority of men (of all ages) most value two things in a woman 1) honesty and 2) if he has fun with her.
@ravenclaw7834 жыл бұрын
As a man, I can understand why successful men find “plain janes” appealing over “conventionally attractive” debutants. I’m not ignorant of the fact that women, even in our liberalized society, can’t seem to escape the ever constricting and vigorously enforced narrow standards of conventional beauty. Furthermore, I think our society upholds this Disney-esque fantasy of every woman being a princess or queen and should be treated as such. There’s a lot of grown women who haven't fully matured out of this “Princess” phase and to most successful men, that is not an appealing quality. A plain jane represents realness and true confidence. Being conventionally beautiful in the 21 first century is much easier than being a real confident woman. Food for thought.
@here_we_go_again25712 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately our modern society creates a large number of "Princesses" and "Peter Pans" Traditional societies emphasize duty, honor and loyality thereby instilling those values in the young by the parents' examples.
@EughhBrothereughh Жыл бұрын
Maybe its men who don't reach "princesses" standard and love to complain about women being high maintenance because they cant maintain them?
@ravenclaw783 Жыл бұрын
@@EughhBrothereughh One would hope in a 21st century modern western democracy, a woman would have every capability to "maintain" herself?
@FirstnameLastname-cl4op Жыл бұрын
@@EughhBrothereughh grow up and high maintenance is the biggest turn off for any type of man
@angelicsparkles5 жыл бұрын
I think a lot of it has to do with is remembering that being the best version of yourself is more than looks - as you also believe Anna - and to remember that there is someone for everyone and a lot of it has to do with trusting you'll end up with the right person for you.
@murieloduro12745 жыл бұрын
When the erectile dysfunction disorder kicks in that’s when they want to faithful.
@zed30635 жыл бұрын
Muriel Oduro hahahahah
@amandaspaintinglessons99085 жыл бұрын
Not. Even. Then.
@yanna09xx4 жыл бұрын
LOL True
@thebspolice7924 жыл бұрын
yeah but when women hit their late 30's thats when they become hoes where their only validation of youth comes from sleeping with a 19 year old boy
@beoknez61454 жыл бұрын
well a low libido and prude person like You shouldnt judge. Id rather be with a woman who likes a high sexuality then one like You who criticises it, become a nun and stfu
@revolutionaryhealing99924 жыл бұрын
“A man of quality is not threatened by a woman of equality.” Having money doesn’t mean that you must be a smart man of quality.
@ngreat43904 жыл бұрын
Wise words!
@firefliflihi57193 жыл бұрын
To simplify your saying a quality person is not threatened by a mate of equality 😎😇
@maramendoim5 жыл бұрын
Even the most beautiful woman if she is a boring person to be with she'll become ugly for a man. Men like to be with a fun, smart, natural, delicate and feminine woman. If she has these attributes, she doesn't have to be a beauty queen. 😉
@sipe2544 жыл бұрын
*Feminine* is the most important. No man wants to date another man just without the penis.
@makolokotambola66144 жыл бұрын
So true
@arta48884 жыл бұрын
@@sipe254 not true. Some guys are into girls like that
@ganymeade51514 жыл бұрын
Feminism has ruined many women and men; sadly.
@ashwajeshi15585 жыл бұрын
Leveling up has a lot to do with inner self,confidence, being presentable ....
@ashwajeshi15585 жыл бұрын
They may be plain women who know their worth.
@Yoga4SpiritBodyMind5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes he searches for a woman, who reminds him of his mother, and that maybe the reason, why a lady close to him is not a beauty at all, but has a light heart, caring etc.
@Feathered_Moon5 жыл бұрын
Imo, people date people who they like. Looks aren't first priority, I can't imagine things ever being that way.
@Vidya7405 жыл бұрын
One of the main reasons, is that young, well educated, successful men are looking for well educated, successful women to settle down with and build a family. The women who are top performers academically are not usually the beautiful, or pretty ones; they are usually plain. However, there are some women who are beautiful, very well educated, and have successful careers; but they are few and far between. These women are in high demand, and they know it. They are usually out of reach for the average man. The competition to snag a beautiful, well educated, successful woman is very stiff.
