Why Have Men Stopped Dating? The Ugly Truth Women Don't Want to Hear!

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[@JurassicJerkyAmazon]

The average weight of the American woman is 175 pounds!

[@bretmoleta1860]

lol as I say “ Linebackers”

[@everymanhasastory]

Interesting.

[@L4P-Monk]

@@JurassicJerkyAmazon There are some pretty big girls here too. Shockingly so.

[@user-wn7fr7wi2t]

😳😬👋

[@BrianDodgen]

The filipina girls are catching up if you spend anytime in the Philippines you will see that 90% of them are chubby and getting fatter

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

That’s me. I’m done. I’m sick of being ghosted, ignored, rejected. That’s all I encountered. Let 99% of women chase the top 5% of men. I will just sit back and watch things implode

[@everymanhasastory]

I'm sorry to hear that 😔

[@wingwalker27]

I've been married and divorced twice. Never again. I actually like being alone now. I'll get a dog. Unconditional love.

[@BoxingFishingGuy]

There is no way I would ever date anyone I work with. It’s dangerous to even be friends with women in the workplace these days.

[@NAWPS]

@BoxingFishingGuy that is really a mans weight..as you know. 120.is a woman's true weight

[@tomyum6163]

Social media is a big culprit in the dating scene disaster.

[@rollingtinfist]

This is the number one reason.

[@steveburke7675]

Relationships in the English speaking west are just too risky, too much drama and just...too unpleasant for men. The ladies are just insufferable...too much work. First dates now are little more than a job interview....that you pay for. I was married for 30+ yrs, the last 10 yrs was an absolute nightmare. I would work all day (had a well paying professional career) and dread going home. Anecdotally...amongst my family/friends/former workmates, 60% are divorced and 35% are stuck in miserable marriages...I know 2 cpls that appear to be happy. Divorced in 2017 and moved out of the US...lost 60% of my net worth to a cheating wife. Nah yeh nah...never again.

[@everymanhasastory]

Unfortunately your story is way to common. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your experience 😊 Best of luck!

[@michaelsix9684]

heard your story so many times, really sad

[@kamalsud3379]

Exactly the story of my marital life...

[@kamalsud3379]

Toxic feminism...no guy wants to deal with that mindset and behaviour

[@user-ue6pi6bm3f]

What is bad about equal rights?

[@jimb3093]

I stopped dating in the U.S. I am 51 years old, never married, no kids. I am willing to date overseas and have a long term relationship. Here in the U.S.? No way. I am done!

[@Chuck_Jordan_Philippines_Exp]

I've been with my Filipina wife for 2.5 years. Was married to my ex wife for 16 years. There's no comparison. I now wake up every morning thankful and feeling blessed to have my wife. With my ex I woke up every morning with a sense of dread of what kind of drama and misery awaited me.

[@everymanhasastory]

Congratulations on your new life. Thank you so much for watching and for taking the time to share your experience 😊

[@TopGMindsetCoach]

Blessings to you Brother 😇 Be grateful 🙏 Happy for you!

[@azspeedster5465]

As a widower for several years, I recently traveled to Thailand for vacation. Although I met and spoke to a few friendly and beautiful Thai women, I had no interest or desire to pursue a relationship again. I have become accustomed to the peace and quiet of being on my own and the level of freedom to live life on my terms. We all have to choose the life we want and go from there.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

[@hammertyme8392]

I'm 63 married to a 33-year-old beautiful Colombian woman, and couldn't possibly be happier. Women were put on earth to server their husbands.

[@TopGMindsetCoach]

AMEN 🙌 Brother Happy For You. Nomad Capitalist Expat Lifestyle & traditional feminine submissive non-toxic women for the win 🏆

[@anandvora4481]

Yes. As long as the husband treats her with kindness and respect. Its a two way street.

[@user-ue6pi6bm3f]

Poor slaves!

[@Panzer4F2]

Pornography does not get you hauled into Human Resources or Divorce Court. These days, if you are a man, you are one argument away from losing everything.

