“Why I Don’t Date South Sudanese Men”🇸🇸 TikToker Responds

[@aamanilom4307]

Thank you for having Nyanuer on, I love that you guys are platforming more Sudos in the diaspora. These conversations are so needed and your work is amazing!! S/o to Nyanuer for her perspectives and sparking dialogue among our people, keeping shining ❤

[@123paramorefan]

I just found this podcast and it’s lovely to find a space with first gens because I can relate so much!!! And everyone is so eloquently spoken it’s awesome

[@abinimokwa727]

I love this program and issues you are discussing and keep addressing these problems youth of SS has trouble with. That will bring change to our South Sudanese community in United States and a whole round the world. Thank you so much South Sudanese youth in Dallas!!

[@Maze89774]

Some Sudanese and South Sudanese men are not ambitious enough to do better and strive forward. We don't have any issues with assisting a man if they get out of the gutter they fall into, but the problem is if you are not willing to change, then there is no reason for anyone to be hanging around wasting their time and effort to help you. There is always help around if you are willing. You've probably heard the saying, "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink”.

[@rozaelionai2722]

Ladies of Sosa, great show I watch it time to time and I do agree with lady that made the TikTok video. Other than that keep up the great work with the show. ❤

[@bigtboxing6520]

Come everyone agreed with the video?

[@switzjon8405]

32:11 The problem is the ladies are excelling and saying to men we don't need you.

[@bigtboxing6520]

Come on , everyone agreeing with the video 😂

[@arnabiarnab3037]

The marriage question comes down to one thing…Money What 22 year old has $25K in the bank for a dowry, $20K for a wedding and $25K for a ring….. But if I have baby with you it’s free Or if I date outside i don’t have to worry about the familial pressure of uncles and aunties Also more women are divorcing their husbands or breaking up with their man because they feel they can do better since they have their “masters”…. And think they can upgrade No guy cares about degrees, I’ve never heard any guy I mess with applauds a woman’s masters and career…. We could care less

[@Achanloki]

Most married south Sudanese men are not paying 20k+ on a dowry in the USA.

[@arnabiarnab3037]

@@Achanloki Not most but the guys the majority of the women want does I know 3 that has in the past 5 years

[@sebrinahillary6894]

My husband is South Sudanese and he is everything that I ever wanted in a man.. so it’s all about who you attract and the environment you are in💯🇸🇸 American men are not all that great either just saying it doesn’t matter the nationality ..smh

[@switzjon8405]

36:22 That's the difference you ladies want to be married. ADOS woman doesn't need their men and don't care for marriage they claim.

[@Flourish_today]

I am not from South Sudan however, i am East Africa, and i live in Ontario. I noticed that a lot of Ssudanease men are into drugs and alcohol. You dont know how many times i have found yhrm loitering along the streets very intoxicated. When i first moved to Ontario in 2009, i used to see them playing cards in the park in big groups. Like, when do they work? The wome on the other hand are bust loking after their children and working.

[@PhilemonAyuba-ol9hj]

Omo these SSD girls are fine ohh

[@vlog7718]

I’d agree she is right, but majority of the youth down the path she is talking about are those born or brought to Canada while very young…youth with very little connection to South Sudanese culture. In the West, the next best thing that they can identify with is the black (Black American) culture, and trying as much as possible to not be associated with South Sudanese culture. The lack or little sense of identity ends up in lots of the troubles she is talking about. In contrast, those who relocate to Canada at 18 or university age are mostly pursuing careers and college education.

[@ertfgghhhh]

First of all, why blame African Americans if she is not even in the states. Second, there MOST DEFINITELY is crime and street life in each African country. Do not blame your cousins from the United States.

[@andrewpiol]

Ladies of Sosa, you guys fail or don't mention the real reason that makes young men fail in the Western countries. 95% of South Sudanese women divorced their own men. The young men listen to his father order better than mother. While mothers knows how to handle her daughter better than father. When westernized women kicked out their husbands, the results or consequences of that is really easy to predict. Boys are different from girls by nature. So you are discussing the good topic and both of you are making good points, but you are missing the main idea in the topic. Which is breaking down of families. And we all know women are the bosses in western countries. You guys are doing great show, but please invite some time a wise older people. Thank you.

[@Achanloki]

South Sudanese women are not divorcing their husbands. A lot of south Sudanese families that came to America have abandoned mothers because their father chose to abandon them in South Sudan and or the father simply wasn’t being a good dad. This resulted into the south Sudanese kids growing up in fatherless home. :( equally important, African women Don’t divorce much. We are shamed and are groomed to not do so.

[@a.m8218]

Where are you getting 95% from? That is a crazy statement with no statistically factual evidence.

[@malodol1234]

@@Achanlokiit does still happen though while a lot of the men in the community have been abusive or just like you said before the man has gone to marry another wife so alot of women our mothers ages in the west have divorced their husbands and usually face the shame from the community in doing so but a lot of them still go through with it these days

[@switzjon8405]

@@Achanloki Similar to the ADOS community.

[@bigtboxing6520]

She look for the wrong guys and then she complained, what a joke

[@bobbyben6134]

So true😂😂😂

[@زكيمحمد-ي2ذ]

Ohh south sudan spla

[@crubie3]

Because they are unattractive? Hahaha 😂😂😂