@ashleynicole94235 жыл бұрын
Maria Smith Yes and for those few women who are beautiful _and_ successful, she doesn’t always stay that way for long. After years of being a broke college/grad student, then several grueling years of interning at low level positions, then competing with men in the corporate world, by the time she’s reached her success, she’s aged, burnt out, probably gained weight, and has sacrificed looking after herself for her career. This is the sad and harsh trade off.
@maridupre73565 жыл бұрын
Actually your information is incorrect : there is a correlation of good looks and high IQ.I would suggest looking at studies on this topic and many magazine articles reflect the studies.
@sfab50395 жыл бұрын
This isn't true at all.
@gb9175 жыл бұрын
mari dupre So how come none of the nobel prize winners, wealthiest people in the world, or most politicians are never hot.
@atejani69945 жыл бұрын
@@maridupre7356 I don't understand how there could be a correlation between good looks and high IQ because many good looking people, both men and women, are only good looking because they put more time and effort into their appearance, not necessarily because they were born that way.
@tigerex7774 жыл бұрын
I'm not rich just middle class but I do consider myself attractive and I've been hit by women for most of my life. I'm not attracted to very attractive women because most of them are very shallow and are not very intellectual. I care about beauty but I also need intelligence otherwise I get bored fast. This also applies to relationships with male friends; if they can't hold an intellectual conversation with me I get bored of them fairly quickly.
@alphawtel31573 жыл бұрын
Beautiful women can be good too, just saying.
@nevinevenus23385 жыл бұрын
Some men are insecure around a beautiful woman. Deep down they feel unworthy and undeserving. Always check his ex before u date him!!
@keliekiwi5615 жыл бұрын
My motto "check the ex"
@nevinevenus23385 жыл бұрын
@@keliekiwi561 Bravo!!!👌
@montanachanel15 жыл бұрын
Yup!! You said it!
@nevinevenus23385 жыл бұрын
@Fires And Flowers no one will marry less unless he feels less! substance is not the twin of ugliness!
@nevinevenus23385 жыл бұрын
@Fires And Flowers They need to love themselves first...they do not..or they would be beautiful too!
@kellyk32225 жыл бұрын
Perhaps the "Plain Jane" is not an embarrassment?
@isabellahu46065 жыл бұрын
@Seeker Of Word lol maybe your attitude is the cause? Reading what you wrote kinda gives off bad vibes lol
@danan90615 жыл бұрын
@Seeker Of Word lol. Maybe guys dont like you cause your a narcissist
@saintm705 жыл бұрын
@Seeker Of Word I laughed so hard when I read your comment. Thank you. It's very simple like that!
@dieterspecht365 жыл бұрын
Think about plain Jane as Amal Alamuddin: elegant, sophisticated, u can take her out socially. Then think about the prize girl that looks like a pornstar usually football players, musicians and some business types go for. Wich one is more stable and has a future? :)
@yanna09xx4 жыл бұрын
@Seeker Of Word They cheat on you because you let them
@Artbug4 жыл бұрын
It could be a good man with character and integrity looking for a real relatioship based on more than just looks. An intellectual match, emotional support, a perfect soulmate. And these woman are likely not the vapid desperate types that throw themselves at men. Men want to chase and hunt for you, if you are hard to catch, you are high value
@catonamushroom10194 жыл бұрын
But does he lose value for you if he is just excited by the hunt?
@evellynbahia5 жыл бұрын
Sometimes is because the woman is a challenge to them. Men usually like to chase and when they find a challenge they want to conquer. A woman can be “plain” but also complex and mysterious , which can make some men feel like they have to overcome those walls and show the world they were able to get the prize.
@NM-gy6tx5 жыл бұрын
Well put. This is very true x
@gigglypuff35895 жыл бұрын
Evellyn B. Ooh that’s a good explanation- makes sense
@darliciatv80405 жыл бұрын
So a pretty woman can’t be smart and mysterious?
@evellynbahia5 жыл бұрын
Darlicia TV why you interpreted that way when I was mainly talking about what other people consider as a “plain” woman (which is the topic of the video), will remain a mystery to me.
@irme89305 жыл бұрын
Yeah, sure! The true is the plain or ugly woman would do things in bed and outside to humilihate herself. Some men are narcissists and prefer an ugly woman who kisses the Earth they stepped on to a beautiful woman who keeps him on his toes and doesn't give him so much admiration because she respects and loves herself.