[@everymanhasastory]

Unfortunately I have to agree with you

[@blackwoodrichmore4531]

Hi Mark, society has changed!. Western women see marriage as a career path, & divorce as a retirement plan. In fact, 60% of all weddings in the west are just a pre-divorce ceremony. You'll also notice that in recent times, there has been a gradual upgrade in the Philippines, in that there's a growing middle class... Filipinas are gradually becoming more westernised. & absolute divorce is not so far off for the Philippines. 😬

[@bobbyjames4300]

Filipinas have become so westernized that it will make your head spin . Especially the under 30 generation.

[@FreedomTravels720]

Womens nature is the same stay single pay the market rate...you cant get divorce raped if you dont get married 😊

[@solarguy1702]

Yes Mark, I was awarded the house in the divorce BUT the spousal support was so high, I could no longer afford the mortgage.

[@everymanhasastory]

I was paying $7000 a month.

[@solarguy1702]

@@everymanhasastory I can only say,,, Holy shit!!!

[@lakecityransom]

​​@@solarguy1702no kidding in what world does a woman deserve $7,000 a month for doing nothing

[@valvetones7344]

What the Philippines government needs to now realize, is that there is massive amounts of talent entering the country, and rather than keeping the current laws that say foreign men cant work, or making it difficult to start a business, they should reverse those laws and allow the talented western men to enrich their country with their skills and ideas and labor. I feel the Philippines could really benefit greatly if they realized the potential of the men that are coming there. While America declines, the philippines could grow to be the most successful country in all of SE Asia if they just removed the restrictions and allowed western men to contribute. For instance, i have a backround in communications, electronics, renewable energy, and IT. But if i ever get there all my talents will go to waste. They really should use it as an opportunity. America is going to suffer a brain drain, the Philippines should take advantage of that. It could very well end their reliance on the US by taking advantage of the strength and talents of the US men who are coming there.

[@thomasboutin6045]

My ex wife "what is yours is mine and what is mine is mine "

[@everymanhasastory]

Wow! What a great comment! Thanks for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊

[@thomasboutin6045]

@@valvetones7344 in case you have not been to Manila lately- the Chinese are very busy working . In Cebu, the Koreans are doing well

[@ryanm9371]

Go where you are treated best!

[@TopGMindsetCoach]

💯 Agree 👍 Please write an email, a letter, & make some connections in The Philippines & make your case from an independent 3rd party perspective & get it into President Marcos's hands. Be the change you see an Opportunity for & take some action! You might be surprised at what happens. Never be Cynical, be a skeptical Optimistic Man of Action. A little Paranoia helps to protect you. Dot every I Cross every T.

[@michaelsix9684]

you grew up in a time when women were raised better, families were intact, and people did NOT have unrealistic expectations in relationships or life

[@everymanhasastory]

And you are exactly correct. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

[@alikabok-es4sx]

As a recently divorced person, married for 8 years. First marriage, and most probably my last. It is the burn out that gets you You commit and love someone then it degenerates to very stressful drama and betrayal. Perhaps when you are young you still have a very wide berth, but when you are in your late 50's or early 60's, and you have health issues and mortality has become a reality, you just don't want to deal with the stress and drama anymore. It is just not worth it. You just don't want to stress yourself with all that BS just to get laid. Not worth it. As Reekay of Life Beyond the Sea so insightfully said in one of his uploads. "Sometimes, it is better to be alone, than being with someone and you wish you are alone." Anyone who experienced a dying relationship knows what that means.

[@michaelsix9684]

I quit at 46, now 68, can't imagine why I ever bothered, it was always frustrating even annoying -- no payoff and never any thanks

[@variouscrazypeople254]

Same, I am 55, stopped dating in my early 40s... juice not worth the squeeze.

[@variouscrazypeople254]

Same, I am 55, stopped dating in my early 40s... juice not worth the squeeze.

[@josephbranch2342]

Most women nowadays are looking for a sponsor. Someone to pay their bills and help them with their life. They're not looking to be a wife.

[@nineseven420empire3]

No wife, happy life. Retired @ 60 and doing what I want. No stress or honey do BS.

