Why I Choose to Live a Simple "BORING" Life Over Hustle Culture

I choose to live a boring life because "I am enough" just as I am. The hustle culture makes me as if I need things outside of myself to find happiness. By living a simple life, I realize that I am enough. Living a minimalist lifestyle has helped me see that living simply & minimally brings contentment. I saw there were better ideas, and I changed my life by accepting myself. I left the rat race when I realized I am doing enough and embraced slow living. I improved my life by avoiding hustle culture and embracing a simple lifestyle. Why I live simply? So I can live a good life.
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00:00 Introduction
00:34 pressure to do more
01:31 hustle culture
02:22 simple pleasures
03:12 pursue happiness?
04:20 pausing
04:59 connected
05:27 gratitude
05:46 joy in mundane
06:55 remove expectation

[@ConnieRiet]

What are ways you embrace the boring life and find gratitude for little joys?

[@kittyweisman6655]

I am love to spend time every day playing with my two cats. It takes me out of myself and it’s so much fun - like being a child again…

[@ignacio6454]

Sadly this new modern life with its new culture has made us more lonely Connie! That is how I see it. I also suffer from a chronic illnes, and I was left alone, because peoplenow donot support each other. We have to be enough, I also found God, he lives in my heart, but itis always like you say, it is inside of you. Thank you Connie, from the last place in the world near the antartic, my cheers.

[@debrahiers1073]

Kayaking in quiet waters surrounded by all the beauty of nature is a feast for the eyes, ears and heart. Your video is a gift. Thank you so much.🌸🌿

[@chris-ci7ch]

I have a little deaf papillon dog that I bought to be sure he would have a good life. I just love this dog as he is very sweet nature and playful. My husband and I walk him and enjoy just being together with our cute little dog. My little dog also plays with our cats and we just enjoy all the playful antics of cats and a dog playing together. Most people I know think that we are boring and should be traveling since we are retired. I just let it go in one ear and out the other because everyday my husband and I are connected playing and enjoying our little sweet companion.

[@jhssmith2004]

@@chris-ci7ch thank you for sharing this sweet story. take care and be well.

[@chris-jt7kw]

Too bad it took me 62 years and after I retired from my job to discover just how blessed and content I am with my life right now .. I love being outside in nature and just to sit and listen and see how beautiful life is!!!!

[@lindahehemann7949]

I've just retired at 62...wanting to find my way

[@stevenflores972]

Congratulations From Chicago with love 💘

[@scottjackson163]

I, as an individual, don’t need certain of the majority culture “things,” but I am stuck providing those things to family members.

[@nhatnguyend2282]

But where you sleep, how you eat, and toilet paper from ...?

[@maryseokley6061]

Good for U!.....rejoice!

[@timothyslaughter476]

I'm 60 and quit drinking alcohol 2 years ago because I was almost dead from it. Total complete lifebuild transformation. Nothing short of it. My life is basic and simple and healthy and quite boring now. I've never been happier in my life. Happy Holidays.

[@dorothygregorio8219]

Finding fulfillment in life is being content with the simple life we have. Indeed happiness is one's choice.

[@toughharley1903]

🎉I'm happy for you that you changed your life for the better and save your own life for the future

[@timothyslaughter476]

@@toughharley1903 thanks.....never ever give up....on hope....on yourself...on life!!! My best to you.

[@MyMerryMessyGermanLife]

That’s a huge accomplishment. Very inspiring!

[@brigettejones6672]

Congratulations!

[@davedeblaey8454]

Purchased 20 acres and a small house located in the forest along the South Shore of Lake Superior nine years ago, and absolutely love my quiet life here. Just me and a four-legged kid in this boring life, but it is totally fulfilling, and I am truly happy!!!!

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

Doesn't sound boring at all. It sounds beautiful.

[@eddeeshaw543]

David Like you I purchased 7.6 acres with an old cabin ,down in a forested Holler in (out in the middle of no where) West Virginia, 12 years ago. Its only me with the two dogs and an Amazon parrot. Like your place its very quiet except for the earth sounds and there are times I don't see people for a month or two especially since the pandemic. My question to you is how do you handle the isolation??

[@cjsteele9594]

Me and my 2 dogs Post divorce after 32 years, Simple is better.

[@andydugan1911]

Sounds awesome, Dave!

[@Grandpa_Boxer]

This is an "awakened" lady. Simplicity is the gold standard. Most people just haven't recognized it.

[@piotrmackiewicz5032]

Thank you very much. Absolutely fantastic. May good God bless you abundantly.

[@yourmindisyours1731]

She’s not awakened. She’s still attached to the transient sensations of joy.

[@Grandpa_Boxer]

@@yourmindisyours1731 We must have different definitions of Awakened. For me, "joy" is included. How do you know she's attached to anything??