@12mnop4 жыл бұрын
May be the so called less attractive girl has character and personality which is more attractive then self obsessed beautiful girl
@mydad42164 жыл бұрын
Modesty
@dmeditz81003 жыл бұрын
every third beautiful girl is bitchy type she want us pay date for everytime from everything from vacation to party then even after marriage they have attitude her money is for her make-up and my money is her personal property it's her decision to make divorce take 50% Money.
@brooklynitec68884 жыл бұрын
This is an awesome, awesome video. I notice that a lot of men at my church (usually pastors who are attractive) tend to marry these plain Jane women that wear zero makeup and wear nothing but dark colors and Jean's. Some of these women tend to be closed off, boring and are cold too..and that throws me off the most. Sometimes I just sit and wonder " why did he choose her" especially if he's kind & has a great personality. I assumed that it was for some of the reasons that you mentioned, but I also think that these men go for these types of women b/c she's low maintenance, not only physically, but she's submissive as well. The plain Jane doesn't require much BUT she tends to treat women like myself, who embrace their femininity and beauty while being modest and humble, like a threat because she's insecure. I'm dealing with something like this right now and it's soooo annoying. I'm like" lady, it's not my fault that I'm feminine and I don't want your man!". I've never even had a full conversation with this woman but you would think I've offended her entire existence just based on the way that she looks at me. She's insecure and is taking it out on other women. It's pathetic
@roxanaghenea31373 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this situation with women :)
@annieezekiel60193 жыл бұрын
"Some like apples, some like oranges." Nicely put, concluded.
@TigerMonthlyHits5 жыл бұрын
I’m a gay male and wanted to bag a richer, older man. But I’m a top, and I know most sugar daddies are also tops. Plus I’m not willing to give up my sexual desires and dreams just so I can get money from him. So I’ve decided to pave my own way to wealth.
@mikanchan14085 жыл бұрын
This is the kind of motivation we need on this site😂😂😂👍
@tikdoe75635 жыл бұрын
😂😂seems like way too much work, at least when you have your own wealth you can eventually retire from kissing ass & being a slave to someone else's beauty standards.
@yagirlllwavy5 жыл бұрын
TigerMonthlyHits um ok
@orangecloud88205 жыл бұрын
I’m telling you as a woman... umm.. there are straight rich guys that like to be the ‘bottom’... on the down low... if you don’t mind, just look carefully, very carefully, and you will find them.. once you bag one, make sure to get your money from them 🤠☝🏼🔍
@nousnous43615 жыл бұрын
Love!
@Arcachonforever4 жыл бұрын
I've dated the narcissistic type and it's true that sometimes they'll go for less attractive women, but if they are true narcissists it doesn't matter, as they'll move on to another victim soon enough. In my case, my ex dated me because he considered me very beautiful, as did his friends, and this made him look and feel better (socially). You have to look at the other variables surrounding a relationship.
@usagiprincess43872 жыл бұрын
@Nostalgic _99 narcissists are incapable of treating anybody well, including their own parents.
@SemekiIzuio2 жыл бұрын
Came across one due to my shyness and insecurities so yes they target plain janes because the plain janes are how can I say are more often down to earth kind loyal type so they are perfect targets for them
@jpest175 жыл бұрын
"Disclaimer: All women ARE beautiful." You really believe that or are you just trying to avoid your inbox from blowing up?
@virginiaconway3745 жыл бұрын
Yes, women are unique you just need to look beneath the veneer.
@ashchan05045 жыл бұрын
Some woman are just plain
@thebspolice7925 жыл бұрын
@@ashchan0504 most are
@shravp26035 жыл бұрын
Nonea Yobusiness it is true because attraction is subjective. Societal notions of what’s beauty are just that-socially constructed. Having a societal standard is bullshit.
@brightideas264 жыл бұрын
All woman are beautiful. We all have something beautiful about us!
@royalnavarre16735 жыл бұрын
I went on a date with a rich man who told me he chose another woman over me because she had three jobs vs. my one. He was looking for an "average" looking woman and he said I was "athletic".
@URLCrazyBeauiful12345 жыл бұрын
I'm glad that you pointed this out. I maybe a pretty woman but I don't care about how a man looks or how much money they make, I just care about how they are to me. I wish that more people knew about this.