[@anneofgreengables1619]

The problem with America is the excessive materialism. A lot of these "modern" women are spoiled & selfish. I'm sure there are some traditional Christian women but they're probably taken. I'm a woman in my Low 60s, and I am very traditional. After a messy divorce In the U.S I left for Finland 12 years ago. It's a whole different ball game over here. Nobody cares about the size of your house or portfolio. Most people here judge you on your character. It's refreshing.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you so much for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊 Nice to have a woman comment 😊

[@donwutzlakesideadventures]

Sad to say you're spot on Mark! I went through a few of the situations you talked about!

[@stevef5812]

American women said they want bears let them have bears

[@ronpd1982]

Reality for sure. Great story that was aired nicely. My wife is a landed immigrant, big blessing. My son was frustrated by the Canada work situation. Moved to Japan 12 years ago now married to a wonderful Tokyo 'girl' with a great jobs, new house and car. Unbelievable really. I thank God for the 'foreign' countries, and especially their people.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you so much for watching and for taking the time to share your experience 😊

[@L4P-Monk]

Hey Mark. Wow. What a topic indeed. So. As a disclaimer I will say that I was in a 30 year relationship. I was married 28.5 years of that and then she died of cancer. That was 8 years ago. I fully understood that things changed in America. The ladies seemed entitled and wanted an upgrade from where they are to even date you. Then I came to SE Asia. Add language barrier. They too want an upgrade. I tried a relationship with a Filipina not quite 20 years younger but for the sake of argument she was 43 and I was 63. She had 2 Twenty something sons. Talk about hey who is this foreigner? I tried to make it work for over a year. It was a losing battle. No one bothered to talk in English much less to me. It is worse to be with people and feel alone than it is to be alone. It was ok for her sons to steal from me. It was ok to ask me for money to give to her family and friends. This Filipina had all kinds of utang and she was OFW and I had to pay for it all. She worked hard for a long time but when I came, she laid on the couch and took naps. So did her sons. Everyone sleeps nicely except me! All of the horror stories I heard of... they were embodied in this one Filipina. My goodness. I am NOT dating anymore. You bet. It is no different here than anywhere else. If you guys find a good one ... congratulations. Count me out. They all figured I was Bill Gates rich. They all thought I would just pay everything and give them the life they always wanted. Even though I told her I was Pobre before I met her. They do not believe you! They think that is a joke. Well, they thought wrong. I saw how it was in the States and I see how it is in SE Asia. I. Am. Done. Permanently. Trust and believe... this is no utopia for dating.

[@L4P-Monk]

@sortbylowhigh9574 How indeed. Well… I hopped on the bus Gus, i didn’t need to discuss much, I just dropped off the key Lee and set myself free. Ya gotta love Paul Simon at times like that. Couldn’t resist using that one.

[@davidcollins2993]

I have a good friend that owns a business and every time he finds a woman she wants him to pay her bills.

[@LastQuarterArcade]

Everything you said is 100% correct. Also the internet is the worst and best invention to happen. I was alive before the internet and I'd prefer pre internet.

[@will_274]

There’s a problem finding good traditional feminine woman in the west. Why keep dating when you are constantly looked down upon?

[@everymanhasastory]

I agree with you 💯

[@variouscrazypeople254]

I stopped dating 13-14 years ago before it was in vogue.

[@henryreinders3031]

Yup, there is a reason vasectomies are on the rise in the west, and not just older men. Almost every guy I know who is over 50 has been snipped... and before I go overseas, I will be part of that group too. Don't need any more kids (aka dependants and 18 years min of child support).

[@billyakin3301]

I am one of those guys. I haven't dated in 13 years.

[@everymanhasastory]

Don't give up. The perfect woman is out there waiting for you Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

[@billyakin3301]

@@everymanhasastory Too late. I might leave the country.

[@billwilliams9527]

Mark, be happy you are not in the US anymore, it's a real political mess. Actually disgusting....

[@everymanhasastory]

I'm so sorry to hear that 😔

[@billwilliams9527]

@@everymanhasastory Oh Yes, me too, I live here. All we have is hope and that's not much to hang your hat on.

[@steveburke7675]

...US...Canada...UK...Aus..................all the same.