[@pawellipinski3744]

@@Grandpa_Boxer Shes not awakened, awakened happened thru her. Person can not be awakened, it is reality or consciousness which awakes to itself.

[@inconnu4961]

@@Grandpa_Boxer I will attempt to answer this on @yourmindisyours: I think he is coming from a transcendental perspective, where as noticing feelings is still a form of attachment. Although, I share your perspective where any release from the rat race of life is a very welcome respite! I tried dabbling in this belief system over 20 yrs ago, and i couldnt dive as deep as these people seem to.

[@kevinoconnor2921]

At 50, my wife passed away, & I am 100% simplifying my life. I had a simple life before marriage, & now I am going back to it. I can feel my happiness increasing as I release all of the things that keep one in bondage. It is quite freeing & just plain fantastic!!!😁

[@em945]

Wishing you well, Kevin!

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you so much for sharing you story! You are an inspiration to us all. Sending you happiness & peace.

[@ranirathi3379]

what we release, releases us.

[@mikecb39]

@@ranirathi3379 So true

[@michaelokeefe1562]

I agree many of us do a great job pleasing others and little for our self. Being single is simplicity if we embrace it and do not wish for a partner to make things complete. My best wishes for everyone single or not and having a partner that is at the same level of growth.

[@Cindy-bee]

Thank you so much for this message. BTW I would not call this a boring life. It is a serene life full of peace and contentment. That is what most of us strive for. I needed to hear this. At 68 and retired from a busy demanding career as a Registered Nurse. I feel lost and uneasy that I am no longer productive or needed. Kids are grown and I have been divorced for a very long time. Spend most of my days not talking to another human. Of course I have my rescue dog Beau for companionship and a wonderful group of friends that I socialize with regularly, but I feel something missing still. Your video has assured me that I am just fine where I am. Thank you for this wonderful gift.

[@MrSridharMurthy]

Yes you sure deserve to live the serene life that will ultimately fulfill you to a deeper level of contentment & joy ! God bless !

[@mooshway2000]

Love your post. I hope you and Beau have fabulously peaceful and meaningful lives. (from a nurse with teenagers)

[@islandman9619]

Aloha! I think you're doing the right thing for sure. Society today is getting sicker and sicker as far as I'm concerned and I'm going to leave it soon. After my best friend (doggie) was killed by an inattentive driver, I started rethinking everything. I'm a quite successful software engineer and could still make a significant amount of money, but would I really live? I don't think so; not as much as you. I'm already out of social media for a long time and now I'm getting rid of all my "stuff" and have recently put my condo up for sale. I bought a small sailboat in Guatemala and I'm planning to spend the rest of my life "living" with focus on helping nature and others. I'm going to read, listen, and dream away between visiting islands and teaching when I feel like it. Most of my friends think I've gone crazy, while I already feel more balanced and happy; enjoying the smaller things in life. Anyway, thanks for making this video; I envy you :)

[@ConnieRiet]

Hi island man! You bought a boat in Guatemala! That is incredible! It's amazing that you had a calling within you and you are following your heart. It is liberating when you are living the life you imagined. Good for you! Sending you happiness & peace on your adventure!

[@denisehay8895]

I'm72 years young and like others commenting on this lovely video I regret that I've only recently embraced a simple life. But it's never too late! God bless you Connie

[@ConnieRiet]

I have found that with age comes wisdom. We are never too old, my friend. 💗

[@virtualselfie6899]

Age is relative. Just "being" you communing with Mother Nature is the key to understanding the cosmos.

[@inconnu4961]

Staying in the moment can be such a challenge in our modern life! Try to enjoy the moment that you are in and regret less; it's more peaceful!

[@virtualselfie6899]

@@inconnu4961 Many blessings to you, too. What goes around, comes around, trite but true.

[@stepsforthesoul]

The structure of society has us programmed to chase nonessential things while wasting away our prime years. The time to live is now🙌

[@lesliemcfarlane783]

I crave simple and boring in my mid fifties. It takes living experiences and spiritual development to figure out what really matters.

[@lanawolfe2572]

So good to hear someone else say this. I tend to think Geez, am I really supposed to be slowing down like this in my early 50s? Um, yeah...your life is yours. Enjoy knowing you can proceed as you wish!

[@joturpin5353]

True!

[@deltahomicide9300]

I’m 47 and left the corporate world after 13 years. I’m much happier working in the creative field but so tired of my family telling me to go back. They sold me the lie of chasing the money at the cost of my mental health

[@astridsandriesser4232]

We all forgot what living a simple life feels like... it is better than anything. Thank you Connie, you are inspiring!

[@tj-kv6vr]

speak for yourself please

[@ljr8819]

Great if you have the means and no obligations......... for sure....... and a peaceful countryside

[@susanalsembach6026]

I think people are so busy trying to achieve that they truly forget to be. I walk everyday with my dogs for 1 hour and it is a magical moment that I cherish every day. We really don’t appreciate what is right on our doorstep!