@babaleaks54265 жыл бұрын
IS the world will live in now so artificial and superficial that true love doesn't play a role anymore in choosing of life-mate? or why do we base everything on looks, am annoyed with the presumptions of so many people thinking that the only way you can fall in love is if the person is perfect and gorgeous. THE HEART CALL TO WHO THE HEART WANT!
@ioanafilipescu23275 жыл бұрын
baba! The world has always been like that. When I was younger I didn’t agree with this mentality either, I only believed in true genuin love, totally uninterested love etc. I am not a materialistic women, but to be honest I realised that it’s not only ‘the heart wants what it wants’, we have to think at many things, not only at the fact that ‘I love him’ because this is not the only thing in choising a life mate. When i date a guy and I think about something seroius with him like maybe marrige, I also thik: Ok, I like him, he is handsome, kind, intelligent and what other qualities he has. But I really think about this things: If he is well educatef, if he has a financial stability because this is very important if we want to build a family (ofc I earn my own monney too, but I don’t want a men that earns less because it won’t work out because he won’g feel masculin anymore because historically talking the man is the provider and he has to look after his family. So he has to earn more than me), if he comes from a good family (not necesserly a rich family, but a well educated, intellectual family, also with financial possibilities etc). You have to think at the whole specter, not only ‘I love him’. It’s valable also for men
@ioanafilipescu23275 жыл бұрын
The ‘I love him, he loves me and that’s altt that matters’ thing only applys when you are young and genuin. These are nice relationships but most likely they won’t tutn into marrige
@manatee-qj8lb4 жыл бұрын
Because: A attractive, smart, successful men knows that there is more then looks in a person.
@nessyness54473 жыл бұрын
Also, another problem with this video is ..attractive men..according to who? Maybe what is atrractive to her is not attractive to other women.
@bijoyroy78604 жыл бұрын
As a man, I watched and was pleasantly surprised, that in today's climate there are still women like you who self-reflect in the public domain speak in a way which is realistic and keeping both genders in mind in her approach without falling in the trap of political correctness or preaching the gospel of feministic utopianism. More power to you!
@katerichka15 жыл бұрын
Society doesn’t always reward you for being beautiful and attractive! I myself have been harassed so many times, and even physically assaulted for looking above average ( I was a professional dancer, my body was super toned and fit), that at that time i seriously started thinking i was doing totally wrong for dressing elegantly and trying to look my best... In recent years, I have relaxed, but the harassment and assault experiences still haunt me.
@estherthechosen90235 жыл бұрын
Kate Savva I am so sorry to hear what happened Have you seeked help? If yes I hope it is helping 🙏🏾
@JanetEsq4 жыл бұрын
I was told that my good looks were the biggest impediment to getting a job.
@ee5285 жыл бұрын
Men in general when they are young go for looks, when they are mature enough go for the whole package and they look the most at personality. A great example will probably be David M. Rothschild and his girlfriend. He called her the most Intelligent part of me..or something along those lines. Some argue that she is not a bombshell or model looking but she definitely is an Interesting woman I would say. Thanks Anna, beautiful and nice as always.
@JayLawson5 жыл бұрын
When looks are the most important thing on your list, you have a high chance of a failing relationship. These men will say things like "she got fat so im no longer sexually attracted to her." If you look at couples who stay together 40 years they are usually with their best friend. When I was 20 I went for the most attractive woman I could get. Now at 39, I go for the most genuine woman that can build with me, that I can get. Ive broken up with several attractive women in my life to pursue better woman that arent necessarily as societally "hot".
@JayLawson4 жыл бұрын
@You stole my burrito, Charlie So you think a woman would be more attracted to a superficial man with no substance? You must be as stupid as your screen name.
@JayLawson4 жыл бұрын
@Mortal Silence 80 percent of divorces are initiated by the woman. So no, statistically that is not true.
@JayLawson4 жыл бұрын
@Mortal Silence nice try, women cheat at the same rates as men.
@JayLawson4 жыл бұрын
@Mortal Silence ad homonym attacks. Sign of a low intelligence person. Calling an engineer with a math degree a dusty...lol priceless.
@AngelineSims5 жыл бұрын
The plain looking woman may have not always been plain or even plain on the day he met her. A first impression last forever.