[@FreedomTravels720]

​@@billwilliams9527Hopium a powerful drug till it wears off 😊

[@robertcarel7704]

Women (and the American culture) have changed more than men over the last couple decades. Men watching porn is more of a reaction/symptom than a cause. This is why lots of American men are are attracted to Filipino women with traditional values.

[@EvelinHolmes]

What tractional value? Filipinas are much more willing to sleep with a guy on the first date. The proof most single Filipinas have a child . Why always but women down ? If man would treat their wife’s as the do there Filipinas Maybe there would be better longer lasting marriages . I married for 56 years to the same man. Of course I never hounded my husband for things we could not afford. But I also know man that not put a lots of thought in to there marriages . The wanted a big truck ,a boat motor home ,big holidays while the wife’s could not buy cloth for themselves or the children All these expats complain about there wife’s but there are man out there that are narcissist to.

[@USA_to_Asia_in_2024]

@@EvelinHolmes Filipinas will step on the scale in front of a man (when asked). How much do you weigh is a question you would NEVER provide an HONEST answer for. That's 1 difference of many many many.

[@paulereeves]

I am an American, and an American woman is my last choice. She is all about material things and not love. That's why I am in the philippines.

[@ParkerBG]

Sure it is 😂

[@JurandySanchez]

Quite true...

[@googleeyes4182]

Been there done that, you jumped from the frying pan into the fire.

[@NAWPS]

I was just about to say a similar story.. Passport is the way to go.. I, too, got a fillipina best decision I've made..happy now.

[@everymanhasastory]

Congratulations. Best decision I've ever made was moving to the Philippines

[@Man-In-The-Home-Stretch-60]

On 6 different dating sites, each one like having a singles bar in your pocket. My left-swipe wrist motion is getting one hell of a workout. Even when you DO find someone worth swiping right on, they either don't respond, or maybe they'll trickle out 2-3 word responses every 3 days, and god forbid anyone actually agree to MEET in person! Can't wait to get over there!

[@dannyboy8644]

Great video 😊I agree with everything you said so articulated. I am blessed I married a traditional woman together 35 plus years here in America. I doubt I could ever meet another American women like her . God forbid she passes before me it would really change my life. Thanks for the video and congratulations on the birth of your child.

[@everymanhasastory]

Congratulations on your happy marriage. 😊 Yed there are still wonderful women in America. My mother and sister. They are just getting harder to find

[@paulmiller9997]

I'm a 40-year old Canadian. I have no interest in western women generally. For me, it is more of the materialistic, entitled, attitude that many western women have. Of course, I have met some amazing, humble, SEA women in my travels, and that reinforces my feelings. I see so many married men in North America who are unhappy. Even just walking down the street here, listening to some conversations...I thank god that I am not attached to women like that. Not to mention the fact that I have my free time to myself and I'm saving a LOT of money. I travel 2 or 3 times per year, mainly to Thailand for now, and that keeps me more than happy until such time as I can afford to move to SEA and find a woman who is genuinely loving, attractive, humble and family oriented.

[@ragjamrock]

You made a lot of great points here, Mark. I would just like to add that many Filipinas by age 20 have a 10 year headstart in lifeskills on their western counterparts. This is not a knock on our women, but it strengthens the case for age gap relationships like yours.👍🏽🏝🇵🇭

[@everymanhasastory]

That is a valid point. Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊

[@JurassicJerkyAmazon]

Mark, wherever you are in the world it’s all about status money and Looks. The average guy has no status in the United States, but if he travels to Latin America parts of Europe and Southeast Asia, he walks off the plane with #Status!