[@ConnieRiet]

I agree!

[@ca6177]

I agree 100 %! Sadly I lost my sweet girl "peaches" in September, I miss her daily, but I had her for 15 years, luckily, my neighbor let's me borrow her dog so I still have a companion to walk with me!

[@SIERRATREES]

@@ca6177 sorry about peaches. I know the pain.

[@stela_solar]

If most of us (humans) lived a serene lifestyle like this, we would have much less pollution and mental issues in the world. Thanks for sharing! 🌱🌹

[@mikelytou]

I'll take boring over drama any day of the week.

[@lulufulu4867]

The only reason I ever participated in the hustle, was to eventually make it to the country. Mission accomplished. First two years was processing, reflecting and healing all the bruises from the hustle.

[@SonicUmami]

This is where I am right now, what choices helped you make to where you are now ??

[@johnmichael7983]

Count me as one more who is inspired by you. Trying to find a piece of land that's quiet with mild winters, where I can put a small cabin. Until then I keep simplifying.

[@mohinhasinrabbi6425]

I wish everyone has the courage to think like this. We all are doomed to chase societal praise and fame and recognition while losing the person we are actually. I think happiness is wholesome self-satisfaction. Inner peace should not be seeked but it's within ourselves. All we need to do is to see life more simply and spread love to others.

[@ConnieRiet]

Well said!! Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Sending you happiness & peace

[@truthcerum1222]

I started seeing this at aged 32 after my mother passed away. It’s a lunatic asylum out there and I hate it. I try to live simply at present, but it’s hard when so many people are deep within the matrix. Thanks for a great video ❤

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

I seen it most of my life but got totally sucked into awful worldly things and lost my way for awhile but now at age 40 I am truly grateful to be back on track, not just living for the weekends and consumerism and capitalism and other crap. I love waking up free and feeling like something great could happen today. It's also great seeing other people embrace a simple life too.

[@HeartFeltGesture]

It really is a lunatic asylum of aggravated uninspected egos. Any sane and sensitive person simply has to drop out to protect that sanity and sensitivity.

[@jc3858]

I am also 32 and my mother passed away 2019. I’ve just started waking up to the present moment too finally. 💙

[@truthcerum1222]

@@jc3858 sorry for your loss. Glad to hear that that is happening. Ashame it sometimes takes a tragedy for it to happen x 💕

[@dunjabakic4012]

I've lost my father 10 yrs ago. And also decided not to be dentist any more at the age of 34. It is far too hard to find job and now I am at peace with myself and my kid and husband. Living in third country means a loooot dificulties. Be pressent. Your mother lives within your soul and genetics.

[@denisea.9033]

I love this, thank you for sharing. I've not met many others like me so this was a pleasant surprise! My family knows I LOVE "boring" and am so happy when I don't have anything to do or anywhere to go and can just enjoy a relaxing day at home or outdoors. When I used to work in an office, I hated that pressure question on Fridays, "What are you doing this weekend?" Or on Mondays, "What did you do this weekend?" as it never felt like "nothing" was an adequate answer but it was exactly what I wanted to be doing and what made me happy. I also feel like traveling is overrated and stressful, I much prefer to stay at home and enjoy some low key moments of reading, baking, watching a show or just the not having pressure to go do something else. Keep enjoying your slow paced life, it's a lovely journey! Sending peace and gratitude from Okinawa . 🙏🏼🌺

[@wildflowerwind6941]

I feel the same way.

[@one4320]

This makes me smile. It's like me.

[@marypelliott]

I completely agree about travel.

[@samaitorres2038]

Wow great day nice to hear this, Thank you

[@stevenflores972]

Thank you for your supportive comment From Chicago with love 💘

[@seventhchild7270]

Connie...IT'S so sad hearing about the high and increased cases of colon cancer and other cancers, strokes, heart attacks or diseases, digestive problems, sleep deprivation, MS, lupus, etc.....inability to cope with children or others, etc....And this is reportedly affecting people in their 20s to 50s....REALLY frightening!...So you really have the right idea which I've adopted about 15 years ago!...Downsizing, living SIMPLIER, DEBT FREE, healthier, MORE peaceful, spirtual, happier, etc...

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

Doing what this wonderful woman is doing will likely cut the risk of those things drastically.

[@adamabdallaadam3073]

Am in my 20's, even though I don't know what to do with my life but coming across this video it really makes me feel optimistic. It's sort of healing for me. There is nothing I can say beside thank you so much for making my life meaningful.

[@ConnieRiet]

Hey Adam! Thank you for your kind words. I'm thrilled this video resonated with you. Welcome!