@rosegarcia23715 жыл бұрын
I am single because I have not found anyone in my league. I am not willing to settle. I am not that picky either. I have dated guys who were not gorgeous or wealthy. I need a bunch of characteristics like I have. It is so hard to find. I love your channel Anna. You are like a wise mentor. Thank you.
@fletcher3734 жыл бұрын
I am a woman and I have to laugh at all these “men may be in love with her personality” rhetoric. I think this lady hits a lot of good real facts. I think some men marry less attractive women because they are cheaters and they believe the plain wife will put up with it, because she feels good just to have a rich handsome husband. She hates his cheating but accepts it because he comes home to her, she is the mother of his children, she gains social status being his wife. Now beautiful women can be insecure enough to put up with a dog husband also. But if she is beautiful, he might fear she will cheat on him and has a better chance of getting another handsome rich husband. If they divorce the men she dates may feel inferior to her ex if he is less accomplished than him.
@i_only_simp_for_myself8004 жыл бұрын
fletcher373 what also makes me laugh is how they talk as if attractive women are automatically dumb and evil, and all plain women are nice and sweet. But i totally agree with you, I also noticed the decent looking rich men know that they can easily get a gorgeous woman, so they play with them to brague about it to their friends, but a gorgeous wife won’t easily worship them ( aka accept their shitty behavior, unfaithfulness, lack of romanticism ...) the way a plain woman would , that’s men’s selfishness. The problem is that many women wants to believe in true love so much, that they prefer to deny that cold truth That’s the main reason why many attractive smart women tend to be single and alone, it’s because they’re clever enough to understand this nature about men, and pretty enough to see them trying to flirt with them behind their wive’s back, so they prefer to avoid them
@frenchvanilla71094 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree with you both ❤️
@yuleidysmakeup1554 жыл бұрын
So true and the men like all the attention for himself and they look at other women
@duchessswan44564 жыл бұрын
Preach!!!!!!!!!!!
@dcardoso33425 жыл бұрын
I think men my choose an traditionally less attractive women because they consider other traits. This happens a lot, even with, as you call, average joes. They might consider, partnership, motherhood, manners and even financial status. Btw, I just watch your channel cause I find it really interesting
@sweetsadie71825 жыл бұрын
You forget that not all wealthy men, started off wealthy. Most self made men had a strong woman encouraging and supporting him along his rise. And for that the men love them and cherish them beyond just looks.
@escyartemis69135 жыл бұрын
Am sorry but bob the builder Chics always lose,,ask Mackenzie Bezos..lol
@djhanecostin41655 жыл бұрын
Diamon. Well look at Lebron James wife , she was a “ bob the builder” chick and her and her husband hasn’t had any scandals . It depends on the man ..
@munchkineatsalotvent98995 жыл бұрын
@@djhanecostin4165 he cheated on her white rihanna & a couple of other women he just Sneaky about it.
@djhanecostin41655 жыл бұрын
Amanda W girl how you know ?
@CececeTK24124 жыл бұрын
There is beauty in everyone. Beauty is not limited to a beautiful facade. Beauty can be in a form of simplicity, skill or confidence. We can never be perfect in every way but lucky if someone appreciates your true nature. Definitely it is our choice in life, doors that opens to you or you choose which door to open your way. The best thing you could do is to accept your chosen path and never look back. We can never blame others for what we once choose and what goes to them and what came for us.
@lybix5 жыл бұрын
I used to have the same question until I heard a conversation among my cousins they were all for going out with the cutest girl but as a partner, to marry, then the criteria turned into how intelligent and educated a woman is. They were looking for a woman who could, for example, bring new ideas to improve the family business
@catonamushroom10194 жыл бұрын
Would they cheat on her thinking she wasn't attractive enough?
@lybix4 жыл бұрын
@@catonamushroom1019 of course
@EughhBrothereughh Жыл бұрын
Wife someone with ideas, a mistress for outdoors. Lmao men r pathetic
@sarahsmile28835 жыл бұрын
From my experience, a wealthy, powerful man may marry a plain Jane because she is safe and he assumes she will be faithful to him, while he may be out cheating often.
@cforcourage40345 жыл бұрын
Sarah Smile Bigggg Facts they know u don’t have many options when dating especially to get into a high society circle. So you won’t want to come out and settle in the sense that you tolerate even questionable treatment!
@micaholson10525 жыл бұрын
Also true.