[@user-cm8ns1rj6z]

Great content Mark! As a Canadian in my 50s I don't date CDN women anymore. Once divorced...it's the old saying "once burnt... twice shy" And a few guys get burnt again when they goto collect CPP (aka our version of USA social security) at age 65 and half there CPP credits have been transferred to the Ex and they collect less than they were expecting. A real final kick in the B###s

[@garyt7232]

Everything that you said was spot on. Appreciate your thoughts on the topic. Enjoy the variety of topics you have on your channel. All the best to you, Jen, and Rogan.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you so much for your kind words of support

[@shasta8523]

Excellent comments, Mark. You are right on, all points.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

[@ElmwoodParkHulk]

The laws especially in NJ . You could take a girl out drop her off tipsy home . Then a day later she could imagine that she was raped . A guy is immediately arrested on a false charge and possibly imprisoned for years . Woman have multiple partners and could accuse you of being the father when your not yet your paying child support. Getting married lots of men get divorce raped and I had a friend that was falsely accused by his wife of child abuse and being a batterd wife . He was almost arrested but his child visitation was taken away . He had to go to court and take classes for things he didn’t do . Women tend to use children to get revenge or money from the father . Thankfully he got a phone recording of her admitting she fabricated the whole thing . I’ve been single for 19 years , no dating no stress , peace and happiness. Maybe if I retire overseas the culture would be more conducive to my liking . Ironically when I was younger I told my cousins not to date American women but Asian or from the far East . My one cousin married a Filipino and she is wonderful and they are living the dream and his brother married and Japanese Columbian and they are on a second child living the dream so they did well . I’m so happy for them .

[@JurassicJerkyAmazon]

The problem is if men over 50 day women over 50 they match their feminine menopausal energy and their testosterone drops and it’s game over in the bedroom! Cheers from Medellin Colombia! 💃🏽💃🏽🕺🏽 🇨🇴

[@everymanhasastory]

Interesting. Thanks for watching

[@IaintTheHerb]

Dating sucks and porn is a problem, but it's primarily ludicrous standards women adopted from social media. 4s think they deserve 9s. As far as viagra goes, anything advertised on television isn't meant for young guys, that's targeted at the only ones still watching TV - old people. 🤷‍♂️

[@phmiii]

What I learned when I was young: "Never get your meat where you get your bread!"

[@jong8876]

100% facts great analysis my dad and grandmother never understand it as they have always been in a couple

[@chalabiste8300]

Good old days is fiction. I remember in the early seventies I was a young man and all the married men I worked with all said do yourself a favor never get married. They were unhappy then also.

[@Yette]

I was with you until you wrapped up, claiming men are happier in a relationship. It's likely true in a good relationship, but I think most men are happier to be solo than in a mediocre or poor relationship. I think we all know, happiness comes from within, not from somebody else.

[@everymanhasastory]

Okay. Fair enough. I meant a good realonship

[@jtraveler888]

In the USA and west in general the juice ain't worth the squeeze. All the fruit is rotten.

[@SOUPNAZI-b2f]

Men are waking up to the reality of the marriage institution. It's more of a business and the guys usually end up at getting screwed. There's no point and no benefit to men to get married. This is only in America 🇺🇸 but other countries are still traditional marriage and success rate higher due to culture.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊

[@michaelsix9684]

it's a govt. contract that rewards women who break it

[@ed5308]

Most men realize the effort is just not worth it. Its time to live for yourself.

[@AnthonyCataldo-ez5ej]

Widower after 18.5 years with my wife, so not porn, but it took me 3 years to find her and just watched a lot of KZbins and wanted a Filipina with traditional values. Economics was important. A western female would want too much stuff. My Filipina is a widow only 8 years younger than me, and so far so good. I am pretty darned happy.

[@maidonthemoon8946]

I have given up in UK as a female. So terrifying in many ways especially online fakes x

[@everymanhasastory]

That's too bad. I hope you meet someone

[@Mike-z1l]

I walk thru a grocery store and 80 percent of the women of all ages are at least 20-200 pounds overweight.Pass!

[@michaelsix9684]

avg. Am. woman weighs 170 pounds!

[@joeldchenoweth]

And then there’s chronic emasculation… everywhere you go

[@everymanhasastory]

Yes there is. And it gets worse every year

[@Kimonha]

My ex wife was 140 lbs beauty when we met. She’s probably 250 now.

[@GQ1921]

That's why I never got married in the USA because they all turn out to be misrable overweight cows 😂😂😂😂

[@babblingalong7689]

For me it's mostly the m2-movement.

[@evilchaperone]

The risk vs reward ratio is no longer worth it.

[@thanewulfgar]

I am one of them. Sadly I just don't make the time. Friends think I should get out more.