[@jeffdharma5755]

You hit a chord here....keep with it. The Hustle is toxic and only leads to topsoil. Go slow and see more. A wise monk would tell you similar.

[@timfahey7127]

Nicely said adam....but as a 49 year old...who can remember my 20's....Let me offer this..... life is happening to you right now at this very moment. It's all moments put together. I understand what you're saying about not knowing what to do with your life, but your life is doing you. Think about it. And good luck and I hope you have a wonderful life. Take care

[@richardmac]

My simple advice from a 55 Yr old who had a big job , salary etc , who quit and has spent the last 15 years travelling and living a simple life with what I can carry.... Just, simply do what ever makes you happy, in every aspect of your life , without harming or hurting anyone else. ✌️❤️

[@newtonj7819]

Hello Connie! I speak from Brazil and have had a similar experience to yours for some time now. In fact, I have always been resistant to the pressure of the world, both in my social life and in my engineering profession. And, because of this, perhaps it was easier to change paths. But even so, I exchanged the hustle culture for the culture of 'being nothing'. I don't need titles, outstanding career, I don't need recognition. Everything I need to succeed is within me! I exchanged my outer life for the inner life, I live in peace. Today, I prefer the company of plants, animals, my brothers from the kingdoms of nature than human insanity and lack of reverence. I hear the sound, I see the hues and mathematical forms of creation. Earth is wonderful, life is wonderful and it shines around us. Living in peace is an act of love for sure! See ya. Newton

[@susanbertrand8620]

I am blessed with all I’ve asked for; loving partner, sweet dog, wonderful friends, all basic needs accounted for. Being grateful and living with thoughtful appreciation makes me wealthy beyond measure. Peace and contentment are worth so much more than all the noise of modern expectations. Thank you for your lovely thoughts and beautiful videos. ❤

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you for sharing you gratitude with us!

[@daisyrodriguez5957]

Beautiful video, peace and quiet time is precious! I pray to accomplish this soon. Thank you for sharing.

[@suman3316]

God bless your family

[@lindamacala3586]

@@ConnieRiet afternoon Connie. Thank you for sharing this information , l was diagnosed with depression in 2008 but now I am home and not working from 2015 . I did not know how to calm myself down and make my life simple and easy . I was constantly looking for something that I don't know and I was panicking. This year when I started to watch your videos l became calm. I wish that one day you can come to South Africa and do workshops, seminars and help other weman . Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

[@andrearenee7845]

OMGosh, did the same. After my husband passed, I totally retired, downsized, and got real with everything... Happier for it. Happiness and joy are natural...

[@tomlineberger]

Hi Connie!! Thank you so much for publishing this video!! I'm well over 65 years old and I live in the country! After retirement, it was such a wonderful feeling to begin to focus on things that really mattered in my life -- i.e. the simple things!! Even though I'm busy at home, cooking, cleaning, grocery shopping and so forth, I no longer seek to fill my life with the things that social media and society tend to make us think that we still need! I'm perfectly happy at home, living in the present moment and enjoying the final (or Autumn) years of my life!! :)

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you so much for sharing your personal story with us. You are an inspiration for us all.

[@huzone600]

Less is truly more. Beautifully done Connie! 💛🧡💖

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you, Stan!

[@gordonmeeks2447]

My wife is recovering from a brain injury. We're both recovering from "the noise". The quiet of Maine woods enables closeness to tranquil spirit.

[@clarehamilton4321]

The dictionary describes the word ‘boring’ as ‘not interesting; tedious’ and I can categorically state that this definitely doesn’t describe what I’ve just watched! As someone who has given up work due to a toxic working environment, I can now concentrate on living a quieter, less stressful life. I deleted Instagram and unfollowed all the, ‘look what I’ve just bought’ KZbinrs. I’m so glad I found your channel and wish you contentment and joy in your life 🥰

[@one4320]

Not interesting and tedious describes the treadmill that 99% of people are on. Yet they would dismiss my simple life surrounded by nature as boring. I love my life.

[@stevenflores972]

Congratulations Love all of your inspiring comments. I'm There From Chicago with love 💘

[@zenwarrior3603]

Agreed, I don't believe boring is the right word to describe this type of lifestyle. I like to just call it a slow and simple life, free from the stress, pressure and expectations of contemporary life.

[@inconnu4961]

@@zenwarrior3603 I believe she was describing it from others point of view; those who wouldnt understand and those who would, with good intentions, try to bring us back to the 'exciting life'! Because what she described so poetically does not jive with the meaning of boring!