@netmana4 жыл бұрын
I am sorry to say, but this is true....
@radriffs24 жыл бұрын
The average man doesn't cheat on his wife it's actually quite the other way around. You wouldn't want to average man that treats you well you would rather be with the rich man who treats you like crap which is why a lot of men are just done with women. Oh and by the way men are not walking ATMs. You supposed to be with a man because you love him
@ThatGuy-en2nn4 жыл бұрын
@@radriffs2 Lmao, brother this is the wrong audience to be spouting this stuff to. You would never be able to get anyone here to understand your point of view.
@danamahoney71274 жыл бұрын
I asked my husband what he thought about this topic and he said “I think men just settle because it is easier”🤔
@EM-is9ti2 жыл бұрын
Did you and your husband settle for each other?
@MotheroftheOcean2 жыл бұрын
@@EM-is9ti Excellent question🤔
@observerlang2 жыл бұрын
Hmmm....
@j.dillonthescene2 жыл бұрын
You're right my ex left me for the plane chubby girl because he said it was easier and I'm a bit too much and required too much his loss I won't change 😎
@nataliebutler Жыл бұрын
Actually, I think a lot of men choose something 'easy' too, prehaps because they're often primarily driven by reason/logic when making a decision, not feelings.
@marthaayalew25054 жыл бұрын
My brother married less attractive woman and told me he did it so he can have a peaceful relationship. They been together for 20 yrs now.
@BBFCCO7333 жыл бұрын
A man can choose a mate because of common faith, culture, connection, interests....so many reasons! And makeup comes off at the end of the day, not your personality.
@vadinandez3 жыл бұрын
Because we get along perfectly. It's that simple. Peace is worth so much more than looks.
@leonbrown5935 Жыл бұрын
Preach!
@missmajestic_xo5 жыл бұрын
Nothing beats finding a partner on the same level. striving for more, lifting & building each other up not being jealous or competitive & Continuously complimenting each other in all aspects of life, wealt, health beauty & style. I met my match & even if it was 'timing' we were both vulnerable & each had what we both needed from a partner we work together as a team. 💏💕
@Samzymira4 жыл бұрын
i'm kinda ashamed to acknowledge that ive been binge watching your videos since 10pm. im super hooked. thank you soo much for this great content. there i'm super excited to put these things to practice.
@glindamouille84105 жыл бұрын
sincerity, an intelligent mind, a kind and compassionate heart goes a long way . beautiful and attractive women know they have an advantage turning heads . the less attractive woman has the advantage of keeping the man's heart . it's not always about the looks . it's more about the character . the body ages and changes but the heart and mind will always gravitate to the higher good . once the looks go, what is going to keep that relationship going? . what are they going to have in common and talk about? .
@lindacgrace29735 жыл бұрын
Dear Anna, Love your content! The research is in: in an international survey of over 10,000 males, aged 15 to 85, "beauty" is the number one quality that men seek. HOWEVER, beauty is entirely secondary to (first place runner up) kindness, (second place runner up) intelligence. We all know that dressing "hot" will attract a lot of male attention; but men don't marry hot, they marry beautiful. Fortunately for those of us who do not possess super-model genes, beauty is a blend of looks (including displays of social status), character and intelligence. So, it is important to do everything you can to enhance your beauty but you also have to work on improving your behavior and your mind (which is exactly what you teach in your School of Affluence course!).
@xmoreno3366 Жыл бұрын
need it
@DrinkYourNailPolish5 жыл бұрын
My first husband I married for looks, he was gorgeous and I had low self esteem. On top of it he enjoyed keeping me down, not improving myself. Eventually divorced after he became physically abusive. My second husband met me as I gained my confidence back and became "me" again. He loves that I can hold a conversation with him and since im all about self improvement, he encourages me to be the best me I can be. The point is even an "ugly duckling" has something to offer...and when loved right, will transform into a graceful swan!!