[@markminister2599]

Me too

[@florencioisidro7133]

THATS What l want FREEDOM no hunky funky and No Honey DO this , Honey DO that😊

[@nood5712]

It is hard to hug a 60 yr old woman when you constantly see gorgeous 20 yr olds in commercials and movies and social media and porn. I am 65 yr old and a few months ago i slept between two 18 yr olds. O ne had won the beauty contest in her high school. The other girl even prettier. I have deep pockets and have a hard time spending my monthly income of $6000.

[@alannemeth3293]

Great assessment , sadly.

[@rodgerdodgerlowe1838]

American men i believe are not setting a high 'standard' for american women, american women young or older whether they have chidlren or not may not have had a good relationship with men, are setting a higher standard for men. Men are saying no thanks. Filapinas overall seem to be very accepting of american men.

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to share your thoughts 😊

[@AlphaMale_1]

"accepting" American men for the $$$!

[@warehouse1429]

Everyone is in a relationship with their phone. Woman get addicted the constant online attention. Men get addicted to the insta hoe pics and vid’s

[@peterpoulter1420]

I think it stems back to giving them the right to vote

[@jemezfun9767]

Throughout history societies that allow women to vote spiral in an endless decline until failure and total collapse occurs.

[@jarrad347]

bullseye

[@Goodman849]

Sounds like a terrible mess. People will be dating robots. The Philippines will develope into this car crash world as time passes.

[@AlphaMale_1]

Perfect summary! Thank you for compiling all of the reasons for the dating demise.

[@goldgeologist5320]

Dinner and movie with drinks and snacks, easily $200 plus!

[@BiffJohnsonIII]

Preach, brother.

[@wallylove]

sign of the times, we are living in prophetic times

[@warehouse1429]

When I moved from The northeast to Florida in 2018 I thought all The beaches like siesta key, lido beach, Venice beach etc would have hot girls in bikinis- wow I was disappointed. All fat people. Entire beach hundreds of people. Maybe 3 or 4 fit attractive girls

[@stevesilver7437]

The Philippines also has a pornography problem 😮 I have met a few Filipina that have talked about watching porn with ex spouse. The spouse becomes abusive Filipino😮 These women then also think sex is like a porno😮😢

[@everymanhasastory]

You're right. Porn is a universal problem. Exploting men and women

[@ivananderson141]

Ok so what's the solution for the average man

[@everymanhasastory]

Date woman form Asia

[@ivananderson141]

Thank,s for responding all the best to you take care from Australia ✌

[@FreedomTravels720]

Getting married is like a Tornado...at first theres blowing & sucking...then suddely you lose your house 😊

[@Max-oi9es]

The hell with what people think, it's all about if speaking against you will score them points in the public's eye. Donald Trump is 24 years older than Melania Floyd Mayweather is 20 years older than Gallienne Nabila. No one is age gap shaming them or others of their kind. Before I left the states my daughter had a conversation with me about one of her friends who's dad left the country and found love in a much younger lady, yet more mature comparable to their U.S. counterpart. And most men simply envy you if he feels like he deserves what you have and he has no real way of achieving your results; no matter how much money he has. Manage and live your life and watch how fast you'll outgrow those around you✌🏾

[@everymanhasastory]

Thank you for watching and for taking the time to comment 😀

[@ronfesta771]

Me thinketh so many., selfish stepsisters looking for their Prince Charming and so many frogs looking for their........Cinderella!@!?😉

[@sv-yh3mq]

@ronfesta771- teehee, and Lol! Great "insight"- and lightens the "intractability" aspects of this

[@user-dk7li1mm4i]

Yep

[@roberthale8441]

Well said 👍

[@markminister2599]

Yep.

[@davidcollins2993]

In the u.s you are a wallet with legs.

[@FreedomTravels720]

$uccubus wallet vampires...dont give them a dime 😊

[@vec306]

Sounds like the cast system like in India.

[@everymanhasastory]

I despise the cast system in India and Pakistan

[@deschutesfelix]

Sounds like you've been digging around incel forums.

[@RK-db4oq]

Sounds like you are a simp

[@billb945]

What a load of carp.