[@enhancedsimplicity9708]

" look what I've just brought" KZbinrs... FREAKIN LOOOOOVVVVEEE ❤... that statement 😊👍🏾

[@FreedomLifeFriends]

You nailed it. This is EXACTLY how I feel. I live with brain damage from years of emotional, sexual, and medical trauma and also live with a very physically painful chronic illness, and having to work in this corporate world is doing so much damage to my mental and physical health. But I can't get any help, so I have to work in this corporate world and I'm thinking it's really going to kill me. I have panic attacks more than once a week, and I am constantly reminded by my managers that I am "less than" because when I put in 150% of myself into work, because of my illnesses, it's still not enough and this constant negative thinking from managers and even society in general is so damaging both mentally and physically. I am currently looking to come up with some alternative method of supporting myself because having a corporate job in this society for someone like me is literally going to kill me. :(

[@saiko_1]

I sincerely hope it gets better, you deserve it ❤️

[@olgaschei]

It is not in every company the same, give you a chance and find a new company, I sure it just can get better than worse. Because in such a negative environment it is just no wonder you are doing bad even a healthy person can get ill in a bad environment. Your mental health will cure, I am sure. But you need to hear to this and change something. Sometimes you might think you don’t even have a strength to look for a new job, but it is better to loose a job than loos yourself. When I fear of loosing job, and be unemployed, I remind myself that I am even ashamed that I am so focused on this damn job that I just am ashamed that I don’t value life. Life is much more than a job or appreciation from people. And you know it for sure, just the fear won’t let you see it clear. I wish you a brave and happy steps to your happiness. God bless you 💕

[@laurievanzon2126]

No job or salary is worth your mental and physical health! I know as I stayed for over 30 years with toxic managers. I was let go due to downsizing at 60 and I never went back to work as I had had enough and never wanted to go through the stress and attacks on my self esteem ever again. I am so much better off now even with less money!

[@saiko_1]

@@laurievanzon2126 Good for you! I’ll be 32 this year and I really had to change my mentality 2 or 3 years ago, because I was spending almost everything and saving nothing. Since 2021 that I’ve saving all the money I can and it’s the best thing I could do. I know that someday I’ll be so tired of working and I’ll say “f*ck this, I’m leaving” and I’ll be so thankful for all the money I saved.

[@laurievanzon2126]

@Saiko I was in my 30's when I lost my husband and I stayed in the small house we bought and I read that you need to save money when your young and it will grow so that you won't be poor when you retire and I saved and put money in the stock market, used a financial advisor and am financially stable now. Wishing you good luck for your future!

[@timhede9560]

Beautiful words. I think it's returning to the child within us, when we would go outside ... And spend hours discovering nature.. without thinking about the rat race. The days seemed longer because we lived in the moment.. and our minds weren't racing about things that we need to do to get ahead. I have always found peace in nature. We as a culture have lost our way. Lovely video.

[@donnarakitzis2719]

Simple life is best for me. I stress too easily

[@thelindaschuknecht]

I think this comes with age. I am 48 and doing a lot of self reflecting and realizing the same thing. I feel more content and happiness in the quiet moments and being around nature.

[@TorivioLeon]

Me too! 48 as well.❤

[@wildflowerwind6941]

I think you are right.

[@lucyvalente8266]

It certainly will. The true purpose of life is knocking at our door.

[@drSamovar]

less is more....

[@virtualselfie6899]

@@drSamovar Totally true, Robert! Thanks for the reminder.

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

I am so glad to have come to this realization at age 40. I've never been an overachiever (if anything an underachiever) but I really came to terms with my anger and other silly notions and decided I want a customized life that doesn't involve the rat race of society. Congrats to you.

[@user-uu3wj1ji9c]

Thank you Connie and to all the comments which your wonderful video evokes. I feel encouraged and not so alone as I watch and read. Like many others it took me until now at 60 years to know the truth of what you say. For the past few years I live in a cottage in the mountains and I am surprised how my life is unfolding- it is more solitary than I imagined but I am more content and present. I appreciate myself and others more - being out wandering in nature is a joy and I am discovering something new each day.. every best wish to you

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you for sharing your story with us! Isn't life beautiful and mysterious?! At 60, you are seeing it unfold in whole new way. Fantastic! Sending you happiness & peace

[@mandy6062]

I live in a housing addition just outside of town but I have close access to the country just out my back door. I use it often and it’s like I enter Oz. I often go with my daughter and we are so happy just walking and doing nothing. She is 2 and absorbing everything and I absorb it with her. 🍁🍂

[@mobydick5046]

You are one of the lucky ones!!!

[@noemisolano4748]

This is not a "boring life". This is a simple life similar to what I'm looking for. Living simply helps to cut down stress, feel happy, and live longer. Thank you for this video! ❤️ Seeing all that beautiful nature is so relaxing!