@Derlet304 жыл бұрын
Dear Ana: What a revelation! Thank you for giving me further insight into this mystery. One time, I was genuinely puzzled by an insanely attractive man who married a very plain (not unattractive, just plain) woman. But because I later discovered that the man was a narcissist, your video addressed my question in one shot: he wanted all the attention on himself. So now, that those two have divorced and are no longer together, I understand why it didn't work out. More likely than not, the woman got fed up of being the side piece accessory to the narcissist. Good for her! I am always happy when women break free from disadvantageous circumstances and move on to better possibilities of life out there. So grateful for this video! It was fascinating! ❤
@FC-yo4ff5 жыл бұрын
Where I come from (the middle east) Rich men have arranged marriages or they marry girls they met at a university, my mother and father both come from rich backgrounds and they had an arranged marriage
@montanachanel15 жыл бұрын
Yes, exactly! They are "Safe" as if all beautiful women don't have deep feelings and don't cheat. Smh. Every guy I date always want me to take my extensions out and wear no makeup, to plain me down basically
@montanachanel15 жыл бұрын
Thetasteofhoney1 it's ridiculous, rich or not they still act that way with pretty women.😑
@montanachanel15 жыл бұрын
Thetasteofhoney1 thing about it is, not every unattractive woman has a good personality and a nice looking woman doesn't always have a shit personality. so it's like idk 😂
@montanachanel15 жыл бұрын
Thetasteofhoney1 girl. We'll never know lmao I used to work retail in the mall and be ringing up and this couple will come up, girl scowlling already and he just starts kissing her right in front of me. Oh please save it idc🤣
@montanachanel15 жыл бұрын
Thetasteofhoney1 right!? What's real about both people having to stroke each other's egos lol
@gb9175 жыл бұрын
Montana Chanel But a beautiful woman would still be beautiful even without weave and makeup.
@syedatif88063 жыл бұрын
Because those men during lows of their lives have witnessed the reality behind the apparent beauty so they seek for understanding life partner once they get successful... So if that box is checked what else does a gentleman needs :)
@margyrowland5 жыл бұрын
She’s a very articulate person
@caob18764 жыл бұрын
Simplicity is a sign of sophistication to me. Plain women are more interesting and less narcisitic.
@mariavienna13055 жыл бұрын
There is so much to marriage than just beauty. I know some of really beautiful women, who end up alone, because they failed to give the men sense of home, sense of an relationship that is not just about looks, but also spiritually and intellectually challenging...long story short, there were simply pretty boring dolls to play with...I think that is why this kind of education for women is so important (thank you School of Affluence). Being a successful in relationship is not just about the looks. I am about to marry a very successful and caring man after just 6 months of dating. He sad he never wanted to get married in the past. When I asked him how am I different, he sad - he loves that I am very caring and family oriented and in the same time, witty and classy... there are lot of very beautiful and younger girls around, but I managed to win his heart ❤️.....
@LittleMissDeeDee5 жыл бұрын
What you say about men preferring “plain Jane” women is true. Some men just want “the girl nextdoor”. I have male friends who appreciate women who put effort into their appearance, but actually prefer very natural and “less glam” looking women. I think very glamorous women can scream “high maintenance”. Not just financially, but she might have an attitude problem or be stuck up because she knows she looks good. Rich or not, there are some men that don’t want to deal with that, so they go for more “humble” looking women.
@AnimalLover24005 жыл бұрын
The high maintenance look is actually what attracts rich men. Broke "regular" men like your friends dont like women who are dolled up because they cant afford them.
@LittleMissDeeDee5 жыл бұрын
@@AnimalLover2400 LOL my friends are far from broke - they're not rich, by any means, but they're homeowners in their 20s, in London. I went to school with girls who looked glam in cheap clothes and cheap makeup - you don't need to "afford" a glam woman necessarily. I think it would be disingenuous for us to ignore the attitudes and lack of humility some of these women can have.
@NoName-sp5dp5 жыл бұрын
@@LittleMissDeeDee mmmm 20 year olds are financially stable men. When women speak a out a certain lifestyle it's a 40 year old lawyer etc business owner. We dont need 20 year olds with college debt. I think you dont understand the term level up
@hopeislandful5 жыл бұрын
naturallybronzed xo the sorts of men ( whether they're rich handsome ugly or broke) who prefer plain looking women feel threatened and intimidated by more glamorous women. Even rich handsome guys can have insecurities with women.
@gb9175 жыл бұрын
Some high maintenance women take the maintenance too far and start looking like a monster.
@zinmomo71925 жыл бұрын
Ive met many women who are both gorgeous and intelligent. They can hold conversations and be interesting and yet they like to look aesthetically pleasing. It's possible!