[@user-zg7nf5yv1r]

I feel the same - not doing enough, I am not enough. 😢 But it is wrong way to think

[@shannonjackson576]

I am so glad I came across this video today. This is exactly where I am now. I was feeling my days with so many things because I felt this was what was expected of me. The more I was doing, the more stressed and exhausted I became. I was spiritually disconnected. I finally just stopped. I completely pulled away from the “hustle culture” and started reconnecting with myself and my source. I was scary at first and I had a great deal of guilt and anxiety. I was initially consumed with concerns about what others would think about me and what I assumed they were saying about my behavior. After a couple of weeks, these fears are beginning to fade and I am feeling more connected and less anxious. I know in my soul that this is what I need. Thank you for this beautiful message. It completely resonates with me.

[@ConnieRiet]

Way to go, Shannon! It's not easy to "go against the grain.' You followed your heart and found peace. Beautiful!

[@jamesferrell336]

I have come to learn that gratitude for what I already have is a necessity to being happy.

[@PeachesSkinCare]

I think simplicity is not boring but calming and beautiful. We have a choice each day to create chaos or joy,to take or to give back,to be cruel or be kind. Loved this. Blessings 🍑🙌🏻🧡Lisa

[@ConnieRiet]

I completely agree

[@PeachesSkinCare]

@@ConnieRiet 🍑🙌🏻🧡

[@sergiovalenti7255]

“I no longer wait for a big event to be happy.” ❤

[@deona267]

It took 48years of a very traumatic life with abuse and addiction , and finally I found peace , love for my family , furthermore love for myself with no pressure. Thank you for speaking your heart.

[@ConnieRiet]

it's been a life long journey for me as well. I'm so happy for you and your sense of peace.

[@margaretpiddock455]

Connie, there is nothing boring about this life you live, its beautiful, slow and how it should be . Greetings from 🇬🇧

[@iamjane9628]

Great message and quote from Oscar Wilde. I am very grateful for my "boring" life.

[@deanaghanim2988]

I enjoy coming home to my fur kiddos, making myself dinner, and having a glass of wine!

[@jamesfagan7823]

Brilliant 👏 walk away from the nonsense and live properly, no metro 👏 no office no arseholes its paradise 👏 congratulations for having the courage to do it

[@jennyfulcher8035]

It's good to accept simply who we are. Your grasp that it's okay to embrace the "boring" life over Hustle Culture really nails it. We don't need to feed our FOMO nature or worry about impressing others with our "accomplishments." We're good enough just being who we are. Jenny

[@juliequick5526]

I’m sorry that I had to wait until I was a woman of a certain age before I understood and accepted this. But at least it happened! Sending you positive energy Connie 💖

[@ConnieRiet]

It has also taken me a lifetime to realize this. Better late than never.

[@Malibu-ku2to]

Don’t be sorry, you didn’t do anything wrong. You need to allow the universe to take its path.Your path started when you and universe balanced together. One core of Hinduism belief is ; everything in universe has to come together to see one thing occurs!!! Best wishes!

[@virtualselfie6899]

@@Malibu-ku2to Beautiful comment, Malibu!

[@inconnu4961]

However you have gotten here, the fact you are here, now is all that matters! Live in your peace!

[@pleun315]

The sixties ! You were there...were you a hippy 😃

[@gilbertgreen2355]

Joy is an inner feeling based on inner contentment and is eternal. Happiness is external expression based on external euphoria and is temporary. It is Joy you want, and not happiness. Glad you found it, Connie.

[@ConnieRiet]

Thank you for adding your eloquent explanation, Gilbert! I'm glad you are here!

[@07sushy]

Happiness is also an extension and a byproduct of inner joy and inner contentment. Happiness can be momentary or eternal. Happiness based on material things is temporary and short-lived, happiness based on inner contentment, simple living and gratitude is enduring and long lasting. Joy and happiness and contentment then become synonymous.

[@jayneo8436]

I love fall and you walking in the woods put a smile on my face. Simplicity is key. Letting go of all unnecessary stuff and embracing just what you need is where I’m leaning towards in my life. It took me 55 years to realize this. I’ve always felt anxious when visiting a large hustle and bustle city. Ive felt more at home in a small town calmer atmosphere. Funny how with time and age we crave different things. I’m glad I found your channel. You inspire me.

[@ConnieRiet]

I'm so glad you are part of our mindful community! Thank you for your kind words and sharing your thoughts with us.

[@lyndarossi933]

One word Connie....AMEN!!!

[@janjentz1053]

Such a beautiful message. I feel so blessed to be retired comfortably and spend time out in nature with my husband and dog Sophie. I call our lifestyle "slow living". I did waste some years when I was younger chasing the hectic lifestly and fitting in. It was exhausting.

[@88Turbo88]

Having courage to live a simple life is beautiful. Thanks for sharing your life experience in this complex world.

[@truthrecon4404]

Simple organic living with a garden and a fur buddy, birds bees n butterflies brings contentment.

[@frankorobinson1540]

Ordinary boring lives are bliss.peacefull stress free.

[@alisonhendry2928]

It is SO wonderful to have your thoughts and images and soothing voice speak out loud all the things I have felt for years! This modern life is too fast! I am always fighting to slow everyone around me down. I avoid so many extra things to “ fill” my day. I do NOT need them. I am happy in my own skin just enjoying the day. I paint, I cook, I garden , take are of the family and house etc. and I am content. Wish I did not have to live in a city, but that will change in the next few years. I retired from my fast paced crazy intensely stressful career to raise my child. I look back on that decision and am proud of it. I hope more people find your channel and the peace you share. Hugs and thank you,

[@janetvanderstar770]

Thank you for sharing, I completely identify with your choices. I too have chosen a simple life and am learning to be enough. I’ve moved to the mountains, living off grid complete quite and peace, a time of healing.

[@gloval5187]

I thank you for slowing down and taking time to share this. Your posts are a joy. Blessings your way

[@nikkikirn98]

Hi Connie, I’m on a new journey with my boys and our dog. I’m embracing and actually really enjoying the sense of freedom I now have and am actually grateful that the relationship ended. I wouldn’t be on my way and feeling so strong if it hadn’t. xx

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hello 👋how are you doing?

[@evansmuraga2256]

Hi Nikki .Evans from Kenya here.stay strong and be happiest with your boys

[@CarolynsRVLife]

I love this! A great reminder for us all.. Thank you

[@bigdaddy5948]

Getting old helped me slow down. Can't compete at anything. Just live day to day. You get used to it.

[@Vivian88749]

Beautifully expressed Connie. 🙏💛

[@justmaria5806]

C: This is your best upload! It spoke to the way I've been living my life the last few years. Simple things are the best. Everything we need in life is right in front of our eyes. It is up to us to use the 5 senses God gave us. Listen to the leaves fluttering in the breeze. Hear the sounds of birds and life all around us. Work the soil and watch plants grow into things that nourish our bodies and flowers that bloom to stimulate our vision. Experiment with new recipes that fill and nourish you. Experiment with different spices and herbs. Its just as important to feed our bodies as to feed our souls. What a blessing to just be. Nature is making its own music all around us. My best advice: always be curious and keep learning about the things that interest you.

[@1thingiscertain304]

"Simplicity is the height of sophistication" - Leornardo da Vinci

[@kimprice1864]

I'm turning 70. When I grow up, I want to be just like you❣ Continue to bless and be blessed.

[@brendadrew834]

Thank you, I needed to hear this! I'm on the same wavelength as you, can relate and have a mild form of MS. Love living the simple life close to nature and the sea like I do, doing my art i.e. painting and listening to the music I love! I'm a former retired NYC fashion illustrator/floral designer and a pianist/composer and raised a family and now that I have more time for myself, since being widowed I love re-connecting with my passions art, music and nature! I'm close with my beloved kids and grandkids, but don't miss the "human rat race", commuting and decided to ditch the fame game a long time ago! Not as enamored by this celebrity culture anymore like I used to be when I was an impressionable younger version of myself, thankfully! I think today, that narcissistic culture is getting worst than in the past! Maybe our lives aren't as "boring" as we think they are, after all! "T'is the gift to be simple, t'is the gift to be free. T'is the gift to come down and be where you ought to be"...old Shaker hymn! Blessed be, peace, love and namaste~ ♥🎨🖌🎼🎹🌳🏖

[@simplybeckab]

I love this video. I’m in complete agreement with this message. It took me 50 years to learn this too. 😊

[@flightofthebumblebee9529]

Many never learn it. I turned 40 this year and feel the same. There is nothing left in the rat race for me, but there is everything else. God bless.

[@lshepherd5859]

thank you so much for taking us around and share your thought . RUACH HAKODESH loves you , connie

[@pimacanyon6208]

Life is rich and full. "Boring" is a way that people who thrive on lots of stimulation, lost of activity, running from this thing to the next, describe a life that is lacking that constant go go go. But by slowing down and paying attention to the beauty that's in front of you, boredom just doesn't happen. Instead, what comes up is wonder and gratitude and joy. Thank you for reminding us of this truth.

[@williamclark1244]

Perfect and calming video to watch with a cup of morning tea.

[@Vivian88749]

Same same! ☕️👌🤗

[@Sharon-nq1ff]

I need to play this video over and over again. I am retired for 5 years now and have given away so many things, but I have days of anger for given away things I loved. Had to down size, but I guess I have blessed someone else with my stuff. This crazy world will make you feel boring if you are not interacting with social media. Thanks Connie for the positivity message. I will continue to follow your channel. (the scenery was beautiful).

[@helenamuniz5269]

What you gave may have left your Hands,But it hasn't left your Life...We came in this world with Nothing,and its certain we go with nothing...Stay Simple,and Happily Contented...Bless!🙏

[@patriciamoore51]

I too have given just about all I owned away. Even my homes. I am staying @ a friend’s home for a while. The only things I miss are the homes and furniture themselves. Home is in my heart. But honestly I can’t wait to have a home of my own again even if I rent it! 500 sq ft to myself & wittle dogs. Can’t wait

[@seanredmond8988]

I lost most things in this life - but then again i could not have brought those things with me on passing. Family, friends.... thats all you need. God bless you with all your endeavours.

[@mobydick5046]

If you not sure of the giving away then auction the excess staff and use the money to relocate to a quiet place or if you already have a quiet place then use the money to install off-grid systems.

[@mojowaxwork4242]

Thank you!!

[@dweingast]

Beautiful !

[@normaesparza9360]

So needed this today. 🙌 Thank you. Have a great weekend.

[@johnmcmullen6038]

Thank you Connie, Your commentary is well received. Enjoying every day in nature, and living simply is the key to health, and wellbeing.

[@user-cs6yd8dc8d]

The sound of the leaf's on the trees...the nature's color's...the season who changed...the song of the water stream...the smell of the wet forest floor...

[@ConnieRiet]

Awe! My favorite things!

[@christinamarti4441]

Very true thank you 😊

[@kimholt317]

This speaks to my heart. Thank you Connie.

[@quantumshepherd5532]

What a beautiful message. Thank you for sharing this Connie. I am also a brain-injury survivor. I love walking in the forest and taking photos of plants, communing with the Divine in nature, and celebrating the earth and animals. Blessings to you from North Vancouver, BC.

[@bruceshearer1719]

Perfect.....thank you

[@andrewlowe2962]

Thank you, I needed that.

[@robertashaffer3950]

What a beautiful video Connie. "Boring"? "Mundane"? LOLLL I laugh because your choice of words is intelligent indeed. In many (awakened) hearts watching this, the life you live is the life many dream of living. I just read something that has touched me. Allow me to share. " Your path is more difficult because your calling is higher. Make it happen. Shock everyone." For whatever we have gone through, are going through or will go through....we all have our personal calling. You dear Connie, are showing us what living our personal journey is all about; no matter what the outside influences want us to succumb to. I really appreciate this video very, very much. Especially with what I am experiencing in my own life; this video/your words, help me to understand even more. Thank you Connie 🙏💗

[@barbaramanickas6580]

Grateful today for being drawn to this channel.

[@ConnieRiet]

🙂

[@robertcullity1695]

Thank you, Connie.

[@chauanh7784]

Thanks!

[@sabinamock4799]

I choose "boring" as well. Thank you and warm wishes.

[@franklinstephen3268]

Hello 👋 how’re you doing?

[@heikesworld9320]

Thank you ❤

[@mercyshaver5264]

Thank you 😊

[@stephaniebrogdon4024]

This video touched my heart so much! Your gentle voice delivering such a meaningful message, and the glory of the autumn leaves were lovely and inspiring. I once watched a movie called "The Magic of Ordinary Days" and that title has often made me reflect on how magical, and blessed, our ordinary lives can be, if we choose to see it that way.

[@lanawolfe2572]

Recently I realized I'm enjoying my 6th decade...I'm in my early 50s. But SIX DECADES?! And parts were hectic and busy. Post covid my whole life has changed...no more 2 hour commute, no more on call duties, moved in with my mom and I feel GUILTY at times at how relaxed I can be. That is messed up! I yearn for this type of message so I can align with it to feel ok. I so get that feeling that I am not enough because of my family size or status or desire to be out of the entanglements of corporate work. Enough. Like another listener...I crave the simple and quiet. I love cross stitching and textile crafts, sewing and connecting with these like souls on "flosstube". For me, it's life and soul fulfilling.

[@addisonnipper6915]

Use

[@ridelikeawind3597]

Thank you for sharing

[@Keyfer62]

Thank you.

[@bcworth444]

Thank you for this, Connie. You absolutely nailed it. Nice to know there's a community of like-minded out there. Best wishes to you.

[@yvonnebirch6026]

I think you found the secret . It is in the simple joy of being. Living in harmony with your surroundings. That was a lovely video. Blessings 💕🌷

[@davefank]

Needed that today. Thank you

[@nickfitzgerald2205]

That was amazing. Thank you!

[@sonia15702]

I love this ! It's not even where you are , more deeping within

[@selmat9155]

Thank you . It is so calming . Greetings from Bosnia and Herzegovina 🌷🌷

[@antontan1142]

Totally agree Connie 🙏🏿

[@kusumsingh6262]

Wonderful...

[@charlien8230]

Your videos are hitting home for me. I am in the process of slowing down and trying to live in the present without feeling the need to be accomplishing something. Boring is good! Thank you.